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Story 1: Those people deserved to be homeless in NYC, not spend time in an AirBNB. While I totally understand the need for a deal or to save money on things like this, but if you want to pay less, you have to expect less. They were just clearly trying to screw over the OP here. Im honestly surprised the OP didn't warn other contractors about the antics here, but it looks like he didnt really need to, since the contractors they went with ended up not being very good it sounds like. Good on the OP for not taking the job here. Story 2: Honestly, if i were the OP, i would tell both the dad and the sister (especially the sister) to rack off. There is absolutely no reason the OP should be treated like this. They are both just taking advantage of the OP here and its wrong. I get wanting to take care of a sick parent, but not if this is the way you are going to be treated. Story 3: OP is 100% not a jerk here, and i can't see why anyone would think that. The son and DIL both said she could come over anytime, especially in those kinds of circumstances... and then they treat the OP like this when she actually does? And kicks her out in the rain? Gee....thanks! Jerks! If i were the OP, id be limiting contact here without one really good apology. Story 4: The friend here is a complete dullard. If something was set in stone here and paid for, then i can see it being an inconvienience for the friend here, but since nothing was, then the friend was just being an idiot... and i dont know what ''intelligence' the friend was talking about, since she doesnt have any to insult.
Like it they don't want emergency overnight guest say so. Don't lie just so you can present yourself as super virtuous/ extremely accommodating when you're not. The parents are idiotic jerks.
Story 1, that couple is crazy Story 2, yeah, keep your head up honey and leave ASAP. Let them come back groveling Story 3, holy crap! Yeah I would go no contact. If your "alone" time is more important than a hurricane, your not the kind of family I want.
Hurricane Lee just happened no more than 2 weeks within the two that they would not allowed cuz she needed some alone time but was 0-0 I am so freaking mad right now I could spit nail.. honey wherever you are you ever need a place to come ice I'm in South Carolina you come on you and your grandson you just you can come on over here. Love you sending prayers😢❤
chick in that second story needs to see about putting her dad in a home. I know that's normally an awful thing for a child to do, but there's no good excuse for him treating you that way. If he doesn't like it, too bad. If your sister doesn't like it she can move in with him, and you can take her apartment. either way that nightmare will be over with.
For Story 2 My dad was doing something similar with my cousin living with his mom and paying him to take care of her and her cat and all he did was play video games instead of taking care of my grandma and her cat. My Grandma was a sweet lady but she and my late grandfather spoiled my dad’s sister when she and my dad’s 2 brothers were growing up. My Grandmother has since died. My Dad eventually moved my grandmother into an Assisted Living home so she could be properly taken care of. My dad changed the Locks and kicked my cousin out and my cousin broke into the house and stole some of my late grandmother’s possessions to buy drugs. He’s now in jail. Am I actually a jerk being happy about my cousin being in jail?
Story 1: the fact they expected the contractor to just accept a -$150k loss on this project is insane, especially since its NYC nothing is cheap at all.
Story 2: Your dad better start being grateful, or he'll find that suddenly youre gone and your "sister" doesnt do anything more than the barest minimum
If I was doing my best to help my parent and they talked shit about me to my sister, I would have shut off the oven and walked into the room and said "you know if that's how you both feel about me you can help each other I'm done" gone to my room, called a moving company and a storage place, had the moving company take what's mine to the storage place and found a place to stay..... Because that's shit no one needs... and you need them to know you will leave. If you give them a second chance after a week or so, that should also be their *last* chance. And they better make their second chance worth it.
So this couple wanted all the bells and whistles but they didn't want to pay for it?? Hope they like a unfinished house Im guessing they have never been to a box home improvement store and checked the prices
Story 2: Does anyone else get the vibe that OP is leaving stuff out? I can't put my finger on it, but something seems really off about the story. Yeah, obviously the Dad and sister would be in the wrong based on what OP has said, but also the thing with the dead bugs... OP says one thing about asking their sister for help, but then says something different when sharing what happened when the sister came over. I don't know what to make of it.
