Punishing is crazy lol you hear what she has to say, if it makes sense to you and you can understand where’s she’s coming from and you value the connection then you let her know “ok I understand you I see where you’re coming from I’ll take that into consideration in the future and here’s my side of it….” If she’s understanding of your side as well cool. And then you let her know “your response to a misunderstanding isn’t something I’m willing to deal with in the future and if we have issues in the future you communicate that, and if you don’t I’m not going to continue seeing you.” If you don’t value the connection, see where she’s coming from or if she doesn’t see where you’re coming from then just cut it. It’s not worth it there’s always another one
Yo marv i got a question , not specificaly on this Topic Some years ago i got introduced to a girl and the 2 times we met through other people we had good coversation etc. Then i got into a longterm Relationship with another woman which was a great time So yesterday i met the first girl in the gym again and we talked and i asked her to work out together next week or something. When would you text her for the workout ? Thanks for the great work
Just tell her when ever ya feel like. Doesn't really matter that much if ya say it week in advance or few hours. Just give her a specific date and time when ya gonna be there and do not reschedule it to time's that suit her, if she starts trying to get ya to reschedule. But in case of an attempted reschedule ya just say something along lines "well this is the time I'll be here, next time is *this day* at *this hour*". You give her a choice to work around your schedule, if she wants to, but do not work around hers, just keep doing your thing and she either accepts it, or she doesn't.
Preciate you 🙏🏾… I mean personally I would set it up in person. It’s a casual thing so there’s no rush. When you see her again just set it up. I personally try to do as little texting as possible. But like the other commenter said just tell her when you’ll be there. If you guys were there at the same time the first time more than likely you have a similar gym schedule. I hope this helps.
As far as the timing it kind of depends on the vibe yall had if she seemed openly excited about it then I wouldn’t wait too long I would text her maybe Monday and tell her when you’ll be there this week. If she was whatever about it I would probably not even text her personally lmao but if I did text her in that case I would wait a little while so she doesn’t think you’re desperate cause if she’s not excited then she probably thinks you want her time more than she wants yours and that’s not a good position to be in.
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Yeah if she pulls away, let her go because fighting to get her back will make want you even less.
If she returns, now you’re in control
Bingo!
FACTS! There's plenty of fishes in the sea.
Exactly!
Let her pull back, and if she tries to come back, don't take her back 👉🚪.
If she pulls away, let her go. Too many women in this world for a guy to get hung up on just one.
Word. There’s always another one
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Preciate you bro 🙏🏾 I’ll definitely keep em coming. And big facts
Then what do you do when she comes back ? Do you act like nothing happened or do you punish her for pulling back ?
Punishing is crazy lol you hear what she has to say, if it makes sense to you and you can understand where’s she’s coming from and you value the connection then you let her know “ok I understand you I see where you’re coming from I’ll take that into consideration in the future and here’s my side of it….” If she’s understanding of your side as well cool. And then you let her know “your response to a misunderstanding isn’t something I’m willing to deal with in the future and if we have issues in the future you communicate that, and if you don’t I’m not going to continue seeing you.”
If you don’t value the connection, see where she’s coming from or if she doesn’t see where you’re coming from then just cut it. It’s not worth it there’s always another one
Yo marv i got a question , not specificaly on this Topic
Some years ago i got introduced to a girl and the 2 times we met through other people we had good coversation etc. Then i got into a longterm Relationship with another woman which was a great time
So yesterday i met the first girl in the gym again and we talked and i asked her to work out together next week or something. When would you text her for the workout ?
Thanks for the great work
Just tell her when ever ya feel like. Doesn't really matter that much if ya say it week in advance or few hours. Just give her a specific date and time when ya gonna be there and do not reschedule it to time's that suit her, if she starts trying to get ya to reschedule. But in case of an attempted reschedule ya just say something along lines "well this is the time I'll be here, next time is *this day* at *this hour*".
You give her a choice to work around your schedule, if she wants to, but do not work around hers, just keep doing your thing and she either accepts it, or she doesn't.
Preciate you 🙏🏾… I mean personally I would set it up in person. It’s a casual thing so there’s no rush. When you see her again just set it up. I personally try to do as little texting as possible. But like the other commenter said just tell her when you’ll be there. If you guys were there at the same time the first time more than likely you have a similar gym schedule.
I hope this helps.
The thing is she only goes once a week at any time .. i said i will write her she said perfect , i want to have a good timing
Give her the choice to work around my schedule and not the other way around is good advice
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As far as the timing it kind of depends on the vibe yall had if she seemed openly excited about it then I wouldn’t wait too long I would text her maybe Monday and tell her when you’ll be there this week. If she was whatever about it I would probably not even text her personally lmao but if I did text her in that case I would wait a little while so she doesn’t think you’re desperate cause if she’s not excited then she probably thinks you want her time more than she wants yours and that’s not a good position to be in.