Likeeeee do you get????!!! I couldn't express how I felt after watching this!! May God help aspiring teenagers like me to continue to discover purpose because it's KEY!
This lady is so classic. I enjoyed watching her speak, her mannerism and all and most importantly, I enjoyed this session. Beautiful session Mama Solutions.
@@Brown6031 do you my dear sister, the Bible says let the light of God so shine in you so that the world can see him( God) through you, so if putting on you makeup make u shine for the Lord and u are comfortable with it why not girl go for it. For me it's all about your personal conviction. Love you sis💕💕💕
so true lovely, I like to do me and not someone else. Sometimes I do the makeup and sometimes I don't as I want others to see my real feature especially being a single lady.
See, I now know am very normal. I go to church, but I don't like to squeeze myself in positions in church. Am comfortable with being a faithful child of God. Its OK.
Mrs. Toju is wise. The question on keeping husband/pastor in check is based on relating to him as a "friend". That's exactly what she said and I applaud her for that (she's so meek and honest). Thank you Solutions mama for this one.
Loved this! Can't believe I took this long to watch! She's such an eloquent speaker... speaking too much sense 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿 God bless you both for this. 🙏🏿
What she said about changing your environment so as to be placed strategically is very true In my service year, during camp, so many guys asked me out, it was even baffling to me then in my PPA it was just few people but like the temptation multiplied and I won’t lie I strayed But during this time was when I met the person I’m dating now, we didn’t even used to talk much it was just because we went to the same school, first two months of my service year I had a “boyfriend” then I jumped to another one then during the pandemic I just wanted infact needed to be single, there was just this inkling in my spirit telling me to let go of purposeless relationships that what if a purposeful one comes your way by the way my boyfriend of now and I weren’t talking so much just regular hi so on my sis birthday I ended the relationship, I even felt really bad, I couldn’t eat that day because I felt like I broke someone’s heart but I know that if I continue it would be worse after that there was this other guy always chatting me up and all and I was beginning to feel something but I didn’t want to enter into it yet because I’m not sure if that’s what I should really do but I decided to just chat Samson (my now boyfriend and by the grace of God my soon to be husband) and we just clicked, we had so many similarities, we were open to each other, we weren’t judgemental, we went with the flow and I was actually liking him and I had never felt this way in a long time, I was already declaring my love for him (in my mind) before he even told me he liked me And anytime I remember how we met and everything, I just thank God because He didn’t treat me according to my sins, I never knew I would meet someone like this and we always thank God for each other every chance we get
Hi Tolu, I have recently just started watching your videos. Please can you start having live sessions possibly on zoom. We'll really appreciate this. This will give room for live interaction. You are a blessing indeed. God bless you dear
Wow, Solutions mama will never stop blowing my mind with her videos. Our guest is really amazing, loved the fact that she was 100 with us,God bless you ma'am
This is so beautiful. My husband of 10yrs is not a pastor yet ,but I sense it in my spirit he will be someday. I hate the mama papa thing though....but the world needs real true God followers 🙏
Although I enjoyed this video I'm glad I'm not married to a pastor. Yes, I'm a Christian (before you bite my head off. Haha), however, I don't know if I have what it takes to be a pastor's wife; the sacrifice and all! Kudos to every pastor wife out there whos standing as a pillar behind her man. You ladies are the real MVPs 👍
Yhay💃💃... Notification geng✌️✌️.... Really happy to see your lovely face again.....May God continue to shine his glory in you... Love you plentyyy 😍😍😍😍mam
Mrs Tojuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu...! Oh my God 🤭🤭🤭 I'm not blushing o. Thank you so much solutions for bring her on today... I was immensely blessed. Looking forward to the program 💞 This matching knot-less braids game tho🔥🔥🔥🤭
This video just came at the right moment when I had some doubts on God's word for my marital destiny. Thank you so much for this kind words of encouragement. God bless you! Loadssss of love! 🙌🙏💕
People plan not to cheat but do not plan how not to cheat. That's my takeaway lesson from the discussion. Not wanting to cheat is not enough, you have to be very intentional about it. Thanks Mama Solutions. Your guest was amazing.
