Okay everyone. Reply with your submission to name my gigantic zit, my vote is Mt. Vesuvius 😂😂. Also, peep Charisma’s shirt and make sure you register to vote! - Cole
This is TRUE love. Not sex, not material demands, but total selflessness. She is so sweet and he is very appreciative. You can tell they were meant to meet and be together.
The key word is appreciative you are absolutely right because ,if he wasn't in the condition he is in he probably wouldn't look twice at her look at his before videos you don't see him or his family breaking down any doors to get to any black females or people and none trying to get to him as a matter of fact I don't see but one black guy around them and that was to to a school function how sweet selfless non-sexual would you be in that situation I bet you wouldn't touch it with a ten-foot pole y'all kill me with this syrupy b ull s h i t it is what it is .....
Well sex isn't particularly bad in a relationship, its a way of showing affection like hugging, kissing, etc. Its not exactly the same but it is still an action. Sex is making love or showing love to your significant other. I hope that we don't portray that sex is a bad thing and that it is indecent. Just because a relationship has sex it doesn't mean its not true love, of course there is relationships that were builded up by sex but that is a different topic. My point is that sex is natural, it is a way of multiplying or reproducing and showing affection. Just remember to be responsible when it comes to sex. Im not gonna say anything longer but just I wanted to state my opinion .
You are very special person, but sometimes remember yourself, I was caregi er for my parents until the endso I know a little bit about the situation,. Lots of love!
U are right about that cause the whole time I'm watching this wife I'm thinking to myself would I b able to do it, just being real don't know. I can hear my girlfriend say I could. Much love to that couple.
I'm impressed with how honest Cole and Charisma are. I love how they discuss everything even bowl movements and they do it in such a way that its not awkward or unpleasant. They are doing a wonderful service teaching us about what it is like to be a quadriplegic. Thank you for your honesty and down-to-earth way of being.
What she is doing...I've done it! My ex... my baby father was diagnosed with cancer "Glioblastoma" same as John McCain...and he had a "spinal cord injury"...it's a lot of work, you have to "love" a person to insert enemas and clean up poop without making him feel bad or embarrassed...you best believe it is called "love, compassion, kindness and hopeful for your LOVE one to be comfortable...December 31st 2019 we lost him. His daughter and I was his care givers...Continue to RIPARADISE ❣ we miss you 😢...I still loved him... with the love of GOD in your heart anyone can do it! GOD bless this couple 💑...
Me!!! I’m so ungrateful for everything that god has blessed me with. I directly spit in his face everyday that I complain. This is amazing. I love them and I love you brandy for making this comment.
AD NYC No, I believe she meant this is love because many bail out on their significant other when times get hard. Do you know how many people lose the legs and their SPOUSES cannot deal with the pressure of taking care of them so they leave? It happens all of the time. Especially people with lifelong handicaps and illness. She meant love does not stop because someone isn’t how they used to be or is totally dependent. She expresses her love by taking care and he expresses his by being grateful. It is beautiful. I’m confused what was wrong with this comment?
Non Non Sounds like blaming the victim but okay. Everyone needs support. Anger is apart of human emotion. We all express it sooo I’m not understanding your point
Non Non Not really? I was sick a few years ago and my husband took such good care of me. I was mentally not even here. He was my everything and still continues to be. That’s circumstantial and grief looks differently to different people. But thanks for the share!
Can I ask a question,why does his feet shakes since you had a husband that was paralyzed I am sorry if this offend you you don’t have to answer if you don’t want to 🤍 hope your doing well
Life As Josie hey.. these shaking movements are called fasciculations, they are seen when there is a lot of muscle weakness, indicating lower motor neuron disease (meaning the electrical signals for activity is getting through from the brain i.e the upper system is okay but there is a problem at the lower level in conducting the signal). Simply put, it indicates damaged lower nerve fibers, in his case the nerve fibers arising from inside his vertebral column inside the lower part of his neck which are responsible for conducting signals to all 4 of his limbs, have been damaged. The damage means there is no proper electrical stimulation of the muscles in his limbs so they get weak and trembly. The upper center i.e the brain tries to send the signal, the muscles tremble a little but the signal won’t go through. That’s what’s happening. If the injury had been just a little higher up in the neck where the nerves supply the chest muscles, it would have been not possible for him to breathe without support because of weak chest muscles responsible for respiration. Hope you understood, Ps I am a doctor and I’d love if you’d subscribe to my channel. Thank you 🙏
This women is without question one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever seen. She is just such a bright light. What an amazing couple! Their kindness and love and respect for each other is so beautiful and inspiring and I think all couples should take a page from their book. This is just unbelievably touching and I’m now in a puddle of tears. Bless their hearts. So much respect 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Now this is the true meaning of relationship goals, find someone who will stick with you no matter what like these two, I wish them a long and happy life.
The Native Unicorn absolutely I agreed. People should have that fun within their relationship. Relationships are so serious and not relax now a days. Is more headaches now more than ever 🧐
Hello this video brought tears to my eyes this was my life for 19 years I took care of my son until he passed away 5 years ago I miss him so much we danced and played and sung songs he was my bestfriend I've been having a hard time finding myself never thought I would be without my son Kimani. You two are so special because this is how I imagined his life with someone who loved him unconditionally. Thanks for sharing your life with us you two are a joy to watch
Oh dear I can't imagine a loss of a child you've been through alot pls stay strong unfortunately my words cannot bring back your son but I hope my words an anybody else's strengthens you
Terri Massey right????????? Me too. Amazing. Maybe we needed their message and vibes today. I want to move in w them, help out and celebrate w these peeps! 😊
Ok, who in the heck are those 300 and something people who made a point to dislike this video?? These two are amazing! I’m a nurse and have worked with people who are quadriplegic due to spinal cord injuries. They were of different ages and from all walks of life. Most were very positive or had positive support systems in their lives. They handled what happened to them with grace. It is not an easy thing. I got to experience it a bit for an 8 hr shift, 5 times a day. But it’s nothing compared to what they go through 24/7. I totally admire these two. They’re an inspiration that no matter what you’re going through, stay hopeful. Stay positive. I pray they continue to keep their positive and optimistic attitude no matter what they’re going through.
