Gypsy Wedding Ceremony in Wakefield - Coral Anne and Hicky 4K
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- The bride and groom take a while to get to the church, but their guests are mainly all on time, having made a huge effort to dress up, beautifully. The service seems long for all the children - and adults too, so there is quite a bit of restlessness amongst the congregation, and once the service is over, Coral-Anne and Hicky race out of the church at top speed! After that their next stop is to visit the cemetery where Hicky's brother lies buried in a an ornate tomb, so that they can have posed family photos by the gravestones, including those of other family members. Their wedding reception follows that but I'm still editing it.
I don’t even know anyone in this wedding but I am so embarrassed as a human being that other human beings act like this!! seriously?
Well there's no need to be. "Each to their own", as the saying goes, and this is their own way of doing things. Always expect the unexpected!
No discipline,no impulse control, no respect. 😂😂😂
True, but they all had a good day once they got to the wedding reception. Travellers live by different social rules than the rest of us, so just ho with the flow.
True, but then theirs is a different way of life, with different social norms, and life would be boring if we were all the same, wouldn't it?
@@ReelLifePhotos totally agree👍. That's their culture and each to his own I always say,🤗
Exactly. Thank you! x
They're not paying the slightest bit of attention to the vicar, very disrespectful. They're in a church but they don't behave like it's a house of God, just making use of it for the wedding.
It's a difficult situation. Self-discipline is not something travellers have been taught, so they have not been socialised the same way or have the same social expectations that other people have. It's hard to sit still and listen, anyway, isn't it.... I think the bride and groom did really well to sit still so long, though even they couldn't wait to ring outside, at the end. Did you watch that bit, Claire?
More fool the vicar for agreeing to hold the service for them.
That's a very mean attitude to have. According to Christianity, all are welcome in the fold.
@@ReelLifePhotos That's a very disrespectful attitude they've got in a church. It's supposed to represent the house of God that they're larking about in. I agree all are welcome in the fold.
@@claireseyeviewonredbubble Yes, I understand your point of view. Thanks, Claire.
I have never seen such a disgraceful wedding the children were appalling coming and going throughout the ceremony. Dressed in T-shirts and using their phones etc. I felt so sorry for the vicar. Nobody even recited the Lords Prayer. Absolutely appalling throughout.
Unfortunately, traveller children have not been taught the same rules or conventions, Susan, as the rest of society in general. Fortunately, though, this was the couple's regular church, where they were much loved and tolerated for their differences. Yes, it's hard to see when we do things differently and have certain expectations of behaviour, but essentially, it's not their fault, as they don't know any differently.
they are not even looking at each other, this isn't a ceremony. this is a show
No, you are mistaken. it's a genuine marriage. This is normal behaviour at traveller weddings. We went to the groom's brother's grave in the nearby cemetery for family photos afterwards, before going to their wedding reception. All the girls enjoyed dancing, but then one annoying little kid did something that you will see when I upload the wedding ceremony, once I've finished editing it.
You will find that they get embarrassed by attention especially the girls, they don’t even like a peck on the cheek by their husbands in public.
Exactly! It's just a pity that no-one else realises this, so they keep comparing their behaviour with what, in their own experience is "normal behaviour' at weddings.
No respect never see such a rowdy mob
Aw, I understand. It's hard to sit through a whole church service, when you are not used to formal occasions and haven't been taught the expected social conventions, though. Fortunately, this is the couple's regular church, so the celebrants were not only used to them, but also looking forward to seeing them getting married: a little tolerance goes a long way.
@@ReelLifePhotos Shame on the vicars for pandering to the gypsies and watering down Christianity to the point where it is meaningless.
Not really, as everyone deserves to have a Christian wedding, if indeed that is what they feel is right for them and their faith. Just because they are unruly, doesn't mean to say they cannot be accepted inside a church.
@@ReelLifePhotos I don't know where you get your ideas from about Christianity! No one 'deserves' a Christian wedding and being unruly means exactly that, you will not be welcome inside a church. Unless, of course the vicar isn't brave enough to say 'no'(as in this case, I think).
