As soon as the sun came up, I would’ve been on my way to the County Clerk’s Office to request an annulment, and then on to the nearest police precinct to file charges against that whole entire crazy-arse family.
He didn’t because he knew he was wrong. What man cheats on the days leading up to his weddings, gets caught on his wedding night, instead of apologizing he kicks his hurt wife out of the room? You bird brains are sad.
@Believer in God. If that's the case, the "bird brains" are the ones putting themselves in position to go to jail by assaulting him AND the idiot that stayed married to him. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them."
It doesn't matter that they have kids together; they shouldn't have had children because they are tied together no matter what. The divorce would have been easier if it were just about the two of them, but since they have children, he will have to deal with those drama-filled relatives for the rest of his life.
@@believeringod.4004 There's never an excuse to put your hands on anyone. Walk away if your man is unfaithful. Isn't jumping people causing enough heartache already. ETC Shaquella Robinson
@@believeringod.4004 This man was HOSPITALIZED! Had to be sedated and was there for 4 DAYS‼️ He could’ve gotten brain damaged when he lost oxygen! And you still have the audacity to blame the husband⁉️See this is why male victims don’t come forward and they suffer in silence because if ppl like you! What if he idk, DIED?! You would still blame him huh?! These ppl are his family by law, ppl who he suppose to trust and they jump him like a pack of wild animals and you’re siding w/ them?! This world is upside down, if this was the other way around and his family beat HER up- the world world call for him to be… executed! 🙄🤦🏾♀️😒
Might be a sweet man but let’s not pretend that he isn’t responsible for triggering his wife to act out on him. And even though it doesn’t make things right she was push to the point of no return knowing that she rotates around anger. Turn to find out she is an Aries
@lavinder11 I guess I don't under Judge Mathis he over talks the people. It's probably fault to go around to both parties. But you sue me and the next court we'll be in divorce court. She says he was a cheater. To me, it's obvious that he took advantage of her love for him, and she let it build up. Why didn't he sue all the other people. She probably pays all the bills anyway. Girl, he's cute but throw him back he's not worth the heartache or headache.
@@excel_5422ahhhhh another victim balmer. You wouldn't say that is it was the other way around. Domestic abuse is unacceptable whatever the reason....you leave.
I always say this. We don’t realize that maybe you and this person aren’t meant for one another. On the other hand I believe it’s the being used to a person so no matter how bad something is, some people don’t want to let go. But I learned how to, for sure.
@@deejai1173 Yes! I rekindled something with someone once and realized I was in love with the memory we had but not who the person was today. Never again!!!!
He can’t be all the way there. There’s absolutely no way I would remain married if my wife and her family attacked me and put me in the hospital on our wedding night.
I know a woman who stabbed her husband because he was trying to look at her phone. He told the doctor he did it to himself to keep her from getting arrested. She has jumped on him with her family as well. They're still married after all of that smh
I remember this woman when she was a teenager on a show called “Preachers Daughters.” She acted a fool, so I’m not surprised of her behavior. I’m glad her husband got justice. This woman has sown a lot of bad, and she has a lot of bad reaping coming.
This is just fucking sad... they assaulted this man on his wedding day. She didnt deny ANYTHING except saying she only slapped him once, that aint no wife. that marriage wouldve been annulled right then and there 🤬
Being assaulted by your bride and new in-laws and new family is traumatic, I couldn't stay with a person that would allow their family to physically harm me and also join in on the assault.
That experience doesn’t mean she is a bad person. She had a lot of passion for this man and dealing with her he should learn how to cope with his wife for reassurance and comfort
I know one thing if the roles were reverse there would outrage for her staying with her husband after what he has done. Dude sounds like he suffers from battered wife syndrome...
This man was HOSPITALIZED! Had to be sedated and was there for 4 DAYS‼️ He could’ve gotten brain damaged when he lost oxygen! And y’all still have the audacity to blame the husband⁉️See this is why male victims don’t come forward and they suffer in silence because if ppl like y’all! What if he idk, DIED?! Y’all would still blame him huh?! These ppl are his family by law, ppl who he suppose to trust and they jump him like a pack of wild animals and y’all siding w/ them?! Jazzyjeff is right I hope he leaves her abusive a$$ before they do it again!
This a traumatizing experience. I hope this gentleman understand the seriousness of what he experienced. She allowed her family members attack him and put his life at risk. What's going to happen the next time she's mad or doesn't get her way smh? Her family clearly showed they have no love for him, and his wife wanted to show she had the power to harm him or worse.
Sir, with her and her family, which she allows it's always gonna be them against you ❗ you need to divorce and move, or you will be running for the rest your LIFE! Especially now, she and her family are NOT remorseful , she'll always involve her family over you , so 🏃🏃🏃sir and don't look back❗
@@nicholinaplange4750 I think what everyone is failing to realize is that they was drinking and he said he took his son to the room so he got his kid away from all the liquor etc and they brought the drama to him and their son
@@believeringod.4004 there was NEVER ANY PROOF OF CHEATING! I feel for your spouse. I knew a cute young woman who believed both of her husbands cheated. The first one got away the second one she stuck her sewing scissors in his chest after a party.
So weird right. They look like nice rings. I can't believe they are still together. She needed this case to realize how this hurt him. I hope things have changed between them.
