Quadriplegic Bowel Program and Morning Routine

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @peterpiper0002
    @peterpiper0002 6 лет назад +812

    after seeing this i'll never complain about my Morning Routine ever again, major props to your mum and dad

    • @christinenjogu
      @christinenjogu 6 лет назад +13

      i thought so too.. I'll stop complaining about small stuff

    • @callalilly5697
      @callalilly5697 4 года назад +4

      Or my night routine, for that matter.

  • @sowhatdowop
    @sowhatdowop 6 лет назад +360

    Mom of the century! Zack, you are blessed with an amazing family.

    • @jatinhooda4055
      @jatinhooda4055 6 лет назад +6

      wittywop This won't be possible without his father too. He has to work to support both of them.

  • @leonardgado1152
    @leonardgado1152 6 лет назад +1569

    I was touched how your mother take care of you, how your father lifts you that morning, your friend who awaits you in the car and most of all to the dog who follows you until you get in the car, I'm crying.

    • @jadduck
      @jadduck 6 лет назад +7

      "I'm crying"
      Damn... there really are some true fragile snowflakes on YT lmao.

    • @Amberussianbeauty
      @Amberussianbeauty 6 лет назад +8

      Leonard Gado aww I know, this just gives me hope

    • @leonardgado1152
      @leonardgado1152 6 лет назад +24

      only people with a kindhearted will understand the meaning of IM CRYING

    • @leonardgado1152
      @leonardgado1152 6 лет назад +5

      Ignore those negative peoples

    • @Horsewoman725
      @Horsewoman725 6 лет назад +2

      🙏🏽💕

  • @thisiszai2045
    @thisiszai2045 4 года назад +71

    No one can take a mother's place.
    Bless her and you.

  • @TomRipley7350
    @TomRipley7350 6 лет назад +6688

    You guys are amazing. Your mom is a hero.

    • @Pogo-Adventures
      @Pogo-Adventures 6 лет назад +45

      Tom Ripley no hero. just a mom.

    • @thefemalien7764
      @thefemalien7764 6 лет назад +99

      Meg Allen
      You think it's easy to do this every day? I am sure there is a lot of love involved but you're playing it down way too much, making it seem normal. Even when she's his mom, it's a thing not every mom would be able to or would want to handle.
      Maybe not a hero but definitely more than just a mom.

    • @jpbaugh
      @jpbaugh 6 лет назад +60

      The Alien I think Meg was actually trying to say that the love a mom has is super powerful. :)

    • @berniegasper7442
      @berniegasper7442 6 лет назад +11

      i think u cannot do it without wonderwom...ur mom

    • @thefemalien7764
      @thefemalien7764 6 лет назад +10

      John Baugh
      Maybe you're right. But it's the word "just" that triggered my reaction. Usually it's used to say that "xxxx" isn't anything special so no need to make it bigger than needed. But I could be completely wrong indeed
      Thanks for making me see an alternative option 🙂

  • @nancypeteja6560
    @nancypeteja6560 6 лет назад +955

    Thank you for posting this. It helps people understand both sides of being handicap. You are a gem. Your family is so loving. 💖

    • @Lucy-qe3vp
      @Lucy-qe3vp 6 лет назад +1

      +James Feliciano hi there we can say specially or differently abled persons tho. sounds a lot better IMHO

    • @WorkB24
      @WorkB24 6 лет назад +4

      I was wondering do you get funding for lifts and ceiling track? I think it's strong for your mom to lift you but maybe the lift can help with that load?

    • @pkrbkr01
      @pkrbkr01 6 лет назад +1

      WHAT ABOUT CRIPPLED?

    • @nancypeteja6560
      @nancypeteja6560 6 лет назад +1

      Thank you! Sorry for miss speaking. I think this kind of video really does help us understand better. And it is always important to ASK questions.

    • @masonsmama25
      @masonsmama25 6 лет назад +4

      bombo longkumer Many individuals with disabilities find it slightly offensive/demeaning to be referred to with those kind of misnomers. I know you are trying to be nice, but those euphemisms often come across as condescending. Just something to think about...

  • @jackiemolyneaux7414
    @jackiemolyneaux7414 6 лет назад +275

    That’s one heck of a morning routine, your mom seems like an amazing lady for doing all this, and you a great guy for tolerating it!

    • @Amy-ms6wj
      @Amy-ms6wj 6 лет назад +3

      Fahck Uherself this isn't a dating site...

    • @Mandy7D7
      @Mandy7D7 6 лет назад +6

      Amy, It's fine to be nice to others. What girl doesn't like being told she's "too cute"?
      Nothing wrong with some positivity. As this video shows being positive is important.

  • @Yuneed2no
    @Yuneed2no 2 года назад +58

    As a home health nurse, this truly makes my heart so happy! It's so rare that you come into good families like this. People really don't understand how rare this really is ❤️ most nurses suck too, which makes it even harder for those that care.

  • @ljvann11
    @ljvann11 6 лет назад +259

    Thank you for sharing. Knowledge removes the fear of the unknown.