Well, quite the opposite, as all are welcome in this church, and nobody is discriminated against based on their cultural background.
Her dress is absolutely stunning. Gorgeous Bride❤
Thank you, Fenrir, yes indeed! She also has a lovely personality.
Beautiful couple....but people talking and on their mobile phones!!!! So disrespectful!!!
Thank you, Maria. I understand what you mean, but travellers simply haven't learned to follow the same rules of society as everyone else, so in general, this is normal behaviour at traveller weddings. If you haven't learned to behave in a certain way, then it's not going to come naturally, is it.. Fortunately, this is the bride's regular church, so the church leaders there know their families and are happy to welcome them into their flock. They were quite excited actually to see them married, so not at all judgmental.
Stunning gown. It’s a shame how rude people are….congregation talked loudly during the ceremony, people walking around and the bride and groom look bored. If I had been one of those ministers, I would have told the crowd to shut up 😡. The bride putting her hand on her hip when the minister was blessing the Union was appalling. Why did the bride keep looking up??
@Eudi2020 Hi there Eudi! I can't really answer your question for sure - about the bride looking up - but am guessing it's just her sunny personality, so a natural reflex action when smiling. As for the way the wedding guests were behaving inside the church, it wasn't a problem for any of the clergy, as this is the couple's regular church, so they were all well known. If you notice, they were actually looking forward to this wedding and said so as such, so no-one was offended. Travellers have their own ways of doing things. They don't mean to be disrespectful, but simply haven't ever learned to follow those particular social conventions. It requires a lot of self-discipline to stay seated quietly for over an hour anyway, doesn't it!
Not one of them listern to God word or the wedding proclam to be Catholic but its just a word and reason to dress up gosh this is a mess.
It wasn't a Catholic Church, but I get your point. However, the vicar and the lady officiant were all very tolerant, and full of love fir their congregation, so let's not be so judgemental as travellers are simply differently socialised.
There not catholics
🤣🤣🤣🤣 loads fools 😂😂
Was that comment aimed at travellers or all people who choose to believe or follow a religion, Davey, or was it a personal insult at people expressing themselves here?
They also act like they don’t want to be there, do they even LIKE one another? Doesn’t seem like it! I’ve never seen such a mess of a “wedding” BUT I do have to say that her wedding dress is a lot more classy than some of the ones I’ve seen that they have made
Travellers are not allowed to be alone with a boy before their wedding, Cheryl. Church ceremonies are long, and even though they are Christians and regularly attend this church, they are young and eager to get to their wedding reception. Many of them are smokers too, and weddings are stressful. Cut them some slack, please.
Glad you liked her wedding dress, though! It was gorgeous, wasn't it! She's really beautiful too, bless her!
@@ReelLifePhotos oh wow! Well, I’m sorry to have been so judgmental! I should’ve read up on their ways before I said anything. Hopefully they will have a happy marriage
@@ReelLifePhotos yes she is, very stunning young lady
Thank you. That really makes a difference, Cheryl, bless you! xx
To much noise !!
Yes, sorry! I captured the bride and groom from the front, but the priest's sermon was recorded on a second camera that I set upon a tripod, at the back of the church, so naturally its captured all the guests talking too.
Yes the guests are rude, but the bridal party look stunning aspecially the beautiful bride, what a smile!!
@Denise.baliey Absolutely! This bride is definitely one of my favourites too, for her huge smile and lively personality!
A registrar office, quick service would have suited this congregation more
Maybe, maybe not. This was their regular church, and they are all much loved by the church officiants, as you might have noticed in the beginning when one mentions how much she was looking forward to see the bride getting married there, as were two old ladies who came on spec just to see the bride arrive wearing her wedding dress.
What a rabble !!!! Lovely bride and bridesmaids
@happydays7143 Yes, they are always very lively and generally unruly, but that's all part if what makes them different and so interesting to observe.