Why are you so concerned about what people like and don’t like? It’s not our jobs to try and force people like stuff we like. For the record I liked the video. Just saying we gotta stop worrying about haters fr fr. It’s a waste of time.
I used to work with a quadriplegic who didn't want pity from anyone. He did a lot of things himself in the office and had the craziest sense of humour and had a smile on his face every day. That was inspirational.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years now and he is also a quadriplegic. We just recently moved in together and I found a lot of the things in this video interesting and its given me some ideas so thank you! It's crazy how this randomly popped up on my feed lol
I cried with joy to see two loving people who can show the World disability can be a blessing because you value each other’s strength and ability. You are teaching the World the beauty of life, the essence of happiness and kindness in hearts. I love you Cole and Charisma
I think it's so rude to say that she's an angel for being his caregiver. They love each other and this should be normalized.. It implies that he's not worthy of being loved by just anybody, and I bet he has plenty to give in to his relationship...
He needs to drink water with his medicine. If there is not enough lubrication inside the esophagus, the pills can stick into the mucous and even destroy and erode the complete wall of the organ. Please be carefull I’ve seen terrible cases of esophageal perforations due to these practice.
Charisma please consider wearing a waist belt when you are doing the heavy lifting, even if you think you're not doing very much. It will keep you from unnecessary back pain and many more. Stay healthy for both of you, much love from Taiwan
I pray my brother finds someone like you, his life drastically changed 3 years ago when he got in a terrible car accident. He has T12 spinal injury. Be blessed you guys make a great couple. You both are a blessing to one another!
I'd kill for her energy. I can't even bath myself some days because my depression/anxiety/agorophobia is so bad and to have to wake up and do that much when I can't even do it for myself. I'd give anything for your mindset you are an inspiration
This was my routine with my honey for 10 years. You do it with such grace, Charisma. I didn’t have his family’s support. I hope you have their love and appreciation.
Sorry that you didn't have his Family to appreciate and support you. Hopefully your own Family was giving you the necessary support. Perhaps there were money issues- they may have thought that you wanted his money. Hopefully there were no racial issues because that hurts.
@@maqangazamanyezile218 I chose to leave and he and I are on very good terms. The love between us is still there. The disrespect and tension from his family only hurt an already challenging relationship.
I went to school with him and he's a sweet boy always was so I'm sure he treats her like a Queen! Hope that reassures you ahah. I can't believe this was in my reccomended tbh! Small world
I have been married for 30 years to a C67 quad. I am so happy to see that you're showing peeps that it isn't a burden, although a pain in the ass at times, that there is fun and there is love. We have 5 kids, 4 grandkids and a wonderful life! Keep up the good work!
I don’t normally post comments. It’s not my thing. But I felt compiled to. We’re living in a really weird time full of uncertainty. I have a wonderful family around me but at times I’ve felt low and alone. I came across you channel by chance this morning and I’m overwhelmed by your love, warmth and connection to each other. You’re so full of positivity in the face of adversity....and everything is better with snuggles!
She is such an amazing person. May God bless and reward her bountifully. Such a beautiful couple.God's blessing and a happy marriage to both of you. Function and beauty is amazing.
I know someone with Wallenberg syndrome and the issues with sweating on one side and eye appearance you describe in the begging of the video are symptoms of it (called Horner's syndrome) Wallenberg is a stroke often associated with head and spinal injuries. It’s rare so many doctors aren’t familiar with it. I’d ask for an MRI to rule anything serious out.
You will definitely find someone who loves you wholeheartedly, I'm open to loving anyone but I think I would hire someone for the morning routines just for our relationship. I have a son and when he gets sick,I get sick cleaning up his sick... that's just who I am but I'm not opposed to finding love with anyone as long it works for us both. You will make some lucky woman happy one day,all in God's timing.
My grandparents were in similar situations except my prideful granddad turned bitter, angry and hurtful. He always accused people especially my grandma of pitying him. He would verbally abuse her everyday and my grandma would cry when he couldn’t see. Seeing this man be so positive and let his wife take care of him and love him without it turning him angry and bitter is just amazing. It takes a lot of courage to let go of pride. And a lot of love and strength to take care of another human being in such a capacity. They are both strong and just amazing. Watching their videos fills my heart with joy.
Wow I applaud this woman. She takes such good care of him it is unbelievable. It is hard to find nice people like her in this world anymore. God bless you sweetheart you have many Rewards in heaven.
Not everybody wants to be a nurse. What's wrong with that? Life can be fucking hard even when you are single... No wonder people do not an extra burden. Logical.
He is very lucky to have this woman in his life to care for him. She’s amazing. And his mom must be so happy she has someone now to take over being the caregiver to her son. I hope charisma gets a break sometime so she can recharge.
V Wiggins in some of their videos she always says that his family is always there to help on days where she also needs time to recharge and that communication is the key; meaning when she needs that time out she lets him know and also she said they renovated and bought appliances that help Cole to be just abit more independence.
She is beyond amazing! Crazy all the stuff that needs to be done before starting the day when for us it’s so fast. Don’t take your health for granted ppl. They are awesome!!!