  • @ShareBrightLight
    @ShareBrightLight 6 лет назад +272

    I was thinking I know how much your mom loves you. I was thinking how she is probably so thankful to still have you in her life, even though you have significant physical challenges. My son had cerebral palsy. He died at the age of 26 from a car accident. I am so thankful that you are alive and your mom and dad all work that her. This is beautiful. I also appreciate your bravery for telling your story. I have been feeling like the Lord wants me to share my story but I am so hesitant. You have certainly encouraged me today though. Angie

    • @RockDove5212
      @RockDove5212 6 лет назад +7

      God bless you Angie 🌞💚✝💙

    • @cillamoke
      @cillamoke 6 лет назад +3

      God love you xx

    • @nicbbb2723
      @nicbbb2723 6 лет назад +4

      Share Bright Light 🤗👍

    • @amyzamora9502
      @amyzamora9502 3 года назад

      Perfect example of never knowing what lies ahead. Your son had CP, yet it was a car accident that took him away! I would venture to say that wasn't what had you worried through his or your life for that matter. ....God bless

    • @SGHButterFly
      @SGHButterFly 2 года назад

      He's still in your heart !❤❤God bless you I'll add you to my prayers

  • @angierios8532
    @angierios8532 6 лет назад +249

    Wow...moms are heros...i recently had to take care of my son who broke a leg and had surgery. Was very hard to take care of him. Moms will always love their children and do anything for them...🤗🤗

    • @libertylover4575
      @libertylover4575 6 лет назад +4

      A.M R That’s true about GOOD moms. I would do anything for my kids too. But there are some bad Mom’s out there too.

    • @noordiamond6308
      @noordiamond6308 6 лет назад +1

      Get well soon to your son.. Proud to having a good n patience mom like you ❤

    • @thebloodybaron7
      @thebloodybaron7 6 лет назад +2

      Not every mom.

    • @dimitriosfromgreece4227
      @dimitriosfromgreece4227 4 года назад +1

      BRAVO LOVE YOU 😍❤😍❤😍❤😍❤😍❤

    • @miriamperusso2560
      @miriamperusso2560 3 года назад

      🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤💜💜💜💜💚💚💋💋💋🙏🙏🙏👍👍😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🖤🖤🖤

  • @adoren36
    @adoren36 Год назад +33

    Your mom is incredible. You can feel the love she has for you in this video ❤

  • @loneaxolotl
    @loneaxolotl 6 лет назад +69

    I used to do this to my grandfather when he was alive. I am a nurse now and your parents are doing a perfectly fine job of taking care of you. You are a strong and wonderful guy. I really wish you and your family all the best life has to offer. Take care! Oh! You have a great channel by the way. I learned something today out of this so, I subbed. Keep em coming and inspire everyone!

    • @aoam9194
      @aoam9194 6 лет назад +1

      Kage Krôss
      The best comment

    • @loneaxolotl
      @loneaxolotl 6 лет назад

      Thank you!

  • @saltedcaramel394
    @saltedcaramel394 6 лет назад +1889

    Wonder woman, your mum is👸 Much love to her, to you both.

    • @zarcomonstertech3262
      @zarcomonstertech3262 6 лет назад +21

      Yeah her mom is a gift to the world AMAZING WOMAN

    • @ClayfordC
      @ClayfordC 6 лет назад +6

      Renee Renee I agree

    • @brixperez3951
      @brixperez3951 6 лет назад +3

      Exactly my thoughts

    • @choirkitty
      @choirkitty 6 лет назад +8

      Both of his parents are amazing :). It's hard to be caretakers and you can tell he doesn't take any of this care for granted

    • @nawfaleffendi9132
      @nawfaleffendi9132 5 лет назад

      @Robert Gardea i think so..man gotta work

  • @ravenuribes9460
    @ravenuribes9460 6 лет назад +112

    I don't have a spinal cord injury but I was born with muscular dystrophy and it's crazy how much we have in common when it comes to our routine. My mom and I do all the same things besides the suppository and catheter. I really admire you making a video like this because there's so many people that are curious but us people that go through it get kind of embarrassed to show what we go through everyday. So thank you for inspiring me and so many others!

    • @siobhanbeith5556
      @siobhanbeith5556 6 лет назад +2

      Words well said, I couldn’t agree more.

    • @murielvaillancourt3855
      @murielvaillancourt3855 6 лет назад +5

      Zack Collie you have a fantastic Mummy! I am 62 old, i’m not quadri but i have infection arthritis in my spine bones and after months of pain, needles and hospital, doctors said they can’t cure me and send me at home . I must die from septic at any moment but it’s low in spine. I am in my electric bed since 9 years and half. I can’t stand or walk and can’t stay in my wheelchair because of suffering. My infection is now in arms, hips, one leg and ribs. My mom is just dead at 105 years old. My first daughter does all for me, like your mother. My other daughter is dying from multiple sclerosis. My routine is very like yours but with morphine and Fantanyl and a lot of precautions to not break my vertebras. I am always in pain

    • @murielvaillancourt3855
      @murielvaillancourt3855 6 лет назад +5

      Days and nights in pain. They offer me the death assistance but my daughter doesn’t want and i love life. I was palliative nurse all my life. I have an horizontal wheelchair, like a child stroller. My bones crutch, i am now 4,5 feet. I have in my home palliative services. I am on FB each night because of the suffering. I ´m member of guinea pigs groups and my two piggies are in my room. I was also voluntary for the Nasa research program for tracking exoplanets and i was beta gamer for Big Fish Games but i can’t anymore. I write romans and novels with Siri Aids.

