Parking Tickets and Past Troubles
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- The plaintiff brings her son to court. She admits she was a drug addict when her son and his siblings were growing up, but wants to make amends. She’s suing for parking tickets and emotional distress. The defendant admits he got parking tickets in her name, but he was never registered as a co-owner of the car. He says his mother always put drugs ahead of her kids and his life has been changed forever, so he’s countersuing for emotional distress. #JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court
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The son wears his pain so visibly, no child deserves to go through that 😢😢
Fr it’s heart breaking
@Quentin Mallard some do some dont😔
@Quentin Mallard how’s he disrespecting his mother.parents/adults never want to hear the truth about their mistakes.smh “disrespecting”?
So sad I cried !
@Quentin Mallard I bet you never had a drug addicted parent. Totally different relationship.
I cried for the little boy inside of him still needing and searching for his momma.
I’m crying too. I hurt for him
That's so sad but you described it perfectly.
His pain is still very present
Same here... this was so heartbreaking to see.
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This young man isn’t Numb.
He’s hurt to the CORE.
Hell yeaa
Facts
Hurt
I feel his pain. It hurts so bad
I feel for him so much… reminds me of the relationship I have with my mother. She wasn’t a drug addict but also sacrificed me to her selfishness…. The only thing we can do is refuse to let this kind of thing effect our kids! I pray he will have the strength to cut her out of his life to protect his kids.
I ain’t never seen a defendant tell the judge to hold on and he actually do it 😭
My god put this young man in your hands and watch over him I just want to cry God bless him he so hurt
JM knows that his pain run so deeply
I'm from South Side Chicago and my Mother came from Alcoholic Family from Michigan so I do feel this Dude's pain 100%
Exactly, smh. He let dude go too far
He knew what it was he knew buddy needed to get that off!
The son's testimony brought me to tears. He is just showing his raw emotions. I really, really feel for him!!!!!!!!!!
The defendant is the first man, ever in my life, told the truth about looking for a mom in his girlfriends, most of them do. It’s a sad shame, but it’s true.
Nothing but the truth. This should be reposted
That's powerful cause women look for their daddy in their boyfriend not all though. What do kids look for when they don't know their daddy or mommy well?
Same thing I noticed. It made me think of my ex’s and have a little, just a little now, more understanding of maybe why they treated me a certain way. Men can be broken from childhood as well. Sad!
@@psychicladyg9415 yea it works both ways. It was just a first in hearing a man admit it… You know how it is.
@@deejai1173 Part of me wants to watch it again, but it is so intense. I was doing something else and hearing the tone of his voice made me watch. Kids really need help. I was thinking about working to help kids find permanent loving homes. Seeing this has given me more of a reason to choose to do so.
He’s hurt hurt. He’s said he’s numb, but his emotions shows something different. It’s to be expected.
Yes, I agree with you he's hurt. I wished Judge Mathis would have offered he and his mom counseling to help them both heal.
Comes across as dangerously angry to me.
@@leir2005 really?
@@leir2005 I disagree
@@lanasiakishana2863 not all folk will make a compassionate attempt to understand......we’ll just continue to pray for our brother.
I’m glad JM letting him get his anger out… I’m hurt for this young man
He needed to vent
Judge Mathis hate crackheads .that boy is outta control& JM should make him hush!
JM is wrong on this one
He need to calm tf down.
Judge knew he didn’t mean no harm. He could clearly see this man was hurting.
This is intense. He’s so aware of his issues regarding relationships. A lot of men can’t even admit that.
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nigga what?
Men have admitted that but no one takes men seriously at all.
@@Durktoomany Some of us do. Many of us are regularly advocating for men to be taken seriously and respected when it comes to them expressing their emotions in healthy ways. I would rather a man cry about being "damaged" than take that hurt and try to hit someone.
@@ambzcloud or just sit with it and be unhappy until death. Thank you for advocating and of course it’s not all but in general it’s your a man deal with it.
This should definitely be viewed in drug addiction support groups.
Can’t stop the crying,they will overcome this I’m praying for them both
Beyond crying…. This hit HOME! 😢😢😢
Me, too
I’m praying with you
@@danchris6823 meanwhile white people alway in other cultures business. Don’t y’all have something to do Dan?
Why you cry ?
This man is full of pain. He can't even express himself without it pouring out.
I felt it too...def dropped a tear...
