Man Walks Away from Girl for NOT Listening to Him

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @GIboy1990
    @GIboy1990 5 месяцев назад +147

    The cheating woman. You got it wrong. Shes trying to catch him with a domestic violence charge. She wants him to push her out of the way so she can call the cops and get him arrested

    • @rcg1111
      @rcg1111 5 месяцев назад +7

      💯

    • @humanspida
      @humanspida 5 месяцев назад +21

      he was smart and stayed calm, and recorded the entire time

    • @Seashelle564
      @Seashelle564 4 месяца назад +3

      🎯

    • @RobotSantaClaus
      @RobotSantaClaus Месяц назад +15

      This literally happened to a family friend and neighbor. Dude had separated, got back together so the kids they had together grew up in a normal family (I remember my parents telling him it was stupid). He bought a really nice house and within a month she’d called the cops claiming domestic violence and had him arrested at 3am. He wasn’t even home when it supposedly happened, he had gone to chat with my parents. Their kids also didn’t corroborate that a fight had happened and she had no signs of anything. He still had to leave, she kept living in the house he’d just bought a month ago and she also kept half of the sale income when it was sold. It’s insane how callous and manipulative she was and how biased the system was against him

    • @vananon51
      @vananon51 Месяц назад

      She was a despicable wretch. The legal system is completely corrupt; it f**ks men over and flavors women 95% of the time even if she’s trash.

  • @johnmaxwell1356
    @johnmaxwell1356 5 месяцев назад +299

    I was married, 23 years. Raised 2 daughters. I put EVERYTHING I made, earned, was given, into the marriage. Kids are now grown, wife decides she doesn't want to be married anymore...at least to me. Been divorced 1.5 years. Making more, and saving more, than ever before. Plan to retire in ~5 years. I know she still has over 500k in debt (she bought/kept the house). I will NEVER remarry. It's been said by many men before me but I'll say it again. Marriage is a terrible deal for any man these days. There is virtually no upside and only pain, debt, disrespect and loneliness on the other side. Stay single. Let these women get exactly what they wanted. Equality. It means working for 40+ years, being alone, no one having your back. Welcome to the club ladies.

    • @SM-wz5mw
      @SM-wz5mw 5 месяцев назад +17

      Thanks for the words of encouragement. Some of us need to be reminded. I hope u don't take her back

    • @daisi4925
      @daisi4925 5 месяцев назад +7

      You speak well sir. I had a bad marriage but did what a wife should do until the g#$. I’m old stay away from all this foolish world! Sounds silly when I say what others tried to shove it down my throat, I’m with Jesus. I pray your life stays well

    • @JR-zd7ns
      @JR-zd7ns 5 месяцев назад +9

      No one had your back to begin with.
      Marriage is the illusion of support for a man.

    • @sheepdogonthehill
      @sheepdogonthehill 5 месяцев назад +8

      Almost the same as my situation. “WE” always had horrible credit with creditors calling constantly. Ten years later, 800 credit score, OWN my house and 100% debt free. Happiness is a gift she gave you by filing for divorce.

    • @johnmaxwell1356
      @johnmaxwell1356 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@sheepdogonthehill Congrats on turning a bas situation into a win.

  • @respectmyprivacy
    @respectmyprivacy Месяц назад +15

    I used to believe "communication is key", until I realized the importance of "comprehension".

  • @fngrusty42
    @fngrusty42 4 месяца назад +37

    Im 70 married once 47 years we go everywhere together. Hunting fishing camping and vacations. Great life find the one that wants to be with you. Not her friends.

  • @bmc348
    @bmc348 4 месяца назад +64

    I grew up in a more traditional household. My mom, and both grandmothers were housewives. The only time they ever worked was when there was a need for extra money, and it was temporary. When my guidance counselor asked me what I wanted to do for a career I said I wanted to be a housewife. I truly meant it because I loved the dynamic of our household. The men were loving leaders and the wives were loving helpers. Tons of rough times, but everyone got through it together.

    • @Just_Call_Me_Tim
      @Just_Call_Me_Tim Месяц назад +1

      I'm coming out of a 14 year long relationship (last 7 married).
      What you describe is all I want(ed). I was willing to forego a lot of what I wanted in life to provide for her, but doing so kept me away, and she wanted out. It wasn't working for either of us, tbh.
      But, I've had a lot of time to reflect, and I'm coming into my own. I'm going to get my health and fitness in order, go for my MBA and my insurance license, and see what happens. _Hopefully,_ I'll be able to find someone who wants me and the same as I do before much longer. 😅

    • @bmc348
      @bmc348 Месяц назад

      @@Just_Call_Me_Tim .... a man with a plan! I hope you find someone with the same goals and ideals. It's not easy finding someone with similar beliefs. I've been looking for a long time.

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats Месяц назад +1

      Absolutely!! A marriage should be like two halves of a whole coming together and each bringing with it different qualities. People forget that men and women were designed to play different roles to each other. It’s worked for thousands of years that way and yet people started messing with it under the guise of feminism and it’s led to a situation where we will likely see fewer and fewer successful marriages and children being raised since the dynamics just don’t fit together anymore.

    • @taustin6524
      @taustin6524 Месяц назад

      Oh, they always WORKED! They just didn’t always get a paycheck at the end of the week.

  • @easter_sunday
    @easter_sunday 5 месяцев назад +82

    Just remember: No matter what happens, it's ALWAYS your fault, and she's a victim..because of you.

  • @ardabruh1340
    @ardabruh1340 5 месяцев назад +86

    A girl that would reject her friend because it would "ruin the friendship" is so selfish without being blatant. You're basically saying you like how you're treated and you like the "conversations" and thats the reason you ignore the other person's feelings and hope that they smother those feelings by the time the subject comes up again.

    • @favoritebro59
      @favoritebro59 5 месяцев назад +12

      He needs to dodge that bullet with that woman putting him in the friendzone, and find another woman that values and respects him.

    • @michellemcgill9328
      @michellemcgill9328 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yet if he were to get an actual girlfriend suddenly she’d get all bent out of shape about it. Guys, stay away from these manipulative witches. This is coming from a woman.

