Found Out My Wife's Affair on the Same Day I Planned to Share My Terminal Diagnosis. Now....

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  • Found Out My Wife's Affair on the Same Day I Planned to Share My Terminal Diagnosis. Now I'm Rethinking How I Want to Spend My Days Alone.
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Комментарии • 355

  • @Torag55
    @Torag55 6 месяцев назад +455

    Oh hey it's Swansong's story. And yes for those wondering, he's dead now. His daughter still updates every now and then. She did say he died in his home peacefully and was cremated.

    • @Totally_a_duck
      @Totally_a_duck 6 месяцев назад +19

      RIP legend

    • @briannamcdaniel266
      @briannamcdaniel266 3 месяца назад +17

      He deserves better. May God rest his soul. 😢😔

    • @nadiahana9238
      @nadiahana9238 3 месяца назад +3

      What is his username?

    • @Torag55
      @Torag55 2 месяца назад

      @@nadiahana9238 that's his username. Swansong.

    • @ncrtrooper7246
      @ncrtrooper7246 2 месяца назад +12

      ​@@nadiahana9238ThrowawaySwanSong, created december 14 2022

  • @artemisia457
    @artemisia457 8 месяцев назад +781

    i cannot imagine how devastating it was for him to be hit with terminal diagnosis and discovery of the affair on the very same day. yet, he carried on with dignity and kept his head high despite all of it. and honestly? it was probably the best revenge on his ex anyone could ask for. if he raged, abused or threatened her then she'd have another reason to justify her unfaithfulness. if he tried to win her back or acted on his anger, it'd just feed her ego.
    the most devastating blow to a narcissist is to make it completely clear you don't care about them. they build their entire worth and sense of self around other people's attention and approval. once you take it away - there's nothing left. they will never really recover from it and will always remember it as a personal failure.

    • @ccss9753
      @ccss9753 7 месяцев назад +5

      ...Helpful life advice.

  • @Isla_ed1ts
    @Isla_ed1ts 8 месяцев назад +2045

    Rest in peace legend

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 8 месяцев назад +1245

    So... assuming this is story is real and years old by now, OP is not among us anymore...
    People strive to be legends. Legends strive to be like this man.
    What a fantastic person. I hope to have this kind of fortitude when my time comes.

    • @alexven92
      @alexven92 8 месяцев назад +89

      He mentioned living through the start of 2023. Somewhere I was hoping a family member would have updated the post but ah well
      edit: nvm someone mentioned the daughter updated the post

    • @whitehawk7082
      @whitehawk7082 8 месяцев назад +104

      He died early last year, but passed the mantle to his daughter who informed us about his death and the aftermath. She wrote a heartbreaking post on Father’s Day last year and the final update last week in his honor.

    • @therealneutrxl
      @therealneutrxl 8 месяцев назад +16

      ​@@whitehawk7082 do you remember the reddit username, or is there a video with all the updates?

    • @whitehawk7082
      @whitehawk7082 8 месяцев назад +23

      @@therealneutrxl, I posted it several times but the mods of this channel removed all my comments. A few other posters also tried and theirs were also deleted. Sorry.

    • @viktorr7115
      @viktorr7115 8 месяцев назад

      Women cheat more than ever.

  • @VampireSultana
    @VampireSultana 8 месяцев назад +389

    I tried posting the link, but my post got deleted. So I’ll post the title of his reddit post “I discovered the affair when I came home early to tell her about my diagnosis” by ThrowawaySwanSong. He has since passed, but not from his cancer, but in his sleep from a heart attack. So he was granted mercy from the amazing pain the illness would have caused.

    • @animals4ever522
      @animals4ever522 7 месяцев назад +14

      thanks ❤

    • @katje5087
      @katje5087 6 месяцев назад +8

      Thank you!

    • @StrickerRei-Chn
      @StrickerRei-Chn 5 месяцев назад +4

      Thank yoy

    • @evolvetrooper
      @evolvetrooper 5 месяцев назад +14

      He died of a broken heart ...

    • @onlyDoti
      @onlyDoti 5 месяцев назад +6

      I encourage everyone to go read the updates. It was somber, but really heartwarming.

  • @That_Thing_Lucy
    @That_Thing_Lucy 8 месяцев назад +495

    “I hope I can bounce back soon”
    That broke my heart to hear, because I know that he won’t bounce back… his condition is just downhill from here and I wouldn’t be surprised if this is the last we hear of it.

    • @federalknight1949
      @federalknight1949 8 месяцев назад +78

      His daughter announced in february of last year that he did indeed pass, a couple of days after he himself posted giving what he considered his "reddit family" words of wisdom, amazing read and makes you realize how grounded and smart of a individual he was. His daughter has made 2 posts talking about his dad and a slight insight on the situation, one as recent as a month ago.