Salute to JM. I don’t think I’ve ever seen him give someone this much rope with disrespect. However, he understood the pain and struggle this man has gone through. I hope the young man gets counseling because he has six kids to raise.
He could see this young man needed to vent and pour out the pain of growing up in that atmosphere of neglect.. big respect to judge Mathis for allowing him to do so and I'm glad he found in his favour for emotional distress as its very rarely he gives a judgement based on that..
The son is so hurt my heart goes out to him😪. I pray he gets the help he needs!
Yesss!!!! 👏🏿 👏🏿👏🏿 I truly CAN feel his pain. SO SAD 😞
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Hes just expressing himself the best he knows how. He doesnt mean any disrespect towards Judge ❤️
Yeah and I think JM knew that as well.
The fact that he said “I still love you momma” at the end like that shows that he still loves his mom even after the serious pain and trauma she’s caused 😔
He had no choice because he never had his Father
His bring tears to my eyes the is in so much pain. Hope he can get some therapy
He a good son
@@knightclassic1he said multiple times his father was the one caring for him & his sisters.
@@Justice4some he's disrespectful
I feel him when he says “I’m damaged by you! I’m damaged!”
Judge Mathis handled this case so well. Wow.
That's exactly how I feel from my mom.
JM was phenomenal 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
I like how judge mathis told him respectfully to be more respectful
He knows he’s hurting
@@SD-gf1qg yea that was hard to watch
@@SD-gf1qg yea Judge knew he had to vent some of that pain away...
@@NotUnique_ facts smh
@@mr.unbothered it made me just text my mother saying “I love you” because I’ve never had to deal with that even growing up in the hood. I’m from Newark, NJ where it’s rough but my mom made it priority to get us out of there and make a better way and I appreciate it and feel so sorry for others that went or is going through this. I teared up twice watching this cause I feel sorry for the people that are hurt and going through this is well. Sucks wishing that there was a way for myself to help bring them closer together when you can’t. Praying for everyone going through this 🙏🏼
It’s amazing how our parents were addicted to drugs, abandoned us. Then come back and think we are supposed to have a healthy relationship. She hasn’t considered the damage she’s caused this young man.
How do you know that? Obviously they considered more than that cause he stay needing her he's a deadbeat as well
That part
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It really seems like she's putting fourth an effort to better herself and gain some respect from her son. The young man could probably use some therapy as well.
@@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 I agree it's disappointing to see the judge handling in the manner he did. Judge Mathis lacks compassion, sometimes I can't stand him. Always insulting people calling the crackheads like he wasn't no damn jailbird hisself
This case just broke me down into tears for the defendant. He really needs counseling because he is so damage and broken by his mother. Shame on her
I'm in tears,this was a very hurtful case to watch
He is so real. I love how he was real and made this clear!!! He is real, and we are all so sorry for what you went through, young man. We are on your side!
This was intense...and that's an understatement.
Indeed
Had my heart rate up...
Very hard to watch
Soooooo INTENSE!!!
This was so intense, I couldn’t watch the whole thing. I’ll come back later
I pray he is covered with the Spirit of Healing!He is carrying so much trauma and pain and Thank the Most High he is attempting to heal. Love light and peace to you King!!
AMEN
I agree and he really loves his mother😔
Amen
AMEN
Amen
The son bless his heart he is so broken with his mother about her drug addiction, them drugs are powerful it doesn't care about nobody.
I know this is status quo, but cocaine is really a hell of a drug!!
@@elwin38 black people should avoid drugs like plaque , learn from asians , it hardly you see asian who drug addicted , they take drug problems seriously in asian countries you can get executed for drug dealing in asian country even if you forgein.
@@elwin38 so true i see this a lot.
@@sakurakou2009 I agree with you💯🙏
@@sakurakou2009 Added a few links out of many to show the Asian fight against drugs across the continent. Also, I live abroad and I often travel through parts of that continent and their struggles are no different than ours, really. Across the ocean in different countries people fight, do drugs, have babies out of wedlock, and etc etc. While living overseas the people I meet are always curious about America and describe it as a Hollywood movie, because that's all they see and know from TV. Your comment is reminisce of that. One thing you said right was *Black people should avoid drugs like the plague.*
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My heart hurts for this man. He’s HURTING. The little boy inside him is hurting
I myself was an addict and have put the relationship with my children in jepordy. I feel for both of these people after spending time, I pulled my head out and raised my kids alone. My eldest is 27 and my children are the most respectable and responsible people and thank my god everyday for that. This case really hits home and I hope they can patch up the damage. My heart goes out to you.❤
Stay Blessed
This right here I got me crying. This man is hurt but living for his kids.