They're just bloody rude, and thats all of the even the bride and groom.also the bride looked like she didn't want to be there and had nothing to do with her dress
Oh, some on! Her whole family were lovely! You must know by now that travellers don't follow the same social etiquette as other people in the wider community.. The rest of your comment is actually very rude, as making public personal comments about someone's appearance can be seen as being very hurtful.
@ReelLifePhotos too bad I things how they are. We don't have gypsies where I live, so nothing I say is rude so shove that where the sun don't shine
Sadly, your reply shows more about you than the participants of this wedding. They had better manners!
You are the “bloody rude” one. Look into the traveller background before passing a comment like that!😡
@Felicity2121 Well said, Felicity. I think they don't understand that you can't expect travellers to behave the same as you do, as they simply haven't been taught to be like us. They are like themselves, so have different ways of doing things, different expectations of life too.
Nobody is listening too the ceremony well odd!!!
True, but then how many people have the patience to sit through long speeches/ sermons?
The Groom with his hands in his pocket! Disgusting and no respect!
Really? I never noticed anyway...
Background noise is absurd!!!
Yes, it's hard to keep quiet during a long church service, particularly as they haven't learned otherwise. Sorry I didn't manage to cut the noise out.
Her dress was absolutely fabulous, loved the sleeves too 😊😊All the very best for your future together 😊
Thank you so much Angie! Yes, I also adored her beautifully feminine, lacy dress, which she did well to wear. She changed until a shorter one for the evening wedding reception, as do most brides as it must be quite tiring negotiating dance move with a long train.
Thanks for your sweet wishes, too, Angie. I'm very hopeful that this strong couple will do well in life together.
@ReelLifePhotos indeed. Changing outfits is the sensible thing to do. Also, much as the dress was stunning, I know (from experience) that there comes a time when you have had enough of its restrictions (going to the bathroom, for a start!! Lol!)
Long life, happiness, and everything they wish for together!
@angietunstall2555 Exactly! That's always fun and games, often needing a helpful bridesmaid on hand!
Es la boda más irrespetuosa y vulgar que he visto en mi vida......
La gente simplemente no está acostumbrada a asistir a un servicio largo y formal. No es su culpa que no hayan aprendido las reglas esperadas de la sociedad en general.
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¿Has visto la recepción de su boda?
So rude all speaking when the vicker is speaking shame on them so disgusting and in gods house
It hard for them to keep quiet as they are not used to that.
The only thing apart from most of them being disrespectful is the chewing of gum,, It looks very bad to see a grown woman chewing away at a wedding,
Thanks for your comment, anyway, Christine.
Such little respect for God's house.
It's hard for them, though, as they haven't been brought up to show self-discipline. They at least bring their children with them to weddings and spend time with them, in general.
@@ReelLifePhotos Stop making excuses for them, their not feral animals
I'm not making excuses, but simply trying to explain how things are.
Oddest wedding I've ever seen.
Have you seen many traveller weddings?
What was odd about it, please?
I recognise a couple of these ladies from our local supermarket.
Lovely as always. 🤍🕯
Oh , Wow! That's amazing, Felicity! I had no idea that you were local! Thank you for you positive comment! xx
@@ReelLifePhotos aye I’m local. I’m surprised you don’t remember me from a while ago when I binged watched all your videos and I told you you didn’t need to reply to them all!
I have some lovely memories from interactions with the travelling community.
I wish other people would welcome them as I do they would be rewarded well with love, friendship and many tales! 🤍
@Felicity2121 Of course I remember you! Sorry if I missed some of your replies, though. I've only just discovered how to find replies to replies!
No words
No good words of no bad words, Anne?
Is’s a social media show!
Really? They were a very genuine and happy family, so I didn't see anything like that while I was with them, and it was certainly not my intention either.
what a joke
Why? They have a different way of doing things. Look at the two lovely old ladies for inspiration. They are not travellers, but actually know these people, so turned up outside the church , just to see them and to wish them well. The bride and groom are a delightful couple, and I, for one, wish them a long and happy life together
The noise in the church. 😮
True. They like to chatter...
