Apart from the age difference, this man maybe was struggling with childhood trauma and didn't know how to deal with his own issues. Pole mama for the struggles. You are a star and a hero.
Be strong dada Wairimu you are highly Favored you will get on your feet again and buy your own plots🙏🏽He is Faithful will surely bring you back to your Glory 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Susan Karanja! She used to be Our switch board telephone operator @Laikipia university...Woi! May God remember you. Nanígúo ma twagúthaithire ndúgatige wíra..
That was emotional and financial abuse . Never let a man tell you to leave your job . My auntie used to say “ You can’t even borrow money for your underwear “ have your own money
Pole sana mum,micie ni ndogo na kila mboma iko na spirit fulani utawala,So kuoleka ama kuoa,ni poa kuombea sana familia yako kujihebushana na any evil spirit za kila familia,na kuji connect na horlyspirit.Ombea mzee sana hata kama hamko pamoja juu ya watoto wako hiyo spirit iko na mzee isiangaishe watoto wake.Hiyo ni mambo ya ukoo maombi na fasting tu ndiyo umaliza.
Sometimes we stay because of the kids not knowing we are harming them psychologically. This affects their future. They get trauma that affects their lives for good.
Nice story 🎉such a lesson It’s not good to question your daughter or son with another question .it is what it is Marriage works but with the right partner
Pole mama...that was a traumatizing experience...I understand you so well... such men exist, my ex husband used to tell us poleni sana whenever the kids got sick.
Wendo niutumumu kwahiiha theca nja sometimes mtu anakua blind n hufikilii kutoka uko tu but siku ikifika utoke forward ever sorry for hard life yu are strong 💪 lady
@46:25 am watching a great and strong beautiful funny woman. From I wish i didn’t get into that Matatu to resigning her Job. Let me watch the rest BUT this very powerful in so many ways. Ms. Kagoni thank you for making it easier to do my Night Shift 🥰🥰🥰
GNZ wanashikanisha mambo sana kagoni my son one day aliniambia mom we use to live together with our dad till this second woman step inn in our house dad love turn to her and her children kagoni I work in gulf I wept hiding myself my 12 year old boy without seeing me weeeh
I understand when someone has to funguka roho, and I go by the rule of "we listen, but we don't judge". But I wonder when the children hear that a mother contemplated abortion, I wonder how the child in question feels😢
@@User67902 nlikua tu nashangaa ntamlea aje,but let me tell you dear,God gave me a son that i named after my late dad.nampenda sana,he’s such an obedient and bright boy,namuombeabga sana asibadilike.
This is the story of the parents absence looking for a livelihood for the children and leaving them under the care of a careless father. I hear her pain. How can we balance life and livelihoods. Very difficult
Ooh Susan,the young man from NYS whom you trained to work in the Laikipia Campus switchboard was called Gitonga.He is now late.However you can begin anew at any age....hugs Sue.
Sue,I was employed after you left but I can connect to your story as far as far as Laikipia Campus is concerned 😊.I left too a few years ago.The people you must have worked with are now retired or are on the verge of retirement 😊
That is the exact description and more of a dangerous covert Narcissist. Narcissists do not marry for love or have kids for love at all, - the only want a slave and doormat to use and abuse. Please ask her to read about Narcissism and once she understands how they operate , she will set herself completely free and move on with her life and start her healing journey.
@@rosewairimu5305 i stood by my son then and still do on that issue,it was in self defense.his dad angeniulia watoto wote hio siku,he saved himself and his siblings.
mundu onaga mundu uyu no agacenjia, tondu niu ndambirie kwiruo ni nguraguo ndina first born ena 4 months nikafumilia tu nikidhani ni utoto na ata mature but later after tume invest tukabarikiwa na 4kids alini block kwa joint account plots zote pesa inaingia joint account ambayo sina access akaoa mama ako na two boys eti sina boys, na kuhamia nyumba ingine hapa tu kwa plot yetu bila kujali tenants watasema aje, na hakuna ku provide . but I thank God amenipea neema ya kumsamehe
Weuh all I can say Susan you had soo much patience..mimi siwesi make especially if am my own bread winner. Honestly, this is a mistake we do as a woman. Ati staying in an unhappy marriage for the sake of the kids or kehiko., but a woman still leave there bila kitu but a broken heart!
