It never ceases to amaze me how abusers want you to cook for them after they beat you. I will cook you a meal you will *NEVER* forget or live to tell about.
A pot of hot grits to the face and a cast iron skillet is what he needs. My ex watched me cook and never was abusive near the kitchen. He waited until I was in the bedroom or bathroom. I fought him back. He promised counseling, he cried and begged for forgiveness. I should have left after the first time. On the third time, I left. I use to have a lot of thoughts of what I should have done, but I had to tell myself at least I didn't stay, at least I got away, at least I'm alive and can say I survived domestic terrorism within my own home. I hope others get the strength to leave. It's better to speak while alive than for forensic evidence to speak for you from the grave.
Right wasn't ur fault at all but use ur experience to help others...as u did with ur comment.our voice can be a huge weapon or blessing to others queen. There's power in ur divine thoughts and words. Peace n Luv Queen
Sarah James You are right. I was a child that watched on a daily basis my father abuse my mother. Then one day BAM she knocked him out with a cast iron skillet. Everyone thought he was dead. I knew he was too mean to be dead. It didn’t stop him, it just slowed him down for awhile. But I was glad she did it.
' she should have never told him that she was leaving him she just should waited until he was not home and then packed 👆 all . ' of her things and left and never ever returned
I pray for any woman going through this. Just know that you are strong. And trouble does not last always. I went through this Physical and Verbal abuse and it does a lot of damage to you mentally and emotionally. You almost start believing in the lies. Domestic violence is not okay. If whoever truly loves you they would NEVER put theirhands on you or talk in any way too break you down .
I was in a relationship like that years ago he used to control me and beat me very badly but it got worse when i got pregnant in 94 he did not want the baby but i did so he threw me down the out side stairs and almost killed me and my baby but god and jesus saved us and the rest is history i left and never went back he is now in prison 4 life and that's where he belongs i am now back with my high school sweet heart eric and happily married thank god
I love this movie so much. I never knew my ex was this male character, all the key components were present. I am so happy you made this movie. It was meant for me to see. He wanted to destroy me, but I am bruised and not broken. I am still alive and standing .
I am like Madea that's while women need to make sure they learn how to Cook hot boiling grit's and burn his behind and a man like him is weak they will beat down a woman and run like a punk bitch from a man in all reality a women deserves to be love and respected I'm sorry she passed away but in her eyes vengeance is hers said the Lord
Such a good movie. Thanksgiving for the upload. I was im an abusive relationship at 14. It stopped at 15. He was killed (not because of me) and 30 minutes b4 he was killed he was trying to kidnap for the 3rd time. If he were alive i believe he would've killed me Throughout the abuse i told no one. I suffered in silence. I don't speak of it because he's not here to defend him self. If ur in an abusive relationship LEAVE.
You know I don't understand when an abusive man hits and beats you then they want you too fix food for them and give then give them great sex. They also want you to act as if nothing has taken place and I know for some women we try to over look the craziness. Please ladies and gentlemen if someone is abusive whether it is verbally, physically, or emotionally please get out, no one deserves to be disrespected. Great movie be blessed everyone..
Ladies never tell your abuser when you're leaving.. Always leave when they aren't around. An abuser can never take being left. Its like a shot to their ego.
Yakeema Taleem Girllll this wasn’t even apart of the script...I called myself “improvising” me and production always laughs at this part of the film lol
I just watched my friend get beat down last saturday and then he pulled a gun. Can you believe she turned against me and hit me because i wanted her to call the police/ In the end he got what he wanted. I want nothing to do with her ever,if she wants to die she will do it with him and not me around
How could you watch her get beat down first time he raised his hand to her I would have jumped in even if I got hurt.i wouldn't care if she liked it or not no one should just watch any women get beat down
Nally G she only went against you because if she agreed with you he probably would have shot her right in front of you and she would have been killed right in front of you
When your leaving a fool you pack while he's gone and then have the police assist you and your friends move you plus have a restraining order in affect
That was me 22 years ago I lost my baby got send to the hospital alot of times I was kept away from my family my grandfather used to tell me leave him he dont love u he will bury u 10 feet under he used to lock me in with my kids at the apartment there was no way out till he got home one day he forgot to lock us in he was in a hurry that he didn't lock the door I grabbed my kids and a suitcase and left I was scared till I felt safe I was hiding so he wouldn't find me but I thank God that I found a guy that I love and till this day has not put a hand on me he raised my kids as his own and loves my grandkids they call him grandpa it's funny that my kids father is missing out of seeing his grandkids grow up thank u baby jesus for putting this man in my path so sorry for being long
This is why I'm single and celibate... Guys will behave like they're your king and out of nowhere you realize he's a monster. Been there. Especially with having sickle cell disease I do my best to avoid stress of any kind... She is so beautiful!
GorgeouslyReal T.V. Sista I’m celibate as week and I’ve been single for 7 years. The last guy I was talking to was a straight creep. Singleness needs to be celebrated more.
