I would change the fact thatbi still have bed tome when i was younger i didn't have any btw I'm 14 and ny parnet came more strict when my little brother was born
I would change my parent's old mentality cuz I hate it so much..they just tell me to live my life according to them..they don't understand me a bit..why don't they understand this is my life..even they tell me to choose my lover according to them..like seriously?? I HATE THEM SO MUCH..I am only with them cuz of my needs..If I would leave them then life will be not possible..cuz I need food and money..and the worst part is they don't even let me do a safe job..I want to earn for myself
she basically described my parents the only thing wrong was the substance abuse also btw about the grade one they even told me a flat lie saying colleges look at your middle school grades
The worst part: depression and anxiety is now the leading cause of suicides, and the only sad part: theyll hate you if your allive, and only loved when your "gone". And the worstest part about it, they dont care and continue passing it to their new childs.
My mom removed the emotion crying in my body 2 years ago. I was unable to cry and let my emotions go. Luckily i still relieve myself (by crying ofc) but that happens once or twice per year
MY MOM DOES THAT TO ME - literally every time when i do something and like smack my little brother back, who is 6 years younger than me, but he’s pretty strong too, and really arrogant + bullies me a lot, my mom doesn’t give a little shit, she thinks just been I’m pretty much a teen now, I’m able to handle all the bruises/injuries I get - sprained wrists, scratches, bites, bruises, I mean yeah I don’t mind them, but sometimes when it’s like a bruise in a specific area/sprained wrist/bite, it could last like 2-3 weeks (not too long but still smh)
@@beanhead7632 u know like dat parents are so deluiled now a days if they could experience the things we have to go through then they would understand and not act like this
yE My mom is kind and lovely but- She’s said dis which my heart really want her to not be my mom I don’t hate babies My mom she hates babies I just stay quite and I’m not person who talks much I don’t even has a sis Her- “SHe hAs a siStEr aNd sHe hAtEs hEr” I want my brother to treat me fair My mom-hE tReAtS hEr sO fAir bUt sHe sTArtS a fiGht
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
@@leorichard7955 I wish I can really trust them but I got no friends they left got their own life now and my sister father cause me this I can't really think
I am very sorry. big hugs! I recently cry everyday because of my mom too. she was never home a lot to learn about my autism. So that's why her and I got into it so much. If you read what I just wrote above in the comment section, you'll see.
Bad parents also never stops to think about why their child might be acting a certain way. As soon as their kid does something they don’t like or agree with, the kid instantly becomes a problem that must be controlled.
I’m always the happiest when I’m home alone Edit: does anyone else’s parents say you should be more social but won’t let you talk to anyone see anyone? Edit2: hope all of you are doing great
_"If I ever become a mother, I won't be anything like my mom."_ Edit: It is sad to see how many of us relate to this. Lets work hard on ourselves so that we are better than our parents.
@@drugs8177 Well here's the thing you could always be a good mom BUT always make sure that the father is really nice as well ight.. Because here outta my parents my mom is like the nicest person in the whole world but my dad on the other hand, he yells at me, screams at me, saying that he'll no longer do anything for my family, he humiliates me always make sure that the father is nice as well... otherwise there is literally nothing you could do but to get a divorce if you try to talk to him he'll get even more mad and he might even try to hit you soo yeah (my father doesn't hit my mom or like y'know yells at her or smth, but i have a feeling that he doesn't do that because whenever he screams at me she never sticks up for me because she's scared that he might end up punching her or smth tho if she one day stands up for me and he ends up punching her, then he bouta lose his balls. anyways holy crap i don't wanna write a whole story of my dad being a total bum soo yeah just make sure you get a really nice bf (: )
Things I've been told that made my depression worse: "you just want attention." "your too young to comprehend your emotions. "you have it too good to be depressed. "just be happy.
@@Psych2go All but the physical abuse actually, it's actually kinda sad that it's all but one. Then they ask why I'm depressed and cut and I'm over here to scared to even be in the same room because of what they do.
When your parents just point out the negativity and ignore the good things that you have worked hard on instead of providing actual support, love and appreciation for who you are.
when all they do is point out ur flaws and ignore the good things but when u tell them u did those good things they either dont believe u did it or they are gonna say it matters to them when it really doesnt
if someone didn't tell u already u worth it,ily even if u don't know me and i genuinely appreciate u and u are doing amazing.every little thing will be alright so keep going and remember that It is scientifically proved that if u are really bad right now u will be good maybe soon too i m here for u i know what u are going trough but pls ilysm feel free to talk to me,i am not telling u to underestimate ur things,go to a doctor or stuff is not something that is bad or like... U ARE BEAUTIFUL AND I WANNA SCREAM AT THE WORLD THIS BC IT'S WORTH IT AND U ARE WORTH IT AT LEAST FOR THIS STRANGER THAT LITERALLY LOVES YOU SO MUCH,when you want to die you have to strive to live as much as you you want to to die,trust GOD.GOD Bless us.Amen
My mom never appreciates me it's like she only loves my brother coz she compares me and my brother and point out all the flaws while I'm the one who completes all the responsibilities of both a boy and girl but still...i think she's getting toxic day by day but I don't knw what to do other than ignoring 😔😔
@Nalesh Hewavithana no, it means if the parents hurting child too much like in this video and are making u feel bad, I have parents like them I don't wanna stay with them they are just hurting me and don't even wanna listen to my problems once
@@madhuprasad1429 same i am soo depressed at this point that my parents ignores and harras me everytime i do anything specially my mom she is always jealous of my studying and harrassing me to stop 😭
My parents were always fighting with each other, for years and years it was just constant fighting and arguing, my dad was horrible to me and the rest of my family was no better. Now I'm 40 years old I still hate the way I was treated. I promised myself I would never turn out like my family. And I can honestly say I've done pretty well without them.
The saddest thing is that I hesitate to talk to my parents. Whatever the case I always fear they will bring negativity from it. They never understand me :(
Same.. my mum mostly never cares about me at all, she always talks dirty to me, for example: when i cry (im a sensitive perosn btw) she would always say "stop crying, you act like such a baby" and that just makes me feel bad about my self. I would always get pushed and forced on doing something she wished she dreamed of, and if id cry, i would probably get punished.. she has no empathy at all, she never and i say NEVER feel bad for me :( im so jealous others have such supportive parents.. and i dont..
my mom doesn't understand depression. there's this woman that literally has everything. •money •love •fame everything good you can think of. but that woman is still depressed. my mom thinks that the woman is just overreacting, because the woman has everything. so, when I told her I had depression, my mom thinks I'm just copying my cousin that also has depression. that's why I keep everything to myself.
I watched this video right after i was mentally and emotionally and physically abused by my mother, and there's always a voice in my head telling me "i wish i wasn't born" , but now i feel like i am used to getting abused from my parents and they make me feel like i don't deserve to be born, the onlu thing i want is privacy and a peaceful life that i don't get abused or annoyed all the time, i get blamed for everything and I don't know what will make me perfect in the view of my parents, i always thought of running away from my house or kill*ing myself or kill*ing my parents, and afterall, i am only 12! I deserve to be happy and i deserve to have a supportive and loving parents no matter what! This is all i want! I am a person too! I dont like it when i see other kids that have supportive parents who loves them more than anything in the world,but i know that my wishes will never come true , to anyone that's having the same probs as me; don't worry, and pleaase dont make decisions that will make you regret doing it, and always remember, god is always with us. I love you allp
Please reach out to a teacher,counselor, a friends parents.... someone!!! You both deserve better & I'm so sorry you're going through this, because no one deserves to feel less than & absolutely NO ONE SHOULD BE PUTTING HANDS ON YOU NOT EVEN YOUR PARENTS!!! If you need help there are people who will help you!! Please reach out!! I'm sending virtual hugs to you both ❤
Well if i ever became parent i Will do my best to never let my son daughter suffre bullying and if they want to became something i Will help them i have lil bro and i get angry and hard at him sometimes but when i do i auto regret why i did that i am 14 years old guy and i Will do my best to be good parent in futur
The worst part is when they make you depressed and are toxic asf but also are sometimes nice and you even feel guilty for hating them even tho they are literally making you worse.
It's funny how parents don't even realize what they're doing to their child, then the parents say it's from being on the internet like it's not their fault
Sometimes I think they do it bc they think that they can tell us whatever they want becasue they are our parents and they have the authority. No one has the authority to cause someone depresion.
Im a parent of 2 boys 28yrs old & 16. reading these comments made me literally cry for all you kids! I wish I could hug every one of you 😢 Even though im almost 50 I still suffer from my childhoid with a selfish uninvolved mother. I promised myself I would be nothing like my mother!! I have a great relationship with my kids, but I definitely think I was trying so hard not to be like my mother that I may have unintentionally hurt my kids by doing too much. Parenting is hard, communication is everything!! Please talk to your parents about your feelings if you can. I know some parents just suck, but there are so many people out there who care & will listen, find your person & therapy is also great when you find the right therapist. Just remember, your feelings are valid, you matter & childhood is over in the blink of an eye, so you have your whole life ahead of you to be free & happy!! I wish all of you a happy, healthy, fulfilled life ❤
I mean we can do what we “like” but they just take it in bad way and don’t let us do anything and what they say is “I’m teaching u how to be perfect” oh cmon y can’t we do what we like I really like to make new games but they took my pc away and “teaching” me Ughhh when will they change It’s literally a new generation now
And this makes you want to never have your own children because you think that you might treat them like your parents did with you. You know that your parents have ingrained negative thoughts so deeply in your mind, that you might never unlearn the generational trauma they unleashed upon you.
