Need a documentary on Simran! How did she multitask 60 different accounts? Did she have a life of her own? How did she spend days talking to kirat? How did simran parents/ siblings not catch her ? Can you imagine a desi parent letting you spend hours on a computer and phone??
Girls how could you miss the most crazy part??? It’s when Kirat runs into ACTUAL BOBBY in a club!!! It happened only a couple of years into “the friendship phase”. Imagine if they talked a little bit past what they said. It could’ve saved her so much pain…. KISMET had only hardships and heartache written for this poor girl 😢
Please do more reviews like this! You guys explained it so well, and I was hooked from beginning to end. Have you guys ever thought of doing Bollywood movie reviews, other crime documentaries, storytimes, etc.?
What a fab review of the whole thing ! My husband slept midway through the Netflix show and now I’m relieved I got to “discuss” it 😅 you guys are amazing !
The saddest part was poor old grandma died thinking there was a Bobby who was going to marry Kirat, she even apologized on her death bed for not being able to meet him.😢
My theory is initially kirat was the golden child. She was the standard. Everybody looked up to her. The family might be the perfect family. Perfect successful child. And it was to destroy her, make a fool out of her. Make her a laughing stock. Basically just destroying the gold standard. The fact that simran was still excelling and having a normal life whilst ruining her cousins life make her just cunning and I don't believe she has any mental issue. I feel she just hated kirat
I think your right, I think she hated Kirat, specially since she had a radio show, golden children run the risk of extreme jealousy of certain things or maybe Kirat was allowed to do things she wasnt
Possible definitely or maybe Simran was the golden child but was jealous of how Kirat pursued things she genuinely loved and was successful in that way instead of being a parent pleaser
This story is absolutely insane!!! Simran should have gotten jail time. If you do a quick google search of her name along with Barclays you can see what she looks like now.
Watched the Netflix movie and then Heard all episodes of the podcast all six. Before listening to the podcast I thought why was someone so vulnerable to fall for sth like this . . And for 9 years . My heart breaks for Kerat and the way she was crying, begging . . Falling in love with. . True they say love makes u blind. Simran you are heartless and I hope and pray you bear the brunt of your deception soon. Allah is just and I hope and pray if law cannot catch you the Almighty does ! Ameen and Kerat please move on you are such a wonderful, loving, trusting person. May all your wishes and dreams come true and may you find true happiness. . I feel your pain but you are brave enough to cope with this loss . . Hang in there ! You got this girl. You are in my prayers ! And Simran’s parents . . U had the guts to still own a criminal ! Tst tst tst
I love this podcast about the podcast 😂. Good job👏 I was exactly like Hina last week freaking out and needing to deep dive so this hit the spot! I will say one thing - I felt the podcast and Netflix show should have been called “Sweet Kirat” instead of “Sweet Bobby”😢 My heart went out to that poor woman😔
@@mehreenbhatti7722RUclips keeps deleting my response I think because I put a link? The podcast name is “Sweet Bobby” by Tortoise Media. You will find it anywhere you listen to podcasts (Apple, Spotify, Google and even RUclips)!
Just want to say that unlike a lot of desis you girls covered this story without judgement (for Kirat, judge Simran as much as you’d like) and with compassion. Good on you ❤
I wonder if the faked illnesses and deaths like being shot or having cancer were Simran’s way of trying to “conclude” the catfishing before getting caught but was too addicted to this entire lifestyle (seriously?! 60 profiles is insane) so kept eventually continuing the relationship. So disgusting.
