My ex had been cheating on me,kuambia mamake akasema mtoto wake hawezi fanya hivo.I told him one morning "ukienda job ujue jioni hutanipata" its been 9 years now raising my son alone bila regrets.Heri kulea mtoi solo kuliko kutreat infections kila saa
The fact that she thinks she is responsible for that grown man weuh...Mtu ako na meno 32 years anachukua choices mbaya na unafikiria ungemsaidia? Gen X/older Millenials Kenyan women are unsalvageable. He made that bed, let him lie in it..If he changes, good for him, if not, his loss..He thought the grass is greener on the other side, but learned the hard way...Hey aki tulee wasichana kwa kuwapea assurance that they aren't responsible for any other grown up..Otherwise they won't be mothering grown men..Tondú it is badly anyway...
I second you! 💯💯💯💯💯💯abuse is abuse,cold war usually results to suicide due to frustrations, so just because he does not beat you physically he is torturing you psychologically with silent treatment,leave if a spouse abuses you physically or psychologically PERIOD! Men cannot take this kind of treatment but yet don’t take accountability,they project it when they get caught, most of them lack emotional maturity it’s plain disgusting 🤮
@@gw7768 Just giving them the basics.. Mwenye hataskia iwe shida yake sababu hauwezi peleka punda kwa mto na uiforce kunywa maji..Watakuwa kama huyu mama who is still stuck in the past..Haja move on and she thinks she can save that dude, which is impossible..
Monica huyu let her meet Madam Wakiama she will forgive him nawanze maisha tena as a family . Uyu 90% amefuata all the advises madam wa kiama atuiraga 🙏
You're a great lady may God help you take care of your children. But hiyo advice ya kuambia ladies wavumilie kwa marriage, hapo sijaona kama tunaelewena.
There is need for education, everyone deserves to be in a healthy marital relationship. If it’s lacking, love yourself more. Women are not slaves of poor treatment from their spouses. You are beautiful mama, love you more and you will be ok. You deserve everything good ❤
This woman should never be an intersessor or help women who are having difficulties in marriage. She is the kind that's enabling bad behavior exhibited by cheating husbands.she needs to heal from her own break up.Apone hiyo kidonda kwanza ndio asaidie wengine.
Rosa I won't agree with you cos what breaks marriage you know very it usherati and that's what happened to Emma's. She has a right to share what she has gone through also to be a intercessor Ngai ndaturoragira githithi ta mundu wa thi.
Waoo..,am so… inspired and ve learned so much from Emma. She’s young and has a lot of wisdom. Single Mother’s who ve been abused and frustrated in marriages should learn from Emma. Congratulations Monica.
Very humbled wife, but don’t feel bad or make excuses for him, that’s why many of us women are suffering, men are supposed to be strength of family not weakness, move on and there plenty of good men out there, whorrs are plenty and few good wife/women 👊🏼
I don't think this woman should blame her self because that man gave her all the reasons to quit.are you a rehabilitation center of a badly raised man.if I were you I can't regret.
Most men from Embu and Meru are very disrespectful, proud and irresponsible for real...i went through a marriage with a meru man, it is like i was single woman but married..it only by the grace of God that i educated my children and feed my children... I had to walk out of the marriage for my happiness....
Monicah those men get bewitched by those second women and they hate the first wives, then when they are dumped these witches are unable to do the evil they did to them. May God give this man a second time. This is a very brave woman and she is very honest
She doesn't understand that high emotional abuse is such a bad thing. Its better to choose self than that kind of disrespect. Mum you also need to understand that every kid suffers identity crisis, she surely needed to meet her dad and have closurer.. again feeling like you still feel responsible of his waywardness is very wrong he could lead you into depression or infections. I can't allow such a person back into my life.
Monica ati niunyuaga kindu 😂😂😂. One thing I know for sure , never ask the other woman a question about anything to do with your husband, a man is the one who makes the decision to break his vows . When he told you you have a co-Wife that would have been the end of asking questions of where are you going or where were you .