Kinda felt like that before now I don't feel that great neither of those places but I'm more used to staying at home (cause when I'm home alone it feels like a home but kinda empty and lonely, specially if I'm not doing something productive).
I just wished my parents knew so they won't treat me like I'm less better than anyone else they don't know everytime they compare me I go to my room and cry silently wish I never existed and I'm just a burden sorry I just really need to let this out
It's so glad that I came across this Chanel because back when I was just 15 years old, I was severely depressed and it leads me to self harming, I opened up to my mom about it and she just say that "Self harming is such bullshit people who don't have minds do and your problem isn't that of a big deal since I you're just a kid and not going through a real problem in life" and it really hurts me and broke my heart since I expected her to comfort me and cheer me up, but now I learned to heel myself and open up to does people who understands me like my friends . (My problem is I've been constantly bullied back when I was just 11 years old it reached to the point that they've framed me for stealing my classmates money and I was sent to the principal's office and the teacher didn't even do anything about it or the bullying and just told me to ignore them)
i feel so bad for you and relate to SH as it was something I did for a few years and being 16 and seeing the way my parents talk about ppl with mental-health issuses,going as far to call them selfish,is the reason why I have trust issues wth them and would nvr be able to open up about such things like that.I was also bullied in school multiple times since primary so I feel your pain,hope we both heal from this.
I feel like im weak. I always explode or snap to my parents. When i open up to my friends they tell me about their problems and how lucky i am. I need ur opinion an i a drama queen or what cause i dont even know anymore
@@datboi6671 I don't think that you're being dramatic, I feel the same way most of the time like I'm not good enough and that I'm worthless but I realised that there is someone out there who cares about me and loves me for who I am. I hope this helps ❤️
my mom takes away my phone because I have online friends. actually only one. some people I've met online have helped me with depression and when I went through series of panic attacks. she's never helped me because I'm scared to talk to her. she once took away my phone for 2 months straight. I spent almost all of that time alone in my room. Edit: she's taken away my phone again, she says I'm never getting it back.
I know what you mean I was at the point of killing my self and my uncle cause I went down to some railroad tracks and he ran down there and started chasing me back to the house and everything gone toys electronics everything besides my bed and some Shelves
Thank you for this video. My parents aren't bad, abusive, or strict, but yeah, I still feel lonely, and I am an only child, so I don't really have anyone else to hang out with at home. This somehow made the school a safe space for me, something my younger self could never imagine. To everyone else struggling with sadness whether it's depression or something else, big hugs!
The hardest part of all of this is that you keep feeling worse day by day and my parents think I am acting different, irresponsible or just being lazy but actually I am hurting.
I have bouts with depression, anxiety , very low self esteem, I’ve had jobs, but no career . I see failure when I look in a mirror. Raised to become a perfectionist, I’ve become the perfect nothing. Sad to waste a life
It’s sad that we’re all here watching this knowing that it’s not going to get better for you. It’s sad how people you call family are ruining your life and killing you inside...
My dad once said we all have a limit and we will snap even if your the calming,sweet nice person we will snap if something,someone pass our limit and my dad said your a calming person you dont snap easily but when your old enough and the arguing wont stop you will snap.. Just maybe something you would like to know?..
My mom and my dad discipline me and i lost my self esteem...and my confidence. discipline will make all kids hate their own parents until they grow up.
*it deeply hurts when a child searches for parents love even when they're alive n around the child, deeper than a lover searching for his/her partner's love*
aaliya sheikh I’m 12 and my parents never trust me. My mom picks my clothes and my life choices. Even if I don’t like it, and if I say something my mom will call me ungrateful. I have more to say but it’s personal I’m suffering from major depression and I’m starting to think it’s them. I need someone to talk to but my counselor doesn’t understand. People say I fake my depression cause I’m 12 cause supposedly we can’t get depression...
You know it's bad when you are scared that your parents are coming home cuz you know you will be sad or scared what will happen again. Thank you guys for the likes, I hate how many people can relate to this. I hope for everyone it gets better and one day you won't always have to be with them. Just remember that!
Yeah they're "helping" a lot more like making your kid go through anxiety all the life and beat you up for nothing because they're drunk Man I hate my life
I’m hate bringing my friends to my house because my parents are so judgmental and always compare me to them. It’s so annoying, I feel like I’ll never be good enough
"Wow, you're problems aren't even real problems!" -Dad, in a sarcastic tone, after I tell him about my rough day "You're not depressed, it's probably just the weather." -Mom, to me, in front the doctor who just said I had depression There's a lot more, too. My family calls me lazy when I don't get out of bed and ungrateful when I don't feel like eating.
Families can really suck! But just because they're related to you doesn't mean they say true things. "No one else believes in you. Why don't you put in an effort to get what you want?" -My Mom to me when I told her I didn't want to do something she was forcing me to do even though it was for "my own good" "Worthless" -My Dad, after I spent a few extra minutes talking to my sad friend to comfort them. I'm pretty sure these aren't true, and they just aint good
My mom threatens to take away my phone any time I do something even slightly wrong (sometimes I didn't even do anything, my siblings just lie and blame it on me) But my phone is literally my safe place... So when she takes it away, my mental health just crumbles 🙃
Last year I had a mental breakdown and cried to my mom about how depressed I was. She asked me to tell her the reasons why, at that moment I wasnt ready to tell her the truth so I told her stupid things. Though she didnt say these exact words she practically told me "you have no reason to be depressed." Though I love my mom, shes emotionally detached from me. Often telling me my emotions are " because I'm a teenager, or that I'm over exaggerating" it really hurts.
Well if you said stupid things instead of the truth, what do you think is gonna happen? Half of the times this preteens self diagnose themselves, ofc people are gonna be skeptical. Depression is not something that you can just say you have it, just bc you had sucidal thoughts once or twice, that's not how it works. Even if you're not ready for therapy, you need proper medical detail to say you're suffering from depression. It's not like other mental problems. And honestly more than half of the time the depressed people I find in the internet are b/w the age group of 9-15 and while I agree they can also suffer from depression, they think as if having depression makes them the cool kids when in reality they're just sad or feeling alone at that particular moment. It has to be said, stop disrespecting people who actually have to fight everyday to get out of the fcking bed w/o a mental breakdown. There's nothing cool about having depression, it's way more severe than you can even imagine.
@@Abandonedaccount129 Are you okay? Here, take this virtual hug! Loading... Just remember that there’s always someone out there who appreciates you, as a person as well as your talents, even if it doesn’t come from your family. And please please please, don’t end it. Everyone has their talents, including you. Stay strong. You can do this. I’ll be praying for you.
Just a list of them all so you can see them all at once :) 1. They hold you back from your dreams 2. They put a lot of pressure on you 3. They're emotionally unavailable to you 4. Their presence overwhelms you 5. They worsen your depression 6. Their dysfunction rubs off on you 7. Their mental illness affects you 8. They struggle with substance abuse 9. They've become abusive 10. They don't help you overcome your depression
I had to admit that this video known me so well it is like reading my life. Although they just did 2,3,9,10, but it is hurtful enough. Just use 2 as example whereas I remember I got the most: since I was just a kid till presents, whenever I trying to shares something, no matter sadness or great news, they will just tells me to "go away you are bothering me", "it is nothing big deal don't be so annoying", "you are wasting our time".....and so on. They also keeps telling me that most of the strangers are dangerous, that I shouldn't trust anyone. Caused me to hardly make friend, just like isolating myself.
@@vivianchenloveforever my sisters do that to me, my parents dont but my sisters also lowered my self-esteem and when i talk to my friends i always ask them if im being annoying coz im scared they would think the same as my sisters. But now I realized that it is my sisters fault although im still scared im being annoying
When I tried to tell my mum how she sometimes makes me feel she made it out to be that I’m criticizing her and trying to call her a bad mother. This is why communication doesn’t exist between me and my mother.
You are not alone Klaudia. Same situation on my side. My mum still (for about 16 years now) claims she is the victim. And made my wish O was never born. And if I wanted to explain my point of view, she'd claim that that I was being only critical. If pointed out something exclusively positive and agreeable about her, she would simply ignore it and later claim I never said it. To this day I am still not sure, whether her brain is automatically filtering stuff out, or is she doing this on purpose. The difference is, I don't really care anymore, but am still sad about it.
Im glad i found this video i didnt know if maybe i was just being delusional but the last one really spoke to me, a while back i was feeling really depressed and i was just not happy with myself and my relationship with some of the members in my family they made me feel like a bad person based of some of the things they would say like " dont listen to her, dont do what shes doing etc.." and when they would say stuff like that it would kind of get to me and when all these thoughts started coming into my head like " youre a bad person, youre not skinny enough, eww u look bad in this photo, nobody wants to be around you, youre a bad example, etc and at night i would cry and ask god if he would forgive me if i ended myself- idk if youtube would alow me to say the real word but anyways i would ask god that and then i finally got teh courage to tell my mom how i was felling and i cried my heart out and she was kind of sad but then later we all talked again and i got into an argument with her and what ended up coming out of her mouth is that she didnt belive i was depressed witch made me so sad because i really was feeling this way and to have my own mother say this to my face was so heartbreaking she said " you have no reason to be depressed." and that really hurt me she doesn't know the thoughts going through my head at night and to hear that really broke my and the only person who noticed that i was a little different was my dad and he was the one person i couldt tell because i didnt want to break his heart . but yea ty for reading this i had to get this off my chest and if yall made it all the way down here ty i hope whatever youre going through rn you get better and that u tell someone abt it even thought it didnt go so great for me doesnt mean it will go the same for u!