    • @Dractonis
      @Dractonis 6 лет назад +3

      @Muriel Vailancourt I'm glad you have your piggies

    • @donnagibson9613
      @donnagibson9613 6 лет назад +1

      Zack Collie what happened to you.? Love your attitude keep smiling x

  • @irisllegaatuvida5403
    @irisllegaatuvida5403 4 года назад +73

    That’s what a real mother is..God bless you.

  • @carrrene1632
    @carrrene1632 6 лет назад +50

    U have a special mother, very special. Kudos to u and ur mom fir the love and teamwork.

  • @tommann5033
    @tommann5033 6 лет назад +197

    I am amazed at your open and honest approach to sharing your care and self care routines. Your videos have opened my eyes to the struggles you and your family have on a daily basis and how much I take for granted. You are an inspiration to all others affected in a similar way. I hope if you ever read this comment that you are doing well and can keep doing the amazing work of spreading insight into a world that most of us will never know and or are to afraid to ask about. Big love to all carers and to your mam. Thank you Zach Collie...

  • @Edward-ko9pn
    @Edward-ko9pn 6 лет назад +155

    This is one of the most amazing videos I have seen lately. You got this routine down man. Your mom and dad are so loving. I really like that you are able to get out of the house and spent time with your friends and soak up some sun. It looks like you are living your life and that's the most important thing.

  • @googilidoowopidido5332
    @googilidoowopidido5332 4 года назад +19

    Thank you for showing yourself so vulnerable to the world, and I'm glad that you have such a supportive family around you ❤️

  • @Beyond.Birthday
    @Beyond.Birthday 6 лет назад +136

    Your mum is the real wonder woman 💜💜💜 my respect for her

  • @Michael-me4pe
    @Michael-me4pe 6 лет назад +154

    Not sure how this ended up in my feed, but it is an amazing snap shot of your life now. I am a father of 6 kids, and I can say (without further video evidence), you are the very lucky son of a super mom. Sounds to me like you are aware of that, though. Keep reminding her how lucky you are to have been born to her, and keep living life to the fullest you can.

  • @summersweety1277
    @summersweety1277 6 лет назад +204

    Please consider a hoist . Your Mom is a gem but her back won’t last long doing this every day. I am suffering as a retired nurse who worked in the days of heavy lifting with no aids. What incredible support you have from your parents and your friends.

    • @marilynlawson8216
      @marilynlawson8216 6 лет назад +2

      Summersweety ,you mean like a Hoyer lift?

    • @summersweety1277
      @summersweety1277 6 лет назад +7

      Marilyn something like that type but the room might not be suitable. There are other options perhaps even a device that is attached to the ceiling . I think professional advice is needed .

    • @relystar1346
      @relystar1346 6 лет назад +1

      T C I AGREE I KNOW KXNXNFNFNF

    • @charashanya
      @charashanya 6 лет назад +1

      its too much money

    • @eileendoherty2836
      @eileendoherty2836 6 лет назад +1

      Great that you have your parents you are beautiful zack☘️

  • @pointyposeidon
    @pointyposeidon Год назад +31

    Not sure why this is being recommended to me 4 years later but man what a mom! This mom is such a wonderful and loving person she deserves an award!

  • @julieannemichelle
    @julieannemichelle 6 лет назад +98

    Not only is your mom amazing you are too! I love the gratitude that you show her. I'm disabled due to being legally blind with out any ability to have my vision to be corrected by glasses. I have albinism , so my vision is due to the lack of any pigment. My eyes are under developed due to the absence of pigmentation while developing in the womb.
    I also try to be as independence as possible and show how much I appreciate others who help me.
    I love the education that you share with your viewers. I'm curious about other people with different disabilities.
    Sometimes we, as disabled people, forget to show people that help us the gratitude that they deserve. I think it's wonderful that you remember to do it.❤️

    • @CAJUNBEE
      @CAJUNBEE 6 лет назад +5

      I have a step daughter who is 28 cant walk talk or see she was born at 28 weeks and died a few times before she was ok. I love her to death because her mother dont love her I have had her since she was 9 her mother was cooking drugs in the home with her 3 small children ages 4 6 9 I have had them ever since that day she got caught. I love them like they are my own.

    • @sunnystormy4973
      @sunnystormy4973 6 лет назад +1

      Susanne Perrin
      _Blessings on you & your family_ ... 💕💖

    • @julieannemichelle
      @julieannemichelle 6 лет назад

      Fahck Uherself 🤐

  • @jessicarenae5107
    @jessicarenae5107 6 лет назад +47

    *I absolutely love that you shared this with ppl bc sadly anything that a lot of ppl can't understand, they feel insecure about!! It's just so awesome that your not afraid to show your most personal issues with the world!! Says a lot about the person you are and it's great!!*

  • @michaela4688
    @michaela4688 6 лет назад +84

    Nurse in training here! I found this very helpful and informative so thank you very much :) your mom is an awesome lady

    • @lyannawinter405
      @lyannawinter405 6 лет назад +2

      Thank your for the work you (are going to) do. Much respect and best wishes to you!