    • @theutubenooob
      @theutubenooob 8 месяцев назад +13

      @@federalknight1949 Is there any chance you could let me know the Reddit accounts they posted on? I’d like to dive in and read everything. The RUclips videos never link any sources besides the title.

    • @123huggaable
      @123huggaable 8 месяцев назад +12

      @@theutubenooob throwawaySwanSong

    • @Kidus-n6m
      @Kidus-n6m 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​legend

  • @BaeBunni
    @BaeBunni 8 месяцев назад +270

    Jane reputation is probably as bad as it can go "cheating on a terminal ill partner." Not to mention they want a divorce. If you can't even convince a dying person to stick around you know you are awful.

    • @Til_I_Collapse
      @Til_I_Collapse 4 месяца назад

      She bought another car just to make cheating easier. Her reputation was COOKED.

  • @beyond13reaper
    @beyond13reaper 4 месяца назад +86

    I went on Reddit and found this story. I went to OP's page, and sadly, OP passed away in February 2023. One of his kids is running his page now. Rest in peace, OP.

  • @reillycurran8508
    @reillycurran8508 8 месяцев назад +192

    Carol didn't care if it was robbing the reaper she wanted her late game swoop and by god she was gonna make it happen come hell or high water!

    • @SubhamChowdhury97
      @SubhamChowdhury97 7 месяцев назад +11

      I agree... if catching the old fish would bring in some greens. I don't blame her, but that is some despicable behavior if she has that in mind. But kudos to her if she doesn't have any such thing. Though it will certainly be hard to believe

    • @oofroboxislit
      @oofroboxislit 7 месяцев назад +1

      I thought the same ngl I was oh she's playin her cards

    • @Baba_Yaga_123
      @Baba_Yaga_123 6 месяцев назад +13

      I thought Carol was genuine. I forgot her introduction and relationship to everyone but maybe she’s also an older slightly lonely person and was just genuine in offering a dying man companionship. I feel like she wasn’t hot enough 😂 but I still like her

    • @generallyuseless5821
      @generallyuseless5821 5 месяцев назад +2

      Maybe not. I've kept company to someone with a terminal condition. It was part selfish and part for them. Though it was never sexual. There's an odd peace of connecting with someone you know won't be around for long, and they always have a calming and understanding personality. You know they won't be around long, so any memory you have with them is so vivid. And as morbid as it sounds, you feel more open. Because you know they won't use it against you, and that a part of them just doesn't care. They have bigger worries. Being around someone terminal is a feeling you don't really understand until you are. Your problems seem so inconsequential when you are with them that you want to be. Their focused on enjoying the little things, and it gives you an appreciation for things you've never thought about. It also gives a peace of mind that that that person is safe. You don't have to worry because they are right in front of you. Especially as their condition gets worse.

  • @rosebearcat
    @rosebearcat 8 месяцев назад +75

    The final update:
    To my father's Reddit family,
    We have rung in 2024. This will be the first year of my life without my father. And that weighs heavy on me. I wanted to stop in and give you all an update on my father's family. You all already know that we celebrated our week long celebration of the holidays that my father so cherished. While bitter sweet, the week was very good. Dad has succeeded in bonding us all as a family, and that included Carol. Her romantic, for lack of a better word, time with my father when he needed the most, means so much to us. He left us all letters for this year, and one final present for each of us. They were thoughtful and brought us to tears. One last act that he entrusted Carol. Though I expect that there are letters for the grandkids at all of their major events. The first one came about at last spring's high school graduation.
    The home building is progressing. This year I started to realize what dad loved about this farm. The cycles of the seasons. The cycle of life that is present here. I understand a bit more about his decisions last year.
    While I still don't agree, I better understand. I have also started watching the sunrises and sunsets at Dad's spots. Not as religiously as he did at the end, but just another anchor between him and me.
    Jane's life has not gone well. In the fall she suffered a stroke. It was caught early enough and she survived.
    She is currently still in a care center doing rehab. She has regained rudimentary speech, but it is still tough for her. She is still working on walking again. She has a very long road ahead of her. Her health issues have gained her a bit of sympathy from her social circles.
    Even Mom and Steve as well as Dad's grandkids have put aside their hurt and pain and locked in on her l am not that charitable as of now and may never be.
    I do not have much information on the AP. He has disappeared from my business circles. The only morsel I have is that the company did receive an inquiry letter from a bankruptcy law firm. So far we have not seen any official filings. As for the company, without his leadership and financial anchor, the company is in the black and we got the debt manageable and did give every employee a nice bonus.
    I want to thank all of you again for what you did for my father. I am sorry for not responding to any DMs or responding to any comments. It has been difficult enough to just give these updates. And I expect this update to be my last. You all have my gratitude.
    throwaway SwanSong's daughter

    • @zeekay3205
      @zeekay3205 8 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you for this! ❤

    • @allanpadang9826
      @allanpadang9826 8 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you

    • @katnisS2titan
      @katnisS2titan 2 месяца назад +2

      Welp... Ig it's time to cry my ash to sleep 🥹🥹...