He acting a full, six kids he making a total fool of himself! He knew his credit wasn’t shit!
@@cassandracarter8197 By the use of your grammar in this post I have determined, you are a fool too...Just a FYI having bad credit a person can still get a car. Its called "Buy here, pay here" the interested rates are high but they are riding.
Never tell JM that your a crack head because he use it against u...lol
@@cassandracarter8197 always that one.....
JM was the perfect judge for this case! No offense to any other televised judges, but they wouldnt of known how to handle this the way JM did. JM let this case go on for lesson purposes
That's right, I couldn't imagine this episode on Judge Judy. I also believe that Judge Joe Brown would have dealt with It with the same amount of respect.
You’re so right, no one else could have dealt with this case the way he did! Blessings to the young man, praying he can heal for his children..
@@MarcosRodrigues-pm1df I think Judge Joe would have tried to lecture him with GRE words.
OMG this was so sad 🙏🙏🙏
Absolutely💯
I like that the judge let him talk. But when he said he wanted him to talk so that people can see how children felt when they’ve been abandoned by their parents due to drugs. It’s not only for those children, but the children that been abandoned by parents that were addicted to men, addicted to drama, addicted to what other people say about them. It’s for those children too because we all feel the same way. Whether our parents abandoned us due to drugs or because of something else. I felt him.
Omg I kept waiting for JM to snap on him or smthg😂😂.I glad aswell that JM let him tell his story n get this off his chest I bet he probably felt a lil better..I hope he stay straight n have a good life..
A hurt kid is a hurt kid I get you. However I don’t think it’s fair to compare drug addicted mother to man addicted mother. The dangers and hurt and the scars are way to different. It’s a wonder this young man is even alive.
@@biggboi3932 I understand where you coming from, but I felt his pain and my mother wasn’t addicted to drugs, but to men. We all got taken from her actually from her addiction to men. Being addicted to a man is just as bad as being addicted to drugs. And that’s evident soon as your kids get taken away from you. Just as the parent that’s addicted to drugs would get their kids taken from them. My mom was so addicted to her man that she couldn’t even give her kids a call that were living with her mother, not even a two minute convo, not a happy birthday, not a I hope you get well soon. So I believe in my case it can definitely be compared to those that are addicted to drugs. Because any addiction that allows you to neglect your kids is a bad addiction, it could just be too food.
Oh and my mother let 8 of her kids go. She had a total of 11. So yea, from my experience men can be just like a drug.
I’m glad he did….unfortunately my daughter has a father who is still doesn’t bother (drugs too😢), now I know how bad it may hurt her. Maybe it’s a blessing he’s not around if his life comes with all this drama, anyway….I pray to God I’m doing enough.
Judge Mathis is the wises judge ever. People really did need to see this. Y'all know usually judge Mathis would've never tolerated that in his courtroom but the wisdom in him acknowledged that this was a very teachable moment. That's how you run a courtroom, it's all about results. Bless this family and I pray that they can heal.
The trauma in this episode is quite palpable. JM is bringing awareness to the public all the time. I pray for all the families going through such experiences.
The defendant needs to get into counseling ASAP the amount of complex trauma he has experienced is painful. He needs professional support to get through it, if not for him he should do it for his six children. I pray this young man and men like him receive healing.
Especially due to the fact that he has his own kids.
She broke his heart. I will die before I let any of my FIVE sons feel even a piece of this pain. God heal this man.
Broke me down completely!!!
Thank you for your love for your kids
I didn't believe her son some of the stuff he was saying he was lying
@@lilliewalker8879 I don’t know what you were watching are hearing but if you don’t hear the pain in that mama voice and see the passion in his eyes something is wrong
@@lilliewalker8879 I felt every bit of what that man was saying….. He had no reason to lie at all……Parents aren’t always truthful to their kids……
That poor baby is so hurt by his mama. And whatever woman trying to love him is probably running in circles 😫
Exactly men that aren’t loved properly by their mother don’t know how to love a woman correctly. 😩
She has to be his momma, therapist, and friend
The young man really needs counselling
He’s a man.
