Tbh what Karen was talking about back in the days her going through sebs phone and finding out he went to the strip clubs, lying to her the next day, not being honest etc is actually and realistically understandable. It sucks how she kinda says it’s because “we were young and dumb” and almost excuses the guys behaviour or actions for what he did. Almost like she’s the one in fault for acting out or being that crazy gf. Surely we have all been through something like it where our partner has totally disappointed and disrespected us in some ways but I don’t think we should make excuses or reasons for it. Just sucks how something as minor (as some people would say) like lying where they were or in general being dishonest leads to their partners calling them crazy or psycho all because of their own actions. I felt like what she was telling us was valid.
Girl I’m right there with you! She was very very mature! Props to Karen because I would have beaten him with how own phone then dumped more glitter on his entire clothes. I’m not that mature ! But like you mentioned the lying then flipping it around and blaming the girl had got to stop. It’s funny to look back and laugh but that really messes up women.
Leave a man for liking pics? Hmmm seems stupid and insecure. Specially being that there’s a solid chance he will never meet these girls. Is it one girl who lives locally and he knows? That’s a different story
Work at it every single day, make each other top priorities,it's tip for tap. For example he comes home tired and sore from work, you make him a hot plate and take a few extra minutes for a little massage, lets say next time your cramping or need more sleep, he cooks for you while you gey to sleep in. Take Care of each others mind body and spirit, your own first then your SO and the rest of it will fall perfectly into place. Communication is key, voice your wants /needs. Support amd lift each other through everything! Speak life and love into one another. 🙋🏽♀ we are about to celebrate 25 years together and every year it just gets better!!! You got this ! Wishing uou love and happiness
Okay can I just say that I have been literally hoping you guys would bring or talk about something like this, so I'm shooook. Currently, I'm going through major trust issues and I've never been the type to be negative, needy, overthink, insecure or any of those types of things. But then things happen and you start to question yourself and your relationship, and like Karen said you just create scenarios and start to drive yourself and your partner insane. I've been just overthinking like crazy, and have been just questioning myself entirely. So it's just hard because the last thing I want to do is become a toxic person, but I'm still really hurting and all I want to do is talk about it but can't keep bringing it up...
s talk about it! you need to. but actually have you and the other person sit down and genuinely talk about it, what you can work on to make you guys work. i’ve been there before and exactly what they said in the video you literally have two options, stay and make it work and talk through it but don’t bring it up, or just leave.
omg am going through the same thing!! your not alone .. feels good I am not alone.. as for him and I, we have very good communication, and he doesn't give up on me. That is hard to find so, I am lucky, but i need to stop with my crazy ass before i loose him.. First month it was great. Second month omg nothing but arguing and fighting because of me! my advice is just communicate with him. I think we are afraid of getting hurt, and used. Also, feelings grow, and it can be a scary thing. BUT we have to just enjoy the moment and except that there are people out there that are good for us.
@@AmberinaNava We have been talking about it, but for some reason many of the times it turns into arguments or me bringing him down when in reality I'm just telling him how I feel. I never insult or attack his character, he just takes things the wrong way and then we never really solve things... Then I don't even know how to bring it up again, because I don't want to fight. So I'm just going crazy, and end up feeling alone.
Marina he needs to learn how to communicate, it’s really easy to feel attacked but once you realize that not everything has to be a fight and that expressing how you feel is really important then communication becomes better. maybe something you can do beforehand is let him know you’re not trying to bash him and that this is just how you feel and without talking about it, you can’t move on completely from it. he can’t just take things the wrong way, he needs to understand that you’re not feeling right about something so he needs to hear you out and understand you. it’s all about figuring out how communication can work best for the both of you. every time you express how you feel, you shouldn’t have to be afraid of a fight. it shouldn’t have to come down to that, if he keeps turning it into an argument then something isn’t right about that
Andrea m you’re spot on.. he says that he constantly needs to walk on egg shells around me, and then every time I want to talk he kind of just says yes we’ll work it out but I need more and I don’t know how to back up my feelings anymore. I just end up feeling clingy and needy, when really I just want to be heard and understood.
Its really good to hear about your "jealousy stories/arguments" it really makes me think that there will be bullshi** in a lot of relationships and that there is always ups and downs but we have to overcome them to become a stronger couple. I've always thought you guys never really had problems because you seem so in love and so close but knowing that you guys did have hard times really makes me feel like this is normal and problems like these will happen and its okay to go through them... Your relationship is goals.
Relationship advice topic: getting help around the house when you live together. Especially both being raised in a Hispanic household. How do you both come to a compromise on cleaning duties?? And how do you ask??
Shoot I just tell him u need to help me I’m not gonna do everything for u. If u want that lifestyle then u can go find yourself a woman that will do it for u. 🙃 hes Mexican by the way.
Being stuck in a rut is 100% valid. Nobody is “on” all the time, and we are not machines just pumping out work/content. I’m glad you didn’t put something out just to put it out when you weren’t feeling it. That makes me appreciate this podcast that much more because it tells me you’re dedicated to authenticity. It’s perfectly fine to take time to recoup, and some days you just wanna play COD which is also totally valid 😂. So thanks for being real. This podcast is awesome. 💛
relationship advice: how to last ten years lol more tips on some things you guys learned through the many years that made your relationship last so long
Taylor Saavedra I’m so sorry to hear about you losing your job today but I’m a firm believer that things happen for a reason and for the better. I will say a prayer for you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
My very first job I got let go after alittle over a year and my manager who didnt agree told me "Don't stress, I know you will keep moving up and to better things, when this door closes there will be many other doors to open for you that are way better than this opportunity" it sucked at the time but she was right. I also think everyone that worked there hated it so yeah it was a blessing in disguise. I'm very sorry to hear that you lost your job but something better will come along for you. Stay strong!💕
Can we talk about how women are always afraid to do their daily things like going to the store and going for a run... like damn I am scared to go anywhere alone...