    • @JasonNewsted420
      @JasonNewsted420 4 месяца назад

      Men are useful. Whenever a girl is "scared to ruin the friendship" she's just scared she's gonna lose all the free rides, meals and attention

  • @markpack1111
    @markpack1111 5 месяцев назад +25

    The girl in the silver body suit said she respects her new boyfriend .. no ladies night? Yet she's out for ladies night??
    Dressing like that...
    Lololol

    • @MrRager0420
      @MrRager0420 4 месяца назад

      I dont think she was on a girls night, girls flock like seagulls and there were no other ladies around

  • @Οδυσσεύς_Κ
    @Οδυσσεύς_Κ 5 месяцев назад +51

    This is not a modern woman phenomenon, but simply women being women, my father said
    "women want you to be masculine, but switch up and be soft at their whim, and still be masculine", he is 64 and is what we call a Chad, so women seem to have always been like that, what changed is the control men exerted upon women, men are those who lost the ball by doing what women say instead of doing what men themselves want.

    • @heavensea141
      @heavensea141 5 месяцев назад +1

      Chads and Tyrone's are doing the public service, in all reality they are the best gift's who keep on giving for every None Chads and Tyrone's.
      You're have every reason to be provd of you're father!

  • @aggressivequack9074
    @aggressivequack9074 5 месяцев назад +26

    As a 27yo man with a blacksmithing and welding business I aint never getting married. Heard way too many horror stories of men getting there lives destroyed from marrying the wrong person.

    • @zarahsgarden2097
      @zarahsgarden2097 Месяц назад

      Honestly, that can go both ways

    • @villain6634
      @villain6634 Месяц назад +2

      @@zarahsgarden2097 yes but it generally harms men more just cuz biased laws

    • @zarahsgarden2097
      @zarahsgarden2097 Месяц назад +1

      @villain6634 yes legally I agree, but mental distress and @buse of any kind (financial, emotional or physical) can be very damaging to a person. Which is why its important for everyone to be critical and have good judgment before choosing a life partner whether you plan to get married or not. Good luck out there 🖖

    • @chrislarue1389
      @chrislarue1389 Месяц назад +2

      @@zarahsgarden2097 it also effects men beyond legal aspects. Although men massively under report it they do get SA’d and domestic violence as well it’s just okay in society to a degree that you can see a women beating on a dude and everyone is standing filming it happen. Statistically women are more abusive and more likely to initiate and be the reason for divorce. Just look up lesbian marriage statistics for these subjects

  • @civroger
    @civroger 5 месяцев назад +119

    Nose rings are a red flag.

    • @KmartToaster-th2hm
      @KmartToaster-th2hm 5 месяцев назад +24

      why? many farm animals have nose rings..... cows..... pigs...... feminists......

    • @K101cool
      @K101cool 5 месяцев назад +1

      Dayum i dont have any words​@@KmartToaster-th2hm

    • @FirestoneAnimation
      @FirestoneAnimation 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​​@@KmartToaster-th2hmYou gave examples to boost the argument. As well as answer your own question.

    • @fridaycaliforniaa236
      @fridaycaliforniaa236 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@FirestoneAnimation LMAO

    • @videontekuro9399
      @videontekuro9399 Месяц назад

      Well, on rare occasions, some aren't bad. Nose rings in the west may be a red flag, but in Europe, it's a rarity and the ones who do happen to have one, they are probably just a goth.

  • @christophertaylor9100
    @christophertaylor9100 5 месяцев назад +44

    Its also worth understanding that a pretty face don't mean a pretty heart, as Robert Palmer put it

    • @kingscairn
      @kingscairn 4 месяца назад

      Oh yeah - Robert Palmer ' Used Addictions '

  • @rdptll
    @rdptll 5 месяцев назад +56

    3:15 she’s literally wearing a skin tight leather outfit standing on the street getting gawked at by 10,000 ppl and she said she compromised on “girls night out”.
    304s.

    • @naalex132
      @naalex132 4 месяца назад +1

      s304 ?

    • @LisaNC832
      @LisaNC832 2 месяца назад

      ​@@naalex132 304= promiscuous woman

    • @alecedgerly1277
      @alecedgerly1277 22 дня назад +2

      I’d hate to see what it was like before the “compromise” 🤣

  • @cynicist8114
    @cynicist8114 5 месяцев назад +41

    Girl talking about loyalty is just exposing her own failures with Chad. Where is the female loyalty?
    When you've been passed around as community property for a decade, what you've actually done is cheated on that potential husband that you would have had if you had maintained your purity.
    Why should any man wife up a woman that has been with multiple men? It makes no sense to me. She's not yours and wasn't from the start. Don't be surprised when she leaves you because she's been practicing for it all her life.

    • @JR-zd7ns
      @JR-zd7ns 5 месяцев назад +4

      Wise words

  • @SonOfTheDevil666
    @SonOfTheDevil666 5 месяцев назад +23

    I don’t need a woman to sleep all day and look cute,
    that’s why I have a pitbull

    • @thatguy6227
      @thatguy6227 4 месяца назад +1

      I love the energy but I hope that’s all the pit bull is for

    • @kingscairn
      @kingscairn 4 месяца назад

      Well, I got Rosy Palm and her five daughters - and dont have to feed em 🥴

  • @KiwiBay2.0
    @KiwiBay2.0 5 месяцев назад +118

    Women with nose rings = RED FLAG.

    • @skunk12
      @skunk12 4 месяца назад +13

      ...and tattoos. Yes, really. (Even the teeny, tiny hidden ones)

    • @udififkfkfck
      @udififkfkfck 4 месяца назад +1

      Ringed tongue green light

    • @udififkfkfck
      @udififkfkfck 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@skunk12if she has tattooed my name above her cave all good

    • @skunk12
      @skunk12 4 месяца назад +5

      @@udififkfkfck what if she got the dude she was with before you met her?
      🤮

    • @JackSparrowTheCAPTAIN
      @JackSparrowTheCAPTAIN 4 месяца назад +1

      +1

  • @lorenhewitt8279
    @lorenhewitt8279 5 месяцев назад +20

    I’m part of the baby boomer generation. It seems to me that the current generation is destroying itself because they don’t want to grow up.