Remember David was dethroned by his own son Absalom who has also killed another son. David cried for his son. Absalom died not through any attack from the father. No wonder the Lord said of David: '.... a man after His own heart'. Mum, you have David's heart. keep praying for your son.
Wairimu wooi waikaraga ta mugeni gwaku tanie mundu ndakwareria gutire undu murakuria nita muraikara brothers nyumba matwa mange tutuaga ti kwenda ma we are just forced to move out coz of the situation ona guitu nitwariyaga wendo niguo ainge twendaga waga ukanoga ugathie 😮
Ulikuwa mjinga kama mimi hahahhaha. Evene my boyfriend wanted me when i am paged but i refused ati am married, damn! I regret just like you but i moved on
Enyewe marriage saigine huwa scarm mm Kwanza nilikuwa na chapwa na bando nampenda ikifika place ikifika Nika choka cz alinichapa macho nikakuwa na black eye I Queit that marriage lakini your stry ni wice umepitia mama
Most of us women we always regret in genuine love u denied someone due to various circumstances 😢 en fall in selfcentered , narcissistic mens who are hkuna kitu mutacommunicate in the house hkuna maendeleo en as a woman u try in name of kids struggling alone yet u r under roof of "marriage"
@@MwangiShee-hv6ps😢or even beyond for me I decided to went out to gulf countries to give him peace but funny enough he is still dumb no any communication about growth nothing at all n he is also working back in Kenya am even tired going back this yr thinking of extending my contract nijipange kivyangu for sake of my kids future
Lucy Ndiritu I thought you are commenting that way because you are a man. You are a woman calling another woman mjinga? Why wow remember there is karma.
Apart from the age difference, this man maybe was struggling with childhood trauma and didn't know how to deal with his own issues.
Pole mama for the struggles. You are a star and a hero.
The story is extremely long but since she's a good orator it's sweet listening
@@beatricesisterskeeper3201 😂😂..ntajifunza ku summarize.thanks🙏
I love her English.. May God give her peace vile she's narrating inakaa it was too painful hadi hawezi sahau every single incidence
@@LenaQui thanks dear,it was very painful.but time heals,i,m better now
Hugs mama@@SusanKaranja-q4f
Be strong dada Wairimu you are highly Favored you will get on your feet again and buy your own plots🙏🏽He is Faithful will surely bring you back to your Glory 🙏🏽🙏🏽
She's a good story teller, eloquent and blessed. You are brave queen
Unaona hapo pa I wish singepanda hiyo mat I felt her 💯 mimi kuna date najiulizanga mbona sikukaa kwangu nihesabu rice one by one 😢
😂 pole aki
😂😂 OMG.
Susan Karanja! She used to be Our switch board telephone operator @Laikipia university...Woi! May God remember you. Nanígúo ma twagúthaithire ndúgatige wíra..
I wish mtu hujua future yake
You have favor of Business ❤❤❤penda wewe sana
@@annekamau6738 thanks❤️
That was emotional and financial abuse . Never let a man tell you to leave your job . My auntie used to say “ You can’t even borrow money for your underwear “ have your own money
Learnt the hard way,hopefully young ladies will learn frm us
Monica' there are good people ,I was watching Eastern TV, I come across the story off mama ciko and baba shiko mlezi a very good man
Pole sana mum,micie ni ndogo na kila mboma iko na spirit fulani utawala,So kuoleka ama kuoa,ni poa kuombea sana familia yako kujihebushana na any evil spirit za kila familia,na kuji connect na horlyspirit.Ombea mzee sana hata kama hamko pamoja juu ya watoto wako hiyo spirit iko na mzee isiangaishe watoto wake.Hiyo ni mambo ya ukoo maombi na fasting tu ndiyo umaliza.
Wuii maa She's so honest...may God give you His peace Wairimu ❤
@@margaretgitau1111 Thanks🙏
Sometimes we stay because of the kids not knowing we are harming them psychologically. This affects their future. They get trauma that affects their lives for good.