  • @alejandrolopezlaverde5718
    @alejandrolopezlaverde5718 4 года назад +255

    Dude, really, why would anyone dislike this? This is what love looks like.

  • @potatoflips2694
    @potatoflips2694 6 лет назад +65

    This was so educational. So cool of you to show what your normal daily routine is like. Thank you for sharing!

  • @9MRSG
    @9MRSG 5 лет назад +339

    Your mom is a saint. True life hero. Bless your family

    • @callalilly5697
      @callalilly5697 4 года назад +4

      In my opinion, your comment should get more “likes” because it’s the truth👍

    • @andreadeleon2609
      @andreadeleon2609 3 года назад

      5

    • @radoslawwochna6528
      @radoslawwochna6528 3 года назад

      12446

    • @radoslawwochna6528
      @radoslawwochna6528 3 года назад

      Whehwhbwbhw jhw

    • @trinamorales4272
      @trinamorales4272 3 года назад +1

      deberia tener una ayuda de un hombre para acostarlo bañarlo y pasalo de muebles pobre mujer Dios mio claro estando ella ahi que dificil es la vida Dios mio

  • @chowder125
    @chowder125 6 лет назад +581

    Him and his family are gorgeous.

  • @ТатьянаБулатова-д1у
    @ТатьянаБулатова-д1у 3 года назад +29

    Я желаю этому парню крепкого здоровья, силы духа, добра, любви!

  • @DanjaZone
    @DanjaZone 6 лет назад +456

    *I love you MOM! YOU'RE MY HERO*

  • @keniadiasbarbosasantana2613
    @keniadiasbarbosasantana2613 6 лет назад +85

    Hi Zack, my name is Kenya, I'm Brazilian, forgive me for spelling, but I speak very little English and this text was translated by goolgle translator and could not be without commenting your video, I was amazed by your mother's love and affection for you, it shows us that love existed and is worth it. Congratulations to her for being a true mother, she inspired me, I am a mother too, she taught me a beautiful lesson in overcoming, and love and dedication. Your family is beautiful that God always blesses you.

    • @opkat5523
      @opkat5523 6 лет назад +4

      Kenia Dias Barbosa Santana Really good translation!

    • @catmeres3719
      @catmeres3719 6 лет назад +2

      The English is perfect 😉

    • @marcig5972
      @marcig5972 6 лет назад

      Wow humans are amazing

  • @fortheloveofbrum3106
    @fortheloveofbrum3106 6 лет назад +38

    You are an amazing young man for sharing and making your normal daily routine visible. It's a good reminder that everyones' "normal routine" is different but it's normal for each one of us. Looks like you form part of a super supportive family & friends network. More power to you and yours. Great hair by the way!

  • @DHU11
    @DHU11 4 года назад +25

    Parents man, heart goes out to anyone who does not have the blessing of a loving parent. It’s something all children deserve and such a blessing if you can have one in your adult years too

  • @activitiesforfunbyyanachan2492
    @activitiesforfunbyyanachan2492 6 лет назад +512

    I'm crying,absolutely amazing mom. It is a beautiful family,you so strong😍😍

    • @ch1dinma
      @ch1dinma 6 лет назад +2

      Yana Wonghinkong Oh and dad!

    • @laisuwannakam432
      @laisuwannakam432 6 лет назад

      Yana Wonghinkong
      แแคมชค

  • @ruiz_christopher
    @ruiz_christopher 6 лет назад +101

    Absolutely loved how informative this video was! I love seeing how happy and optimistic you are! That definitely teaches and inspires me a lot! I honestly learned a lot from you and thank you so much for sharing!

  • @iffikazmi9453
    @iffikazmi9453 6 лет назад +615

    There is no any single thing which can take place of mother..

  • @pennykafai4645
    @pennykafai4645 Год назад +5

    What an amazing mum you have. Thank you for being so brave to show your vulnerability to the world. Big hugs from an oldie from the UK❤

  • @grayskindablue
    @grayskindablue 6 лет назад +54

    Thank you soooo much for sharing. I know so many people are really ashamed to share the intimate parts of this and I’m sure this was really vulnerable for you of course but also your mom. You two make an amazing team. Your sense of humor and smiles and laughs through everything are incredible. I have gastroparesis and separate G and J feeding tubes, a port for IV hydration, POTS, hEDS, MCAD, CRPS, being tested for another crap, and our bowel regimen is very similar but it also humbled me a lot, I always feel bad bitching about my chronic illnesses when so many people have it so much worse. Anyway, thank you for the insight again. Sending lots of good vibes- and thanks for the reminder to give my mama a hug.

  • @RealityEscapeeItIsMe
    @RealityEscapeeItIsMe 6 лет назад +131

    It makes me sound silly but I didn't realize a bowel movement has to be assisted if you're quadriplegic. Thank you for educating me.
    Your mom is amazing. That's pure love 💛

  • @PrincessJaz13
    @PrincessJaz13 6 лет назад +43

    Thank you for this intimate view in your life. You give so much to many people in showing how someone can master challenges - physical and characterwise. And it is a really well made video. Btw your tattoos are cool and beautiful; you are a handsome and likeable guy and they fit you perfectly. I wish you the best and your mother, the love and connection you have is really touching.

