How To Stay Positive When You Hate Your Job
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2019
- Do you dread everyday at work? Are you miserable because of the job you have that you hate so much? Hang in there, I've got 5 tips on how you can stay positive.
1. Make the best of it now
2. Find someone to serve
3. Value creation
4. Become an intrigued observer
5. Plan your exit
Watch and Enjoy!
Dr. Paul Jenkins
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Yes, I have a job, but it doesn't pay me enough to make end's meet. I'm looking for a new one right now, but I dread every single day I have to clock in to this minimum-wage nightmare.
FerrisWheelPro, Thank you for being at the channel. Please consider watching the video again and possibly another one entitled "How To Overcome Frustration At Work" ruclips.net/video/_-v3bbg7O8o/видео.html to help you remain positive while you search for another job.
Fast food was a nightmare for me ... wasteing my life away and only bringing home 300.00 checks 400.00 if I’m lucky
Another job that turned out to be a job that payed decent enough but turned into a HUGE nightmare and full of pain was being a CNA I’ll never go back that route EVER
I was fed up when I was fired for some bs. All because I like the same sex.
These jobs out here from what I gather don’t provide you with security and true happiness... I’m searching for stability right now. I’m at a call center job our pay was raised from 10.25 to 13.50 an hour ... after 6 months will be making $15.00
The only reason I’ll be staying is because the pay and that equals more stability.
I wish I could be doing something I don’t hate though.
Did u make it out ? If not set intention and make it a 2and job to to search for another job.
@@astephenlandrum6692 I worked as a CNA back when I was in my 20s, did not last long. First time I got close to this old man, and spent a lot of time with him, then he died... I could not go through that for a career.
I make 25 n hour, and hate every day.. Weekends suck because all I think about is having to go back to work on monday, and for the rest of my life
jarry Dee, you need to look into changing your job. I hope you can come up with a plan.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I am a journeyman electrician. I put half of my life into this trade.
@Jarry Dee I swear that's the story of my current worklife😂😂😂it's really sad. Im in the exit stage now as it's honestly depressing and impacting my personal life.
@@LovinMe60 I understand. I just went into business for myself this last month. Of course I don't have the many jobs that the company I worked for has, but I am now making in 5 hours, what I made all week working for someone else. I wish you the best, you have to do what feels right to you. I could never stay in something that makes me miserable everyday.
Wtf 🥲
I don't hate my job. I hate that I don't have full confidence with it. Im new, and I feel like a puppy in a dog park. Im grateful for my job and I'm grateful for my pay, but I worry ill do a bad job, and I have no fear of losing my job as a consequence of doing a bad job, I just hate the idea of doing a bad job or feeling like I'm behind while doing my job. If I could have full confidence and knowledge with my job, I wouldn't dread it, but I dread it because I know that when I go to work I have a potential of messing up, and if I did mess up, it would lower my confidence even more. I wasn't raised with being confident with my abilities.
Wolf Duvall, you also have the potential of doing much good at your job. You may want to consider working with a coach.
What do u do for a living? They wouldn’t hire u if they don’t believe u can do the job
I feel the same
Same here
This is my experience too. The thing I dislike most about my job is that I'm not yet confident in my ability to do it well and I need a lot of help. That's what causes me stress and distress.
It used to be TGIF but recently it's been TGIS (Thank God its SATURDAY) because I am off and free to enjoy LIFE!!! Sunday is just a dreadful reminder that Monday is right around the corner🤦🏾♀️. Such a sad state to be in. I'm definitely planning an exit.
LovinMe60, glad you have a plan.
Wow....you get 2 days off a week? I envy you!
Sameeeee
Sundays are so less enjoyable because of that!!
You got this @lovinme60 I hate my job too and feel the same way.
I remember when i was hired at a new company, and gave my job 2 weeks notice. Those 2 weeks were literally so good lol 😂
Julian Fan, I bet they were. Hope you landed somewhere you love.
Me too, my boss was so shocked. Worked for her for years, tried to transfer out but found out my boss had me blocked from leaving her.
