My First Rejection Story in Middle School

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @drayyythanLooksmax
    @drayyythanLooksmax 9 месяцев назад +7

    Middle school rejections are by the worst, especially since you still have that glimmer of hope that dating isn’t all about looks.

  • @_Aurelian_
    @_Aurelian_ 9 месяцев назад +16

    Starting soccer from an early age truly helped my SMV. Getting boys into sports early on is invaluable! It helps with bone and muscle growth, can increase height potential, and is just simply a masculine hobby all around.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +7

      Yeah, playing sports definitely helped me especially basketball. I was god awful at soccer lol

  • @aleksanderstrzyzewski3490
    @aleksanderstrzyzewski3490 9 месяцев назад +9

    My first crush was an average looking girl but man i was like 15 and i didnt know how to behave next to girls in the attractive way... I remember i accidentally took her bottle of water and drank from it ( we were at the sport camp) and when she saw it she was like oh its okay you can have it. Brutal man... i was trying few times to engage in a conversation with her but damn i was fairly average looking at that stage of life. ( glasses and skinny af ) + i didnt have game at all. I remember when i asked her for ig and she gaved it to me i was so happy. But anyway i got rejected maybe not directly in a brutal way but i was. Then when puberty kicked in iv noticed that certain behaviours are crucial in being effective with women + you need to take care of yourself - looks are hella important. Now after 7 years she is still a becky and im easily a chadlite. She isnt attractive for me anymore in terms of looks.

  • @Rottenxcaramel
    @Rottenxcaramel 9 месяцев назад +14

    My first rejection story was way worse . I had a crush on my neighbor , came up to her and say I liked her. She gave me a confused Weird look and was dead silent so I walked away and she yelled “I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOUl”. My cousin came over next day and told me she was very disgusted about me liking her, luckily puberty did me well and my face look better now but the pain will never go away and since then I still am afraid to look and even make eye contact with women .

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +5

      Damn man, that's brutal! Yeah, rejection is brutal. Feel lucky that you ascended and try to put yourself back out there. It's much easier said than done but you'll probably have good results.

  • @klaus1913
    @klaus1913 9 месяцев назад +8

    The "not yet" in the note then later your neighbor telling you "she doesn't like you"......broootal

  • @triggerverse01
    @triggerverse01 9 месяцев назад +2

    Bruh, these are stories that haunt you at 2am for no reason

  • @jrd3675
    @jrd3675 9 месяцев назад +3

    You're right - you NEVER forget THAT rejection. Mine said she thought I was too crazy 😑

  • @GregP_
    @GregP_ 9 месяцев назад +20

    I love that she still tried to lead you on by writing 'not yet' on the note even after clearly rejecting you 😂

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +7

      I know right?

    • @Variability11
      @Variability11 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ascended266women are more evil not empathetic

    • @gen_z_alien29
      @gen_z_alien29 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@ascended266she just meant “not yet - not until u become chadlite” 🥰

  • @LilYoungcel
    @LilYoungcel 9 месяцев назад +45

    It’s over for middleschoolcels💀

    • @retroZgamer-y3k
      @retroZgamer-y3k 9 месяцев назад

      especially for u

    • @LilYoungcel
      @LilYoungcel 9 месяцев назад

      @@retroZgamer-y3k hating on me for no reason

    • @_Aurelian_
      @_Aurelian_ 9 месяцев назад +2

      Bruh, this comment is so overplayed. Even blackpillers are becoming NPCs now lol.

    • @rico14
      @rico14 9 месяцев назад +10

      @@_Aurelian_it is, but I love the ridiculous ones like these. Like pretty much everyone was a middleschoolcel except a couple chads 😂

    • @Variability11
      @Variability11 9 месяцев назад

      @@_Aurelian_ Only I am original

  • @LaxDux
    @LaxDux 9 месяцев назад +17

    My first rejection was at the end of middle school. I wish I knew the things that I know today, I wouldn't have been so delusional. Boomers and Gen X betrayed us with their good intentional lies.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +8

      So true! I will be making videos on bluepill lies in the near future that were sold to us by boomers lol

    • @LaxDux
      @LaxDux 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@ascended266
      Definitely this.
      And make some sub5 vs Chad tinder experiments

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +1

      Good suggestion! I’ll use my old sub 5 photos and compare them to my current photos now lol

    • @LaxDux
      @LaxDux 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ascended266
      Yess
      You can also when they are not interested reveal to them your Chad transformation and see the change in their behavior

    • @LaxDux
      @LaxDux 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ascended266
      Also, you can maybe from your Chad account ask them "what do you think about my ex friend" and show them your sub5 photo without them knowing it is you. Then you reveal that it was you

  • @josedubois2295
    @josedubois2295 9 месяцев назад +1

    I was called ugly plenty of times in middle school and high school. It stays with me but things feel the same overall.