  • @DairyCat
    @DairyCat 8 месяцев назад +365

    OP literally "ghosted" his wife as revenge lol.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 8 месяцев назад +61

      Even his ghost ghosted her

    • @venomoz1523
      @venomoz1523 8 месяцев назад +35

      Truly legendary shit

    • @grim_reapepper
      @grim_reapepper 8 месяцев назад +7

      Nah bro, shouldn't joke abt this shi even if its a joke
      Edit: i swr i was high or smtn when i made this comment🚬😵

    • @duckie9327
      @duckie9327 8 месяцев назад +15

      Bro gonna bully her even after death what a legend

    • @ИгошинНикита
      @ИгошинНикита 6 месяцев назад +3

      ...that cold.😅

  • @VenomLikeDat
    @VenomLikeDat 8 месяцев назад +52

    RIP Old Timer. Crazy the backend of his life he got to enjoy more than what he thought he would. Realizing the others with his ex was nothing but an illusion. Marriage scares me for this reason. Just be single and do what you want to do entirely, Why destroy someone’s else life, mental health, emotional well being all for a financial or sexual gain of some sort smh. Genuine people really are becoming extinct . I’m glad he is or did go out on his terms. 🤞🏽

    • @flexjohnson18
      @flexjohnson18 8 месяцев назад +3

      Simply put human beings are complex and imperfect and shouldn't wield the power that family courts allow some (*moslty women*) to wield agaisnt their STBXs and strangely enough in no fault states cheating partners can clean out their victim financially even after cheating on and destroying their marriage. Now my comment isn't a (*women are bad*) words but the courts absolutely must and should be abolished and marriages made private legal matters written in by both parties on each marriage certificate

  • @zergthe6597
    @zergthe6597 8 месяцев назад +44

    What kills me is he was apparently only 60. My own dad died two years ago at 54. It's too young.

    • @shreyamishra916
      @shreyamishra916 8 месяцев назад +1

      hugs

    • @flexjohnson18
      @flexjohnson18 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yea we really don't know how much time we'll get in this existence. I'm sorry your father passed so early.

    • @justisolated5621
      @justisolated5621 5 месяцев назад +2

      The average life expectancy is that of 75. Anyone who died younger than 65 is still young by a lot of means, even if they were in their later years

    • @MuffyMouse
      @MuffyMouse Месяц назад

      Your dad was my age … I had cancer last year and I’m aware it will probably come back. I’m not going to fight it again. Chemo was literal hell.
      All I can say is that those of us who were fortunate to be in our teens and 20s back in the 80s had the time of our lives. The world was much chiller back then, the music was amazing as was the party scene, and people weren’t such judgmental $&@holes like they are now.
      Literal heaven for me would be returning to 1985 / 1986. Hopefully your dad’s up there rocking out to the 2 absolute best years of music in human history. 🙂

  • @ladylizifer
    @ladylizifer 8 месяцев назад +253

    I watched my grandfather fight the same cancer. Good for OP for refusing treatment. My grandfather was an army man (lied about his age to get into WW2, but since he was a genius and spoke 3 languages they kept him). So being a army career man he fought tooth and nail. But all that treatment did was make him suffer. Shame on the doctors for even doing that to an old dieing veteran. They knew the chances of his survival but were all too happy to make a profit. If you find yourself with the same type of cancer, please, don't let your family watch you suffer. My image of my grandfather went from a nazi fighting hero to a crying old man begging for death.

    • @BaeBunni
      @BaeBunni 8 месяцев назад +22

      The problem is families can be to focused on tomorrow rather than today. Yea it would be nice if grandpa was alive tomorrow but watching him suffer for that today, rather than just enjoying how much time he has left isn't worth it. Enjoy today rather than hoping for tomorrow.

    • @tsunasawada6792
      @tsunasawada6792 8 месяцев назад +13

      I've loved the quote "Tomorrow is a hope, never a promise" From a character that symbolizes death.
      Enjoy the now instead of hoping for a tomorrow. Also if you are planning a treatment, its better to get a second opinion, they will tell you you're odds better than a person selling false hope.

