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  • Опубликовано: 8 окт 2018
  • Deepika is #NotAshamed to share her story.
    She has overcome the shame felt by those who are affected by mental illness, which can often dissuade them from speaking about their struggles and seeking professional help.
    We urge you to share the story of your mental health journey like Deepika has. We believe this act can empower others who are suffering in silence.
    Log on to thelivelovelaughfoundation.org/ for more.

Комментарии • 3,1 тыс.

  • @JustMe-jr4ok
    @JustMe-jr4ok 5 лет назад +5923

    I was abused by my step mother.....
    I got married, in a abusive relationship....
    Went through hell.....
    I never told my friends about my mother or my husband ...
    My strength was my smile and my self.... i love myself---
    I got away from all this .... at 30 , i feel i am very happy person, i wont let depression take over my life.....

    • @johnrenold627
      @johnrenold627 5 лет назад +55

      Plz don't demotivate her...

    • @nandhiniimmanuel
      @nandhiniimmanuel 5 лет назад +80

      Happy for you. Be brave. Stay blessed and strong.

    • @mariaj9531
      @mariaj9531 5 лет назад +46

      God be with you sis..

    • @JustMe-jr4ok
      @JustMe-jr4ok 5 лет назад +38

      Sudeshna, I am sayin ...i never asked for any any support, nor i did cry baby .....I stayed strong, and got over it myself.....
      I gave importance to happiness and positive attitude.... Have u read about Elizabeth Smart!!

    • @aradhanachhabra
      @aradhanachhabra 5 лет назад +12

      Hey I wish u a good luck for ur future💕
      Keep Smiling Always ☺

  • @madhududeja3385
    @madhududeja3385 5 лет назад +2975

    the way she smiled when she was crying is the sign of strongest woman....thatswhy she fought battled and won❤❤

    • @vnnmichael
      @vnnmichael 5 лет назад +21

      Jagriti Dudeja right ! She is strongest . She can’t spk one single word on the dirty politics In Bollywood. Not single word on real issues in Bollywood . N she is strongest

    • @jihanrexchoudhury6406
      @jihanrexchoudhury6406 4 года назад +45

      @@vnnmichael she doesn’t need to interfere in anything else she should just focus on her and her fans she is global mental health ambassador not dirty politics Bollywood ambassador 😊

    • @anzacadam5023
      @anzacadam5023 4 года назад +14

      @@jihanrexchoudhury6406 well said dude 👏👏

    • @jihanrexchoudhury6406
      @jihanrexchoudhury6406 4 года назад +7

      @@anzacadam5023 thank you dude

    • @teatimes_7585
      @teatimes_7585 4 года назад +19

      @@vnnmichael You want her to be like kangana? Just keep whining about the "dirty bollywood"?
      Sorry but deepika has said she is a do-er and not just a talker. Look at the channel you're commenting under, it's her channel. A fondation for mental health. And her next film speaks about the acid victims. And that's something we all should applaud her for.

  • @penpadolma2605
    @penpadolma2605 4 года назад +425

    Severe depression can lead to suicidal thoughts. Be kind with everyone because you never know what the next person is going through.

    • @princessprsh7761
      @princessprsh7761 4 года назад +7

      @nick p oh my god. How are you doing right now . I understand how your feeling . Believe me I was there in your situation a year back . I was hospitalized for a week . I'm a doctor and I couldn't understand my own mind and make my own diagnosis . My friend helped me in understanding my mind . Remember
      You are loved .
      You are important .
      You are a fighter a champion .
      You deserve all the love and peace and respect in the world.
      Don't ever give up because you never know what is waiting for you just around the corner .

    • @krishnakidasi108
      @krishnakidasi108 4 года назад +2

      I have gone through this in my teenage .... I even felt like to commit suicide ....and I was not even able to share it with my parents 🙃

    • @krishnakidasi108
      @krishnakidasi108 4 года назад +3

      @@princessprsh7761 the world needs more ppl like you Dr🤗

    • @2thira2
      @2thira2 3 года назад +1

      Sushant 😭

    • @lemonandchoclate007
      @lemonandchoclate007 2 года назад

      @@princessprsh7761 blessed with a good friend

  • @kookminie8668
    @kookminie8668 3 года назад +424

    Ppl who are making fun of depression. Who are making fun of her depression are the real garbage of this society shame on these guys. Thank you Deepika nd live love laugh foundation for letting ppl know what depression is. Thank you for letting me know what it is. #notashamed

    • @raghavendra6978
      @raghavendra6978 3 года назад +3

      @@goldencompass6024 These people will never understand. These people probably pay more attention towards actors and cricketers and blindly follow them. They think they are idol to them .

    • @sreegitabose8493
      @sreegitabose8493 3 года назад +6

      @@goldencompass6024 well she got a clean chit now. What the fcuk are u speaking now lol. U just heard it in news and believed it, shows that u believe in stupid and fake media, that makes ur opinions stupid, also they support actores and cricketers more because they were nothing when they started, they were like you and me, they had self-doubts, at times they were mad fun of and even now they are trolled, still they overcome all these struggles and become the face of the country, they donate, they do charity. Please stop your stupid mentality of believing everything they show in media, believe verified facts

    • @manvibhardwaj1556
      @manvibhardwaj1556 3 года назад +1

      @@goldencompass6024 do u have any proof that she takes drugs apart from expose chart we live in democracy madam r courts do not punish person only one 1 proof when she is not proof guilty by courts which means u cannot question them they r like us u think taking drugs or talking about it is bad let me tell u r half of r popn takes drugs and half of world take . how many people u will question . not only stars these politicians and many other people takes drugs
      ALWAYS REMEBER THAT BEFORE TALKING SHIT ABOUT OTHERS SEE YOURSELF . i wrote this keeping in mind about myself and i dont favor any one

    • @goldencompass6024
      @goldencompass6024 3 года назад

      @@manvibhardwaj1556 and what abt objectifying women in different songs.....

    • @manvibhardwaj1556
      @manvibhardwaj1556 3 года назад

      @@goldencompass6024 it is rituals which is goings for decades cannot do any things

  • @vetrri5570
    @vetrri5570 5 лет назад +1762

    The worst thing in depression is
    “you cannot cry“ at most of the times.. You would be finding hard to breathe and would be experiencing a heavy chest pain which I'm experiencing now!
    😭😣😣 Please cry

    • @sandipanmukherjee9088
      @sandipanmukherjee9088 5 лет назад +47

      Ranjith it's being 10 years happening with me..no help..no understanding between my parents make my life and mind a burning hell..I locked up myself almost 24 hours a day just to cry that I can find a little peace inside of my mind..for a while at least..I also don't want to wake up in the morning.. get up from my sleep at 11-12 o clock..in the night it feels like a bunch of bricks are over my chest..it feels so heavy that I can't explain..I can't sleep for sheer pain inside my chest..started to feel exhausted and when I just started to feeling dizzy.. something shake me up and I'm wide awake again..I can't cry in front of my parents they scolded me and say "boys don't cry..and you're a man now" and never understand me..same with my friends..they started to laugh..if I cry in front of them..I changed dramatically in these 10 years..I don't want to die..but inside I'm dead long ago.. Deepika you're lucky to have such support..your parents are best..not everyone has that kind of support..I like your initiative..but how can you reach people like us..who are the real victim of this?