    • @LisaNC832
      @LisaNC832 2 месяца назад +5

      Gen X here 🙋‍♀️ and I agree

    • @JiimJosty
      @JiimJosty Месяц назад +1

      im part of the generation you speak of but was raised by someone of your generation, thank you for this very accurate comment, i fully agree lol

    • @Nofapman32
      @Nofapman32 Месяц назад

      Ok punk you bought your house for 5 raisins . Can’t stand how out of touch you boomers are

    • @apokatastasian2831
      @apokatastasian2831 Месяц назад

      lol the Boomers came up with all of this and swiped the credit card on the future so hard, we can't afford places to live or to eat anymore. what do ya'll vote for? more of the same.
      when the boomers were starting out, minimum wage was 5 silver quarters worth 40$ today.
      you guys voted to debase the currency, debase economics, debase healthcare, burned your bras, spit on veterans and stood by silently while rights were eroded and they bulldozed everything to build a new target and wendys.
      and now ya'll say we are destoying ourselves? the fact that you can't see it is proof that you guys never grew up...a bunch of 70 year old children.
      ate the center out of every pie, and think we're fools for not wanting to duke it out over the crust...

  • @morecringe89
    @morecringe89 5 месяцев назад +48

    Wait lol she dresses like that and she said she compromised.... LOL, I feel bad for the guy

    • @christophertaylor9100
      @christophertaylor9100 5 месяцев назад +14

      Imagine what she was like before the compromise heh

    • @nikkiidomagala
      @nikkiidomagala 5 месяцев назад +10

      Exactly what I was thinking.. How a woman dresses shows how much she respects herself and if she doesn't respect herself she's not going to respect her man. Listen to the words but watch the actions, people can be master manipulators. She's not going to the library at night in that outfit.

  • @nikkiidomagala
    @nikkiidomagala 5 месяцев назад +26

    15:00 this is 100% true. My man is one of the biggest reasons I became the woman I am today. He makes me want to be and do better just by him being himself.

    • @scarasara
      @scarasara 5 месяцев назад +3

      Me too. I look up to my husband. He's accomplished so much and no matter what gets up and goes to work. He works hard all for our family. He's an amazing man. We're lucky i dont think there's many left mostly because these women have made them never want to marry

    • @nikkiidomagala
      @nikkiidomagala 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@scarasara very lucky and I completely agree. After my man's ex he was completely done with woman till we started hanging out. She was absolutely horrible to him😞. So I understand why he felt that way and feel very lucky that he even gave me a chance after what he went through. It warms my heart so much to hear from other women who actually cherish their men. I don't come across it much in real life other than older women and the ladies I do bible study with, who are also mainly older women😅.

    • @ericbrown1132
      @ericbrown1132 Месяц назад

      The sad part as many women don’t understand they mold themselves around the men in their life. To me it sounds like you have become the very woman your man needs, and if anything ever happened to him you would never be able to mold yourself around a new man the same way. This is the reason men choose younger women, why would a guy want a woman that’s perfect for another man/men. It’s not so much the age but the experiences she had that has become expectations. And becomes a reason women who had a father in the house do better, they were molded around a certain level of respect and decency.

    • @nikkiidomagala
      @nikkiidomagala Месяц назад +1

      @@ericbrown1132 if anything ever happened to my man, god forbid, I honestly wouldn't even try to move on. No man could/will ever take his spot. He owns that spot forever. So I get where you are coming from.

  • @merissacarlisle8043
    @merissacarlisle8043 5 месяцев назад +7

    I don't watch anything but youtube... I cannot believe what people put online!

  • @robbyrocksoo
    @robbyrocksoo 5 месяцев назад +12

    To the lady complaining that there are no real men, that men all have to take good women, and break them down, I am willing to bet that she walks by many REAL MEN every day, just to get to the Chad's that break her down. In fact I bet her, and many other girls actually lined up, and waited their turn to get broken down by Chad. Now she wants pity?

  • @robertkerr229
    @robertkerr229 5 месяцев назад +206

    Marriage: Lacks meaning outside a God-first relationship. That's entirely what's broken about marriage.

    • @ashlynndemorrow1037
      @ashlynndemorrow1037 5 месяцев назад +12

      On 🎯

    • @233kosta
      @233kosta 5 месяцев назад

      God botherers were still a thing in the '60s when f3minists ruined dating, and in the '80s when the government ruined marriage. The decline of religion on a large scale is much more recent. Those problems already existed.

    • @djcj424
      @djcj424 5 месяцев назад +11

      Completely right sir

    • @scarasara
      @scarasara 5 месяцев назад +5

      True. Those words mean something and unless u are serious when u say them dont get married. Its work, its not always great. But if u love that person its so worth it. Having your best friend and lover by your side unconditionally is absolutely amazing

    • @Zathren
      @Zathren 5 месяцев назад +15

      Exactly. It was a religious institution that the government never should have touched. Which is why they did of course. When I get married, it will be an agreement between me, her, and God. Not sleepy Joe.

  • @ilia.katherine
    @ilia.katherine 5 месяцев назад +10

    I'm a woman and I'm waiting until marriage. All my friends are doing the same. It's completely possible to get married and have a family with a man who's waiting too, whoever it's mostly because of religious reasons/organisations. Which makes it difficult for non believers.

  • @YeshivishChal
    @YeshivishChal 5 месяцев назад +30

    The "ideal world" of saving intimacy for marriage very much exists in certain religious worlds and heck it's AWESOME

    • @runirox6841
      @runirox6841 5 месяцев назад

      What about those boys/girls who were forced into intimacy as a minor? (Pdfiles, etc) are they just ruined because of womething they had no control over? Thats fucked up man

    • @barbarat5729
      @barbarat5729 5 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@runirox6841Your example is ridiculous and has NOTING to do with the original comment.

    • @runirox6841
      @runirox6841 5 месяцев назад

      @@barbarat5729 it literally says saving intimacy for marriage,

    • @I_am_doomed
      @I_am_doomed 5 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@runirox6841That's oddly specific dude. The main comment didn't talk about those people.
      Believe me, most men desire for a long term relationship. I too, won't be intimate until marriage. Your example is the exception

    • @bungalowdweller
      @bungalowdweller 5 месяцев назад +4

      My daughter is waiting. I know quite a few young women who are waiting. They are attractive, educated, and godly. That's the crux. Their faith is the most important thing in their lives. They don't drink so they don't go to bars. I can say, though, that my girl has spoken with more than one man who has said something along these lines, "Now that I've been around, sowed my wild oats, I'm ready to get married and settle down with a nice girl." Questions, gentlemen. If you don't want a girl who has been had by the entire village, why do you think that a girl who has saved herself would want to settle down with you? It cuts both ways. I feel for what the young generation of men are going through however. If you can't find a woman of virtue who is worth your time, you are better off spending your time, talent and treasure becoming the best man you can be. IMHO I think women have lost. their. minds.