Been waiting for this love your podcast and your comment section everyone so kind and positive they helped me last week and your subscribers were trying to send me help because I’m on daca and haven’t had an income during this time it was so amazing to see everyone commenting ❤️
I’ve always thought Sebas is so so attractive but I would never ever think of disrespecting my girl Karen I always think about it like Sebas is cute but Karen is my girl she’s someone I look up to!! I😂 I can’t picture Sebas without Karen
Stephanie Orozco same girl! I think he’s very attractive- looks and personality. Karen of course is beautiful, talented, smart and has this outgoing, sweet bubbly personality. Love them together ❤️ with that said, I would NEVER DM another girls man for any reason especially if it’s to give a “flirty compliment”. You te called Respect, even if I’ve never met Karen.
He is cute but sometimes he looks dirty NO SHADE just some guys don’t really like to look put together.. and Karen is always looking amazing makeup or not I’m not into girls but she definitely would get my vote ❤️ everything about her she’s beautiful, has a great personality and is humble
Best advise EVER!!! Jealousy does lead to the other person lying or hiding stuff from you because they are afraid of how you are going to react. It’s toxic and it’s pointless. Everybody has a life before they get in a relationship, everyone has friends, hobbies, etc. Giving freedom and letting them have a life it’s the most healthy thing you can do for someone you love. They are not your property. Trust me! I have learned, my early 20s I am not proud of. It took a lot of time to learn and grow. If you love a person, you can make the changes within yourself 💜
My husband and I have been together for 6 years and he's never given me any reason to not trust him but every relationship I have been in previously has been toxic and I've been cheated on. Its hard to trust but not because of him its just me thinking shit in my head. He gets mad at me sometimes when I get jealous because he tells me that he's never done anything for me to not trust him but its hard. 😏
I live for la platica! You guys are just so real and authentic! When Karen was saying girls dm sebas saying to leave her for them I’m like GIRLLL who do we need to hit up 🤨 I love the way you guys balance each other out so beautifully 🙌🏽couple goals!! I would love to hear your opinions on how much time to give yourself to be alone after being in a relationship especially a long term one
For reals!!!! You find out everything! Just by the convos of your partner and their friends! Forget pics and social media!! Everything is in those messages with the friends haha
I think we all partially go through the "guys are so stupid" phase in the beginning of relationships, because its harder for guys to grow up , be trustworthy and respectful of the relationship! love you guys
I'm a manager at a restaurant in Vegas. We reopened on May 5th and are only allowed max 50% capacity while practicing social distancing. A lot of places are remaining closed or takeout only. I was surprised how few businesses opened after the governor lifted some of the restrictions.
Relationship Topic idea: Tips on meeting suegros for the first time, etiquettes, maintaining a relationship with them. When is too much info/ boundaries? Approaching a different culture than our own :)
Advice: meet the at family gathering! I know it sounds even worse but trust me it will be a lot better, not only will you get to meet them but also meet other members which will make things easier. Also, they wont pay much attention to you in that enviroment so it's a lot better than having a one on one and the next the you see the it wont be that awkward
I have a lot of family members who are also eager to start going out again to see their close friends and stuff say the same thing, “why are we allowed to go to grocery stores but not go see our families and stuff”.. I just think that the big difference is that when you go to the grocery store, first, you’re trying to maintain your distance with ppl and second, you’re practically in and out- you get ur stuff and u leave. You’re not really there to mingle.. I just think that that’s the difference and that’s what the experts wants us to try to avoid in order for us to stay safe. Just my humble opinion 🤷🏻♀️
I totally know how you feel! I feel exactly the same! This whole situation is just so surreal! I live on the west coast of BC and I feel great when the sun is out and it’s warm but once rain and clouds it effects you. You don’t have to apologize, you guys have stepped up so much for us! You need downtime just like everybody else. Blessings to you both!
I live in Florida! They opened the beaches first but we are doing phases before everything can reopen again. Some stores are open and some restaurants are letting people sit down in them now. It sucks for other places who are still on lockdown but I understand why.
Karen that’s the virgo in us!! 😫 I catch myself during the same currently with my relationship and i’m working on it cause i know it’s toxic and the relationship won’t work
The piece of don’t worry about what other people have to say or think. It can be hard dealing with relationship issues without the support of close friends. It can be so easy to be upset and go to a friend just to vent or get advice. Then that friend forms an opinion about your s.o. in the process and makes it harder on you to move on from a mistake or forgive a person. It’s important to stick with who you think is worth it, even if there are fuck ups and people don’t agree.
With this whole quarantine I have really been praying for the kids in abusive families. I think abot their parents not being able to work adding to their latest stress and taking it out on their kids. I think about the kids being molested in their home ans shcool being their only outlet. I Really pray for them. The parents holding it together with an abusive spouse or a spouse or family member suffering with addiction. I pray so hard for them. School and feed I’m to leave the house is really peoples only ya to get out of their situation. Breaks my heart so much.
I absolutely love this message I agree 100% with this topic🙏🏻🙌🏻 I’ve been thru this just recently. Long story short I thought I met the man of my dreams. We got married and shortly after he began to get jealous for no reason at all. He was super insecure. He thought I was flirting with people in his family. He didn’t allow me to communicate with my sons dad. He would call me at least 30 times a day while at work. He’d go thru my phone every single day and installed a gps phone tracker. It got to the point where I couldn’t even go to the restroom alone. I put up with this for nearly a year and I kept telling my self he’ll learn to trust that I’m faithful.. He started making me change who I was. I couldn’t speak to anyone that was a male or wasn’t his mom. So I basically couldn’t be my self to make him feel better. I felt depressed and just missed how free I felt before. A year and a million arguments later I caught a break. He took off one night and I Took that chance to leave and never look back. I heard he’s going crazy getting drunk everyday but I’m so free and happy now. Lesson learned for sure. Now I have a cool relationship with my sons dad. I’m working on My own RUclips channel And makeup line. I’m in a healthy place. FYI you are an inspirational couple. Caren you are such a talented Makeup artist and estevan you rock dude. Keep up the good work!
