Colors of Tobi: Being Transgender in Hungary

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  • Опубликовано: 20 апр 2024
  • There is a tiny village in Hungary, where Éva and her family live. Her 16-year-old child recently came out as transgender and lives by his chosen name of Tobi. After the initial shock, the whole family comes together to support him.
    However, Éva is quietly suffocating from the idea of losing the girl she was raising. Tobi is determined to become a man biologically, all while he struggles growing up. Éva is trying hard to be the mother her son needs, while Tobi starts questioning the boundaries he set up for himself as a transgender man.
    'Colors of Tobi' is an emotional tale of releasing and accepting.
    Director: Alexa Bakony
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Комментарии • 222

  • @_ArsNova
    @_ArsNova 20 дней назад +71

    Sorry but gender is determined by genetics, not feelings.

    • @danielbetancur1250
      @danielbetancur1250 20 дней назад +1

      Biology is, not gender. Read a book

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 20 дней назад +9

      ​@danielbetancur1250 Gender is still fundamentally predicated on sex, otherwise, it would just be called aesthetics. You read a book.

    • @teloiiv
      @teloiiv 20 дней назад +1

      Biology, not genetics. Did you inherit your gender in your genes?

    • @_ArsNova
      @_ArsNova 20 дней назад +5

      @@teloiiv Your gender, like every trait that determines who you are, stems from your DNA. I.e. your genetic makeup. I never claimed gender was hereditary.

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 20 дней назад +2

      This is not about feelings, it's identity. And also, gender is not determined by genetics, nonetheless.

  • @robbyg229
    @robbyg229 20 дней назад +97

    Good job getting an unsubscribe from me

    • @techcafe0
      @techcafe0 20 дней назад +21

      adios, you won't be missed

    • @DesaDonalba
      @DesaDonalba 20 дней назад +8

      @@techcafe0 who cares what woke people will felt or not? ;D

    • @dewetmaartens359
      @dewetmaartens359 20 дней назад +10

      Me too, I'm out.

    • @DaStarrchild
      @DaStarrchild 20 дней назад +5

      Werd we out

    • @66kbm
      @66kbm 20 дней назад

      Ditto, ignore the fuckwits comments.

  • @dylendog
    @dylendog 18 дней назад +10

    You can identify what ever but it doesn't change reality

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад +1

      Who's reality? God's?

    • @dylendog
      @dylendog 18 дней назад +3

      @@purple6188 go milk a bull and see for yourself

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад +2

      @@dylendog Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

    • @guacanememoya2045
      @guacanememoya2045 17 дней назад

      @@purple6188 Sounds like you're the one who's hurt, born in the wrong body perhaps? 🤡

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 День назад

      Which is that transgender people are valid.
      and no not-see transphobe can change that reality.

  • @Oz1991
    @Oz1991 20 дней назад +28

    Narcism and obsession is what I see to be honest. Or am I crazy?

  • @editkarpati6587
    @editkarpati6587 20 дней назад +3

    Nagyon rendesek a szülők...! Csak még ne bánják ezek a gyerekek egyszer a nem átalakítását.

    • @madmax6827
      @madmax6827 19 дней назад

      Rendesek? Inkabb bolondok.

  • @user-mp9rd4hg8b
    @user-mp9rd4hg8b 20 дней назад +35

    I thought this was Vice media for a minute there.

  • @LacikaErdely94
    @LacikaErdely94 20 дней назад +22

    Bárki bármit próbál magyarázni ez nem normális dolog..... Valami valamikor nagyon félre ment gyermekkorban. Keressetek szakembert aki segít. Minden embert tisztelni kell de ez teljesen szembe megy az evolúcióval...... Sérült emberek ezek. Jobbulást kívánok nekük 🤘

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад +1

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

  • @eeweeweew
    @eeweeweew 14 дней назад +1

    This film is from 2021, and most of it seems to be filmed before 2020. It got way worse since then, I hope he is doing well!

  • @teloiiv
    @teloiiv 20 дней назад +10

    I don't understand why some transgender people get upset so easily, not understanding that people have to get used to it. When in 17:43 Tobi is upset because his mom called him "Jazmin" is inlogical to me. They were clearly talking about a situation that happened in the past, so it was normal for his mom to say "we used to say Jazmin, not it" because then it was in fact, Jazmin. Parents also have to deal with a lot when their child is changing their whole appearance, name and getting a sex change when they were living years with a whole different person

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 20 дней назад +8

      It's because this is about power and attention. These people don't actually believe they are the opposite gender.