  • @preacherbillf
    @preacherbillf 5 месяцев назад +8

    That's how kids treat their parents. no time to text HI or I love you.

  • @jecsquire9508
    @jecsquire9508 5 месяцев назад +16

    I have explained the same thing to the women in my life: mother, friends and girlfriends: you can ask me to do something, tell me how it should be done or set the time to do it.
    You may not do all 3 unless i have requested it. I dont treat you like a servant, i will not be treated as one.

    • @6feetunderpants
      @6feetunderpants 5 месяцев назад

      Explain this in more detail plz.
      Is this a "pick 2 out of 3" thing? Or "pick 1 at a time"?
      Also - how can she "set a time" without "asking to do something"? Does that make it okay for her to say "trash can empty by 5PM, I am no longer asking"? I don't get it.

  • @johnqdoe8841
    @johnqdoe8841 4 месяца назад +6

    Its almost like there is a entity who hates mankind and is attempting to destroy humanity while claiming to hold it dear.

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats Месяц назад

      Actually, it’s more like the entity that loves and holds mankind dear set out ways to live in order to have a happy life only for mankind to ignore those things and do the opposite and then the world falls apart. If you’re going to make the comment then at least make sure that it makes logical sense :-/

    • @Tw7nn
      @Tw7nn 12 дней назад

      jezebel & Delilah spirits

  • @JensMorrison
    @JensMorrison 5 месяцев назад +11

    I'm 37, married for 15 years. My wife is amazing. She doesn't play games. She's not a child. She's not an idiot.

    • @zoeorchid
      @zoeorchid День назад +2

      I am so glad you found someone like that!

    • @JensMorrison
      @JensMorrison День назад

      @@zoeorchid Me too! Haha Thank you!

  • @scottdoubleyou563
    @scottdoubleyou563 5 месяцев назад +11

    Unless there's a 3 piece suit from John Phillips of London in that dryer, just bail my guy. Clothes are pretty cheap and easily replaced.

  • @nikkiidomagala
    @nikkiidomagala 5 месяцев назад +14

    I think one of the reasons my man and I have lasted so long, 8 years, 2 months, 3 days🥰, is because we have never competed. Against each other or against others for each other. We have never had a reason too. We do more for one another then most couples do but its not because we are competing. Its because of the love we have for each other. Since our first date we have been glued together and others romantically have been invisible to us.

  • @unhipalmond3602
    @unhipalmond3602 5 месяцев назад +21

    These broken women did it to themselves. Just grab some 🍿 & 🍺 and enjoy the show.

    • @runirox6841
      @runirox6841 5 месяцев назад

      It takes two to do that…men have high body counts too

    • @davidfarkas3596
      @davidfarkas3596 4 месяца назад

      ​@@runirox6841Don't you dare to speak in my name 😆

    • @unhipalmond3602
      @unhipalmond3602 3 месяца назад

      @runirox6841 only Chads and Tyrones have high body counts. The average man doesn't. So blame the Chads and Tyrones.

    • @GMonry-p9n
      @GMonry-p9n Месяц назад

      ​@@runirox6841you allowed this. You control access. Men just take what's given. Take accountability

  • @wholikesDubuqueorme
    @wholikesDubuqueorme 4 месяца назад +4

    Made me feel really good at the end of this video. My wife and I met early in high school and have been together 14 years with 2 kids and are each others 1 and only.
    Makes me feel really sad that something like this is rare now a days.

  • @Eidolon5150
    @Eidolon5150 5 месяцев назад +13

    Never getting married, got too much to lose.

    • @JR-zd7ns
      @JR-zd7ns 5 месяцев назад +2

      "To find a wife is a good thing."
      I'm not saying you are wrong. I'm saying that unicorns do exist, and if you happen to find one, you should marry her. Make sure she is a WIFE and not another 304. Odds are good she is a 304 though...

  • @michellemcgill9328
    @michellemcgill9328 5 месяцев назад +6

    I warn my Stepsons to never take any Garbage or accept the Friend zone. I tell them “she’s either interested or she isn’t” Their answer to me usually is “ I’m married to ( insert sport) so proud.

  • @Old_White_Guy
    @Old_White_Guy 5 месяцев назад +4

    Sometimes I wish I had internet as I grew up. So much helpful information and opinions, they would have saved me so much trouble and pain...

    • @Kidsloveguns
      @Kidsloveguns 4 месяца назад

      Agree Agree Agree !! Now 53 and am in a good place, got some lucky breaks and made some good choices . But I still get that involuntary shiver and self cringe when random memories ( in my 20’s till 31 ) of how I gave away / compromised my boundaries to someone I knew deep down wasn’t right . Had red pill thoughts but lacked the courage and focus. Having access to and knowing you’re not alone,that there is a better way , with many examples would have been a great asset.

  • @supremelordoftheuniverse5449
    @supremelordoftheuniverse5449 5 месяцев назад +27

    A woman having a past is a huge red flag.

    • @byJessCh
      @byJessCh 5 месяцев назад +5

      Yet, you wouldn't mind spending nights with random women and raising their body counts. But you are here complaining.

    • @runirox6841
      @runirox6841 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@byJessCh i like that , not every women is a virgin and many men sleep around just as much, or more

    • @byJessCh
      @byJessCh 5 месяцев назад

      @@runirox6841 Yep. Walking male STDs talking about pure and virgin women 🤣

    • @supremelordoftheuniverse5449
      @supremelordoftheuniverse5449 5 месяцев назад

      @@byJessCh thanks ❤️ you too 👍🏿

    • @unexpectedpotato1184
      @unexpectedpotato1184 5 месяцев назад

      You like them illegally young then lol

  • @ejtaylor73
    @ejtaylor73 5 месяцев назад +6

    EFFECTIVE communication is key!! It doesn't matter what you say, if the other person doesn't understand, then you have failed to communicate your needs. Like saying "I noticed the trash was almost full," that does NOT mean you want me to take it out, you FAILED to EFFECTIVELY communicate your needs, and I'll get to it when it IS FULL.