@@kayshawnsimmons6822 And that isn't fair because nobody does those things for a woman.
This is my exact situation right now. I am 32 years old and my mamma still put the crack before me! like wow our situations mirror eachother sooooooo much. I remember being younger thinking i was the only one in the world going through it. whheeeeeww my heart is heavy...
She not only needs rehab she needs counseling for the traumatic things that she has gone through!! The fact that she has not taking her own life like her mom shows her strength. May JESUS heal her, her son, her daughters, and their family as a whole!! Amen
This had me in tears, I wanted to give him a hug…. Man to man.
King!
Beautiful words Sir. He's truly damaged. Please God, heal this man.... Mind, body & soul.❤🙏🏾❤🙏🏾
Me too.. I couldn’t hold back the tears!!
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Beautiful ❤️
It's so sad and I feel his pain. It takes a strong person to stop the cycle and survive. I'm still crying😭. At least he's letting it out and with the right judge. Judge Mathis is one of the best judges for situations like this.
He sure is I love judge mathis!
out of the Asian culture white culture black culture Hawaiian culture Spanish culture, the black/African American culture is the weakest always blaming someone
That it does
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Blame this
We good without your complaint
@den
Why this man have me crying, sadly so many adults have to heal from their childhood.
I mean real tears i had to pause and get it together 😢😢😢😢
This why we need more of us to become judges and lawyers by judge Mathis being from the environment he understood that man’s pain and didn’t hold him in contempt of court like most other judges would have.
I had to pause when the son was talking. Made me so emotional i needed a break. Broke my heart and cried for him. When he started saying ..... she was never there always right around the corner or on her way. Especially when he said she didn’t help with me homework. The things that may seam insignificant to some make the most impact. God bless this young man and give him the strength to let go of the anger, forgive, and get through all the trials he has had. May the mom also get the strength to stay clean and earn her children’s trust and forgiveness.
Judge Mathis demonstrated exceptional patience during this episode. 🤔 This is what happens when you don't raise and love your children. Generational curse culture is real. MENTAL health counseling is essential for both.
As a former substitute teacher, he must've been a trip in school. But most teachers don't take the time to really understand...and I know they are overworked and underpaid but that's a whole different thing in itself. God bless EVERYBODY...for real.
My friend is a sub and is currently experiencing the same issues. Underfunded schools lead to lack of teachers and untrained professionals to deal with the problems children have, in school and at home. The rotating instructors belittle the disruptive students which upset them to the point where they are eventually removed from the class (temporary time out) despite the fact that there have been complaints from fellow employees (including my friend) and even students.
The school feeds from 2 housing projects and the whole area is in the process of gentrification so the area gets worse for the residents before they are bough out by developers who will make it better for people like them.
Yep. You really have to have a passion for children. Never seen myself as a teacher. I even settled for the low pay because I care for those children. Taking a course right now to identify a traumatized or abused child. I love talking to them and hearing them get steam off of their chest. It’s interesting looking through what’s called a “trauma based lens”.
@@chasc6334 im most definitely traumatized frfr..
The sad part is... You can tell that he really wanted to learn as child.
@@chasc6334 As one of those former kids, thank you for your extra time attention and effort. I had a parent that was emotionally and mentally absent, physically she was there but abusive. School was my only escape. I had teacher's that took a special interest in me and showed me extra kindness. It made a big deal of a difference in my life. Thank you!💕💕💕💕
Lord please heal this young man. Heal his heart heal his mind
AMEN 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
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He needs therapy
@@kayshawnsimmons6822 g-
Yes yes yes heal him Jesus. My God this crack was the devil
Hearing this makes me grateful for my mama.
This made me anxious...I hope this young man finds peace and I hope she stays in recovery.
We needed to see this and im glad JM knows when to put formality aside and not hide the truth
WOO WEE!! When the Defendant mentioned that his Mother chose a man over her children, I can TOTALLY RELATE TO THAT!!
Yes lord!! Me too!!! Sad
I hope he finds peace. He didn’t ask for any of this. Every child deserves loving nurturing parents.