I love love love this, I have and will always say being in a position of spiritual authority should and never will be by physical factors. The fact that you are married to a pastor doesn't automatically make you a Pastor as there is no biblical template for this.
married for 7 years and you look just so stunning.....team solutions, you really choose the best for us and the content too so enriching. keep glowing while setting the pace for other young women out there. GODLY BLISSFUL MARRIAGE IS POSSIBLE
Very interesting discussion I enjoyed her perspective. Tolu you were a a wonderful host. I picked several points that apply to 'normal' marriages. Thank you ladies
Solo much wisdom embedded in two beautiful vessels of God. Thanks @tolulope solutions for this amazing collaboration. I'm a Pastors wife and I'll love to partake in the program you spoke about . How do I go about it?
Amazing and very real conversations. So, everything balls down to having all manner of healthy communication with your fiance and spouse. No gaps! Nice one Solutions
Please Tolu help me pray to God to give me strength to heal from a terrible breakup. I've blocked him he has blocked me but I still can't stop myself from crying and feeling bad even though he says it's because it's for the best . All I need right now is God strength to heal from this breakup I'm crying as I type this message but I need God's strength honestly.
Trust you are doing great now. Everything is all in your mind. Once you tell yourself you're good without him, then you are. When thoughts of him creep in. Distract yourself with songs or worship. Be intentional about it. Wish you love and light
I was really blessed honestly. The part Mrs Toju said “Men think work first before women” really answered a lot of thoughts and questions in my head. More grace to both of you
Hi Solutions, Thank you for this video, it is amazing ❤️ I have a video request and I really hope you see this. I need you to make a video on abstainance from any form of sexual act in the dating stage and what your experience was with PG in this regard. Thank you soooooo much in advance!🤗
I see two confident young women who have discovered their purpose and are living it. Kudos to Tolu and her guest today. Great women, indeed.
Likeeeee do you get????!!! I couldn't express how I felt after watching this!! May God help aspiring teenagers like me to continue to discover purpose because it's KEY!
This lady is so classic. I enjoyed watching her speak, her mannerism and all and most importantly, I enjoyed this session. Beautiful session Mama Solutions.
All the pastor's wife's or wife's to be grader here for a group picture, more grace ma'am you are bless, I learn and I took notes as well.
Love statement. Should they put on their Fascinator and lip gloss?
@@Brown6031 🤣😂💜💚💚
@@Brown6031 do you my dear sister, the Bible says let the light of God so shine in you so that the world can see him( God) through you, so if putting on you makeup make u shine for the Lord and u are comfortable with it why not girl go for it. For me it's all about your personal conviction. Love you sis💕💕💕
so true lovely, I like to do me and not someone else. Sometimes I do the makeup and sometimes I don't as I want others to see my real feature especially being a single lady.
Kenya 🇰🇪 gang ! This guest is spice, so much wisdom and a calm spirit, please invite her back for more topics Tolu
See them as souls not just as people. Know the language of this generation. So much gem she dropped
Madam faith I spot you
See, I now know am very normal. I go to church, but I don't like to squeeze myself in positions in church. Am comfortable with being a faithful child of God. Its OK.
You both are full of wisdom. Even as a woman who is not a Pastor's wife or prospective, I learnt a whole lot. More Grace❤❤
This should be our first guest aside family o. Mrs Toju, welcome ma. I love your name
Mrs. Toju is wise. The question on keeping husband/pastor in check is based on relating to him as a "friend". That's exactly what she said and I applaud her for that (she's so meek and honest). Thank you Solutions mama for this one.
🤗😘 Love you two. More grace.
Loved this! Can't believe I took this long to watch!