    • @agx8447
      @agx8447 8 месяцев назад +8

      Doctors don’t make more money from getting extra patients, they give treatment options and try to abide by the patient’s wishes. Of course there are bad doctors out there, but you shouldn’t shame doctors for doing their job. A lot of the modern issues stem from the medical system as a whole and not from individuals, as medicine nowadays is much more focused on treatment than it is prevention. That’s not any sole doctor’s fault, and they shouldn’t be blamed when people inevitably suffer when something doesn’t end up working out

    • @rubykila2695
      @rubykila2695 5 месяцев назад

      @@agx8447 i have a pal who wanted to go for a less intrusive, more leanient treatment for his cancer, he wanted to go with a vitamines procedures or sum shit
      his doctors told him to get chemo for a very regular and not that dangerous cancer
      why? chemical companies pay doctors to recommend them using chemotheraphy so they make a profit off it. so yeah, is not that rare that doctors bank on patients. not all doctors should be judged, aswell as the many MANY examples of doctors wanting to make more money should not be denyed either
      its more horrible when its a doctor cause they should take the hipocratic oath to hearth, but many times they dont. the rason they are nice, is because you arent exactly between them and more money

  • @penguinpingu3807
    @penguinpingu3807 8 месяцев назад +107

    Having stage 4 cancer usually means you should get ready to enjoy your last moments. Which is understandable for op. Prolonging his life for a stage 4 cancer treatment requires a miracle.
    Organ transplants isn't going to cut it. Stage 4 cancer will spread to other areas of the body. Kinda like a rebel force, appearing in one area slowly growing once they are ready take over other areas, consuming a nation in violence and chaos.

    • @generallyuseless5821
      @generallyuseless5821 5 месяцев назад +1

      Not necessarily. One of my moms has stage 4 bone cancer. She was originally told she'd have 5 years at most, and a year if the cancer resisted treatment. But she went into remission. She will be on chemo the rest of her life, but today it's been 7 years since her diagnosis, and things are still looking good. One woman at the chemo center she goes to has been on her treatment for 15 years. It's a terrifying and painful thing to go through. But stage 4 doesn't mean all hope is lost.

    • @penguinpingu3807
      @penguinpingu3807 5 месяцев назад

      @@generallyuseless5821 congratulations that your mom have beat cancer. Her determination to live is strong! You should be very proud!
      However realistically it usually does mean you should prepare. It's practically almost impossible to beat.
      You destroyed one area and they will pop out in other areas.
      Because not everyone is willing to take chemo forever. Only the luckiest or people with the strongest of wills is able to beat stage 4.
      But I think your example is good and inspiring, that it's not impossible to beat. Even if 99% of patients die there's still that 1% that will be triumphant. That's why I always respect cancer survivors and medical staff.

    • @nicfeign
      @nicfeign 3 месяца назад

      My brother got diagnosed with stage 4 brain cancer. He was told he had a year to 2 years and he lived a year and 5 months. He passed away in the morning after strugling thought the whole night and passed away peacefully.

  • @C.G.Gaster
    @C.G.Gaster 8 месяцев назад +40

    I've sat and watched my great grandmother deteriorated, from 2014- early 2020. I understand that daughter's rage at the hospital, I understand wanting to make it go on longer, but I also learned that you can't fight for someone all the time. You can only fight when they ask you to. Op's decision to accept his fate is one I think we should all come to terms with. Besides at a point like that with something that is essentially un-curable (stage 4 cancer of the pancreas), it's easier to accept when it's time. The ex lost a lot here, and the AP is gonna face punishment after death.

    • @krel7160
      @krel7160 8 месяцев назад +7

      Yeah. Cancer stages are..
      1-2, there's a solid chance. 3 is a bitter fight.
      Four.. You have the decision of trying to bargain a few more months, or simply accepting that the rollercoaster lasts until the track runs out.

  • @CionJSBJJ
    @CionJSBJJ 8 месяцев назад +101

    half of this story is missing, it gets very emotional, I remember crying listening to it

    • @tumultoustortellini
      @tumultoustortellini 8 месяцев назад +6

      What's missing?

    • @theandroidgamer2109
      @theandroidgamer2109 8 месяцев назад +72

      @@tumultoustortellini The ops son posts about the death of his father a few days after his last post , hes also visited by more people in hospital , I dont remember too much

  • @HUNTERxROY
    @HUNTERxROY 8 месяцев назад +48

    There are actually 3 more updates.... with the last one being only 7 days old... and yeah op passed away
    The last 3 updates were all made by his family

    • @juliancumbia6443
      @juliancumbia6443 8 месяцев назад +1

      Got a link?

    • @juliancumbia6443
      @juliancumbia6443 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah I found it, throwawayswansong

    • @MathewCR
      @MathewCR 8 месяцев назад

      @@juliancumbia6443 Thanks

    • @ferchyzcv
      @ferchyzcv 7 месяцев назад

      may i ask (no trying to be funny im just really invested and dont know hot to use reddit ) how do i find it just scroll down
      ?

    • @nekorei2023
      @nekorei2023 4 месяца назад

      ​@ferchyzcv have you found it yet? If you haven't try pressing the search button and write his user or if you want, i could find it for you & send you the link

  • @ThePainkiller48
    @ThePainkiller48 2 месяца назад +2

    Someone should make a movie out of reddit stories like this. It’s so emotional.

  • @kos2919
    @kos2919 8 месяцев назад +96

    This guy is a true gigachad. Dude is close to dying and women still want to be with him (especially Carol) shows how manly he is they just can't help but loving him. Jane can go eat dirt.