As a black man with a mother who was a victim to crack I can TOTALLY relate to this. This hit deep. Bruh is hurt. Didn't realize this till my mom died that every boy needs his mom
As a child of addiction this one took me to sobs. He said it all ❤️
The pain is extreme! Break the cycle! Prayers for this young man and I bet he is an amazing father to his kids. 🙏🏽
This cracked my fucking heart. This is why I roll my eyes when men try to gaslight women by calling them emotional... Men are emotional too. They just can't cry and stuff like we do because other men call them weak and stuff so instead they get into gangs and all kinds of toxic nonsense. This brother here needed so much love that he never got. This cracks my heart in two. I just can't. I'm so sorry baby boy. I'm so sorry. You should have been loved so much harder. Everyone failed you and I'm so sorry.
Shiddd I cried...ioan care..this one hits home
As a whole women are more emotional. This is why women are more equipped to show empathy and love and caring. One of the reasons mom is the hugger the boo boo fixer the one most kids go to when they need to cry or need help. Not to say men aren’t emotional though.
He needs therapy to heal. I feel for him. However, legally, he should pay. Her being a bad mother can't be the legal reason not to pay. Sad all the way around 🥺
I think JM just really wanted to compensate for all his damage and hurt. Maybe not the best judgement because I've seen him deny emotional distress to children of addicts, but I can understand why he ruled in his favor.
Thank you.
@@annatillman92 He probably was scared of how the son might act if he lost. He was already on 100
JM did make him pay for tickets and made her pay him for being damaged.😎
The judge did let him pay.
I was about to cry listening to this. This man needs some help.
This episode is so powerful!!! It brought me to tears I just want to hug that young man!!
*The PAIN on Judge Mathis face for this young man.. It's just ALL on his face through the ENTIRE trial (I'm sure he spoke with him privately after the show)...GOD I PRAY TO YOU NOW THAT THIS YOUNG MAN CAN TURN TO YOU AND EXPERIENCE THAT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE...AND LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALL THINGS! YOU'RE A MOTHER TO THE MOTHERLESS, YOU'RE A FATHER TO THE FATHERLESS AND YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE HIS SIDE...IN JESUS NAME, AMEN🙏🏽*
AMEN!
@@streetsofgold4310 🙌🏽
In the Mighty MIGHTY NAME of JESUS!!!! 🙌🙌🙌 amen! 🙏
Amen
Amen!!
"I'm used to it" . That is no sentence any child should ever have to say about a parent. These poor kids! 😓
I agree! Unless it’s “I’m used to my parents drowning me with their love”
@@madisonmullen2190 truth! ❤️
You'd be surprised.
This is common in our community; now what's everyone going to do about it?
@Bloombaby99 it not up to us to change your community. Maybe y'all should be making better choices instead of asking for stuff like reparations or free hand outs bc of a perceived wrong doing. Now the real question is what will YOU DO TO HELP YOUR OWN COMMUNITY
This young man is completely emotionally traumatized by his mother. 😢
I cried listening to all the son went through, I pray that he makes it great in life! I'm also glad that JM let him speak his truth and was understanding towards him!
Sadly I understand perfectly how this child feels because I was in the exact same situation with my mother. He is gonna have to let it go with the help of a good therapist.
Sending healing your way. May God mend your heart
@dw Mann that shit be hard tho smmh...I been through same thing..I think I just have to get away for good from mines and not even have a relationship with her...
@@TB-fk4qm Thank you so much. My healing began 8/2020
@@yotiep.1072 yes it is very hard & you have every right to protect your peace. I did just that last year. My only regret is that it took me 49 yrs to realize that. I said that I was not taking any of that with me into my 50th yr on this earth. You can't make someone have a healthy relationship with you no matter how hard you try. That's not your burden to carry thats on them. Just follow what your gut tells you. Wishing you the best & I will be praying for your peace.
@@dw3998 appreciate that luv..yea keep your peace and keep moving foward luv..
My heart hurts for him.
His heart is broken and his pain is in every word
You can hear the hurt very strong in his voice.
Yes, it's present and deep
It so sad😒🙏for the both of them.
@@kayshawnsimmons6822 facts
@@sweetbeloved623 facts
These are some of my family members thru marriage. he is not lieing... love you cuz stay strong.
The truth will set you free. This young man is so hurt not only for himself but his siblings as well. God bless this young man, his family and his siblings. I hope his mother hope she change may God bless her.
I sure hope this young man gets the counseling he needs. I feel his pain and it is excruciating. This level of generational dysfunction is destroying our communities. 😢
I literally cried I just want to give him a hug and my phone number and say whenever you need to talk call me!!