“Im tired of being what you want me to be Feeling so faithless, lost under the surface I dont know what you’re expecting of me Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes”
Sometimes, I feel like running away from home and NEVER COMING BACK because of how strict my parents are sometimes. I'm having nightmares of them. This is one issue that is making me struggle to cope with reality. Thank God I found this video and some people that relate to me!
I can't talk to my mom I broke my laptop I haven't told her and I need it for school I've been using touch screen but I can't use it forever I don't want to be scolded by her but she's one of a kind mom in a bad way thow I broke my laptop last year and now this year. Its a hp
Step up the school work. It'll get you out of that place. Life's long..this time is going fast, though it feels like forever. Work your butt off to get out of there. Then never go back.. You'll be O.K. Don't doubt. Big breaths.
The up coming generations would be lucky enough who would be having parents like us coz we know what we have gone through or are going through... And we would never let our kids to go through the same.. Belive me or not but that's true 🥺🥺
I see your point, but having parents like this affects us and could cause us to be like them without or with knowing it. I get that you want to be better than your parents, but maybe you will be. And so might I and everybody with bad parents. Reguardless, I hope everyone can acheive this when/if they have children.
@@Baby_ruby08 oh my god im so sorry you poor thing thats so awful, i know my apology does nothing but i hope you can soon escape from such horror and i hope you can get the courage to get help, best of wishes for you.
I can’t believe the internet understands me more than my own parents. You really can find anything on the internet, even emotional support from a complete stranger…
@@codeswift27 wanna be friends? Even real life friends will enjoy our suffering, might use this vulnerability against us and will not relate because their parents were normal.
It's really hard, I relate to all of this signs, I tried communicating and talking to my parents but nothing seems to work. they finally said yes to a therapist because i was nearly begging them for it. and when they told me to tell them everything, it turned out that i am an ungrateful brat, who doesn't see what my parents do for me and i say that they are bad parents and they don't consider themselves as bad parents because they kept us fed and warm. and I'm the one in wrong here and i shouldn't be depressed. this kind of bullshit and low knowledge is making me so mad. i hope we all get the help and happiness we deserve, because everyone deserves to be loved, confident and happy. i wish you all to succeed and never give up in your life.❤
“If you tell me the truth, I wouldn’t be mad” man it SUCKS when your parents tell you that, and when you tell them whats going on the first thing they do is yell at you for “lying”
I don’t even get scared of them when they yell I just don’t argue back cause if I make a valid point in an argument they have no good comeback so they say shit like “Quit being a victim” yet I never said I was or they’ll just take my shit away cause they don’t know how to argue or debate.
Yea my mom have legit mini mental breakdowns very time I don’t listen…and it matter if it was my mistake. It could be hers and she still will blame it on me
I feel this in my soul! My mother would constantly push me to get a house with her so she could have me around forever but she screamed at me when I even hinted I didn't want that
The worst is when they compare yourself with your sibling. Guys the fact that so many children can relate to this is so sad. I am sorry people who were supposed to be your happy place are actually depressing you. I am sorry you are hurting. But this shall pass. We are in this together
@siddarth s bro stay strong. This phase shall pass. Suicide is not an option. I am with you. If you suicide now you'll fail and you will never be able to surpass your brother. Stay strong.
I can't believe this. We are kids under 20, fighting depression, getting stressed, having anxiety, self harming, having suicidal thoughts, and our parents don't give a damn. We feel happiest when we are away from our families. Strangers on the internet help us more than our mothers. At first I used to feel like they are my parents, I have to keep them happy no matter what. But now I just don't care. Everyone on the internet feels more welcoming. Everyone here, You, the person reading this, promise me RIGHT NOW, WE WILL GET OUT OF THIS TOGETHER, AND WE WILL NEVER LET OUR OWN KIDS GO THROUGH THIS. You all, with me, we'll hold on and keep being positive. Dang anyone who makes you feel bad. You were born to shine. ❤️❤️
i can totally relate. Like i have a completely different personality with my online friends. It's so hard to just open up to our OWN parents. it hurts! like it hurts so much. J feels like you have no one around to talk, to just spill out everything and anything you feel. And yah i'm never ever going to be the same person with our next generation!
@@lisztomaniac- me too! I was depressed like 2 years ago when I was age 9. But sure I still sometimes gets overwhemled when "My parents" compare me to my friends or the books I read and I need to do better.
Hard to ascertain that, considering so many of the emotional/verbal/physical abuses radiate through us (unconsciously). And when/if we become parents, we invoke our own abuses onto our children. It’s a vicious cycle that’s so hard to break 😓
i can relate to this so much. they stop me from my goals and achievements and drag me down whenever they’re going through a hard time. they enforce negativity onto me whenever i feel positive for once. if they see me happy, it makes them smile when then bring me down.
my mom always yells at me and never stop talking badly about me. I feel like she hates me. I’m crying while writing this message because of how much Im yelled and hated at. I wish everyone a great day and blessed ❤
Yup. That's not love idiot, that's keeping another human alive. That's called common decency. Being there for us, supporting us no matter what, listening to our issues WITHOUT blowing up on us - that and so much more is love.
You're right. Nobody notices my tears, sadness, or pain... BECAUSE I DON'T EVEN HAVE ANY IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! >:D As for my mistakes? I have none of those, EITHER!
@@azureblade5610 Bro your literally On the wrong comment they're talking about depression and your just commenting how you have no mistakes sadness, pain .
My mom didn't say it that direct but, she did say that my depressed feelings weren't that serious and it probably was just my hormones.... Until I became suicidal, so... Thnx mom
I have depression, and if I get to grow up and have a family, I’ll never treat my kids the way I was treated. Ignored, put down, it properly cared for. Hurt.
It's sad when you're parents abuse you physically and mentally but you can't share it with anyone because you know people are going to judge them and you care about them being judged.
I also hate it when parents take out their problems on you and start yelling at you. I understand everyone has hard days but when I’m mad I take it out on my pillow not my mother. But she seems to not care about ruining my day just because hers was also ruined.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
fr , my father does this and i also understand his work is tiring and has to take care of both me and my brother but when he just screams at us both is so scary. i usually would just carry my brother and run to my room and we both would just cry😥.
Exactly..my mom rarely does that but when she does it’s like “wtf? You don’t need to be a bitch to me all because you’re struggling with your day..if you wanna bring it out than bring it out in a CALMER way and just vent..” like WHY CAN’T OUR PARENTS JUST DO THAT..
The time when I needed a councellor or someone to talk, my dad just told it would bring shame ; he thought if ppl around us saw me going to a therapist's house, they would think I am 'crazy' and would bring 'us' shame. I tried so many times talking to them abt my problems and mental health but they just couldn't understand it. I gradually stopped talking to my dad bcoz he himself has some mental health issues (which he doesn't acknowledge) that made my situation even worse. Then he just threatened me saying that if I don't talk to him anymore, he'll cut ties with me in the future. 1:23 ,I could relate with it so much. Wtf does he know abt how hard those times were for me? I told him so many times but he just didn't understand me. But now its all going fine... For those who are going through a hard time pls never quit, everything's gonna be fine one day trust me.
so you say... have you ever been hitted on with a belt on your back repeatedly while you force yourself not to cry for saving whatever little proud and dignity you have left and see how your mom gets angry cause you don't cry and she hits you harder and harder until she finally breaks you and make you cry and then froces you to go to school injured and with a swollen red face knowing everyone will stare at you as a freak all day?
I was depressed from the age 8 till 13. I developed suicidal thoughts and tried to commit multiple times, once I finally felt better and was no longer depressed, I resorted to self harm to cope with the trauma and abuse I was (and still am) dealing with. My parents knew, every single year I was depressed, suicidal and self harmed. They did nothing. I felt so alone and sad, angry too. Once I confronted my father, because I was so terribly done with their abuse, I had a terrible mental breakdown, my father grabbed me by my hoodie and was choking me. I told him to stop and he told me that if I didn’t behave and go to my room, he’d take me there and hurt me (while he choked me, he also grabbed me with his other hand and lifted me up). I then actually confronted him on how he treats me and how he and my mother have done NOTHING to help me. He just said “we took you to therapy”. That’s all he had to say. and it was such a dumb excuse… I had been struggling with social issues, bullying as well as other issues at school and BEGGED my parents for months for them to take me to therapy because I was really struggling with severe anxiety (due to what I suspect to be autism and the years of me not being able to “properly” socialize with others). They finally took me, and you know what they do? I go 3 whole times to therapy and they begin asking if I actually need to go. I told them multiple times, yes. But that wasn’t enough! They just stopped taking me.
If there's one thing that you could change magically about your life, what would that be and why?
that i didn’t have to live with my parents and i could move out now because they push me to just agree with them even if i disagree on everything
I would change the fact thatbi still have bed tome when i was younger i didn't have any btw I'm 14 and ny parnet came more strict when my little brother was born
I would like to change my mother..
She is toxic.. and always puts so much pressure on me. Especially in school..