She's such an eloquent speaker... speaking too much sense 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
God bless you both for this. 🙏🏿
I think this is the first time we have a guest on the channel that isn't family
🤗 Happy to see it.
What she said about changing your environment so as to be placed strategically is very true
In my service year, during camp, so many guys asked me out, it was even baffling to me then in my PPA it was just few people but like the temptation multiplied and I won’t lie I strayed
But during this time was when I met the person I’m dating now, we didn’t even used to talk much it was just because we went to the same school, first two months of my service year I had a “boyfriend” then I jumped to another one then during the pandemic I just wanted infact needed to be single, there was just this inkling in my spirit telling me to let go of purposeless relationships that what if a purposeful one comes your way by the way my boyfriend of now and I weren’t talking so much just regular hi so on my sis birthday I ended the relationship, I even felt really bad, I couldn’t eat that day because I felt like I broke someone’s heart but I know that if I continue it would be worse after that there was this other guy always chatting me up and all and I was beginning to feel something but I didn’t want to enter into it yet because I’m not sure if that’s what I should really do but I decided to just chat Samson (my now boyfriend and by the grace of God my soon to be husband) and we just clicked, we had so many similarities, we were open to each other, we weren’t judgemental, we went with the flow and I was actually liking him and I had never felt this way in a long time, I was already declaring my love for him (in my mind) before he even told me he liked me
And anytime I remember how we met and everything, I just thank God because He didn’t treat me according to my sins, I never knew I would meet someone like this and we always thank God for each other every chance we get
Hi Tolu, I have recently just started watching your videos. Please can you start having live sessions possibly on zoom. We'll really appreciate this. This will give room for live interaction.
You are a blessing indeed. God bless you dear
Wow, Solutions mama will never stop blowing my mind with her videos. Our guest is really amazing, loved the fact that she was 100 with us,God bless you ma'am
This is so beautiful. My husband of 10yrs is not a pastor yet ,but I sense it in my spirit he will be someday. I hate the mama papa thing though....but the world needs real true God followers 🙏
Why will someone give this amazing video a thumbs down I really find this video educational and helpful
Although I enjoyed this video I'm glad I'm not married to a pastor.
Yes, I'm a Christian (before you bite my head off. Haha), however, I don't know if I have what it takes to be a pastor's wife; the sacrifice and all!
Kudos to every pastor wife out there whos standing as a pillar behind her man. You ladies are the real MVPs 👍
@STANDOUT with Coach Sandra Just did!
Wisdom everywhere. I’m not a pastors wife but I’ve learnt so much from this. Thank you! ☺️
Mama solutions , indeed you're a woman full of solutions .
God bless you 🤩🤩💃
Excuse me ma, you're fine. Kilode?
Lemme watch and come back to comment
Mrs. Oluwatoyinbo is so soft spoken, wise and graceful 🥰
God please help me to meet and get married to a man beyond my dreams, amen🙏
Amen!!!
Me too
Amen....
Amen
Me too🙏🏾
Amen!!🙏🏾
Amen
Yhay💃💃... Notification geng✌️✌️.... Really happy to see your lovely face again.....May God continue to shine his glory in you... Love you plentyyy 😍😍😍😍mam
Mamas,I'm so grateful for the blessings of you.
This video is actually a reminder of God's purpose and call.
Solutions Mama great perspective. Our guest is so graceful, keep inspiring us. Much love from this side.
Mrs Tojuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu...!
Oh my God 🤭🤭🤭
I'm not blushing o.
Thank you so much solutions for bring her on today... I was immensely blessed. Looking forward to the program 💞
This matching knot-less braids game tho🔥🔥🔥🤭
This video just came at the right moment when I had some doubts on God's word for my marital destiny. Thank you so much for this kind words of encouragement. God bless you! Loadssss of love! 🙌🙏💕
Beauty and brains...thank you for taking us to that topic of making plans not to fall into adultery, thank you Mrs Toju for sharing your experience.