I am so glad they found each other! Such a beautiful couple totally.they really 💘 each other for sure. This is love in action. Some of us take getting dressed for granted and can be not so grateful. Cole and Charisma are beyond amazing because love is shown in how they support each other as well. I like how they respect and help one another in everything! WOW!! Just a blessing!
I am a bilateral amputee and I would love to have a person like charisma in my life. I am completely jealous and blessed at the same time to see this relationship. Blessings COle and charisma.
Charisma you have me in tears. I have recently started dating and my boyfriend is paralyzed from the waist down, but he is able to do so much on his own and I admire that about him. I think you for giving a inside look into you all lives and I greatly appreciate the knowledge because you never know who your helping and in this case it’s me and I thank you 🙏🏾
Coming from someone who is a caregiver everyday as a job you are literally an angel! To be a caregiver as a job is one thing but to be a caregiver to someone your in a relationship with is so much deeper! You and him both deserve the world and I’m wishing you both the best in life 🥰
Trinity I agree! I'm also in healthcare and just being HUMAN dealing with other humans, isn't easy some days, but she's so loving, kind, and graceful! I'll take her "charisma" with me to shift tonight...great reminder to be patient & stay positive!
I'm a caregiver also I absolutely love my job I love to help people This young lady has me speechless I'm at a lost for words a reminder of our dedication patience and kindness
This young beautiful lady is a gift from God. Cole and Charisma match so well. May the Angels and Saints watch over them and my prayer is one day Cole will heal and walk again. God is faithful and merciful
I just found their channel by accident and wow do I love them. They both are the perfect example of how your ATTITUDE can make any situation in life worse or better. It’s all a choice.
My husband was a quadriplegic as well. He dressed himself and drove himself to work every day. All I have to do is slide a board under him to get him in and out of bed. We was such a great pair. Miss him sooo much 😔😔😔😔
Big respect to Cole for being so cool with sharing such an in-depth look at the implications of day-to-day life under his condition. Charisma is great in every aspect. Very insightful video! Much love to the both of them. :)
Charisma, is an angel from God, loving people is difficult, but caring and loving someone who has a disability is a different level. I was diagnosed with varicella encephalopathy in 2011 and your videos give me hope.
Watching your video, especially the clip of you dancing and doing everything around the house by yourself, helped me to be more grateful, patient and not complain so much. I feel like I do so much, but nothing in comparison to you. And my husband does so much to help as well. And I need to be more grateful for that and appreciate his efforts and support. Bless you two and may you both live a long, happy and healthy life together.
This made me cry thinking about my spouse. I'd never leave no matter what. There is someone for everyone. This is the perfect example of this. It also shows that love is more than just the physical and it can overcome anything. They were made for each other and it shows 😭😭😭😭. He is not a burden but an addition to her life! They struggle yes but dont we all? It's just a different hurdle. I wish them nothing but the best!
I love you guys! My husband as the same injury. He sustained it after a diving accident at age 29 - 2 weeks before our wedding!. Thank you for all your videos. I've yet to see them all. I love the realness y'all being to the table and the reality that is being an interabled couple! 🙌
Hey Cole, Im a doctor from NY and it looks like you have signs of Horner's syndrome with the absence of sweating on one side, along with the drooping of your eyelid and change in pupil size. Would be a good idea to go see your PCP or neurologist! Take care you two!
Seriously one of the most amazing women on earth! Thats true love. Someday i'll find someone half as great as you. You're an inspiration, and give all single guys out there with no significant other hope, that someone is out there for all of us.
I cried watching this not because I feel sorry for them but because all you hear and see is negatives, they are upbeat, laughing, loving life for what it is. ❤️❤️❤️
My daughter is a paraplegic. Even though she doesn’t have to do a bowel program, she does have to get up an hour earlier if we need to be somewhere early. Example, usually her day starts at 8 am but on Sunday to get to 9 am service, she will get up at 6:45. You find a routine that works and go with it. Cole, I am praying that your sweating issue gets better soon. Charisma, keep singing and dancing!!
I love how she’s thr for his every need It’s hard 2 found someone like her I’m going through the same thing I been in the wheelchair 🦽 for 3 year & im not giving up I’m still waiting On that special someone!!!
Get it, brother! I'm a C4-C5 and will gladly share tips I've learned, over the last 19 years, for complete independence. Just hit me up. Women are attracted when you can say and show independence.
@@mercyogbee7077 and I would say I feel sorry for YOU that YOU CAN'T appreciate what THEY have TOGETHER for EACH OTHER but I don't. Lol Stay in your small, miserable selfish self-centeredness. Just wish you wouldn't sully THIS BEAUTIFUL page with it.
@@ellehub2136 You are just hypocrital like the mayority of the commenters. As a black women I can asure you that he had no other option. And knowing what we go throuth "being healthy" , for sure, if she were the one disable he wouldn't have even notice her existence. True hurst but must be said. All my black friends agree with me. You will never EVER will see a healthy white dude taking care of a disable black girl, having tons of options. ✌
Cole gets more handsome the more he gets older .. & he makes her happy & she makes him happy & I see in her face she loves him more & more each day & they looks like they make each other happy .. she loves her husband for better or worse & they are happy .. I love that ..
Charisma's energy is so infectious that my anxiety just went away and Cole's chill mood feels so calming. Just watching you both helped me relax and worry less about petty stuff. You guys are awesome💕
Totally agree. I have a lot on my plate but watching them is inspiring. She is such a hard worker and he really does a lot on his part. Very nice couple.
Okay everyone. Reply with your submission to name my gigantic zit, my vote is Mt. Vesuvius 😂😂.
Also, peep Charisma’s shirt and make sure you register to vote! - Cole
Mt. Pimplmanjaro!
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I am voting to name the zit invader zim!
Mount zitsuvius
Already!