  • @1Vettefan
    @1Vettefan 9 месяцев назад +3

    Keep the stories coming! They're interesting. I have some brutal stories from my 7th grade school year. It was the worst year of my life. To be honest I was lazy about my appearance and was still wearing clothes my mom picked out for me, but even that doesn't excuse the overly mean treatment from others. I was a shy kid just trying to get through the school day without people drawing attention to me. We had co-ed gym class and I was pretty good at sports so I didn't have any trouble there, but after awhile the teachers had us boys pair off with girls and learn square dancing for a couple of weeks. There were more boys in the class than girls so some of the boys had to sit on the sidelines until called to switch with somebody. I tried to sit on the sidelines as much as possible since a couple of the girls were pretty brutal in there. The teacher would call me in to participate and switch with someone though. The one girl refused to hold my hand and kept calling me ugly and disgusting, etc. I felt so humiliated in front of the other kids. In one of my other classes one of her friends called me ugly out of the blue. We had assigned seats and I was sitting in my seat doodling on my notebook waiting for the teacher to come in and start class. The kid that normally sat in front of me was gone for some reason so this girl sat in this spot facing me and was talking to her friend who sat behind me. They were basically talking to each other with me in the middle. After awhile there was a lull in their conversation and the girl in front just stops and looks down at me and says "You're such a dog!". Dog back then didn't mean player lol. It meant unattractive. I should have told her to go to hell or something but I just kept quiet doodling and tried to ignore her. Then she left to go sit at her regular seat since the teacher came in and class started.
    My story has a happy ending though. Towards the end of my freshman year I started wearing contact lenses instead of my glasses and grew my hair out longer with a nicer style. I also had better clothes. A lot of the mean girls from junior high started liking me in high school then. I got a lot more positive feedback in general. The girl from the gym class was still a bitch though lol. I got my hair cut short again one time my sophomore year and grew out some light facial hair. Her friends still liked me but I overheard her say to one of them "He's ugly now" (referring to me). I didn't really care then though since I had a lot of other cute girls interested in me. Those bad experiences from earlier stick with you though. I still have trouble trusting people and suffered depression off and on up through my early 30s. You feel empathy towards others and to this day I can't stand any type of bullying.

    • @aleksanderstrzyzewski3490
      @aleksanderstrzyzewski3490 9 месяцев назад +3

      ,,If you wear glasses, you look like a disabled guy'' - Saint Hamudi.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks man! Glad you were able to ascend.

    • @Variability11
      @Variability11 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ascended266video idea : Most of both physical genders will hate no matter what

  • @lyhjiba
    @lyhjiba 9 месяцев назад +5

    Far from the worst rejection a dude could get, but thanks for sharing, at least you tried. Most of your viewers were probably complete losers in HS and it never began

  • @MelachiDubNation2531
    @MelachiDubNation2531 9 месяцев назад +7

    Hmmm girls had crushes on me, but when it came to my crush, she rejected me 🤔 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @nihilismwithcomcharacteristics
    @nihilismwithcomcharacteristics 9 месяцев назад

    As a normie I’ve been rejected for most of my entire life. But that one middle school rejection was so painful that I can’t forget.

  • @ericlikestowander7510
    @ericlikestowander7510 9 месяцев назад +2

    I never asked any girl in middle school because I was painfully shy and was geeky and awkward. Who knows, I might have missed out.

  • @brain43
    @brain43 9 месяцев назад +1

    For some reason, this story reminded me of one I had in mid university time, not being the full resemblance of what is described in the video, but still it did pop up in my head.
    So, I got rejected by the girl I liked pretty much, and tbh I didn’t make any fuss about it, neither did she. No drama. I was averagely looking and kind of actually smart (not saying I’m not today haha), forgive me a bit of boast. And it was said it’s due we are different, she didn’t want relations yada yada.
    However there was a thing that struck me. A mate of mine was talking to the girl, and later I found out she said to him: “I don’t like X (me). Why should I? Do you, for example, love Y?” (Y was the girl from the group, and while she was nice and stuff, she was just..un-pretty. Not to be called ugly, but she was just not beautiful at all.)
    To this day I still am not sure why my former crash chose her as an example in conversation. But for me it seems it was a huge hint she just didn’t like my looks LOL. And that girl I liked always was saying how beauty ain’t important, how you should like a human soul before looks. And same stuff. And that what hit me worst, her terrible hypocrisy. And that is what I hate in these lowlife people - they may like or not like chads, sub5 or solid 8s, but they never admit it’s looks only. I hate hypocrites.