I would change my parent's old mentality cuz I hate it so much..they just tell me to live my life according to them..they don't understand me a bit..why don't they understand this is my life..even they tell me to choose my lover according to them..like seriously?? I HATE THEM SO MUCH..I am only with them cuz of my needs..If I would leave them then life will be not possible..cuz I need food and money..and the worst part is they don't even let me do a safe job..I want to earn for myself
Idk There are too many things I would like to change ._.
I honestly felt relieved when I found out that my parent's presence can affect my mood is an actual thing, I thought I was being delusional
i cant find the arrow up button on my surface but omg pretend i spammed it. i get soooooo overwhelmed by them its on another level :/
same....and i thought i have anger issues whenever I'm with them
@@mizukihayashi2637 same I have lot of anger issue
Mizuki Hayashi I thought I was autistic
Does anyone else think your parents are holding you back from being a celebrity, just me ok
It’s sad that random people on the internet understand me better than my parents ever will.
True....
she basically described my parents the only thing wrong was the substance abuse also btw about the grade one they even told me a flat lie saying colleges look at your middle school grades
Facts but its good to know that "some" people can understand you.
Damn true
So true
The saddest thing is when you don't even know if you're depressed or if you're just too dramatic
Exactly
@Azreele I hope you'll get better dear ♡
@Azreele Oh I'm sorry!
@Azreele Np ♡
I feel like I'm being dramatic or overreacting
It boils my head
The worst part: depression and anxiety is now the leading cause of suicides, and the only sad part: theyll hate you if your allive, and only loved when your "gone". And the worstest part about it, they dont care and continue passing it to their new childs.
My mom removed the emotion crying in my body 2 years ago. I was unable to cry and let my emotions go. Luckily i still relieve myself (by crying ofc) but that happens once or twice per year
Omg preach
the worst part is when they gossip about you to other adults.
Exactly😂
MY MOM DOES THAT TO ME - literally every time when i do something and like smack my little brother back, who is 6 years younger than me, but he’s pretty strong too, and really arrogant + bullies me a lot, my mom doesn’t give a little shit, she thinks just been I’m pretty much a teen now, I’m able to handle all the bruises/injuries I get - sprained wrists, scratches, bites, bruises, I mean yeah I don’t mind them, but sometimes when it’s like a bruise in a specific area/sprained wrist/bite, it could last like 2-3 weeks (not too long but still smh)
@@beanhead7632 u know like dat parents are so deluiled now a days if they could experience the things we have to go through then they would understand and not act like this
ugh i hate that seriously pisses me off
yE
My mom is kind and lovely but-
She’s said dis which my heart really want her to not be my mom
I don’t hate babies
My mom she hates babies
I just stay quite and I’m not person who talks much
I don’t even has a sis
Her-
“SHe hAs a siStEr aNd sHe hAtEs hEr”
I want my brother to treat me fair
My mom-hE tReAtS hEr sO fAir bUt sHe sTArtS a fiGht
When parents explain their reasons to us,we listen
But when we explain our sadness,they cut us off
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
Yeah ikr..also sorry for ruining 33 likes
I relate to this comment so much :/
Same with me :(
@@leorichard7955 I wish I can really trust them but I got no friends they left got their own life now and my sister father cause me this I can't really think
“If you tell me the truth, I wouldn’t be mad”
this made me have trust issues
Wales Rebel Same-
This and toxic friendship (aka bullying?) in an early age
@@den_nyssa it's okay honey. Exsactly same here. I'm moving next week. I pray for the best
this generation of parents suck. my mum used to sneak things into my food and lie. now living with an eating disorder :/
Yeah, and when they do the uno reverse card and actually get mad at you
I hope my mom feels what she’s said to me, I cry almost everyday because of her.
I am very sorry. big hugs! I recently cry everyday because of my mom too. she was never home a lot to learn about my autism. So that's why her and I got into it so much. If you read what I just wrote above in the comment section, you'll see.
I’m happiest when I’m home alone / when everyone is asleep
Same
Me too...🌹
SAMEEEE😕
same
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I will give my future children a life my parents couldn’t give me.
Trust me your parents attitude will past to you beacause you have been with them for years
@@spacegalaxy4329 Dang I never thought of that
i will adopt my kids, so they have a better life, and i will do the most i could do with them.
@Space Galaxy trust me, i one be a deppression causing mum. i will make the have love what my mum wouldnt even try to give me.
I will try my best in the future
“If you tell me the truth, I won’t be mad.”
Lies.
Edit: guys pls get better parents cuz your stories are genuinely worrying me
Absolutely
It’s sad that so many people relate including myself.
Exactly.
omgg ikr!!
ikr they end up getting mad
Bad parents also never stops to think about why their child might be acting a certain way. As soon as their kid does something they don’t like or agree with, the kid instantly becomes a problem that must be controlled.
I’m always the happiest when I’m home alone
Edit: does anyone else’s parents say you should be more social but won’t let you talk to anyone see anyone?
Edit2: hope all of you are doing great
Same....
Same same
Yep
@William Shakespeare same
My birthday wish didn't come true...they stayed home...I'M GLAD THEY CAME HOME THOUGH I WAN'T THEM TO COME HOME THOUGH just wan't to be free
_"If I ever become a mother, I won't be anything like my mom."_
Edit: It is sad to see how many of us relate to this. Lets work hard on ourselves so that we are better than our parents.
me too i will be that mom for them that they won't even know the word depression
@@drugs8177 Well here's the thing you could always be a good mom BUT always make sure that the father is really nice as well ight.. Because here outta my parents my mom is like the nicest person in the whole world but my dad on the other hand, he yells at me, screams at me, saying that he'll no longer do anything for my family, he humiliates me always make sure that the father is nice as well... otherwise there is literally nothing you could do but to get a divorce if you try to talk to him he'll get even more mad and he might even try to hit you soo yeah (my father doesn't hit my mom or like y'know yells at her or smth, but i have a feeling that he doesn't do that because whenever he screams at me she never sticks up for me because she's scared that he might end up punching her or smth tho if she one day stands up for me and he ends up punching her, then he bouta lose his balls. anyways holy crap i don't wanna write a whole story of my dad being a total bum soo yeah just make sure you get a really nice bf (: )
With the way my parents raised me,I won’t even have a kid.
That's also what I'm thinking, but then again... I wanna be SINGLE for the rest of my life. IDK... Probably scared having an own family.
I wouldn't be my parents either
The “You’re too young to be depressed” and “why can’t you be just like your brother” hits me hard to my sensitive heart and mind
Sounds similar to me , the only thing is I have anxiety and my dad tells me that I supposed to be on the level of my sister
2nd one sounds like every time me n my classmates do something teacher doesn't like.
Whenever I show them my achievements instead of praising me they act like it's nothing and ignore me :/
Same
This is why I always turn to music that makes me feel better
Things I've been told that made my depression worse:
"you just want attention."
"your too young to comprehend your emotions.
"you have it too good to be
depressed.
"just be happy.
Omg! Yes! Sure their are lives worse than mine but that shouldn't take away how I feel.
It sucks how much people can relate to every single one of these.
Same, brother!!
Giving my support and good vibes.
its quite shocking to me. parents, everyone needs to realized mental health is truly important. its so sad thinking about it.
@@Jellymint48 🤘
How many signs did you relate to?
@@Psych2go All but the physical abuse actually, it's actually kinda sad that it's all but one. Then they ask why I'm depressed and cut and I'm over here to scared to even be in the same room because of what they do.
When your parents just point out the negativity and ignore the good things that you have worked hard on instead of providing actual support, love and appreciation for who you are.
exactly, thats worst, but unfortunately i m used to it now
when all they do is point out ur flaws and ignore the good things but when u tell them u did those good things they either dont believe u did it or they are gonna say it matters to them when it really doesnt
if someone didn't tell u already u worth it,ily even if u don't know me and i genuinely appreciate u and u are doing amazing.every little thing will be alright so keep going and remember that It is scientifically proved that if u are really bad right now u will be good maybe soon too i m here for u i know what u are going trough but pls ilysm feel free to talk to me,i am not telling u to underestimate ur things,go to a doctor or stuff is not something that is bad or like... U ARE BEAUTIFUL AND I WANNA SCREAM AT THE WORLD THIS BC IT'S WORTH IT AND U ARE WORTH IT AT LEAST FOR THIS STRANGER THAT LITERALLY LOVES YOU SO MUCH,when you want to die you have to strive to live as much as you you want to to die,trust GOD.GOD Bless us.Amen
At this point im just ignoring my parents
My mom never appreciates me it's like she only loves my brother coz she compares me and my brother and point out all the flaws while I'm the one who completes all the responsibilities of both a boy and girl but still...i think she's getting toxic day by day but I don't knw what to do other than ignoring 😔😔
"Every child deserves parents
but not every parent deserves a child"
~ i heard it somewhere its so deep and relatable
@Nalesh Hewavithana no, it means if the parents hurting child too much like in this video and are making u feel bad, I have parents like them I don't wanna stay with them they are just hurting me and don't even wanna listen to my problems once
Not every child wants a parent
@@ridewithice5587 same :')
@@madhuprasad1429 same i am soo depressed at this point that my parents ignores and harras me everytime i do anything specially my mom she is always jealous of my studying and harrassing me to stop 😭
@@iamMansiGupta yes mee too each and every sign matches my parents behaviour as shown in video .