She's so miserable right now, I've been asked to come back. Back away demon in the name of Jesus🙏
You are so lucky I’m sticking w the job to see how it gonna turn out
@@demetriae.508 how did she have you blocked?
@@queendom774, my boss and the Director had reached out to HR, had me blocked from working with anyone else in the facility. I applied for a position which I qualified for. Spoke with the hiring manager and he reached out to HR requesting me for the position and he was told "Demetria is blocked". Over the years I thought I wasn't doing my job correctly because when I applied for jobs over the years within the facility I wasn't chosen. Now I know why.
I really want to thank you for making this video. It has helped me feel much better about my situation. Currently I wake up every day feeling depressed, burnt out, and I often think about how nice it would be if the coronavirus could just kill me so I don't need to deal with all this anymore. Sorry to anyone that had people they know die from the disease but this is honestly how I'm feeling every day. Taking your advice, I will re-evaluate the value of my work and who I want to serve.
Jamie Wang, You got this, you can turn this around and find something that gives you joy.
I hope things get better for you ♥️
Jamie Wang I feel the exact same way. You are not alone!!! Hang in there.
@risingStar Thank you for asking. To give you some context, 8 months ago I was forced into doing multiple people's workload because we had to lay off some people during coronavirus. At the same time, I had the stress of trying to keep the company afloat so the people remaining wouldn't have to lose their jobs as well. So honestly it wasn't that I didn't like my job, it was just that I had to do a lot of other stuff besides my original tasks. I was working about 14 hours a day on average, 7 days a week. Mentally, I was reactive at work and that also affected my marriage. Now, I still have about the same amount of workload but I have decided to put my mental health and physical health first. I've made several changes to my day including prioritizing time to exercise, build in breaks throughout the day, and just go home and call it a day after a certain time. I had to basically accept the fact that I am only a human being that have limitations and that I can't get everything done perfectly and it's okay. I feel much better about myself, the people around me, and life now. There are still struggles but I just tell myself if you've done your best already, then it's fine.
Sorry for the long update.
@@jamiewang7818 see I wish I could get breaks I don’t work long hours like you but I work over 9 hours with 1 hour lunch break and honestly it’s not enough we don’t get no breaks outside of that and just yesterday when I tried to get a break I was barked at and I have back problems I need breaks just like you I’m always brunt out at the end of the day I hope you find a better job
I’m literally crying my eyes out while watching this. Thank you soooo much!!!!! I really believe I’m going to stop feeling miserable at my job!
Angie Arias, I think you can do it.
Sameeee I’m quitting this month
I hope it all went well.
Blah blah blah... PLAN YOUR EXIT!!!! Now we’re talking!! Just kiddin, good advice.
It is always an option, Nicolo Marchillo.
With the Coronavirus there is no exit right now but unemployment... I’ll stick with my call center job
Tip number one may have just saved my my mental for the next 6 months.
I am glad the video is helpful to you, Catreana-Katrina.
Being micromanaged is being micromanaged... can’t create value when you are being told what you need to do almost every minute
stacey stephens, what are your plans to get out of your current position and find something you enjoy?
Live On Purpose TV - I had a professional resume writer update my resume because I didn’t have much time to make it “trendy”, I started to apply for positions where I could see myself being an asset; however, I want to be picky. I am an INFJ and I know I must work for the right kind of management team/person. If it isn’t the right type of person, I can allow myself burnout & exhaustion because of my all in personality trait.
@@staceystephens4754 I understand the INFJ perspective and am friends with some. Do you feel misunderstood sometimes? Is there a client/customer you can focus on being your boss from a different perspective instead and think of your real boss as secondary?
@@holamissmusica I will find the right company - life is too short to waste it away working 90000+ for some jackass you hate 🤷♀️
Thats my biggest problem, i just cannot stand it.
I'm positive in my job but there's negative co workers around me that's so stressful
Calino Salas, that is frustrating. We can't change them, only ourselves. Hang in there.
My situation is the opposite, bunch of folks drunk off the koolaid
Im working at the post office miserable everyday thank you for this video
You are welcome, tomboy dee.