  • @Shaynuhfay
    @Shaynuhfay 5 месяцев назад +5

    The engagement ring is based on a verbal contract. Men should take women to court if they refuse to relinquish the engagement ring. That's the law in America and common sense says it's the right thing to do.

  • @jorgebarriosmur
    @jorgebarriosmur 5 месяцев назад +6

    6:52 Leave your things behind and run for the hills.......You can always buy more things......your freedom, peace of mind, AND your security (both phisical, and from forged allegations) is, literally, invaluable......

  • @OldManPaxusYT
    @OldManPaxusYT 5 месяцев назад +5

    16:22 THIS! THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND!!! PLEASE THINK ON THIS!
    I ruined my WHOLE LIFE because i chose my wife when i was young and dumb. Didn't listen to family, friends or even that inner voice, that warns you.... DON'T LET IT HAPPEN TO YOU!
    Some damages cannot be repaired too. No one tells you this but you can do your mind, heart, soul and life permanent injuries! 😲

  • @ejtaylor73
    @ejtaylor73 5 месяцев назад +5

    17:36 You can't force men to be homeless when they are the ones building the homes!!

  • @marvin4827
    @marvin4827 4 месяца назад +3

    Wimmen want a man to provide for & protect them but don't want to submit. News flash: YOU can't protect someone you have no control over.

  • @Brian-WolfmanJack99
    @Brian-WolfmanJack99 5 месяцев назад +6

    That last girl.... what a faker. I think she passed on too many good guys and now she's paying for it.

  • @johnblackhead2384
    @johnblackhead2384 5 месяцев назад +294

    I’m 60 and have been divorced twice. I would not recommend marriage, ever. Odds are you’ll regret it. Remember, I warned you.

    • @chunkyd5880
      @chunkyd5880 5 месяцев назад +12

      A lot of men don't tough the hot stove twice. These kids need the warning.

    • @sleelofwpg688
      @sleelofwpg688 5 месяцев назад +6

      I was only engaged. Still regret it.

    • @johnblackhead2384
      @johnblackhead2384 5 месяцев назад +13

      @@chunkyd5880 In my defense, the rack on wife #2 was to die for. You know, the beauties that prevent you from speaking properly? I was helpless. 😂. I paid beyond money though.

    • @TheBestPill-no2xp
      @TheBestPill-no2xp 5 месяцев назад +26

      I have been married for 23 years. Most of you guys would be lucky to have a wife like mine. *I still wouldn't recommend getting married for all the reasons the original poster said.* We have no married friends left. The women were always the problem. They were never satisfied with anything. They had an insatiable wanderlust. And yes, they looked at my wife and had the nerve to feel sorry for her because she was still married to me.

    • @hadassah356
      @hadassah356 5 месяцев назад +25

      I highly recommend marriage. I’ve only done it once, and that was 40 years ago, though. There are adjustments, and you have to be able to compromise and make adjustments, but once you do, it’s great! Of course you have to find a great person.

  • @balltonge79
    @balltonge79 3 месяца назад +1

    Be straightforward works. My wife used to get mad, eventually she got over it and communication is much much much better. Almost 20 years happily married.

  • @Untoldtruth_01
    @Untoldtruth_01 День назад

    You are completely right,they live in a fantasy

  • @jflores85
    @jflores85 5 месяцев назад +3

    The 2 truths and a lie kid. damn. They like having you around and that she COULD have you but once you declare your desire for her, she no longer wants you. never reveal your intentions, 48 laws of power

  • @JiimJosty
    @JiimJosty Месяц назад +1

    thank you for bringing fredo into this that made my day

  • @Jordzyi1
    @Jordzyi1 5 месяцев назад +7

    I’m staying single until women are educated

    • @mariamdjama2698
      @mariamdjama2698 5 месяцев назад +2

      Wtf… most are educated yet you will never get the educated ones 😂😂😂

    • @runirox6841
      @runirox6841 5 месяцев назад

      @@mariamdjama2698 yessir,

    • @msharp6887
      @msharp6887 12 дней назад

      @@mariamdjama2698properly educated

  • @D4rthridiculous
    @D4rthridiculous 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much Griffinmind. It is always refreshing to hear truth poured out constantly as to how to navigate modern woman attitudes.

  • @Marshal_Dunnik
    @Marshal_Dunnik 5 месяцев назад +3

    15:26 "a binary understanding of love and attraction."
    Someone is either attracted to you, or they are not.
    Someone either loves you, or they do not.

  • @fourthhorseman9751
    @fourthhorseman9751 19 дней назад

    They dont have a clue what they want. You provide that direction.

  • @motelghost477
    @motelghost477 5 месяцев назад +38

    FACT: women would be ten times happier if their fathers chose their husbands for them.

    • @runirox6841
      @runirox6841 5 месяцев назад

      No.. arranged marriages are gross are usually for financial gain, its not love, thats not right.

    • @billybob-cl6im
      @billybob-cl6im 5 месяцев назад +1

      No... the Muslims *gulp* got it right? 😰

    • @1495978707
      @1495978707 5 месяцев назад +2

      No, they'd be angry, like a kid who's not allowed to go play in the mud in his Sunday best before a wedding, or not allowed to touch the hot stovetop or play with an alligator. If they don't understand that you're trying to keep them from getting hurt, they'll be angry that you would dare tell them what to do

    • @RandyFricke
      @RandyFricke 5 месяцев назад +1

      My late wife actually told me once that she fell in love with me because I reminded her of her father. He was very stoic and set in his principles.

    • @kenhasibar2624
      @kenhasibar2624 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's creepy and archaic. Should your mommy choose your wife for you? Cuz that's creepy and archaic.

  • @bigal2876
    @bigal2876 Месяц назад

    I love it when someone voiced over a big girl “I am Optimus Prime”! I couldn’t stop laughing!

  • @amyblasingim2136
    @amyblasingim2136 5 месяцев назад +16

    The girl who is upset because he won Super Bowl tickets needs to chill. Taking her just because she is “a fan of Vegas” is silly, because they won’t “be” together, he will be at the game and she will be elsewhere. Take him up on doing something before or after and let he and his friend enjoy the game!