    • @ayeshaali1040
      @ayeshaali1040 5 лет назад +6

      Sandipan Mukherjee You are not alone. I pray you overcome it. And i hope anything in your life that lead you to this is solved :(

    • @freebird4057
      @freebird4057 5 лет назад +10

      Same here , I can't cry , feel myself empty inside

    • @parvinaakhter6518
      @parvinaakhter6518 5 лет назад +3

      This is so true! ❤

    • @viewsonlife6834
      @viewsonlife6834 5 лет назад +2

      Dear i can Help u

  • @devayanihegde3751
    @devayanihegde3751 5 лет назад +1542

    people who are saying it is a publicity stunt,can't you hear the crack in her voice?Dont you have any humanity left within you?you guys have no idea how empty one feels when you suffer from depression and social anxiety,so keep your negativity to yourself

    • @priya371
      @priya371 5 лет назад +7

      True

    • @manoramasuryanarayana4410
      @manoramasuryanarayana4410 5 лет назад +5

      Yes. Very precisely.

    • @MuskaanSinha
      @MuskaanSinha 5 лет назад +60

      C'mon she is an actress she can have the crack very nicely she is brilliant at her work. But having said that, I also Believe her. Here she is acting or not, I know she has actually gone through it. There was a time in her life when she was suffering from depression she made very less public appearances. She doesnt need publicity when she is already very famous. In the world of #metoo she will get publicity from #notashamed? C'mon guys. Try to trust people.

    • @iamrohanchandra
      @iamrohanchandra 5 лет назад

      U r right...

    • @iamrohanchandra
      @iamrohanchandra 5 лет назад

      U r right...

  • @maheenkashif2349
    @maheenkashif2349 4 года назад +470

    being a psychologist i suggest that this society need awareness.. if someone says that they are facing some helplessness and hopelessness feeling that doesn't mean that they are drama or want attention.. there is a huge difference between seeking attention and depression. stop being ridiculous and try to understand their condition..

    • @maakabhosdatera4058
      @maakabhosdatera4058 4 года назад +4

      True sir I am also dealing with depression but It's now it s Much better with medications

    • @mysticalsongs4880
      @mysticalsongs4880 3 года назад +3

      Everyone tells me attention seeker and i am fighting with it from the past 4 yrs

    • @mysticalsongs4880
      @mysticalsongs4880 3 года назад +2

      I am dying inside

    • @maheenkashif2349
      @maheenkashif2349 3 года назад +1

      @@maakabhosdatera4058 its amazing that you have that much awareness but keep this in mind medications can only limit or stop it, if you need to end this disorder from root level you must take counselling sessions too. may Allah grant you tranquility of mind body and soul.

    • @maheenkashif2349
      @maheenkashif2349 3 года назад

      @@mysticalsongs4880 look, this happened with everyone. but the thing is you have to need a permanent solution for this. if you want i can help you a little not for myself but for you i know the awareness level is 0 in our surrounding. my email is kashifmaheen503@gmail.com

  • @SERVANIVLOGSYT
    @SERVANIVLOGSYT 2 года назад +63

    She could have just got out of Depression and live but the fact that she choose to educate people about it, is commendable . Love you DP😍💗

    • @JanuaryRJB
      @JanuaryRJB 2 года назад

      Depression
      ruclips.net/video/wS6P5lWMi80/видео.html

  • @nitika8535
    @nitika8535 5 лет назад +525

    I truly respect her.. she's really a survivor

    • @sujitnikam1999
      @sujitnikam1999 5 лет назад +7

      shes a warrior

    • @Xavier-sf8wg
      @Xavier-sf8wg 2 года назад

      Yes after taking drugs she survived

    • @jazzy6736
      @jazzy6736 2 года назад

      @@Xavier-sf8wg maybe
      Because drugs can take away your pain and make u forget it for hours until its effect fades away.....

  • @meenadevi2698
    @meenadevi2698 5 лет назад +2228

    She is the bravest cutest and beautiful heroine in this industry

  • @arpitagoswami4453
    @arpitagoswami4453 4 года назад +113

    I can feel you. I'm in depression and the worst part is I couldn't cry. It breaks my heart. EVERTYDAY.

    • @asthapriyam8245
      @asthapriyam8245 4 года назад +2

      You are gonna be okay. Stay strong.

    • @asmaashamsi3119
      @asmaashamsi3119 4 года назад

      Don't worry be strong... and always love and respect yourself .... I'll definitely pray for you

    • @NZ-yk1lc
      @NZ-yk1lc 3 года назад

      I think u must pray to god...

    • @meet14376
      @meet14376 3 года назад

      More power to you ❤️💪🏻

    • @all-startiktokpakistan9473
      @all-startiktokpakistan9473 2 года назад

      Can you tell something more about it may be i could help...?

  • @bhavikasicka3098
    @bhavikasicka3098 4 года назад +139

    Some people are empaths. They feel too much, too deeply. Anxiety, social anxiety, depression, these are very real and so much more common than we think they are. We need to start normalizing these conversations and not driving them underground. We need to start creating support structures for mental and emotional health. I really respect her bravery for coming out with her story. Depression is a socially taboo subject, and we need to remove the stigmas surrounding mental health. And celebrities are not immune to depression, because depression can affect anyone. Sridevi, Marilyn Monroe, Avicii, Chester Bennington, Robin Williams, Amy Winehouse, Kurt Cobain, Kushaal Punjabi... the list is endless... RIP. 🙏

  • @alexpeguero38
    @alexpeguero38 5 лет назад +642

    As a psychiatric mental health professional, I just want to thank you for sharing this. There is hope and successful treatment, never be afraid to ask for help.

    • @Ekta241988
      @Ekta241988 5 лет назад

      Please help in case you can... i m in depression from past 6 years

    • @suadosman7542
      @suadosman7542 5 лет назад

      How explain

    • @t.c.0001
      @t.c.0001 5 лет назад

      what are the treatments for depression?

    • @ShenMunk
      @ShenMunk 5 лет назад

      Alex Peguero how u cAn help me?

    • @somyarishi7884
      @somyarishi7884 5 лет назад

      Please help me!!!!!!

  • @samikshasahu6376
    @samikshasahu6376 4 года назад +270

    Whenever I feel so low ,I cry a lot and hug myself very tightly so it feels like that I said to my heart "ok ok I am with u"😑

    • @mymiefatima6085
      @mymiefatima6085 4 года назад +5

      Do u feel better after doing it ? Bcs sometimes I need someone to hug me but can't & depression make me sycho bcs can't sharing to others and after a long time I feel better to teach myself that will be everything fine one day don't leave passion.

    • @samikshasahu6376
      @samikshasahu6376 4 года назад

      @tahirafayyaz slightly 😶

    • @umernaseem6793
      @umernaseem6793 3 года назад +1

      Yar it's me seriously

    • @seaweedbrain3892
      @seaweedbrain3892 2 года назад +1

      I do that too!

    • @Xavier-sf8wg
      @Xavier-sf8wg 2 года назад +1

      Your emoji is not matching with your statement

  • @zainabmohammad3834
    @zainabmohammad3834 5 лет назад +1307

    Sad...
    Big thanks to Ranveer for restoring her life and her smile back!