Aiiihhh! Decisions have consequences! Mtu aliacha watoto, and thought the grass was greener! Wacha pia asomee kitabu ya 'life'! Doctorate degree proper! I hope more cheaters deal with this! I wonder what Wakiama thinks of this 🤔 😂
will never stay anywhere theres any form abuse whether socially, physical, emotionally or financial. thats how mental illness is on the rise for being nice, be good
God gave us all self will to determine good & bad,you are not responsible for his actions period! He made choice to break your vows & disrespected you,even the Bible clearly says you can part ways due to sexual immorality or death,he was not willing to communicate nor repent,if it was the vice versa he would have probably hurt you physically then leave without turning back, men can’t stand being disrespected why should women take it,don’t regret your decision Emma provision from a man that does not love nor respect you it’s not worth it,God probably saved you from some nasty illness
My mom keeps on saying those words l wish l knew, singetoka kwangu,my dad died like garbage 😢,hiyo story ya pombe it's not normal but trust me mwenye aliplant hiyo pombe Kwa life ya ur hubby ata vuna coz sisi huona na my half brother wako hopeless
8 love the chapter of that book that sometimes " rejection by human beings can be protection".Even the painful death sometimes, it is protection.Isaiah 57.
This lady is giving my mom's story,9yrs later,my dad is in my inbox telling me to help him reconcile with my mom,men what goes on in your minds surely?
The same aplied to my sis her hubby left for a fresh gal, he left his 3kids,he had a car for taxee, the gal ate everything the man had even the car now he is a drinking officer, he has no home he cries his family to get back but not possible
When she lost 2kids n a pregnancy she felt God was not fair but God was seing the end of this irresponsible man she deeply loved the guy but he was not worthy her love n patience
Christianity life is hard, despite kuleta mtu kwa nyumba utamserve hadi chai without any harm further more, escort her, Emma you left marriage in peace without violence, yenyewe salvation life is hard... God will reward you and God will not allow your beautiful girls go through what you have been
@@reginandirangu4816 aki. Na watu wao hua hawajali atleast wakuje na wazee waongeleshe watoto wao wabadilishe. Pesa zao ni za starehe na ukitika kwao you are on your own
Mungu akikuripishia kwa mwenye kukupea uchungu tena unasema heri hungetoka..chunga usipitishiwe majaribu mengine mungu akuondokee..nothing to regret there. move on na maisha yako coz maybe ungekua huko ungekua kingine..God took you out there with purpose umushukuru.
Emotional abuse is equally bad, only that the effects are not visible in our eyes. The damage is deeper and more damaging. No one should stay under any form of abuse, either man or woman. Get off and seek healing
Tell this lady she is not God -- and even He cannot prevent an adult male (or woman) from doing whatever they please. Recall the prodigal son's father let him go.
Wangu ilesiku nilimshika na mpango wa kando hapo ndio nilijua ndoa yangu imeisha sikipoteza time nikamuondokea with my three kids na hata sijawai fikiria kumrundia,I love myself too much
Abuse of any type is not right even when you are provided for. Trauma will follow you or your kids or both for allowing them to be in that environment. God is God anywhere regardless of how low one goes after leaving abusive partners. When you cannot take it, leave. Provision is not a substitute for sanity, health or anything. Should God make a way for reconciliation on both sides, so be it. Just don't stay just for provision (material things). You can try and hold on but at some point you have to make a decision whether a good one or a bad one. The lesson is in the decision! The WaKiama doctrine is misleading. What worked for her may not work for everyone else!
Am so proud of her. She's a parent in my class. She's a heroine mama Zylyn
Thank you so much teacher, may God bless you for being a very good teacher to my little daughter
Unfaithfulness is not acceptable and that's disrespectful let's be honest and that's not your fault mama .....Emma keep the faith and God bless you ❤
Monica, emotional violence is even worse than physical violence especially when you learn someone. What about STIs, HIV,& Aids?
My ex had been cheating on me,kuambia mamake akasema mtoto wake hawezi fanya hivo.I told him one morning "ukienda job ujue jioni hutanipata" its been 9 years now raising my son alone bila regrets.Heri kulea mtoi solo kuliko kutreat infections kila saa
The fact that she thinks she is responsible for that grown man weuh...Mtu ako na meno 32 years anachukua choices mbaya na unafikiria ungemsaidia? Gen X/older Millenials Kenyan women are unsalvageable. He made that bed, let him lie in it..If he changes, good for him, if not, his loss..He thought the grass is greener on the other side, but learned the hard way...Hey aki tulee wasichana kwa kuwapea assurance that they aren't responsible for any other grown up..Otherwise they won't be mothering grown men..Tondú it is badly anyway...