  • @briannafigueroa6605
    @briannafigueroa6605 4 года назад +5

    thank you so much for this video! as a nursing student its so great to get a peak into the life of quadriplegic adult. Im positive this will give me a better understanding of my patients needs. Your mom is an amazing woman. Im a special needs parent too and its such a blessing to care for my kiddo. Keep loving on her thats the best reward for us moms

  • @tidalboxer
    @tidalboxer 6 лет назад +74

    What a great mom! Nothing like the love of a momma. 😍

  • @KJMudge
    @KJMudge 6 лет назад +155

    Bless you Zack your a cool young man and your parents are truly amazing people .

  • @l.n.6132
    @l.n.6132 6 лет назад +17

    I love how there’s a doggie bed in the van for ur doggie 🐶. Ur mommie is amazing please do give her more hugs !

  • @wallybeep
    @wallybeep 3 года назад +8

    Knowing what life is like with neuromuscular deficits, you and mom represent the absolute best of humanity. You are both beautiful.

  • @ricj7517
    @ricj7517 5 лет назад +44

    I'm getting emotional here watching super mom and the loving care she has for her son..She's the best!

  • @jackietosdevin9914
    @jackietosdevin9914 6 лет назад +63

    I don’t know how I can ended up on this channel but I really enjoyed it and it made me feel very blessed!!!!

    • @bencuraza5045
      @bencuraza5045 6 лет назад +1

      Jackie Tosdevin DITTO seems like a few of us in the comments stumbled across this video. Great Living Family and BLESSED :))

    • @allthemikemartinmoney8046
      @allthemikemartinmoney8046 6 лет назад +1

      Jackie Tosdevin same here😃

  • @sharonjones6063
    @sharonjones6063 6 лет назад +4

    This is really helpful to dispel any wrong ideas. Also, what a great mum you have and good friends to drive you. Love that the dog gets his bed in the van and comes along too!

  • @dominickcsoliz
    @dominickcsoliz 3 года назад +8

    I salute your courage to help other people in your situation to not be scared of routine but understand it better but definitely someone who finds them self in a recent medical condition well truly love this informative routine.. would love to see what u do to keep your mind busy what u do or like to do in your spare time

  • @godschild5647
    @godschild5647 6 лет назад +219

    God bless u hun and your parents are awesome👼

  • @ashnkksmom2264
    @ashnkksmom2264 6 лет назад +7

    A mothers love is never ending. Your mom is very strong in body and mind it’s beautiful to see the love and support she gives you. God bless you both

  • @L1sa-L1sa
    @L1sa-L1sa 6 лет назад +79

    "Woe is me" is no longer in my vocabulary! Love your attitude & your loving mother❣

  • @cavellsmith2737
    @cavellsmith2737 4 года назад +44

    This Mother is indeed a Hero. 👍👍👍💖💖

  • @ruththomas3853
    @ruththomas3853 6 лет назад +70

    My brother was a quadriplegic. He got injured in 1960. Thing have improved I see. He was a C7 injury. He was also 6'4" which complicated things quite a bit. He could use his hands fairly well. So he was lucky there. There was no self emptying a leg bag, and several other things I saw you do were much easier for you, even with your higher injury. He was at the Long Beach VA hospital. They have a huge spinal cord injury unit there. I spent the summer with my sister in law and I got to meet quite a few of the patients. I loved it. Your mom is amazing! She deserves a lot of big hugs, I think. Oh, he had terrible leg spasms which took over his life and finally he had surgery to sever the nerves that were causing it. He was so happy after that. But sadly, he passed away in 1988 at the age of 53. I miss him. We were never close when I was growing up. He was 7 yrs older than I, and he teased me constantly. But we got so close before he passed. I was so glad. Just out of the blue one day he just up and apologized to me, and I told him I was all over that. I'm sorry I ramble, but good luck to you. I think you have a bright future!

    • @Theorist9
      @Theorist9 6 лет назад +4

      Thats a lovely story. So nice that you became close before his passing. Thank you for sharing.

    • @taglamigyelo
      @taglamigyelo 6 лет назад +1

      This made me smile. Sorry to hear about your brother. I also have a brother which is 7yrs older than me and he was also always teasing me and watching out for my mistakes back then. He's not quadriplegic or anything though. I was just able to relate when you said, you weren't close to him when you're growing up. We're still not close now though but I understand now how he felt and why he acted that way towards me. The 7-year gap must also been one of the factor there lol.

  • @KedyCheyenne
    @KedyCheyenne 6 лет назад +110

    You have beyond one of the most amazing mothers a child could ever ask for.... No word a lie, I am jealous!
    Whenever I was 19, I had to have a surgery to remove my gallbladder due to having a more than a few times of having extremely bad and sharp pains in my chest and back for between 8-12 hours at a time... I went in for my surgery in the morning and by the evening I was aloud to go home.. All my mother did was pick me up, brought me to drop off my paper for meds, than dropped me off at my fathers ( which my dad works none stop, leaves at 630am and comes home around 7-8pm ) so after my surgery I could hardly do anything, let alone roll around out of bed... & she wouldn't let me go to her place to help me whenever I would be crying calling her asking her to come get me or help me.... I would die if I had a mother like yours!!!