    • @Vartikas.illustrations
      @Vartikas.illustrations 4 года назад +128

      Zainab Mohammad wow! Great give all the credit of her hard work to a man, because without a man she was incomplete right? How stupid of you to even think that “restore her life” dimwit!

    • @rainbow6571
      @rainbow6571 4 года назад +40

      Actually it was worse and having a happy cheerful person around doesn't make it better but worse...depression need treatment and not happy people around you !!!

    • @cadupin2060
      @cadupin2060 4 года назад +36

      She seeked medical help. It's probably her doctor. Not Ranveer

    • @nikitaanilkumar2277
      @nikitaanilkumar2277 4 года назад +21

      It's not about Ranveer... It's About time.. time heals everything. If she would again let her happiness to be dependent on anybody or anything it will most likely be devastating.. this is a universal fact. Detached love is what makes you stronger.

    • @amithajoy6446
      @amithajoy6446 4 года назад +7

      Ya but the true love will always have spark and a scar in the heart

  • @anshusaini3389
    @anshusaini3389 5 лет назад +178

    The way.. she was holding back her tears.. is so motivating encouraging and beautiful

    • @haniarizvi8238
      @haniarizvi8238 4 года назад

      She wasn't ....... Koi aanso aae hi nahin to nikale gi Kya ??

    • @sabihanaz7132
      @sabihanaz7132 4 года назад +4

      @@haniarizvi8238 shut up!!

    • @haniarizvi8238
      @haniarizvi8238 4 года назад

      @@sabihanaz7132 it's just the truth 🤷

    • @taqdeeszehra
      @taqdeeszehra 4 года назад +4

      divine light productions yes you are idiot is the truth

    • @fatimasiddiqui2141
      @fatimasiddiqui2141 4 года назад +2

      @@haniarizvi8238 Are you blind?

  • @squad0042
    @squad0042 4 года назад +86

    Depression is when you don't care about anything....
    Anxiety is when you care about everything I mean every single thing happening around you....literally everything....
    Having both is like hell....

  • @epicdisscussion811
    @epicdisscussion811 4 года назад +570

    When i was suffering depression, i read Quran and now i feel like the happiest person in the world..the Quran made me cry a lot but i was so calm after that...😊

    • @sabnamkhatun2135
      @sabnamkhatun2135 4 года назад +19

      Very true .... crying our heart out in sajda really provides relief...

    • @aisha1571
      @aisha1571 4 года назад +13

      Yes..☺👌🏻 It's the best way to defeat depression.🌺

    • @ayesharizwan9791
      @ayesharizwan9791 4 года назад +5

      BEST WAY ❤❤❤❤

    • @fathimapunnakkal7803
      @fathimapunnakkal7803 4 года назад +5

      Exactly

    • @runasamih4777
      @runasamih4777 4 года назад +4

      Please givev me Advice! When i was just having a argument with my mom i stared to cry and fell down on deep depression and Blame Allah!!! That why did i got scold without doing nothing big! She always shouted at me!!!

  • @dishaulhe8286
    @dishaulhe8286 2 года назад +95

    this woman inspires me every second and i’m not even kidding. she literally has been this guide throughout her journey and i can’t thank her enough for that. i love her so much, stop hating on her, she would’ve done something of her self and y’all wouldn’t come to her at that time because it’d be too late. mental health is no joke :)

    • @Xavier-sf8wg
      @Xavier-sf8wg 2 года назад +2

      Tum bhi drugs leti ho kya?

    • @SERVANIVLOGSYT
      @SERVANIVLOGSYT 2 года назад +1

      @@Xavier-sf8wg ji ha bilhul aap ki tarha

    • @yoshitamaurya5623
      @yoshitamaurya5623 3 месяца назад

      People misunderstood her a lot.

    • @yoshitamaurya5623
      @yoshitamaurya5623 3 месяца назад

      ​@@SERVANIVLOGSYTbro I love you for the reply 😂

  • @arya_inmydefense
    @arya_inmydefense 3 года назад +106

    Remember All those hating on her wouldn't have said anything about her if she did something to herself.
    It's truly brave of hers to come back strong!

  • @prachetap6852
    @prachetap6852 5 лет назад +617

    *The most brave thing I did was to live when I wanted so much to die..*
    I even began to self harm...
    I didn't tell anyone..
    And now I'm proud of my scars..
    #NotAshamed .

    • @klickonfocus
      @klickonfocus 5 лет назад +2

      So much love. :)

    • @prachetap6852
      @prachetap6852 5 лет назад +5

      @@klickonfocus Love you back :)

    • @fatimakhan8640
      @fatimakhan8640 5 лет назад +6

      More power to you, girl! Love from Pakistan! 🇵🇰♥️

    • @malika5136
      @malika5136 4 года назад

      Proud of your scars?

    • @prachetap6852
      @prachetap6852 4 года назад +1

      @@malika5136 Yes. I survived them :)

  • @0bishplease033
    @0bishplease033 5 лет назад +190

    Damn man, I just wanna hug everyone who's gone through such things like this. 😔👐

    • @TheRizGuy
      @TheRizGuy 4 года назад +3

      Then that would be damn near half of the world, sadly.

  • @Ashley-up4qf
    @Ashley-up4qf 4 года назад +82

    This made me shed a tear because this is so raw. This is literally how depression is.

    • @sohamchakraborty5816
      @sohamchakraborty5816 6 месяцев назад

      Ever imagined that she just learnt about the symptoms of depression and enacting it for marketing herself? She is the same person who have been so active in her career since 2007. people facing depression can't even face a crowd let alone performing on stage. She literally has ganja party with her bolly friends. Stop supporting this fake woman for god's sake!

  • @wicks8678
    @wicks8678 3 года назад +26

    Depression is like wanted to be home, but already being there

  • @gessicarocha2219
    @gessicarocha2219 5 лет назад +55

    I suffered from depression and anxiety and I’m here today to say “stay strong and you’ll come out stronger!” 🙌🏻❤️🌷

  • @sankits1327
    @sankits1327 5 лет назад +326

    Thank you so much Deepika! Your words really helped me during my depression days and still helps me. Whenever I feel depressed I watch your interview with Barkha or I read your interviews. I can relate alot, I helps me to understand that I'm not alone, I'm not only one who's suffering from depression, It helps me to feel better. Depression can happen to any one...It's not rich or poor thing.
    Thanks for inspiring me, motivating me everyday. Thanks to TLLL foundation for you work.
    It will be nice if I will get a chance to be part of you. I understand those emotions and I will like to help people who are going through depression. 🙏

    • @divviyaselvaraja2465
      @divviyaselvaraja2465 5 лет назад +2

      Please don't feel alone. Just be positive and have gratitude! I have been through it as well

  • @hawkeye6272
    @hawkeye6272 3 года назад +27

    At least she could sleep when she has depression. I can’t sleep when I’m depressed. I thought I was the only one to feel the Need to breakdown to feel better. She’s a very strong woman. People live all their life by creating a facade of being perfect.

  • @astralsky5933
    @astralsky5933 3 года назад +367

    Sushant needed help. He never spoke of it. No-one ever spoke to him either I guess. What follows is just utterly blinding pain.