  • @BigBadGato
    @BigBadGato 4 месяца назад +1

    Speaking of cutting people off, I had to do that with my best friend of 24 years. We literally met each other when we were three but he has no motivation. He's almost 30 and still lives at home and just wants to get up smoke weed and play video games all day and being around him and listening to his bitching about how much he does is so draining. You can only listen to someone put themselves on a pedestal that does absolutely nothing for so long.

  • @abnmp7865
    @abnmp7865 5 месяцев назад +4

    The woman in front of the dryer- they also do it in hopes you’ll push them out of the way and then call the cops. Good that he recorded it. But as said, write the clothes off or get someone else to get them later.

  • @ogrehaslayers605
    @ogrehaslayers605 4 месяца назад +1

    I have NEVER dated/married a woman who had even remedial communication skills.
    Almost every man ive ever interacted with in my life can get his point across very easily.

  • @AmericanAmy
    @AmericanAmy 5 месяцев назад +3

    That’s a nice looking young man (way too young for me so I don’t find him attractive like that but I still say he’s a nice looking young man) He definitely looks better than her. (It’s not all about looks but damn what is she have going for her ? What is this magical friendship about where she gets the dump all her feelings on him ? Probably .) What is wrong with her? I thought it was cool how he was telling her he liked her and she fucked it all up. Then she was so stupid enough to believe he was joking.

    • @jip230
      @jip230 Месяц назад

      Maybe he has a jacked-up personality, is goofy and immature, or she has a crush on someone else - or she just doesn't see HIM that way. People may not like you or want to be with you for any multitude of reasons and they don't necessarily owe anyone an explanation for that. Just because he's handsome he's OWED her attention?!? GTFOH, there is so much more in whether you want to be with someone or not than how they look.

  • @geegstar
    @geegstar 27 дней назад

    When a man gives his heart, really GIVES it, he gives everything he has.
    As strong as they are, that is their kryptonite and sadly, a lot of women use that fact to get what they want.

  • @KnoX-oUt
    @KnoX-oUt 5 месяцев назад +4

    Keep it up griffin! Expose them all lol

  • @revanjagergaming8714
    @revanjagergaming8714 Месяц назад

    Been married for 17 years, since we were 17 years old. Love my wife more than anything. I was fortunate to find one of the good ones, it wasn't easy but we have never been happier and we have a beautiful, incredibly smart son together. Don't give up guys it is possible to find someone worth loving.

  • @Blaze-wx8li
    @Blaze-wx8li 5 месяцев назад +4

    The wall lady was called in make-up, and still looked like Michael Jackson

  • @kevandyh
    @kevandyh Месяц назад +1

    I am 60 yo, divorced, adult kids. I am never getting married again. There is no benefit for a man to be married, it is all for the woman to be secure.

  • @johnblackhead2384
    @johnblackhead2384 5 месяцев назад +4

    The chic at 8:40, is she continually going after Chads and Tyrones? Maybe try a Kevin or a Mike. You know, those guys you have ignored and rejected for really stupid reasons. Try that.

    • @jorgebarriosmur
      @jorgebarriosmur 5 месяцев назад +2

      Do you actually hate the Kevins and the Mikes of this world?
      What do you think is a lady like this going to do an average dude, after beeing through an unknown number of toxic relationships (in wich she was, the only common factor )?
      She would always feel as having "settled", knowing that she deserved a "Chad", resenting her partner for her "awfull" situation of "injustice", and make his life a hell.......... Kevin and MIke deserve better........ they deserve someone that respects and love them for who they are, and not because they were the last option of some bitter "post-wall" lady....... if that`s the only thing they can get, they are better of alone.......

  • @aidenbebbington4083
    @aidenbebbington4083 27 дней назад

    It's always about them 😂 like do they ever just sit and think "why, aren't men interested nowadays"

  • @tayhulett9526
    @tayhulett9526 Месяц назад +4

    Taking your best friend to the Superbowl instead of your girlfriend.. on her birthday, is the same as her going on a "girl's trip" without you. Inappropriate when you are in a relationship... It's about loyalty. If you want me to pick you, you have to pick me.

    • @chuck.stufff
      @chuck.stufff Месяц назад

      They should both take their wives and send them to a spa during the game.

  • @Michael-od4kd
    @Michael-od4kd 23 дня назад

    17:42 This guy gets it! We shouldn’t be able to hear each others’ thoughts, because most of them are terrible.

  • @rollingwithmoore
    @rollingwithmoore 5 месяцев назад +9

    TikTok makes me mad because it ruins great relationships

    • @lilyblagonya6329
      @lilyblagonya6329 Месяц назад +1

      It started with Facebook...remember all the Facebook divorces? I remember that. That was crazy.

    • @rollingwithmoore
      @rollingwithmoore Месяц назад

      @@lilyblagonya6329 I don’t, but I’m not surprised. I do remember women airing their dirty laundry on Facebook

  • @SquirrilahFish
    @SquirrilahFish Месяц назад +1

    The thing that seems to be the most LOST.
    It's a man's job to OBTAIN the woman, to make her desire his commitment.
    But it is HER job to RETAIN the man. To make him want to commit to her.
    The men that PROTECT their commitment the way a good woman protects her body count and womb, are the ones winning out here.

  • @kellyboland2438
    @kellyboland2438 5 месяцев назад +11

    I've been dating someone for almost 4 years. I'm with someone who is masculine. I let him do what he wants. Want to go hangout with the Bros all night? Absolutely! Just keep me in the loop as part of communication. I always do the same. I let my man know if I go somewhere unfamiliar, I let my man know I'm gonna stay the night at a gal pal's house. I even gave him her address just in case something bad happened to her or myself. His response? okay honey have fun! If you do not trust each other, the relationship won't last. It's better to break off a relationship that's boring than to cheat. The moment you have thoughts of cheating but not yet haven't, you need to really reflect on yourself and the relationship you're in. If you cheat then you suck and deserve to stay single. I let my man play games on any console he owns. All I ask is for him to take out the trash. Whenever he beats a boss battle, I wait until he is at a safe zone. I get it because I game too.