  • @MMKnight_1
    @MMKnight_1 7 месяцев назад +1

    First real rejection happened in my first year of high school and I was crushed, but that was because I fumbled it hard cuz she liked me. When I got the courage to go up to her and talk to her at the bus stop, everything went well and I basically didn't have to do anything cuz I think she liked me and she gave me a hug to signal to me that she liked me and wanted me to make a move. This was my first time so I had no idea what to do, and I thought I would just talk to her after school for a few weeks and we would magically be a couple, but when I figured out I had to ask her out I got rejected because I was so hesitant for a bit too long and she had lost all attraction for me.

  • @Kevinfowlks
    @Kevinfowlks 9 месяцев назад

    These thumbnails are hilarious man lol keep it up

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks man! I try lol

  • @fenriswolf8829
    @fenriswolf8829 9 месяцев назад +8

    You got any advice for losing weight? Ironically this blackpill stuff motivates me more than the red pill lol

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +6

      Yes! I have a video called "How I lost over 100 pounds in college." I discuss what I did to lose the weight. In short, be at a caloric deficit, cardio and cutting out a lot of junk food.

    • @fenriswolf8829
      @fenriswolf8829 9 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks man. Your stuff is saving lives

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +1

      @@fenriswolf8829 Appreciate it brother!

  • @omaarrrabdul9483
    @omaarrrabdul9483 9 месяцев назад +1

    Could you make a video on your first experience with having good looks and how girls and people treated you??

  • @ronaldlugo9967
    @ronaldlugo9967 9 месяцев назад +4

    Damn bro, brutal rejection story. See how the coping starts from an early age by you thinking you would potentially have a chance when she said not yet. If you were Chad kid, you wouldn't have had to write a note asking her out... she would've asked you out in person or if she was chadtimidated write a note asking you out. The Chad/sub5 treatment starts from an early age.

  • @bonapartemaxxing8482
    @bonapartemaxxing8482 9 месяцев назад +6

    Over if your first interaction with the opposite gender was rejection...

  • @PaulBosMusic
    @PaulBosMusic 9 месяцев назад +1

    I had two girls interested in me between 9th and 10th grades. The funny part, I was oblivious to the fact and one of them even stopped talking to me after the 9th grade. She probably didn't appreciate me checking out other, hotter girls in the class in front of her either. Not that I would know what to do with those crushes, I was definitely a late bloomer.

  • @jmecklenborg
    @jmecklenborg 9 месяцев назад

    I'd bet that other guys have experienced this - you ask out a girl in school or at work who turns you down, but because you play it cool, some of the girls who hear about it become interested in you.

  • @BasedAOC
    @BasedAOC 9 месяцев назад +2

    I was only ever asked out by girls as a joke. Never had any luck with women still to this day

  • @IbrahimHassanDayTrade
    @IbrahimHassanDayTrade 9 месяцев назад

    I used to see her in class, and I would look at her, but I never had the courage to walk to her. I told one of my friends that I had a crush on her, and he told everyone, and then kids came to me and said I had to ask her out. The kids learned something that I didn’t know, which was that she already liked somebody who played hockey, and I wasn’t aware of that. At the end of the day, I went to her before school was closed when kids were by their lockers, and I asked her. “Hey, you look cute. Do you want to go on a date with me?" and she smiled and said we could be friends. I walked away, and my friend asked me what she said. I told them she said, “We can be friends." They laughed at me and then proceeded to walk to her and ask how it went. We had a few classes together, but every day is just the end of the end of the year.. bro, not gonna like i saw her costco with her friends mind you, i’m 23 now i have good memory that im blessed with i can remember things from when i was 6 years old. She looked like 4.5-5.5. Her nose was out of shape, and her looks weren’t that good. Maybe it could be in use to see hotter chicks 😂.