Imagine how happy his parents are....knowing that their son he is in hands and with someone they can trust....may almighty bless you girl....
Amen!!! Cole's mother has an awesome daughter in law!!!
True she is a blessed soul
Yesss, the strength of a woman!
I bet they are it takes the responsibility off of them come on people be realistic y'all know what's going on
true,very true,amen and amen
Wow. She does all of that everyday and I sometimes don’t even want to be bothered to make dinner for my husband. This is another level of commitment.
Girl I barely want to tell mine good morning and she doing all this! Lol. I need to do better man!
@@davidasingleton8943 🤣🤣🤣 same here
If we were out in this reality we would do it we truly loved them. They are true love
@@davidasingleton8943 😂🤣😂
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Let’s protect this woman at all Cost 🤗🤗 she came straight from heaven 😍
He came straight from heaven too
She really is amazing 😊👍
That's what love will do! The Lord God bless this sweet and awesome couple!!!
Truly a ‘virtuous woman.’ I just came across these videos today & they’re truly an inspiration. God bless you all!❤️🙏
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She fell straight from Heaven and Cole caught her. I love you two. So much love for each other.
I feel the same way about these two angels 😇 They are so much fun and full of life❤
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This is TRUE love. Not sex, not material demands, but total selflessness. She is so sweet and he is very appreciative. You can tell they were meant to meet and be together.
The key word is appreciative you are absolutely right because ,if he wasn't in the condition he is in he probably wouldn't look twice at her look at his before videos you don't see him or his family breaking down any doors to get to any black females or people and none trying to get to him as a matter of fact I don't see but one black guy around them and that was to to a school function how sweet selfless non-sexual would you be in that situation I bet you wouldn't touch it with a ten-foot pole y'all kill me with this syrupy b ull s h i t it is what it is .....
@@debrannkaye8874 nice racism, bro
@@frankcaliendosucks what is he even talking abouttt
Reesee Whitfield Just another troll. Don’t mind them
Well sex isn't particularly bad in a relationship, its a way of showing affection like hugging, kissing, etc. Its not exactly the same but it is still an action. Sex is making love or showing love to your significant other. I hope that we don't portray that sex is a bad thing and that it is indecent. Just because a relationship has sex it doesn't mean its not true love, of course there is relationships that were builded up by sex but that is a different topic. My point is that sex is natural, it is a way of multiplying or reproducing and showing affection. Just remember to be responsible when it comes to sex. Im not gonna say anything longer but just I wanted to state my opinion .
Charisma’s parents definitely knew what they were doing when they named her. She is definitely charismatic! I love it
My daughter's name is Charisma too ❤️❤️and she's 9.....
I was saying the same thing 😆
Was thinking the same thing. Would have been really awkward of she was super shy lol.
@@MillyMilkUbisi Beautiful name. ♥️
Ok, but how is it possible to fall in love with a couple in only 25 minutes? I love their energy 🙌🏻
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I don't know why I'm crying😭...may God protect this marriage. I love you guys. Representing Zambia.
I cry every video...I think it's because witnessing this type of love is rare & so beautiful & heartwarming.
Same 🤍
Kristen ♥️Amen beloved sis
Amen❤️🇿🇲
I just wanna say most men in Cole's position wouldn't want to be filmed especially when they have special needs. Cole secure AF🔥🔥🔥
"He sexy and he knows it" adding another song to the collection in the vid
@@EmmaBGames 👏🔥
He’s knows he’s loved 🥰
@@lenald6618 Ain't nothing more satisfying than that❤.
He has an amazing woman by his side ❤️❤️❤️
My husband is paralyzed from 7 years and it's not easy with 3 kids God bless her and me and give us strength.
God and Jesus bless you guys 🙏🥺
You are very special person, but sometimes remember yourself, I was caregi er for my parents until the endso I know a little bit about the situation,. Lots of love!
My ex had a spinal cord injury and Glioblastoma cancer...his daughter and I were his caregivers!
God bless you guys. Can I ask how do you do it? Do you get help?
@@suzannefigueroa9797 my in laws help me im from pakistan
Their optimistic attitude makes you evaluate yourself.
Just thinking that. I need to rethink my attitude about life in general.
Like for real.
U are right about that cause the whole time I'm watching this wife I'm thinking to myself would I b able to do it, just being real don't know. I can hear my girlfriend say I could. Much love to that couple.
Facts! My problems seem so petty. I’m humbled. 😳
Exactly. That is what I kept saying to myself since I watched thier interview in SBSK.
I'm impressed with how honest Cole and Charisma are. I love how they discuss everything even bowl movements and they do it in such a way that its not awkward or unpleasant. They are doing a wonderful service teaching us about what it is like to be a quadriplegic. Thank you for your honesty and down-to-earth way of being.
I love you too you are amazing 🙂👍🏽
I think everyone should support this couple .that’s what we call true love
(Never had this many likes thank you for everyone. I feel famous lol )
How we wanted me before you to end
What she is doing...I've done it! My ex... my baby father was diagnosed with cancer "Glioblastoma" same as John McCain...and he had a "spinal cord injury"...it's a lot of work, you have to "love" a person to insert enemas and clean up poop without making him feel bad or embarrassed...you best believe it is called "love, compassion, kindness and hopeful for your LOVE one to be comfortable...December 31st 2019 we lost him. His daughter and I was his care givers...Continue to RIPARADISE ❣ we miss you 😢...I still loved him... with the love of GOD in your heart anyone can do it! GOD bless this couple 💑...
@Soniabella cole is a legend
How do you know that's true love, cause they post some videos?? Do you live with them?
@@sonofthepower8597 who are you responding to?