What i wanna know along with everything else, is as well as HOW Simran managed to juggle so many Facebook accounts - the dedication to this catfishing game - i wanna know why so many? Does she have DID or something. Simran gave me chills. Nothings given me chills
It started in 2009, when "JJ" messaged her to get some relationship advice. But supposedly that was Simran pretending to be JJ and she wasn't even in a relationship with him at that time. However, simultaneously, Simran was catfishing the real JJ too. SimBob messaged occasionally from 2010 (when JJ was killed off) to 2014 and then they were in a relationship from 2015-2018. Someone needs to make a timeline of the events. Also, when Simran confessed and was sitting on the stairs, she didn't say to Kirat "You ruined your own life".... (I had to go back to read the transcript for this one). In podcast ep:3, 37:21, the presenter had asked Kirat was there an apology from Simran and Kirat said no and went on to say, "....it was so poignant there wasn't a sorry and it was, I've ruined my own life.....Simran appeared to be more concerned about what this confession meant for her rather than for Kirat." My interpretation is that Simran is selfish and saying to herself that she ruined her own life because the cat is out of the bag and it will ruin her reputation, according to the presenter's opinion.
I had a thought listening to this. Common speculation is that Simran was closeted and had feelings for Kirat but what if she was jealous of Kirat’s free spirit? She was older, living life on her terms, not in a typical desi approved job (radio DJ) and seemingly doing as she pleased rather than crippled under this pressure that Simran was probably going through academically. Maybe Simran started this out of spite for Kirat’s freedom and it spiralled out of control?
Simran is clearly in the wrong not defending her, but why did Kirat even start chatting with a married man in the first place? A random married man is complaining about his married life, and you’re going to engage in conversation with him?🤨
There is a possibility that Simran would have blocked the real profile from kirat's account. Also she met the real Bobby at a party when they were in a friendship phase. He didn't recognise her, but still she didn't find it odd.
I don't see anything exceptional or extraordinary here. Kirat, a straight woman in her 30's, is desperate to find a boyfriend. Her cousin Simran is lesbian and has a crush on Kirat. Therefore Simran creates a fake Facebook profile of some guy Bobby and through that fake profile the two have a happy ten year online relationship until Kirat finally hires a private detective and realizes that Bobby is really Simran which of course is extremely disappointing. The fact that this went on for so many years is a little weird however when you compare this to women who send a million dollars to a Nigerian scammer, which happens every day, this isn't so bad.
Need a documentary on Simran! How did she multitask 60 different accounts? Did she have a life of her own? How did she spend days talking to kirat? How did simran parents/ siblings not catch her ? Can you imagine a desi parent letting you spend hours on a computer and phone??
I know, right?! I want both sides of the story! Simran, if you read this, start talking!
Exactly we need more tea
All I keep thinking is how high functioning is Simran, I can't even keep up with my own life and I'm not some VP of a bank.
Girls how could you miss the most crazy part??? It’s when Kirat runs into ACTUAL BOBBY in a club!!! It happened only a couple of years into “the friendship phase”. Imagine if they talked a little bit past what they said. It could’ve saved her so much pain…. KISMET had only hardships and heartache written for this poor girl 😢
So true
Please do more reviews like this! You guys explained it so well, and I was hooked from beginning to end. Have you guys ever thought of doing Bollywood movie reviews, other crime documentaries, storytimes, etc.?
We’re on it
What a fab review of the whole thing ! My husband slept midway through the Netflix show and now I’m relieved I got to “discuss” it 😅 you guys are amazing !
I was so invested in this episode. Too good
I enjoyed listening to your retelling more than I enjoyed watching the Netflix doc! Hahahaha! Y’all are hilarious! Lots of laughter and insight.
Thank you for listening
The saddest part was poor old grandma died thinking there was a Bobby who was going to marry Kirat, she even apologized on her death bed for not being able to meet him.😢
Ugh that was sooo heartbreaking!!!
My theory is initially kirat was the golden child. She was the standard. Everybody looked up to her. The family might be the perfect family. Perfect successful child. And it was to destroy her, make a fool out of her. Make her a laughing stock. Basically just destroying the gold standard. The fact that simran was still excelling and having a normal life whilst ruining her cousins life make her just cunning and I don't believe she has any mental issue. I feel she just hated kirat
Hmmm…Maybe you’re right!
But doing it for 9 years? And at that scale? It needs some psychopathic behaviour for that. That woman is a chronic impersonator.