Story 3: eh seems like a misunderstanding. The son and daughter and law, should have been much more understanding; especially given what they told her.
14:32 I feel for you in that story, I am going through something similar, my sister works my life is on home my mother is never around and a narcissist, and my dad is sick and I take care of him. My dad is kind but he is weak rn.
Re: Story 1: You are not supposed to give your client the spreadsheet, especially an editable spreadsheet. You should provide your client a non-editable PDF file.
OK I have to say with the story of the original poster saying he thought his sons house was an open invitation. I don’t agree with how the sun is acting. That is kind of a really big Erica move the date to his nephew and father. But Innoway, I think they’re OK with them coming over anytime they need to as long as they call first.
Story 2: If daddy is going to act like that. Him and her can figure out his care. Coddling him isn't your job. Quite frankly, probably shouldn't have moved in.
story 4: you shouldnt even need ANY reason to back out. you should be able to back out for no reason at all. like if you dont want to go, thats that! you dont need a reason
To be fair the story at 18 minutes. The mom should have tried to call to make sure the invitation was OK or if she was able to. The here I am can I x- does make the op look bad.
The last story the op should have expressed and made it clear she couldn't pay for her end of things. Because she did backout last minute that does make her the jerk
Story 1: I would have dropped those greedy entitled clients IMMEDIATELY after seeing the price change that they had made. What scumbags! It would serve them right if they hired a crooked contractor…which it sounds like they did. Story 2: That dad and the sister suck. OP needs to break ties with them and don’t do another thing for them. Move out when possible. The more OP does for that stupid ungrateful old man, the worse he will treat OP. I wouldn’t be surprised if he and the sister don’t plot against OP to disinherit her. I’ve seen this happen. Story 3: NTA. Horrible! Abusive! The son is a jerk. What an empty care package to say “You are welcome any time” and then kick them out in a storm just because the OP and OP’s disabled grandson came in during “mommy’s alone time”, never mind there is an emergency storm and power outages. Sounds like the wife has the son’s ⚾️⚾️ in her purse. Story 4: “I came here to see ‘MEXICO’, not to see Hank Hill squeeze ‘last year’s butt’ into ‘this year’s swimsuit’!” This is about the friend getting her ego and purse hit, not about OP backing out. Nothing was in writing, no money down, and OP didn’t have the money. A similar situation happened with me and a former friend of mine when I told her I couldn’t make it, despite telling her before “I can’t make any promises.”
You can ot save your relationship with one child by damning another child. You'll just lose them both. Because the sister clearly doesn't care. Edit: leave the dad and sister. He thinks so little of you, let him see the consequences of his actions.
For the story about the sister and Dad ganging up on the op. I just wanted to say that Op is pathetic in that story anybody who allows himself to be treated like that by anybody is just pathetic
Story 2: the op is the jerk as it really sounds like they are twisting the entire story and leaving out parts of it so they dont seem like the jerk and make the dad and sister seem like the jerk and also the op seems extremely narcissistic and saying that the mother was exactly like them means that there were 2 at one point
No you just put in with you think it's fair you didn't care what he thought was fair they the pay for labor they have to pay for materials they have to pay salaries all that cost money
story 2 id do what I did with my family stop helping outside the bare minimum. no more cooking for him but one meal the rest he can make it himself no more helping with the house but normally cleaning story3 your son and dil are garbage id stop seeing them and helping them cus they clearly don't want to help you story4 you have no hotel bookings nothing just a ya sounds fun so no your friend is a jerk that want to use you as a cost cutting option and the only reason she did not show you this in person and texted you after is cus she did not want her boyfriend to see what a b*tch she is and want him to think she's fine with it
Second Story: Op is in the wrong. They left the house and then their sister cane early to help. Op said clean up the rest of the mess even tho they said on the phone that they can both clean the house not just one sister. Then on the phone, Op is angry and the sister wouldn't allow herself to be disrespected by op. So the sister and father are not wrong in their decision or words.