This reminds me SO much of my ex husband.. I used to say the same thing as her.. I just make him angry. It's MY fault.. it took me awhile to realize that, it was HIS fault!! I didn't deserve his abuse, and his cheating on me!! I left.. what's crazy is that, three years after we divorced, he drowned.. crazy, huh?
Truly a great movie and sad. I totally relate to the woman in this movie and a few of the comments. I am a survivor of domestic violence and I am extremely grateful that I made it out.. Thank you and yes I agree that this film needs to be talked about and made into a full length movie.
Powerful. Thanks for this production, may God continue to bless. I shared with audience on a blog, "Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate," who are currently going through this, I am a survivor, 1996 the devil of a man tried to kill me--still standing.
I'm actually wiping my tears as I write. I swear this is one of da saddest films ive seen. I will NEVER EVER Understand nor tolerate domestic violence! This shit hurt my soul. And on god I think. No I know I would be in jail for the rest of my life! It's my life or his.
You can't say what you would have done but unless you have been there you just don't know what someone can do to you. You gonna have to find courage and love within yourself to get out. It's hard but not living is harder , feeling worthless , scared. And begin afraid to be alone it's get better when you become free again and don't have to be afraid of your own shadow anymore. U can do anything because you are beautiful just find your beauty.
I’ve been there with a daddy and 4 brothers and a gun and I was still afraid of him. If you’re silent they don’t matter. I took the abuse for over 10 years no children. The last time he hit me a light bulb went off he hit me so hard I felt I was going to die and that was the first time I fought back. I broke free from his grip and never looked back. He stalked me for over a year after. I haven’t seen him in 7 years. I’m in my 30s now. He was evil. He broke my clavicle and busted my eye all have since healed as well as my heart. He claimed he loved me but treated me like he hated me. Ladies run from it. The first time, he pushed me down for disagreeing with him and picked me up and apologized profusely. He gave me anything I wanted and when he was mad he demanded it all back. The experience was demeaning he broke my spirit, but I have it back!
No you can't you can have a husband like my 1st no telephone no car no drivers license couldn't go anywhere he controlled the money he was a very controlling person my mom found out he was hitting me and she came and picked me and the kids we went about 600 miles away
If anyone is being abused, not only physically, but also mentally, emotionally, financially, and sexually, don't continue to stay!!!!! I have been there in about every angle. Be encouraged to tell someone that you can trust. Most importantly don't tell that coward you leaving that's what makes them want to kill you or hurt you worse! Don't give them time to come home, please be already gone before he gets home to avoid the deadly rage of you leaving this hurts😢
This movie was on point my best friend got beat to death by her baby daddy because he didn't want her going to a birthday part for her mother because he convinced his self that she was hooking up with the next man her mother was turning 60
😭😢 to anyone who face this PRAY HARD and walk away its not worth it EVERYBODY don't make it out but I'm thankful i did 15 years worth of HELL jesus set me freeeeee scars thats unforgettable hate that makes u bitter but you have to forgive let go and move on its hard but you can do all things threw Christ that strengthens you i prayed my way out SIP too all that lost they life from this HELL thank you jesus for saving me
I was in a relationship like that for 5 years it hurt I keep falling for the lie on till one I made a run told my neighbor an they help me Xscape I was scared of him
Girl I use to blame myself too an try to keep us together but the truth is when a hit u there is no love he got for u , you need to leave him alone and move on in your life
I once was a victim ... I finally left the situation that was highly toxic to me. I am now a survivor that can easily open up to others an be able to talk about my past
The way I would have been on that girl afer talking about she hungry while being in my bed after i signed her! chileeeeeee everybody including the goldfish is in danger and would need to run quickly....that's violation overload!
She told her brother it only happened one time that’s all it takes is one time for her man to put his hands her and keeping her against her will , abusing her , using her and killing her and that’s what abusers do to their partners/spouse it’s sad but true at the same time.💯💯💯😂
Aight, Ik dis supposed to be serious, but when he was supposed to be slapping her, you can tell he was slapping his hand, n I COULD NOT BREEAATHHEE😂😂😂😭😭💀💀
AS A WOMAN SOMETIMES , WE HAVE STRONG OPINIONS ABOUT OTHER WOMEN RELATIONSHIPS. IT BE SO EASY TO SAY, THIS COULD NEVER BE ME. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A SICKNESS & CO DEPENDCY. WOMEN BELIEVE IN LOVE & CHANGE. IN A RELATIONSHIP MOST WOMAN BELIEVE A MAN WILL CHANGE FOR THEM. I THANK GOD I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SITUATION, BUT I PRAY FOR THE VICTIMS & SURVIVORS. ABUSE IS NEVER OK , DOESN'T MATTER IF ITS VERBAL, MENTAL or PHYSICAL. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF.