It's hard for them to sit still through a long, formal occasion, basically because it's not something they have been taught or have it expected of them, I think.
Was that kid drinking beer sitting on the alter
Not sure, Rosaleen, as I was using two cameras, so I would only have been looking closely at one, and it's a while since I edited it.
Good question, though!
The best part of the wedding to a Gypsie is the party after and the drinking🤣.
Of course!! 100% agree!
I'll be uploading that part in a month or so, though.
I was a bit surprised he didn’t walk her back down the aisle on his arm. He stomped out the door with her trailing behind. Is this normal now their married she has to be subservient to her husband. And follow him. Or are they equal.
But I have to say she’s a stunning girl and I wish them well for their future.
@@ellenlyons4090 I think they were both just really keen to get out of there to have a smoke! They'll mature together of time, though!
@@ellenlyons4090 Thanks for your kind wishes, of course!
How can people show up to a wedding not properly dressed
@lindakienle531 What's properly dressed, is what is expected by the culture to which you belong, so for example, if you go to a Muslim wedding guests might wear trousers underneath a tunic (salwar kameez) or an Indian wedding a sari, or an African wedding a tight fitting bodice and wrap round skirt with a headdress tied on their heads; at a Naturist wedding no clothes at all, other than a towel to sit on, so it's a case of each to their own really.
Wow what a beautiful couple. Stunning. X
That's great to hear. Thank you so much, @missunderstood7830! It makes a change to receive a positive comment. xx
I have never seen people look more bored and uncomfortable in my life
Hi Debbie, that's probably because I had a second camera capturing the view from the back. Even in schools, the bored/ disruptive pupils tend to sit at the back, don't they. It was a long day for everyone. They all couldn't wait to get to the party afterwards, which is normal.
Jeez - they didnt even look at each during the whole ceremony let alone the vicar!
Hi Joe, Don't worry. Travellers always do things a little differently. from what you might expect.. They are not allowed to be alone together before marriage, so it's perfectly normal for the bride and groom not to get emotional in public during their wedding ceremony. .
Why is he running out the church not holding her hand? And why does she keep on making fish lips? I bet the vicar has now seen it all, lol.
They both run out really quickly, as are desperate for a smoke! They are a lively, and independent couple who don't do anything the traditional way!
Travellers love to pout, in common with many young people their age!
So don't worry, Rose. They are one of a kind!
PS, the vicar was lovely, so I think they are used to the travelling community being a bit lively and behaving differently from mainstream people.
Why don’t many husbands attend the ceremony
Now, that is an excellent point, Michelle. I can't say for certain, but I guess that weddings are more of a wonan's thing. They also sit separately at wedding receptions anyway. Some of the men just go to the reception, instead, as they only enjoy the drinking a socialising part!
Not many men dressed up.
@josephhetherington7318 Yes, you are right. Its just not the men's tradition - unless they are part of the wedding party. The woman, though, all love the opportunity to dress up!
she looks stunning shame they was not taking notice
Do you mean the wedding guests inside the church or the bride and groom during the hour plus long wedding service?
Don’t no the lords pray it’s sinful
I'm sure they knew it, but chose not to say ot outloud
Beautiful Bride !! Rude And Loud Guest !!
@Whitedove6 Yes she was a really fun bride, too. Travellers tend to be exhuberant and not to have learned the same social skills, so it's understandable that the guests didn't behave thd same was as you would have expected from mainstream cultures..
Beautiful bride and beautiful bridesmaids and page boys. God bless
@lynnreynolds4776 Absolutely! The bride and all her family were really lovely; great sense of fun, too!
@@lynnreynolds4776 Did you watch their wedding reception as well, Lynn?
