Poor analogy here. JM is speaking for himself after being with his wife for 40+ years. Nothing wrong with a woman stating what she’s looking for on date 1.
@aadedapo4757 Exactly! Both men and women should be honest about what they want on the first date or even the first phone call. “My over all goal is …” That way no one gets their time waisted.
I agree with you so much. both parties should be able to get what they are looking for on the table and then you have the option to proceed if yall values align. Nothing wrong with saying you are dating with intention and at least he knows she is not the fun time girl.
Judge Mathis is always trying to throw shade. He is taking it too far; I get what she is saying. She is just making it clear up front. Aint nothing wrong with that.
True just because you're invited to meet the parents my mom wants to meet everybody that I have seen in the last 10 years.... That's nothing carved in stone that you're going to be together it's just meeting the parents
I wouldn't date this type of man, its obvious he is a Player‼ She was intimate with him. I believe this is where she messed up💃with him. Never become intimate with a man you don't have a committed relationship with‼💯 She got played by this dude. I feel bad for her but we all have to learn from our mistakes I know I have👍
That is not what she said, Judge Mathis. I agree with her, and it is better to be sincere. It has always cleared the way for a man to say I am here for kicks or I agree with you, let's see how it goes. Also, sleeping with a guy before assessing his true intentions is unwise.
Don't insult Captain Jack Sparrow like that lol! A cheap knock off at best. He's wearing a purple suit and shirt with ribbons in his hair to court at that. 😂😂 Oh and I forgot the nail polish.
JM is soo negative and he’s worse than he was on his other show. It’s nothing wrong w/ telling a man what you expect. You should always put honesty out there and on the table!
This is crazy this lady is beautiful 2 me She should know better than this 2 date this man 1st if he looks like her son - he got 2 hairstyles 1 belonging 2 a man the other 2 a woman n his nails r done smh I digress
A lot to unpack here. This is my 1st time watching this version of Judge Mathis. First of all I’m going to listen to Milli Vanilli after this episode. I also disagree w/the judge about dating to marry. The plaintiff needs to hmu. I’ve got you boo. I’ll put a 💍 on it
She payed attention to the gesture not the details Why does he want alone time with her so soon… on a first date smh it should be nice and casual for a first date especially at a bowling alley
I agree with Ms Maria, she's not playing no games.Stand your ground sister.Respect yourself.Believe there's someone out there, just pray that God will Bless you with the right one.
This lady is very insecure and thinks she can rule things with talking about marriage after a couple of dates.. Then she keeps saying he was gone for little more than ten minutes ‼️ What the hell he can't be outta her sight over ten minutes hell naw 😂😂😂😂😂🎉!!!
Not every man behaves the same way, JM. There are men who "date to get marry". A lot of couple that claim "love at first sight" are really just two people wanting to get marry as soon as they meet someone who'll say yes to them and vice versa.
You ever had a hair style you used to Rock Hard.....thought you looked Fly the whole time....then once you finally change it,you think,Damn what was I thinking?
Untrue, some men are dating to look for a wife. Why not make intentions known upfront before investing unnecessary time if you're not looking for the same thing.
She’s not crazy but seriously naive and somewhat delusional. It was a “cookout” where many other people were invited, I’m supposing it was a housewarming outdoors(?) In any event… 1) He should have had homeowners insurance. 2) She was forewarned not to go inside beyond the designated area which was off limits. 3) Had he not been cheating on her as she perceived he was, she would not have sued him! Point Blank Period 🤦🏽♀️
I’m not saying he wasn’t cheating but they both ran out with clothes on…… They could have been honestly having a private conversation due to their friends and business partners. I’m getting more of a bisexual vibe from him and would believe he was cheating if caught with a man but honestly I hope she physically okay.
(The second case) I wasn't aware a passenger in a vehicle cldn't drink alcohol or smoke weed Perhaps, this is against law in some states Must the passenger show ID if requested by cop
What is the world coming to when people can’t state their intentions from the beginning when dating? If that’s her intentions then good for her, if that’s not for you then go look someone else, not trick them, that’s low.