Great movie.... I am a domestic violence survivor.... It was hard to leave even when I knew he was no to or for me I stsyed ....he isolated me from my family and friends for years.... It took me to lose someone so precious to my heart for me to see what was not about... Meaning when my grandmother who raised me got sick and passed he did the unthinkable.... Showed me he would kill me then help look for my body... I got out suffered many losses but I'm still here 💜
Omg this touched my heart I've been there a time or two in my life and i got out before it got worst or me dead.... I'm still standing and a live today thank you Lord("when you heard that voice and you get that feeling in your gut you better listen cause it's telling you to go")and i did...i got out and i never looked back..
I think God every day that I never had to experience this. I’m dark and bm don’t find me attractive so I never had the chance to interact with them on a relationship level. I married out and my husband is the absolute BEST ✨
Thank you Jasmine!!! This movie will be played at my domestic violence event Saturday, May 25th 2019. And I will also use it in a class setting, there's so many lessons to be learned from this movie, thank you so much very much. Hopefully, if the Lord says the same I can fly you here to Longview Texas and help you speak
Great film to use for prevention of abuse when discussing red Flags of relationship violence!! Very well done!! Great way to talk with our youth and have the hard conversations to STOP Domestic Violence!!
I like how this girl was smarter and its hard to tell bc this guy was very respectful but he was rushing the only mistake i think she made is moving in so early and not telling him to slow down
I'm praying for whoever is going through something like this or this. No one should have to go through that and I can't imagine what it must've been like or what it is like. I just pray for your safety🤲 Inshallah
hey I did not write those scene in my writing it about a young girl who is college learning music producer creating her music . Tony Miller or someone added old with new writing. To make like theirs he was in acting school in Plymouth Michigan. all of my writing was in a Red and Black bag in it was note books of colors with lyrics and plays commericals. peoms.I have seny CeCe Winans some of them and my church .to help out with homelessiness Tony was living in his van and I offer him a place but he turned it down. those that was homeless in my family they have live in my home with me and my daughter. For years
The first sign of abuse get to stepping with out a Warning go hide get out sight. One doesn't have to say I am leaving unless you want to meet dealt. I have seen abused that led to murder at an early age. One hundred and fifty stabs just counting the ones above the chest. Hate and misery it has nothing to do with love. I'd rather be alone safe and satisfied then to be abused and used beyond recognition. Agame of light slaps and smashing nose will turn into a beat down.
Jasmine, I already knew you were amazing, but after seeing this I'm speechless. You did an amazing job. Super proud of you and all of your accomplishments.
Unless you have a heartbreaking experience, one can never understand getting hit ..and what it does to a mind ,body,and soul..I'm still feeling the effects of domestic violence..
See how nice and sweet he was to her at first. All abusers are like this; this is to get you where they want you so that he can take off his mask and reveal the true side of himself, which is a narcissistic, abusive p.o.s. This is why in the first 3 to 6 months of dating you don't move in with a man, have sex with him, let him know where you live or work, etc., so when the abusive side of the man is shown, it will be a lot easier to get away from your abuser.
Upsetting film. She was so confident, ran a business, strong,,,then slowly,,slowly, he beat he down physically, emotionally & mentally. Heartbreaking. I was in a violent relationship when I was young, for 5 years. He was quite a lot older than me. He raged at me out of jealousy. He broke my nose, tore the ligaments in my left foot, smashed my head open on a mirror, punched, kicked, & threw me around like a rag doll. I was a petite pretty young girl. I looked 10 years older than my age when I finally left him, & I still have the physical scars. But he didn’t break me. All my love, hope, strength, self worth & courage to all those who are suffering abuse right now. Please get out before they kill you. You CAN break free ❤
I like at the end when she was saying her poem that she didn't let God be the foundation in that relationship. Right Jesus is the right way and has all the answers to everything including your relationship. This is a good movie.
This topic has literally affected my life in so many ways. I was a child when I watched my father beat on my mother and I resented both of them. I couldn't understand why he would hit her and I couldn't understand why she stayed. I was in my 40's when I finally had the courage to talk about it to my Mom. It's still difficult for me to accept till this very day. I have been in a relationship with two women that were abused and I'm currently dealing with one now. I will never understand the dynamics of DV because it never happened to me but for years I've tried. I really love and care about the person that I am with - I want to spend the rest of my life with her - but I'm at the point where I want to let her go. Sometimes I feel like I will never be happy in this situation. I have to constantly prove what she means to me but I don't get the same from her. I feel like I'm being punished for the choices she made in her past. I'm tired of the in and out. Not really sure of what her and I have. I question my sanity in this relationship. I question GOD and if he really gave two fucks about good people why do things like this happen? She means EVERYTHING to me!!! I think the hardest part in all this is that if I do leave she will just look at me as just another person who didn't care. Damn. Maybe it isn't meant for me to understand. I guess it's just one of life's many lessons...