    • @SubhamChowdhury97
      @SubhamChowdhury97 7 месяцев назад +3

      I believe it was more of the money, but yeah the man was a keeper ngl. Maybe in real life as well ;-)

    • @kos2919
      @kos2919 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@SubhamChowdhury97 nah, if it's about the money when he told her to not getting close she will just up and left. And yet she still stuck around

  • @domeatown
    @domeatown 8 месяцев назад +20

    This is how you live and die with dignity. Knock a girl up? Take care of her. Marry a rich woman? Protect her assets. Rich woman cheats? Divorce her quietly. Ready to die? Retire to the farm.
    Friends with his baby mamas husband. Keeps his old friends close. And when the time comes, moves into the unknown.
    Damn

  • @anthonysteer4798
    @anthonysteer4798 8 месяцев назад +4

    This is a re-upload but I was thinking about this story the other day and glad it got re-uploaded. Rest in peace to a total legend

  • @Mark_Proton
    @Mark_Proton 8 месяцев назад +49

    My ultimate ambition is to be rich living on a farm. I'd probably just monopolise the local roads and zip around in various road versions of various vintage rally cars. You know: Austin Mini 1000, Lancia Delta Integrale, Ford Escort RS. More expensive versions of the everyman car. Have a garage and service daily drivers for those in need for free and build insane project cars on the side. I really empathise with this guy's lifestyle.

    • @potatoes8414
      @potatoes8414 8 месяцев назад +5

      Have farm,dont have fancy cars but I do have bihc ass tractor that i take for a spin around town,2 bikes,my trusty quad since childhood and buggy when I feel going crazy across fields and forest.

    • @Mark_Proton
      @Mark_Proton 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@potatoes8414 nothing I listed is fancy, but I still like your style.

    • @potatoes8414
      @potatoes8414 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@Mark_Proton once came to my friends wedding in blinged up tractor decor,flashy lights the whole deal he busted up laughing calling it disco on wheels ,eventually borrowed it to him so he can drove into sunset with his wife...ahhhh fun time.

  • @blucz883
    @blucz883 8 месяцев назад +30

    Maaan this is sad.. Hope he had a good last days... Rest in peace

  • @jaylarkin4331
    @jaylarkin4331 8 месяцев назад +3

    There is an update where one of OPs sons provides insight into OPs end of life. It's really nice

  • @GG_MYDAWG
    @GG_MYDAWG 8 месяцев назад +21

    Rest in Peace u/
    Sorry for how things turned out

  • @theworm4124
    @theworm4124 8 месяцев назад +2

    I think there's an update to this where his kids replied to the redittors who followed his story as remember when he writtten letters? Apparently in the end he gave one to us who followed his story through his son after his death and I recommend that you search for it, man is this what I call a "Great Man" and how he deals is swift, calculated and powerful yet humble and kind.

  • @obrianfrancis8957
    @obrianfrancis8957 6 месяцев назад +1

    I've intentionally listened to this story about 5 times on a different channel, with the last time being about 6 months ago. Now, yesterday, i was thinking about this story and how I'd make it into a movie if i could, and how I'd listen to it again but i dont know the name of it or how to find it, all for me to find it on this channel today. I love this story from top to bottom, and as usually, RIP LEGEND 🙏🏾

  • @muggyate
    @muggyate 8 месяцев назад +47

    it sucks that we won't get to know the aftermath with WW but hopefully, it'll be exactly as earthshatering for WW as OP had hoped for.

    • @whitehawk7082
      @whitehawk7082 8 месяцев назад +29

      The story didn’t end here. The OP posted more updates, including how his WW reacted to everything and the fallout before he died early last year. His daughter has kept his Reddit account active and posted a few more updates after his passing; she posted the final one last week in his honor. I’ve tried posting his username in these comment threads, but the mods of this channel keep on deleting them. 😢

    • @muggyate
      @muggyate 8 месяцев назад +13

      @@whitehawk7082 oh no :c that really fucking sucks :c I really wanna find out how this ends. I wish YT had some kind of DM function :c

    • @transientgam3r
      @transientgam3r 8 месяцев назад +1

      i tried too. same shit @@whitehawk7082

    • @danteerskine7678
      @danteerskine7678 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@muggyatethat man is my hero 😢. It sucks that he has to go to through so much bullshiit before he passed away. Even in his last days, he managed to beat everyone at their own game. Like that mike Tyson quote he mentioned, everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.
      As the saying goes, the rich stays rich by living like the poor while the poor stays poor by living like the rich. Nevermind if he still drives a 15 yrs old truck instead of a flashy new supercar, he was rich but lived a frugal life, while his shitty ex wife wanted a life similar to the dynasty TV show from the 80s. Fuck her.