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@@ReelLifePhotos I will do
@lynnreynolds4776 Great! Hope you enjoy it! There's also a little sequence when the cake was cut: ruclips.net/video/2JYROStx7oQ/видео.html
Beautiful ❤
Thanks Amanda! I hope you manage to watch the last bit at the end, too. I've left most of the priest's sermon in, out of respect to the church, but it's also interesting to people watch...
The kids are so undisciplined. They must be used to it. The bride is just beautiful. Even the adults are noisy and chatting away.
@kathyminassian1375 Yes, that's normal, as they have their own relaxed ways of doing things. It's a day out , away from home, a chance to dress up, so they want to enjoy themselves.
Good Lord lol
Thanks. Some people only see people's lives in comparison to their own, and fail to be tolerant of differences, unfortunately. I love traveller weddings, for their uncomplicated, genuine actions and sense of colourful exuberance! Long may they continue their independently unique way of living!
The noise from the guests is so disrespectful. Kids running around. It’s like this is the bit where you have to go through before the party. It’s like half time at bingo not a church service. Very disrespectful to the vicar. The only time they piped a bit was at the end 😢
@@Paula-u5h Oh dear! Yes, they are unruly, but that's just part of Traveller life. Your similies are quite apt, too! I hope you otherwise enjoyed watching their wedding video, Paula?
And they just keep on coming out the car 😂
Well, yes, it's a Hummer/ limo, so that's the whole idea! It's great fun for the kids, too!
So many rude people.
Well, maybe by a certain code of conduct, but definitely not by the ways they have themselves. If they don't know your codes of conduct, how can they be expected to adhere to them?
Naw because at the grave the groom said “Make yourself useful and clean my clothes” like wow 😮
Oh that's so funny! I must have missed that... Well he was certainly starting out how he meant to go on! My daughter did the opposite on her wedding day, so that her husband would know that he'd have to think for himself, and not expect her to mother him at all. (She brought provisions just for herself on their wedding night, so he was left hungry!)
Was that little boy drinking a beer? 🤔
Probably red bull, but not sure...
LOVE❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you. Yes, she is one of my favourite traveller brides, as she has the most amazing smile! xx @kathlinmcdonagh5624
Thats about 10 years ago sje was a beautiful bride like all us were ❤
@@user-mjys8lh8xr2i It might seem like ten years ago, but it was actually only last year, in May 2023!
@@ReelLifePhotos very simular brides but we always had the best so shes still fabulous and very natural
Thanks! 🥰
U conusies newer had a earth bride simular u were so natural godbless ur marriage 💑
I'm glad you loved how the bride was on her wedding day
Thank you for your kind words and blessing..xx
It’s ridiculous she can’t even walk in the dress it spoils the the look I think
Well, it's her wedding day, so just for one day, why not allow her to feel like a princess? That's what many little traveller girls dream of from a young child onwards...
She did change out of it pretty quickly, though, during the reception, so check that out too, if you like? ruclips.net/video/FJWrKXwHaNA/видео.html
Geez, what a noisy and loud crowd!! Freak fashion show!! No respect on só many instances!! Flipping off while still in the church?!! 😱 Appalling!! Disgusting!! Shamefull!! Cheap!! Idiot convention, not a wedding at all.. 😖🤬 My apologies to the church and the priests. We are unfortunately surrounded by disrespectful people like this. We can pray, but we can not make any promises. May the Good Lord forgive us. 🙏🏻
Well, Angel, no-ones perfect, and at least they had a church wedding, and in the eyes of God, all are equal, aren't they? They are just exuberant, colourful people! The thumb symbol also has a different meaning for Travellers, so please don't be offended, as its very much part of their traditions.
@@ReelLifePhotos My apologies. I didn't mean to offend. I was raised in a Christian church that's very demure and I'm clearly not used to this. But, I thank you for pointing out the differences and explaining a little bit about their culture and lifestyle. I'm sure they had a fun filled day. Have a nice afternoon. 🤍🪽
@angeltears2586 Ah, bless you! Yes, I realised that your feedback was from a very personal point of view. Travellers can shock some people, but although no one culture is perfect, I always love gypsy weddings! My next one is on 3 August 24, so am really looking forward to that one too! Thank you @angeltears2568
@@ReelLifePhotos May I ask if you are the photographer of these events ór may I follow your work and views somehow?