I second you! 💯💯💯💯💯💯abuse is abuse,cold war usually results to suicide due to frustrations, so just because he does not beat you physically he is torturing you psychologically with silent treatment,leave if a spouse abuses you physically or psychologically PERIOD! Men cannot take this kind of treatment but yet don’t take accountability,they project it when they get caught, most of them lack emotional maturity it’s plain disgusting 🤮
Very well said,
Well said!!
How can you teach them if they are learning from the likes of WaKiama? What worked for her doesn't necessarily work for someone else!
@@gw7768 Just giving them the basics.. Mwenye hataskia iwe shida yake sababu hauwezi peleka punda kwa mto na uiforce kunywa maji..Watakuwa kama huyu mama who is still stuck in the past..Haja move on and she thinks she can save that dude, which is impossible..
She was my neighbor, I remember her loosing her two small babies, it was so sad, but who is God, he has truly blessed her.
I Will Not Pray For A Cheating Husband, Never Ever Kwani Uko Desperate Aje Haaaiii Leave And Leave If It's Not Working Aiiii
True that's me I cnt waste my energy kuhoera githaria move out for a peace of mind
Me too. You make your bed, you lay on it.I love myself so much to accept trash.
She gave her story about praying for her husband..wewe tupee yako sasa.Over to you Muthoni
Mipango ya kando…..😰 mũka mukurũ acokagirirwo na maithori 😭
Such a humble woman. Thanks for sharing.
What a wonderful woman. God, i pray that you preserve her.
She has a lot of wisdom, know your battles and know who to fight with. Some women fight each other coz of a grown man who has his own mindset.
This lady has wisdom from God in Jesus name
I love her attitude towards the whole issue.
I love the story. But it's good to know your value as a human being. You are not to blame when people face consequences for their actions
She was my schoolmate at kiganjo primary
That man never deserved you and still will never deserve you you're good, and you did good to walk away,,, God bless you and your kids
I like her confidence,I admire all single mothers I included who work tirelessly to support her children no matter what.
Monica huyu let her meet Madam Wakiama she will forgive him nawanze maisha tena as a family . Uyu 90% amefuata all the advises madam wa kiama atuiraga 🙏
We need to hear this More ❤ God bless you Emma and Monica 🙏...
Divorce and forget about him
You're a great lady may God help you take care of your children. But hiyo advice ya kuambia ladies wavumilie kwa marriage, hapo sijaona kama tunaelewena.
This woman must stop blaming herself for all that mess that man is to blame
There is need for education, everyone deserves to be in a healthy marital relationship. If it’s lacking, love yourself more. Women are not slaves of poor treatment from their spouses. You are beautiful mama, love you more and you will be ok. You deserve everything good ❤
This woman should never be an intersessor or help women who are having difficulties in marriage. She is the kind that's enabling bad behavior exhibited by cheating husbands.she needs to heal from her own break up.Apone hiyo kidonda kwanza ndio asaidie wengine.
Very true
Rosa I won't agree with you cos what breaks marriage you know very it usherati and that's what happened to Emma's. She has a right to share what she has gone through also to be a intercessor Ngai ndaturoragira githithi ta mundu wa thi.
si achukue huyo husband amuoshe kama bado anampenda. Hipocricy of the highest order.
That man didn't deserve this beautiful soul,, she's Soo loyal but going back to that man she should forget and move on...she tried her best
Would like also to come and air my story Monica
Wise lady with a good heart
A very beautiful story with a ugly ending but you did well to leave and never regret mama.. trust in God
Waoo..,am so… inspired and ve learned so much from Emma. She’s young and has a lot of wisdom. Single Mother’s who ve been abused and frustrated in marriages should learn from Emma. Congratulations Monica.
Lovely, n encouraging msgs... Thanks Monica🙏🙏
I love your confidence and courage.
When I hear such life experiences,I feel so encouraged coz having gone through it too,I count myself strong and chosen Of the Lord.
Very humbled wife, but don’t feel bad or make excuses for him, that’s why many of us women are suffering, men are supposed to be strength of family not weakness, move on and there plenty of good men out there, whorrs are plenty and few good wife/women 👊🏼
Thanks Monica,,,,Am really encouraged
Forgive yourself and move on mama .Why bother yourself with a man who is not interested with you .Tiga ûrimû wa mother.