So he knew her for all those years, but didn't know her family was kinda crazy and violent? I highly doubt the wedding day was the first time this kinda behaviour was displayed.
@@excel_5422 Her "flows" are the problem! She must've been on her monthly "flow" in order to think it was ok to slap her newly married husband. Chick is crazy, period...
I have a gut feeling it's not the first time this has happened to him. He didn't find her worthy enough to be married to even while they were having children. It's because she has always been toxic and her family too.
The guy in the blue behind the plaintiff always has me in tears 😂😂😂. I would have called my whole family BACK and we would have been some scrapping mfs
THIS the comment I strolled ALL the way down to find bcuz ohhhh no sir!! You want to jump?!!? Ok! My folks WOULD'VE been back there and we would've folded all of em and left the scene BEFORE the police would've gotten there!!!! The FACT that they TRIED it, PROBABLY would've gotten a FEW of his ppl m*urked!!!
@@dawnmatthews6424 not even black community but society in general. It's the new buzz word and it's so annoying! As a therapist it's so frustrating for this to be used out of context.
@@jb3702 thank you! And a lot of people online claiming they grew up with narcissistic parents. I’m not a therapist but I know my strict l was not a narcissist for giving me a curfew and asking us to abide by house rules like no phone calls after 9 on a school night.
@@jb3702 As a so called "therapist" you should know that she does show some type of narcissism though. Her trying to minimize her actions by saying "she only hit him once". That is definitely a narcissistic trait (gaslighting is a major narcissistic trait)...her lack of remorse... narcissistic... and her trying to make excuses for her behavior and the judge shut her down. She does in fact showcase narcissistic behaviors. Although, the word is used too frequently by EVERYONE not just black people. If anything white folks throw that word around way more. And also.......I'm a therapist as well. Interesting how we have different views of what constitutes narcissistic...... 🤔
I think the sister tried something with him while he was sleeping and the defendant waled in, why would she even be in the room on their wedding night .
@@cierravaughn9282 see, thanks for clarifying! I knew it!!! My ex husband trashed me in divorce court and I just said “judge I’m ready for the divorce “ other ppl in court started laughing.My point is that man put me through hell but I wasn’t about to sit there and say all that and I got that vibe from you.
Looked them up on Facebook they are still together I think there was more to the story they seem to be thriving and doing well she just graduated from college getting her masters in education and he owns his own business
It's gotta be rough to be assaulted by your own wife's relatives. This defendant isn't worth being married to in the first place. Men make some of the most horrendous decisions in the women that they choose to get with. Do better!
That’s what he likes. There are no perfect victims and considering they are still married him suing her after getting his ass whooped instead of divorcing her speaks volumes. Idk why she started crying but hopefully it’s because he asked for a divorce.
And now there are children involved. Not sure why she’s crying at the end, but smiled the whole case even as he’s describing the wedding night from hell.
I watched one show where the host completely ripped the audience for laughing at domestic assault on a man and said that if it were a woman he was interviewing the crowd would be in an uproar by it...I think the way we casually look over men being abused or assaulted is disgusting.
I hope he leaves her, because this was a clear warning sign. If you let women get away with violence acts and don’t leave. She will have no problem killing you if she gets too angry. Ask all of the men who have died from violent women after forgiving from the last domestic abuse.
Violence should never be the answer especially when it comes to husband and wife!!! Her Family needs to mind their business, they’re probably always overstepping
These are 2 traumatized people who don’t mind each others toxicity. She’s traumatized because of his “cheating” and he’s traumatized not only from getting beat up but looks like she’s the more aggressive natured one in the relationship. Regardless, she’s only crying because she has to pay $4800. She has no remorse for her actions or the actions of her family.
I’m glad he won… he’s seems so humble and respectful and he didn’t deserve that… and she seems like she’s got some serious issues … I pray things work out for them 😔
@@Cezer35 Well I hope they both invest in getting some individual counseling because it seems like there is some sort of childhood trauma that they both haven't dealt with. I think that they will continue to be toxic for one another if they don't get some help. Especially for the children's sake. He does seem very respectful and professional as well. I'm glad you put it out there & let us know what type of character he possesses. Your a true friend.
Pray that he leave her. Next time she might pay a hit man or hit woman... For example, like the story of NBA Basketball player Lorenzen Wright whose wife pay a hit man from her church to kill him. Got millions from his insurance then fled the state for several years. She was at his funeral acting as she was innocent. It was not until after the funeral and in 2017 that she was arrested. The incident took place in 2010. That woman had went and married another man. This young lady in this video looks similar to Lorenzen's wife. You people on here that are always wanted people stay together and work it out need to Google and watch: Death by Marriage or Marriagr by Death. Some people are not suppose to be married to each other.
I can tell this man has gotten away with so much infidelity and emotional abuse………. The wife doesn’t even know how to defend herself anymore. He stayed an EXTRA 3 days in Las Vegas for his bachelors- then has the audacity to leave her to clean up the wedding venue by herself- while he “sleeps it off” - she thought marriage would fix things or fix him . But it only exacerbated the issues. I believe the family jumped him because they KNOW what he does and how he does behind closed doors- sad both ways
Imagine if you were in his position you would be singing a different tune No one own anyone it's a privilege to engage between two people and taking over someone lives because you are in a relationship doesn't give anyone the right to own them P.S. don't try to change anyone to your desire allowed them to be themselves they have so much to offer within !!!