Peace Jasmine! Thank you for this jam packed short film.🙏🏽💐🙏🏽 The poetry at the end!!🤘 Domestic Abuse and the traumas that are generationally and systemically carried, inherited, exploited, indoctrinated, capitalized upon & methodically monopolized upon by the sheer perpetuation for more of the same by a mix of coercion and oppression.. 💞✨🕊✨💞
Jasmine that was deep!! And that message what you said at the end of that film was powerful. You are so beautiful and cute you did an excellent job to did a roplay of that film.
Ms. Walker are you in Delaware? I am casting a play to heighten Domestic Violence awareness and would love to speak with you. Thank you for a great short film!
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It never ceases to amaze me how abusers want you to cook for them after they beat you. I will cook you a meal you will *NEVER* forget or live to tell about.
RCKMSCKM I np that's right lol
Amen the last super
RCKMSCKM righ
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A pot of hot grits to the face and a cast iron skillet is what he needs.
My ex watched me cook and never was abusive near the kitchen. He waited until I was in the bedroom or bathroom. I fought him back. He promised counseling, he cried and begged for forgiveness. I should have left after the first time. On the third time, I left. I use to have a lot of thoughts of what I should have done, but I had to tell myself at least I didn't stay, at least I got away, at least I'm alive and can say I survived domestic terrorism within my own home. I hope others get the strength to leave. It's better to speak while alive than for forensic evidence to speak for you from the grave.
It isn't your fault, he was the problem!
Right wasn't ur fault at all but use ur experience to help others...as u did with ur comment.our voice can be a huge weapon or blessing to others queen. There's power in ur divine thoughts and words. Peace n Luv Queen
Sarah James You are right. I was a child that watched on a daily basis my father abuse my mother. Then one day BAM she knocked him out with a cast iron skillet. Everyone thought he was dead. I knew he was too mean to be dead. It didn’t stop him, it just slowed him down for awhile. But I was glad she did it.
' she should have never told him that she was leaving him she just should waited until he was not home and then packed 👆 all . ' of her things and left and never ever returned
Hot oil leaves no marks lol
I pray for any woman going through this. Just know that you are strong. And trouble does not last always. I went through this Physical and Verbal abuse and it does a lot of damage to you mentally and emotionally. You almost start believing in the lies. Domestic violence is not okay. If whoever truly loves you they would NEVER put theirhands on you or talk in any way too break you down .
I was in a relationship like that years ago he used to control me and beat me very badly but it got worse when i got pregnant in 94 he did not want the baby but i did so he threw me down the out side stairs and almost killed me and my baby but god and jesus saved us and the rest is history i left and never went back he is now in prison 4 life and that's where he belongs i am now back with my high school sweet heart eric and happily married thank god
Yes it does..
I gained weight and he called me a fat b$&#h..he beat me Monday thru Saturday...Sundays we was in the church choir singing side by side
@@letitiabetton4784 I'm worry happy for you😊
Thank u Loyal Queen ❤️❤️
@@babbieshae7779 Your so very welcome love 💕😊
I love this movie so much. I never knew my ex was this male character, all the key components were present. I am so happy you made this movie. It was meant for me to see. He wanted to destroy me, but I am bruised and not broken. I am still alive and standing .
Amen my sister!
Kalisee amen thank God
He had one time to hit me Like that he had to sleep and oh baby when he awaiting hot water
I agree..
I'm happy for you baby girl, im proud you of you that you got out before he killed.
Its sad that 1/3 women in the world die like this😞
Sierra Wastesicoot -we women are living in dangerous world😢
Yeah
Payal Shinde 👌you right
I am like Madea that's while women need to make sure they learn how to Cook hot boiling grit's and burn his behind and a man like him is weak they will beat down a woman and run like a punk bitch from a man in all reality a women deserves to be love and respected I'm sorry she passed away but in her eyes vengeance is hers said the Lord
its sad how any die to this
Ugh I got mad when he hit her and then demand for some food. 😒 He would've met his maker that night.
Evie : tbh I would of put spit hair
and other nasty things in his food and hurryed up and got all my shit and left.
Kamaira Toney Frfr
Evie : decon rat poison
Evie : i wanted to reach through my tv and choke his ass
Deedee Smith LMAO 😂😂 hell yeah!
Thank you all so much for your kind words and feedback! More short films coming soon! Be Blessed!
Witchy Princess I'm glad god keep u safe and he blessed u I'm sorry u went through this.
Jasmine Walker no problem I'm glad u made this to show people what to do or what goes on in an abusive relationship💖
Im a huge fan of you
Such a good movie. Thanksgiving for the upload. I was im an abusive relationship at 14. It stopped at 15. He was killed (not because of me) and 30 minutes b4 he was killed he was trying to kidnap for the 3rd time. If he were alive i believe he would've killed me
Throughout the abuse i told no one. I suffered in silence. I don't speak of it because he's not here to defend him self. If ur in an abusive relationship LEAVE.