This is like other worldly beautiful... This is what love is...... Makes everyone else seem so ungrateful
Me!!! I’m so ungrateful for everything that god has blessed me with. I directly spit in his face everyday that I complain. This is amazing. I love them and I love you brandy for making this comment.
AD NYC No, I believe she meant this is love because many bail out on their significant other when times get hard. Do you know how many people lose the legs and their SPOUSES cannot deal with the pressure of taking care of them so they leave? It happens all of the time. Especially people with lifelong handicaps and illness. She meant love does not stop because someone isn’t how they used to be or is totally dependent. She expresses her love by taking care and he expresses his by being grateful. It is beautiful. I’m confused what was wrong with this comment?
Non Non Sounds like blaming the victim but okay. Everyone needs support. Anger is apart of human emotion. We all express it sooo I’m not understanding your point
Non Non Not really? I was sick a few years ago and my husband took such good care of me. I was mentally not even here. He was my everything and still continues to be. That’s circumstantial and grief looks differently to different people. But thanks for the share!
@Non Non Who hurt you? This is clearly very raw for you...
My late husband was paralyzed for five years before his death. Her job is hard. Much respect.
Fafa Mtz can I ask a question
Can I ask a question,why does his feet shakes since you had a husband that was paralyzed I am sorry if this offend you you don’t have to answer if you don’t want to 🤍 hope your doing well
Its nerve spasms i believe
Rebecca Stokes oh okay thank you so much I was so curious I thought he was like that
Life As Josie hey.. these shaking movements are called fasciculations, they are seen when there is a lot of muscle weakness, indicating lower motor neuron disease (meaning the electrical signals for activity is getting through from the brain i.e the upper system is okay but there is a problem at the lower level in conducting the signal). Simply put, it indicates damaged lower nerve fibers, in his case the nerve fibers arising from inside his vertebral column inside the lower part of his neck which are responsible for conducting signals to all 4 of his limbs, have been damaged. The damage means there is no proper electrical stimulation of the muscles in his limbs so they get weak and trembly. The upper center i.e the brain tries to send the signal, the muscles tremble a little but the signal won’t go through. That’s what’s happening. If the injury had been just a little higher up in the neck where the nerves supply the chest muscles, it would have been not possible for him to breathe without support because of weak chest muscles responsible for respiration. Hope you understood, Ps I am a doctor and I’d love if you’d subscribe to my channel. Thank you 🙏
This women is without question one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever seen. She is just such a bright light. What an amazing couple! Their kindness and love and respect for each other is so beautiful and inspiring and I think all couples should take a page from their book. This is just unbelievably touching and I’m now in a puddle of tears. Bless their hearts. So much respect 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Now this is the true meaning of relationship goals, find someone who will stick with you no matter what like these two, I wish them a long and happy life.
God bless you and Cole two good hearted people. Love you guys😘
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True. And now is hard to find. Your other half should be also your friend
I love you both... this relationship is the truth definition of love
The Native Unicorn absolutely I agreed. People should have that fun within their relationship. Relationships are so serious and not relax now a days. Is more headaches now more than ever 🧐
If my future husband doesn’t look at me the way Cole looks at Charisma...then I don’t want it ❤️❤️
I'm looking at my current husband with the side eye !
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@@susanimmac so you think the same thing toò
I loveee this young lady’s energy, she is so positive and motivating.
100%🙌🏽
Yes 💗
Sure is
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Everyone needs someone like that in their life even if they're just a friend
I was sittin up here being depressed about life and then this video gave me light!💖🌟😊
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Hello this video brought tears to my eyes this was my life for 19 years I took care of my son until he passed away 5 years ago I miss him so much we danced and played and sung songs he was my bestfriend I've been having a hard time finding myself never thought I would be without my son Kimani. You two are so special because this is how I imagined his life with someone who loved him unconditionally. Thanks for sharing your life with us you two are a joy to watch
I wish u all hapiness. What about some volunteering with kids with special needs. I am sure it will make u happy.
May God rest his soul and May God please bless you with love and happiness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
sending love ❤️
Oh so sad rest in peace god bless
Oh dear I can't imagine a loss of a child you've been through alot pls stay strong unfortunately my words cannot bring back your son but I hope my words an anybody else's strengthens you
Honestly you guys have restored my faith in the human race with everything that’s going on.
1000%
Yeap definitely !!!
How did I end up here?
I'm not mad, I'm in love. Cole is a cutie and Charisma is an angel.
Terri Massey right????????? Me too. Amazing. Maybe we needed their message and vibes today. I want to move in w them, help out and celebrate w these peeps! 😊
I had the same feeling few months back 😂😂😂. Binged on them.
She is a extraordinary woman , This is REAL LOVE ❤️
Ok I’m sorry but Charisma is the best name ever. That is, idk it’s just such a pretty name and it suits her ❤️
She’s literally the only other person I know with my name... well our name. I didn’t know anyone else out there had it😂❤️
@@Ayitscharisma 😁😍
My name is also Charisma 🥰😭
This is the first time I’ve seen so many people with the same name as me 😳☺️ It’s nice to know there’s a lot more people out there with this name!
My name is Charisma also❤️
Ok, who in the heck are those 300 and something people who made a point to dislike this video?? These two are amazing! I’m a nurse and have worked with people who are quadriplegic due to spinal cord injuries. They were of different ages and from all walks of life. Most were very positive or had positive support systems in their lives. They handled what happened to them with grace. It is not an easy thing. I got to experience it a bit for an 8 hr shift, 5 times a day. But it’s nothing compared to what they go through 24/7. I totally admire these two. They’re an inspiration that no matter what you’re going through, stay hopeful. Stay positive. I pray they continue to keep their positive and optimistic attitude no matter what they’re going through.
