IF and that is a big IF, this joke of a story is real, I am pretty sure the OP is probably more entitled than the girlfriend was. What I mean is that I am sure he has gotten "bailed out" of many life screwups by his parents. He just doesn't come off as being the sharpest tool in the tool shed. I'm thinking Mommy and Daddy fund most of the big items in his life such as a home, car, and probably a monthly allowance. They even had to come with him to the Resort to make sure he didn't screw that up LOLOLOL.
@@thomasjoseph5876 I think it’s more of the fact his parents kept telling he was making a mistake and trying to convince him to break up with her, but he was just too ‘in love’ with her to see it. It literally too them bring him to the vacation to see his gf cheating to finally snap him out of it.
@@pyrus0zero So basically, they went along to make sure he didn't screw up and take her back or get gaslit to the point HE is apologizing to her LOL. He is a naive idiot that has probably cost his parents hundreds of thousands of dollars over the years because he always chooses the "wrong way or wrong one" LOL
As OP said, of course he feels like a loser. He’s the only one in his circle of influence who willfully and wrongly missed the red flags. While OP mocked the fact that Aaron was not very smart, he was being mocked by everyone else, including his parents, for the very same thing.
Op didn’t just miss red flags, he missed illuminated runway direction arrows. Seeing the ex constantly hanging around and leaving for a vacation without him would have been the final straw for me.
Nta. Throw her stuff out and change the locls. Cassie and her family are gaslighting you. When they call say you decided her vacation is to be permanent. Then block her
At the 3 month mark when she pitched a fit over not getting a fancy purse was the time to eject. So Cassie is a garden tool and her parents her pimps. Nice family🙄🙄🙄
Here’s the thing- the courts said his ex could keep all the gifts “in good faith.” Well, lying and deceiving throughout the whole relationship IS NOT GOOD FAITH, the judge should have screwed OP’s ex on all that. Oh,he didn’t dodge a bullet, a cannon, an artillery shell, he dodged the end of the world…
I don't think they could. When it comes to relationships, anything we give to a partner is considered a gift, unless we have some deal (in writing) that there's a transaction.
@@stevebanner5609 That's definently true, but remember, we're in a gynocentric society where the system caters and panders to women. Case in point with the results.
Darnell Tucker I’m assuming you’re not in the USA, as the laws are about as equal as they can get for both sexes. If this story went to trial and gf was found guilty for fraud the judge would order restitution..
Cassie's family and ex 'pimped' her out to get any and everything she could from OP. All the expensive gifts OP gave her she sold. Good thing he kept the car in his name or that would have been gone too. Aaron is probably broke too or he wouldn't have been willing to be a part of this. Every red flag was there for OP to see but love blinded him. Cassie and her family had to be stupid as h*ll to even think about doing this since his family are successful lawyers. But they fafo and now the money is turned off, Cassie lost her job and her part of the house. Hopefully Aaron hasn't wasted his money from supposedly being a professional football player. KARMA...
ATM/Doormat, op ignored every red flag that even others saw, especially his parents.He wasn't invited on a family trip, but her ex husband was? Pure foolishness on op part for not seeing that BS. At least op got out before they could had literally bleed him dry as they planned,, she had the audacity to call op about him freezing a card he never open, she and her twisted family/partners in crimes deserve everything that happened to them.
Damn, OP is such a doormat. He should honestly stick with that woman seeing as how no smart, honest woman would be with him. He's the type of man to believe phone scammers.
The best part of this pretty much ridiculous story is just what a lovely, close, and well educated/equipped family OP comes from. By the time the story ended, I did not remember how old OP is, or even if the story gave that information. He ‘plays’ as if he’s in his early, possibly mid, twenties. (Note: I listen, do not read.) OP nta.
He didn’t have to waste his money on travel expenses and come close to stalking her to discover the truth. The truth was in front of him from the beginning. He just didn’t want to accept it. Instead of feeling sorry for her he should have gotten help for his own self-esteem issues. Because only someone with low self-esteem would allow themselves to be treated that way.
Of course OP feels like a loser..because he acted like/was one! Prime example of a intelligent, successful person with less common sense/street smarts of a rock. Parents should have recorded their confrontation for proof/evidence against the whole family.
The minute op found out the dastardly couple were engaged…op should have went back to court and asked if they’d bought a ring…because if they did, technically they should have given the money to op to pay back their debts.