    • @teloiiv
      @teloiiv 20 дней назад +4

      @@DogratDavis I believe some people really feel like other gender, a friend of mine is trans as well, but he acts normally, but I do agree about attention when it comes to some people

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 20 дней назад

      ​@@DogratDavisplease learn science and biology, how your gender identity and body has been developed. Gender and human biology is very complicated, and trans, enby, genderqueer, or such is very legit thing in terms of science

    • @MikasTinyLife
      @MikasTinyLife 19 дней назад +2

      As a transman, I NEVER got upset. These things take time. People around me got scared when they accidentally did it wrong and were so surprised when I wasn't mad. I'm on hormones now, and it has never happened since as I now pass and look completely male

    • @Kiz-0
      @Kiz-0 18 дней назад

      Because being called your old name or gender is physically painful. it may not seem like it but it feels like being stabbed in the chest. on top of the depressive state.

  • @godzilladepressivo9
    @godzilladepressivo9 20 дней назад +11

    A cara de decepção dos pais 😂

  • @dionysise5008
    @dionysise5008 20 дней назад +27

    Being a clown 🤡

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 День назад

      tsphobes be like

  • @eefjeharings9692
    @eefjeharings9692 19 дней назад +6

    all the snowflakes in the comment section are so offended when someone just wants to live his life

    • @bahrom942
      @bahrom942 19 дней назад

      Not just living, they are contagious, these tiny minority being pushed in media, turn on TV, most likely you gonna see gay parents or non binary person as main actors in films and even cartoons

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад

      @@bahrom942 I'll bet you can condense your comment to 2 words or less and still get your opinion out there for others to read. Give it a try.

  • @muhammadshafi5084
    @muhammadshafi5084 20 дней назад +90

    Not good for society

    • @RabbitWatchShop
      @RabbitWatchShop 20 дней назад +16

      Your hate isn’t good for society

    • @okilydokily
      @okilydokily 20 дней назад +21

      @@RabbitWatchShop Your brain is mush

    • @RabbitWatchShop
      @RabbitWatchShop 20 дней назад +6

      @@okilydokily replace “Your” with My, and you’ll have an accurate comment.

    • @jule3480
      @jule3480 20 дней назад +12

      @@RabbitWatchShop. I don’t care what an adult chooses to be. But what has upset me as a women is elevating men identifying as women OVER women.
      I see it in sports, change rooms and bathrooms.
      Transgender women should not compete against biological women. The two sports men/ boys and women/gils exist because the male sex is physically stronger/ faster than females, end of story.
      The bathroom/ change room, I’ll just say I would NEVER choose to be in a state of vulnerability of being partially or fully undressed in an enclosed room with a strange man in such a setting. Especially as I have been physically assaulted by a man in my past.
      I wish people who call women against shared spaces “ transphobia “ would also consider that something like one in three women/girls have experienced some form of abuse and how it makes us feel.

    • @RabbitWatchShop
      @RabbitWatchShop 20 дней назад +5

      @@jule3480 I’m trans and 100 💯 percent agree with your statements, and often state all that in opposition to my own community.

  • @DogratDavis
    @DogratDavis 20 дней назад +32

    Why do they all look, act, talk, and dress the same, no matter which country? It's almost like it's an internet based social contagion.

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 20 дней назад +2

      It's just because you don't know them in real life, people obviously avoid you if you're also acting such a netizen thing in real life

    • @patrickmunneke8348
      @patrickmunneke8348 19 дней назад +4

      That's exactly what it is. A social contagion.

    • @deidresable
      @deidresable 19 дней назад

      Yep they all the same in every country

    • @bahrom942
      @bahrom942 19 дней назад

      ​@@user-wh2oy2ul1qoh mate wait till pride Month, you see weirdos walking with stupid dresses even naked.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

  • @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death
    @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death 19 дней назад +5

    This is clinic case, need a doctor. Parents suffer.. but this human simply playing with them. Narcism on high level.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад +1

      Why the muddled word salad?

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 День назад

      transphobia is the new not-see-zem. it actually is part of the not-see ideology.
      Narcism on high level indeed, check yourself notsee transphobe

  • @kopisatu14482
    @kopisatu14482 20 дней назад

    Wow 🤭

  • @ShellyGODS-CHILD
    @ShellyGODS-CHILD 20 дней назад +2

    Colors of Legions

  • @lotuspocus76312
    @lotuspocus76312 20 дней назад +6

    I was waiting for a physical change of Tobi due to male hormones...but I only see a female wearing oversized clothes - who has got a name and sex change on documents.
    I work with someone who is a male now and was a female before. Very nice dude. Its just....the dude I work with takes hormones and has a beard.