Nimekuwa kama were laking today Leo nita save pesa yangu
Nice story 🎉such a lesson
It’s not good to question your daughter or son with another question .it is what it is
Marriage works but with the right partner
Aki vile alikuoa ukiwa young en innocent then anakusumbua.She can still get married.
huyu mama alikua ameoleka lakini bwana hakua ameoa pole sana susan
Mbona alikubali kuzaa na yeye,kama hakuwa ameoa si ange safe mayai akazae na mwenye ataoa.
You are such a vibe,susan.
Keep on pushing momaa
Pole mama...that was a traumatizing experience...I understand you so well... such men exist, my ex husband used to tell us poleni sana whenever the kids got sick.
Woi I can relate, kwani huyo mzee na my ex ni brothers 😮. I also left one year ago
I wish i can remember my marriage well kama huyu😅😅😅ata mm nilichoka bt nilivumilia from 2005 to 2020😢.
Weeeh me tew girl niliona moto now ni ten yrs...nikiwa single end am okey...to weeeh tiga tu.
aki anakumbuka the slightest details 😂
@@RoseMary-xf3pt inakaa dio unawatch part 1 na mm nko final part 2🤣🤣at the same tyme
Wooii hio miaka yote 😢
Wewewe Mama you really tried hugs😢😢😢
I feel drained listening to her ....every story ya kagoni mimi nimepitia ka piece
You ought to be patient cos the story is really interesting and there are lots of lessons to learn
Same...I wish I can only cut n watch the positive parts...
Wendo niutumumu kwahiiha theca nja sometimes mtu anakua blind n hufikilii kutoka uko tu but siku ikifika utoke forward ever sorry for hard life yu are strong 💪 lady
Thanks dear
@46:25 am watching a great and strong beautiful funny woman. From I wish i didn’t get into that Matatu to resigning her Job. Let me watch the rest BUT this very powerful in so many ways.
Ms. Kagoni thank you for making it easier to do my Night Shift 🥰🥰🥰
It's a traumatic story but she is such a vibe ❤ .
Dear women, when a man shows you who he is, believe him.
😂Ati?
Take heart my sister all will be well ,for me I moved out after 21yrs
@marymutua6696 Me too and I don't regret...it's worth
Mama forgive him not because he deserves it but you deserve peace. Carrying grudges hearts you not him.
Just forgive and live for christ
GNZ wanashikanisha mambo sana kagoni my son one day aliniambia mom we use to live together with our dad till this second woman step inn in our house dad love turn to her and her children kagoni I work in gulf I wept hiding myself my 12 year old boy without seeing me weeeh
The generation that has suffered the most in marriage. Emotional torture is the worst kind of abuse.
Kagoni I love your show
I think age gap between the couple was also an issue
pia mimi huwa na regret nilikataa my first love but later nikaoleka na mnyama
@@marynyaga8522 hivo divyo kunakuanga
Wueh ...ati serikali ilete adabu😂😂😂
I understand when someone has to funguka roho, and I go by the rule of "we listen, but we don't judge". But I wonder when the children hear that a mother contemplated abortion, I wonder how the child in question feels😢
@@User67902 nlikua tu nashangaa ntamlea aje,but let me tell you dear,God gave me a son that i named after my late dad.nampenda sana,he’s such an obedient and bright boy,namuombeabga sana asibadilike.
This is the story of the parents absence looking for a livelihood for the children and leaving them under the care of a careless father. I hear her pain. How can we balance life and livelihoods. Very difficult
I love her sincerelity kabsaa, yaani i have a narcissist in My Life NOW and i can honestly say i HATE this MAN with all being.
😢😢😢mbona unashout
I pray that you'll be free someday coz life is for living
Every woman deserves COMPLETE HAPPINESS.
Muonbee, instead.
Weee huyo mwanaume ata kupeleka mtoto wake hosi hawezi lipa 😢😢😢nii hau niho ingiamuikirie out
Niho ndanogeire
@ pole sana mama aki
I feel like Susan is telling the story of My life
Pole.
I totaly understand you
Ooh Susan,the young man from NYS whom you trained to work in the Laikipia Campus switchboard was called Gitonga.He is now late.However you can begin anew at any age....hugs Sue.