My parents were always fighting with each other, for years and years it was just constant fighting and arguing, my dad was horrible to me and the rest of my family was no better. Now I'm 40 years old I still hate the way I was treated.
I promised myself I would never turn out like my family. And I can honestly say I've done pretty well without them.
I'm jealous of those who has good relationship with their parents.
ME TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Hope you’re okay :(
@@yuyvomitscutely oh same 🍔😍💀
Same
Me TOOO
The saddest thing is that I hesitate to talk to my parents. Whatever the case I always fear they will bring negativity from it. They never understand me :(
Same.. my mum mostly never cares about me at all, she always talks dirty to me, for example: when i cry (im a sensitive perosn btw) she would always say "stop crying, you act like such a baby" and that just makes me feel bad about my self. I would always get pushed and forced on doing something she wished she dreamed of, and if id cry, i would probably get punished.. she has no empathy at all, she never and i say NEVER feel bad for me :( im so jealous others have such supportive parents.. and i dont..
I want to fucking die
@@OneEyed8135 ngl, same, im kinda tired of living, im literally so exhausted, i still have to wait for years
Same
@@OneEyed8135 same, it’s the fucking worst to be at a house that you’re not even happy.
my mom doesn't understand depression.
there's this woman that literally has everything.
•money
•love
•fame
everything good you can think of.
but that woman is still depressed.
my mom thinks that the woman is just overreacting, because the woman has everything.
so, when I told her I had depression, my mom thinks I'm just copying my cousin that also has depression.
that's why I keep everything to myself.
I wanna send hug to you. My mon doesn’t understand my depression too.
Same -_-
But I don't care anymore that they understand me or not .
Parents *NEED* to learn that depression isnt a joke, and that if their child is depressed, the parents need to help
Same expect the copying part.
i mean you did just post this to the internet
I watched this video right after i was mentally and emotionally and physically abused by my mother, and there's always a voice in my head telling me "i wish i wasn't born" , but now i feel like i am used to getting abused from my parents and they make me feel like i don't deserve to be born, the onlu thing i want is privacy and a peaceful life that i don't get abused or annoyed all the time, i get blamed for everything and I don't know what will make me perfect in the view of my parents, i always thought of running away from my house or kill*ing myself or kill*ing my parents, and afterall, i am only 12! I deserve to be happy and i deserve to have a supportive and loving parents no matter what! This is all i want! I am a person too! I dont like it when i see other kids that have supportive parents who loves them more than anything in the world,but i know that my wishes will never come true , to anyone that's having the same probs as me; don't worry, and pleaase dont make decisions that will make you regret doing it, and always remember, god is always with us. I love you allp
I relate with your story so much today my mo beat me so much now my hands are only scars and blood
Please reach out to a teacher,counselor, a friends parents.... someone!!! You both deserve better & I'm so sorry you're going through this, because no one deserves to feel less than & absolutely NO ONE SHOULD BE PUTTING HANDS ON YOU NOT EVEN YOUR PARENTS!!! If you need help there are people who will help you!! Please reach out!! I'm sending virtual hugs to you both ❤
parents don’t understand how much they really effect us😖
yea..
Yeah really . .
Well if i ever became parent i Will do my best to never let my son daughter suffre bullying and if they want to became something i Will help them i have lil bro and i get angry and hard at him sometimes but when i do i auto regret why i did that i am 14 years old guy and i Will do my best to be good parent in futur
Yea
Ikr
The worst part is when they make you depressed and are toxic asf but also are sometimes nice and you even feel guilty for hating them even tho they are literally making you worse.
😭😭Facts mahn
Thats exactly whats happening to me
Yup
ikr
bruh those are one of the reasons why I want to be a adult just so i can live in peace
I will make sure to treat my future children better than my own parents did.
I will give my future kids a better life than my parents gave me
Me too, I did swore to myself that I won't be like them and I won't let them touch my future children.
That's exactly what I told my friend this morning
Same
I will ensure that they will be happy
This is like my therapy, its calming yet the topic is very heavy, but it feels as if it helps me understand myself more.
It's scary how we thought the people who love us the most when we were younger, are the ones who became the cause of our depression.
real talk
I was just thinking about that.
Word
Hi , I’ll use ur words as a quote.. can I have ur insta so I can credit u :)
@@ward4523 no need to credit me 😊 I just conveyed my thoughts. You can just credit me as "potato RJ". I don't have insta😅 what's your insta?
It's funny how parents don't even realize what they're doing to their child, then the parents say it's from being on the internet like it's not their fault
Sometimes I think they do it bc they think that they can tell us whatever they want becasue they are our parents and they have the authority. No one has the authority to cause someone depresion.
How the hell is that funny people go threw pain because of their parents
Then when I try to tell them I'm just sensitive
Ikr-
till one of their child is going to suicide, they realized and then regretting :////
“I only want the best for you”
But you don't know what's best for me
related they even advice us smthing tht they dont even know..
When I talk up about how I feel to my mom, She always says "You are being too negetive!" "You re not sad!" And never understands how I feel.
@@sheetalbhat7083 they say I'm acting depressed for attention :(
My mom does both unfortunately
I don't know why but i started crying when i read this (is that normal?)
Im a parent of 2 boys 28yrs old & 16. reading these comments made me literally cry for all you kids! I wish I could hug every one of you 😢 Even though im almost 50 I still suffer from my childhoid with a selfish uninvolved mother. I promised myself I would be nothing like my mother!! I have a great relationship with my kids, but I definitely think I was trying so hard not to be like my mother that I may have unintentionally hurt my kids by doing too much. Parenting is hard, communication is everything!! Please talk to your parents about your feelings if you can. I know some parents just suck, but there are so many people out there who care & will listen, find your person & therapy is also great when you find the right therapist. Just remember, your feelings are valid, you matter & childhood is over in the blink of an eye, so you have your whole life ahead of you to be free & happy!! I wish all of you a happy, healthy, fulfilled life ❤
“Its because you’re always on the internet” No, the internet is giving your child acceptance. That was YOUR job.
Yes
Facts.
Truee omg
yea
YESSS
“Tell me what’s wrong, I just wanna help you.”
*DAMN LIES.*
True
True
They just blame me for everything even my siblings fault
I wanna like but you're at 269 im sorry i cant.
I like it tho
@Marine Chuop-Mourareau is it bad I tell myself that so I can feel like I'm alright
and they say they were just "teaching" us to be a good kid.
I mean we can do what we “like” but they just take it in bad way and don’t let us do anything and what they say is “I’m teaching u how to be perfect” oh cmon y can’t we do what we like I really like to make new games but they took my pc away and “teaching” me
Ughhh when will they change
It’s literally a new generation now
They are just ruining my lifeeeee
Exactly ,
@@ray8221-y4r yeah ikr
Yeaahh.. They always give pressure on us
And this makes you want to never have your own children because you think that you might treat them like your parents did with you. You know that your parents have ingrained negative thoughts so deeply in your mind, that you might never unlearn the generational trauma they unleashed upon you.
"Your sister was never a problem, you cry about everything"
This caused me depression and always reminded me I wasn't good enough
Well this is so normal these days for me that I'm tired of hearing this
honestly. they always compare ur sibilings to you. i dont think they realise how TOXIC that is and how it could affect their child.
They compare us to other ppl which makes us feel like we're not good enough
Exactly! My parents do this daily that I don't even know if all I'm doing was enough for them to appreciate me.
Because of tgat im bad emotion zombie im 10% safer...
do you ever just feel like school is better than your home,
and when you go back home you just feel sad and null again.
Kinda felt like that before now I don't feel that great neither of those places but I'm more used to staying at home
(cause when I'm home alone it feels like a home but kinda empty and lonely, specially if I'm not doing something productive).
Aaaaand this is why I dislike not going to school
Yep
Wow yesss.... I would stay in school until it closes and walk home instead of getting a ride even though I live 20 miles away
Yes. Even though I hate school, I'd rather be there than at home.
Honestly I'm scared that im gnna be a parent and won't even notice that my kid is crying by themselves in there room
I just wished my parents knew so they won't treat me like I'm less better than anyone else they don't know everytime they compare me I go to my room and cry silently wish I never existed and I'm just a burden sorry I just really need to let this out
I wish . I have a parent like you
Spend time with them, be present and work together as a team. If you treat them with respect and as an equal they will feel safe to confide in you.
Well I'm not having kids, thank you mom for making me constantly fear that I'll be the failure of a mother that you are
me to my parents toxicity rubbed off on me and i don't want to rub it off on my child.... thats why im not having kids
It's so glad that I came across this Chanel because back when I was just 15 years old, I was severely depressed and it leads me to self harming, I opened up to my mom about it and she just say that "Self harming is such bullshit people who don't have minds do and your problem isn't that of a big deal since I you're just a kid and not going through a real problem in life" and it really hurts me and broke my heart since I expected her to comfort me and cheer me up, but now I learned to heel myself and open up to does people who understands me like my friends . (My problem is I've been constantly bullied back when I was just 11 years old it reached to the point that they've framed me for stealing my classmates money and I was sent to the principal's office and the teacher didn't even do anything about it or the bullying and just told me to ignore them)
i feel so bad for you and relate to SH as it was something I did for a few years and being 16 and seeing the way my parents talk about ppl with mental-health issuses,going as far to call them selfish,is the reason why I have trust issues wth them and would nvr be able to open up about such things like that.I was also bullied in school multiple times since primary so I feel your pain,hope we both heal from this.