    • @sonamsahu9803
      @sonamsahu9803 3 года назад +14

      It was murder dude.....Media is not showing....

    • @krupapaalaparthi3931
      @krupapaalaparthi3931 3 года назад +3

      Hello it's a pakka planning murder...☝️

    • @allrounderayes5583
      @allrounderayes5583 3 года назад +4

      @The Sparkle bipolar ka matlab nhi jaanti to altleat google kr lo didi
      Bipolar waale family k sath hasi mzk nhi krte... Bday nhi manate khus nhi rhte😂😂😂
      Kaun se schl se padhi h🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @VikasVerma-kk1nt
      @VikasVerma-kk1nt 3 года назад +3

      @The Sparkle can’t you shut up
      Don’t speak anything if you don’t know

    • @queenbehaviour
      @queenbehaviour 3 года назад +1

      Everyone speak for self don't expect from anyone

  • @samarhafeez
    @samarhafeez 5 лет назад +74

    Am a therapist,and I understand how u feel sweety,U r a survivor👍! Be strong be bold

    • @shwetayadav4096
      @shwetayadav4096 4 года назад

      Hiii

    • @deanryo7734
      @deanryo7734 2 года назад

      Plz help me I am in deppresion I want to share with u plz plz help me😭

  • @shireenbegum7098
    @shireenbegum7098 5 лет назад +211

    I'm so happy for her that she met the love of her love who makes her happy and smile every moment he gets 💓 love them both

  • @ZephyrBreeze01
    @ZephyrBreeze01 3 года назад +130

    When she was going through this tough phase, no one helped her & now when she's moved on, Kangna is making every effort to get her down

    • @preetyjha8986
      @preetyjha8986 3 года назад +4

      Deepika herself makes fun of sleep walking which is a mental illness. She also targets kangana for no reason. She tried to ban mental hai kya because of the word mental but she never had any problem with mentalhood or pagalpanti or badshah's pagal hai pagal hai song.
      And according to rumours she is also doing a film called Sanki

    • @thenightingale8593
      @thenightingale8593 3 года назад +16

      @@preetyjha8986 Of fuck off !

    • @sadiahammad6805
      @sadiahammad6805 3 года назад +10

      Kangana is a bitch! Whereas deepika is a gem❤️

    • @shinchannohara5621
      @shinchannohara5621 3 года назад +2

      She is just doing drama for publicity.

    • @Akshay-tq6zk
      @Akshay-tq6zk 2 года назад +5

      @@preetyjha8986 True .Deepika's depression might be genuine but that doesn't give her right to be a hypocrite.
      Deepika should separate profession and personal relationships. She attacked kangana on Mental hai kya using this foundation when she had personal problems with Kangana.
      D made chappak and kangana and rangoli praised her so much .Then D came up with that whole makeup idiocy and Kangana criticized her . Say anything about Kangana but she doesn't act like the typical bollywood bimbo with fake smile 24x7 for the media and to maintain relationships. She praises one's good qualities and good deeds and at same time criticizes one's bad actions as well. She knows when to separate personal and professional issues ,unless when she is attacked by the other party.
      Kangana praised Piku as well even went to trial but D ignored manikarnika invite.
      Kangana is a better actress but D deserves the praise for coming out with her depression .

  • @muslimah5155
    @muslimah5155 4 года назад +19

    When i was going through depression and anxiety last year,I used to watch Deepika's interviews hoping for answers and I used to say to myself that if she can come out of her depression and anxiety,why can't I?and this motivated me a lot to stay strong and keep fighting.

  • @mayurdeeppawar6076
    @mayurdeeppawar6076 5 лет назад +669

    Suffered from depression and also survived panic attack #Notashamed 🏋️🏼

  • @Esther-ps3vx
    @Esther-ps3vx 5 лет назад +70

    What really helped my depression was helping the less fortunate. I started volunteering at homeless shelters, nonprofit organizations and helping students learn. This made me realize that I have so much to give to society. Thank you, Deepika for being so vocal about depression. I still struggle to tell people about my depression, but I am getting better at it. I take one day at a time now and I am so much happier that I was 15 years ago.

  • @hudaasif2733
    @hudaasif2733 4 года назад +10

    That smile she gave at the end is everything 😍😍😍 her strength, her power, her kindness.

  • @anonymousnation5235
    @anonymousnation5235 3 года назад +5

    The silence between her sentences can only be understood by the people who have actually gone through chronic depression....it eats you from inside.....well done deepika

  • @Aryansh
    @Aryansh 5 лет назад +339

    Many people think depression is just a sadness thing or excuse people make..but its actually a feeling that makes you an emotionless creature...i was in depression...its like living is so hard...you no longer have hope...u no longer like to live...like going to school without liking just do the work lifeless.... it's like a toxin spreading in ur body... nobody can understand actually...but i m coming out of it through spirituality...maybe it can help others as well.... depression is a really serious problem...you loose ur interest in everything ...

    • @mariaj9531
      @mariaj9531 5 лет назад +1

      Well..said..spirituality...is a fruitful medicine..4 depression...my experience

    • @MunnaMunna-il7gy
      @MunnaMunna-il7gy 5 лет назад +1

      @@mariaj9531 my experience also

    • @arpitadash
      @arpitadash 5 лет назад

      She does not need any publishity stunt .. she was already a big star by that time.

    • @ThePals12
      @ThePals12 5 лет назад

      .

    • @Manvir.
      @Manvir. 5 лет назад

      What I'm doing right now. Spirtuality has helped me get out of depression

  • @beinglovely9386
    @beinglovely9386 5 лет назад +277

    Can't see her Crying 😭😭 #heartbreaking 💔💔💔 Proud of u Queen ...

    • @aafiyakhan2299
      @aafiyakhan2299 5 лет назад

      Lovely 😣💔

    • @nandinibadani5258
      @nandinibadani5258 5 лет назад +1

      was there anything to feel proud?it's depresssion happening with many people nothing is there to feel proud of her only

    • @Azraeel11
      @Azraeel11 5 лет назад +2

      Drama queen

  • @noshbee7782
    @noshbee7782 4 года назад +84

    Depression is difficult to deal with.

  • @ajinkyapatade7760
    @ajinkyapatade7760 4 месяца назад

    www.youtube.com/@TheLiveLoveLaughFoundation #NotAshamed
    Hanuman Bahuk - www.youtube.com/@HanumanBahuk

  • @bhaktikathayat3346
    @bhaktikathayat3346 5 лет назад +42

    It needs courage to tell the people ... specially when u r celebrity.... Hats off to u Deepika...

  • @sarmisthadatta9709
    @sarmisthadatta9709 5 лет назад +388

    2 Min Silence for those who disliked the video.

    • @dipandat
      @dipandat 5 лет назад +1

      Ppl mite dislike it because it's a sad video

    • @joeyballinger4077
      @joeyballinger4077 5 лет назад

      i think they disliked it... coz it was an advertisement also. that they could not escape

    • @shraddhaarora8633
      @shraddhaarora8633 5 лет назад

      I make your like 170

    • @mayankshivhare8403
      @mayankshivhare8403 5 лет назад

      I think english could be one of the reason to dislike it ....not everyone can relate to english easily

  • @abhi9192
    @abhi9192 3 года назад +25

    And you all still say she fakes her depression or does it for fame stop it pls she wants to help people who struggle through this

    • @abhi9192
      @abhi9192 3 года назад

      @muneer kindly read properly and then react!