@@marionweeks5953 yes❤️
Yes
She has an EXCUSE for everything. Which unfortunately will slow his healing. May God bless him.
I’d like to believe that it’s just another scar, another wound she has inflicted. However he has to make the choice to heal with or without her admission. It could hold him back or be the last straw and the very thing that leads him to healing.
I’m not disagreeing or being disrespectful, I just like psychology and philosophy n shit 🥰
@@JustSheaShea You learn to live with it. YOU NEVER HEAL. Only speaking from experience.
@@Imissyoulou “You are the key to your own healing, not time. Hurt, trauma and dense conditioning will continue to sting in your mind, impacting your emotions and behavior, until you go inward. What heals is self love, learning to let go, self awareness, and building new habits.”
Yung Pueblo | Intention
You never stop healing because you never stop growing but aggravating old wounds instead of learning how to heal them with love and care will always hurt.
@@JustSheaShea You have got to live it, to understand it. NO TWO INDIVIDUALS are cut out from the same personality pattern. Not withstanding, that I, and many others, have had TRAUMATIC experiences early in life, we all deal with it differently. All of that self love, healing, let go, etc. sounds good, everybody deals with it differently. Me, I returned to school, and earned a Bachelor's and Master Degrees. Many hours of post graduate work and a Real Estate License. Grand daughter just graduated from law school. Children are doing well. Another friend of mine, was abused by his father but he went on to become a successful surgeon. Before he died, we use to talk about things we endured, but there was one thing we had in common; WE WERE BOTH BETTER PARENTS. We learned what NOT to do to our children. Once again, you have to LIVE IT, to understand it and no two people's feelings are alike.
This sht got me crying man! It’s nothing like a young man pouring out his heart….you gon be alright cuz! Hold on!
I know me too I just want to give him a hug!!!
No matter what she’s still his mother. Generational curse in family he can break it be the first. I had a family member did the same when I grow up I broke it .
The crack that was intentionally dropped in black neighborhoods and on black families destroyed our homes so much. And this country thinks we should just pull ourselves, as a whole, our communities, and our families up by our "bootstraps". I don't even want to raise a dog here, not to mention my family.
Man. I’m only 6:44 in and let me just say I LOVED how JM allowed him to speak. Judge knew what was up.
Agreed
Agreed
I wholeheartedly agree..
Hard to see a mother/son going through something like this over drugs. Just goes to show us all how the drug epidemic can destroy a family.
I think this is the main reason grown men hate women. Was your mother like this Adrian?
I had the best relationship with my mother. Best mother anyone could have. But aside from that I speak nothing but the truth when it comes to women.
@@adrianprince7266 that interesting... sometimes you speak like the son of a crackhead mother. You should represent your mom better by not talking trash. That way folks don’t think your mom is a crackhead.
@@Chee235 he’s not talking trash though….?
@@333.senpaimamiii This comment was good but usually he demonizes women. On most other videos.
I pray that he gets counseling and heals from this 🙏🏽
Best case ever! I could've watched this for the full hour. I wish you would show more raw and gritty cases like this.
My heart aches for our brothers and sisters like the defendant. I can't believe the mother had the audacity to sue her son for emotional distress after all she put him through. Smh. I hope he and his sisters get some therapy. They deserve to be happy.
He’s ordained. He has a calling on his life. He’s not super educated but he is highly intelligent if that makes sense. I’m so glad Judge let this young man speak. This was so necessary.
Yes thank you for saying that! That’s all many hurt people need to overcome their past a little.
YES!
Ordained?
@@karameldrip9703 Would you like to add to what I suppose is your question? I said ordained. As in he has been provided a spiritual gift through his pain and he will speak over the lives of others. I felt him and his pain and that's what I felt. You may feel different.
I feel for him. My children’s father is a drug addict. My exes parents were drug addicts. I see the effects first hand.
he needs to do everything he can to stop the cycle even if it means keeping his Mother away from them children
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He's so hurt that he can't see that his mother was also hurt and that people handle trauma differently 😔
Never implied that, I'm simply taking both parties perspectives into consideration with the information given in this short video. I know it's way more that was done and said in their lives, but sometimes If opposing parties actually got to the actually root of what started the issue in the first place, there might not be as much anger, bitterness, resentment, etc...that may be an opportunity to heal either together or parallel to one another so at least the negative energy is cleared for future generations, because if they can't at least come to an understanding, they either need to completely separate, or the situation will only get worse🤷🏾♀️
This was intense and so hard to watch. I can really see this young man's hurt. So sad how drugs has ruined this family.