He reminds me of Ryan from black ink crew Chicago. Anyways, that marriage and relationship sounds SO toxic. Whew wee! 😩What happened on their wedding night is what will get worse and would be a dealbreaker for me. I’d be running back to the courthouse to get a divorce after all of that but to each his own. Sad. SMDH imagine what their kids witness from all of this. Fellas just because she’s “cute” doesn’t mean she’s a keeper and ladies just because he’s “cute” doesn’t mean he will be good for you. This was crazy.
I agree, my ex absolutely gorgos still think so amazing body and a porn star size D but the man treated me like shit. Controlled me manipulated me nearly made me quit my job just because I work mostly with men as I’m a van driver. Would time how long took to get from the vans yard to my car. Trackers control of social media. Wasn’t allowed friends beat me even in front of my kids crashed my car whilst he was drunk. He alcoholic. No sexy man is worth all that. Put me thru hell and he will do it again to some poor women.
A three day bachelor party turns into a week? You leave your own reception early. Leave the bride to pick everything up and just go to sleep? Zero excuse for him being attacked but this seems untrue.
I believe her. She let a lot of stuff pile up trying to get to the actual wedding day then she exploded. I agree he is not innocent. He won cus he got beat up. But let’s be honest if our family didn’t have our backs like hers did we’d be big mad.
@@opulence_prime This man was HOSPITALIZED! Had to be sedated and was there for 4 DAYS‼️ He could’ve gotten brain damaged when he lost oxygen! And you still have the audacity to blame the husband⁉️See this is why male victims don’t come forward and they suffer in silence because if ppl like you! What if he idk, DIED?! You would still blame him huh?! These ppl are his family by law, ppl who he suppose to trust and they jump him like a pack of wild animals and you’re siding w/ them?! This world is upside down, if this was the other way around and his family beat HER up- the world world call for him to be… executed! 🙄🤦🏾♀️😒
This case wasn't even about the money. It's about trying to get her to realize that she has no reason to think and feel the way she does. When you have everybody and they mama in your relationship and that side of the family is cray cray...gotta do something to get your point across or leave.
She cries at the end both because of the embarrassment and also because she is aware of the wrongdoings towards this man. May God grant to her what she has caused unto him.
Damn!!! This will never be Repaired too many folks got involved. He needs to take his small judgment find a place,File for divorce, Co-parent and keep it pushing ✌🏾
She’s an ongoing “red flag”… that’s evident by her demeanor throughout this case, and not one ounce of remorse radiates from her. She’s not the one, bruh. Don’t be fooled by the many years knowing her. “GET OUT”!
Something about this case hits home. He definitely not a victim. He the type that gets away with murder and she probably had enough. I don’t think he is innocent. Y’all the girl looked so exhausted it’s definitely more to the story . In life it takes one to go through something to sometimes see the bigger picture. Don’t be so quick to judge if have never been in a situation like that .
I don't believe he's innocent either but if you choose to stay you should keep your family out your business. This is how ppl get hurt because if I were him I wouldn't be able to let that go until one of them is in the hospital as well.
Her whole attitude is like.... look at me, im the real victim here! And she sound so silly... if she was gonna let all the randoms build condo's in her head they should have never married. She knew what it was... deal with it or leave.
He needs help...she hates him and will possibly lead him to an early grave...the marriage would have ended that same night because my family woulda took all they asses out! I wouldn't have been in the hospital alone..that's fa sho.
I was in a 2 year relationship many years ago with an ex. I took care of her. I paid all the bills as a man. I was making 300k or more per fight. One night she decided to slap me across the face because she heard I was at some party, but in all reality I was training hard for my next fight and when the facts came out 2 days later that I wasn't at that party because her (MOTHER) hosted the party and had a guest list of names & mine wasn't on it.. she was so sorry & apologetic, but it was too late! The next day of her slapping me, all of her belongings were sitting outside the gate with her name taken off the entry list due to me living in a gated community. I got rid of her immediately. I'm NOT into putting my hands on women and I don't believe a woman should be putting her hands on a man. Cheating & putting hands on one another is a deal-breaker for me.💯
And what was she crying for at the end??? He should’ve been the one crying , yet and still he had it in him to tell her he loved her after all the pain and suffering her and her psycho family cause him. I hope he kept it moving after that.
As soon as the sun came up, I would’ve been on my way to the County Clerk’s Office to request an annulment, and then on to the nearest police precinct to file charges against that whole entire crazy-arse family.
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BOOM. THIS!
He didn’t because he knew he was wrong. What man cheats on the days leading up to his weddings, gets caught on his wedding night, instead of apologizing he kicks his hurt wife out of the room? You bird brains are sad.
@Believer in God. If that's the case, the "bird brains" are the ones putting themselves in position to go to jail by assaulting him AND the idiot that stayed married to him. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them."
😂😂😂😂😂
Would have been the quickest marriage and divorce in history for me 🤣 🤣
Straight from the hospital to the court house lol
It doesn't matter that they have kids together; they shouldn't have had children because they are tied together no matter what. The divorce would have been easier if it were just about the two of them, but since they have children, he will have to deal with those drama-filled relatives for the rest of his life.