The exit plan is the best part, I plan on staying at my job for one year. I love how each month roles by saying 7 months to go, 6 months to go, ect. I still have 8 months left but its moving :)
S PR, that is a great way to understanding this too shall pass.
That’s the mindset I’m in. Got 4 months to go and prepping in the background. Every time I get stressed or get blamed for things out of my control, I keep thinking this won’t be forever. I’ll get out
Did your time go quicker when you counted the days down? Mine seems to be going slower
I have a job that has COMPLETELY changed in just the course of a year! A boss I loved was fired, they put someone in her place with no experience in my field, upper management doesn't care, and I don't feel like I have a voice anymore or that my concerns even matter to them. It got so bad last year that I was on medication for anxiety and depression, just to be able to get through the day there. I'm trying hard to focus on the things I do like (close to home, pay is good, fairly easy job) but there are days when I don't want to be there. I will eventually have a retirement if I stick it out for a few more years, but when you are unhappy in a job, a few years feels like a million years!
That can be hard even for a few years. You might want to try somewhere else where you will be happy.
This video changed my life, I left a job of 8 years that I hated , I was so negative because of that job , now my life is a lot better
Glad to hear it. 2024 is your year to really develop positivity.
Everyone says "If you don't like it then leave!" That's why these videos are all the same. I'm 46 and I cold call for a living. Unlike the usual 20 something year old who does this sort of job, I'm good at it because I've been doing it my entire 'career'. Hence, I make a lot more $ than those who are in my position. And, my expenses require that I make this kind of $, so starting over at another career isn't an option. It's like a prison sentence. I hate sales and I really don't like people very much. Cold calling will help anyone hone their dislike of people. This is my fault though, I'm the one who let time get away from me. Any young person who's reading this - don't let this happen to you. Don't settle for a job you hate. You will wake up and you're in your 40's and it's just too late to switch. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
EJL, sounds like you are not in the best place. Please look around and do some searching for what might be a better fit. It could be that there is something out there.
I cold call too...I'm doing fundraising for organizations that goes against everything I believe in so I have to be a great actress everyday...I hate it so much that I have anxiety attacks at bedtime. I'm 45. I want to work for myself but I need an income..
Man you got my attention when you said if you quite your job think of the consequences behind that. Thank you for motivating me
Glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching, ANONYMOUS SOCIETY
Uh yeah I’ll be homeless
My car won’t be fixed
I’ll be on foot... and no food in my belly....
I’ll stick with my call center job
I’m 21 working at Amazon, I’ve been debating about starting my own car detail business and now I actually will start one
Da Don, that is great!
I listened to so many videos on how to deal with hating my job and I have to say this actually helped!
Melissa DaCosta, that is wonderful. I wish you the best.
Planning the exit is amazing. I’m planning on leaving my job in 9 months and Moving out of state, and it’s making time go by sooo fast 😂👏🏼🤷🏼♂️
Logan L, good luck with your plans.
I start a new job tomorrow and also have plans to leave and start a biz after I stack up. The fact I have work at this job is killing my spirit but I have to do it so I can stop doing it.
@@Imasaydatshit That is what I went through. I had to have money to fall back on. I saved, did some side jobs, and now I just started my own biz
Same I’m moving very soon so that’s a good ass excuse to put in my 2 weeks notice so they won’t ask a ton of questions
Op has the most cursed pFP I've ever seen. I need to go bleach my eyes.
I had the perfect job, felt fulfilled, that I found my life's purpose. Then new management took over, and my health deteriorated, and now I feel like I've outlived my purpose and usefulness.
Jack Reacher, it might be the end of that job, but there is something more out there.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I really want to believe you.
