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How to overcome discouragement as a new mom (or ANYONE) *if you feel like giving up.. WATCH THIS.
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- Опубликовано: 18 фев 2021
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As a mother of three young ones - a new baby, a one year old, and a 5 year old .. discouragement is a very familiar feeling for me and one I frequently work to overcome. I hope this video will encourage anyone who feels depressed, discouraged or let down by life. Don’t give up. You got this.
Also .... oranges grow in groves haha not orchards. I remembered after filming this 😂
I am an expert gardener clearly 👩🏻🌾
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I’m watching this as my month-old son is crying, laundry is still not folded, dishes not washed...I’m pretty pruned right now. Thanks Jess.
"be a confident lil orange tree" should be on a T-shirt and "don't compare your bush with your friend's bush" is simply 👌👌👌 great video Jess!
"How not to lose your identity as a mom" would be a great video!
Yes yes yes
I hadn’t prepared myself for this change and I’m slowly getting me back physically but it’s a long journey and sometimes feels like it not changing.
I've just cried to my husband over why life is so hard 😭 this is so God sent 🙏
Why did I resist this? I’ve been looking at my surroundings and perpetually overwhelmed. But new baby, and hubby are my slice of heaven on this earth but I STILL feel like I cannot stop stressing over what’s bad. I want to badly to let go. Thankyou for this so much
Yes yes yes yes! I’ve been so exhausted by Infertility. I’m gonna try to draw tomorrow and just be gentle with myself. My little rose will come.
Yes they will xxx I’ve been there and it’s so hard xxx keep on nourishing the drawing, what a beautiful thing
This is so important! My business was torn apart mid climb, due to Covid and I have a new baby. So many of us had to sit inside and watch the better part of a year dissapear. It's hard to stare time in the face when you don't think you are where you "should" be. We are going to have to be gentle with ourselves and others. People on all timelines have had to pull out their pruning shears this year. Societal heartbreak. I'm hoping in a year or so we're all out here watering each other and growing flowers we had no idea we were capable of growing. Love to you!!
Thanks. I really needed to hear this today. I have a newborn and I'm just feeling like I'm failing.
This is so timely for me. I am 15 weeks pregnant, doing an accelerated masters program, I hate where I live, I feel like I’m so behind, etc, etc. Thanks for reminding me that I’m not alone and that it takes time to bloom.🌹
Hey girl! Just letting you know you are NOT alone and you are NOT behind! Me and my partner started (!) our Bachelor‘s degrees (!) when I was pregnant. My son is nearly 8 mo now and it‘ll be yeeeeaaaars until I’m done. I’m 27 next month, most of my friends are in their careers already. It’s okay ❤️
OMS! Girl...I needed this video. I just cried over the fact that I am pregnant and have lost my job due to covid and its almost been a year in March.😣😥😣🤐😮😑😶🙄😪😯😫😒😓😔😕🙃😢😭😨😰😱😵I have stuff I want to do for the house and the baby and it all keeps going on hold.😕😕😕and I have to depend on everyone elses gifts for the little one. I feel so ashamed and mad at myself. This is not the way I wanted my little one to be raised. We as a household struggled when I was younger and I promised myself that I would never ever want to be in that situation again and now I am...again. Not being able to go out with friends an family due to funds and being at home 24/7 is making me nuts.😶😑😶😑😶😑😶
It’s interesting that you don’t feel very confident as a mom because this kind of a video seems to come from such a genuine, loving, motherly,
..place
Thank you, Jess, currently my life feels like a mess being a mum of 2-year-old and a 5-month-old... And my marriage feels like it may fall apart, me and my husband have lost connection and I am so so so tired and emotionally drained... Thank you, God bless you and your family and give you strength!
My baby is 15 days old today and this is exactly what I needed to see because I feel so overwhelmed right now. Thank you
This couldn’t have come at a better time. New baby and rough time with husband due to such a change. I’m in the pruned and not so pretty time.
That was one of the hardest times of my life. But it got better. You've got this.
Same here. First baby and she’s five months and I feel like a hot mess.