Nothing but haters SMH
Why are you so concerned about what people like and don’t like? It’s not our jobs to try and force people like stuff we like. For the record I liked the video. Just saying we gotta stop worrying about haters fr fr. It’s a waste of time.
They are dead people dead from inside.
I used to work with a quadriplegic who didn't want pity from anyone. He did a lot of things himself in the office and had the craziest sense of humour and had a smile on his face every day. That was inspirational.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years now and he is also a quadriplegic. We just recently moved in together and I found a lot of the things in this video interesting and its given me some ideas so thank you! It's crazy how this randomly popped up on my feed lol
I pray everything is good for you guys ❤️🙏🏽
Wish you a happy life guys ❤️❤️
Thanks to the universe. 🙏❤️
Best of luck to you guys and i wish you the best
You guys should friends.
I cried with joy to see two loving people who can show the World disability can be a blessing because you value each other’s strength and ability. You are teaching the World the beauty of life, the essence of happiness and kindness in hearts. I love you Cole and Charisma
Hello, how are you doing?
This girl is just an angel...
Charisma is a true angel, I bet all the men who did her wrong wished they had her now married to king cole!
Periodt. Say it again!!!! ❤️😭😭😭😭
I think it's so rude to say that she's an angel for being his caregiver. They love each other and this should be normalized.. It implies that he's not worthy of being loved by just anybody, and I bet he has plenty to give in to his relationship...
I'm jus waiting on the right guy i dont mind if hes crippled and dont have anything at all
TN B well said👌🏾
She really is but its love if you deeply care about someone, its nothing to them its normal ofc its alot of work and defo not always easy
He needs to drink water with his medicine. If there is not enough lubrication inside the esophagus, the pills can stick into the mucous and even destroy and erode the complete wall of the organ. Please be carefull I’ve seen terrible cases of esophageal perforations due to these practice.
Guys please like this comment, so they see it. Its very useful information.
This is very useful information, thank you very much dear
Could of just said drink a glass of water jeez
@@SuperSpazYT Why even comment something like this?
@@SuperSpazYT Do you just do things random people tell you to do without a proper explanation of why?
Cole is going to use his two legs to walk again. That is my wish for my birthday on 29th. Great couple. God bless you both
Yes, i hope he can walk one day and they will have many children. They will make great parents.
Charisma please consider wearing a waist belt when you are doing the heavy lifting, even if you think you're not doing very much. It will keep you from unnecessary back pain and many more. Stay healthy for both of you, much love from Taiwan
Amen... we do get old... Thank GOD!
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Yes, I agree. Some kind of safety belt for transfers. I used to be a CNA.
I hope she takes this advice! That lifting can accumulate over the years
THIS is the truest advice for her physical maintenance. I have lumbar and stenosis issues after years of caregiving
I pray my brother finds someone like you, his life drastically changed 3 years ago when he got in a terrible car accident. He has T12 spinal injury. Be blessed you guys make a great couple. You both are a blessing to one another!
how old is he?
That's really bad 😢
How old is he? Im 34😉
How old is he ?
prance he's 24 now
I'd kill for her energy. I can't even bath myself some days because my depression/anxiety/agorophobia is so bad and to have to wake up and do that much when I can't even do it for myself. I'd give anything for your mindset you are an inspiration
what's agrophobia?
Literally same
@@luna-pt2gp Anxiety disorder; scared of places and situations that may cause fear, panic, and embarrassment.
Same, some days I struggle to let my dogs out to pee
i deal with all three as well. i wish I had the same motivation as her.
This was my routine with my honey for 10 years.
You do it with such grace, Charisma. I didn’t have his family’s support.
I hope you have their love and appreciation.
Sorry that you didn't have his Family to appreciate and support you. Hopefully your own Family was giving you the necessary support. Perhaps there were money issues- they may have thought that you wanted his money. Hopefully there were no racial issues because that hurts.
@@maqangazamanyezile218 I chose to leave and he and I are on very good terms. The love between us is still there. The disrespect and tension from his family only hurt an already challenging relationship.
Hope he treats that girl with respect and love, she 1 in a million.
It sounds like they get along great and love each other,at least I feel a great vibe from them.
I went to school with him and he's a sweet boy always was so I'm sure he treats her like a Queen! Hope that reassures you ahah. I can't believe this was in my reccomended tbh! Small world
I hope she isnt doing it only for Money
@@Jose-hi5rx What money?
Tavia A. They can qualify for social security benefits/financial help from the government.
I have been married for 30 years to a C67 quad. I am so happy to see that you're showing peeps that it isn't a burden, although a pain in the ass at times, that there is fun and there is love. We have 5 kids, 4 grandkids and a wonderful life! Keep up the good work!
Having your best friend as your husband or wife is every ladies and guys dreams
Exactly
True that lol
nope. it's not _everyone's_ dream.
It sure is!!! When you have your bestfriend everything is easy...
When he got soap in his eye then opened one to see if he was good thats relatable
Charisma when you sing it is an angel's voice
I don’t normally post comments. It’s not my thing. But I felt compiled to.
We’re living in a really weird time full of uncertainty. I have a wonderful family around me but at times I’ve felt low and alone.
I came across you channel by chance this morning and I’m overwhelmed by your love, warmth and connection to each other. You’re so full of positivity in the face of adversity....and everything is better with snuggles!
Thank you ❤️
❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗
She is such a good wife he couldn’t ask for anything better
Charisma is one in a million.
She is such an amazing person. May God bless and reward her bountifully. Such a beautiful couple.God's blessing and a happy marriage to both of you. Function and beauty is amazing.
Hello, how are you doing?
I know someone with Wallenberg syndrome and the issues with sweating on one side and eye appearance you describe in the begging of the video are symptoms of it (called Horner's syndrome) Wallenberg is a stroke often associated with head and spinal injuries. It’s rare so many doctors aren’t familiar with it. I’d ask for an MRI to rule anything serious out.