The young lady should have stayed outside. Trying to sue was vindictive. She may want to get counselling and work on herself before trying to get married. Who smokes anything in somebody else's vehicle? How inconsiderate.
Its all in the details.He test drived it and didn't see a marriage in the long run.Plus she gave it up too quick .Dating to marry literally means taking that time to be friends first.
At least this woman was making it clear and honest that she's not out there playing the field.. how hard is that for the judge to understand, but that dude, I would never go on a date with him he look like he's playing both sides of the fence
Dude said he’s single until he’s married and JM tried to correct him. “Single until you’re committed” No JM, when people say they’re ‘Single until they’re married’ they mean exactly that and all the BS that comes with it.
What is wrong with this woman he had to introduce her to his mother ,his mother and brother flew in pacifically for the party, what fantasy world 🌍 is she living in 🤪🤪🤪🤪
He is so ill mannered. She DIDN'T say she wanted the man to qui,kly marry her . What she SAID was shes not dating for fun, but for marriage. Absolutely nothing wromg with that
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She was right to say she was dating to marry. She just said it to the wrong guy. But nail polish should have told her that he ain't the married kind.
She is not the female he wants but her brother.
I thought I saw nail polish
She has every right to allow the gentleman to know she isn’t dating to be dating. Greg not listening. There are men who are dating to marry as well.
Sorry, but it's perfectly normal these days.
She didn't say she wanted to marry him, she is saying I am not here to just be dating, I am dating with a purpose.
1st of all he look like he got men and woman as options 😩😩😭
😂😂😂
Double the fun
😂🤣🤣😂🤢🤮😂🤣😂
100
ajajaja lolol 😂😅😂
Poor analogy here. JM is speaking for himself after being with his wife for 40+ years. Nothing wrong with a woman stating what she’s looking for on date 1.
@aadedapo4757 Exactly! Both men and women should be honest about what they want on the first date or even the first phone call. “My over all goal is …”
That way no one gets their time waisted.
His energy and appearance seems just as feminine as hers!
I agree with you so much. both parties should be able to get what they are looking for on the table and then you have the option to proceed if yall values align. Nothing wrong with saying you are dating with intention and at least he knows she is not the fun time girl.
Judge Mathis is always trying to throw shade. He is taking it too far; I get what she is saying. She is just making it clear up front. Aint nothing wrong with that.
Yes, that's why I stopped watching him
I agree. I stopped watching because he always goes way over the top.
I feel you! At times he embarrasses his son showing off!
U sounds stupid
@@tigerlilly1545 bye bye nobody cares 😂😂😂😂😂 yo little 1 view ain’t gone stop nothing
Judge Mathis clearly didn't understand what "dating to marry meant" SMH
He clearly understood that he wasn't making any commitment.
@@Judah_13 the man she was dating may have but that doesn't change the fact that the judge doesn't understand what dating to marry means
@@tiasway You didn't specify which he that you were referring to.
@@Judah_13 that you are absolutely right about.... I just assumed people would understand that I meant the judge LOL edit and specify that
@@tiasway 👍🏾
He looks like he is playing on the other team. She must be desperate if she doesn’t see that
RIGHT
Looks arent facts which is why yall end up being baby mommas on welfare because HE LOOKED like a good guy
No, it's commonplace now for a man to go both ways.
Ummmm is it just me or does both of them look like they play for the other team…..
He is straight ……. To the closest guy!
Just because a man introduce you to his parents doesn’t mean nothing!
I agree. And she met them at a party. It was not a personal trip to meet them. That would have been different.
True just because you're invited to meet the parents my mom wants to meet everybody that I have seen in the last 10 years.... That's nothing carved in stone that you're going to be together it's just meeting the parents
Nothing
Dude looks ridiculous.
Not anymore
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It’s such a better life than letting some slimy ass use & abuse me!