I work at a hotel that I've tried to apply to three times in the past, but they only hired me as a dishwasher. I'm casual so I only work 2 days a week minimum, but I didn't know the scheduled hours ranged from around 4pm-2am. I thought it would be a day job for a few hours while I went to college, but now I dread every day and dread the day the schedule comes out. I can transfer to a different department on February 20, so I'm just counting down the hours. Its so hard now more than ever to not quit, but I've learned a lot as a person. I learned that money is not everything if you dread your life every single day, even if you're not working. I learned to ask about scheduling from now on when I'm in an interview. I can't wait to leave... I can't wait to find something I really love doing instead of settling for the "safest option"
Schmoke Weed, thank you for watching and commenting. I'm glad you were able to learn some things with your experience. Keep looking for the good things and you will find them. We have a Positive Personal Development playlist if you wish to work on positivity in other areas of your life: ruclips.net/p/PLq2mRDkHEBPCYtqYUCuzsyYpAlzKZDVVV. Best wishes on transferring to a different department.
I must have been perfectly primed to receive this today; how did one video give me so much hope and encouragement?? I think I resonated most with the 'this is the very best place for you to be, at this time,' and the exit plan advice. Thank you for this!
I’m 14, I work in a restaurant. I cannot say that I don’t like it but it is such a drag sometimes because there will be my boss calling me at times telling me to come in when I’m either busy or have had a hell of a shit day at school. A job is a job though, and I’m willing to do it despite those setbacks
You are learning some great lessons at an early age that will help you throughout your adult life.
I have been in a very dark place for a long time now pertaining to my current employment, I would like to thank you profusely for this video and for you tactics and perspective changing abilities !!!!!!!!!!
I wish you well.
That is great advice. Thankyou. I work in a toxic environment with staff morale very low. Tip 4. Be an observer and take yourself out of the situation. This is great. Thankyou.
Thanks for sharing! Glad it is helpful.
God this is terrible. Correct me if I’m out of line. But I came here to find a way to feel better and get through my job. He said if you don’t like it then leave oh but if you think of the consequences you’ll stay. Great, so I stay in this prison of a job and I have to be grateful because it allows me to live but this isn’t living. “Just get another job” in my situation I have to wait until may or else there are serious ramifications. We don’t have a choice to work, and working is tearing my soul apart
Work your way into another job that suits you better.
Thank you thank you thank you!! I often tell people following my passion also takes me doing things I HATE . Anything I enjoyed took massive work and mental change. I had to change how I looked at everything and the complaints. Thank you for the mature and realistic video you uploaded.
My pleasure, Sandra.
Working on my exit plan, my job is making me sick, I started to suffer from anxiety, I have insomnia, I work 10 to 12 hours, I have zero social life, no time for me me and my children...If I stay there I will die young. I lost all the joy of living, I have to work because I have 2 daughters and bills to pay.
I hope you find a place where you can work and feed your soul.
Keep going ik your reading this and have to go to work tomorrow I do too everyone does I don't like my job but I'm going in tomorrow and I get to go home at the end of the day and at the end of the month we get payed , better times will come
Yes, better times will come, Rhys Davies. I hope you are aware that you have some control in those better times. Please consider watching this newer video on a similar subject: "How To Stay Positive At Work" - ruclips.net/video/X9jb5bOyilk/видео.html. We have much more for you on our Positive Personal Development playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLq2mRDkHEBPCYtqYUCuzsyYpAlzKZDVVV. Thank you for watching.
I’d be happier being off the phones 📞 and helping people solve the issues with out customers in my ear all 10 hours of the day 💀💀💀 people are rude demanding and exhausting
@@astephenlandrum6692 yes I agree i have co workers like that
Thanks so much for this video. I enjoy serving customers but not when it cones to counting money & checking the stocks WHILE managing customers. I feel immense pressure to get things right as I’m new. When I get it wrong, I feel horrible.
I honestly felt helpless and as you mentioned about having an exit plan, I’m looking at other job opportunities. Life’s too short to CHOOSE to stay miserable. Thank you for empowering me. Keep making videos!
You are so welcome!
I love your delivery of the message. It made me smile and helped with my perspective while driving in to work today. Thank you!
You are welcome, I hope you have a wonderful day and can spread positivity to someone else.
What I personally do is ready my phone. I install games, videos and memes so that I have something to look forward to during my breaks. It's easier to wait 2-3 hours for a break than the whole 8 hour shift.
It doesn't make the job any less tedious, but at least now my breaks are fun and relaxing instead of me just awkwardly sitting it out and waiting to get back to work. Packing a nice lunch helps as well.