Good movie. You to pretty and nice for all that bs but you a strong woman of god for trying to care..
This film needs to be talked about.
Amen
What needs to be talked about?
You know I don't understand when an abusive man hits and beats you then they want you too fix food for them and give then give them great sex. They also want you to act as if nothing has taken place and I know for some women we try to over look the craziness. Please ladies and gentlemen if someone is abusive whether it is verbally, physically, or emotionally please get out, no one deserves to be disrespected. Great movie be blessed everyone..
We women are living in a dangerous world ...... We gotta learn how to stand for ourselves ...and make ourselves enough stronger
Two thumbs up I hope this movie reaches out to a lot of my younger women
Hatin allday yes
Two thumbs up l hope
My younger woman
Ladies never tell your abuser when you're leaving.. Always leave when they aren't around. An abuser can never take being left. Its like a shot to their ego.
Ladies if you decide to go home and pack your things to leave don't go by yourself.
@@darienjones9166 that too...
She fixed this igga a plate of raw macaroni noodles. Lol😂
Lol yes I tried not to laugh at that part because its a serious subject but that shit was funny
^^^.....ah heavy hurricane ah anxiety can paralyze ya thinking proccess
😂
That's what he get lol
Hey my name is daaliyah I want to be in one of your videos
I'm was a victim but I left n became a survivor
I’m glad you left
May god bless you
My aunt was killed from domestic violence
what she went through spread all over Facebook which led to the news
12-14-18
That is so sad. I lost my dad eight days later.
Fly high 🖤
But they are in a great place it is heaven
Sorry that happen to you 🙏🙏
Sorry for your lost 😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺😭😢😖😖😪🤧
She gave him dry noodles..
Yakeema Taleem Girllll this wasn’t even apart of the script...I called myself “improvising” me and production always laughs at this part of the film lol
This is wonderful ..💗What's the name of the song your speaking to at the end...??
Yakeema Taleem LOL He deserved dog food.
ik that was a little weird but he should not have done that
Oop, wow lol 😂
I would left first time he hit me.Abuse aint love.
Lissie Chamberlain 7
Praise God u left
I use to say the same thing until it was happening to me.
Sure it is. Just a different form and different level of love.
It's not easy for some
I just watched my friend get beat down last saturday and then he pulled a gun. Can you believe she turned against me and hit me because i wanted her to call the police/ In the end he got what he wanted. I want nothing to do with her ever,if she wants to die she will do it with him and not me around
Nally G gurl basically she's Desperate Weak-minded brainwashed blind nauive Stupidddd 😐😐😐😐😐😐Af i Sweaaaaa
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Nally G some situations you just can’t help
How could you watch her get beat down first time he raised his hand to her I would have jumped in even if I got hurt.i wouldn't care if she liked it or not no one should just watch any women get beat down
Nally G she only went against you because if she agreed with you he probably would have shot her right in front of you and she would have been killed right in front of you
When your leaving a fool you pack while he's gone and then have the police assist you and your friends move you plus have a restraining order in affect
And fool doesn't need to know where All of your friends live. Change state, change jobs, change phone number change social media info. RUN RUN RUN....
Keep a shot gun.
The problem is when you have a kid with that person they search and bother because of the child😡😡
All that stuff he said to her was horrible, i would've left him and found someone better
That was me 22 years ago I lost my baby got send to the hospital alot of times I was kept away from my family my grandfather used to tell me leave him he dont love u he will bury u 10 feet under he used to lock me in with my kids at the apartment there was no way out till he got home one day he forgot to lock us in he was in a hurry that he didn't lock the door I grabbed my kids and a suitcase and left I was scared till I felt safe I was hiding so he wouldn't find me but I thank God that I found a guy that I love and till this day has not put a hand on me he raised my kids as his own and loves my grandkids they call him grandpa it's funny that my kids father is missing out of seeing his grandkids grow up thank u baby jesus for putting this man in my path so sorry for being long
This is why I'm single and celibate... Guys will behave like they're your king and out of nowhere you realize he's a monster. Been there.
Especially with having sickle cell disease I do my best to avoid stress of any kind...
She is so beautiful!
GorgeouslyReal T.V. Sista I’m celibate as week and I’ve been single for 7 years. The last guy I was talking to was a straight creep.
Singleness needs to be celebrated more.
this has a nice tyler perry vibe type acting attitude in it. i love it
I notice all abusive situations are very similar!.
They are always with black police
This reminds me SO much of my ex husband.. I used to say the same thing as her.. I just make him angry. It's MY fault.. it took me awhile to realize that, it was HIS fault!! I didn't deserve his abuse, and his cheating on me!! I left.. what's crazy is that, three years after we divorced, he drowned.. crazy, huh?
Saved By Grace -its not your fault hats off to u were brave enough...
Hope u live ur life happily
😇😇
Saved By Grace I’m in this same crap exact same things I need help to get out
vina justin go to a shelter of abused women
@@vinajustin9779 Call the DV hotline and find a DV safe house to restart your life in safety and freedom. Be prepared to go undercover.