Sad.. only in america
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gay written all over him or just narcissistic
No its gay :D
It’s gay
Definitely fruity pop
Or both
Yeah I don't understand this guy. IM GAY AND WOULDNT DATE HIM. He is more womanly decorated than her. Metallic nails?.
He rented out the whole bowling alley because that's where he takes all of his boyfriends too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly!
How could she see this man is not gay
😅😅😅Right! And not husband material!
He didn’t want any of them to see him with a woman!🤷🏽♀️
😂😂😂
I wouldn't date this type of man, its obvious he is a Player‼ She was intimate with him. I believe this is where she messed up💃with him. Never become intimate with a man you don't have a committed relationship with‼💯 She got played by this dude. I feel bad for her but we all have to learn from our mistakes I know I have👍
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That is not what she said, Judge Mathis. I agree with her, and it is better to be sincere. It has always cleared the way for a man to say I am here for kicks or I agree with you, let's see how it goes. Also, sleeping with a guy before assessing his true intentions is unwise.
Two things can be true what she said what judge aaid
However, He’s telling the truth. Dudes will play along until we hit the skins. That’s a hard truth.
He laughing at her injury but she should've known better about dating a man with nail polish on.....and that hairstyle....ain't it obvious
She had S$X with him a few times. What’s obvious❓
@gqg741 go ask Bruce Jenner that....😂😂
Metrosexual not homosexual 😂
He s Bi .She couldn't See that.
😂😂
PSA: Never trust a man who looks like Captain Jack Sparrow
I totally agree 😅😅
A Zesty looking Caption Jack Sparrow!
Don't insult Captain Jack Sparrow like that lol! A cheap knock off at best. He's wearing a purple suit and shirt with ribbons in his hair to court at that. 😂😂 Oh and I forgot the nail polish.
Ooh my fcn’k God, 😭😭😭😭
Y’all killing me, 😂😂😂😂
She needs to cut her losses and move the hell on
He look like he have a boyfriend!
A man introduces you to his parents at party is not the same as him taking you personally to meet them!! She is delusional!!
ugh he should be ashamed of himself coming to court looking like a hot mess. ugh
Right ,I met all of my ex's Mom and Dad
He's swinging from both trees. You should call yourself lucky lady
Those nights in the cooler, whatever she thought initially, he obviously erased that! He handled his bizness! She said y'all can talk all you want!!😂
For the life of me I don’t understand how women date men who wear colorful nail polish
Because you’re stupid?
Me either!!!
I said the same thing. He is obviously dipping on both sides.
Your view is legit.
Cuz that’s a red flag 😅
He got a lot of sugar in his tank😂
Rental or not you should ask someone if it's ok to smoke in their car.... I don't allow smoking of any kind in my car
He told her not to go in the house and she went anyway
He has a “ vibe “ that does not look like Husband Material !
He looked like a player to me.
I'm so glad to see Judge Mathis' new court show.❤❤❤
She was being nosey
If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck - well💁🏽♀️
That guy is a gigolo.
And a gay looking one at that 🤭
More like a "girlilo
Thank you Judge Mathis❤❤❤ since I started watching your shows I have turned my life around, I no longer smoke pot 😂😂😂😂
JM is soo negative and he’s worse than he was on his other show. It’s nothing wrong w/ telling a man what you expect. You should always put honesty out there and on the table!
Hit Play as Soon As I Seen His HAIR🤦🏾♀️
Same
Me too and I don't even watch Judge Mathis! 😂
Same...😂😂😂😂
This is crazy this lady is beautiful 2 me She should know better than this 2 date this man 1st if he looks like her son - he got 2 hairstyles 1 belonging 2 a man the other 2 a woman n his nails r done smh I digress
Me too
Why is he badgering this lady right off the bat?