She would make a good teacher
True! I observed that too! She's very articulate & her story telling is very captivating
Hi Kui. An inspiring story.
Peace is paramount,you have you own life and you have kids to take care of,Love yourself & shall be well.we are on the same boat but God is faithful.
I don't think this woman should blame her self because that man gave her all the reasons to quit.are you a rehabilitation center of a badly raised man.if I were you I can't regret.
Wee mama jipende.uko na lowself esteem. that's the truth.the truth will set you free.
Imgn nakasirika on your behalf 😅😅😅 move on,,, jipende
You have a big big heart. May God bless you
Nie maah nanigwo ngenaga ngiona ithe wa ciana ciakwa akinyaririka ndaririkana anjirire ninie ndimunyariraga😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂haki wewe
😂😂😂 woiga tit for tat?
U will regret the day u will go back to that man, when someone left,left him go and never go back
Most men from Embu and Meru are very disrespectful, proud and irresponsible for real...i went through a marriage with a meru man, it is like i was single woman but married..it only by the grace of God that i educated my children and feed my children...
I had to walk out of the marriage for my happiness....
Monicah is humble and cute😍
What she's talking about is manipulation 😢is beyond pain , nigutee reke nemwo
Monicah those men get bewitched by those second women and they hate the first wives, then when they are dumped these witches are unable to do the evil they did to them. May God give this man a second time. This is a very brave woman and she is very honest
Kagoni haro itituraga ona amuhura kana amuchine hatire undu ugiashejirie kaba kuhe Ngoro thayu na witurire matuko mainge
She doesn't understand that high emotional abuse is such a bad thing. Its better to choose self than that kind of disrespect. Mum you also need to understand that every kid suffers identity crisis, she surely needed to meet her dad and have closurer.. again feeling like you still feel responsible of his waywardness is very wrong he could lead you into depression or infections. I can't allow such a person back into my life.
Monica ati niunyuaga kindu 😂😂😂. One thing I know for sure , never ask the other woman a question about anything to do with your husband, a man is the one who makes the decision to break his vows . When he told you you have a co-Wife that would have been the end of asking questions of where are you going or where were you .
Hi kagoni.its a good show Emma God plans are the best
Am glad she has finally decided to let go. Hiti ndíheyagwo keerí
Aiiihhh! Decisions have consequences! Mtu aliacha watoto, and thought the grass was greener! Wacha pia asomee kitabu ya 'life'! Doctorate degree proper! I hope more cheaters deal with this! I wonder what Wakiama thinks of this 🤔 😂
Nice story
will never stay anywhere theres any form abuse whether socially, physical, emotionally or financial. thats how mental illness is on the rise for being nice, be good
Waaah! Kweli goat wife hurudiwa na 😭 😢
God gave us all self will to determine good & bad,you are not responsible for his actions period! He made choice to break your vows & disrespected you,even the Bible clearly says you can part ways due to sexual immorality or death,he was not willing to communicate nor repent,if it was the vice versa he would have probably hurt you physically then leave without turning back, men can’t stand being disrespected why should women take it,don’t regret your decision Emma provision from a man that does not love nor respect you it’s not worth it,God probably saved you from some nasty illness
Did you say you don't mind unfaithfulness kama ana provide ni sawa, what about diseases?
The lowest thinking, how can one think like this, what answer did Jesus have disciples in the book of Mathew matters marriage and divorce.
My mom keeps on saying those words l wish l knew, singetoka kwangu,my dad died like garbage 😢,hiyo story ya pombe it's not normal but trust me mwenye aliplant hiyo pombe Kwa life ya ur hubby ata vuna coz sisi huona na my half brother wako hopeless
She is a super woman..
Ndukanathake na Ngai watumiya
Congratulations Emma
8 love the chapter of that book that sometimes " rejection by human beings can be protection".Even the painful death sometimes, it is protection.Isaiah 57.
This lady is giving my mom's story,9yrs later,my dad is in my inbox telling me to help him reconcile with my mom,men what goes on in your minds surely?
Very true
Glory to God. Our God is so faithful...