Wow!
Truly a great movie and sad. I totally relate to the woman in this movie and a few of the comments. I am a survivor of domestic violence and I am extremely grateful that I made it out.. Thank you and yes I agree that this film needs to be talked about and made into a full length movie.
Coward, For Any Man Hiiting A Woman.No Matter What The Situation Is.Love Doesn’t Come With A Fist Or A Push Or A Bruise Cut...
So So Sad 😭😭😭
Powerful. Thanks for this production, may God continue to bless. I shared with audience on a blog, "Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate," who are currently going through this, I am a survivor, 1996 the devil of a man tried to kill me--still standing.
Wow, this is so sad. That's why it's best to stay single.
Not everyone is like that
I'm actually wiping my tears as I write. I swear this is one of da saddest films ive seen. I will NEVER EVER Understand nor tolerate domestic violence! This shit hurt my soul. And on god I think. No I know I would be in jail for the rest of my life! It's my life or his.
Nana Moretti word
You can't say what you would have done but unless you have been there you just don't know what someone can do to you. You gonna have to find courage and love within yourself to get out. It's hard but not living is harder , feeling worthless , scared. And begin afraid to be alone it's get better when you become free again and don't have to be afraid of your own shadow anymore. U can do anything because you are beautiful just find your beauty.
Raven W. I haven’t been there but I have 6 brothers and a gun
I’ve been there with a daddy and 4 brothers and a gun and I was still afraid of him. If you’re silent they don’t matter. I took the abuse for over 10 years no children. The last time he hit me a light bulb went off he hit me so hard I felt I was going to die and that was the first time I fought back. I broke free from his grip and never looked back. He stalked me for over a year after. I haven’t seen him in 7 years. I’m in my 30s now. He was evil. He broke my clavicle and busted my eye all have since healed as well as my heart. He claimed he loved me but treated me like he hated me. Ladies run from it. The first time, he pushed me down for disagreeing with him and picked me up and apologized profusely. He gave me anything I wanted and when he was mad he demanded it all back. The experience was demeaning he broke my spirit, but I have it back!
Thank you for those words
U cant say that unless u going through love will blind u to reality.
No you can't you can have a husband like my 1st no telephone no car no drivers license couldn't go anywhere he controlled the money he was a very controlling person my mom found out he was hitting me and she came and picked me and the kids we went about 600 miles away
I thank God my mom is still here she went through this for over 20 years
If anyone is being abused, not only physically, but also mentally, emotionally, financially, and sexually, don't continue to stay!!!!! I have been there in about every angle. Be encouraged to tell someone that you can trust. Most importantly don't tell that coward you leaving that's what makes them want to kill you or hurt you worse! Don't give them time to come home, please be already gone before he gets home to avoid the deadly rage of you leaving this hurts😢
always alright already stay safe anyway angry anger day Gnight angle 📐
This movie was on point my best friend got beat to death by her baby daddy because he didn't want her going to a birthday part for her mother because he convinced his self that she was hooking up with the next man her mother was turning 60
Kimberley Kennedy omg
I m so sorry for ur loss its so sad
Wow sorry for ur loss
I'm sorry too. I hope he suffers for a long time....in the mind.
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
😭😢 to anyone who face this PRAY HARD and walk away its not worth it EVERYBODY don't make it out but I'm thankful i did 15 years worth of HELL jesus set me freeeeee scars thats unforgettable hate that makes u bitter but you have to forgive let go and move on its hard but you can do all things threw Christ that strengthens you i prayed my way out SIP too all that lost they life from this HELL thank you jesus for saving me
Why would she wait until he come let him see her packing. Never let them know you're leaving just up and disappear
She wasn't sure she wanted to leave she kept blaming herself for making him angry.
I totally agree 👍
I've been there did that
This is what happened in my last relationship. My ex did all of those things to me. I almost died. I thank god that I’m alive from this day on.
Girl you have done a outstanding job with this....Great job to all the cast members
#I'm Bruised but Not Broken.
Thank you for your inspirational video💙
The first time she might get lucky the second time she might end up in the hospital and the third time she might end up in a Cemetery
THIS NEEDS TO BE ON BET CUZ THEY CLEARLY DONT KNOW WAT TALENT IS💪💪🔥🔥🙆💁💁👏
Sharon H what now? The acting was horrible
wow, you are an amazing writer, actress, poet, etc. this actually moved me, please make more pieces of artwork like this...
To be a short film it was tearful I love it
This was sad but it gives us a lesson and it speaks the truth.....I was almost in tears abuse is not right😢😢😢
Beautiful summery at the end.Love does't hurt!