Yes, I usually do both the video and the photos.. You can follow me on instagram, Facebook, and here on RUclips so @ReelLifePhotos . The exact FB address is facebook.com/destination.wedding.photographer.uk . Look for the same logo as you see here on Facebook, but on Instagram is a photo of my face taken by my husband!
This is a train wreck and that mum needs to do something about those moles on her chest AND she couldn’t get a pedicure at least on the wedding day,, geez
I think, from your style of writing, that you are from the US, Cheryl, so very outspoken?
@@ReelLifePhotosit’s the geez that gives it away😂
@@fmcm7715 🤣😅
@@ReelLifePhotos yes I am, Texas! Yea, I am very outspoken, to a fault I suppose but I just don’t understand how they even got married, they literally looked miserable up there at the altar, didn’t even look at one another and if they are gonna spend so much money on the wedding they at least could’ve pretended to be happy and spare alittle for a pedi! One more thing….. the bride is absolutely gorgeous though, her eyes are beautiful
@@cherylmiller1970you don't understand their customs or their lifestyle, and griping about someones moles and lack of pedicure is just plain gutteral.
She's my name❤❤
Aw, well, almost. (Coral-Anne)
Gas the way the groom walked down the isle and didn't even glance back at the bride, who was staggering and kept falling over with the weight of the dress
@Madigan-gh4jg It takes young men time to work out when help is needed and when to stay quiet. I guess he was as keen as she was just get on with the party afterwards! He is a good man, though, as first they went to a nearby cemetery to pay their respects to his late brother.
@ReelLifePhotos I wish you would stop making excuses for the Gypsies/Travellers' bad behaviour. They spend enough time with ordinary people or watching them on television to know how to behave. If they don't naturally feel a sense of awe and quiet and stillness in a House of God then they are not ready to be there. There are plenty of other places where they could hold a wedding. They obviously have no feeling for the solemnity and seriousness of what they are witnessing. I wonder if the vicar spoke with them beforehand and reminded them to be respectful of their surroundings and the occasion? Perhaps the smallest children should have been kept out of the church? This is not uncommon at Christian weddings. It makes me cringe the way you say self-discipline is not something they have been taught and sitting still and listening is hard! What an absolute nonsense! They choose to be different and behave the way they do and must pay the price for that. 'All are welcome in the fold' does not mean that anyone and everyone can run roughshod over Christian traditions and church property. It means if you are willing to become a Christian and respect the ways of Christians then you will be welcomed into the fold(regardless of background). At any wedding, most of the congregation will just be visitors/guests and should behave as any guest would in someone else's house. Do you think any other religion would tolerate their nonsense? Gypsies see Christians as a soft touch and simply want to use their beautiful buildings as a backdrop.
@2bluehorizons4 Wow! That's quite a tirade! I do agree with you in many respects, but I will continue to support Travellers as they are who they are. They learn from their own people as that influence is more powerful than observed behaviour from second hanx source , so I don't blame them for being unruly. Children tend to speak and act like their parents, rather than what they see on TV.
@@ReelLifePhotos Did you mean 'tirade'?
Yes!
Thanks! My phone often seems to think that it knows best, unfortunately!
Hands in pockets!!!
That's how traveller grooms usually stand, so I wouldn't let it worry you.
The bride looked lovly as did the rest of the ladies some of the men could have made more effort and i thought travelers were inti god yet they acted very badly while in church
Thank you. Yes, they always dress up really well, but also on general, the men less so, as weddings are not their thing. I know it's a pity they haven't learned to be quiet, but formal occasions again are not something they treat the same as we'd expect. Travellers are different, and that's why all those watching this found something of interest to see or to comment on.