OMG what are you doing? If her ex at any point said he would take her back she would drop you quicker than you could blink! Her parents are waiting for this to hopefully happen as well.
OP got his feelings hurt. That's what he can't get over. But good for OP for pressing charges. OP justice was served. You need to move on with your life. OP had smart parents.
I wanna know if she has to pay back that $20k she spent on a card she fraudulent took out in his name! And why did the judge only give her 3yrs of probation when she committed identity theft 🤦🏼♀️
The next girl you find Opie make sure she loves you and doesn’t just want you for your money. They are out there or just be single nothing wrong with that.
Stories like this one make people feel hostile towards OP, rather than the e-thots, because they're so WILLFULLY BLIND! And even when the mendacity of the e-thot is blindingly obvious, they come off as willing to forgive.
People who are not in the relationship can see whats happening much better because they have nothing to loose. People who are in the relationship see what they hope will happen. U need to find a mature partner not an entitled child. U need to believe people when they show u who they are. Never second guess ur fellings. Move on and find someone who is worth ur affections. Good luck in the future.
OP, you dodged a major bullet!! Be glad you decided to check on her, because if you had married that gold digger, she'd ruined you!! Still NTA, but the ex-husband is a MAJOR douche bag AH!!
I would never have confronted them directly in the other country. I would have just gone back to where I lived and started the whole legal process and been happy that I dodged a bullet. 😈
Asking someone when and where they’re going is not interrogation and if Cassie gets upset over that she’s a spoiled brat and she’s obviously hiding something
OP if you would have married Cassie and she had access to your money, she would have bankrupted you. Gotten a divorce and alimony. I love how your parents raised you, too bad Cassie's parents didn't follow their playbook. You guys should have recorded the surprise meeting conversation and played it in court.
Sucks for Op, but hopefully, he takes this as a learning experience. I could relate to him in a way. When I was with my ex, her father was aware of her cheating and actually approved of her doing it even though I never hurt or disrespected her. Like Cassie, my ex was a spoiled brat. As guys, we need to pay VERY close attention to red flags. Not surprised she didn't get jail time as women get lesser sentence than men committing the same crime outside of the extreme. OP needs to chill, heal, and enjoy himself and when the next time a woman comes into his life, be on guard and not be a simp.
He missed the boat on recording the parents confetion when they confronted them... Then again, No Doormat of a nice guy has been known to be smart like that. He barely got out of the situacion cause that gut feeling he ignored for so long finally gave him a spine to investigate SMH!
Glad he got rid of her & u also think she should have spent time behind bars. She got that card behind your back. Bank should have alerted u about it , but she may have used your name to get.
Three lawyers from the same legal practice were able to get immediate leave ,at the same time ,for several days ,what about the practice regarding their clients and the court appearances.?..
The fact that Cassie got arrested for fraud, tells me that Karma has finally slapped her in the face!! And that also goes for Aaron, Cassie's ex-husband!!
OP should have talked to the police to see if the BF could have been charged as a Pimp since he pimped out his GF to OP. Also, could RICCO charges have been filed against the 4 of them.
Story 1: Simp story, Op was probably a virgin and this was the 1st woman he's been with, that's why the rose tinted glasses were so thick, even bringing his mommy and daddy to support him stalking his gf, dude was so deep in denial it's pathetic
Not just a doormat, but a delusional doormat. One that makes as many excuses as possible to justify their toxic partner.
in other was your average Reddit user
IF and that is a big IF, this joke of a story is real, I am pretty sure the OP is probably more entitled than the girlfriend was. What I mean is that I am sure he has gotten "bailed out" of many life screwups by his parents. He just doesn't come off as being the sharpest tool in the tool shed. I'm thinking Mommy and Daddy fund most of the big items in his life such as a home, car, and probably a monthly allowance. They even had to come with him to the Resort to make sure he didn't screw that up LOLOLOL.
@@thomasjoseph5876 I think it’s more of the fact his parents kept telling he was making a mistake and trying to convince him to break up with her, but he was just too ‘in love’ with her to see it. It literally too them bring him to the vacation to see his gf cheating to finally snap him out of it.
Giga simp
@@pyrus0zero So basically, they went along to make sure he didn't screw up and take her back or get gaslit to the point HE is apologizing to her LOL.