Wow, I needed this! I have a similar relationship to you guys. My boyfriend is younger than me and we got together really young. We've gone through some shit and everyone always says that young relationships don't last. But when I see your relationship with each other, you guys really give me hope!! My boyfriend and I are doing soooo good and we've been for a long time, but I am definitely the jealous one and get crazy just thinking random shit. Everything you guys said is so true. Thank you!! Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
Im sorry but this is NOT okay..How does he conveniently forget about this stripper and then LET you tell yourself that you were being crazy over something that shouldve been a deal breaker!? This beautiful woman has shrugged her standards, put her hurts under the rug for this guy who clearly hasnt valued her worth. Baby... If you wanna keep this boy around for comfort I get it, but date MEN in the mean time who would be honoured to treat you like the queen that you are! I know this isnt easy but I swear I say this with love: bcus before you meet your True Love, itll take time to heal. and I can see right away how much more you deserve, and i promise, the man of your dreams is out there ladies!! You might have to endure loneliness from not backing down on your standards, but once you meet The One, all that time, heartache, the lessons, will all help you be clear on HOW you need to be loved in order to be compatable. And itll finally be your turn💍❤️ Speaking from experience Everyone deserves to have True Love If True Love found me, it can find each and every one of you!! God bless Queens!!
Wow exactly my thoughts!! He didn’t forget. You don’t forget that especially because she made a big deal about it. And the fact that he lets her believe she was acting crazy. No not ok. He’s hiding something. It’s obvious in the other podcast when he was upset about her looking through his phone and said he was going to change his passcode. Saying he felt disrespected. Red flag
This was so good to hear, not even such a perfect match have a flawless relationship, I respect you guys even MORE because you shared ugly things you’ve been through and overcame it
Sebas, maybe you went through a hit of depression. I know I did. I would cry out of no where and just felt like doing NOTHING. I am such an active person. I wake up at 4am to work on my RUclips and my online store and I just didn’t have the energy to do anything of it. I realized it wasn’t like me and I snapped out of it thank god lol but yes stay active guys💗 exercise helps so much !! And sun bathing💗 cuídense mucho 🙋🏻♀️🦋
Absolutely loved this podcast, it is so refreshing listening to a couple who are willing to talk about the some what messier starts of their relationships, jealousy and checking phones and trust issues be like that in our younger days especially! But it’s so beautiful to see how close and strong you are years later. I’d love to see a video on how you maintain the spark, especially cause you work together too! X
I am from Veracruz, Mexico., and “everything” is closed, but people are not respecting the quarantine and meeting in their houses with other people and it’s really disgusting and sad. Because people is not being considerate with the ones that are actually doing the quarantine:(
Great topic! Thanks for giving us your input/advice & also sharing your stories as an example, very relatable. One thing I can say, a relationship may be tested at any time. Not everyone is the same so this may not apply to everyone but relationships are WORK! There will be circumstances that can break you or strengthen your relationship, whether your starting or 20 yrs later. The real ones are worth it all & get through the bumps but, it ain't easy...but thanks again!
Texas is trying to re-open & I’ve seen sooo many ppl at the mall, in line (right next to each other), the beach & without masks. TX is so stubborn that the only way ppl will stay home now is when cases start increasing. We don’t even have enough tests & in the RGV where I’m from we don’t have enough hospital beds. I’m not trying to go anywhere & I hate it here, send HELP lol
hotcheetoeyes girl the only place that will be packed in the hospital is the ICU. Check that floor. Surgeries are cancelled and no one is risking their life to go to the hospital for non emergency related issues. Common sense girl common sense
Love watching you both together❤ please keep doing videos together. You are helping us get through this with laughs and forgetting about the outside world for a while ❤❤
mannnnnn did i relate to some of these topics...especially the part about walking around egg shells when you're with a jealous partner & having to "lie" because they might get upset or mad...what a topic lol you guys nailed it
Honestly it is hard but as an essential worker we are around people all day and like you said we don’t know what they’ve been and thank god me and my family have bin fine so we hang out with our family that we know have bin taking care of themselves to so I think you can go see your parents and family slowly as long as your safe and precaution every situation is different it’s all depends on how your comfortable no one is high risk in my family so we think we’re okay. Take care guys 💕
Ooooo great topic! I recommend "life coach school" there's a podcast episode on disagreements. I just listened to it a few days ago and it was really good! 😊
I love how open and honest you guys are, my husband and I have been together 20 years this year started dating at 15 and yes at the beginning it was teen jealousy, but we have never been a jealous couple I think that's what's kept us together for so long!!!
I missed La Platica! For a moment I thought my notifications were off and I had missed an episode! Oh and Karen I’ll see you in Florida... HomeGoods here we come ✈️🛍😂
I live in San Antonio, Tx and almost everything is reopening but you must have face masks to be allowed into businesses. Restaurants are opening but only allowing 25% of people in the establishment. It’s crazy. It’s like everyone is forgetting about the virus here.
This is my first episode of La Platica that I've watched, love Karen, love this talk. I was laughing so much of Karen's little jealous moments because it's inevitable to cave into those feelings of overthinking especially in the beginning of a relationship.
I live in Idaho and things are starting to open up again. Last week, some stores opened up (Tj Maxxx, Kohl’s), the mall opened up (certain stores), some restaurants are going to be opening up on Saturday, gyms opened up, graduations have been delayed. When everything first started, you were able to tell how people were staying in and quarantining, traffic slowed down, but it didn’t last long and traffic started being the way it was.
So true but once you give them a chance after someone critical they did they keep doing it . And it doesn't work like that . It's better to leave then live like that . Jealousy is nothing good .
Idk how it is in Cali. But in Texas from the beginning we've been allowed to travel from quarentine to quarentine and we've been allowed to gather but no more than 10 people so I still go visit my mom and brothers and I still have people over. I have a small circle so there's only 5 people at my house in a gathering.
I really enjoyed this podcast!! I related a lot because I used to be super jealous when I was younger in my previous relationship with someone who was toxic. But now as im older I learned from that and I am with someone who finally is confident in themselves which gave me the confidence. Communication, commitment and confidence with one another really makes an amazing relationship!! I’m so happy ✨ thanks sebas and Karen I love you guys!!
In out state we were never on lockdown. Just kinda self quarantine. All businesses and parks were closed down but they just started reopening businesses. So like Salons, casinos, movie theater, our mall, and restaurants have opened but with different policies. But we had a spike in corona cases. But I don’t care what they open I’m still staying home. So just work and home. Definitely have a different perspective on life and being out in public.