    • @JBKShadow09
      @JBKShadow09 8 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠@@whitehawk7082deleting the username seems like a scummy move, they’re stopping OP being credited

  • @DarkZoneWonder
    @DarkZoneWonder 8 месяцев назад +20

    RIP man. I hope you find rest in the after ❤

  • @YoshuaMizrahi
    @YoshuaMizrahi 5 месяцев назад +1

    Probably HIS last update. I want to hear from the family. He sounded like an amazing human being. Rest in peace

  • @ShadowT23
    @ShadowT23 8 месяцев назад +2

    Goddamn. This dude was a god amongst men. Rest in Peace

  • @LittleCandyMan2
    @LittleCandyMan2 3 месяца назад

    shed a tear for a legend
    today

  • @Killahbee168
    @Killahbee168 8 месяцев назад +18

    Out of all the Reddit stories I've heard all I got to say Opie's is very stoic and humble and also I feel super bad for him even in your golden years the dude receive some devastating news only to find out that your significant other is cheating on you

  • @Riri_734
    @Riri_734 8 месяцев назад +15

    This from years ago. Remember reading it. There was an update by one of his kids at the end.

    • @ashleyyoung796
      @ashleyyoung796 8 месяцев назад +10

      I'm not surprised that the creator of this channel refused to put in the update in this video. Talk about pure laziness.😒

    • @m96216
      @m96216 8 месяцев назад +34

      There was also an update from a week ago , Jane had a stroke but she survived and she is in rehab.Ops daughter told her that she will give her an apartment in the city if she changed her last name back to her maiden name (she was trying to contest the will but it didn’t work)the daughter said that house was a small price to pay for the change of name because she didn’t want Jane to still have the same last name as her father . AP is long gone after he sold his shares to ops kids. Steve , Sarah , the twins and the grandkids, all moved in the farm and build houses there so they can all live close. Op had given Carol gifts for Christmas 2023 to give to everyone, and Carol has become part of their family.

  • @aristideau5072
    @aristideau5072 8 месяцев назад +5

    how about a link to the original reddit post?, especially now after you have gotten ur YT views

  • @juliancumbia6443
    @juliancumbia6443 8 месяцев назад +7

    Can you link the fucking stories in the description please

    • @l-l-l-l-l-l-l
      @l-l-l-l-l-l-l 8 месяцев назад +6

      This channel never links shit for viewer retention reasons. Just another money grabbing bots tricking RUclips algorithm

    • @juliancumbia6443
      @juliancumbia6443 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@l-l-l-l-l-l-l what a fraud lmao

  • @Pickmycottonmonkeys
    @Pickmycottonmonkeys 8 месяцев назад +1

    He went out with good in his heart may he rest in pease and watch over his family with god by his side

  • @judgment-rt6150
    @judgment-rt6150 5 месяцев назад

    Such an honorable man to the end may he rest in peace

  • @gorillagaming8722
    @gorillagaming8722 8 месяцев назад +4

    If Jane is reading this. Im not going to be like everyone else and shit on you. But youre never going to live down what you did. It sucks, but you live and learn. Your life with OP's family is over. Not even your dead ex wants you around.
    Time to move forward and try to be better.

  • @alicedraken
    @alicedraken 2 месяца назад

    Does anyone else read these and feel like they are losing a long term friend and have a tendency to cry while listening?

  • @MaryMoodymegumimom
    @MaryMoodymegumimom 8 месяцев назад +7

    Frugality is a respectable quality. RIP OP

  • @lesunflower1585
    @lesunflower1585 8 месяцев назад +11

    Descanse em paz, você já fez muito, e espero que você saiba que aqueles que te amaram nunca irão esquecer de você.

  • @gregoryrainsborough1715
    @gregoryrainsborough1715 8 месяцев назад +13

    There is more to this story! It goes past his death as his daughter posts on his behalf.

    • @kpopopedia7402
      @kpopopedia7402 7 месяцев назад

      Can you please tell me what updates they posted?

    • @gregoryrainsborough1715
      @gregoryrainsborough1715 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@kpopopedia7402 the guy unfortunately passed away. He had a good end.

    • @kpopopedia7402
      @kpopopedia7402 7 месяцев назад

      @@gregoryrainsborough1715 May his soul RIP🙏 ....I'm glad he was happy in his last moments.

  • @majestical15
    @majestical15 7 месяцев назад

    RIP to a real one

  • @therealneutrxl
    @therealneutrxl 8 месяцев назад +4

    Bro start putting the original story in the desc if u just gonna cut it 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Naota-00
    @Naota-00 5 месяцев назад

    I'm surprised this wasn't a Rambo first blood situation since he already dying

  • @arcadius3257
    @arcadius3257 8 месяцев назад +10

    Rest In Peace King 🙏

  • @pachimarie
    @pachimarie 4 месяца назад

    rest in peace op
    fly high legend🕊🤍

  • @yi_hou3092
    @yi_hou3092 4 месяца назад +2

    OP has been confirmed to have passed away both his son and daughter had posted on his behalf and confirmation of his passing was passed by his daughter
    AP only got 20% shares and ran away
    Jane only got the shared assets that had no value and begged to get a property that was owned by OP prior to the marriage, it was given but she was forced to revert to her maiden name
    Carol got a 1% stake in the business as a thank you and will also be treated like family

  • @srsh12345
    @srsh12345 5 месяцев назад +2

    Missing final update from his daughter logging into account. It was great and hard to not get emotional

  • @adamelliott3694
    @adamelliott3694 8 месяцев назад +3

    throw away Swan Song. Delete the spaces.