Story 2: the sister doesn’t even live there. Yeah that’s bullshit, she should help, but it doesn’t matter if you have done it by yourself since Friday. She doesn’t have to help at all. And there seems to be a lot of hiding or mistakes on your end. I mean a lot. Gonna say there’s something on your end you aren’t sharing.
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Story 1: Those people deserved to be homeless in NYC, not spend time in an AirBNB. While I totally understand the need for a deal or to save money on things like this, but if you want to pay less, you have to expect less. They were just clearly trying to screw over the OP here. Im honestly surprised the OP didn't warn other contractors about the antics here, but it looks like he didnt really need to, since the contractors they went with ended up not being very good it sounds like. Good on the OP for not taking the job here.
Story 2: Honestly, if i were the OP, i would tell both the dad and the sister (especially the sister) to rack off. There is absolutely no reason the OP should be treated like this. They are both just taking advantage of the OP here and its wrong. I get wanting to take care of a sick parent, but not if this is the way you are going to be treated.
Story 3: OP is 100% not a jerk here, and i can't see why anyone would think that. The son and DIL both said she could come over anytime, especially in those kinds of circumstances... and then they treat the OP like this when she actually does? And kicks her out in the rain? Gee....thanks! Jerks! If i were the OP, id be limiting contact here without one really good apology.
Story 4: The friend here is a complete dullard. If something was set in stone here and paid for, then i can see it being an inconvienience for the friend here, but since nothing was, then the friend was just being an idiot... and i dont know what ''intelligence' the friend was talking about, since she doesnt have any to insult.
The third one they both said that you are welcome to their house anytime!!
Sounds like the are just awful people who are being very two faced!!
Like it they don't want emergency overnight guest say so. Don't lie just so you can present yourself as super virtuous/ extremely accommodating when you're not. The parents are idiotic jerks.
On the one hand, I understand the need for calling ahead. on the other hand, emergency trumps courtesy.
The second one Dad is wrong for the way he's treating you. There's no way I would stay with him.
He can have his favorite daughter stay with him
Story 2: Just move out and let him find out the hard way how much you do.
Perfect answer. It’s like my mother and I. Then she wonders why things don’t get done.
Story 2 - sounds like someone needs to go into assisted living, and I don't mean OP.
Story 1, that couple is crazy
Story 2, yeah, keep your head up honey and leave ASAP. Let them come back groveling
Story 3, holy crap! Yeah I would go no contact. If your "alone" time is more important than a hurricane, your not the kind of family I want.
For Story 1: When creating a spreadsheet, it's best to protect the cells you don't want to be changed.
I love listening to the revenge ones
Same
Story 2 just fucking leave that dad and go no contact with both your sister and dad
Hurricane Lee just happened no more than 2 weeks within the two that they would not allowed cuz she needed some alone time but was 0-0 I am so freaking mad right now I could spit nail.. honey wherever you are you ever need a place to come ice I'm in South Carolina you come on you and your grandson you just you can come on over here. Love you sending prayers😢❤
NEVER BACK DOWN. NEVER GIVE UP
story one: here in Australia its illigal to do this and you can be sued for even trying to do this to a contractor
Those people are an increasingly endangered species given a good percentage of building firms have collapsed due to high material costs and overheads.
Ditch them both, never talk to them again. Don't give a damn if they live on the streets
chick in that second story needs to see about putting her dad in a home. I know that's normally an awful thing for a child to do, but there's no good excuse for him treating you that way. If he doesn't like it, too bad. If your sister doesn't like it she can move in with him, and you can take her apartment. either way that nightmare will be over with.
I would just tell him that his care is now his job to figure out, and I will be moving out. OP says he's always been like this.