Glad you are using your breaks to escape for a bit and not merely to countdown the time till your shift starts again.
My work place won't allow us to use phones on our break unless we leave the facility. It makes me so tempted to go hoe for my break by I only have 30 min breaks and whenever I go home I never get back in time that I won't be late. I've been drawing or doing extra work, the extra work all day strategy makes my legs hurt tbh but it's more fun than drawing
My current job makes me consider suicide daily. I’ve got to turn it around or get out. It’s just been a firestorm since covid and health issues. I am the main breadwinner and I’m just exhausted. Please pray I can have the strength to get out and find something new
Enlist your partners help in finding another solution to getting a new job. That should take some pressure off if there is another person looking.
This is the first time a RUclips video was actually interesting when it comes to this subject. I will take your advice thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
Me planning my exit as the daughter of a businessman and started a business of her own from scratch with a net worth almost beating dads? Monetizing my baking and chicken farming hobby 😌😌😌
Joanna Julep, that is awesome! Good luck.
This Video is my life-saver currently!
I'm so glad to hear it, Horst Keks! Thanks for watching. I hope you can find more enjoyable videos at Live On Purpose TV.
Exactly what I needed to see today! Thank you!
So glad!
Thank you for this! Much needed. I’ll probably listen to it every day until I’m out.
Come back whenever you need a refresher.
Plan your exit all the way! That's something I like.
Amelia PC, it helps all the days until then.
Wow this is so helpful! It may be tiring at times but I have all the reasons to be grateful. Thank you.
Honored to be on your team.
Genius 👌 Thanks as usual, dear Dr. Paul!
Thank you, Good Wife.
I think the most important thing to ask yourself before anything is "Do I really want to like this job?". Many times we search for answers, only to show resistance when we meet them. The reality is that if you're in a job that you don't like, it's no one else's fault but your own. No matter how much you are in denial, it's the facts. Focus on building the right skills & connections and as the video says, plan your exit. Whether you're miserable or loving your job, they're the same 8 - 12 hours
Well said, Carlos Torres. Thank you.
It’s not your “fault” if you have no other options. How about having a 190k student loan for a profession and realizing 10 years in that you are 100% unsuited to the work and hate doing it, but nobody will hire you much less *interview* you because your 10 year history is niche. It’s not always your fault. Sometimes (and I’m in this situation) it is my ONLY option. Therefore I have and had no *choice* but to accept doing it. Not going to explain the last 14 years or why nothing else is a (viable) option for a (viable) life. Don’t have to explain. It is what it is. And it’s not my “fault” for not “simply” moving on. Some of us just have to *endure* indefinitely. Find someone to serve? My entire career is serving. I’m sick of serving. Nobody serves me. My entire existence is making other peoples lives easier. I sincerely don’t care if I’m offering value to others because nobody offers value to me. I just have to give and give. And I’m supposed to feel *gratitude* for *getting* to *serve*? No thank you. It’s not always our fault. Sometimes it just IS.
Dr Paul, your videos change my life.
Thank you for using the suggestions in the videos, Luis & Mariela Gonzalez - Santiago.
Wow. This completely spoke to me and made me cry. Thank you so much.
You are so welcome
This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you so much for posting
You are so welcome!
I think the very hardest part about my job as a nurse is the patients that are mean/rude. Most are not but the ones who are make it so difficult to serve them as you say… it makes me question why I’m even there to help them. I know that they have a lot going on mentally/emotionally/physically, it’s my job to know that, but still. Makes it hard to stay positive sometimes so I’ll focus on your other points to stay positive lol
Heather Far, thank you for being there for some of the toughest times in other people's lives. I appreciate you.
This video changed my life and I’m not even kidding. Thank you for helping me change my life.
You got it.
Thank you man, I was going to quit my miserable job but my family needs the money. And I have a plan to take in 6 months, I'll make it out
True Scary Stories, you can do this. Use your discontent to make something better.
Thank you! This video deserves more videos than it does.
You're welcome! Share away with anyone you think could benefit.