Being assaulted on your wedding night by your wife and her family, this is sad for many reasons.
Right!!!
He cheated and they jumped him which is good
@@believeringod.4004 allegations and no proof
@@believeringod.4004 There's never an excuse to put your hands on anyone. Walk away if your man is unfaithful. Isn't jumping people causing enough heartache already. ETC Shaquella Robinson
@@believeringod.4004 This man was HOSPITALIZED! Had to be sedated and was there for 4 DAYS‼️ He could’ve gotten brain damaged when he lost oxygen! And you still have the audacity to blame the husband⁉️See this is why male victims don’t come forward and they suffer in silence because if ppl like you! What if he idk, DIED?! You would still blame him huh?! These ppl are his family by law, ppl who he suppose to trust and they jump him like a pack of wild animals and you’re siding w/ them?! This world is upside down, if this was the other way around and his family beat HER up- the world world call for him to be… executed! 🙄🤦🏾♀️😒
The fact that she didn't apologize is definitely a red flag, he seems like such a sweet man I hope he finds his happiness.
Might be a sweet man but let’s not pretend that he isn’t responsible for triggering his wife to act out on him. And even though it doesn’t make things right she was push to the point of no return knowing that she rotates around anger. Turn to find out she is an Aries
He doesn't seem sweet at all.
@lavinder11 I guess I don't under Judge Mathis he over talks the people. It's probably fault to go around to both parties. But you sue me and the next court we'll be in divorce court. She says he was a cheater. To me, it's obvious that he took advantage of her love for him, and she let it build up. Why didn't he sue all the other people. She probably pays all the bills anyway. Girl, he's cute but throw him back he's not worth the heartache or headache.
@@excel_5422ahhhhh another victim balmer. You wouldn't say that is it was the other way around. Domestic abuse is unacceptable whatever the reason....you leave.
And people wonder why certain men refuse to get married. Beauty means nothing to a man who craves love and respect from his wife.
Sometimes when people leave your life it’s for a reason and no point in trying to rekindle something later . Let it go!
I always say this. We don’t realize that maybe you and this person aren’t meant for one another. On the other hand I believe it’s the being used to a person so no matter how bad something is, some people don’t want to let go. But I learned how to, for sure.
@@deejai1173 Yes! I rekindled something with someone once and realized I was in love with the memory we had but not who the person was today. Never again!!!!
Amen
Please get to the case!!! 😮😮😮
sometimes rekindling means finishing off one's dastardly deeds!
He can’t be all the way there. There’s absolutely no way I would remain married if my wife and her family attacked me and put me in the hospital on our wedding night.
I'm 2 minutes into the video and I think the plaintiff needs to divorce the defendant
Good point
I know a woman who stabbed her husband because he was trying to look at her phone. He told the doctor he did it to himself to keep her from getting arrested. She has jumped on him with her family as well. They're still married after all of that smh
He is all the way there . He just loves her. No different from if a person cheats in marriage and he or she stays in the marriage
And divorce can get expensive
She wanna be the victim so bad!!! If you didn’t feel like he was being faithful then why tf did u marry him!? Smh
Agreed!!! I’m confused are they still legally married?
Yesss that part
Right... So hung up on the “wedding”... She wasn't worried about nothing else...Huge life lesson.
Exactly! And ma’am, he ain’t all that cute. 🙄
@@donnaramsey11 he cute, they’re a good match looks wise.
I remember this woman when she was a teenager on a show called “Preachers Daughters.” She acted a fool, so I’m not surprised of her behavior. I’m glad her husband got justice. This woman has sown a lot of bad, and she has a lot of bad reaping coming.
That's her wow
Omgoodness that sure is her.
I knew she looked familiar ! That's def her
I couldn't stand her superior attitude on that show
@@DishaeB I agree. I couldn’t stand it either.
This is just fucking sad... they assaulted this man on his wedding day. She didnt deny ANYTHING except saying she only slapped him once, that aint no wife. that marriage wouldve been annulled right then and there 🤬
Right! Who in the Hell remains married to an abusive fool the same night!
Exactly!!! We can never be together if you and your family gon jump me!!
She's a whole rat, but that's what he picked out of the entire basket.
They could have killed this man! He talks about his love for her is "unconditional ". He needs to run, NOW!
@@murieltillman9554 he better Love himself enough to get the hell away from her...I bet the family has a long history of doing this shit to people...
Being assaulted by your bride and new in-laws and new family is traumatic, I couldn't stay with a person that would allow their family to physically harm me and also join in on the assault.
She has zero remorse for her behaviors. He needs to leave her
That experience doesn’t mean she is a bad person. She had a lot of passion for this man and dealing with her he should learn how to cope with his wife for reassurance and comfort
He knew she was a hand full before they said I do.
I know one thing if the roles were reverse there would outrage for her staying with her husband after what he has done. Dude sounds like he suffers from battered wife syndrome...
@@papalegbasson2447 nobody force neither one to get married . It’s sad& they need some serious help🤦♀️
This man was HOSPITALIZED! Had to be sedated and was there for 4 DAYS‼️ He could’ve gotten brain damaged when he lost oxygen! And y’all still have the audacity to blame the husband⁉️See this is why male victims don’t come forward and they suffer in silence because if ppl like y’all! What if he idk, DIED?! Y’all would still blame him huh?! These ppl are his family by law, ppl who he suppose to trust and they jump him like a pack of wild animals and y’all siding w/ them?! Jazzyjeff is right I hope he leaves her abusive a$$ before they do it again!