  • @juliaalexander5788
    @juliaalexander5788 4 месяца назад +1

    I tried posting the link with the families updates but they keep deleting! Whomever running this video seriously you took someone elses story and cannot even give them the link to the updates?
    The family posted updates saying he passed away via heartattack (he requested an autopsy so Jane didn't contest the will), she contested anyway. Only thing she got that wasn't previously agreed upon was a house in that town that she got as soon as she changed her last name back to her maiden name, she had a stroke and was in rehab at end of 2023. The AP guy sold his remaining 20% back to the company and ran off. The company is thriving under new management. OPs children are building on the land to live there. Carol got 1% of the estate.
    Also his posts are definitely wisdom, look at Ramblin man,

  • @nossorcgames4733
    @nossorcgames4733 8 месяцев назад

    Rip bro
    This story just… hurts

  • @Yesnaught
    @Yesnaught 8 месяцев назад +1

    A king passed this last year.

  • @GGGryphonZ
    @GGGryphonZ Месяц назад +1

    Man I'm smiling from ear to ear hearing about how this man got back at his ex-wife. This is something that you would see in a movie. RIP to this fucking LEGEND! 🕊️

  • @raymondk.hessle607
    @raymondk.hessle607 7 месяцев назад

    Hell of a man. Love it

  • @MrVampireFang
    @MrVampireFang 7 месяцев назад

    Where’s the final one? The one where his son gives us the last update? You know, because he didn’t bounce back like we were hoping.

  • @averagejoeysguns5752
    @averagejoeysguns5752 7 месяцев назад +1

    Only criticism bro should have embraced Carol even if it would be short lived she knew what it was and still supported him. RIP op

  • @Clem_Baby3
    @Clem_Baby3 5 месяцев назад

    60 is too old to be cheating bro😭

  • @timothyhansen6581
    @timothyhansen6581 2 месяца назад +1

    Wakes up in the ER.
    "Hey! I have a 'Do Not Resuscitate' order in my medical charts!"
    Nurse: "But Sir, that only applies if you DIE. All YOU did was pass out for a few hours. You MIGHT have died, if you'd been left alone another hour or so, but as it stands you didn't even go into a coma."
    "...Damn you, semantics! Sheer sophistry, that!
    ...Fine! What do I have to do to get a 'Just Let 'Im Die!' order, instead?"

  • @NotAnIlluminatiSpy
    @NotAnIlluminatiSpy 8 месяцев назад +9

    A man after my own heart.

  • @SLUMPDBOXING
    @SLUMPDBOXING 4 месяца назад +2

    OP is an angel sent from heaven. He has now returned.

  • @feyrinvr3952
    @feyrinvr3952 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is so sad.. Currently in my family my grandmothers friend has Stage four pancri aswell at this moment so.. Its so difficult to know theres someone else who is passing to.
    I hope the family copes okay and is alright after the passing.

  • @takebacktheholyland9306
    @takebacktheholyland9306 3 месяца назад +1

    I like how there's a sense if continuity with OP mentioning the "Unpredictability is the enemy of infidelity" which is also present on this channel from another post that's equally as interesting as this one

  • @DumbAsh00
    @DumbAsh00 3 месяца назад +1

    This one seems real. It's not overly detailed like some others. It feels realistic, and the story is inline with how great of a man op seems to have been. The love for his family and the non profit and everything.

  • @ray5131
    @ray5131 15 дней назад

    This is what I call a respectable life💭
    🤔

  • @YamaTushita-r3r
    @YamaTushita-r3r 8 месяцев назад +3

    Ahhh!😭😭 why Sir why I cried i respect your opinion but why? 17:19

  • @BreannHayes
    @BreannHayes 25 дней назад

    Carol had a crush on op and it’s so sad she never really got to be happy with him and he was with a sl!t instead 🥺

  • @tomahawk3645
    @tomahawk3645 4 месяца назад +2

    "Why won't you fight for us" holy shit that infuriated me. Feels bad for anyone who had to hear that from someone who cheated on them

  • @kenny6698
    @kenny6698 8 месяцев назад

    Imagine being this strong. Can somebody find out if this man is still alive?