She def still had a mental issue but I agree.
I think your right, I think she hated Kirat, specially since she had a radio show, golden children run the risk of extreme jealousy of certain things or maybe Kirat was allowed to do things she wasnt
Possible definitely or maybe Simran was the golden child but was jealous of how Kirat pursued things she genuinely loved and was successful in that way instead of being a parent pleaser
Simran has accomplices! Ain’t no way she did this alone for 9 years!
Who knows
Please do more reviews like this
If Bobby was a supermarket worker instead of doctor this would have lasted 9 days not 9 years
😩
I honestly feel like there is a back story to all of this... like family drama... it seems like Simran had some sort of revenge plot.
Someone find simran
This story is absolutely insane!!! Simran should have gotten jail time. If you do a quick google search of her name along with Barclays you can see what she looks like now.
@@Anonymous-dn5bj So scary to think she's still out there and now has Ai and other advanced tech to continue scamming!!!
She should have
Omgggg,you guys dont know how happy i am just because you guys uploaded for the 2nd time🎉🎉😍😍🥳🥳🥳
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Watched the Netflix movie and then Heard all episodes of the podcast all six. Before listening to the podcast I thought why was someone so vulnerable to fall for sth like this . . And for 9 years . My heart breaks for Kerat and the way she was crying, begging . . Falling in love with. . True they say love makes u blind. Simran you are heartless and I hope and pray you bear the brunt of your deception soon. Allah is just and I hope and pray if law cannot catch you the Almighty does ! Ameen and Kerat please move on you are such a wonderful, loving, trusting person. May all your wishes and dreams come true and may you find true happiness. . I feel your pain but you are brave enough to cope with this loss . . Hang in there ! You got this girl. You are in my prayers ! And Simran’s parents . . U had the guts to still own a criminal ! Tst tst tst
Guyss bobby is a dentist irl. He even joked about it on insta. He was like im not even a cardiologist just a dentist😭
Wild
Never watched the show but heard all about it lol. Crazy story! Omgggggg!!! 😮
Nah yaar, you have to listen to the podcast… That goes deep…
The podcast is so good!
16:11 simran the psychopath.
I love this podcast about the podcast 😂. Good job👏 I was exactly like Hina last week freaking out and needing to deep dive so this hit the spot!
I will say one thing - I felt the podcast and Netflix show should have been called “Sweet Kirat” instead of “Sweet Bobby”😢 My heart went out to that poor woman😔
Has anyone got the link to the podcast that they are talking about?
@@mehreenbhatti7722 RUclips too: ruclips.net/p/PLWRFPjEFODJFyZu4YAmGLEv4uEhSlmgNr&si=e8PYANvcLV5rBm08
@@mehreenbhatti7722RUclips keeps deleting my response I think because I put a link? The podcast name is “Sweet Bobby” by Tortoise Media. You will find it anywhere you listen to podcasts (Apple, Spotify, Google and even RUclips)!
It was a rollercoaster!
From Netflix documentary, it will be turned into a multi season Netflix drama ... coming to your screens soon.
I think Simran’s ability to juggle school work and this extreme stalking is Indicative in itself of severe mental health issues including narcissism.
Definitely
Just want to say that unlike a lot of desis you girls covered this story without judgement (for Kirat, judge Simran as much as you’d like) and with compassion. Good on you ❤
Real Bobby was a dentist
Omg my brain is heated 😮
Bobby wasn’t a cardiologist in real life
The real Bobby is a dentist. Simran’s Bobby was a cardiologist who even gave kirat’s dying grandmother- also simrans relative - medical advice!
Unreal!
I wonder if the faked illnesses and deaths like being shot or having cancer were Simran’s way of trying to “conclude” the catfishing before getting caught but was too addicted to this entire lifestyle (seriously?! 60 profiles is insane) so kept eventually continuing the relationship. So disgusting.