  • @randalthor2859
    @randalthor2859 Месяц назад

    I been single a looooong time now. The girl with the nose ring explained why pretty well. Losing your best friend...
    I'm never going through that again.

  • @ILOVEAMERICA-zl2pc
    @ILOVEAMERICA-zl2pc 5 месяцев назад +6

    My mom married my dad at ~45. She looked like a model. The reason women these days have no sex appeal is because they have no gym membership either. #metoo. Who else pronounces # as pound?

  • @aaronstone8147
    @aaronstone8147 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm not afraid of her. It's the fact of going to jail.

  • @kdee3492
    @kdee3492 5 месяцев назад +6

    The thing with women acting like dudes is a turn-off...very true. Had a date with this girl, very feminine, beautiful, calm, and a bit shy. She had magnification glasses, making her beautifully shaped and stunning green eyes bigger, and dressed very femininely without showing too much skin. Knowing this, the date was at a small coffee shop(Green Flag) at a narrow walkway and 2/3ds through the date she suddenly opened her mouth and burped like we did with the boys in a way that reverbed between the two buildings near us. And said, "Ah man, very sorry about that". This was so shocking as if she braked character or something. I was so shocked that I couldn't even end the date immediately but all that about her went through the window...I wasn't interested anymore in whatever. Just waited till the date ended acting as normal as I could and going home I still couldn't wrap my head around what the F happened. Cut all contact after.

    • @runirox6841
      @runirox6841 5 месяцев назад +2

      Sir…. Do you think women dont burp and fart too? We cant control how loud our burp is, or how loud or silent and deadly our farts are, she seemed like a good cute girl, and you ruined it because she had a NORMAL bodily function everyone does, maybe she couldnt keep it in, she said sorry, burping,farting and etc is normal.

    • @kdee3492
      @kdee3492 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@runirox6841 They should make an Olympic sport about the most creative ways to blame the guy. Yes, I know these are normal functions and yes, you can control the loudness. The thing is, just because something is a normal bodily function doesn't mean you have to satisfy that urge the moment you feel it. You risk embarrassing yourself and the people around you. Just like you, hopefully, don't crouch in the middle of the street for number two when you feel like it. It is called manners and reading the environment to decide if it's inappropriate. Just a quick tip, when you apologise to a guy as a woman you don't say it the way a man would say it like: "Ah man, sorry about that.", "Dude, so sorry...", "Bruh, didn't mean to, sorry." or an arbitrary of those. You act and speak femininely because, in other words, it gives the guy an "ick" as they call it. Just like the lovely ladies these days have icks for the most random things like wearing slippers, all the way to having a beard.

    • @SevillaILove
      @SevillaILove Месяц назад +1

      ​@runirox6841 As a woman who had all brothers and can burp like a frat boy, we CAN control the intensity of such functions! There is a polite way to burp as no, one can't control that like one can a fart, but one can control from flexing the strength of their diaphragm in public on a first date! I would never do that on a first date! And if it bothered my man for me to act like that, I'd always be polite about it around him.

    • @jip230
      @jip230 Месяц назад

      @@kdee3492 Um, you did this woman a solid. She deserves so much better than someone like you. Sometimes burps just happen. I've been mid-sentence and accidentally burped. Sometimes more loudly than I intended, but it caught me off guard or I couldn't hold it in. You apologize and MOVE ON. Sounds like she did that. Any friend or lover would understand that a woman is human and sometimes we get gas and can't control how it's expressed too. You sound like a complete knob of a human being

    • @Harkz0r
      @Harkz0r 15 дней назад

      I want to tell you that I find it very strange to be so bothered by things like that, because I generally want people to feel comfortable being themselves. As long as they're not combative, accusatory and/or competitive in a mean-spirited way I generally don't care about things like gendered etiquette (though I would be mildly disgusted if anyone did that of either sex without saying so much as an 'excuse me').
      But I have had my own feelings shift when I've discovered things about a girl such as them smoking weed or being self-described feminists, so I kind of get it.

  • @KLEPTOROTH
    @KLEPTOROTH 5 месяцев назад +2

    I feel how the lady at 29:00 feels about loyalty about just standard human kindness. Like when I go into a store and an employee is nice to me, I talk about it like it was some great experience, or if I have a problem with something and I go and discuss it with an employee, I expect to get yelled at and told I'm the one in the wrong for daring to have a problem with anything that was done to me. If the employee even does the bare minimum and takes care of my concern without yelling at me or trying to turn the issue around on me, I feel like it's some GREAT experience. Being kind to other people in general should be the bare minimum.

  • @scarasara
    @scarasara 5 месяцев назад +5

    I'm 💯 a traditional woman. I didnt realize it until I started seeing how most women treat their husbands these days. I was shocked. Also i could never ever be with one of these beta males. My husband is an alpha all the way. He is the leader of our family. He has always taken care of us and treated our kids and i like royalty so of course in return i have dinner ready and clean the house i even wait for him on the porch for when he pulls up if im not working that day. Yes i have a part time job only because i cant sit around all day our kids are older now and i was getting bored. Anyways i thought that was how most wives were then i started seeing all this crazy $hit. I feel bad for single men out there. These guys well most work hard really hard and then come home to an attitude and complaining 🙄 omg its crazy

    • @snorttroll4379
      @snorttroll4379 4 месяца назад +1

      How were you snapped up? How does one hunt to find a unicorn luke u?

    • @scarasara
      @scarasara 4 месяца назад

      @snorttroll4379 😂 idk I met my husband at 17 he was 19 we were friends for a while and then off and on dating for a while then we moved in together it got really serious he just was always a gentleman and I wanted to make him happy for all the sweet things he did and still does for me. Anyways eventually, I had a "surprise" pregnancy. He stuck around, and he said he loved me. I didn't know for sure how it would go, but he worked his ass off 2 jobs while I was pregnant saving money, and we fell even more in love after our daughter came. Then he proposed and we got married. It wasn't the traditional way, but it worked for us. we are still together, and our daughter is almost 19. We are best friends and have a great relationship. I think part was luck really. I'm just happy that's all I know

  • @stealth7225
    @stealth7225 5 месяцев назад +1

    Marriage as a man is a HUGE risk with very little reward.

  • @michellemiller7818
    @michellemiller7818 5 месяцев назад +7

    Where am I supposed to meet just normal guys if I hate bars/clubs and the idea of dating apps are so unnatural and problematic to me?