Guys please like this comment so they can see it as it has very useful information for them.
we need this comment to be at the top!!
Mercygrace I think if we tag them they can see the comment. @rollwithcoleandcharisma OP posted some helpful info!
@@Caligirl.8630 oh I never knew that. Thanks for this tip
Oh!!
Charisma is a angel from the sky God bless yall I keep praying I find somebody like her one day forgot to add Cole is so inspirational
Really she do everything with true Love
Kevin Dickerson just keep praying god has your blessing in store for you all in his timing 🤗☺️
I pray you find the love of your life as well, don't settle!
You will definitely find someone who loves you wholeheartedly, I'm open to loving anyone but I think I would hire someone for the morning routines just for our relationship. I have a son and when he gets sick,I get sick cleaning up his sick... that's just who I am but I'm not opposed to finding love with anyone as long it works for us both. You will make some lucky woman happy one day,all in God's timing.
You wil brother just hang in there🇿🇦
My grandparents were in similar situations except my prideful granddad turned bitter, angry and hurtful. He always accused people especially my grandma of pitying him. He would verbally abuse her everyday and my grandma would cry when he couldn’t see.
Seeing this man be so positive and let his wife take care of him and love him without it turning him angry and bitter is just amazing. It takes a lot of courage to let go of pride. And a lot of love and strength to take care of another human being in such a capacity.
They are both strong and just amazing. Watching their videos fills my heart with joy.
R0b_b_b _b 🌹🥰🤗♥️
@CaramelMocha Love You only crack if it's too much - too heavy. Carisma seems to have a lifetime of strength.
She's a great wife very patient with her husband may God bless you guys.
Wow I applaud this woman. She takes such good care of him it is unbelievable. It is hard to find nice people like her in this world anymore. God bless you sweetheart you have many Rewards in heaven.
Not everybody wants to be a nurse. What's wrong with that? Life can be fucking hard even when you are single... No wonder people do not an extra burden. Logical.
@@alicjagodlewska1059 girl you did not get the point of the comment. And clean your mouth out with soap please.
@@calypso7636 ❤️😅
I need Charisma's energy in the mornings. That bed looks way too comfy!
Lol that's the same thing I said
Yes me too
I need her energy all the time lol.
Great teamwork!! Keep singing Charisma!
Me too❤❤
He is very lucky to have this woman in his life to care for him. She’s amazing. And his mom must be so happy she has someone now to take over being the caregiver to her son. I hope charisma gets a break sometime so she can recharge.
She is amazing and his a very lucky guy
Beautiful couple. Does Charisma get to have an occasional lunch with a few girlfriends?
V Wiggins in some of their videos she always says that his family is always there to help on days where she also needs time to recharge and that communication is the key; meaning when she needs that time out she lets him know and also she said they renovated and bought appliances that help Cole to be just abit more independence.
@@valm7314 thank you kindly for the info
She an amazing ,wonderful woman ever👼 your already blessings darling
I almost can’t handle how much I love and admire this couple!! What a gift they are to RUclips!! 😍🙏🏻❤️
Whoa! Just found you!! Love and prayers comin' your way
Amazing. I adore this couple all the way from Kenya
Charisma was born with the perfect name, she is very charasmatic 💓. The love they have is definitely felt by many
God bless this couple please...give them whatever they need in their lives in Jesus name, Amen. 🙏🏾🖤
Standing in agreement! Amen!
Amen!
Amen
Amen
Amen
She is beyond amazing! Crazy all the stuff that needs to be done before starting the day when for us it’s so fast. Don’t take your health for granted ppl. They are awesome!!!
I just started to watch this awesome couple I love C&C so awesome beautiful couple
I am so glad they found each other! Such a beautiful couple totally.they really 💘 each other for sure. This is love in action. Some of us take getting dressed for granted and can be not so grateful. Cole and Charisma are beyond amazing because love is shown in how they support each other as well. I like how they respect and help one another in everything! WOW!! Just a blessing!
I am a bilateral amputee and I would love to have a person like charisma in my life. I am completely jealous and blessed at the same time to see this relationship. Blessings COle and charisma.
This is the real meaning of... for better or for worse ...
❤️ ❤️Thats very true❤️ ❤️
Charisma you have me in tears. I have recently started dating and my boyfriend is paralyzed from the waist down, but he is able to do so much on his own and I admire that about him. I think you for giving a inside look into you all lives and I greatly appreciate the knowledge because you never know who your helping and in this case it’s me and I thank you 🙏🏾
Blessings to you and your love❤️
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Coming from someone who is a caregiver everyday as a job you are literally an angel! To be a caregiver as a job is one thing but to be a caregiver to someone your in a relationship with is so much deeper! You and him both deserve the world and I’m wishing you both the best in life 🥰
Trinity I agree! I'm also in healthcare and just being HUMAN dealing with other humans, isn't easy some days, but she's so loving, kind, and graceful! I'll take her "charisma" with me to shift tonight...great reminder to be patient & stay positive!
I'm a caregiver also I absolutely love my job I love to help people This young lady has me speechless I'm at a lost for words a reminder of our dedication patience and kindness
I received a blessing just watching them. Father God continue to bless this lovely couple in your name, Amen.
This young beautiful lady is a gift from God. Cole and Charisma match so well.
May the Angels and Saints watch over them and my prayer is one day Cole will heal and walk again.
God is faithful and merciful
He is🙌
I just found their channel by accident and wow do I love them. They both are the perfect example of how your ATTITUDE can make any situation in life worse or better. It’s all a choice.
So true
So TRUE! Really like this comment
I love this comment!!!