    • @musket-hc1fc
      @musket-hc1fc 6 лет назад +3

      Are you permanently disabled because of a gall bladder operation?

    • @lux3726
      @lux3726 6 лет назад +5

      i feel you, my egg donor (can't really call a demon a mom), wanted me to get out of her way while I was crying about suicide, so she could go eat her lunch while watching her fave soap opera...Y and R.

    • @KedyCheyenne
      @KedyCheyenne 6 лет назад +10

      musket 0402 no I was just making the point that when I just needed a little help that my mother wasn't there for me so if I was in his position I wouldn't have my mothers love and support like he does.... I was just pointing out how amazing she is with explaining why

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 6 лет назад +1

      Cheyenne Kedy , I know it really hurts when you're in that Position! Sucks! What Kind of mom never in their life hug or kiss their child.

  • @brendanoconnorphotography
    @brendanoconnorphotography 6 лет назад +164

    I'm in tears right now. Although, it's hard to say what it is about this video that's affected me so-- was it the the blatant display of unfaltering devotion, by a mother for her son? Was it the obscene levels of resilience with which he endures? (Prevails?) Or was it that, if only for a moment, I was able to forget my own self-absorbed problems-- the years wasted, lost now, to drug addiction and incarceration; the horror and dismay of success looming; the spiritial malaise of a godless life-- and to be reminded of how privileged I truly am, how grateful I need to be, and just how much f***ing beauty and love there is in this world.
    Or maybe it's that.... I long for incapacity? Long for some debilitated and costitutionally helpless state in which there is only me and there is only her-- and no one else. To where happiness and wonder are always and everlasting. To some existence where I survive on/by/through just one thing: her unyielding and unconditional love for me.
    This is a beautiful video. I truly admire your courage, and your mother's dedication. I will spend the rest of the day reminding myself to be thankful for all the little things I take for granted, and that love is real. Thank you.

    • @brendaharren1066
      @brendaharren1066 6 лет назад +1

      Just stumbled onto your sight and now I'm hooked.You have an amazing support system,and found love also.You're a poster child (adult) for persevereing.Will keep praying for medical break throughs.Be well!💖🌈😍

    • @Theorist9
      @Theorist9 6 лет назад +6

      You write beautifully. I wish you much success in finding peace of mind. XOXO

    • @brendanoconnorphotography
      @brendanoconnorphotography 6 лет назад +1

      @@Theorist9 thank you very much. If you're ever bored, feel free to check out my writing on Quora (link in bio) and read my solitary confinement piece-- among other stuff

    • @Theorist9
      @Theorist9 6 лет назад +1

      @@brendanoconnorphotography ill definitely check it out!

    • @aaronedgararanez8198
      @aaronedgararanez8198 6 лет назад

      I could definitely relate to what you have just said. I'll catch you on quora then!

  • @melanietoth1376
    @melanietoth1376 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for sharing something so private. It could be any person who ends up with a spinal injury. It's good to normalize these things. You're an awesome man for for sharing ♡

  • @vineen1096
    @vineen1096 6 лет назад +666

    Moms are God's on earth ,hats off to all the moms

    • @lenagibson2521
      @lenagibson2521 6 лет назад +1

      Tarous jamal moms are tho

    • @tempusfugit7127
      @tempusfugit7127 6 лет назад +2

      Most are vinee but a lot are not ....including mine .

    • @omega-zxul6267
      @omega-zxul6267 6 лет назад +1

      @@tempusfugit7127 I can assure you mothers are not goddes, so cut the feministic horseshit

    • @tempusfugit7127
      @tempusfugit7127 6 лет назад +5

      @@omega-zxul6267 YOU ARE EITHER A MORON OR YOU MISREAD MY COMMENT , CONTRARY TO YOU ACCUSING ME OF BEING A FEMINIST ( WHATEVER THAT MEANS ) MY OWN MOTHER BEAT ME AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY ABUSED MYSELF AND MY SIBLINGS . ANY DECENT HUMAN BEING WOULD APOLOGISE OR ADMIT YOUR COMMENT WAS MEANT FOR THE IDIOT WHO SAID " MOMS ARE GOD'S ON EARTH " I PERSONALLY DON'T HATE MY MOTHER , I TRULY DESPISE HER EVEN THOUGH SHE'S 82 YRS OLD.

    • @Anonymous88660
      @Anonymous88660 6 лет назад

      yet womens are treated like bitchers

  • @agnesleona770
    @agnesleona770 6 лет назад +197

    You mom is super hero and is the best😍😊😢
    God Bless you😇

    • @hrhrose1524
      @hrhrose1524 6 лет назад +3

      God richly bless and increase your faith.

  • @lucianobezerra4380
    @lucianobezerra4380 6 лет назад +38

    Zack, I did caregiving job for a paraplegic person years ago and I know how hard it is...I praise your mother for such a dedication and care she gives you daily. May God bless both of you !

  • @CaptainAubie
    @CaptainAubie Год назад +4

    That mom is a wonderful mom and a champ. You're both incredible.

  • @MissNebulosity
    @MissNebulosity 6 лет назад +20

    This video is fantastic! No one ever talks about the other side of life for quadriplegic people. Thanks!