I wish this was a video when I was in this toxic controlling realtionship :( love yall!!! I didn't realize that this dude was bringing me down just like you said when you're dating someone who is crazy jealous.
I can totally relate! My hubby is a well known producer in PR . He runs with all the top artist so theres no shortage of women in this world. But he’s makes sure to not put himself in a situation where it. Could compromise our relationship. He even has told me when women try to shoot their shot & he shuts it down. We have had our issues where we were separated for years but now he doesn’t want to put us in that situation. He’s Boricua so he’s naturally celoso & protective but he always want to make sure i always feel secure. Every relationship has issues its how you deal with issues & respect each other. And having those conversations being honest telling each other how you feel.
We finally came together this sunday for mother’s day and seen our family since February. We had precautions though, sprayed lysol and masks. But we were hanging out together missed each other , family got drunk lmao . And im from California. Dont know if we are ignoring the order but everyone is tbh.😭❤️ but with precautions. I was happy to see my family sunday and we might get together for Fathers day too
Just in time! I get to listen to y’all while I’m trapeando.. 🙌🏼😆 I’m in Texas. We are going into Phase 2 on May 18th. Most places are open at 25% capacity except bars and gyms. Things are definitely not back to normal and I don’t think it ever will be. I feel like this is our new norm to an extent. I’m not leaving my house with my kids until the final phase. Cases are still going up so idk it’s still scary out there...
I live JUST outside of Corpus Christi, and some of the nearby counties (I'm not gonna say 👀👀👀) are falsely updating their COVID counts. We're sandwiched between 2 tourist towns so it's crazy to me that the numbers haven't gone up in a month, even WITH people flocking here from San Antonio, Austin, Houston, etc?? It's like nothing ever stopped. Lord help us fr.
I live in New York, and honestly people here are not respecting the rules. I go out to buy groceries but nothing more, and when i do, the stores respect the rules by allowing limited number of people inside along with social distancing, but in the streets people are walking outside like nothing, i see masks and gloves in the street. NYC is the most affected place in the country and to be living here is so scary because people are not taking it seriously. My family and I are being so careful into this, I had to quit my job even though I was an essential worker because of the amount of people I saw not taking this seriously. Not everybody is fortunate enough to quit their job, but now I'm wondering if it was a mistake, I want to work again because I know bills are going to start to pile up. I have been trying to keep busy doing school work since I am a full-time student and graduating this month. I wanted to find a job related to my degree but now I am scared that I wont be able to.
Relationship topic: parents not liking your significant other.
Take their word. They're usually right :)
not necessarily, don’t forget about monster in laws
Ooooo, yesss! This is a great topic.
OMG YES
YEEEEESSSSSSS .
Tbh what Karen was talking about back in the days her going through sebs phone and finding out he went to the strip clubs, lying to her the next day, not being honest etc is actually and realistically understandable. It sucks how she kinda says it’s because “we were young and dumb” and almost excuses the guys behaviour or actions for what he did. Almost like she’s the one in fault for acting out or being that crazy gf. Surely we have all been through something like it where our partner has totally disappointed and disrespected us in some ways but I don’t think we should make excuses or reasons for it. Just sucks how something as minor (as some people would say) like lying where they were or in general being dishonest leads to their partners calling them crazy or psycho all because of their own actions. I felt like what she was telling us was valid.
Girl I’m right there with you! She was very very mature! Props to Karen because I would have beaten him with how own phone then dumped more glitter on his entire clothes. I’m not that mature ! But like you mentioned the lying then flipping it around and blaming the girl had got to stop. It’s funny to look back and laugh but that really messes up women.
Girls remember everything, small thing you think we wouldn’t pay attention is what we remember the most 😭😭
Kenia Bravo yessss yessss thank uuuuu 😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This !!! I remember everything !!
topic: Relationships when man is lusting over women, social media liking other girls pics. this a interesting topic
I feel like that topic would be a short one.... leave that man 😂
Yes!!!!
No its not
Yes great topic
Leave a man for liking pics? Hmmm seems stupid and insecure. Specially being that there’s a solid chance he will never meet these girls. Is it one girl who lives locally and he knows? That’s a different story
Never waste your youth on a man that doesn't value you 💜
Yes !
This!!! Yes!
next relationship advice topic: how to keep the “spark” going in the relationship or simply what’s the key to a long lasting relationship?
Not cheating or going to strip clubs when you're in a monogamous relationship, if that's what's agreed on.
Work at it every single day, make each other top priorities,it's tip for tap. For example he comes home tired and sore from work, you make him a hot plate and take a few extra minutes for a little massage, lets say next time your cramping or need more sleep, he cooks for you while you gey to sleep in. Take Care of each others mind body and spirit, your own first then your SO and the rest of it will fall perfectly into place. Communication is key, voice your wants /needs. Support amd lift each other through everything! Speak life and love into one another. 🙋🏽♀ we are about to celebrate 25 years together and every year it just gets better!!! You got this ! Wishing uou love and happiness
Karen is killing me with these jealousy stories i cantttt LOL
Okay can I just say that I have been literally hoping you guys would bring or talk about something like this, so I'm shooook. Currently, I'm going through major trust issues and I've never been the type to be negative, needy, overthink, insecure or any of those types of things. But then things happen and you start to question yourself and your relationship, and like Karen said you just create scenarios and start to drive yourself and your partner insane. I've been just overthinking like crazy, and have been just questioning myself entirely. So it's just hard because the last thing I want to do is become a toxic person, but I'm still really hurting and all I want to do is talk about it but can't keep bringing it up...
s talk about it! you need to. but actually have you and the other person sit down and genuinely talk about it, what you can work on to make you guys work. i’ve been there before and exactly what they said in the video you literally have two options, stay and make it work and talk through it but don’t bring it up, or just leave.
omg am going through the same thing!! your not alone .. feels good I am not alone.. as for him and I, we have very good communication, and he doesn't give up on me. That is hard to find so, I am lucky, but i need to stop with my crazy ass before i loose him.. First month it was great. Second month omg nothing but arguing and fighting because of me! my advice is just communicate with him. I think we are afraid of getting hurt, and used. Also, feelings grow, and it can be a scary thing. BUT we have to just enjoy the moment and except that there are people out there that are good for us.