I was in a relationship like that for 5 years it hurt I keep falling for the lie on till one I made a run told my neighbor an they help me Xscape I was scared of him
I was married for 15 years ..he abused me and cheated on me..Thank God I finally got the strength to leave
Girl I use to blame myself too an try to keep us together but the truth is when a hit u there is no love he got for u , you need to leave him alone and move on in your life
I once was a victim ... I finally left the situation that was highly toxic to me. I am now a survivor that can easily open up to others an be able to talk about my past
The way I would have been on that girl afer talking about she hungry while being in my bed after i signed her! chileeeeeee everybody including the goldfish is in danger and would need to run quickly....that's violation overload!
Frfr that whole scene was a comedy🙄
I would have whooped her ass if she was to ever talk to me like that
Tony would have got his ass beat the very first time he even raised his hand up to do anything believe that
It’s sad how many women go through this situation and some don’t come out alive it’s very sad this is a very good short film
What goes around comes around
You forgot back "What goes around comes back around"
She told her brother it only happened one time that’s all it takes is one time for her man to put his hands her and keeping her against her will , abusing her , using her and killing her and that’s what abusers do to their partners/spouse it’s sad but true at the same time.💯💯💯😂
Aight, Ik dis supposed to be serious, but when he was supposed to be slapping her, you can tell he was slapping his hand, n I COULD NOT BREEAATHHEE😂😂😂😭😭💀💀
Headassery Jones lmao 😭😭😭
Headassery Jones 😂😂😂😂 u play toooo much
Headassery Jones its acting of course he wouldn't really hit her
Headassery Jones 😂
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AS A WOMAN SOMETIMES ,
WE HAVE STRONG OPINIONS ABOUT OTHER WOMEN RELATIONSHIPS.
IT BE SO EASY TO SAY, THIS COULD NEVER BE ME.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A SICKNESS & CO DEPENDCY.
WOMEN BELIEVE IN LOVE & CHANGE. IN A RELATIONSHIP MOST WOMAN BELIEVE A MAN WILL CHANGE FOR THEM.
I THANK GOD I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SITUATION, BUT I PRAY FOR THE VICTIMS & SURVIVORS.
ABUSE IS NEVER OK , DOESN'T MATTER IF ITS VERBAL, MENTAL or PHYSICAL. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF.
Great movie.... I am a domestic violence survivor.... It was hard to leave even when I knew he was no to or for me I stsyed ....he isolated me from my family and friends for years.... It took me to lose someone so precious to my heart for me to see what was not about... Meaning when my grandmother who raised me got sick and passed he did the unthinkable.... Showed me he would kill me then help look for my body... I got out suffered many losses but I'm still here 💜
I'm glad you got out.
Omg this touched my heart I've been there a time or two in my life and i got out before it got worst or me dead.... I'm still standing and a live today thank you Lord("when you heard that voice and you get that feeling in your gut you better listen cause it's telling you to go")and i did...i got out and i never looked back..
I think God every day that I never had to experience this. I’m dark and bm don’t find me attractive so I never had the chance to interact with them on a relationship level. I married out and my husband is the absolute BEST ✨
Thank you Jasmine!!! This movie will be played at my domestic violence event Saturday, May 25th 2019. And I will also use it in a class setting, there's so many lessons to be learned from this movie, thank you so much very much. Hopefully, if the Lord says the same I can fly you here to Longview Texas and help you speak
Saturday May 25th 2019 yr old school
much very much says hi
Great film to use for prevention of abuse when discussing red Flags of relationship violence!! Very well done!! Great way to talk with our youth and have the hard conversations to STOP Domestic Violence!!
Looove!!! My new fav short film 💕
Thank You!
Same girl I watch this film more then once
I like how this girl was smarter and its hard to tell bc this guy was very respectful but he was rushing the only mistake i think she made is moving in so early and not telling him to slow down
Thank you for sharing this movie, that man was terrible but people need to see this and let these abusive men go.
Thank you for sharing
I'm praying for whoever is going through something like this or this. No one should have to go through that and I can't imagine what it must've been like or what it is like. I just pray for your safety🤲 Inshallah
Ok Jasmine!!! I see you girl!!! Great job!!!
hey I did not write those scene in my writing it about a young girl who is college learning music producer creating her music . Tony Miller or someone added old with new writing. To make like theirs he was in acting school in Plymouth Michigan. all of my writing was in a Red and Black bag in it was note books of colors with lyrics and plays commericals. peoms.I have seny CeCe Winans some of them and my church .to help out with homelessiness Tony was living in his van and I offer him a place but he turned it down. those that was homeless in my family they have live in my home with me and my daughter. For years
DontTripISaidIt good actor
The first sign of abuse get to stepping with out a Warning go hide get out sight. One doesn't have to say I am leaving unless you want to meet dealt. I have seen abused that led to murder at an early age. One hundred and fifty stabs just counting the ones above the chest. Hate and misery it has nothing to do with love. I'd rather be alone safe and satisfied then to be abused and used beyond recognition. Agame of light slaps and smashing nose will turn into a beat down.