Story 2: Have him see how "useless" and "un-helpful" you are when your gone
For Story 2 My dad was doing something similar with my cousin living with his mom and paying him to take care of her and her cat and all he did was play video games instead of taking care of my grandma and her cat. My Grandma was a sweet lady but she and my late grandfather spoiled my dad’s sister when she and my dad’s 2 brothers were growing up. My Grandmother has since died. My Dad eventually moved my grandmother into an Assisted Living home so she could be properly taken care of. My dad changed the Locks and kicked my cousin out and my cousin broke into the house and stole some of my late grandmother’s possessions to buy drugs. He’s now in jail. Am I actually a jerk being happy about my cousin being in jail?
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Story 1: the fact they expected the contractor to just accept a -$150k loss on this project is insane, especially since its NYC nothing is cheap at all.
Story 2: Your dad better start being grateful, or he'll find that suddenly youre gone and your "sister" doesnt do anything more than the barest minimum
If I was doing my best to help my parent and they talked shit about me to my sister, I would have shut off the oven and walked into the room and said "you know if that's how you both feel about me you can help each other I'm done" gone to my room, called a moving company and a storage place, had the moving company take what's mine to the storage place and found a place to stay..... Because that's shit no one needs... and you need them to know you will leave. If you give them a second chance after a week or so, that should also be their *last* chance. And they better make their second chance worth it.
I love this channel
Why didn't the new york contractor send the couple a PDF or a locked excel file? That way they couldn't change anything
So this couple wanted all the bells and whistles but they didn't want to pay for it?? Hope they like a unfinished house
Im guessing they have never been to a box home improvement store and checked the prices
Considering where they live and what their budget was.... i highly doubt it.
Story 2: Does anyone else get the vibe that OP is leaving stuff out? I can't put my finger on it, but something seems really off about the story. Yeah, obviously the Dad and sister would be in the wrong based on what OP has said, but also the thing with the dead bugs... OP says one thing about asking their sister for help, but then says something different when sharing what happened when the sister came over. I don't know what to make of it.
Story 2. Just walk away. Let then handle it.
Op taking care of dad, remember that no good deed goes unpunished
Story 3: eh seems like a misunderstanding. The son and daughter and law, should have been much more understanding; especially given what they told her.
Of course it's New York
14:32 I feel for you in that story, I am going through something similar, my sister works my life is on home my mother is never around and a narcissist, and my dad is sick and I take care of him. My dad is kind but he is weak rn.
Nice karlson gameplay
Re: Story 1: You are not supposed to give your client the spreadsheet, especially an editable spreadsheet. You should provide your client a non-editable PDF file.
You can get around the uneditable part. It's a hassle, but possible.
Last one get better friends
I've already seen/heard the first story.
So why do we care
Story 2, move out, reclaim your life, and let your sister deal with it.
Story1-Protect your cells on your spreadsheets going forward, I would have opted out from working with them.
Story 2 guy. If you don’t leave that behavior won’t change. I’m not joking you need a better environment.
For story 2, like any toxic environment, remove yourself from there, and people will learn the hard way how much you're valuable.
Hey congrats on hitting a million! thought it was a dab
Pancakes approved
And where’s the TOPPINGS?
That 2nd story i will be like dad i lobe you but this this the last time your seeing me since you dont have any empathy to me helping you
OK I have to say with the story of the original poster saying he thought his sons house was an open invitation. I don’t agree with how the sun is acting. That is kind of a really big Erica move the date to his nephew and father. But Innoway, I think they’re OK with them coming over anytime they need to as long as they call first.
Story 1: that’s actually fraud on a legal document. It’s a crime but it looks like karma sorted out those cheapskates.
Story 2: If daddy is going to act like that. Him and her can figure out his care. Coddling him isn't your job. Quite frankly, probably shouldn't have moved in.
story 4: you shouldnt even need ANY reason to back out. you should be able to back out for no reason at all. like if you dont want to go, thats that! you dont need a reason
To be fair the story at 18 minutes. The mom should have tried to call to make sure the invitation was OK or if she was able to. The here I am can I x- does make the op look bad.