@@AmberinaNava We have been talking about it, but for some reason many of the times it turns into arguments or me bringing him down when in reality I'm just telling him how I feel. I never insult or attack his character, he just takes things the wrong way and then we never really solve things... Then I don't even know how to bring it up again, because I don't want to fight. So I'm just going crazy, and end up feeling alone.
Marina he needs to learn how to communicate, it’s really easy to feel attacked but once you realize that not everything has to be a fight and that expressing how you feel is really important then communication becomes better. maybe something you can do beforehand is let him know you’re not trying to bash him and that this is just how you feel and without talking about it, you can’t move on completely from it. he can’t just take things the wrong way, he needs to understand that you’re not feeling right about something so he needs to hear you out and understand you. it’s all about figuring out how communication can work best for the both of you. every time you express how you feel, you shouldn’t have to be afraid of a fight. it shouldn’t have to come down to that, if he keeps turning it into an argument then something isn’t right about that
Andrea m you’re spot on.. he says that he constantly needs to walk on egg shells around me, and then every time I want to talk he kind of just says yes we’ll work it out but I need more and I don’t know how to back up my feelings anymore. I just end up feeling clingy and needy, when really I just want to be heard and understood.
i never believe my boyfriend when he says he "forgets" our drama, but here's sebas clueless asf 😂
Lmao. My husband does the same thing! But when it comes to the good times I'm the one that forgets but he remembers every detail...why is that?
NG L nos gusta la mala vida amiga
@@ngl8366 i think its literally a hormonal/ brain difference lol men are more likely to remember the good times we remember the bad
Relationship topic: how men and women deal with heartbreak ,or dating in 2020.
Its really good to hear about your "jealousy stories/arguments" it really makes me think that there will be bullshi** in a lot of relationships and that there is always ups and downs but we have to overcome them to become a stronger couple. I've always thought you guys never really had problems because you seem so in love and so close but knowing that you guys did have hard times really makes me feel like this is normal and problems like these will happen and its okay to go through them... Your relationship is goals.
The topic doesn’t start til 27 min mark, if you wanna know
Omg thanks lol
“Me pego una hueva” 😂😂😂 I can relate 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
Lol. Agreed. I gave up on my home workouts
Relationship Topic: Keeping the spark going & how to get over a breakup (long term relationship)
Relationship advice topic: getting help around the house when you live together. Especially both being raised in a Hispanic household. How do you both come to a compromise on cleaning duties?? And how do you ask??
Lizette Mendoza yesss please this topic
Yes please !!!!
I’m not Hispanic, nor is my boyfriend, but I need advice on this too! 😩
Shoot I just tell him u need to help me I’m not gonna do everything for u. If u want that lifestyle then u can go find yourself a woman that will do it for u. 🙃 hes Mexican by the way.
Being stuck in a rut is 100% valid. Nobody is “on” all the time, and we are not machines just pumping out work/content. I’m glad you didn’t put something out just to put it out when you weren’t feeling it. That makes me appreciate this podcast that much more because it tells me you’re dedicated to authenticity. It’s perfectly fine to take time to recoup, and some days you just wanna play COD which is also totally valid 😂. So thanks for being real. This podcast is awesome. 💛
relationship advice: how to last ten years lol more tips on some things you guys learned through the many years that made your relationship last so long
You have to put up with someone's crap and be forgiving. If they dont want it to work, it won't. Real love is reciprocated
Just lost my job today, and seeing you uploaded made me feel a little better. I love these so much!
Taylor Saavedra I’m so sorry to hear about you losing your job today but I’m a firm believer that things happen for a reason and for the better. I will say a prayer for you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
🙏🏼 ❤️
Namyohorengekyo! 🙏
My very first job I got let go after alittle over a year and my manager who didnt agree told me "Don't stress, I know you will keep moving up and to better things, when this door closes there will be many other doors to open for you that are way better than this opportunity" it sucked at the time but she was right. I also think everyone that worked there hated it so yeah it was a blessing in disguise. I'm very sorry to hear that you lost your job but something better will come along for you. Stay strong!💕
How are you doing today?
Can we talk about how women are always afraid to do their daily things like going to the store and going for a run... like damn I am scared to go anywhere alone...
I love the quarentena cause my husband family can’t come an visit us pinches gorrones🤗🤣
Omg lol 😂
Marisela Castillo lmfaaaaaoooo
Saaaame or go over 🤘🏼🙄🙏🏼😂
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Marisela Castillo 🤣🤣 my husbands family still comes 😏🤣
Been waiting for this love your podcast and your comment section everyone so kind and positive they helped me last week and your subscribers were trying to send me help because I’m on daca and haven’t had an income during this time it was so amazing to see everyone commenting ❤️
It's called depression! No need to apologize. We all go through that. We love you
Loved this episode! So many people glamorize jealousy and there is nothing glamorous about it. You said it best “Being jealous is being toxic.”👏🏼
I’ve always thought Sebas is so so attractive but I would never ever think of disrespecting my girl Karen I always think about it like Sebas is cute but Karen is my girl she’s someone I look up to!! I😂 I can’t picture Sebas without Karen
Stephanie Orozco same girl! I think he’s very attractive- looks and personality. Karen of course is beautiful, talented, smart and has this outgoing, sweet bubbly personality. Love them together ❤️ with that said, I would NEVER DM another girls man for any reason especially if it’s to give a “flirty compliment”. You te called Respect, even if I’ve never met Karen.
Melissa Torres right!!! Honestly low key my husband has a lot of similarities to sebas except my husband is on the thicker side but very handsome lol
Girl he has a brother👌🏼 and you could have Karen as a “sisters-in-law”
He is cute but sometimes he looks dirty NO SHADE just some guys don’t really like to look put together.. and Karen is always looking amazing makeup or not I’m not into girls but she definitely would get my vote ❤️ everything about her she’s beautiful, has a great personality and is humble
Joanna Castro 😂😂😂😂 omg I’m dead!!! Well I am married so I can’t have another relationship 😂😂
I’m dying at Sebas “promoters” face with the high eyebrows 😂😂😂😂 i know exactly what you’re talking about
GIRL SAME!! Instantly someone came to mind! I'm dead
Lmao !! He described them to the T!!!