Definitely a possibility but she kept reviving the dead people 😩
What i wanna know along with everything else, is as well as HOW Simran managed to juggle so many Facebook accounts - the dedication to this catfishing game - i wanna know why so many? Does she have DID or something.
Simran gave me chills. Nothings given me chills
We have no words how does someone do that!
It started in 2009, when "JJ" messaged her to get some relationship advice. But supposedly that was Simran pretending to be JJ and she wasn't even in a relationship with him at that time. However, simultaneously, Simran was catfishing the real JJ too. SimBob messaged occasionally from 2010 (when JJ was killed off) to 2014 and then they were in a relationship from 2015-2018. Someone needs to make a timeline of the events.
Also, when Simran confessed and was sitting on the stairs, she didn't say to Kirat "You ruined your own life".... (I had to go back to read the transcript for this one). In podcast ep:3, 37:21, the presenter had asked Kirat was there an apology from Simran and Kirat said no and went on to say, "....it was so poignant there wasn't a sorry and it was, I've ruined my own life.....Simran appeared to be more concerned about what this confession meant for her rather than for Kirat." My interpretation is that Simran is selfish and saying to herself that she ruined her own life because the cat is out of the bag and it will ruin her reputation, according to the presenter's opinion.
Oh thanks for clarifying!!
Love your podcast ❤
Thank you!
We need an explanation on what simrans parents did with her. How does she get away with it without a good smacking. She's also a desi!!
Girlllll facts!
You guys should compete in cooking (roti, samosa, etc.)
Hahah maybe one day
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I had a thought listening to this. Common speculation is that Simran was closeted and had feelings for Kirat but what if she was jealous of Kirat’s free spirit? She was older, living life on her terms, not in a typical desi approved job (radio DJ) and seemingly doing as she pleased rather than crippled under this pressure that Simran was probably going through academically. Maybe Simran started this out of spite for Kirat’s freedom and it spiralled out of control?
Definitely a possibility
I can’t even that many emotions for a person that I would know in real life let alone having any sympathy for an online person
Simran is clearly in the wrong not defending her, but why did Kirat even start chatting with a married man in the first place? A random married man is complaining about his married life, and you’re going to engage in conversation with him?🤨
Strange, no? And she becomes friends with his wife? Huh?!
@@654ujala yeah it felt off but then again what she went through was so horrible that not much can be really said
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Should we watch the Netflix documentary first or listen to podcast?
Listen to the podcast first
Or when a guy that you are really like won’t make time for you- tell him to be like Simran. If she can do- boy you have no excuse!! 😂
27:11 Another theory is simran was in love with kirat😭
Yes possible
And also they must have had intimate calls so how could Simran be comfortable with that exchange unless she wasnt a lesbian
Definitely possible
37:58 it's another season of YOU ngl. So scary.
Truee
How did Kirat never come across the REAL Bobby’s facebook profile ?
There is a possibility that Simran would have blocked the real profile from kirat's account. Also she met the real Bobby at a party when they were in a friendship phase. He didn't recognise her, but still she didn't find it odd.
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So simran stole the identity of 60 people? Wasn’t she using real pictures for the other accounts?
Yes she was
@@OKMomPodcast so why don’t the 60 victims sue the daylights out of Simran.
How the heck did Simran remember the 60 accounts back story.🤯
We are just as BAFFLED as you!
@@OKMomPodcast she could be game of thrones fans 🥲 A lot of us who are used to following the book characters can manage it.
I don't see anything exceptional or extraordinary here. Kirat, a straight woman in her 30's, is desperate to find a boyfriend. Her cousin Simran is lesbian and has a crush on Kirat. Therefore Simran creates a fake Facebook profile of some guy Bobby and through that fake profile the two have a happy ten year online relationship until Kirat finally hires a private detective and realizes that Bobby is really Simran which of course is extremely disappointing.
The fact that this went on for so many years is a little weird however when you compare this to women who send a million dollars to a Nigerian scammer, which happens every day, this isn't so bad.
IMO i think simran was lesbian and she was not alone in doing everything.
Its possible