    • @ArmyWolves
      @ArmyWolves 5 месяцев назад +5

      It's tricky...
      In the past couples met at work, college, church, matchmaking through family and friends... But many environments where people used to interact, socialize and possibly enter a relationship are either dead or have become a toxic environment where hookup culture is high or risk of being labelled a creep/harassment charges.
      I really don't have a practical answer unfortunately.
      Many men have resigned and go MGTOW, others are going overseas where traditional relationship values are still practiced and desired, some men improve themselves to a level where they become Chads and become toxic bad boys keeping ladies on a roster

    • @FonzChannel
      @FonzChannel 5 месяцев назад +2

      I met my fiancé on a dating app. I just took it seriously, look for guys that want a serious relationship and present your femininity with intent. If you’re watching this video, I imagine you have at least a solid idea of what guys are looking for in a woman :)

    • @ardynizunia9709
      @ardynizunia9709 5 месяцев назад +7

      In today's culture you'll probably have to approach guys you find attractive out in public and then see if they're the type of normal guy you're looking for.
      Woke women ruined how dating works and I'm sorry that even women who have nothing to do with that suffer as a consequence.
      Really, everyone loses long-term in today's western society.

    • @Patriarchyfightclub
      @Patriarchyfightclub 5 месяцев назад

      @@ardynizunia9709 she got it right men don’t wanna be called creepy and get rejected anymore

    • @Sunglare1
      @Sunglare1 5 месяцев назад

      You could try old school and have family and friend try to hook you up. Also take up a hobby that guys are mostly into. Girls into video games are usually never single for more then a day.

  • @Pattbonn47
    @Pattbonn47 4 месяца назад +1

    20:09 Jaysus, she just broke my heart.
    I know she probably shouldn't have put it online but her sadness is real.
    We'll never know the context of the divorce but you can feel the regret.

  • @lazerbubbles3630
    @lazerbubbles3630 5 месяцев назад +3

    Dam i cant believe that asshole got annoyed with her picking flowers! 💔💔💔 thats so fuked up

  • @amberchavez7724
    @amberchavez7724 Месяц назад

    Omg!!! The guy that wanted his clothes……. LEAVE! LEAVE! LEAVE! AND BUY NEW ONES 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @TheAliRobinsShow
    @TheAliRobinsShow Месяц назад +1

    8:12 Why do women cry on social media? SO EMBARRASSING 🙈

    • @rachelhall4808
      @rachelhall4808 Месяц назад

      Women post their L’s…. If I had to guess why, I would say they are looking for empathy, sympathy, validation, or justification. It’s literally throwing themselves a pity party when they do this.

  • @yenibobenny
    @yenibobenny Месяц назад

    That "WHA!!?!!!?!" when she threw the flowers was hilarious 🤣

  • @seraphimknight3754
    @seraphimknight3754 5 месяцев назад +2

    An issue I find with society is there are no checks and balances. It keeps striving forward without looking back and saying ohhh that was not a good time in human history. Then instead of righting the ship we continue on down the path making it worse. Then Government gets involved and convolutes the issue further.

  • @Naturalcorpse
    @Naturalcorpse Месяц назад

    Grown adults you throw a fit over their birthday probably also struggle I'm doing simple things like making toast. They probably also often smell burnt toast.

  • @bernaldsolano
    @bernaldsolano Месяц назад

    5:11 you can see his pain, hopefully he managed to find the right person.

  • @timpierce1967
    @timpierce1967 Месяц назад +1

    My girl had me waiting in the parking lot for 45 min on my birthday. I got pissed off 😅

  • @freemindthinkerezrapound5071
    @freemindthinkerezrapound5071 Месяц назад

    Love is just a misunderstanding between two lunatics

  • @WakkaWakka25
    @WakkaWakka25 5 месяцев назад +2

    Times like this where Pantera comes to mind
    Are there no standards anymore.....

    • @ScottRadkeMusic
      @ScottRadkeMusic 5 месяцев назад

      🤘🏽- these ladies can take a Walk
      Be themselves….by themselves!!

  • @coltonwertypora208
    @coltonwertypora208 Месяц назад

    As Benicio del Toro once said " why the f*** would I get married just to get divorced in three years"

  • @SwishaMane420
    @SwishaMane420 5 месяцев назад

    No standards and desperation are the minds we're trying to change.

  • @liaml.e.5964
    @liaml.e.5964 5 месяцев назад +2

    09:23, why are they acting like literal spoiled children?
    How can anyone be so emotionally stunted that they get to such a low point in their nonexistent personalities?

  • @tobywebb2112
    @tobywebb2112 5 месяцев назад +4

    The woman saying that all you have to do to keep a man is to sit there and do nothing is completely delusional. That's like saying that in order to be a person all you have to do is breathe and digest food. For the record that would list basically include all living things. So she's basically describing not even doing bare minimum.

  • @Scultronic
    @Scultronic 5 месяцев назад +2

    I will never get married, I have 3 cousins, 2 uncles, 3 of my friends that have really bad relationships with their woman. 2 of my cousins are currently paying alimony and they weren't even married, 1 uncle is divorced and my ex aunt took all of his money and properties. My other uncle and 2 of my friends are in really toxic relationships. I cannot trust women looking at how women behave nowdays and how laws are written to mostly benefit women.

  • @balltonge79
    @balltonge79 3 месяца назад +1

    Stay away from social media. Zero TikTok, zero Instagram, Snapchat, bla bla. Another thing, guys should not have girl friends. The hell with it.

  • @imperfect_impostors
    @imperfect_impostors 5 месяцев назад

    God bless your genious mind, thank you for all the awesome advice and smooth criminal humor G👌

  • @coellnbrueder8879
    @coellnbrueder8879 5 месяцев назад

    As Nietzsche stated:
    "The fact that everyone is allowed to learn to read not only spoils writing in the long run, but also thinking itself."
    That´s even more true so for the spoken word.

  • @divadsenutna
    @divadsenutna 5 месяцев назад +2

    Gotta say man, the editting game has improved significatively. Good job sir.

  • @jimmotheus6151
    @jimmotheus6151 5 месяцев назад +2

    During the industrial revolution virtually every woman, not in the aristocracy, worked full time.