It’s crazy how wrong she feels and can’t admit or just say sorry
The way she stood there silent at the end speaks volumes
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Yeah looked like she was crying
What do think that says? She’s remorseful?
@@kevinhouseworth8373 hell nah she is not remorseful he needs to divorce her before it's too late
Tryna muster up some crocodile tears...🙄🥱
This a traumatizing experience. I hope this gentleman understand the seriousness of what he experienced. She allowed her family members attack him and put his life at risk. What's going to happen the next time she's mad or doesn't get her way smh? Her family clearly showed they have no love for him, and his wife wanted to show she had the power to harm him or worse.
I pray we don't hear about him on the news, situations like this don't ever get better. No one deserves what happened to him 😔
Sir, with her and her family, which she allows it's always gonna be them against you ❗ you need to divorce and move, or you will be running for the rest your LIFE! Especially now, she and her family are NOT remorseful , she'll always involve her family over you , so 🏃🏃🏃sir and don't look back❗
I would beg my son to leave this abusive marriage! She has NO respect for him. None.
The abuse is so wrong. He also has no respect for her. Who leaves on their wedding night?
@@nicholinaplange4750someone who got jumped
@@nicholinaplange4750 I think what everyone is failing to realize is that they was drinking and he said he took his son to the room so he got his kid away from all the liquor etc and they brought the drama to him and their son
The things men do to NOT break up their homes because of the mother's behavior.
You can tell she lives on that pretty girl privilege. Hope he finds someone that appreciates him, he seems like a nice humble man
Pretty Girl Privilege is real!
Well he has kids with her so he’s stuck.
He's never stuck, they can coparent.
She allowed this to happen to her husband?!👀 on their wedding day?! So much wrong within this situation; Smh he married an enemy.
#Ratchet🤮
Exactly 🤦🏿♂️ smmh
She could've stopped her relatives from attacking her husband. They Are Her Relatives !!!!
After he cheated then kicked her out of their room absolutely he deserved it!
@@believeringod.4004 there was NEVER ANY PROOF OF CHEATING! I feel for your spouse. I knew a cute young woman who believed both of her husbands cheated. The first one got away the second one she stuck her sewing scissors in his chest after a party.
Facts
They’re sueing each other while wearing their wedding rings 😂😂😂
So weird right. They look like nice rings. I can't believe they are still together. She needed this case to realize how this hurt him. I hope things have changed between them.
Weirdo stuff! They both deserve each other...
She would be giving him their money! That makes no sense to me either
@@wshelby83 absolutely doesn’t
At the end of the day they’re married
She was dead wrong, people who involved their family in every argument are toxic.
Right! Once the couple forgives each other then the family still has an attitude with the spouse. Not good at all to involve the family.
Agree
Absolutely 💯, smh
Facts been there and will never do that again.
Shes very lucky to still have her family
Whatever she went back and said got her sister and those dudes heated. She should definitely pay for his pain and suffering
Wedding Night from hell ain’t no way we can come back from this wedding annulled!!!
Foreal ‼️
Quickly! And I’m taking the money to go a a trip solo
Facts!
“Only slapped him one time.” I literally bursted out laughing. And neither one of them can forma sentence and was pissing me off dragging this out.
You’re right, they gave me a headache.
So he knew her for all those years, but didn't know her family was kinda crazy and violent? I highly doubt the wedding day was the first time this kinda behaviour was displayed.
My thought exactly
I feel so bad for the children. I hope they are getting a divorce with child support and visitation.
She talking BM drama when she one herself crazy probably was fighting the other BMs too
You sound crazy no excuse to beat the man
@@cierravaughn9282
Cut that zero and get with this hero
I'm still trying to figure out why she is still wife status and not ex-wife status! They could have killed him over some BS!
I hope that brother gets away from that violent woman
If he loves her unconditionally as he claimed then he needs to accept her with her flows
And her family
@@excel_5422 Her "flows" are the problem! She must've been on her monthly "flow" in order to think it was ok to slap her newly married husband. Chick is crazy, period...
@@NoemadZ. 😂😂 right.
@@excel_5422 unconditional love shouldn’t include abuse. This why people need to love with limits
I have a gut feeling it's not the first time this has happened to him.
He didn't find her worthy enough to be married to even while they were having children. It's because she has always been toxic and her family too.
I pray he found peace and left her, I don't want to hear about him on the news. Situations like this rarely ever get better
Not even 2 mins in and I don't like how she's standing all defensive
The crazy eyes drew my attention. Charles Manson would be jealous.
Yes!! She definitely has crazy 👀
She think she’s so cute she can act any way it’s pathetic
Wow, They Resemble Eachother Soo Much!! They Look Like Brother And Sister.
This entire family jumped on this man.
Whooped his ass in the hallway 😂 that’s crazy … on his wedding night
Those men were probably jeolous of him
The guy in the blue behind the plaintiff always has me in tears 😂😂😂. I would have called my whole family BACK and we would have been some scrapping mfs
Facts 🤣😂😂😂
THIS the comment I strolled ALL the way down to find bcuz ohhhh no sir!! You want to jump?!!? Ok! My folks WOULD'VE been back there and we would've folded all of em and left the scene BEFORE the police would've gotten there!!!! The FACT that they TRIED it, PROBABLY would've gotten a FEW of his ppl m*urked!!!