People plan not to cheat but do not plan how not to cheat. That's my takeaway lesson from the discussion. Not wanting to cheat is not enough, you have to be very intentional about it. Thanks Mama Solutions. Your guest was amazing.
Wow! Women of wisdom! I learnt a new one today, man thinks about his work first before a woman. More grace to you both!
I love love love this, I have and will always say being in a position of spiritual authority should and never will be by physical factors. The fact that you are married to a pastor doesn't automatically make you a Pastor as there is no biblical template for this.
Kabaya🔥🔥🔥🔥
This video is full of wisdom🙌🙌
Thank you so much for this video....I pray for increased grace and strength for you both in Jesus name.
There's nothing like keeping up appearance 100%. Work within your budget per time
She’s such a beaut and wisdom filled woman.... super thanks for bringing her on
Of the increase of His kingdom,there shall be no end.God bless you ladies,I was blessed
Enjoyed every bit of this video, surprised that some pple still pressed dislike, it is well.. I celebrate you ma's..
Those are the haters, the competitors, and also those who are fed up with their own lives.
married for 7 years and you look just so stunning.....team solutions, you really choose the best for us and the content too so enriching. keep glowing while setting the pace for other young women out there. GODLY BLISSFUL MARRIAGE IS POSSIBLE
Very smart people 🔥, Mrs oluwatoyinbo was ready to answer any question back to back, love you both❤️
I enjoyed listening to her answers, so transparent and soft spoken!
👏👏👏👏 Thanks a million mamma Solution and our guest, I learnt something more grace and anointing to you.
Our guest is so beautiful.
Yesssss our firsttttttt collabo 💃💃😊🤗.... I learnt a lot from this video more of God's grace
Very interesting discussion I enjoyed her perspective. Tolu you were a a wonderful host. I picked several points that apply to 'normal' marriages. Thank you ladies
I am not a pastor's wife but I really enjoyed the conversation. Quiet educating and inspiring. Thanks tolu keep up the good work okay.
Toju is really a blessing to generations of pastors' wives
So glad to have watched this 💛 Thank you Solutions! 🌻
I'm commenting for the incoming pastors' wives🤗🤗😂💓
Sure
I enjoyed this video... she’s so soft spoken and open
❤️❤️❤️💛💛💛💜💜💜💜❤️❤️❤️. Welldone Women of Wisdom.More GRACE to keep blessing us🙏. You 2 are BLESSED beyond measure 💕
Tojuuuu🤩🤩... Such calmness and eloquence 🙌🙌✨
My favs 😍 Totally enjoyed watching this! 👏👏
Oh my! I love you both! Very honest conversation 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Wow
Very powerful discussion
Am a pastors wife and blessed by ur discussion...more grace@Tolu
Solo much wisdom embedded in two beautiful vessels of God. Thanks @tolulope solutions for this amazing collaboration. I'm a Pastors wife and I'll love to partake in the program you spoke about . How do I go about it?
Wisdom wisdom wisdom. This video is packed. So much to take away and act on. God bless you beautiful women
Wisdom squared. Thank you for yet another insightful one!
this was a really loaded video. Thank you both for sharing marriage nuggets
Thank you so much for this. Learnt a lot. Not a pastor's wife but learning is learning. Thank you.
This video speaks class and intelligence. Thank you tolulope solution and Pst Toju
As a pastor’s wife, I’m just here to hear what’s to be said. ..
LT..... Yaay, this video is so full of gems, thank you ma's.
Oh yeah....it was quite refreshing listening to you both. Thank you for been a blessing to this generation
Amazing and very real conversations. So, everything balls down to having all manner of healthy communication with your fiance and spouse. No gaps!
Nice one Solutions
People plan not to cheat but what's your strategy not to cheat... mmm.
Blessed by this piece
Man beyond my dream, choi. Yes, so into my own world and ministry
It's 7 years already!!!! Wow! Time does really fly! Whuuuuutttt! God is so good.