    • @abhi9192
      @abhi9192 3 года назад +1

      @muneer Np

  • @JyotiSingh007
    @JyotiSingh007 4 года назад +4

    Really happy to see people opening up in the comments and thank you to the people who are trying to understand and help their loved ones who go through this.💐

  • @aloquaciouspoetess-meghana6467
    @aloquaciouspoetess-meghana6467 5 лет назад +88

    On world mental health day it's amazing to see how conversations have started..how being bipolar or having episodes of depression like me is fine

  • @joyouslife09
    @joyouslife09 5 лет назад +174

    Like you, I used to find comfort in sleeping during my tenure of depression, which was for a period of a year and a half. The feeling that you need to go to work, you need to fake smile and maintain your livelihood and knowing deep inside none could ever feel your pain was the toughest part in my case. Parents, friends, relatives when all ask you why your eyes look so gloomy at times you just gulp and have nothing to say. Still life moves on and we all move forward to see that silver lining which may be too tough at times but definitely make us more strong and less vulnerable! #notashamed

    • @naina3982
      @naina3982 5 лет назад

      😊

    • @joyouslife09
      @joyouslife09 5 лет назад +1

      @@naina3982 :)

    • @anjalimeghani4746
      @anjalimeghani4746 5 лет назад

      How u get rid of it

    • @namratakulkarni3466
      @namratakulkarni3466 5 лет назад

      I am currently going through all that you described.... how did you overcome it??

    • @joyouslife09
      @joyouslife09 5 лет назад +8

      @@namratakulkarni3466 I'm pained to hear that. I very well understand how you must be feeling right now n somewhere m glad you atleast expressed this. Look, I believe we all have different mechanisms to cope with issues. In my case I just listened to my conscience. I mean when the entire world behaved like strangers to me there's this inner me who always had a faith on myself n so I guess I got the largest amount of boost from myself only and I just made it a point to make myself thoroughly busy with everything I like to do. I joined sports, I started my own blog, traveled around places solo and went for movies all alone n treated myself with my favourite food. All these I did from the heart which helped me a lot to overcome stress. But yes, I made distance with everyone who weren't that important in my life. Somewhere I drew a line between happiness n need and I believe ultimately it's just we ourselves who can make things normal. I just wish you all the luck n hope you get outta this soon n m sure you would coz this question proves your eagerness to come outta this phase. Love n hugs!

  • @jayasrideosaran5409
    @jayasrideosaran5409 4 года назад +10

    Such a beautiful woman inside out. May all of your days be filled with happiness. And for all those people battling depression my prayer for you is that God gives you strength in which you already have within you to fight and win the battle. All my love.

  • @anushkachettri4220
    @anushkachettri4220 4 года назад +5

    To be able to come out this way is really inspiring for all the people who is going through the stage or have experienced depression
    .....she is a strong women❤

  • @prinkajana1440
    @prinkajana1440 5 лет назад +10

    Crying doesn't shows that she is weak.. That makes strong soul.. Deepika is great.. And I'm fan of her.. Great job

  • @baneilaraveena7636
    @baneilaraveena7636 5 лет назад +54

    She empowers us to become someone better and fight through anything...i salute her and thank her so much

  • @priyankatripathi5433
    @priyankatripathi5433 4 года назад +53

    Seems like she is telling my story..
    Waking up was like a battle..
    But i had to work for myself..
    I had to smile fake for my parents..
    Going on bed was so Scarry...
    Everyone who was around me tried to make me smile i cried whole night..
    But i kept a promise to myself that i have to be fine.. I have to be fine just for my parents... All this happend just Becoz a bad relationship..
    Now m happy it takes alot of effort but you must give your best for your family
    God never suffer anyone from Depression.. 😞

    • @NaveenYoYoDude
      @NaveenYoYoDude 4 года назад +1

      Take care!

    • @AnjaliYadav-kp8md
      @AnjaliYadav-kp8md 4 года назад +1

      My bf broke up with me in this lockdown.... And I am suffering the same😔I get dreams of us talking and spending time together... And when my alarm buzzes and open my eyes into reality I just hate to wake up😔

    • @priyankatripathi5433
      @priyankatripathi5433 4 года назад +1

      @@AnjaliYadav-kp8md same things are happening with me right now.. But i must say there is alot of things look at your patents... Nd try to focus on your goal..

    • @satyam368
      @satyam368 3 года назад

      What to do in that case when someone didn't want to broke you intentionally but doing continuously. That pain is unbearable and when u want to talk about this that person didn't want to understand. I m in relationships in last 13 years and my love getting married to someone else. She feels it's fine not a big deal she think after that we will be in touch always. I don't know what to do I feel empty and clueless. always negative thought running on my mind. No one understand that situation. It's not easy for me but don't know how she managed. GOD HELP ME.. 🙏😞😞😞😞

    • @satyam368
      @satyam368 3 года назад

      Can anyone please help me... Need to talk.

  • @MyFresiGirl
    @MyFresiGirl 5 лет назад +1

    I feel the same too. Sending lots of love to everyone who needs it.

  • @thehypervigilant
    @thehypervigilant 5 лет назад +123

    *BRAVE, INSPIRING, BEAUTIFUL!!!*

  • @sameeryogi9933
    @sameeryogi9933 5 лет назад +60

    Can't see see🙈🙈 her crying😭😕😭 tear in Queens eye😞😞🙁😭😭 @deepikapadukone
    talking about self-depression very tough 🙁😓🙁 But she could that... Hat's off for #deepikapadukone👏👏

  • @meghnauwu
    @meghnauwu 4 года назад +16

    I have social anxiety and borderline depression. Its just so hard to wake up everyday and face people. But even though I am struggling I am ready to fight it just because of Deepika. She is the person who told me "I know what it is" :))))

  • @jamesbondani
    @jamesbondani 2 года назад +1

    Your an true inspiration Deepika.... I have experienced the same 2 years back and your words were helping me to come out of this situation. Now I still take medicine and lot relaxed and reducing the dossage and have confidence to overcome the situations.

  • @sadhusha4447
    @sadhusha4447 5 лет назад +746

    People who cried after seeing Deepika cry?

    • @aryanmb1271
      @aryanmb1271 4 года назад +24

      People who comment like this doesn't know what the hell is she experiencing

    • @snehasgoodlife1701
      @snehasgoodlife1701 4 года назад +3

      I really did😊

    • @wisegirlandseaweedbrain250
      @wisegirlandseaweedbrain250 4 года назад +5

      Are you in your right mind?

    • @saakshishetty7899
      @saakshishetty7899 4 года назад +6

      This sounds stupid. Imagine asking likes under an issue which is important and vulnerable for many.