No lies. I envy people who have healthy relationships with their parents. I strongly envy.
That’s why I am with my neighbors 24/7. They have parents that are TOGETHER and SUPPORTING, and then there’re is me
Me too. My husband has a great relationship with his parents while me... I wish I could just cut them off from my life...
Same, even though it depresses me; like, why can't that be me? Hopefully I'm never the same kind of parent.
@@mcam96 Trust me, so do I.
I envy with them too. How i wish to have a supporting parents😔😭
Being asked
"Why are you depressed?
Life is beautiful!"
Is like saying
"Why do you have asthma?
There's so much air!"
Ikr
They ask what’s wrong for one sec then they say we want attention for telling everything
Me:bruhh why’d you asked then
I feel like im weak. I always explode or snap to my parents. When i open up to my friends they tell me about their problems and how lucky i am. I need ur opinion an i a drama queen or what cause i dont even know anymore
@@datboi6671 I don't think that you're being dramatic, I feel the same way most of the time like I'm not good enough and that I'm worthless but I realised that there is someone out there who cares about me and loves me for who I am. I hope this helps ❤️
Lesbian Amazon Sister I can definitely relate 😂😂
Life has no meaning
Their mind works like this:
“oh my child is not happy? let me take away their phone”
my mom takes away my phone because I have online friends. actually only one. some people I've met online have helped me with depression and when I went through series of panic attacks. she's never helped me because I'm scared to talk to her. she once took away my phone for 2 months straight. I spent almost all of that time alone in my room.
Edit: she's taken away my phone again, she says I'm never getting it back.
@@Foxnhund Hope it gets better
I know what you mean I was at the point of killing my self and my uncle cause I went down to some railroad tracks and he ran down there and started chasing me back to the house and everything gone toys electronics everything besides my bed and some Shelves
My Phone is my only coping method because it’s the only way I have a connection to my friend
Perfect truth 😑😑😑
Thank you for this video. My parents aren't bad, abusive, or strict, but yeah, I still feel lonely, and I am an only child, so I don't really have anyone else to hang out with at home. This somehow made the school a safe space for me, something my younger self could never imagine. To everyone else struggling with sadness whether it's depression or something else, big hugs!
Personally i hate going school but every time i finish, i'd rather to stay there instead to come home
I know exactly how u feel
Same
I’m with you on that
I feel it too. But now when school is online, I find it hard to go zoom-ing while being 24/7 in home.
same mate
Something I once read said:
“Heal before having children, so your children don’t have to heal from having you as a parent”
Yeah thats true
I don't think I will get married with someone if myself was like thus
I wish my parents would've read this before having me
@@Ranbirsopcartoon09 i hate em
Kinda wish my parents had done this, now I just get blamed for the problems they have
Something i once read to :
"Don't wish you had a good parent, be one"
The hardest part of all of this is that you keep feeling worse day by day and my parents think I am acting different, irresponsible or just being lazy but actually I am hurting.
Same with mine they always scold me for being lazy but never focused on that I'm not feeling well that's why I'm lazy
@@sahilbhadauria1043 Trust me , I know how it feels.
Same
I feel this way too!
Yes,I feel like I'm a bad person
I have bouts with depression, anxiety , very low self esteem, I’ve had jobs, but no career . I see failure when I look in a mirror. Raised to become a perfectionist, I’ve become the perfect nothing. Sad to waste a life
It’s sad that we’re all here watching this knowing that it’s not going to get better for you. It’s sad how people you call family are ruining your life and killing you inside...
My dad once said we all have a limit and we will snap even if your the calming,sweet nice person we will snap if something,someone pass our limit and my dad said your a calming person you dont snap easily but when your old enough and the arguing wont stop you will snap..
Just maybe something you would like to know?..
Yep
My dad called me a disappointment because of school.
My mom and my dad discipline me and i lost my self esteem...and my confidence. discipline will make all kids hate their own parents until they grow up.
This hit me deep🥺
The worst pain is they don't see your struggle and say you're wasting your time
This 💯
💔💯
That's what's happening with me.
So hurtful...
@@sarahneels4331 😢💯
😢😢😢
*it deeply hurts when a child searches for parents love even when they're alive n around the child, deeper than a lover searching for his/her partner's love*
Yes😢😢
aaliya sheikh I’m 12 and my parents never trust me. My mom picks my clothes and my life choices. Even if I don’t like it, and if I say something my mom will call me ungrateful. I have more to say but it’s personal I’m suffering from major depression and I’m starting to think it’s them. I need someone to talk to but my counselor doesn’t understand. People say I fake my depression cause I’m 12 cause supposedly we can’t get depression...
@@daphne2489 me too 12 and so much depressed
This is so true 💔
@@daphne2489 we both are having some situation😭😭😭
My parents don’t even BELIEVE in mental illness or depression. They’re hard on me sometimes, and if they find this I’m in HUGE trouble…
The most painful is, when your parents compare you to others.
yes !
yes its really reallly true!!!!!!>:(
Yes and i really fucking hate that everytime they do that
My mom keeps on comparing me to my nephew, whenever he is over and something wrong happens she always assumes it's my fault.
Yeah and they say "it's not comparing! I'm just telling she does this and that!"
You know it's bad when you are scared that your parents are coming home cuz you know you will be sad or scared what will happen again.
Thank you guys for the likes, I hate how many people can relate to this. I hope for everyone it gets better and one day you won't always have to be with them. Just remember that!
I'm so sorry Anna 💔😢
Sometimes I'm scared of my dad but I always push down that feeling... Why? Mainly because I don't want to hurt my dad....
@@too_fluid_to_care I had 2 panic attacks because of my dad's behaviour.
I know how u feel.
@@ayonticabanerjee8326 same
My parents think they’re “helping” but they’re actually making my life a living hell
Lmao my life was already a living hell xD
JK not tryna be edgy
Yeah they're "helping" a lot more like making your kid go through anxiety all the life and beat you up for nothing because they're drunk
Man I hate my life
Such a dumb parents
Absolutely right!
I’m hate bringing my friends to my house because my parents are so judgmental and always compare me to them. It’s so annoying, I feel like I’ll never be good enough
I don't feel good enough for my parents ever!
don't think like that. remember that parents are the reason behind our depression >:/ remember that you are always perfect.
I’m happier when I’m isolated so that when I get my feelings in order no one is there to bother me.
Agreed loineness is my greatest gift in this dark world (bit dark but yeah)
Same
Same
Same
Same
Having actual good parents is like finding life on another planet
there is no perfect parent
@@-yasua he said good sum parents are trash 🗑
Yes, I am living on another planet
@@hetalgarasiya1206 what is your name how far is your planet and what do you think about humans?
I am on Venus
in situations like these, I can't imagine how happy we'd all be when we move out
“Its for your own good”
Also her: *puts pressure on me everyday not even thinking how i feel*
That’s how my mom is with me on online school. I’m serious
Sometimes i get worried that i will be like my dad
@Bread Neo no I am nothing like my father... nothing like that fat, abusive maniac....
I accidentally unliked, sorry. But I relate.
@@PranavTheGreat1 same
it’s hard to act like you love someone so much and really deep down you hate their soul 🙌
So true 💔😞
My father.
Yus
I thought it was only me
I couldnt even breath when i read this
"Wow, you're problems aren't even real problems!"
-Dad, in a sarcastic tone, after I tell him about my rough day
"You're not depressed, it's probably just the weather."
-Mom, to me, in front the doctor who just said I had depression
There's a lot more, too. My family calls me lazy when I don't get out of bed and ungrateful when I don't feel like eating.
💝❤ < For you
@@humancentipede. hey thanks :) 💗💞
Lmao sis “the weather”?
Same
Families can really suck! But just because they're related to you doesn't mean they say true things.
"No one else believes in you. Why don't you put in an effort to get what you want?"
-My Mom to me when I told her I didn't want to do something she was forcing me to do even though it was for "my own good"
"Worthless"
-My Dad, after I spent a few extra minutes talking to my sad friend to comfort them.
I'm pretty sure these aren't true, and they just aint good
I lived with a narcissist and an alcoholic for 12 years. I never thought 💭 would see myself watching this video 😢
Imagine having a supportive parents i could never-
Your right "just imagine"
@@nirmala_g79 hahaha
same
I have the greatest parents ever , I'm grateful for it more than ever right now after reading all the comments.
@@rajaskorde7949 lucky
“It’s because of the internet”
-Parent
The Internet is my only good coping mechanism and if they ever took that away from me I'd probably snap.
At least the internet doesnt yell at me and theres people who care
My mom threatens to take away my phone any time I do something even slightly wrong (sometimes I didn't even do anything, my siblings just lie and blame it on me)
But my phone is literally my safe place...
So when she takes it away, my mental health just crumbles 🙃
@@_froskkk_58 the internet is my getaway place and my mom will take away the only things that bring me happiness: my phone, cat, friends, etc.
@@1vy-h2b same.
Last year I had a mental breakdown and cried to my mom about how depressed I was. She asked me to tell her the reasons why, at that moment I wasnt ready to tell her the truth so I told her stupid things. Though she didnt say these exact words she practically told me "you have no reason to be depressed." Though I love my mom, shes emotionally detached from me. Often telling me my emotions are " because I'm a teenager, or that I'm over exaggerating" it really hurts.
Oh.. Parents don't understand that Kids can have depression too..