A lot to unpack here. This is my 1st time watching this version of Judge Mathis. First of all I’m going to listen to Milli Vanilli after this episode. I also disagree w/the judge about dating to marry. The plaintiff needs to hmu. I’ve got you boo. I’ll put a 💍 on it
Quick but I learned to slow down. Must investigate if she has crazy in her dna
@@AsherMolinaall women are crazy though
He rented out the entire bowling ally.. Because he likes to play with balls..😂😂
Haha. Hilarious .. shitty ass joke
😂😂😂😂😂
She payed attention to the gesture not the details Why does he want alone time with her so soon… on a first date smh it should be nice and casual for a first date especially at a bowling alley
I agree with Ms Maria, she's not playing no games.Stand your ground sister.Respect yourself.Believe there's someone out there, just pray that God will Bless you with the right one.
She is desperate
Very desperate!!!
Yep and when you are. You get played.
Maybe. Or maybe she's not wanting to play games and waste years the way most people do.
Millie vanili
😂I was desperately seeking for this comment before typing.
What an EMBARRASSMENT!😂😂😂😂😂
He is!!!!
This lady is very insecure and thinks she can rule things with talking about marriage after a couple of dates..
Then she keeps saying he was gone for little more than ten minutes ‼️ What the hell he can't be outta her sight over ten minutes hell naw 😂😂😂😂😂🎉!!!
Stop it Judge. You won't let her complete a sentence.
The plantif is beautiful. She looks like my great granddaughter in 30 years gorgeous
Not every man behaves the same way, JM. There are men who "date to get marry". A lot of couple that claim "love at first sight" are really just two people wanting to get marry as soon as they meet someone who'll say yes to them and vice versa.
💯💯💯
He definitely hiding in someone closet
Himself 🤭
Yep
You better believe… what woman sees a man with all that colors nail polish and rings and not think at all he would be hiding something
@@ajstyles4989 and hair 🤭
Facts. I said that to
When people start to assume or judge someone, don't get upset when people start to assume or judge you...
"Jumpin Jamiroquai Batman, he seems a certain kinda way!!!"
He probably had a man in that basement he was going after that's why he told everyone dont go down there.
She sure she saw him with another woman? He looks very eccentric and not about women.
Like the judge very much. 😊 👍 agree with his ruling on both cases.
The court policeman looks like the judge
Because he's his son🥰
He should, that's his son.
His son
That's his son Amir😊
That was my niece in the 1st case. Proud of her🤗
For being played as a fool? Teach her better
He never even made a verbal commitment. She let herself get played. Sorry. It's the truth.
You ever had a hair style you used to Rock Hard.....thought you looked Fly the whole time....then once you finally change it,you think,Damn what was I thinking?
Although she lost the case, she'd be a dream come true for many men wishing the same. 💎💍That's a *fine woman.*
😂 his hair.
It’s terrible, what is it supposed to be ?
Why would he make a commitment when all the previous guys didn't? She should've made that policy fifteen years sooner.
" You went looking, you got what you wanted"
“Girl, you know it's true
Ooh, ooh, ooh, I love you
Yes, you know it's true
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she looked shocked when her claim got dismissed lol
Milli, vanilli…Santilli! 😂😂😂 Sassy, girl you know it’s true!!!! 😂
Justice Central, This made me so happy! I liked and subscribed!
Untrue, some men are dating to look for a wife. Why not make intentions known upfront before investing unnecessary time if you're not looking for the same thing.
As soon as she said yes he verbally told all of us not to enter, her goose was cooked and JM wasn’t here for it. THATS what she gets. 😂
Because He introduced U to His Mother? He wants to marry u? 😂😅😂😂 U Crazy! Hahaha!
She’s not crazy but seriously naive and somewhat delusional.
It was a “cookout” where many other people were invited, I’m supposing it was a housewarming outdoors(?)
In any event…
1) He should have had homeowners insurance.
2) She was forewarned not to go inside beyond the designated area which was off limits.
3) Had he not been cheating on her as she perceived he was, she would not have sued him!
Point Blank Period 🤦🏽♀️
Yep, she's crazy and mad. 😋
I’m not saying he wasn’t cheating but they both ran out with clothes on…… They could have been honestly having a private conversation due to their friends and business partners. I’m getting more of a bisexual vibe from him and would believe he was cheating if caught with a man but honestly I hope she physically okay.