GIRLS DO remember EVERRYTHING HAHAHAHAHAA sebas
Omg I need a man who protects me while riding 😭🤣 my man would be like get me some chips on your way back 😂🤣
Valdez A 🤣🤣
Best advise EVER!!! Jealousy does lead to the other person lying or hiding stuff from you because they are afraid of how you are going to react. It’s toxic and it’s pointless. Everybody has a life before they get in a relationship, everyone has friends, hobbies, etc. Giving freedom and letting them have a life it’s the most healthy thing you can do for someone you love. They are not your property. Trust me! I have learned, my early 20s I am not proud of. It took a lot of time to learn and grow. If you love a person, you can make the changes within yourself 💜
My husband and I have been together for 6 years and he's never given me any reason to not trust him but every relationship I have been in previously has been toxic and I've been cheated on. Its hard to trust but not because of him its just me thinking shit in my head. He gets mad at me sometimes when I get jealous because he tells me that he's never done anything for me to not trust him but its hard. 😏
I live for la platica! You guys are just so real and authentic! When Karen was saying girls dm sebas saying to leave her for them I’m like GIRLLL who do we need to hit up 🤨 I love the way you guys balance each other out so beautifully 🙌🏽couple goals!! I would love to hear your opinions on how much time to give yourself to be alone after being in a relationship especially a long term one
For reals!!!! You find out everything! Just by the convos of your partner and their friends! Forget pics and social media!! Everything is in those messages with the friends haha
Love how raw you both are. Honestly one of my favorite couples. ❤️
I think we all partially go through the "guys are so stupid" phase in the beginning of relationships, because its harder for guys to grow up , be trustworthy and respectful of the relationship!
love you guys
He is so genuine, I’ll never stop supporting either of them
Sebas: I don’t know maybe Karen is looking at D*** pics all day...
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 Dead 💀
I'm a manager at a restaurant in Vegas. We reopened on May 5th and are only allowed max 50% capacity while practicing social distancing. A lot of places are remaining closed or takeout only. I was surprised how few businesses opened after the governor lifted some of the restrictions.
Relationship Topic idea:
Tips on meeting suegros for the first time, etiquettes, maintaining a relationship with them. When is too much info/ boundaries? Approaching a different culture than our own :)
Advice: meet the at family gathering! I know it sounds even worse but trust me it will be a lot better, not only will you get to meet them but also meet other members which will make things easier. Also, they wont pay much attention to you in that enviroment so it's a lot better than having a one on one and the next the you see the it wont be that awkward
This is such a genuine conversation about the reality of relationships 🖤
Relationship question: how to balance time with each other’s families.
This.. for sure. My man feels like we spend time with my family more than his
Damn this platica really brought some mental clarity to my life, love both your mentalities
I’m supposed to be doing my online final but this is more interesting 😭😂
Karen same sis , SAME 💀
Mood!!
No mames
lol good luck!!
Saaaaameeee 🙃
I loveeee Sarahí! I love how honest she is! So many influences deny deny deny.
Lmaoo Sebas is looking like he’s wearing a T-shirt dress. No Cap.
Gina Gonzalez hehe No cap 🧢
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I can’t unsee it now 😂😂😂😂
I read this comment, had to go back and look. Now I can't unsee it!! 😂
Not really tf. Vintage Kim k inspired t with fear of god essential shorts
I can’t tell y’all how much I need to hear this from another’s couples perspective!!
College finals are over, weather is good, Sebas posted another video... life is good 😄
I love how open and honest you guys are being it truly could help a lot of couples!
I have a lot of family members who are also eager to start going out again to see their close friends and stuff say the same thing, “why are we allowed to go to grocery stores but not go see our families and stuff”.. I just think that the big difference is that when you go to the grocery store, first, you’re trying to maintain your distance with ppl and second, you’re practically in and out- you get ur stuff and u leave. You’re not really there to mingle.. I just think that that’s the difference and that’s what the experts wants us to try to avoid in order for us to stay safe. Just my humble opinion 🤷🏻♀️
51:09 ♡Karen girl thanks for saying that because guys can turn a girl crazy and were not were just honest and want to be loyal to them
" For me I gotta go protect Karen." 8:30 🥺 Awww bf/man goals!! 💕
I totally know how you feel! I feel exactly the same! This whole situation is just so surreal! I live on the west coast of BC and I feel great when the sun is out and it’s warm but once rain and clouds it effects you. You don’t have to apologize, you guys have stepped up so much for us! You need downtime just like everybody else. Blessings to you both!
Sebas got caught up on the strip club situation. That’s why he’s like “Oh shit! 😳 , I don’t remember”
I live in Florida! They opened the beaches first but we are doing phases before everything can reopen again. Some stores are open and some restaurants are letting people sit down in them now. It sucks for other places who are still on lockdown but I understand why.
Took a 3 mile walk while listening to this. Missed yall❤️❤️
Literally needed o hear this info! Really made me realize to let the little shit go and that I can’t control everything. Love you guys so much!!
Karen that’s the virgo in us!! 😫 I catch myself during the same currently with my relationship and i’m working on it cause i know it’s toxic and the relationship won’t work
The piece of don’t worry about what other people have to say or think. It can be hard dealing with relationship issues without the support of close friends. It can be so easy to be upset and go to a friend just to vent or get advice. Then that friend forms an opinion about your s.o. in the process and makes it harder on you to move on from a mistake or forgive a person. It’s important to stick with who you think is worth it, even if there are fuck ups and people don’t agree.
With this whole quarantine I have really been praying for the kids in abusive families. I think abot their parents not being able to work adding to their latest stress and taking it out on their kids. I think about the kids being molested in their home ans shcool being their only outlet. I Really pray for them. The parents holding it together with an abusive spouse or a spouse or family member suffering with addiction.