Well if you said stupid things instead of the truth, what do you think is gonna happen? Half of the times this preteens self diagnose themselves, ofc people are gonna be skeptical. Depression is not something that you can just say you have it, just bc you had sucidal thoughts once or twice, that's not how it works. Even if you're not ready for therapy, you need proper medical detail to say you're suffering from depression. It's not like other mental problems. And honestly more than half of the time the depressed people I find in the internet are b/w the age group of 9-15 and while I agree they can also suffer from depression, they think as if having depression makes them the cool kids when in reality they're just sad or feeling alone at that particular moment.
It has to be said, stop disrespecting people who actually have to fight everyday to get out of the fcking bed w/o a mental breakdown. There's nothing cool about having depression, it's way more severe than you can even imagine.
@@tia2069 Oh no between 9 and 15? I am 12! I hope I will not be depressed until 16
It's odd how so similar our lives are
@@Abandonedaccount129 Are you okay? Here, take this virtual hug! Loading...
Just remember that there’s always someone out there who appreciates you, as a person as well as your talents, even if it doesn’t come from your family. And please please please, don’t end it. Everyone has their talents, including you.
Stay strong. You can do this. I’ll be praying for you.
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserve a child.....
Just a list of them all so you can see them all at once :)
1. They hold you back from your dreams
2. They put a lot of pressure on you
3. They're emotionally unavailable to you
4. Their presence overwhelms you
5. They worsen your depression
6. Their dysfunction rubs off on you
7. Their mental illness affects you
8. They struggle with substance abuse
9. They've become abusive
10. They don't help you overcome your depression
normally just 1.But i’m staring to get used to it.Knowing my mom.I know if i try hard enough i can make my dreams happen
I had to admit that this video known me so well it is like reading my life. Although they just did 2,3,9,10, but it is hurtful enough. Just use 2 as example whereas I remember I got the most: since I was just a kid till presents, whenever I trying to shares something, no matter sadness or great news, they will just tells me to "go away you are bothering me", "it is nothing big deal don't be so annoying", "you are wasting our time".....and so on.
They also keeps telling me that most of the strangers are dangerous, that I shouldn't trust anyone. Caused me to hardly make friend, just like isolating myself.
For me it's just 9,7,5,4,3,2, 😔 and sometimes 1 as well😞
@@vivianchenloveforever my sisters do that to me, my parents dont but my sisters also lowered my self-esteem and when i talk to my friends i always ask them if im being annoying coz im scared they would think the same as my sisters. But now I realized that it is my sisters fault although im still scared im being annoying
I don't know... out of all of those i only have 2, 3, 6, 7, and 9... not that much but enough for me to be a little scared of my future with them...
When you have to hold in your tears because if you let them out it causes a whole new argument and unwanted conflict :')
True :)
I cannot tear anymore bro. Like I can cry, butI don’t tear when I do.
Can relate
This hits home😪
Yes :)
When I tried to tell my mum how she sometimes makes me feel she made it out to be that I’m criticizing her and trying to call her a bad mother. This is why communication doesn’t exist between me and my mother.
I have the same situation with my mother.
You are not alone Klaudia. Same situation on my side. My mum still (for about 16 years now) claims she is the victim. And made my wish O was never born. And if I wanted to explain my point of view, she'd claim that that I was being only critical. If pointed out something exclusively positive and agreeable about her, she would simply ignore it and later claim I never said it. To this day I am still not sure, whether her brain is automatically filtering stuff out, or is she doing this on purpose. The difference is, I don't really care anymore, but am still sad about it.
Sameeeee
SAME its so annoying
U r not alone my friend
Im glad i found this video i didnt know if maybe i was just being delusional but the last one really spoke to me, a while back i was feeling really depressed and i was just not happy with myself and my relationship with some of the members in my family they made me feel like a bad person based of some of the things they would say like " dont listen to her, dont do what shes doing etc.." and when they would say stuff like that it would kind of get to me and when all these thoughts started coming into my head like " youre a bad person, youre not skinny enough, eww u look bad in this photo, nobody wants to be around you, youre a bad example, etc and at night i would cry and ask god if he would forgive me if i ended myself- idk if youtube would alow me to say the real word but anyways i would ask god that and then i finally got teh courage to tell my mom how i was felling and i cried my heart out and she was kind of sad but then later we all talked again and i got into an argument with her and what ended up coming out of her mouth is that she didnt belive i was depressed witch made me so sad because i really was feeling this way and to have my own mother say this to my face was so heartbreaking she said " you have no reason to be depressed." and that really hurt me she doesn't know the thoughts going through my head at night and to hear that really broke my and the only person who noticed that i was a little different was my dad and he was the one person i couldt tell because i didnt want to break his heart . but yea ty for reading this i had to get this off my chest and if yall made it all the way down here ty i hope whatever youre going through rn you get better and that u tell someone abt it even thought it didnt go so great for me doesnt mean it will go the same for u!
Crazy thing is our parents will never apologize for these things
True...their ego is more important than anything..
ikr
@@geegeecook5063 or there reputation
My dad thinks he's always right
Can't wait for our generation to be parents
“Im tired of being what you want me to be
Feeling so faithless, lost under the surface
I dont know what you’re expecting of me
Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes”
Numb, Linkin Park
I love this song
Awe ❤️😢
forever a classic
Yes that part of song makes feel batter after a fight with him
Sometimes, I feel like running away from home and NEVER COMING BACK because of how strict my parents are sometimes. I'm having nightmares of them. This is one issue that is making me struggle to cope with reality. Thank God I found this video and some people that relate to me!
You are right
I can't talk to my mom I broke my laptop I haven't told her and I need it for school I've been using touch screen but I can't use it forever I don't want to be scolded by her but she's one of a kind mom in a bad way thow I broke my laptop last year and now this year. Its a hp
I think the same but im too young to run away from my actually their house
i understand your pain chisei-kun i really do. I always wondered if i do have depression because i really don't have the strength to smile anymore..
@@VioIetRamirez yeah my mother is like that too.
I got sick today and my mom didn’t believe me, but I was literally crying because she made me feel so bad.
Step up the school work. It'll get you out of that place. Life's long..this time is going fast, though it feels like forever. Work your butt off to get out of there. Then never go back.. You'll be O.K. Don't doubt. Big breaths.
The up coming generations would be lucky enough who would be having parents like us coz we know what we have gone through or are going through... And we would never let our kids to go through the same.. Belive me or not but that's true 🥺🥺
I see your point, but having parents like this affects us and could cause us to be like them without or with knowing it. I get that you want to be better than your parents, but maybe you will be. And so might I and everybody with bad parents. Reguardless, I hope everyone can acheive this when/if they have children.
Be aware tho that in the future there will be different problems for kids just how their are different problems for us then for our parents
Yeah. I am hopefull
Indeed
Yes
It sucks having depression and anxiety caused by your parents.
Right then they ask why we are like this
I'm going through that right now and idk what to do 😭
@cyber Alex me too
r/im14andthisisdeep
@@Baby_ruby08 oh my god im so sorry you poor thing thats so awful, i know my apology does nothing but i hope you can soon escape from such horror and i hope you can get the courage to get help, best of wishes for you.
I can’t believe the internet understands me more than my own parents. You really can find anything on the internet, even emotional support from a complete stranger…
ong
Yeah
Oh, are you me lol
Yep. Hence why my parents keep claiming that "the internet is ruining me"-they don't like that it's made me aware of their abuse
@@codeswift27 wanna be friends? Even real life friends will enjoy our suffering, might use this vulnerability against us and will not relate because their parents were normal.
It's really hard, I relate to all of this signs, I tried communicating and talking to my parents but nothing seems to work. they finally said yes to a therapist because i was nearly begging them for it. and when they told me to tell them everything, it turned out that i am an ungrateful brat, who doesn't see what my parents do for me and i say that they are bad parents and they don't consider themselves as bad parents because they kept us fed and warm. and I'm the one in wrong here and i shouldn't be depressed. this kind of bullshit and low knowledge is making me so mad.
i hope we all get the help and happiness we deserve, because everyone deserves to be loved, confident and happy. i wish you all to succeed and never give up in your life.❤
“If you tell me the truth, I wouldn’t be mad”
man it SUCKS when your parents tell you that, and when you tell them whats going on the first thing they do is yell at you for “lying”
agreed
so true
I don’t even get scared of them when they yell I just don’t argue back cause if I make a valid point in an argument they have no good comeback so they say shit like “Quit being a victim” yet I never said I was or they’ll just take my shit away cause they don’t know how to argue or debate.
EXACT SAME!
Totally agree with you bud :,)
The hard thing is when you made a little mistake, the parents are just get angry.
Hmm S I don't know why they do this 😡
Yeah.
Especially if they make the exact same mistake. 😒
Yea my mom have legit mini mental breakdowns very time I don’t listen…and it matter if it was my mistake. It could be hers and she still will blame it on me
@@DarkPlayerV2 yeah same
Also a sign:
When your parents talk to you like you’re their slave or servant instead of another human being, even when you’re an adult.
I can relate to that.
YESSSSS YESSSSS. Like my gosh I’m not your servant ur a grown adult do it yourself
I can confirm that as how I relate to this
I feel this in my soul! My mother would constantly push me to get a house with her so she could have me around forever but she screamed at me when I even hinted I didn't want that
Yes!!! Cause they think just because they brought you to this world they own you
The next GENERATION will be lucky to have us as their parents ❤
The worst is when they compare yourself with your sibling.