    • @deadpoolop3486
      @deadpoolop3486 4 года назад

      @@sulochanasharma6823 😂😂

  • @poojadp9833
    @poojadp9833 5 лет назад +210

    We are always with you Queen ❤️

    • @ryj585
      @ryj585 5 лет назад

      Pooja DP 😹😹😹...bullshit

    • @aswathi9215
      @aswathi9215 5 лет назад

      Yup. I stand with her - DP is a QUEEN

    • @sandokan0758
      @sandokan0758 5 лет назад

      Queen kis chij ki ghnte ki queen bc

  • @kemparaju416
    @kemparaju416 4 года назад +15

    To everyone who is depressed - Everything will be fine one day..Dont worry..
    Even I was depressed..But now everything is okay..Good hopes always☺

  • @deel9431
    @deel9431 5 лет назад +2

    I had depression and anxiety. I was an introvert and was not able to share what was I feeling...
    Then I met these people, today I call them "my best friends", "my tribe".. They taught me how to live. They taught me how to become a happy person. They make me feel loved. I'm grateful that I met them.
    That shy, introvert person is still there in me. I still feel anxiety.. Sometimes. But now I know, how to deal with it. Now I know, how to sleep at night. Now I know, how to pursue happiness. How?
    I've accepted myself. I've forgiven myself. I love myself.

  • @sakshiarora2870
    @sakshiarora2870 5 лет назад +33

    For three years of my life, not a single day I felt the emotion of happiness. Not even for a single second. Had excitement for almost nothing.#notashamed

    • @hafs8186
      @hafs8186 3 года назад +1

      How r u now

    • @Ankitkumar-wv5qj
      @Ankitkumar-wv5qj 2 года назад

      I want to help one of my friend ,
      Can any one tell me more about this ,
      Anxiety attack duration ?
      How frequent is this ?
      How to check if its cure ,
      How i help more what should i do ?
      How much time its took ?
      Is it start again after being cured ?

  • @swatipuri8953
    @swatipuri8953 5 лет назад +23

    Yes, sometimes, it takes immense courage to accept what you are going through, and it's really helpful and motivational to see someone like you, so influential, talking about it.
    Big Thanks. 😊😊 😊😊😊

  • @supriyasharma6831
    @supriyasharma6831 3 года назад

    It is so difficult . The way she expressed was truly what you feel. Hatsoff to deepika for opening up . It is easy for people to open up now. Thanks !!

  • @maa_thangi0187
    @maa_thangi0187 4 года назад +1

    No matter how much she suffers her smile is always there. I am pretty sure she will feel better after sharing this to us. She is such a positive, supporting and brave woman. U R AN INSPIRATION!! ❤️❤️🙏😘💪

  • @omprakashsharma4360
    @omprakashsharma4360 5 лет назад +185

    Can't see her crying, Its painful

    • @fin3420
      @fin3420 5 лет назад +2

      U feel so much for someone who is a celebrity and who has everything and everyone around them.Have u evr tried to check with ur near ones if someone has the same issue??

    • @dianamary7727
      @dianamary7727 5 лет назад

      Yes 😞😞

  • @vitthaldhavale6849
    @vitthaldhavale6849 5 лет назад +8

    I'm still on medication...n living normal Happy life today... without Deepika sharing her story I doubt I could overcome it.... I have only one wish in my life that India should understand what exactly the depression is n sufferers get respect n treatment they deserve🙏#Notashamed

  • @amnaz304
    @amnaz304 5 лет назад +279

    Its really hard to explain about your depression and anxiety to the other people

  • @dr.vandanajoshi3592
    @dr.vandanajoshi3592 2 года назад +1

    Proud of you deepeka, as because of social stigma many people don't dare to say this in public, this video will definitely encourage many to come forward and to take treatment also, really great.

  • @praveenkumaars8279
    @praveenkumaars8279 5 лет назад +10

    I had also gone through that stage...#NotAshamed....now a days i have started to motivate myself.....Deepika Ur such an awesome woman..be strong be fearless be beautiful....keep smiling... my dimple queen😄😄😄

  • @anujab6163
    @anujab6163 5 лет назад +353

    What is life? It is the arrangement of senses.
    What is death? It is the disturbance in this arrangement.
    This quote, by the great Chakbast Brij Narayan is the exact meaning of depression. Depression is like a Life- in- Death situation. Once you understand this, you get stronger, detached, and emancipated. To all the victims, Please try to look at your situation like a normal mental condition, educate yourself about human psychology and stop being afraid or excessively emotional of Depression. A practical and mentally balanced approach will really help. May god Bless you all 😊

    • @AshokSharma-iy9ry
      @AshokSharma-iy9ry 5 лет назад +3

      well i don't know what depression is so i should not comment may be ..... but my problem is iam over .. means everything bec... of this i have to suffer a lot from teachers parents over laughs over excitement everything over....... o damn i have written also over lol

    • @anujab6163
      @anujab6163 5 лет назад +7

      @@AshokSharma-iy9ry You seem to be at a very young age, school may be?? It's Quite normal even in school children nowadays. But do you know the good news? The younger you are, the more vulnerable you are. Not just in getting caught up under the problem, but equally vulnerable in finding the solutions and emerging out as a much more stronger, balanced, calm and confident person. Try to search all the self help methods on internet and adopt the ones that you find comfortable. Only reading some good healing stuff ( Spiritual books like Gita and Bible) and practicing meditation can be a big saviour. So no matter how you decide to fight with it, you'll recover soon. Remember, alertness about the situation and patience are the keys. And time is the best healer. Good luck 😊

    • @jasmineworld6175
      @jasmineworld6175 5 лет назад +3

      I suffered a lot with severe depression for three times and have overcome now ....its really a big fear n very painful...life in death only....Whoever are suffering with depression anxiety...please try to calm your mind and dont stay idle always...n give some time to overcome...once the cause of depression gets minimise or gone away ...depression will also go away though most of the times it happens after a long period

    • @shareenasz5745
      @shareenasz5745 5 лет назад +1

      +Jasmine Rasa been through and I kw how it feels😕

    • @ThePals12
      @ThePals12 5 лет назад

      .

  • @AM-od1ce
    @AM-od1ce 5 лет назад +4

    So much love for you, Deepika ! 💕 Thank you for sharing your story x

  • @pragatijain1223
    @pragatijain1223 5 лет назад

    Deepika you're such a strong lady!
    kudos to you for speaking up for such a sensitive topic!
    Depression is a serious anxiety disorder and must be taken in account if someone goes through it! seeking help is the best one can do..as she said it could make the process much easier.

  • @somadas41
    @somadas41 5 лет назад +218

    It needs lot of courage to express... #NotAshamed

    • @adnanm4489
      @adnanm4489 5 лет назад +2

      Yea people like dipikaz listen everybodY; should have courage to listen and withstand comman peoplez #NotAshamed

    • @eucalyptus.sniffer
      @eucalyptus.sniffer 5 лет назад

      Esp because of how vulnerable she is being in the industry

  • @hajirazia.4714
    @hajirazia.4714 5 лет назад +9

    I think in depression the best thing is to be in a routine- to be busy most of the time.
    Deepika you have acheived so much in terms of recognizing yourself and making your own self proud. Whatever be the reason , you proved yourself that you could be bigger than your problems and to at one point have the epiphany that the solution and the ability to escape negativity, and any shackles for that matter also lies within. The remedy lies within us . For us to realize.