I pray so hard for them. School and feed I’m to leave the house is really peoples only ya to get out of their situation. Breaks my heart so much.
I absolutely love this message I agree 100% with this topic🙏🏻🙌🏻
I’ve been thru this just recently.
Long story short I thought I met the man of my dreams. We got married and shortly after he began to get jealous for no reason at all.
He was super insecure. He thought I was flirting with people in his family. He didn’t allow me to communicate with my sons dad. He would call me at least 30 times a day while at work. He’d go thru my phone every single day and installed a gps phone tracker. It got to the point where I couldn’t even go to the restroom alone. I put up with this for nearly a year and I kept telling my self he’ll learn to trust that I’m faithful.. He started making me change who I was. I couldn’t speak to anyone that was a male or wasn’t his mom. So I basically couldn’t be my self to make him feel better. I felt depressed and just missed how free I felt before. A year and a million arguments later I caught a break.
He took off one night and I Took that chance to leave and never look back. I heard he’s going crazy getting drunk everyday but I’m so free and happy now. Lesson learned for sure. Now I have a cool relationship with my sons dad. I’m working on My own RUclips channel And makeup line. I’m in a healthy place. FYI you are an inspirational couple. Caren you are such a talented Makeup artist and estevan you rock dude. Keep up the good work!
“You’re about yo fly to Florida huh!?” Ayy sebas the shade😂😂😂
Wow, I needed this! I have a similar relationship to you guys. My boyfriend is younger than me and we got together really young. We've gone through some shit and everyone always says that young relationships don't last. But when I see your relationship with each other, you guys really give me hope!! My boyfriend and I are doing soooo good and we've been for a long time, but I am definitely the jealous one and get crazy just thinking random shit. Everything you guys said is so true. Thank you!! Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
Im sorry but this is NOT okay..How does he conveniently forget about this stripper and then LET you tell yourself that you were being crazy over something that shouldve been a deal breaker!? This beautiful woman has shrugged her standards, put her hurts under the rug for this guy who clearly hasnt valued her worth. Baby... If you wanna keep this boy around for comfort I get it, but date MEN in the mean time who would be honoured to treat you like the queen that you are! I know this isnt easy but I swear I say this with love: bcus before you meet your True Love, itll take time to heal. and I can see right away how much more you deserve, and i promise, the man of your dreams is out there ladies!! You might have to endure loneliness from not backing down on your standards, but once you meet The One, all that time, heartache, the lessons, will all help you be clear on HOW you need to be loved in order to be compatable. And itll finally be your turn💍❤️
Speaking from experience
Everyone deserves to have True Love
If True Love found me, it can find each and every one of you!! God bless Queens!!
Wow exactly my thoughts!! He didn’t forget. You don’t forget that especially because she made a big deal about it. And the fact that he lets her believe she was acting crazy. No not ok. He’s hiding something. It’s obvious in the other podcast when he was upset about her looking through his phone and said he was going to change his passcode. Saying he felt disrespected. Red flag
Queen response !!
This was so good to hear, not even such a perfect match have a flawless relationship, I respect you guys even MORE because you shared ugly things you’ve been through and overcame it
Sebas, maybe you went through a hit of depression. I know I did. I would cry out of no where and just felt like doing NOTHING. I am such an active person. I wake up at 4am to work on my RUclips and my online store and I just didn’t have the energy to do anything of it. I realized it wasn’t like me and I snapped out of it thank god lol but yes stay active guys💗 exercise helps so much !! And sun bathing💗 cuídense mucho 🙋🏻♀️🦋
Lyzee_333 ughhh yesss I think so many of us are going through this here and there, it’s hard to stay motivated during times like this!
I was crying for a week straight for no reason. My bf thought I was pregnant lol
needed this video about 3 years ago lol 😅
it takes patience & the right partner to not make you feel like you should be jealous all the time..
Much love to karen!! shes gold! And Sebas, you are a great representation of the Latino/Hispanic man. Thank you for representing!!
Absolutely loved this podcast, it is so refreshing listening to a couple who are willing to talk about the some what messier starts of their relationships, jealousy and checking phones and trust issues be like that in our younger days especially! But it’s so beautiful to see how close and strong you are years later. I’d love to see a video on how you maintain the spark, especially cause you work together too! X
I am from Veracruz, Mexico., and “everything” is closed, but people are not respecting the quarantine and meeting in their houses with other people and it’s really disgusting and sad. Because people is not being considerate with the ones that are actually doing the quarantine:(
Great topic! Thanks for giving us your input/advice & also sharing your stories as an example, very relatable. One thing I can say, a relationship may be tested at any time. Not everyone is the same so this may not apply to everyone but relationships are WORK! There will be circumstances that can break you or strengthen your relationship, whether your starting or 20 yrs later. The real ones are worth it all & get through the bumps but, it ain't easy...but thanks again!
We need a video of Karen’s sandwiches!!!
Bro I can totally relate juggling editing, creativity and this quarantine stuck feeling. Keep hustling it's paying off.
Texas is trying to re-open & I’ve seen sooo many ppl at the mall, in line (right next to each other), the beach & without masks. TX is so stubborn that the only way ppl will stay home now is when cases start increasing. We don’t even have enough tests & in the RGV where I’m from we don’t have enough hospital beds. I’m not trying to go anywhere & I hate it here, send HELP lol
Rolando Rodriguez The valley is crazy 😂
Quit spreading lies. Same shit the media says but the truth is #emptyhospitals. Lmfao you people are funny
hotcheetoeyes girl the only place that will be packed in the hospital is the ICU. Check that floor. Surgeries are cancelled and no one is risking their life to go to the hospital for non emergency related issues. Common sense girl common sense
Rolando Rodriguez same bro same :/
hotcheetoeyes Please go visit the ICU of your local hospital, then come back and comment.