He is a naive idiot that has probably cost his parents hundreds of thousands of dollars over the years because he always chooses the "wrong way or wrong one" LOL
As OP said, of course he feels like a loser. He’s the only one in his circle of influence who willfully and wrongly missed the red flags. While OP mocked the fact that Aaron was not very smart, he was being mocked by everyone else, including his parents, for the very same thing.
and now cassie parents will realize that Aaron will ended up abandoned them and Cassie they probaly messed it up
Love is blind. Just ask Johnny Depp.
@@MustangWriterlove isn't blind, it's retarted.
Op didn’t just miss red flags, he missed illuminated runway direction arrows. Seeing the ex constantly hanging around and leaving for a vacation without him would have been the final straw for me.
Totally stealing the runway reference. 😂
Nta. Throw her stuff out and change the locls. Cassie and her family are gaslighting you. When they call say you decided her vacation is to be permanent. Then block her
Dash she things ah road.. she belong to the streets
Donate her things, he brought them
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Sue her for the money you spent. She romance scammed you.
At the 3 month mark when she pitched a fit over not getting a fancy purse was the time to eject. So Cassie is a garden tool and her parents her pimps. Nice family🙄🙄🙄
What does that make her ex? Anyone who would allow their beloved to date another with intent to marry is horse droppings
I like your polite way of saying she's a hoe.
One tantrum would have been enough for me. I have no patience for that kind of crap. 😊😅😂
I will now forever use “garden tool” 😂❤
@@mommac8215 I thought the latest symbol for it was "304." 😆
OP should listen to his parents. The fact that this lasted more than a week proves OP needs a Conservatorship!
Here’s the thing- the courts said his ex could keep all the gifts “in good faith.” Well, lying and deceiving throughout the whole relationship IS NOT GOOD FAITH, the judge should have screwed OP’s ex on all that. Oh,he didn’t dodge a bullet, a cannon, an artillery shell, he dodged the end of the world…
I don't think they could. When it comes to relationships, anything we give to a partner is considered a gift, unless we have some deal (in writing) that there's a transaction.
Yeah but it wasn’t really a relationship, it was fraud-that changes the dynamic.
@@stevebanner5609 That's definently true, but remember, we're in a gynocentric society where the system caters and panders to women. Case in point with the results.
Darnell Tucker I’m assuming you’re not in the USA, as the laws are about as equal as they can get for both sexes. If this story went to trial and gf was found guilty for fraud the judge would order restitution..
The Judge probably considered it a Stupid Tax.
Cassie's family and ex 'pimped' her out to get any and everything she could from OP. All the expensive gifts OP gave her she sold. Good thing he kept the car in his name or that would have been gone too. Aaron is probably broke too or he wouldn't have been willing to be a part of this. Every red flag was there for OP to see but love blinded him. Cassie and her family had to be stupid as h*ll to even think about doing this since his family are successful lawyers. But they fafo and now the money is turned off, Cassie lost her job and her part of the house. Hopefully Aaron hasn't wasted his money from supposedly being a professional football player. KARMA...
ATM/Doormat, op ignored every red flag that even others saw, especially his parents.He wasn't invited on a family trip, but her ex husband was? Pure foolishness on op part for not seeing that BS.
At least op got out before they could had literally bleed him dry as they planned,, she had the audacity to call op about him freezing a card he never open, she and her twisted family/partners in crimes deserve everything that happened to them.
A golden doormat*
If I were you I would have broken things off a long time ago. She doesn't deserve your love. I agree with your parents.
Damn, OP is such a doormat. He should honestly stick with that woman seeing as how no smart, honest woman would be with him. He's the type of man to believe phone scammers.
That doesn't make sense
When I was listening to this, I literally said "Such a nice and trusting boy, wonder if he'll let me hold his wallet" 😂
Looks like Cassie ROMANCE -SCAMMED OP-he just received his DOORMAT CREDENTIALS🤡😱🤬😝
@Timothy Robertson flattery will get you everything 😆
OP was a walking doormat!! He owes his parents a HUGE apology!!
if i were op id have bailed a long time ago on this relationship
That's the whole point of this story. Only OP couldn't see it.
If I found a guy like OP and he had money I would appreciate him. She does not appreciate him.
I hope the same goes for any decent guy even if he has less money...
She can't appreciate him because she does not love him. She was about to marry him to get spousal support so that she and her ex to live off OP.