Guys the fact that so many children can relate to this is so sad. I am sorry people who were supposed to be your happy place are actually depressing you. I am sorry you are hurting. But this shall pass. We are in this together
@siddarth s bro stay strong. This phase shall pass. Suicide is not an option. I am with you. If you suicide now you'll fail and you will never be able to surpass your brother. Stay strong.
Yeah...I draw a lot!!!! And I draw really good stuff.
And my mom and dad say I’m better then my sister...
@@Hi-gj4fd Yes
Oh and I've seen it worst when your siblings enjoy to see you suffering poor kids I hate spoiled children
stay strong I believe in you
I can't believe this. We are kids under 20, fighting depression, getting stressed, having anxiety, self harming, having suicidal thoughts, and our parents don't give a damn. We feel happiest when we are away from our families. Strangers on the internet help us more than our mothers. At first I used to feel like they are my parents, I have to keep them happy no matter what. But now I just don't care. Everyone on the internet feels more welcoming. Everyone here, You, the person reading this, promise me RIGHT NOW, WE WILL GET OUT OF THIS TOGETHER, AND WE WILL NEVER LET OUR OWN KIDS GO THROUGH THIS. You all, with me, we'll hold on and keep being positive. Dang anyone who makes you feel bad. You were born to shine. ❤️❤️
Ohhh this is real more than my parents I think my online friends understand me and "ipromise get out with this together"
i can totally relate. Like i have a completely different personality with my online friends. It's so hard to just open up to our OWN parents. it hurts! like it hurts so much.
J feels like you have no one around to talk, to just spill out everything and anything you feel.
And yah i'm never ever going to be the same person with our next generation!
@@lisztomaniac- me too! I was depressed like 2 years ago when I was age 9. But sure I still sometimes gets overwhemled when "My parents" compare me to my friends or the books I read and I need to do better.
Parents don't know a single good thing about us because they from 60s,70s or 80s
Great minds think alike, your thoughts are sm like me. 💖💖💖 And I totally agree with everything you just said.
I didnt get abused
But their words hurt like real things punching me over and over
I really hope the next generation has good things to offer
That’s verbal/emotional abuse
you do know that there's a such thing as verbal abuse, right?
Hard to ascertain that, considering so many of the emotional/verbal/physical abuses radiate through us (unconsciously). And when/if we become parents, we invoke our own abuses onto our children. It’s a vicious cycle that’s so hard to break 😓
Must be nice now to be physically abused
i can relate to this so much. they stop me from my goals and achievements and drag me down whenever they’re going through a hard time. they enforce negativity onto me whenever i feel positive for once. if they see me happy, it makes them smile when then bring me down.
my mom always yells at me and never stop talking badly about me. I feel like she hates me. I’m crying while writing this message because of how much Im yelled and hated at. I wish everyone a great day and blessed ❤
Sorry to hear that bro it happens to me too my mom said that she wish she could put me up for adoption so I feel you I hope you have an amazing day❤️
It's when a parent says: "I'm not mad, I'm disappointed"
They don't understand that it hurts
exactly..
Alot.
I rather they say they are mad than disappointed
that just happend to me like 5 minutes ago
@@ailynquiroz9901 oh im sorry :(
according to my mother paying for our basic needs is love.
Yeah she thinks making u study in a big school and paying for ur daily needs is love
They never understand what we are going through
Yup. That's not love idiot, that's keeping another human alive. That's called common decency. Being there for us, supporting us no matter what, listening to our issues WITHOUT blowing up on us - that and so much more is love.
Exactly 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I'm mentally preparing myself for when I'm older and become a father so they can have a nice and safe life with fun in it.
Sadly right
If I showed this to my parents they wouldn’t care because “it’s from a RUclips video”
Same my mom WONT open a link/video that I sent :)
Same bro yeah they always push me
@Song Yoon Min same at first but now my mom is an army now-
Yea my parents would say this is brainwashing me LOL
Exactly.
One of the worst parts is desperately wanting and needing therapy, but being terriffied that they won't approve or understand you for it
No one notices your tears
No one notices your sadness
No one notices your pain
They only notice your mistakes 🙂💔
You're right. Nobody notices my tears, sadness, or pain...
BECAUSE I DON'T EVEN HAVE ANY IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! >:D
As for my mistakes? I have none of those, EITHER!
@@azureblade5610 Bro your literally On the wrong comment they're talking about depression and your just commenting how you have no mistakes sadness, pain .
@@LOONAFOREverZ So?
Why can't they be talking about JOY!? Like, an ENorder that gives you a SURPLUS of serotonin? I HAVE JOY, ALL NIGHT LONG!!! >ED
@@azureblade5610 HAVING JOY ? PEOPLE ONLY FEEL THAT A BIT AND THEN ITS RUINED .
@@LOONAFOREverZ You sure? My existence proves you wrong. >3)
"You're not depressed"
This right here is jsut awful to say to your child.
My parents say that every time I bring up my depression, so I stopped bringing it up, so I wouldn't "annoy" them.
I hope you get better, Taco
My mom didn't say it that direct but, she did say that my depressed feelings weren't that serious and it probably was just my hormones.... Until I became suicidal, so... Thnx mom
I have depression, and if I get to grow up and have a family, I’ll never treat my kids the way I was treated. Ignored, put down, it properly cared for. Hurt.
@@soIzec thanks, I hope I do too, but honestly it seems to get worse every day
It's sad when you're parents abuse you physically and mentally but you can't share it with anyone because you know people are going to judge them and you care about them being judged.
I feel you
Literally!!!
Exactly!!
I'm at the same spot...😔😔😔😔
I was looking for this one
The ones I relate to
1. my parents having depression and it’s rubbing it off on me.
2. they don’t help. And say.
“ you don’t need a therapist”
I also hate it when parents take out their problems on you and start yelling at you. I understand everyone has hard days but when I’m mad I take it out on my pillow not my mother. But she seems to not care about ruining my day just because hers was also ruined.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help..
fr , my father does this and i also understand his work is tiring and has to take care of both me and my brother but when he just screams at us both is so scary. i usually would just carry my brother and run to my room and we both would just cry😥.
Exactly..my mom rarely does that but when she does it’s like “wtf? You don’t need to be a bitch to me all because you’re struggling with your day..if you wanna bring it out than bring it out in a CALMER way and just vent..” like WHY CAN’T OUR PARENTS JUST DO THAT..
This.
Kill em'
It's sad that most teenagers and children are the ones who need therapy, who need actual help, and have suicidal thoughts.
Me 🙋♀️
Wow how did u read my mind
Why we still here just to sufer every tear in my body scar in my brain i. Why i was born i dint sigh for this men
The time when I needed a councellor or someone to talk, my dad just told it would bring shame ; he thought if ppl around us saw me going to a therapist's house, they would think I am 'crazy' and would bring 'us' shame. I tried so many times talking to them abt my problems and mental health but they just couldn't understand it. I gradually stopped talking to my dad bcoz he himself has some mental health issues (which he doesn't acknowledge) that made my situation even worse. Then he just threatened me saying that if I don't talk to him anymore, he'll cut ties with me in the future. 1:23 ,I could relate with it so much. Wtf does he know abt how hard those times were for me? I told him so many times but he just didn't understand me. But now its all going fine...
For those who are going through a hard time pls never quit, everything's gonna be fine one day trust me.
True
It’s weird how much words hurt compared to a slap.
so you say... have you ever been hitted on with a belt on your back repeatedly while you force yourself not to cry for saving whatever little proud and dignity you have left and see how your mom gets angry cause you don't cry and she hits you harder and harder until she finally breaks you and make you cry and then froces you to go to school injured and with a swollen red face knowing everyone will stare at you as a freak all day?
@@a.q.u.a.m.a.r.i.n.e I'm sorry you are going through that. I don't get hit. But I don't want to be here anymore...
@@a.q.u.a.m.a.r.i.n.e Whatever the kind of abuse...i think every type of abuse has the ability to break you down to pieces......I'm sorry Psyche
Agreed
@@a.q.u.a.m.a.r.i.n.e i used to get my ass beat but at least mine was for a reason, sorry if you had go go through that shit man
I was depressed from the age 8 till 13. I developed suicidal thoughts and tried to commit multiple times, once I finally felt better and was no longer depressed, I resorted to self harm to cope with the trauma and abuse I was (and still am) dealing with.
My parents knew, every single year I was depressed, suicidal and self harmed. They did nothing. I felt so alone and sad, angry too. Once I confronted my father, because I was so terribly done with their abuse, I had a terrible mental breakdown, my father grabbed me by my hoodie and was choking me. I told him to stop and he told me that if I didn’t behave and go to my room, he’d take me there and hurt me (while he choked me, he also grabbed me with his other hand and lifted me up).
I then actually confronted him on how he treats me and how he and my mother have done NOTHING to help me. He just said “we took you to therapy”. That’s all he had to say. and it was such a dumb excuse… I had been struggling with social issues, bullying as well as other issues at school and BEGGED my parents for months for them to take me to therapy because I was really struggling with severe anxiety (due to what I suspect to be autism and the years of me not being able to “properly” socialize with others). They finally took me, and you know what they do? I go 3 whole times to therapy and they begin asking if I actually need to go. I told them multiple times, yes. But that wasn’t enough! They just stopped taking me.