Jasmine, I already knew you were amazing, but after seeing this I'm speechless. You did an amazing job. Super proud of you and all of your accomplishments.
Unless you have a heartbreaking experience, one can never understand getting hit ..and what it does to a mind ,body,and soul..I'm still feeling the effects of domestic violence..
Moral of the story is , ABUSE ISN’T LOVE!
this was eye opening
I keep a gun and make that be known from jump....never misunderstand me!!lol
This was me for 6 months it ended two months ago and for me to only be 18 experiencing it I really felt less of a young woman
Gd movie, thanks for sharing
Thank you!
Chuck up the duces ✌🏾the first time
See how nice and sweet he was to her at first. All abusers are like this; this is to get you where they want you so that he can take off his mask and reveal the true side of himself, which is a narcissistic, abusive p.o.s. This is why in the first 3 to 6 months of dating you don't move in with a man, have sex with him, let him know where you live or work, etc., so when the abusive side of the man is shown, it will be a lot easier to get away from your abuser.
Upsetting film. She was so confident, ran a business, strong,,,then slowly,,slowly, he beat he down physically, emotionally & mentally. Heartbreaking. I was in a violent relationship when I was young, for 5 years. He was quite a lot older than me. He raged at me out of jealousy. He broke my nose, tore the ligaments in my left foot, smashed my head open on a mirror, punched, kicked, & threw me around like a rag doll. I was a petite pretty young girl. I looked 10 years older than my age when I finally left him, & I still have the physical scars. But he didn’t break me. All my love, hope, strength, self worth & courage to all those who are suffering abuse right now. Please get out before they kill you. You CAN break free ❤
The breatings was bad enough but then to have another woman there... It would have been some grease heating on the stove!
I like at the end when she was saying her poem that she didn't let God be the foundation in that relationship. Right Jesus is the right way and has all the answers to everything including your relationship. This is a good movie.
Beautiful spoken word piece at the end!
Oh boy !!!🤬🤬
Let the first time be the last time,know your worth
save yourself no one else will
Where the full movie at
Great job on your roll 😍love the movie
You nailed it on how they real life act and what they say.... you did amazing
I have been searching for this in years and this is the right one
Bruh she to pretty for all dat
Good job girl
This topic has literally affected my life in so many ways. I was a child when I watched my father beat on my mother and I resented both of them. I couldn't understand why he would hit her and I couldn't understand why she stayed. I was in my 40's when I finally had the courage to talk about it to my Mom. It's still difficult for me to accept till this very day. I have been in a relationship with two women that were abused and I'm currently dealing with one now. I will never understand the dynamics of DV because it never happened to me but for years I've tried. I really love and care about the person that I am with - I want to spend the rest of my life with her - but I'm at the point where I want to let her go. Sometimes I feel like I will never be happy in this situation. I have to constantly prove what she means to me but I don't get the same from her. I feel like I'm being punished for the choices she made in her past. I'm tired of the in and out. Not really sure of what her and I have. I question my sanity in this relationship. I question GOD and if he really gave two fucks about good people why do things like this happen? She means EVERYTHING to me!!! I think the hardest part in all this is that if I do leave she will just look at me as just another person who didn't care. Damn. Maybe it isn't meant for me to understand. I guess it's just one of life's many lessons...
I love this 😍
Thanks for watching!
Jasmine Walker I love you
Thank You For Your Support!
Peace Jasmine! Thank you for this jam packed short film.🙏🏽💐🙏🏽
The poetry at the end!!🤘
Domestic Abuse and the traumas that are generationally and systemically carried, inherited, exploited, indoctrinated, capitalized upon & methodically monopolized upon by the sheer perpetuation for more of the same by a mix of coercion and oppression..
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u have talent girl
Thank you!
Deep and touching! I pray that any woman or any man, seal a way out of that. Domestic toxicness!!
Love that song by Eve love is blind . Eve's song describes women in a abusive relationship
Jasmine that was deep!! And that message what you said at the end of that film was powerful. You are so beautiful and cute you did an excellent job to did a roplay of that film.
She gave that man some uncooked rice 🍚 🤣🤣😂
The sad reality of this is that most domestic violence incidents are never reported. We need to start standing up for each other and do what is right.
Exactly
Ms. Walker are you in Delaware? I am casting a play to heighten Domestic Violence awareness and would love to speak with you. Thank you for a great short film!
Thank you for your support! I would love to be apart of this. Please send me an email at jasminejeniawalker@gmail.com.
I love your music, films, and overall message in your art. Keep going girl. You’re very inspiring!
that so true for the woman out there get out and stand up
29:20 How they got an ice pack ready like they knew she was coming
Sanaa Forever I thought I was the only 1 noticed😂
Angela Nov Williams Lol foreal tho like where the heck did that icepack come from
Sanaa Forever She probably put ice in the bag then gave it to her
You must respect yourself.Its extremely selfish to get pregnant by a person like this.
You clearly do not understand!!