@@Carolyn-y3z 😭😭my God!what happened to Gitonga?He was such a sweet soul🥲Wewe ni yule Carol wa typing pool?it’s been a minute,memory 🤔🤔
Sue,I was employed after you left but I can connect to your story as far as far as Laikipia Campus is concerned 😊.I left too a few years ago.The people you must have worked with are now retired or are on the verge of retirement 😊
Kagoni your stry zenye. Unaletanga mm hu learn more
Waaah that marriage nikama yangu
Susan is still a vibe though.
That is the exact description and more of a dangerous covert Narcissist. Narcissists do not marry for love or have kids for love at all, - the only want a slave and doormat to use and abuse. Please ask her to read about Narcissism and once she understands how they operate , she will set herself completely free and move on with her life and start her healing journey.
Susan she's handworking but the husband let her down
True kiambu lady that how we are
Woooi maa...gwathuka orimwe 🏃
Sad,but fighting with the father was the worst mistake,,now that's an automatic curse,,i feel for his future life
In part 2 he beats up his mum and sends her away.... It's serious.... He should repent and ask for forgiveness where necessary....😢
Relax
@@rosewairimu5305 i stood by my son then and still do on that issue,it was in self defense.his dad angeniulia watoto wote hio siku,he saved himself and his siblings.
Monica, what happened with AMG realtors ama contract imeisha?
Susan aki story yako ina flow
mundu onaga mundu uyu no agacenjia, tondu niu ndambirie kwiruo ni nguraguo ndina first born ena 4 months nikafumilia tu nikidhani ni utoto na ata mature but later after tume invest tukabarikiwa na 4kids alini block kwa joint account plots zote pesa inaingia joint account ambayo sina access akaoa mama ako na two boys eti sina boys, na kuhamia nyumba ingine hapa tu kwa plot yetu bila kujali tenants watasema aje, na hakuna ku provide . but I thank God amenipea neema ya kumsamehe
Ungiahagirite mboco imwe imwe niguo utinde mucii mutigacemanie😢😢😢
Everything happens with reason, world is a school
Only to advise young girls not to leave jobs because of being married or having children
@@juliamaina9323 Ongeza volume…
Huyu ni sister wa Veronica wa Gachoire
I feel for the man he cheated 😢
mundu ucio ahana wakwa ma. plan cia kuraga mundu kibaridi. no my sister tutigukua
@@marynyaga8522 true wanatakanga tukufe,but wanasahau God is always watching.
Weuh all I can say Susan you had soo much patience..mimi siwesi make especially if am my own bread winner. Honestly, this is a mistake we do as a woman. Ati staying in an unhappy marriage for the sake of the kids or kehiko., but a woman still leave there bila kitu but a broken heart!
I was like this woman ,,,no reke nguire ndikeririria kihiko ringi maa
@@wairari knowing wat i know now,i wouldn’t advice anyone to stay for the kids.they grow anyway,self love first…
kagoni mapito inafanya mtu akauke kama mbaya mbaya
Emotional abuse is worse
Monicah niwareheiruo nyama 😂😂😂daguteteire muno Wacha sasa niwatch story
Susan kihiko giaku kiambirie otagiakwa
Remember David was dethroned by his own son Absalom who has also killed another son. David cried for his son. Absalom died not through any attack from the father. No wonder the Lord said of David: '.... a man after His own heart'. Mum, you have David's heart. keep praying for your son.
@@marysarah23 Thanks,i,m humbled🙏
My God i'm bitter on her behalf nkt!
Sijui niseme ama ninyamaze 😂😊😊
@EditssOsimhen sema tu😂😂
Yamaza mamiii
😂 nyamaza
Wairimu wooi waikaraga ta mugeni gwaku tanie mundu ndakwareria gutire undu murakuria nita muraikara brothers nyumba matwa mange tutuaga ti kwenda ma we are just forced to move out coz of the situation ona guitu nitwariyaga wendo niguo ainge twendaga waga ukanoga ugathie 😮
Ulikuwa mjinga kama mimi hahahhaha. Evene my boyfriend wanted me when i am paged but i refused ati am married, damn!