The same aplied to my sis her hubby left for a fresh gal, he left his 3kids,he had a car for taxee, the gal ate everything the man had even the car now he is a drinking officer, he has no home he cries his family to get back but not possible
I love her heart
She’s a good orator❤ Calm and succinct
😂😂😂kagoni nìma atumia nìtūkona Ngai😂😂😂😂
Na ukiletewa ugonjwa weeeeee ingiuma wega
😂😂😂😂waaah atùmia tùkona ngai ni maitho ,me remembering nililetewa mtu kwa nyumba tukakula adi lunch pamoja
When she lost 2kids n a pregnancy she felt God was not fair but God was seing the end of this irresponsible man she deeply loved the guy but he was not worthy her love n patience
Yes God always remove us from the wrong places but we're very blind to see it .
Don't leave the wife of your youth.
Wah mi siezi regret ju ya mwanaume kma hyu irresponsible hivi
Christianity life is hard, despite kuleta mtu kwa nyumba utamserve hadi chai without any harm further more, escort her, Emma you left marriage in peace without violence, yenyewe salvation life is hard... God will reward you and God will not allow your beautiful girls go through what you have been
Hii si story ya christian is hard but ni msimamo wake kivyake.
This story really brings out Wakiamas Tuesdays video on the marriage coach. Wives let us take our problems to God.Prepare a secret prayer place.
She is telling my story......she has inspired me, nitatoboa pia. Kwa waembu sirudi tena!
😂😂 tuunde chama weeh 12yrs down the line
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@@reginandirangu4816 aki. Na watu wao hua hawajali atleast wakuje na wazee waongeleshe watoto wao wabadilishe. Pesa zao ni za starehe na ukitika kwao you are on your own
Mimi sina maoni, because i don't want judge.
I relate this story with mine
Emma.. don't you know that mental health is everything and mental violence leads to depression hence suicide. NEVER REGRET
Haki Monicah..Hau Ngai ndanakuhinga...
Mungu akikuripishia kwa mwenye kukupea uchungu tena unasema heri hungetoka..chunga usipitishiwe majaribu mengine mungu akuondokee..nothing to regret there. move on na maisha yako coz maybe ungekua huko ungekua kingine..God took you out there with purpose umushukuru.
Mama niwekire uria ungiahotire wakura ni wakura. Ni mundu mugima reke etware
Emotional abuse is equally bad, only that the effects are not visible in our eyes. The damage is deeper and more damaging. No one should stay under any form of abuse, either man or woman. Get off and seek healing
This woman is so mature…..
Wooii huyu ni heaven direct.
Aki mum jipende tu aki,huyo mtu alimalizana na wewe kabisa and never regret that stupid marriage.
Tuned from Bayern Germany ❤
Monica, ùyù nìmùrìhe nì wakìama😅
eena ngoro ya mwanya mùno.
Tell this lady she is not God -- and even He cannot prevent an adult male (or woman) from doing whatever they please. Recall the prodigal son's father let him go.
Atîrîrî!! Emma arerira kweherera mûndû wa mûnyararire ûguo! Atî aingatûo nî mûtumia ûcio ûngî nî angîacokire gwake??!! Excuse me!! Gûkorûo single mother nîyo the greatest tragedy harî mûtumia mKenya!! 😡
The visuals in this video are stunning. It's clear you have an eye for aesthetics.
Waooh God BLESS you
Wangu ilesiku nilimshika na mpango wa kando hapo ndio nilijua ndoa yangu imeisha sikipoteza time nikamuondokea with my three kids na hata sijawai fikiria kumrundia,I love myself too much
Abuse of any type is not right even when you are provided for. Trauma will follow you or your kids or both for allowing them to be in that environment. God is God anywhere regardless of how low one goes after leaving abusive partners. When you cannot take it, leave. Provision is not a substitute for sanity, health or anything. Should God make a way for reconciliation on both sides, so be it. Just don't stay just for provision (material things). You can try and hold on but at some point you have to make a decision whether a good one or a bad one. The lesson is in the decision!
The WaKiama doctrine is misleading. What worked for her may not work for everyone else!
Monica maa wee atí atumia nímúkona ngai....😂😂😂
Wee Monica , pia mimi nilitedwa na nduthi guy after staying for 14 years, now its 11 years I thank God
Monica wee no ûrange mûndû😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂me:heeei Ngai akihinga,monica:kuoguo Ngai niahinge mundu😅😅😅😅😅?,me:eeeeh Ngai niahingaga mundu,,,,
He decided even not to care about his own kids bcoz of a concubine,,he paid a hefty price..this is a strong woman,,never give up