JUDGE MATHIS IS SERIOUS, WHEN HE NEED TO BE SERIOUS, AND FUNNY WHEN WE NEED A BIT OF LAUGHTER. HE IS BY FAR JUDGE MATHIS!🙂
He looks sassy
She like it.
sassyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hahahahahahah ya think ??? that hair style.............. huh ??🙄🙄
Had her hooked. 😋
Of course he is😂
Like koolaide no shade
Was on his show he is very cool I enjoyed being there!
Thank you JUDGE. CORRECT. TOO OFTEN WE SAY TOO MUCH TOO SOON.
If you don't then that how relationships end up in the grey area so I don't see anything wrong with telling someone what you want
(The second case)
I wasn't aware a passenger in a vehicle cldn't drink alcohol or smoke weed
Perhaps, this is against law in some states
Must the passenger show ID if requested by cop
What is the world coming to when people can’t state their intentions from the beginning when dating? If that’s her intentions then good for her, if that’s not for you then go look someone else, not trick them, that’s low.
That hairstyle tells me everything I need to chileeee
We love you 🥰 judge Mathis Keep up the good work 🎉👍🏽
😂😂😂
Shes 36!!!
He was using her to show his family he is straight.
The young lady should have stayed outside. Trying to sue was vindictive. She may want to get counselling and work on herself before trying to get married.
Who smokes anything in somebody else's vehicle? How inconsiderate.
HE LOOKS LIKE HE IS ACTUALLY FROM MARS AND ONE OF ITS FINEST CITIZENS!
Its all in the details.He test drived it and didn't see a marriage in the long run.Plus she gave it up too quick .Dating to marry literally means taking that time to be friends first.
What self respecting man would wear that hairstyle
Him 😂😂😂😂😂
Unisex
And nail polish oh no not clear but white lol
At least this woman was making it clear and honest that she's not out there playing the field.. how hard is that for the judge to understand, but that dude, I would never go on a date with him he look like he's playing both sides of the fence
I thought it was two people at first glance 😂😂😂
What da hell lol who told him that was a good idea? Lol😮. Now im gay myself, but he aint have one friend to tell him he look ridiculous lol
I'm sorry y'all but ya boy is BAD,PERIOD 💯😂
What the hell happened to Doyle lol
Ma’am he don’t what you babe he want Judge Mathis 🤣
If you want to scare anyone off just tell them your looking to get married, on the first date 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾👀👀👀👀👀👀
Ummm this couple looks like what my feet look like when I’m wearing mismatched socks.
Judge Mathis is loosing is mind
None of this is serious 😂😂😂
The hair though 😂😂😂
What in the Flaming hot Cheetos is going on here??!! 😂
The intro: Ma'am let me know when you want to go to rehab; else I'm gonna think you're a crack head - lol - classic Judge Mathis 😅😅
The railing broke that's what she get for snooping .. LAWDDD 😮😮😮
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's right!! He told everyone to stay in the yard or use the first floor bathrooms only.
If my daughter brought home someone looking like that, i would question it.
The judge is correct. Don’t bring up marriage and you just met. It will scare them off. But, men don’t try to rush the lady into the bedroom either.
Dude said he’s single until he’s married and JM tried to correct him. “Single until you’re committed”
No JM, when people say they’re ‘Single until they’re married’ they mean exactly that and all the BS that comes with it.
Sis y’all looking for the same thing 🤣🤌🏿
What is wrong with this woman he had to introduce her to his mother ,his mother and brother flew in pacifically for the party, what fantasy world 🌍 is she living in 🤪🤪🤪🤪
Who is going to tell her
JM was right. That does scare men off. You have to play it cool or you’ll be love bombed hard…like the Plaintiff.
Judge Mathis is losing it
He is so ill mannered. She DIDN'T say she wanted the man to qui,kly marry her . What she SAID was shes not dating for fun, but for marriage. Absolutely nothing wromg with that
So .that guy should have left at the start...not strung her along...
Maria was looking for revenge.