  • @nikitamedvedev4696
    @nikitamedvedev4696 9 месяцев назад

    While this stoty is relatable when it comes to univeraity years. I had a noticable crush on girl that exposed a giant mess within me that was from previous years of parental abuse and school bullying. But my story was a total opposide of yours.
    It was a third grade when I dared to group of classmates that I would kiss a girl. And prior to that I was ironically succsessful with girls due to confident and quite extraverted when it comes to groups personality. It was a success but as a result everyone started to tease me and later bully me until 10 grade. That experience left a huge scar that I'm still scared to talk and even look to gird I attracted due to social mockery.
    And while I'm considered physically attractive by older and married woman I'm still virgin and quite a mess when it comes to relations due to years of abuse by my parents and schoolmates (as result I'm diagnosed with szpd which doesn't help either). And having hyperfocused personality with being charismatic smartass and "I'm a total nerd and not ashamed even slightest" aura makes it even weirder as I tend attract/charm woman that I'm not even attracted to (which makes things awkward as I literally don't care what I'm saying/have zero fear to talk to woman but I super anxious if I;n attracted to her). And that third greade experience was a ground zero of that mess that I'm still recovering.

  • @xavierisrael3320
    @xavierisrael3320 13 дней назад

    My first rejection was also in 7th grade and doomed from the start, she was way out of my league lmao

  • @nawadkherahaldwanirural8392
    @nawadkherahaldwanirural8392 9 месяцев назад +3

    Mu biggest blackpill experience was not about girls to be honest it was about friends

  • @jdawg3465
    @jdawg3465 9 месяцев назад +1

    Life hack: You can't get rejected if you don't try

  • @thea-train1182
    @thea-train1182 9 месяцев назад +3

    the reason why im scared to confess lmao, more reasons to hardmaxx

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +1

      Definitely do a lot of research if you're going to go down that route. Good luck!

  • @KJensen95
    @KJensen95 9 месяцев назад

    Love your Content Man! Keep it up. Little constructive cristism. I would try to make it less obvious that ur reading off a script. Aswell as mentioning your 6'2.5 in every video. the latter is a personal gripe tho I understand you have new viewers that need to know 😂 KEEP IT UP THO. ALL ❤️

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад

      Thanks man! I appreciate it.

  • @TheRacy
    @TheRacy 9 месяцев назад +2

    Cute white girl showed me interest and joined my after school function to get to know me better, but lost interest in me after she figured out that I wasn't one of the cool black guys. Got the balls to ask her out during the summer and got flaked on haha.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +1

      Brutal lol at least you got that initial attraction. I definitely think status plays a role in how you're treated even once you've met the initial looks threshold.

    • @22LxzZ
      @22LxzZ 9 месяцев назад +1

      atleast you know that you look good

  • @Variability11
    @Variability11 9 месяцев назад

    How old are u and how old do you look and feel ? I’m 29 and I feel younger but not exactly sure how I look xD

  • @hammerotongo4677
    @hammerotongo4677 9 месяцев назад

    Sorry I stopped listening once I heard the part with the checkboxes. Don't even want to know how that turned out

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад

      Long story short she checked the no box and wrote in not yet lower on the page. Essentially it was a no.

  • @Pearlywhiskers123
    @Pearlywhiskers123 9 месяцев назад +2

    The height pill strikes again.
    BuT bRoooo iTs All aBouT fAce reeeeeee.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  9 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah it's hilarious because even being 6'2.5 now, I was definitely rejected by that girl mostly due to my height at that time lol

    • @nawadkherahaldwanirural8392
      @nawadkherahaldwanirural8392 9 месяцев назад +1

      Coper spotted

    • @Pearlywhiskers123
      @Pearlywhiskers123 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@nawadkherahaldwanirural8392 "but saar tom cruise is 5'7 therefore height is irrelevant"
      You know it ain't cope Currycel.

    • @nawadkherahaldwanirural8392
      @nawadkherahaldwanirural8392 9 месяцев назад

      @@Pearlywhiskers123 cope

    • @Pearlywhiskers123
      @Pearlywhiskers123 9 месяцев назад

      @@nawadkherahaldwanirural8392 cope Currycel. Lowest SMV in the world 😂

  • @crzvm1lk
    @crzvm1lk 4 месяца назад

    im blackpilled in 8th grade been in manosphere since 5th grade tho.

    • @crzvm1lk
      @crzvm1lk 4 месяца назад

      this rejection story is not bad bro