She’s a narcissist!!!!!!!! The fact that her family attacked him on their wedding day is evil! She thought he was cheating! She’s insecure
That's not narcissistic behavior.....Lord this word is being worn the hell out in the black community 🤦🏽♀️
@@dawnmatthews6424 not even black community but society in general. It's the new buzz word and it's so annoying! As a therapist it's so frustrating for this to be used out of context.
@@jb3702 thank you! And a lot of people online claiming they grew up with narcissistic parents. I’m not a therapist but I know my strict l was not a narcissist for giving me a curfew and asking us to abide by house rules like no phone calls after 9 on a school night.
@@jb3702 As a so called "therapist" you should know that she does show some type of narcissism though. Her trying to minimize her actions by saying "she only hit him once". That is definitely a narcissistic trait (gaslighting is a major narcissistic trait)...her lack of remorse... narcissistic... and her trying to make excuses for her behavior and the judge shut her down. She does in fact showcase narcissistic behaviors.
Although, the word is used too frequently by EVERYONE not just black people. If anything white folks throw that word around way more. And also.......I'm a therapist as well. Interesting how we have different views of what constitutes narcissistic...... 🤔
@@SirSoFocused "some " traits do not equate to a diagnosis. You mentioned two asshole moves she did.
Her Accepting responsibility and apologizing would have been really nice.
They're all hiding something like incriminating and can't say it in court.
A gun might have been present.
Right
Something makes me think the same. There’s more to the story for sure.
yeah... I wonder what else they didn't say! We will never know, but we know it's something more!
I think the sister tried something with him while he was sleeping and the defendant waled in, why would she even be in the room on their wedding night .
A follow-up/where are they now is definitely needed for this story 🌻
Probably together, he’s not innocent
@@cierravaughn9282 see, thanks for clarifying! I knew it!!! My ex husband trashed me in divorce court and I just said “judge I’m ready for the divorce “ other ppl in court started laughing.My point is that man put me through hell but I wasn’t about to sit there and say all that and I got that vibe from you.
Looked them up on Facebook they are still together I think there was more to the story they seem to be thriving and doing well she just graduated from college getting her masters in education and he owns his own business
You lying she said she graduated college in 2013 @Damnitshay
It's gotta be rough to be assaulted by your own wife's relatives. This defendant isn't worth being married to in the first place. Men make some of the most horrendous decisions in the women that they choose to get with. Do better!
You again. Just because your gay doesn't mean all men have to be
Something you never forget
Most of the time one never knows the true character until you a emotionally involved or married.
My goodness he is fine. How did he get in a family like this. She’s smiling through all of it.
That’s what he likes. There are no perfect victims and considering they are still married him suing her after getting his ass whooped instead of divorcing her speaks volumes. Idk why she started crying but hopefully it’s because he asked for a divorce.
Fine? Lol I guess
@@opulence_prime what do you mean by "perfect victim"?
Don't start squirting all over the place
Fine!? And DUMB!
Omg! She has NO remorse. 4 days in the hospital? He needs to leave her STAT! Just bizarre
😂😂😂 not stat 💀💀💀
Girl not STAT 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m mad
And now there are children involved. Not sure why she’s crying at the end, but smiled the whole case even as he’s describing the wedding night from hell.
She cried because she lost the case and the reasons for her behavior was pointless to the judge. She felt like she should be heard.
@@deborahmcalmont6115 exactly
She wants him to feel bad. It's a manipulation tactic
Why has no one checked the crowd for always laughing when men get hit
Exactly it's not funny!
I watched one show where the host completely ripped the audience for laughing at domestic assault on a man and said that if it were a woman he was interviewing the crowd would be in an uproar by it...I think the way we casually look over men being abused or assaulted is disgusting.
“ why you keep lyinnnnn” omg 😂😂
Two gorgeous ppl … who do not need to be together
She was drowning in guilt… that final look at the camera after he declared his unwavering love… she knew she was wrong.
I hope he leaves her, because this was a clear warning sign. If you let women get away with violence acts and don’t leave. She will have no problem killing you if she gets too angry. Ask all of the men who have died from violent women after forgiving from the last domestic abuse.
The fact they haven’t divorced is terrible. Violence is an absolute no no. She is trash.
Can'T asK TheM BecauSe TheY R DeceaseD. 🤦🏾
@@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 Facts
@@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 Seance 😂
I bet he remains with her. Hope they don’t unalive him next time she’s upset because that was intense.
Damn this escalated and didn't have to. TBH she shouldn't have married him if all of that was going on.
Sir.. divorce her now!!!
Violence should never be the answer especially when it comes to husband and wife!!! Her Family needs to mind their business, they’re probably always overstepping
We would’ve got a divorce the next day ong 😂
Right the moment I have to fight my spouse and their family it's a done deal.
These are 2 traumatized people who don’t mind each others toxicity. She’s traumatized because of his “cheating” and he’s traumatized not only from getting beat up but looks like she’s the more aggressive natured one in the relationship.