This is such a good video. I’ve come back to listen to it time and time again 👍🏼
Glad that you come back for a refresher. Love this platform. Please share with others.
I love what I do, but the stress levels are unreal and I'm ready to move on to bigger better things! I'm stuck because of a mortgage situation for at least 4 or 5 more months.
Lisa Warren, Stay focused on your goal and it will be by quickly. Hang in there.
Thank you for this video! I am currently teaching English in South Korea. Every day at this school has been miserable and I have only been here a month. All I want to do is leave, but I am meant to stay for a year as I have signed a contract. I am desperately trying to find ways to bear it and this video definitely has a lot of great advice. I really hope I can make it!
I wish you well.
The absolute BEST advice I have heard!
Rowan Britto, thanks.
A difficult title opens into Key Perspectives, I Love it. Great Value, thank you Live On Purpose Central.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wonderful advice and quite timely as usual.
Thank you, Angel Phister. Honored to be on your team.
I know I'm late, but thank you so much for creating this video. As of about seven seconds ago, you have a new subscriber.
Thanks for subbing! Gerald Benson, welcome to the Live On Purpose Community.
I've done and currently do 4 and 5. I call 5 my burndown. I create a spreadsheet with each day as a row and mark it off. It's awesome
B, thank you for sharing what has worked for you.
fml... "Plan your exit" is how I've been living my life. I usually love where I apply for work. Soon as SHTF I just quit. lol
Benito Samia, good luck on your next venture.
I've grateful I have a job and grateful for my paycheck but that only goes so far. I'm 63 yo and am finding it challenging finding another job. I know I'll be working for at least another 5 years but I worry employers look at me and think 'she won't be here long'.
Don't worry about it, just apply. You don't know until you try. The right employer will want to utilize your experience and wisdom. Employers are having trouble finding good people so you may be a perfect fit.
@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you for this. It gives me hope 🙏
This is the best advice that I have ever seen. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
I just found your channel and subbed. I love how you take the time to engage with your audience and realise people are taking the time out to watch your content and reply to your videos and in turn you do the same.
I’ve got a job that is killing me but your advice about planning an exit really resonates. I only started in April last year so want to stick it out for 12 months but I know it’s not for me and I don’t seem to get on with my co-workers no matter how nice and helpful I try to be. I think they see it as weakness and use it against me. I’m going to start preparing to move departments after a year and see if I’m a better fit for another team.
I wish you the best. You got this.
THIS IS BRILLIANT THANK YOU
Your friendly neighbourhood nobody, honored to be on your team.
Blessings my man..am gonna sleep in peace..planning my exit❤❤❤❤❤
Wonderful. It makes life so much easier when we have a plan.
Thx for your advice. Some very good points.
Glad it was helpful!
Awesome tips! As I sit here on a Sunday night worrying about what tomorrow may bring :(
Blaze Reptiles, honored to be on your team.
Yup that Sunday night dread!!!!
Thanx for the five helpful tips that really i needed it.
Glad you enjoyed the video, Rabia Kamal. Thank you for being at the channel.
I've found I've already been implementing these tricks for a while and only now realize I may have to plan an exit. Thank you
You can do it! Michael McCarthy, I wish you well.
Dont like your job then leave... i love that tip
LIL D BEATS, thanks for watching.
"make the best of it now" 👍🏼🤔
Thanks for commenting, Wendy Watson.
Wow... This is really... Mind opening 😮😮😮
Thank you.
Love it... Especially the last part... Plan your EXIT! :-D
Julii Reed, yes, we can change our journey.
I love this bro thank you
You are welcome.
Why havent i found more people like u...i neeed videos like this since i could think for myself
maria guzman, thank you for watching and there are more videos coming.
Check Zig Ziglar. He has a similar video about attitude.
I work for a company that I hate cause my employer is unprofessional and I hate it soo bad I’m glad I’m working but I don’t wanna go daily
lindsey Labulis, I hope you can find something else very soon.
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This video worths every second of my life.
Wonderful, Jazmin.
I hate my job so much I dream about it and can smell it 🤮🤮🤮 I hate it
Thank you for watching, Stanley Lopez. I hope you were able to find something useful in the video.