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 День назад

      I mean, that's a child and thats how it starts. reversable things first, to see if you really want that.

  • @TAKEALONGLINE.
    @TAKEALONGLINE. 20 дней назад +6

    Walking Fairy Floss. 😅

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 День назад

      Oh no, someone with colored hair. :O

  • @thecognitivedissonant3606
    @thecognitivedissonant3606 19 дней назад +1

    Nobody is asking what the common factors are among these youth that might be causing the body-brain disconnect and mismatch in self-perception. Is it chemical, hormonal, societal, injections, there is more to this phenomena. Individually they perceive it as their unique truth, but the statistics are alarming. On reddit alone there are more than 30k "detransitioners" who suffer varying degrees of permanent changes and other sorts of harm by what is happening. 😢 They need compassion and for us to fight to protect and help them

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 19 дней назад +1

      Why the muddled word salad?

  • @aguianegra2752
    @aguianegra2752 20 дней назад +4

    As cores do toba: pseudociência na Hungria

  • @jededge
    @jededge 19 дней назад +10

    such a small minority of people forcing there views on children , telling my kids to be gay is ok, straight is great, keep your views to yourself

    • @bahrom942
      @bahrom942 19 дней назад

      The reason they target on our children is because they can't have any.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад

      @@bahrom942 Who's 'They'?

    • @romans1450
      @romans1450 16 дней назад

      @@purple6188 You know and you're shaking, everyone knows "they" degenerate societies.

    • @guacanememoya2045
      @guacanememoya2045 15 дней назад

      @@purple6188 🤡

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 День назад

      yes, the not-see minority, as usual harassing lgbt people.

  • @user-zy7kn6ep1o
    @user-zy7kn6ep1o 20 дней назад +1

    Сколько живут такие люди после тотальной операции?

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад +1

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

    • @valm9462
      @valm9462 День назад

      Well I had mine about 8 years ago, but I waited long. I live as female for like 15 years.
      But it depends, girl.

  • @babayaga8514
    @babayaga8514 20 дней назад +15

    I'm just reading these mean comments and keep thinking about one thing: are you guys okay? So much hate from ppl who are not well-educated on the topic. Trans people don't hate on anyone, so why would you?
    Btw I used to know Tobi for a short time when we were in the same high school and he is a good person with a big heart.

    • @semedrisstouda4676
      @semedrisstouda4676 20 дней назад

      كان ذو زوك كبير

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 20 дней назад

      "Well educated on the topic" is just code for indoctrinated on this topic. There is no actual education to be had on gender. Transgenderism is a cult centered around queer aesthetics.
      And yes, all they do is go on the internet and hate.

    • @mikeymike1981
      @mikeymike1981 20 дней назад +4

      So saying what you don’t agree with is hate? No body wished any hurt on him.

    • @user-wh2oy2ul1q
      @user-wh2oy2ul1q 20 дней назад

      ​@@mikeymike1981Okay because you are on behalf of everybody

    • @eeweeweew
      @eeweeweew 14 дней назад

      Do you know how he is doing now? This film is from 2021 and I am worried for any transgender person still living in Hungary.

  • @tyrondeklerk8489
    @tyrondeklerk8489 19 дней назад +3

    my eyes aaaaargggggggggg my eyes

  • @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death
    @The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death 19 дней назад +4

    Only♀️and ♂️

  • @Prod_Edits1
    @Prod_Edits1 20 дней назад +2

    A Tobi não conseguiu mudar de nome, que tragédia 😭😭🤧🎉

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад

      Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

  • @user-lj4nj6hq6z
    @user-lj4nj6hq6z 19 дней назад +1

    В ПЕЧЬ!

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 19 дней назад +1

      После Вас!

    • @user-lj4nj6hq6z
      @user-lj4nj6hq6z 19 дней назад

      @@purple6188 НЕ ДОЖДЕШЬСЯ.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 19 дней назад +1

      @@user-lj4nj6hq6z Жертва Отдел. На что вы жалуетесь?

  • @dunciukasas
    @dunciukasas 17 дней назад +1

    Image being a dad and leaving this as your legacy after you are gone. hahaha

  • @user-wm2zy5nk1i
    @user-wm2zy5nk1i 19 дней назад +6

    Расчеловечевание подростков, все это от сатаны

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад +1

      Satan isn't real.

    • @dylendog
      @dylendog 18 дней назад

      @@purple6188 keep going and thinking that way and sure you'll know

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 18 дней назад +1

      ​@@dylendog Are you threatening me DylenDoggieStyle?
      Next time, keep your hate-filled comments to 2 words or less. Your opinions don't stand for much anyway.
      DylenDoggieStyle, you need to update your moniker. LOL. Peace.