  • @sanghamitrasen7363
    @sanghamitrasen7363 5 лет назад +12

    To show people that everything was ok, faking smile was really exhausting.
    But I'm proud of myself😌

  • @umabugde4978
    @umabugde4978 2 года назад +2

    It's commendable that despite suffering from depression and despite knowing that this kind of interview might negatively affect her public image, she decided to be open about it just to make sure people sailing in same boat know that it's ok..and that even the rich and the famous and the powerful also go through the same, more power to her and her foundation ❤️

  • @dakshatachaudhari1622
    @dakshatachaudhari1622 5 лет назад +590

    Gone through that stage #notashamed

  • @yourstudyguide1
    @yourstudyguide1 5 лет назад +75

    Suffered from depression and even if someone would cough or even if the wind blows little stronger it felt like I am about to die and all I wanted to do was to sleep sleep sleep #notashamed

  • @priteejadhav4814
    @priteejadhav4814 5 лет назад +19

    Right now..I'm fighting against me...with my own thoughts ...I have idea what I'm going through but still I choose to just sleep ..write poems ..n sometimes cry for hours ...

  • @NitinPatil-hn3zq
    @NitinPatil-hn3zq 4 года назад +8

    Depression is feeling when u dont want suggestion u just want person who can say yes i know what u feeling and it is not a sign of weakness... u r strong and i m with u

  • @mansinawani8970
    @mansinawani8970 5 лет назад +6

    Big big shoutout to you for sharing your story...you are helping many others overcome the stigma

  • @medhagill4196
    @medhagill4196 5 лет назад +5

    " wish I could come across that person who said I know what it is " . Exactly what I could relate to. I love her 💓

    • @mbwarsi7802
      @mbwarsi7802 4 года назад

      I know wt u r going through. This will also pass on. Hv courage dear. Luv u
      Tahar si sihar si jaati hoon mahez khudkushi k naamse
      Roz najane kitne log kr jaate ise bade aaraamse
      Kayar, buzdil, looser najaane kya kya naam de dalte hain hum unhe
      Nawaz k khudko fighter ka medal badehi shaanse
      Kabhi chalna humwaar zindagi ki raah unko pathreele juton se
      Kabhi dekhna is khoobsurat duniya ko unk thedhe medhe chashmon se
      khamoshi me bhi ek cheekh sunayi deti hai jinhe
      bhari mehfil se kheench nikaalna use uski tanhayise
      Kiski nafrat se ulajh gaye ye taar zindagi ke
      Hua hai zulm ye lagataar kiski berukhise
      Ya hai bachpan k kisi haadse ki phaans chubhi hai
      Ya ghumzada hai dil kisi khwaab k adhure rah janese
      Zarur mautse zyada unhe lagta hoga dar zindagi se
      Koi apna dhondte honge wo aajaye bas kahin se
      Suno unse dher saari baatein krna hai tumhe
      Nikal lena thodasa waqt apne mashgool zindagi se
      Jab Dekho k kum hone lage uski maujudgi mehfil se
      Achanak aankhen bheeg jaye uski aansuon ki nami se
      Lakh koshish pe bhi khamoshi ko todna paye wo
      Jaan lena kisi apne ki jung hai khud apni hi bebasi se
      Thoda der tak gale lagana use bade pyar se
      Sunna uski saari baatein bade araam se
      Kahna tum akele nahi hum sath hain tumhare
      Haarne denge Hargiz nahi tumhe is khaufnaak dúlagar se
      Sihar is frightened
      Mashgool is busy
      Bebasi is helplessness
      Dúlagar is depression in Irish language

  • @shreyasaha3502
    @shreyasaha3502 4 года назад +1

    As a teenager, I was unable to understand that the world is not so nice like heaven which I would thought in my childhood, is actually polluted with corruption. It depressed me when I found my teachers, friends, even relatives are actually not supporting me. They used to hurt me a lot. It was a great depression for a 12 yr old teen. But no one even my parents heard me off, they shouted on me FOR BEING DEPRESSED. Then I found suicidal thoughts but afraid to do so. I overcame that situation myself with a great struggle.
    But I can't forget about those nightmares I used to see in the depression
    WHY DONT PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHAT DEPRESSION IS!!

  • @yuktikapoor6722
    @yuktikapoor6722 4 года назад +10

    It's very difficult to face depression and especially when your friends and family doesn't supports you ...facing the same situation.

  • @mownak245
    @mownak245 5 лет назад +30

    "I don't like the sound of an alarm" same hun

  • @shreyaz4953
    @shreyaz4953 5 лет назад +3

    It takes a great deal to speak about how you feel. To emote. To let others know and let them in. More power to you Deepika ❤️ ... To all those struggling, take control. Take care.

  • @zarlash.s05
    @zarlash.s05 4 года назад +2

    She's such a strong woman💪...The way she smiled when the tears were rolling down her cheeks shows how strong she mentally is💗... She's such an INSPIRING celebrity... THE REASON BEHIND WHY I STILL HAVEN'T GIVE UP IS ONLY HER!!! 🌟KEEP SHINING BRIGHT AND BE THE BRIGHTEST STAR IN THE SKY, DEEPIKA🌟... You really are an inspiration for billions and trillions of young people... LYSM ❤💜💙💚🧡💛

  • @bhartiverma7415
    @bhartiverma7415 4 года назад +7

    I used to cry a lot and used to love darkness around me now days also whenever I do nothing I literally go back in my past memories and start crying and try to not cry

  • @anujab6163
    @anujab6163 5 лет назад +695

    India has been the land of spiritual intelligence. We all need to get detached from the mundane fetishes and start educating ourselves with spirituality. I wish they taught me all of this in school days. But never mind, I've been a victim of depression years ago, and now have emerged out as a super confident person. Depression cannot even touch me now. Thanks to Srimad Bhagwad Gita 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @vickipedia3253
      @vickipedia3253 5 лет назад +10

      BEST comment of all!!

    • @anujab6163
      @anujab6163 5 лет назад +3

      Ryan Gosling 😊

    • @sakshigaikwad9142
      @sakshigaikwad9142 5 лет назад +15

      Its true gita is helpful for each and everything 😊 gita helped me nd my mom especially my mom she just changed after having gita nd now she look at d world differently😘luv u lord krishna😊

    • @jayashreeiyengar6237
      @jayashreeiyengar6237 5 лет назад +4

      but wt did u do..
      you can help others to overcome.
      pl tell us..

    • @anujab6163
      @anujab6163 5 лет назад +19

      @@jayashreeiyengar6237 Hi ! I would love to help you by suggesting you to read books on spirituality and human psychology. But depression (very rarely) be a severe case of clinical depression, which happens purely due to abnormal harmonal imbalances ( to people who are suffering from other chronic diseases such as severe migraine , schizophrenia etc., it is a side effect of heavy medecines ) and is prolonged. It needs proper medication and psychiatric assistance. But if the depression is purely a psychological one, time will heal it soon. You need to change your lifestyle, step out of all your comfort zones and make things interesting. Also read and listen to all the positive and healing stuffs. But remember, do not be afraid, or excessively emotional about your condition. Deal it with utmost Ease and Light heartedness. Remember that your aim is to become a source of inspiration, positivity and bliss. Take it as a responsibility. That's how you'll become unique and gain a never ending confidence.