Love watching you both together❤ please keep doing videos together. You are helping us get through this with laughs and forgetting about the outside world for a while ❤❤
OMG can the " SACA LA BOTITA" crewneck come out in black!!!! ALREADY!!!!! I NEED IT!
mannnnnn did i relate to some of these topics...especially the part about walking around egg shells when you're with a jealous partner & having to "lie" because they might get upset or mad...what a topic lol you guys nailed it
Honestly it is hard but as an essential worker we are around people all day and like you said we don’t know what they’ve been and thank god me and my family have bin fine so we hang out with our family that we know have bin taking care of themselves to so I think you can go see your parents and family slowly as long as your safe and precaution every situation is different it’s all depends on how your comfortable no one is high risk in my family so we think we’re okay. Take care guys 💕
Communication is key. BUT so is the sense of understanding.
Relationship topic: communicating through arguments/ disagreements
Ooooo great topic! I recommend "life coach school" there's a podcast episode on disagreements. I just listened to it a few days ago and it was really good! 😊
I love how open and honest you guys are, my husband and I have been together 20 years this year started dating at 15 and yes at the beginning it was teen jealousy, but we have never been a jealous couple I think that's what's kept us together for so long!!!
I missed La Platica! For a moment I thought my notifications were off and I had missed an episode! Oh and Karen I’ll see you in Florida... HomeGoods here we come ✈️🛍😂
On point .. Jealously can definitely ruin a relationship 😞
I live in San Antonio, Tx and almost everything is reopening but you must have face masks to be allowed into businesses. Restaurants are opening but only allowing 25% of people in the establishment. It’s crazy. It’s like everyone is forgetting about the virus here.
This is my first episode of La Platica that I've watched, love Karen, love this talk. I was laughing so much of Karen's little jealous moments because it's inevitable to cave into those feelings of overthinking especially in the beginning of a relationship.
talk about marriage/not wanting to get married or having kids/not wanting to have kids and the timing with those two topics!
I live in Idaho and things are starting to open up again. Last week, some stores opened up (Tj Maxxx, Kohl’s), the mall opened up (certain stores), some restaurants are going to be opening up on Saturday, gyms opened up, graduations have been delayed. When everything first started, you were able to tell how people were staying in and quarantining, traffic slowed down, but it didn’t last long and traffic started being the way it was.
When Karen was talking about the striper I was like hello sebas say something & his answer was just I don't remember really??!!? 🤦♀️
So true but once you give them a chance after someone critical they did they keep doing it . And it doesn't work like that . It's better to leave then live like that . Jealousy is nothing good .
Idk how it is in Cali. But in Texas from the beginning we've been allowed to travel from quarentine to quarentine and we've been allowed to gather but no more than 10 people so I still go visit my mom and brothers and I still have people over. I have a small circle so there's only 5 people at my house in a gathering.
I really enjoyed this podcast!! I related a lot because I used to be super jealous when I was younger in my previous relationship with someone who was toxic. But now as im older I learned from that and I am with someone who finally is confident in themselves which gave me the confidence. Communication, commitment and confidence with one another really makes an amazing relationship!! I’m so happy ✨ thanks sebas and Karen I love you guys!!
In out state we were never on lockdown. Just kinda self quarantine. All businesses and parks were closed down but they just started reopening businesses. So like Salons, casinos, movie theater, our mall, and restaurants have opened but with different policies. But we had a spike in corona cases. But I don’t care what they open I’m still staying home. So just work and home. Definitely have a different perspective on life and being out in public.
I wish this was a video when I was in this toxic controlling realtionship :( love yall!!! I didn't realize that this dude was bringing me down just like you said when you're dating someone who is crazy jealous.
This topic was the best yet!!!! Let's hear about trust next :))))
YESSS
The way you describe the promoters 🤣 On point!💯🤣
Karen always looks so comfy! I want to just sit there so comfy ❤️
I can totally relate! My hubby is a well known producer in PR . He runs with all the top artist so theres no shortage of women in this world. But he’s makes sure to not put himself in a situation where it. Could compromise our relationship. He even has told me when women try to shoot their shot & he shuts it down. We have had our issues where we were separated for years but now he doesn’t want to put us in that situation. He’s Boricua so he’s naturally celoso & protective but he always want to make sure i always feel secure. Every relationship has issues its how you deal with issues & respect each other. And having those conversations being honest telling each other how you feel.
We finally came together this sunday for mother’s day and seen our family since February. We had precautions though, sprayed lysol and masks. But we were hanging out together missed each other , family got drunk lmao . And im from California. Dont know if we are ignoring the order but everyone is tbh.😭❤️ but with precautions. I was happy to see my family sunday and we might get together for Fathers day too
Immediate family only.
I never stopped visiting family. Not even when lockdown started lol
The fact that you ride your bike while she runs because of all the crazy people is GOALS. Love u guys!!!
Just in time! I get to listen to y’all while I’m trapeando.. 🙌🏼😆
I’m in Texas. We are going into Phase 2 on May 18th. Most places are open at 25% capacity except bars and gyms. Things are definitely not back to normal and I don’t think it ever will be. I feel like this is our new norm to an extent. I’m not leaving my house with my kids until the final phase. Cases are still going up so idk it’s still scary out there...
I live JUST outside of Corpus Christi, and some of the nearby counties (I'm not gonna say 👀👀👀) are falsely updating their COVID counts. We're sandwiched between 2 tourist towns so it's crazy to me that the numbers haven't gone up in a month, even WITH people flocking here from San Antonio, Austin, Houston, etc?? It's like nothing ever stopped. Lord help us fr.
I fucking love these two together! Can't wait for the wedding and babies. They just sync together so perfectly!
Karen is meee putting his stripper convo as his wallpaper 😂😂😂💀💀
I live in New York, and honestly people here are not respecting the rules. I go out to buy groceries but nothing more, and when i do, the stores respect the rules by allowing limited number of people inside along with social distancing, but in the streets people are walking outside like nothing, i see masks and gloves in the street. NYC is the most affected place in the country and to be living here is so scary because people are not taking it seriously. My family and I are being so careful into this, I had to quit my job even though I was an essential worker because of the amount of people I saw not taking this seriously. Not everybody is fortunate enough to quit their job, but now I'm wondering if it was a mistake, I want to work again because I know bills are going to start to pile up. I have been trying to keep busy doing school work since I am a full-time student and graduating this month. I wanted to find a job related to my degree but now I am scared that I wont be able to.