Me too, i work at factory, and when i get home holy shit i start think about everything i'm doing on my job and it stress me so much. i just want to get home and enjoy my free time, but shit when i want to get some sleep, i have a battle with my minds about work and everything what's going on there.
This was super helpful, thank you!
You're so welcome!
Omg thank you, this is exactly what I wanted
Perfect. I love it when things arrive when we need them.
Thank you for making me swallow my pride.
Happy to help.
One of the funniest videos I have seen for a long time, great satire, thanks. And so deadpan.
Ritchie Thomson, thank you.
Wow this guy is actually pretty good, spot on advice thanks mate
Honored to be on your team.
You are so wonderful. You help me get through so much. You are an inspiration and so positive. Thank you for all that you do! ♥️🙏🏽
Thank you for your kind words, Rochelle Pina. Honored to be on your team!
Thanks man🤙🏼Appreciate the kind words
Honored to be on your team, Ajae Flint!
I just got out of a meeting and we spent 20 minutes on saying we should work harder on the next quarter and I will never forget what was told in prior meetings that when you reach your goals in a work environment, you get more goals....bleh....THANK YOU SO MUCH! For these five tips, this really helped change my perspective and #5! Is the winner tip if anything should be one through five in my opinion, lol
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Good advice.
Glad it was helpful!
Love this!!
Thank you for watching, Michele Missai.
I really love this video
gossipgirl2669, honored to have you at Live On Purpose TV.
Thank youuu for step 5 👏🏾
My pleasure.
Loved my job at UPS as package handler untill I was promoted to supervisor. Looking for ways to cope untill I find my next step either within the company or externally.
I'm not sure what new lense to take on to deal. 👓😎🧐
I knew I needed to leave but I haven't started to making steps to do that yet.
Planning my exit seems to give me something to hold and look forward to. Thank you for your advice.
"My planned exit" is to finish off my degree asap and move on.
I'll set a date and practical steps to get there.
Samantha Parker, Glad you are being intentional about this next step. Good things are waiting.
Thank you for a job, Help me find how to make the best of a job, find someone to serve, find created value, be an intrigued observer and Help me find an exit. Thank you for all your help
You are welcome, PRodriguez. It's an honor to be on your team - thanks for watching and taking the suggestions.
This was so good, thanks
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you for this 💛
You're so welcome! Thanks for watching.
1- make the best out of it
You can leave, if you choose not to leave based on any reason ( most of the times consequnces that it has) then make best out of it. Remmber you can leave whenever you want!
2- find someone to serve
It will make you feel better about what you are doing and reduce the difficulities you have with your job
3-value creation
You should know the value of your job and how it can be important. If you are a valiuable person the go ahead and share your value, make that fucking school somewhere better...
Don't waste your time and theirs do add some value to this fucking world.
4- be an intrigued observer
Look from outside to the situation you are.
It helps to take it not personally and being able to find solutions for problems
5- Plan your exist
You are not traped in this, there are a lot of opertunities out there and you need to be open to them
You got this!
I'm going threw this now. I did update my resume, and I at least have an interview coming, definitely feels good. I called out today "mental health day". It did help me refocus. I also dont get along with a coworker. My Magner is a " Fake toughguy" I appreciate the video I'm just gonna stay to myself do my job be and strong. Hopefully I can find something soon, and move on in my career and Life!
LEX, you got this.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Got an interview this week. Updated my LinkedIn profile. Applied for some other jobs. I've talked to some other companies. Thanks man I appreciate it.
Thank you for the advice
You bet!
Awesome!
Glad it resonated, patiently waiting.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I find a lot of what is said resonates! I need to be keen on instruction and follow procedures! I had adhd as a child and now I deal with a 4 year old which I'm reluctant to say may have the same issue! I'm the only parent of my son due to my fiancee having passed away and am always looking towards positive influence and reinforcement! I feel it's needed in today's generation! God bless you guys!!
Thank you so much
Aqeela Person, you are welcome.
Thanks...
Cam Code, you are welcome, thanks for tuning in.
Thanks
Reschko, Our pleasure.