  • @simpletownworx
    @simpletownworx 19 дней назад

    Always here. Always will be! ❤🏳️‍⚧️

  • @liledionbrown8507
    @liledionbrown8507 19 дней назад +3

    Amazing family !!!! 😍 communication is the key to understanding !!! Thats evolution !!! LOVE AND RESPECT ✌🏼
    So sad and pathetic to read hatefull comments ….
    Those people have no f****king lives !!
    I hope those haters dont have kids because ignorance is one hell of a problem espacially when its transmited from the familly !!

    • @guacanememoya2045
      @guacanememoya2045 17 дней назад

      What about love and respect to a different opinion?

  • @purple6188
    @purple6188 19 дней назад +4

    Very good documentary. Tobi is a nice young man. He's got really good parents. Cherish them as long as you can. Once they're gone, the world becomes a very lonely place.
    Oh, anyone with a "just my opinion" bag of words that attack, belittle, dehumanize and outright call for voilence, hatred, intolorance or you "have some advice", just keep it to yourself. Pray to God for you and your love ones. Focus on becoming the best possible human being you can be. Earn your place in heaven. Prove to God you deserve to be there.

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 19 дней назад +4

      It's very telling that you cleverly try to equate anyone who dares to voice an opinion on a social movement with calling for violence by lumping all those categories together. You should work on your own intolerance of diversity, and your own relationship with God.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 19 дней назад +2

      @@DogratDavis We know each other so well. God and I see your hatred for Tobi and his family. You see God and me as purveyers of acceptence. Heaven is not for you.

    • @romans1450
      @romans1450 16 дней назад

      @@purple6188 Psalm 139:21
      King James Version
      21 Do not I hate them, O Lord, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee?
      No one "Earns heaven" false preacher with a malicious cloak of "love". No ones proves to God that they deserve to be there, we were all sinners saved by Jesus by faith.
      You mistake love for tolerance very dangerous teaching, not everything goes. Who are you to say heaven is not for him, if he trust in Jesus Christs finished work on the cross + nothing - nothing he is saved. Pharisee.
      Also
      Deuteronomy 22:5
      King James Version
      5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are unto the Lord thy God.

    • @purple6188
      @purple6188 16 дней назад +1

      @@romans1450 Do me and God a favor. Keep your opinions to 1 word or less. Your muddled word salad doesn't say anything intelligible.

  • @flora9069
    @flora9069 20 дней назад +11

    Its nice to see supportive loving parents 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

  • @anasyare5815
    @anasyare5815 19 дней назад +2

    Good Documentary

  • @user-hi1et2tb5u
    @user-hi1et2tb5u 20 дней назад +3

    I think what happen is we are the oppesite sex in our last lives and still hold on to the association.

    • @DogratDavis
      @DogratDavis 20 дней назад +3

      The same people who make fun of religion and praying to flying Spaghetti monsters all suddenly treat gender like it's a supernatural force and believe in souls and past lives

    • @user-hi1et2tb5u
      @user-hi1et2tb5u 20 дней назад

      @@DogratDavis Religion is a form of control,I believe in God but not Bullshit from man.I barely trust my self TBH.

    • @firstdirst5519
      @firstdirst5519 20 дней назад

      weak shit

  • @Tata-gx3ni
    @Tata-gx3ni 11 дней назад

    мама терпения и еще раз терпения!! с таким чудом а чуду надо психиатора и голову лечить

  • @harisfadiell269
    @harisfadiell269 19 дней назад +2

    Az egyik legundorítóbb dokumentumfilm, nem érdemes megnézni azoknak, akiknek még egészséges az agya 🤮🤮

  • @kissdani1911
    @kissdani1911 17 дней назад +1

    Egy lányt vesztettünk el a woke miatt!!! Mindet ki fogom írtani!!!! Nemzetiszocialista Magyarországot!!!!!

  • @peterpresser8151
    @peterpresser8151 14 дней назад +1

    This is the worst documentary i ever watched 👎🏼

  • @pterks911
    @pterks911 16 дней назад

    🤮🤮

  • @user-wn8ot8gt6c
    @user-wn8ot8gt6c 16 дней назад

    انحرافكم شيئ مقزز فعلا

  • @israel_started_it_ALL_in_1948
    @israel_started_it_ALL_in_1948 19 дней назад +2

    oh. ok

  • @luca_mos
    @luca_mos 19 дней назад +1

    🤡🤡🤡🤡