@@RHM_MusicMinistry I know. My body was mush at that point. I remember crying in a changeroom just from seeing myself in a full length mirror. But my sweet babe is 15 months now and I am back to normal. Just say who cares to all the dumb stuff that doesn't matter and try to enjoy the bright spots cause it goes fast. I wish I had of enjoyed it more and not cared as much about stuff that doesn't matter.
I desperately needed this. We had our first baby just 12 days ago and I am struggling even though I adore my little girl so dearly! Especially missing connecting with my hubby. THANK YOU for this video!!!
Girl the Lord totally led me to your channel! I’m pregnant with my second and feeling so low and homesick. I need to decide whether to move back to my country or attempt to bring my family here if it’s God’s will.
Definitely needed this today! Thanks for sharing! As soon as my husband got home and came to our bedroom where I was feeding our 5 week old son I blurted out, "I need a break!" Feeling very much like that cut back rose bush so this was definitely on time.
Jessica, I needed this. Right now I’m the ugliest bush in the garden. This was so helpful, thank you.
Hang in there 🌹🌹🌹 you can be confident the bush isn’t the problem. You’re doing great. It’s just the season. You might be in winter. Spring will come ❤️❤️
I'm currently training to be a psychotherapist while pregnant and it can sometimes feel like I'm drowning and getting nowhere, which is crazy because I'm literally making a baby AND working towards an important qualification! Sometimes you can't see the process for how beautiful and important it is. This was such a wonderful video.
I’m in an advanced standing MSW program and 15 weeks pregnant!! It’s hard! Just wanted you to know you aren’t alone. I hope you’re doing okay. I had a rough day yesterday but trying to just take it a day at a time (which can be hard because we also need to plan lol).
@@theresa_lp Oh wow that's wonderful! Not that you had a hard day but that you're doing such an amazing thing while pregnant. You're exactly right, one day at a time is all you can do. I'm preparing to present a case study and even still I am telling myself what happens happens, I can do the work but on the day it will just be what it is, we can only do our best after all. Good luck with your studies and the rest of your pregnancy! You've got this.
9 months pregnant with insomnia! Thanks for sharing bc this is exactly how I’m feeling .... there’s been a significant reconnect with my husband but every thing else in my life I feel disconnected from !!!
Insomnia is the worst!! You are not alone in the wee small hours, so many of us with you! Sending the best wishes your way for all that your future holds xx
“be a confident little orange tree!” this may go on my wall!
Don’t mind me, I’m just over here eating my lunch and trying not to ugly.
This encouraged my heart so much 💛
My soul needed this today (or month... haha). Gonna go write "You're looking at a rosebush!" and put it on my mirror asap. Thank you, Jess!
Such a perfect time for this. I've been silently supporting for a couple months now and you are BY FAR my favorite and most sunshiney, yet REAL and RAW mama that I love to come and visit. I'm 39 weeks today and am feeling all the feelings that come with that.
I got let go from my job a few weeks back and have yet to receive anything for unemployment and I've NEVER not had a job... so things are definitely in a pruned state. I meditate daily and journal my little heart out to keep my mindset above my shoulders, but sometimes messages like these just really hit my soul.
SO THANK YOU!!!
For just being you and sharing you and I'm hoping you find your bloom again soon, too.
Awe Jess :( ❤️ I’ve straight up had my mom say that “you’re barely keeping it together...” and “Rhylan (my son) is taken care of but your house takes the back burner...” blah blah blah... well it’s HARD to do it ALL! And sometimes well maybe more times than not I put that stuff on the back burner for a little sleep while my son naps 🤷🏻♀️❤️ I’ve been getting better at keeping my house tighty and still keeping my son alive finally a year and a half into being a mom but it’s sooooo hard!!!! You’re so inspiring I love how you put those two things together like that (the story and the moment you’re in right now) you’re awesome mama!
Omg! Only a minute in and you are speaking to my current life. Having such a hard time all around. Feeling like surviving not thriving. First time mom over here and with covid and it has been rough for my husband's relationship and trying to find time to connect when we aren't exhausted for work, parenting, or maintaining our house. Thank you for this video 💕
Thankyou very much! I’m mum for the first time and my live is a mess now, I didn’t want to be a mun but it came and youre channel helps me a lot! And you just released this video in my worst day, you are like talking the exact words that I needed to hear.