The last story the op should have expressed and made it clear she couldn't pay for her end of things. Because she did backout last minute that does make her the jerk
I say get out of my house and you want your food GO WORK AND MAKE IT FOR YOURSELF
Story 1: I would have dropped those greedy entitled clients IMMEDIATELY after seeing the price change that they had made. What scumbags! It would serve them right if they hired a crooked contractor…which it sounds like they did.
Story 2: That dad and the sister suck. OP needs to break ties with them and don’t do another thing for them. Move out when possible. The more OP does for that stupid ungrateful old man, the worse he will treat OP. I wouldn’t be surprised if he and the sister don’t plot against OP to disinherit her. I’ve seen this happen.
Story 3: NTA. Horrible! Abusive! The son is a jerk. What an empty care package to say “You are welcome any time” and then kick them out in a storm just because the OP and OP’s disabled grandson came in during “mommy’s alone time”, never mind there is an emergency storm and power outages. Sounds like the wife has the son’s ⚾️⚾️ in her purse.
Story 4: “I came here to see ‘MEXICO’, not to see Hank Hill squeeze ‘last year’s butt’ into ‘this year’s swimsuit’!” This is about the friend getting her ego and purse hit, not about OP backing out. Nothing was in writing, no money down, and OP didn’t have the money. A similar situation happened with me and a former friend of mine when I told her I couldn’t make it, despite telling her before “I can’t make any promises.”
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If you don't feel like moving in with him don't wouldn't put up with that attitude either
My dad did a job with 10k in prophet but never paid him
don't help the couple at all that's all and tell them that you're not helping them out.
that's what i would do if i'm designing something.
Um
You can ot save your relationship with one child by damning another child.
You'll just lose them both. Because the sister clearly doesn't care.
Edit: leave the dad and sister. He thinks so little of you, let him see the consequences of his actions.
For the story about the sister and Dad ganging up on the op. I just wanted to say that Op is pathetic in that story anybody who allows himself to be treated like that by anybody is just pathetic
Story 1: sounds like you were completely up front. They were assholes. And with the second contractor, they got what they paid for.
Story 2: the op is the jerk as it really sounds like they are twisting the entire story and leaving out parts of it so they dont seem like the jerk and make the dad and sister seem like the jerk and also the op seems extremely narcissistic and saying that the mother was exactly like them means that there were 2 at one point
Her dad and sister are constantly double teaming her? That sounds terrible and incestuous.
18:24 yeah they are total jerks
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11:44 leave
What is the game in the the background
Dumb question what’s the game Thare playing in the background
First
what game is this?
No you just put in with you think it's fair you didn't care what he thought was fair they the pay for labor they have to pay for materials they have to pay salaries all that cost money
what game is being played
The games name is ghost runner
Get a caretaker
Do someone know what game this is thats he is playing
The games name is ghost runner
story 2 id do what I did with my family stop helping outside the bare minimum. no more cooking for him but one meal the rest he can make it himself no more helping with the house but normally cleaning
story3 your son and dil are garbage id stop seeing them and helping them cus they clearly don't want to help you
story4 you have no hotel bookings nothing just a ya sounds fun so no your friend is a jerk that want to use you as a cost cutting option and the only reason she did not show you this in person and texted you after is cus she did not want her boyfriend to see what a b*tch she is and want him to think she's fine with it
Second Story: Op is in the wrong. They left the house and then their sister cane early to help. Op said clean up the rest of the mess even tho they said on the phone that they can both clean the house not just one sister. Then on the phone, Op is angry and the sister wouldn't allow herself to be disrespected by op. So the sister and father are not wrong in their decision or words.
Seems more to me about 3. There is far more than what’s being relayed. Hell, you can make anyone look good with a great spin
Story 2: the sister doesn’t even live there. Yeah that’s bullshit, she should help, but it doesn’t matter if you have done it by yourself since Friday. She doesn’t have to help at all. And there seems to be a lot of hiding or mistakes on your end. I mean a lot. Gonna say there’s something on your end you aren’t sharing.
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