The best part of this pretty much ridiculous story is just what a lovely, close, and well educated/equipped family OP comes from. By the time the story ended, I did not remember how old OP is, or even if the story gave that information. He ‘plays’ as if he’s in his early, possibly mid, twenties. (Note: I listen, do not read.) OP nta.
He didn’t have to waste his money on travel expenses and come close to stalking her to discover the truth. The truth was in front of him from the beginning. He just didn’t want to accept it. Instead of feeling sorry for her he should have gotten help for his own self-esteem issues. Because only someone with low self-esteem would allow themselves to be treated that way.
Of course OP feels like a loser..because he acted like/was one! Prime example of a intelligent, successful person with less common sense/street smarts of a rock. Parents should have recorded their confrontation for proof/evidence against the whole family.
They’re using OP’s money for their vacation🤬🤬🤬
There were signs from the start. But the “love” haze is a ruthless bastard if you ignore it.
A note for authors: if you’re going to say you’re a lawyer who comes from a family of lawyers, then learn to write like a lawyer.
The minute op found out the dastardly couple were engaged…op should have went back to court and asked if they’d bought a ring…because if they did, technically they should have given the money to op to pay back their debts.
At least they get what they deserve
OMG what are you doing? If her ex at any point said he would take her back she would drop you quicker than you could blink! Her parents are waiting for this to hopefully happen as well.
Love the visuals. Didn't know Mr Reddito is a Stalker😢😮😂
Glad he finally learned the truth.
MAN WHY WOULD YOU GET WITH A WOMEN WHO WAS ALREADY MARRIED BEFORE?
OP got his feelings hurt. That's what he can't get over. But good for OP for pressing charges. OP justice was served. You need to move on with your life. OP had smart parents.
Oh, her credit card was cut off makes me feel so bad it couldn’t happen to a nicer person
I wanna know if she has to pay back that $20k she spent on a card she fraudulent took out in his name!
And why did the judge only give her 3yrs of probation when she committed identity theft 🤦🏼♀️
The next girl you find Opie make sure she loves you and doesn’t just want you for your money. They are out there or just be single nothing wrong with that.
Stories like this one make people feel hostile towards OP, rather than the e-thots, because they're so WILLFULLY BLIND! And even when the mendacity of the e-thot is blindingly obvious, they come off as willing to forgive.
omg this one was so hurt to heard, this doormat deserved being disowned by his parents!
He should have listened to his parents.
OP is the very definition of sucker. 🙈
A 3-month anniversary is very typical for a gold digger. 😈
This is so dragged out, I hope it’s just made up, to believe that a man as pathetic as this exists is too painful and I stopped it halfway.
People who are not in the relationship can see whats happening much better because they have nothing to loose. People who are in the relationship see what they hope will happen. U need to find a mature partner not an entitled child. U need to believe people when they show u who they are. Never second guess ur fellings. Move on and find someone who is worth ur affections. Good luck in the future.
Loose? Loose what? Oh, you mean "they have nothing to lose". Gotcha. Loose is the opposite of tight.
@@MrBeevee5 I know that my phone keeps correcting, drives me crazy , so I stopped trying.
Yep, you start hoping the garden tool will snatch a Ferrari off him - oops! he went and did it, he bought her a new car - damn!!!!
I was under the impression that OP needs to have either the word "sucker", or "simp" on his forehead.
If this guy is really a lawyer then he can't be a very good one as gullible as he is.
OP, you dodged a major bullet!! Be glad you decided to check on her, because if you had married that gold digger, she'd ruined you!! Still NTA, but the ex-husband is a MAJOR douche bag AH!!
Dude be having red flags bright and early but completely ignoring them then they ask what’s wrong 😂
As always people blame the man instead of the wife who behaved so badly.
OP needs to cut himself some slack. He was conned by experts. It happens. It’s called the long con.
Not too long. Only 3 months in and she wanted a designer purse.
They don't come any dumber.
He wasn’t caught , bro was just fuckin stupid
Cassie is a horrible person but OP is just a serious doormat
It pains me that people are this weak.
I would never have confronted them directly in the other country. I would have just gone back to where I lived and started the whole legal process and been happy that I dodged a bullet. 😈
He might have been a doormat, but at least he was willing to find the truth.
Run Dude Run!!! Don't look back, you know she's with her Ex.
What a dope. My god man, these red flags beat you over the head and you still ignored them.