Regardless, she’s only crying because she has to pay $4800. She has no remorse for her actions or the actions of her family.
The wife seems to be an abuser, she is lucky to have him in her life... wish she would realise how blessed she is before its too late
Makes you wonder why he married her
It will to late when she kills him. He is what you call, a tender dick.
@@hopeh6176 because there's more to the story they clearly left out.
You think she really care?!
@@hopeh6176 ..they have children and they 😔 look alike.....
Why do I get the vibe that there’s a deeper hurt somewhere they are not telling. She is abusive clearly but this story has layers
I’m glad he won… he’s seems so humble and respectful and he didn’t deserve that… and she seems like she’s got some serious issues … I pray things work out for them 😔
I grew up with Mike and Cierra. He a solid dude. Takes care of his kids, owns a trucking businesses and everything.
@@Cezer35 Well I hope they both invest in getting some individual counseling because it seems like there is some sort of childhood trauma that they both haven't dealt with. I think that they will continue to be toxic for one another if they don't get some help. Especially for the children's sake.
He does seem very respectful and professional as well. I'm glad you put it out there & let us know what
type of character he possesses. Your a true friend.
Can u say red flags in human form . Plaintiff and Defendant
Pray that he leave her. Next time she might pay a hit man or hit woman... For example, like the story of NBA Basketball player Lorenzen Wright whose wife pay a hit man from her church to kill him. Got millions from his insurance then fled the state for several years. She was at his funeral acting as she was innocent. It was not until after the funeral and in 2017 that she was arrested. The incident took place in 2010. That woman had went and married another man. This young lady in this video looks similar to Lorenzen's wife.
You people on here that are always wanted people stay together and work it out need to Google and watch: Death by Marriage or Marriagr by Death. Some people are not suppose to be married to each other.
@@Cezer35 tell him to go for counseling or Leave ! , I will never let anyone put their hands on my husband !.
There's gone be a Lifetime movie about these two and the plot twist gone have yall sick 😩🤣
This was the strangest case….how are they still married and why is he suing her while they’re married??
I was wondering the same thing. What am I missing here?
I need the missin pieces to be filled in on this story 😳
The look on her face at the end was funny af
Yes! Was she about to cry or smile? 😂😂😂
@@Crystal-Lovebust in tears trying to hold back 😂
They should've just ripped up the marriage license before taking it back to the courthouse to get it sealed smh
Speechless.
This. was a Wedding Nightmare 😳😳
I can tell this man has gotten away with so much infidelity and emotional abuse………. The wife doesn’t even know how to defend herself anymore. He stayed an EXTRA 3 days in Las Vegas for his bachelors- then has the audacity to leave her to clean up the wedding venue by herself- while he “sleeps it off” - she thought marriage would fix things or fix him . But it only exacerbated the issues. I believe the family jumped him because they KNOW what he does and how he does behind closed doors- sad both ways
Yes to all of this.
She shouldn't married him. She was getting married to provide a point.
She is a volunteer not a victim. How much more foolishness does she need to ignore.... LEAVE
Imagine if you were in his position you would be singing a different tune
No one own anyone it's a privilege to engage between two people and taking over someone lives because you are in a relationship doesn't give anyone the right to own them
P.S. don't try to change anyone to your desire allowed them to be themselves they have so much to offer within !!!
Yep
She was on that preachers daughter show on Lifetime and she has always been ANGRY
HUN I THOUGHT SHE LOOKED FAMILIAR, 🤦🏾♀️
My ex used to do the same mess she does. Saying that people were calling and telling her stuff but you damn sure couldn't get her to prove it.
He reminds me of Ryan from black ink crew Chicago. Anyways, that marriage and relationship sounds SO toxic. Whew wee! 😩What happened on their wedding night is what will get worse and would be a dealbreaker for me. I’d be running back to the courthouse to get a divorce after all of that but to each his own. Sad. SMDH imagine what their kids witness from all of this. Fellas just because she’s “cute” doesn’t mean she’s a keeper and ladies just because he’s “cute” doesn’t mean he will be good for you. This was crazy.
I agree, my ex absolutely gorgos still think so amazing body and a porn star size D but the man treated me like shit. Controlled me manipulated me nearly made me quit my job just because I work mostly with men as I’m a van driver. Would time how long took to get from the vans yard to my car. Trackers control of social media. Wasn’t allowed friends beat me even in front of my kids crashed my car whilst he was drunk. He alcoholic. No sexy man is worth all that. Put me thru hell and he will do it again to some poor women.
Wow she let her family jump her husband on their wedding night for no reason 😒
Yeah they jumped that man!.. look at him!?.. he still shaking & stuttering!
“Why you keep LYINNNNNNNG” 💀
Sorry to hear what a new couple has to go through.
If he’s cheating and she’s abusive then they don’t need to be together.
She needs alcohol counseling based on what I heard in this case. He may be co-dependent not recognizing he wants to be with an abuser enabling her.
I would've reverted that marriage the same night😂...
She only crying cuz she gotta pay that money 😭
Bro this is your escape route run don’t look back she is crazy
A three day bachelor party turns into a week? You leave your own reception early. Leave the bride to pick everything up and just go to sleep? Zero excuse for him being attacked but this seems untrue.
Listen at how she acts…wouldn’t that make you tired? Wouldn’t that make u stay away for a week ?