God bless you Mrs Oluwatoyinbo, that was a great insight you shared. May God continue to strengthen you. You are indeed grounded.
Not married to a pastor or even prospective but here to watch and learn. 🤗
Dupe dupe🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please Tolu help me pray to God to give me strength to heal from a terrible breakup. I've blocked him he has blocked me but I still can't stop myself from crying and feeling bad even though he says it's because it's for the best . All I need right now is God strength to heal from this breakup I'm crying as I type this message but I need God's strength honestly.
Trust you are doing great now. Everything is all in your mind. Once you tell yourself you're good without him, then you are. When thoughts of him creep in. Distract yourself with songs or worship. Be intentional about it. Wish you love and light
@@adeolageorge Thank you so much, I am glad and grateful you reached out. I am definitely going to be intentional about my healing process.
@@oluwaseunodunsi8142 you are welcome 🤗🤗🤗
Hey dear! God has got you. So strech your arms and receive the love that only him can give. Every other thing is jara.
❤
Solutions just be getting finer and finer
PG be enjoying 😂
I had to come back and rewatch!
Thank you big sisters for spewing wisdom!!
Your guest is quiet pretty ...Mrs Oluwatoyinbo. Lovely video...
This is so beautiful. Learnt a whole lot. She is such a lady. Thank you so much mama solutions. I will love to win a ticket to her class.
Mrs Toju is so eloquent, beautiful, and full of wisdom 😍. Thank you for bringing her up here Solutions ❤
Haven't really listened to her before 🤗
Thank you so much sis.
I'll download this video right away.
God bless you.
@@iyanujulianah7404 I'm glad you're here to watch it 🤗❤
You're welcome. ❤
Wow! Hope is not a strategy. How do you plan not to cheat. Great content ma’am, thank you God bless you
So full of Wisdom❣️❣️❣️, would love to have her over next time
As a pastor’s wife, God bless you guys for this…❤
Not even married but this is powerful 😭
I was really blessed honestly. The part Mrs Toju said “Men think work first before women” really answered a lot of thoughts and questions in my head. More grace to both of you
The kind of wisdom we need in these times. God bless you Mas
Funny enough, 90% of ladies that marry pastors don't see it coming. They may have even repelled it at some point in their life.
As innn😹
@STANDOUT with Coach Sandra sure will
Aww she was my teacher :)
Mrs toju you are so beautiful ❤️🥺
Hi Solutions,
Thank you for this video, it is amazing ❤️
I have a video request and I really hope you see this. I need you to make a video on abstainance from any form of sexual act in the dating stage and what your experience was with PG in this regard.
Thank you soooooo much in advance!🤗
Need this video too Mama Solutions!💕🤗
Definitely very refreshing to watch. So much wisdom in this video
Here I am, actively praying to not be a Pastor's wife
Wisdom, wisdom and wisdom!!!! Bless you mom’s 🙏👍🏻👌
Wow, this is so Inspiring and informative, I really learn alot
Thank you so much for sharing 🥰
This video really blessed me. I am not a pastor’s wife but I gained wisdom. Thank you so much for always blessing us with wonderful content❤️🙏🏽
So Tolulopesolutions left Nigeria for us since January 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
Thank you soo much for this mama’s 💛💛
I love the way she speaks calmly
Solutions mi, please I will appreciate your sponsorship for the ladies program 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️.God bless you ma'ms
Wow....two lovely women full of wisdom
Hmmmm, very insightful. Thank you mas. This was a great great watch
Tolu is just smart
I love the guest. God bless her life,her home and her ministry.
...and Tolu,God bless you
You both are epitome of wisdom! I'm blessed watching this. God bless you both🙏
This was really lovely to watch ....thank you for sharing ❤️❤️ more grace.
This awesome. Thank you for everything you dropped here
Spot on about living within your means and be "gainfully employed". God created us to be assets, not liabilities :)