Asking someone when and where they’re going is not interrogation and if Cassie gets upset over that she’s a spoiled brat and she’s obviously hiding something
The parents should have asked one question
What does she do for you
What does she bring to the table
OP have them all arrested for stealing from you
OP sounds like a doormat, so it’s no surprise, his gf is treating him like trash.
Gather proof? What for ? Not married.
Tantrums for gifts? Crazy.
Her parents have the nerve to be assholes after you help pay their bills wow
He was surprise they were sharing a room😂😂😂😂😂
She had a temper tantrum? Immediate ghost, dude.
Yes you should back up right up out of that so called relationship
Oh, no, honey, you didn't lose. You won big time by dodging a cannonball.
when they confronted them they should've recorded it. and have audio proof that the parents were in on it as well as the bf.
OP if you would have married Cassie and she had access to your money, she would have bankrupted you. Gotten a divorce and alimony. I love how your parents raised you, too bad Cassie's parents didn't follow their playbook. You guys should have recorded the surprise meeting conversation and played it in court.
Her 1st throwing a fit as an adult she's a been gone if I was in his shoes!! No way no 1 should have to deal with this crap
Dude. I feel bad for OP's parents.
Sucks for Op, but hopefully, he takes this as a learning experience. I could relate to him in a way. When I was with my ex, her father was aware of her cheating and actually approved of her doing it even though I never hurt or disrespected her. Like Cassie, my ex was a spoiled brat. As guys, we need to pay VERY close attention to red flags. Not surprised she didn't get jail time as women get lesser sentence than men committing the same crime outside of the extreme. OP needs to chill, heal, and enjoy himself and when the next time a woman comes into his life, be on guard and not be a simp.
I thinks it's funny the lawyer looking dude on the cover of the video looks like Tubbs from the old Miami Vice show
Dude dodged a bullet.
He got out before he married her, he should consider himself lucky!
Doormat. That’s what OP is.
Things like these last as long as they do because people are afraid to be alone
They were a family of con artist. OP, you came out ahead.
He missed the boat on recording the parents confetion when they confronted them... Then again, No Doormat of a nice guy has been known to be smart like that. He barely got out of the situacion cause that gut feeling he ignored for so long finally gave him a spine to investigate SMH!
Glad he got rid of her & u also think she should have spent time behind bars. She got that card behind your back. Bank should have alerted u about it , but she may have used your name to get.
There's a point where willful ignorance makes it hard to sympathize with someone.
Take the car back, change the locks & don't look back!!!
You know I would take her I would follow a lawsuit against her take everything she has and take her fans to court too
Too bad he didn't record the whole thing
Work around? No! Run!
Get rid of her
OPs parents are right!
Three lawyers from the same legal practice were able to get immediate leave ,at the same time ,for several days ,what about the practice regarding their clients and the court appearances.?..
1:46 red flag 🚩 3 !!!
She would be history..
She told you outright that you were not "family" and still you clung on?
id have used a hot glue gun on the parents house while cassie was visiting then set the house alight while they where all glued inside
Feel like a fool? No, you are a fool OP.
The fact that Cassie got arrested for fraud, tells me that Karma has finally slapped her in the face!! And that also goes for Aaron, Cassie's ex-husband!!
My Ex Girlfriend took her Prison Pen Pal on vacation.
No kids and still hanging with the Ex? You turn and walk and don't look back.
OP was a total SIMP and I am surprised his father did not slap in his head for being a doormat. Too many red flags in his face.
I dislike the word gullible because it's insulting to the party that trusted them/you so blindly to not doubt them/you
🤦♂️ dude is not that smart does he
damn all those red flags how could miss all those sounds like to me this guys needs some other friends who could of opened up his eyes x.x
I think he should have gotten more.
When god handed out brains, OP was getting some chalk from the office.
Check it out she's a cheater
Cassie must be really pretty! My God, OP is such a delusional
I would of dumped her
OP should have talked to the police to see if the BF could have been charged as a Pimp since he pimped out his GF to OP. Also, could RICCO charges have been filed against the 4 of them.
Story 1: Simp story, Op was probably a virgin and this was the 1st woman he's been with, that's why the rose tinted glasses were so thick, even bringing his mommy and daddy to support him stalking his gf, dude was so deep in denial it's pathetic
I would have put it on social media so her friends and family knew the type of person she is