I believe her. She let a lot of stuff pile up trying to get to the actual wedding day then she exploded. I agree he is not innocent. He won cus he got beat up. But let’s be honest if our family didn’t have our backs like hers did we’d be big mad.
@@opulence_prime they was drunk & situations like this can get someone killed I’m all for supporting my family but not for no stupidity!
@@opulence_prime This man was HOSPITALIZED! Had to be sedated and was there for 4 DAYS‼️ He could’ve gotten brain damaged when he lost oxygen! And you still have the audacity to blame the husband⁉️See this is why male victims don’t come forward and they suffer in silence because if ppl like you! What if he idk, DIED?! You would still blame him huh?! These ppl are his family by law, ppl who he suppose to trust and they jump him like a pack of wild animals and you’re siding w/ them?! This world is upside down, if this was the other way around and his family beat HER up- the world world call for him to be… executed! 🙄🤦🏾♀️😒
Had a ball 🕺
This case wasn't even about the money. It's about trying to get her to realize that she has no reason to think and feel the way she does. When you have everybody and they mama in your relationship and that side of the family is cray cray...gotta do something to get your point across or leave.
Damn, why did all of them people put they’re hands on him like that?? It’s more to the story!??
it has to be, no one hits you just from being intoxicated.
She cries at the end both because of the embarrassment and also because she is aware of the wrongdoings towards this man. May God grant to her what she has caused unto him.
I was wondering 💭 how do u sue ur spouse until JM explained it 🤷🏾♀️
Run, run, brother she's not sorry for what she and her family did.
one word: annulment
Damn!!! This will never be Repaired too many folks got involved. He needs to take his small judgment find a place,File for divorce, Co-parent and keep it pushing ✌🏾
She did all of that just to turn on him.
might as well divorce cos there is no way that i would ever go to her family's house again.
Cerrato, you shouldn't have married him. You knew the situation beforehand
Why did the defendant go all the way back to how they met instead of just picking up the story when her sister busted up in the room!!!
I love how judge mathis laughs and cracks jokes when a man tells him how the woman hits them 😒
Sooo you’re looking for trolls huh 😢
So u only watched the first min of the case huh..
She has 0 respect for him.She only started to tear up bc she lost.
Jesus Christ! I feel so bad for this man. How could this happen on his special day. Not cool
She’s an ongoing “red flag”… that’s evident by her demeanor throughout this case, and not one ounce of remorse radiates from her. She’s not the one, bruh. Don’t be fooled by the many years knowing her. “GET OUT”!
Women like this get a man yet I’m single smh a hot mess
Seems like some men love crazy women, and some women are like that too, nuts!
Right me too smh
Something about this case hits home. He definitely not a victim. He the type that gets away with murder and she probably had enough. I don’t think he is innocent. Y’all the girl looked so exhausted it’s definitely more to the story . In life it takes one to go through something to sometimes see the bigger picture. Don’t be so quick to judge if have never been in a situation like that .
I don't believe he's innocent either but if you choose to stay you should keep your family out your business. This is how ppl get hurt because if I were him I wouldn't be able to let that go until one of them is in the hospital as well.
something’s not adding up they all attacked him for no reason at all…?
Agree.
Exactly 💯
It's adding up
@@damienkirksey7026 exactly
Smack a man out of his sleep because he didn’t help you clean!?!?!? And she has 0 remorse?
DIVORCE! Sr. DIVORCE!
Her whole attitude is like.... look at me, im the real victim here! And she sound so silly... if she was gonna let all the randoms build condo's in her head they should have never married. She knew what it was... deal with it or leave.
Absolutely horrifying. I'm glad he recovered. That ghetto family blew the fact that he fell asleep out of proportion and almost killed him smh
He needs help...she hates him and will possibly lead him to an early grave...the marriage would have ended that same night because my family woulda took all they asses out! I wouldn't have been in the hospital alone..that's fa sho.
This was a prelude for what’s to come I would get out of this marriage ASAP!
I was in a 2 year relationship many years ago with an ex. I took care of her. I paid all the bills as a man. I was making 300k or more per fight. One night she decided to slap me across the face because she heard I was at some party, but in all reality I was training hard for my next fight and when the facts came out 2 days later that I wasn't at that party because her (MOTHER) hosted the party and had a guest list of names & mine wasn't on it.. she was so sorry & apologetic, but it was too late! The next day of her slapping me, all of her belongings were sitting outside the gate with her name taken off the entry list due to me living in a gated community. I got rid of her immediately. I'm NOT into putting my hands on women and I don't believe a woman should be putting her hands on a man. Cheating & putting hands on one another is a deal-breaker for me.💯
Handled correctly.
Yesss you are a stand up man You was raised all the way right!!! God bless !!! Thank you King
Absolutely 💯 I try to tell women keep ya hands to urself.
AMEN SIR!
If I’m not mistaken she was on that old lifetime show called preachers daughters. I think it’s more to the story though.
I just looked it up I think it is her
And what was she crying for at the end??? He should’ve been the one crying , yet and still he had it in him to tell her he loved her after all the pain and suffering her and her psycho family cause him. I hope he kept it moving after that.
Why did she start crying at the end? I think she's got some serious insecurities.
Immediate grounds for a swift annulment
Imagine staying married after something like that
Hell no