  • @vishalsanger8053
    @vishalsanger8053 5 лет назад +45

    I think has the most beautiful smile !!😍

  • @dancer9773
    @dancer9773 4 года назад +28

    1:18 the strongest woman in the world❤️

  • @gunjadasgupta
    @gunjadasgupta 4 года назад +6

    I have been suffering for depression like so many years after my parents death in a very early age and I can’t able to understand where to start my day or what I will do to make me feel better but as you said deepika no one understand actually which is true, people can get any disease but still they don’t have that clarity of depression or what actually happen when a person going through with it ....... I am happy that I over come to that and now I have a happy life but what I have gone through that is like a nightmare ofcourse , thank you for sharing your story be strong we all love you

    • @mirasingh7428
      @mirasingh7428 3 года назад

      Even I m suffering form depression from a long time...
      Sometimes I feel why this is happening to me...
      I also desire happiness in life ..:-(

  • @makingadifference6797
    @makingadifference6797 5 лет назад +202

    I have read people's comments saying- what was the reason for her depression?? Well actually sometimes there is no reason for depression to occur and that makes it even difficult to understand as to what is happening with yourself! You think that everything is going on fine in my life but am still not feeling right...u feel nervous/ anxious/ fidgety/ don't like the company of people coz you are scared like how she said that what will happen if you breakdown before them but you don't even want to be left alone?? There is this constant fear of doom.And you look for reasons as to why this is happening-you may be doing well in your career/ have a wonderful supportive family yet you feel your gut churn so the confusion increases all the more!! This can be anxiety/ depression anything.Its a horrible feeling and it takes time and therapy for you to finally get up one day and realize just like that that everything is fine.So people who say that she is acting etc..pls don't say this!! It's a horrible horrible feeling to have..your heartbeat racing/ not able to concentrate/ always irritated as u fear people may make out something is wrong with you etc are many ways it may present.Those who don't understand what she is saying pls don't be nasty...only a person who has gone through it will understand what she is trying to say and I pray to God that none of you who are saying these mean things ever have to go through this!!

    • @rahulsood8327
      @rahulsood8327 5 лет назад +1

      # I am not ashamed,
      I have been suffering from depression from age of 12 ,it's really tough and still fighting it,
      I request you all to share your stories,how you fought depression.
      I want you to help me to fight it

    • @mria23
      @mria23 5 лет назад

      True. I've been going through severe depression and anxiety since 3 years now and there's no reason for mine. It's a mental illness. You don't need to have a particular reason to get it.

    • @mria23
      @mria23 5 лет назад +1

      @@rahulsood8327 I'm still going through it. I know it's really hard and you've held on for so long. So don't give up just yet. Keep holding onto small things. It can be anything. Your family, you're pets or any other thing important to you. I'm just surviving like that for now. I'd say music helps me a lot. I can't say I'm getting better but at least for a little while, it keeps my mind off it and helps me get through the day. I hope you find something works out for you too. I won't ask you to stay strong because I know you already are. Let's try to overcome this. I'm sure we'll succeed one day. 🙃

    • @bushramemon5769
      @bushramemon5769 5 лет назад

      @@mria23 Insha'ALLAH

    • @bushramemon5769
      @bushramemon5769 5 лет назад

      @@rahulsood8327 true

  • @NRPurvi
    @NRPurvi 5 лет назад +33

    Strong girl u deepu❤❤❤more power to u.. we r always with u.....

  • @munazzanaqvi5051
    @munazzanaqvi5051 5 лет назад

    #notashamed I have also gone through depression and had to act like everything was OK and normal, giving a smile on the outside when on the inside I was dying. It gets better and now I'm extremely happy. It takes a lot of courage to come out about this, I luv Deepika for so many reasons and this is one of them, for opening up about her problems and treating us like her family 😍❤️💕

  • @ANANYAPAYAS
    @ANANYAPAYAS 3 года назад +1

    Love yourself and speak yourself it really helps you calm down! WE CANT UNDERSTAND WHAT IDOLS GO THROUGH! The prettiest smile hide millions of heartbreaks and sadness!

  • @shrishpandey9039
    @shrishpandey9039 5 лет назад +139

    I found myself laughing but then my laughter ends with a cry, it’s almost as if my mind was punishing me for finding happiness in something, like I’m not allowed to be okay. I just felt like I’m not worth anything. I’m not good enough, I’m not smart enough, I’m not strong enough, I’m not confident enough because I am just me. I feel so hollow and sometimes I can’t figure out why. Why am I this way? What all this happened to me?
    Truth to be told, I hold in a lot. I hold in so much that sometimes I was barely able to comprehend the scattered mess inside my head. So when people ask if I’m ok I reply with “I’m fine” not because I was scared to open up but because it’s so much easier than agonizing myself by pinpointing everything that’s killing me inside.
    Every day I wake up silently praying that today will be a good day. With every step I take I whisper to myself, “I’m fine, I’m fine” , “I’m not sad, I’m not sad”, in hope that if I repeat it enough times maybe I’ll start to believe my own lies.
    They say there’s always light at the end of every tunnel. But there comes a point in life where you simply don’t care about reaching your destination anymore. When you don’t care about seeing the light because life has drained you out to the point where maintaining to stand on your own feet seems like a difficult task in itself.
    Last but not the least, Depression doesn’t own you, it doesn’t define you. It’s up to you, whether you let it consume you or you fight it. Every time life kicks you down you better stand back up and fight for your freedom, you better fight for your happiness and peace. You just need to have faith in yourself, never give up even when you want to and When you learn to have hope, faith and patience everything will work out.
    The best lesson I’ve learned in all this is that “We’ve all got both light and darkness inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on.”
    P.S. I don't think I can say that I'm completely over it (depression). There is always a fear at the back of my mind that I might have a relapse because it has been such a bad experience for me.

    • @siratk1400
      @siratk1400 5 лет назад

      Shrish Pandey Thankyou for sharing this . I am going through the same thing.

    • @vidushipaliwal2732
      @vidushipaliwal2732 5 лет назад +1

      Take care of yourself

    • @shrishpandey9039
      @shrishpandey9039 5 лет назад

      +Gurseerat Kaur Just believe in yourself n everything would get better with time ...I promise you just have Patient n calm. God will definitely help you to get out of it soon.💜

    • @MunnaMunna-il7gy
      @MunnaMunna-il7gy 5 лет назад +1

      @@shrishpandey9039 may Allah bless u..and give u complete peace..i feel very bad for u..bcoz i know meaning of depression..i pray for u in sha Allah..soon u get peace..

    • @shrishpandey9039
      @shrishpandey9039 5 лет назад

      +Munna Munna 💜Thankyou 💙

  • @tanveepareek4686
    @tanveepareek4686 5 лет назад +3

    Such an inspiration she is ❤️ more power to you Deepika! I experience the same things and I’m so glad to know that I’m not alone, so proud of you! ❤️

  • @Linaayesha
    @Linaayesha 4 года назад +23

    I’m so proud of u DEEPU 🥺❤️

  • @anusreenandy9251
    @anusreenandy9251 4 года назад

    Deepika , today you have given me a reason to look upto to you. You are seriously a idol for me now. It is not easy for anyone to come up and talk about their insecurities, vulnerabilities, sufferings. You have done a commendable job. Inspired many. Kudos to you girl 😊