  • @markpatrick5246
    @markpatrick5246 6 лет назад +38

    Wow I take care of my elderly parents and this story put it all in perspective ...your mom is a superhero and you are an incredibly brave your man!

  • @spellbunny
    @spellbunny 6 лет назад +70

    your mom smiled so big when she was helping you onto the bed, what a sweetheart!!

  • @belindaflores2889
    @belindaflores2889 4 года назад +8

    Two amazing people, momma and son!♥️ So sweet seeing them work together, and can feel the love, and his spirit oh my!!💖😍 Thanks for sharing Zack Collie! God bless you all🙏🏻

  • @patriciagomez5178
    @patriciagomez5178 6 лет назад +79

    You are a very handsome man with a wonderful mom. I wish you all the best.

  • @lonelyglen
    @lonelyglen 6 лет назад +16

    I never knew that a quadriplegic had as much movement, purposeful or not. Being able to control the screen on your phone is great. Your family is wonderful.

  • @Alex_RD0
    @Alex_RD0 6 лет назад +7

    I love how you trust your mother and how your mother helps you with all of her heart.

  • @cyndiwinstead3920
    @cyndiwinstead3920 2 года назад +2

    Amazing!!!!! My career is a CNA in TX and I’ve had a variety of private patients and you are amazing and your mom is the best!!! All she does for you is what I do also! I love my work and I see how much love she has for you in the way she cares and helps you! And you, to see you to do as much as you can is dope as heck! Some people give up and your behind that! Way to go!!!!!

  • @tomdailey1810
    @tomdailey1810 6 лет назад +4

    Wow!!!! I don't know why i watched this video but I'm glad i did! A true Mother's love for their child is unconditional in so many levels of life. I can't express in words what i saw in your Mother's commitment in taking care of you! Yes young man please give your Mother more HUGS!!!! I hope the best for you both & thank you for sharing with us!

  • @carolyngracemarie
    @carolyngracemarie 6 лет назад +247

    So great that your family helps you out. God bless you all.

  • @danwilliams667
    @danwilliams667 5 лет назад +6

    Touched by the video. Love seeing you smile throughout the video. Love seeing your mom smiling throughout the video. And loved seeing you guys hugging. Very special.

  • @guineapig4701
    @guineapig4701 4 года назад +482

    I'm exhausted just watching that. That lad is so blessed to have such a devoted mom.

    • @patriciamiller5838
      @patriciamiller5838 4 года назад +22

      His mom is amazing.

    • @sphowaable
      @sphowaable 4 года назад

      Those moms that abandon their injured sons are just normal.

    • @mhorne934
      @mhorne934 4 года назад +9

      Moms are Super Heroes....

    • @wafasolimansoliman1575
      @wafasolimansoliman1575 4 года назад +1

      Saints mama god has been always supported these momies

    • @ЛидияДёмина-х8е
      @ЛидияДёмина-х8е 4 года назад

      С любовью все получится . Какая ловкая и умничка .

  • @westernless97
    @westernless97 6 лет назад +77

    This breaks my heart. Here’s to your recovery!

  • @jacquelineedwards1
    @jacquelineedwards1 6 лет назад +79

    Your mom is amazing I salute her she is a hero God Bless the both of you 🙏

  • @aGwEENapple
    @aGwEENapple 6 лет назад +348

    Mommy loves her baby. Always.

  • @Angle86
    @Angle86 4 года назад +266

    He is such a strong handsome young man.. His mom is an iron lady.. 💪🏼

    • @loveyahshayah8855
      @loveyahshayah8855 3 года назад +3

      3:37 😁🙏

    • @brandoncolis3841
      @brandoncolis3841 3 года назад +2

      @Aishath Emaan Abdul Latheef I agree, very kind woman, but looks more his age. I thought she was his wife or girlfriend at first, or maybe sister.

    • @u_Kel
      @u_Kel 3 года назад

      @@brandoncolis3841 he literally said "my mom" in 2:09

    • @brandoncolis3841
      @brandoncolis3841 3 года назад

      @@u_Kel sorry, I did not catch that, my fault

  • @infinity2864
    @infinity2864 6 лет назад +49

    Your mum is amazing, and you’re so strong. Xx

    • @infinity2864
      @infinity2864 6 лет назад +1

      xrcrx ftfghjg Yh his dad too

  • @geemithafernando
    @geemithafernando 5 лет назад +163

    Moms never expect anything back in return.thats why we call them angels❤❤❤

  • @arkansasfamily6088
    @arkansasfamily6088 6 лет назад +40

    I’m not sure How I got to this video but wow! I’m not a grateful enough person for my life and everything I take for granted. You are such an inspiration.

  • @terrygore6030
    @terrygore6030 4 года назад +12

    My husband has a spinal cord injury and is paralyzed from knees down but doesn’t have use of his left shoulder so I am his caregiver and helps him with his bowel and bladder care as well.
    I think you are doing a great service by sharing what people don’t know about when someone has a spinal cord injury or people who are in a wheelchair and their issues they deal with on a daily basis.
    I’m proud of you! Thanks for sharing.