I regret just like you but i moved on
Hate is very powerful emotion
Enyewe marriage saigine huwa scarm mm Kwanza nilikuwa na chapwa na bando nampenda ikifika place ikifika Nika choka cz alinichapa macho nikakuwa na black eye I Queit that marriage lakini your stry ni wice umepitia mama
Wuii ma mwana witu ni wagereire ruo no Ngai ena mubango mwega iguru riaku
Monical I have bn left zeroooo
This lady was a dictator. No man can withstand this nonsense.
Wairimu ata hacheki akisema kitu funny
Nilisahau kucheka dear😂😂
This guest is such a vibe,uyo hakua mwanaume,mtu bure kabisa,useless
Susan pole sana mimi nkileta story yangu walai mtanichapa😢😅😅
😂😂😂 kwani kuliendaje?
Tutakuelewa,naskianga kujitandika😂😂
😂😂...tutakuchalaza sana heri tu unyamaze 😅
😂😂😂leta hautachapwa.
@@mercynjeri7086😂😂😂mbona.
Ni kuona onaga wina waana nikio ataaragia😂
Well said @58:39 EMOTIONAL DAMAGE, ls worse than physical, it's mental damaging and this what Narcissists do ‼️
@@pauline2604 couldn’t agree more..
Very very true. The unseen damage of emotional mental trauma and abuse is deep and hard to get out. SAY NO TO ALL KINDS OF ABUSE.
Ngai ,athuri taya maa niakiii ,,,Amaa uyu niniii,,nooo kwawainga ndigacoka
There are always 2 sides of the story.
Kwani your husband was my x brother.
Children were not respectful to the father,...
Hiyo vita ya baridi mtu ashughuliki na wewe na haongei namuondokea.
Most of us women we always regret in genuine love u denied someone due to various circumstances 😢 en fall in selfcentered , narcissistic mens who are hkuna kitu mutacommunicate in the house hkuna maendeleo en as a woman u try in name of kids struggling alone yet u r under roof of "marriage"
I think we are 80%
@@MwangiShee-hv6ps😢or even beyond for me I decided to went out to gulf countries to give him peace but funny enough he is still dumb no any communication about growth nothing at all n he is also working back in Kenya am even tired going back this yr thinking of extending my contract nijipange kivyangu for sake of my kids future
😢😢 painful
@@RoseWangoi-k5s veery…
@@RoseWangoi-k5s very…
Strength of a 👠
disipline ilkosa kwa hio nyumba juu wazazi wote wanamatharao
Pia we huna tafauti na huyo Mzee
😂😂😂😂
Susan Wairimu sorry you went through that pain in your marriage life ......i know you we use to be neighbors in Bor S Sudan
❤❤
@@SusanKaranja-q4fi think you know my mum from Nakuru Irene alifanya hizo Biashara zote Na places zote including sudan
This story has several lessons...Monicah siku hizi una mood swings😮.Is all well??Unakaa sleepy kiasi....
Nikii kiuru wanyina???? Reke shiume neenee
You have judged by some minutes of the show if you watched fully she is so involved
Wacha uchokozi haki,wageni ndio wako na story zinashtua mrs Kagoni
You were married to your enemy
Monicah vile umeshtuka hapo kwa pregnancy, tuko na wewe.😢😢
He was a total narcissists. They don't care about their kids , sex or anything .
Monicah kwn tulihama kwa martin AMG
Remain focused that is the only goal that can save you.Jelousy between couples is real.
Monica watu n wengi wako that situation wanjiita single but maried
It's single but married
Nanikii wekaga kuu
Nducoke kuo uke utuire kiria ekaga kuo 😢
Endaga muciii nikio omagiriria 😢
@@estherkasua5645níwahiúkírwo
You are so rude
Maybe @lucyndiritu7459 is the husband's relative or current mpango 🤔
Wewe ni mjinga
Hapa watu huwa hawacomment matusi be nice
Really? Just be respectful
@@janembugua5521I think it's her first time being here so hajui rules
Be nice pliz
Lucy Ndiritu I thought you are commenting that way because you are a man. You are a woman calling another woman mjinga? Why wow remember there is karma.