He hated his mom but when he got awarded that five thousand dollars it was I still love you mama all the stress I had on my chest is off of it now 🤣🤣🤣
Whew this was stressful to watch. I pray they both get the healing they need.
I agree,this is do hard to watch 😭
That’s true, I winced as he spoke!! Bare pain in all this family! From generation to generation!! Cycle after cycle, I pray it stops with this young man !!
@@vickyserr From what I saw there is no way he isn't passing this onto his kids.
I hope he gets the healing he needs, I got teary eyed listening to and seeing his pain. He was so raw in his emotions and was never trying to be disrespectful but is speaking in ways he knows how to get his point across.
Loved the way you handled this case JM… this one is for the books… keep being great in our communities
😢 😢 Tear dropper.. Speak the truth sir!! Thank you JM for allowing him to speak his pain!!
Damn I felt that's and it's Alot of ppl struggling and battling the same type of issues😭
This whole case gave me so many mixed emotions and All of it drained me. I empathize with this young man, my mom was on drugs my whole life. It definitely is a hard lifestyle to live and understand. Parents have no idea how much their actions and behaviors affects us. I pray that they both find healing. I hope this generational curse ends with this young man and not pass to any of his 6 kids.
It's not that parents don't know, they do know, they just don't care.
I truly hear the pain in this young brotha voice!!! I know JM wanted him to be more respectful. However, I am glad to see that JM allowed him to truly express how he felt about his mother! I'm tired of seeing shows and society placing blame solely on "deadbeat" fathers where we can clearly see that this woman is a deadbeat mother who chose drugs/men over her children. This brotha is truly hurt and in emotional pain due to the neglect and abandonment she put him and his siblings through! So, I commend JM for allowing him to express himself and see what drugs do a child/family!
I feel so bad for him and the mama should be ashamed of her self doing him and his kids like that
He is so hurt,he needs help he can't effectively raise his kids with this kinda anger. I wish him all the best.
This made me cry. God help this young man. Thank you for this Judge Mathis.
Salute to Judge Mathis, for recognising and innerstanding the defendants pain. I think he related some of his upbringing to what this brother endured. Showing patience, support and mentoring. That’s what we need more of in OUR community!
Man.. her son is so heartbroken. And just to know the mother has to be going through a lot as well is so sad. Uggggg! 😩 I’m praying for them both
This man is going to have to learn some self-control. Even in anger, you must control yourself. He's before a judge and can't contain himself.
That is the result of being reared in an uncontrollable environment.
He’s from Chicago. And his mom a drug addict. Probably was on drugs when she was pregnant with him. Never know. But he just poured his heart out that’s why Judge Mathis let him keep going. Judge Mathis felt every word.
My thoughts exactly. Understanding his pain and frustration, But very much Needs to Grasp his self control
Very true but you see the judge is nodding his head in understanding. He’s from the hood too, and he can relate. When you know nothing but the streets it’s hard to change your behavior even in a professional setting.
He wasn't raised ... He don't know
I'm so glad judge Mathis allowed this young man to Express himself. Love this guy's sweater!!
14:27 JUDGE MATHIS WAS NOT PUTTING THAT ON PEOPLE. HE WAS WARNING THEM WHAT TO EXPECT👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I am hurt for both of them. I see this young man’s pain but I also see mom’s. She made horrible decisions and it greatly affected them and until she acknowledges it and make it a change, he won’t heal. Neither will she. They both need therapy. I really pray for healing for both of them.
Just a repeating cycle. I felt him and I felt her honestly.
The hurt on both side is real
I respect that young man so much he gas a good heart and I can tell he's going to change his family's life and lifestyle being the example he never had
I felt his hurt through his words. He just wanted his mom. 😭😭
You can see and feel all the hurt in this man, it’s almost like he is searching for answer to why this happened, I feel so sad for him, I’m glad he was given the chance to speak even when the court does not like the language, how does one heal from all this hurt!!
Yesss Judge this was such a good episode. I love that Judge talked about how this is the effect of parents drug use
He had to let it out. No doubt she went through some things, but his feelings are valid.