    • @tinaschang8390
      @tinaschang8390 4 года назад +1

      It Is 2020 there is a thing called a super public catheter it goes into your belly and you will have a bag to go pee in and then you only have to change him when he poops and use a sideboard and Hoyer lift I have all that for my husband it makes it a lot easier

  • @haunguyen1949
    @haunguyen1949 6 лет назад +29

    The power of love !! Your mother is the heroine, an angel , a goddess ! I love and i so much respect to your mother ! I cried to see the love both of you and your mother ! We can't fathom the depth of her love , a mother's love to her son ! Larger and deeper than oceans ! With so much love to the two of you , my best wishes in every aspect !

  • @claribelnana5411
    @claribelnana5411 6 лет назад +273

    I'll do everything, because my child is alive.

    • @3ddental83
      @3ddental83 5 лет назад

      Please check this out for gait re-education: www.pragmasystemusa.com life changing.

    • @franny5295
      @franny5295 4 года назад

      This part.

  • @NeonVipers
    @NeonVipers 6 лет назад +267

    You have some amazing parents! This is a great video thank you for sharing.

  • @badgirl19821
    @badgirl19821 4 года назад +19

    God bless his mom. He’s a total mechanical lift and she’s transferring him by herself. Omg. His mom is a saint.

  • @victoriajuliah.l8622
    @victoriajuliah.l8622 6 лет назад +30

    You truly are an inspiration to me and everyone that's watching hopefully sorry to speak for others but just saying I was injured in a motorcycle accident my mom died on Christmas Eve and that's when our motorcycle accident happen and I was thrown 25 ft off the motorcycle I had 18 skull fractures and a broken femur and that was when I was 6 years old now I am 28 years old and I still have major depression issues and seizures till this day but all is good with me and I'm watching your story and I think you're an inspiration to me and my story thank you so much for sharing I appreciate it so much

    • @reenh462
      @reenh462 6 лет назад

      More like his parents are the inspiration. They do everything.

  • @jennymacko9297
    @jennymacko9297 6 лет назад +19

    You and your mum have such a beautiful relationship. She obviously loves you very much and you her. So nice to see you both so happy, I know many people who would buckle under much less. It’s obvious when life gave you lemons, you guys made lemonade. 😊😉

  • @lizben9780
    @lizben9780 6 лет назад +63

    Wow😭😭😭😭What an amazing family!!!! Your mom is not only your angel she's your super mom,and you are an amazing young man,God bless y'all lots of love hugs and kissess 🙏😘😘😘😘😘💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💞And I love the dog!

    • @mariesanche9507
      @mariesanche9507 6 лет назад

      ´Amazing! Your courage. The love of your mom and your father...your love for them too.
      And not the less
      The LOVE OF GOD FOR
      EACH ONE OF YOU IN
      PERSON
      I suggest you to read the Psalm 139:verses 1- 18
      I love you with the love of Jesus. I had accepted Him in my heart 36 years ago...
      And He is still there
      the Lover of my soul.
      (77y.old in wheelchair
      Living in a CHSLD QUE)

  • @M158-o3x
    @M158-o3x Год назад +2

    You inspire me with your infectious smile and love between your mum and you. I wish you well and cant wait to see more videos about your life.

  • @cherylslife
    @cherylslife 6 лет назад +9

    Your mom is a wonderful women may God continue to bless and keep her.

  • @wendy8184
    @wendy8184 6 лет назад +7

    Your mum is Amazing! What a wonderful bond you have.

    • @ambermartinez545
      @ambermartinez545 6 лет назад +1

      You are amazing! Thank you for helping others my son is a c4 quad almost 1 year and this is amazing

  • @jberlyn
    @jberlyn 6 лет назад +70

    A mothers love has no end ❤️

  • @ristory5728
    @ristory5728 3 года назад +10

    You guys are amazing... ❤️
    And your mom is a real hero ..

  • @toasted_.coconut
    @toasted_.coconut 6 лет назад +107

    I respect your lotion game. People dont take seriously that your skin is your bodys biggest organ -- keep it hydrated folks.

    • @samuelstalcup
      @samuelstalcup 6 лет назад

      Amanda Williams it's true when people become terminal the skin is the first sign of it

    • @LADYVIKING05
      @LADYVIKING05 6 лет назад

      Amanda Williams THE SKIN IS THE BIGGEST ORGAN, YOU IDIOT. HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN BIOLOGY? 🙄

    • @anishpatel3118
      @anishpatel3118 6 лет назад +6

      ßiTE SiZED ßAяßiE
      reread her comment...she clearly said that the skin IS the body's biggest organ

    • @katrinajay5693
      @katrinajay5693 6 лет назад +2

      ßiTE SiZED ßAяßiE She said that you IMBECILE

  • @msdkcooper10
    @msdkcooper10 6 лет назад +5

    You have wonderful parents, you are blessed to have them , I can see how much they love you, always let them know just how much you love them every chance you have, I love the way you and your Mom are laughing while getting thru your morning routine and you have a beautiful dog.

  • @raulaleman2277
    @raulaleman2277 6 лет назад +26

    as a home health nurse, I appreciate the insight you have provided me. thank you brother.

  • @draintheswamp9792
    @draintheswamp9792 Год назад +6

    Roger Roger for you and Mom. I have shown this video to our crew on the boat here in Alaska.....Straight up MOTIVATION. Mom is Amazing my friend ❤❤