This is a great reminder for me on a personal level and at 27 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. The flowers will come! :)
I subscribed a while ago even though I don’t have kids and I’m not sure I ever want them, but I love your spirit and light. This story was super relatable I love it! You are a positive presence on RUclips!
Thank you for this video. I’m sitting with tears streaming down my face. I’m very much in a time in my life that I feel is a weed and this encouraged me so much.
very encouraging, thank you. I feel so torn apart by life. I lost my dad and have been betrayed by many family members. I have moved twice since these losses as well, across the country. this was encouraging. 🦋
Thanks for your video. I've had a terrible day where my IVF clinic said my 4th round wasn't working. And your words are really helping. I feel completely defeated. I'm definitely not blooming at this time in my life.
God will hear your tears. Have faith
Incredibly beautiful message needed by a first time mom with an 11day old baby... Not feeling the bloom right now, but I get that once me, the little one and dad have struck a balance our season will come. Thank you so much Jess🌸
I needed this. Thank you Jess I love your channel, you seem like the sweetest person. I don't even have kids but I love your content. For me it's currently a dead end job, the stress of finding a better one during covid, feeling behind friends and family the same age as me, etc. But on the positive end me and my SO are getting married this year so I really should focus on things like that more
You are so precious. Thank you for sharing this story
Hi Jessica, thank you for this! I am a law student and have been struggling with feeling so inadequate for the career that I have chosen. It's been so discouraging feeling like I'm so far behind my classmates. Thank you for the reminder that we're all on different timelines, and just because things don't look like I expected doesn't mean they're bad. Appreciate you :)
I can’t imagine how challenging that would be! Don’t give up! My sister was a nursing student and felt like she was way behind her classmates. She thought she would fail and not become a nurse. But she finally became an RN two weeks ago while being in labor! I totally believe if she can do it you can do it too! Haha hopefully not in labor though. ❤️❤️
I am also a dicouraged law student and struggling so hard right now!! Everybody seems to be fine and prepared and here I am struggling with so much anxiety. But it will get better :) be kind to yourself, it is so hard, but you can do it! ❤️
@@Camillarinify Aw thank you! And the same right back at you ❤️ there’s all this pressure to act like everything is fine and under control, but it’s so validating for me to realize that I’m not the only one struggling or feeling like this. We are gonna get through this!!
This is perfect right now thank you!! I am pregnant again directly after miscarriage so I'm terrified it's going to go wrong again, trying to remember to water what is good and not worry 💕
❤️
New life, the nurturance of that life begins in the dark of underground, in the womb: concealed.
Thank you for this encouragement! Feel like i needed to hear this.. as a young stay at home mom with no job, u can get different thoughts about where you are in life.. so thank you💞
I love your positive encouragement. I was wondering if you could at some point talk on here with a friend that had a csection. Share some postpartum differences and encouragement on that. Thanks
♥️ I was so depressed today hearing this was like a ray of sunshine ☀️. Thank you!
The love you put on your message comes through so strongly, I just hope you also know you're great, you're an awesome human that not only keeps three people alive and nourishes relationships around her, and has started a business adventure very courageously, but has recovered herself back to where she is now where she can fill her own cup and now teaches others to do the same. You're one of those people that have a certain light of goodness in them and you do good with what you do, even just with being you, honestly, so I hope you feel the love from this side too and you're able to feel hopeful at this trying time. Love from Spain Xx
So many times feel the same frustration..
Thank you. I appreciated this a lot. I like thinking about the seasonality of life.
I also love the rose bush analogy. Last year I pruned an old one down to 4” and it came back better than all the rest with huge blooms the following season. I couldn’t believe it was the same plant.
I just had my 2nd built bar today right before watching this video! I bought them for my labor/delivery hospital bag because you suggested snacks, snacks, snacks. This box won’t make it to the hospital at all!
You don’t know how much I needed to hear this today. 2021 has been a train wreck to my life so far 🙃. Thank you for this wisdom.❤️
Thanks! Perfect timing as we came back from the hospital with our 3 months old
You are amazing! I’m a new mama of a 2 month old baby girl and I really needed to hear this ❤️
I feel like we just went through the same thing! Thank you, Jessica. You are wonderful.