  • @TheMelbournelad
    @TheMelbournelad 8 месяцев назад

    The living wake 29:45 is great idea if have the chance.
    My mother in law had one, and my wife due to health experience was with her until the end.
    It was sad but everyone got time with her as she was a very family oriented person and gave her peace at the end

  • @DavidJones-bl5gu
    @DavidJones-bl5gu 8 месяцев назад

    Man died a savage respect

  • @guesswho7881
    @guesswho7881 8 месяцев назад +1

    This isn’t the finished version, there’s another one where the daughter takes over the account says he’s passed on, says goodbye for him and thanks everyone for being there for him

  • @AlphagonOmegarius
    @AlphagonOmegarius 8 месяцев назад +3

    Op was a real one, wish i could've met him😢

  • @hunterwilson6703
    @hunterwilson6703 2 месяца назад

    Op the world loves you I hope you see this

  • @boneymeroney2674
    @boneymeroney2674 8 месяцев назад +6

    This is 💔

  • @Potatobowmaster9
    @Potatobowmaster9 8 месяцев назад +1

    Rest in peace 🕊️

  • @jason-gf8dg
    @jason-gf8dg 8 месяцев назад +1

    This was half the story so disappointing that you didn't finish it.

  • @katje5087
    @katje5087 6 месяцев назад

    Rest in peace. ❤

  • @js8qp2pwisos
    @js8qp2pwisos 8 месяцев назад +1

    Am i the only one confused what WW means 😭 i assumed it meant Whore Wife but then he called her Jane

    • @williambrackett5662
      @williambrackett5662 8 месяцев назад

      Wayward Wife aka (cheating wife). But your definition is spot on too.

  • @official_expancion
    @official_expancion 5 месяцев назад +1

    What a legend, rest in piece. F

  • @Anesti1234
    @Anesti1234 5 месяцев назад +1

    Rest in peace a truly legend

  • @slyph63
    @slyph63 5 месяцев назад

    Hold on i thought this was pancratic cancer not lung cancer?

  • @darkwolf-uo7kn
    @darkwolf-uo7kn 8 месяцев назад +4

    The rizzard of oz

  • @leofelix4063
    @leofelix4063 5 месяцев назад +1

    A great and classy man!

  • @onlyfanstay
    @onlyfanstay 5 месяцев назад +1

    Rip unc

  • @timothyhansen6581
    @timothyhansen6581 2 месяца назад

    "Since I bought the farm."
    I thought that's what you were ABOUT to do? ...Oh, right.
    ...Seriously, though, when did that become a euphemism for death? And how? And why?

  • @kurules3072
    @kurules3072 6 месяцев назад +1

    He went out like a boss. I hope when it’s my time I can have even a fraction of his grace

  • @JeSsE10mCcOy11
    @JeSsE10mCcOy11 8 месяцев назад +4

    F

  • @matthewm9342
    @matthewm9342 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hero’s get Remembered. But legends never die. Rip OP

  • @shadowgovekar69
    @shadowgovekar69 4 месяца назад

    Not in this Life but Man I want OP just to update again saying how he is feeling rn in The Heaven
    I never saw My Grandpa and Man hearing his story teared me up
    Sorry you had to go through such pain
    Rest Well

  • @TheSmartNacho
    @TheSmartNacho 4 месяца назад

    if i remember correctly there was 1 more update not from OP but a relative of OP stating along the lines that OP has passed surrounded by loved ones and thanking the support that the reddit community gave OP. it wasnt mentioned in the video but still rip OP may you find peace

  • @Chick_magnet__250
    @Chick_magnet__250 8 месяцев назад

    What a legend

  • @LightSword743
    @LightSword743 3 месяца назад

    OP, u are a egend. U did things that were ONLY right imo. Rest in peace, looking forward to meet u when my time comes..

  • @mrelygaming
    @mrelygaming 3 месяца назад

    Son also talks about his mother as well and how she was in a bad state of mind and stuff but I dont know what happened after that besides the fact they had his funeral and are moving forward then he thanks everyone on reddit

  • @mrelygaming
    @mrelygaming 3 месяца назад

    I remember reading this post and there was an update by the son telling us that his dad has passed and etc. And how his son showed him the reddit acc bc everyone on reddit helped him out and stuff so he wanted to update it from there

  • @chasshdz4288
    @chasshdz4288 2 месяца назад

    The “I hope I bounce back up soon” then the video ended broke my heart…. Rip legend, so happy to see some updates in the comments he passed in his home in peace and his daughter still keeps some updates, Ik he passed knowing he was loved so much ❤

  • @patriksvensson2360
    @patriksvensson2360 6 месяцев назад

    It's a shame OP was on borrowed time when posting, he seemed like a decent enough guy. I hope he had peace in his last days and his family was left with harmony after his passing.

  • @happilygrimnate1628
    @happilygrimnate1628 5 месяцев назад

    This is so sad. Why would he say he hopes to bounce back when he knew in the beginning of the story that he was cooked. Goddamn I wish it ended better for him but it wasn’t horrible.