I am so happy I happened to stumble across this video. I am first time mom to a 5 month old. And just as I was starting to feel better, adjusting, things were getting easier. Things are getting harder again and I just really needed to hear this. Thank you.
Can I just say that your kindness, gentleness, and positivity are encouragement in themselves? You are such a lovely soul, I think I'd feel encouraged if I watched you eat toast lol. This video was most timely for me as I felt down and ashamed for being so overwhelmed by my mum and home life when it is objectively much less hard than my job ever was. So thank you, you are a Godsent.❤️ 🌹
“I think I’d feel encouraged if I watched you eat toast” I love that 😂😂 I feel the same, her spirit is such a light
Jessica spreads light. Good work Jessica 💝
This made me cry. Amazing analogy and story. This really hit home. Thank you. ❤
Today was the day I needed this. I love you.
This was so needed and so important for me . Thank you Jess
This made me cry, thank you for your words Jessica, I needed them.
You remembered the bar!!!! 🎊
Edited to add: also, thank you. I did need that.
Love you ❤️
One minute into your video and I’m already just so thankful to you for your content. Thank you. I’m eight months postpartum with our first baby and I have felt so similarly so many times. Thank you for sharing what you do. It’s so good to hear ❤️❤️
You made me want to cry thank you Jess
Thanks Jess, hope you’re doing well.
I felt this way this morning. House is a mess and little projects aren’t done.
What a lovely, lovely video. So encouraging in this difficult season . Thanks Jess ❤️
Today I feel like an ugly little bush. Thanks for reminding me there are still beautiful things ahead of me.
Love these words of encouragement! You’re such a great story teller! I hope you feel better after making your viewers feel better too!
I really needed this today! Thank you for the encouragement and reminder that just because I feel like a blob right now, it’s temporary.. ❤️
Your thought process always makes me smile. I love listening to you explain things and share your knowledge because it's very clear that it's your knowledge and not fed to you by someone else. It's true to you and it's beautiful. You're a beautiful soul and I appreciate you. Thank you for this video, I definitely needed it.
You hit the spot Jessica. Thank you.
Love your encouraging self ☺️💞 thank you for sharing
You are the most wonderful human. You are great. Enjoy what you can these days. I believe in you, Jess!
Thank you for making this encouraging - and very needed - video. "There are different seasons for different blossoms" - I need this printed on a t-shirt, coffee mug, etc! You are such a beautiful soul!
PS: I LOVE your shirt. Where'd you get it?!
This is amazing, thank you for sharing!! I have been a long time follower and love hearing what you have to say - you may feel like you are staring at everything screaming at you sometimes, but mama you radiate with such beauty and love, and your little ones feel that and love you! Thank you for the much needed pep talk- I appreciate your wisdom :)
Awww ❤️. What a sweetie
What a sweet video, thanks for giving me some hope
Love this message🤍 Thank you Jessica!
I needed to hear this today. Thank you!
I can't stop crying. Thank you.
Thank you! I need this this morning!
thank you, sweet girl ❤️❤️❤️
Great analogy
Thank you for putting this in. I am in the really same situation 😭
Thank you for this!! You’re awesome! You got this!
This is so good! Thank you so much for the encouragement.♥️
Thanks Jess. Needed to hear this. 💕
i had a pretty rough day today, this is exactly the upload i needed to come across. thank you so much.
Love this! Thanks so much for the encouragement ❤️
I needed this. Thank you Jess.
Thank You.
You are amazing Jess, don´t give up, I am sure with patient things will be like you expected. ❤️ Thank you for sharing.
Jessica thank you!
thank you so much for this analogy, 15 weeks pp and I def needed to be reminded!
This is exactly where I am at in my life right now. Thanks Jess!
Thank you for this, it was needed.
DONT COMPARE YOUR BUSH WITH YOUR FRIENDS BUSH 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 love you Jess you are sent by Jesus
Love this! I know I needed to hear this today and believe many others do too, so thank you... and be encouraged yourself! You are making a difference to people.
Needed this, thank you for sharing!
Thank you
😭😭😭😭😭 Thank you for this.
Needed this! Shared it with all my mama friends. Hit me right in the feels. Thanks Jess 💜
WHEW 😅 I needed this today 😭😭😭
thank you for this.
Thank you for this! 💕