I just found them too! Theyve just made the top of my fav youtube couples list! I absolutely love them!
She is the cutest thing ever. They both have such amazing attitudes. Seriously inspiring
Isn't she! Xoxo
You have managed to find an angel on earth. Never let her go she’s special and a gift from God.
HE WON'T LET HER GO....... HE WILL NEVER FIND A BETTER ASS-WIPER
What an amazing woman. God has blessed Cole with a real angel!!!
My husband was a quadriplegic as well. He dressed himself and drove himself to work every day. All I have to do is slide a board under him to get him in and out of bed. We was such a great pair. Miss him sooo much 😔😔😔😔
How old is your husband?
I’m sorry ❤️ stay strong
Latangela Higginbotham ge was 51 years old when he passed away 3 years ago
Sorry for your loss, I'm widowed also for 4 years. May GOD strenghten all of us. This video is amazing!
Latangela Higginbotham yes it is and thank you ☺️
Big respect to Cole for being so cool with sharing such an in-depth look at the implications of day-to-day life under his condition. Charisma is great in every aspect. Very insightful video! Much love to the both of them. :)
I don’t know any two people who were more made for each other than these two. What a blessing they are to each other and to us. ❤️
From South Africa. I binge on your vlogs like everyday because at 67 yrs you continue to inspire me. Keep on keeping on. Remain blessed
Charisma, is an angel from God, loving people is difficult, but caring and loving someone who has a disability is a different level. I was diagnosed with varicella encephalopathy in 2011 and your videos give me hope.
I love them and I don't even know them. Their partnership is simply amazing.
Yes so amazingly beautiful
She's an amazing woman. She has patience and loves taking care of him. Most people wouldn't do that.
I will be praying for Cole that the sweating and pinched nerve will be healed, and every procedure will go well.God bless you Cole & Charisma❤
Thank you! ❤️
It's refreshing to see how happy their life is amidst Cole's physical challenges! Charisma, you were created for this! Amazing!
WOW! What an amazing couple. I subbed this awesomeness. God bless you both.
Nothing like being with the one you love... lovely
Very true
AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯💯💯💯💯
Father give them love and Strength and patients to go on living and loving each other forever 😍🙏❤
Amen to that! Bless these beautiful souls.
Amen and amen
Watching your video, especially the clip of you dancing and doing everything around the house by yourself, helped me to be more grateful, patient and not complain so much. I feel like I do so much, but nothing in comparison to you. And my husband does so much to help as well. And I need to be more grateful for that and appreciate his efforts and support. Bless you two and may you both live a long, happy and healthy life together.
You guys are relationship goals I swear, as a disabled guy I wish that I get have of what you guys have ♥️♥️
Don't worry you will meet your loved one who will love you whole heartdly
Never seen a more precious couple in my life. And the way he looks at her makes me melt into the floor😭
You can't convince me that charisma ain't a really angel,omg they are so lucky to have each other.
No she isn't an angel she's a fool
@@debrannkaye8874 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😭
@@debrannkaye8874 I wouldn't say she's a fool, but to be so young to take on this responsibility is kind of sad for a young woman
@@piper-ct2vy theyre happy and in love. What's so sad about it? Cole can do most things by himself he just needs a little help sometimes.
@@debrannkaye8874 you really are a miserable person.
They both truly love each other. God bless the both of you.
She is literally an angel on earth. May your cup runneth over forever!
This made me cry thinking about my spouse. I'd never leave no matter what. There is someone for everyone. This is the perfect example of this. It also shows that love is more than just the physical and it can overcome anything. They were made for each other and it shows 😭😭😭😭. He is not a burden but an addition to her life! They struggle yes but dont we all? It's just a different hurdle. I wish them nothing but the best!
I love you guys! My husband as the same injury. He sustained it after a diving accident at age 29 - 2 weeks before our wedding!. Thank you for all your videos. I've yet to see them all. I love the realness y'all being to the table and the reality that is being an interabled couple! 🙌
Your haven
God bless you, I feel for you 2 God always make A way just hang in there...........
I think I just fell in love with your relationship ❤
Heaven has a reserved spot for you two. You are beautiful folks.
need hoya lift to ease lifting
Shoutout to all the significant others that help their mates in need ❤️
Hey Cole, Im a doctor from NY and it looks like you have signs of Horner's syndrome with the absence of sweating on one side, along with the drooping of your eyelid and change in pupil size. Would be a good idea to go see your PCP or neurologist! Take care you two!
I hope that they will see this
@@ndeyemariediagne1688 they've put a like on a similar comment.
Seriously one of the most amazing women on earth! Thats true love. Someday i'll find someone half as great as you. You're an inspiration, and give all single guys out there with no significant other hope, that someone is out there for all of us.
I cried watching this not because I feel sorry for them but because all you hear and see is negatives, they are upbeat, laughing, loving life for what it is. ❤️❤️❤️
That's all you're hearing...sad
@@latreemsmorrow7291 no I think they mean that there is too much negative in the world and these two are a breath of fresh air.
My daughter is a paraplegic. Even though she doesn’t have to do a bowel program, she does have to get up an hour earlier if we need to be somewhere early. Example, usually her day starts at 8 am but on Sunday to get to 9 am service, she will get up at 6:45. You find a routine that works and go with it. Cole, I am praying that your sweating issue gets better soon. Charisma, keep singing and dancing!!
Don't let her go man, you are a lucky man. To have a woman love you like that.
Whoever disliked this video has some serious issues..
Adorable couple ❤
I love how independent cole is becoming. I love you guys.
I love how she’s thr for his every need
It’s hard 2 found someone like her
I’m going through the same thing
I been in the wheelchair 🦽 for
3 year & im not giving up I’m still waiting
On that special someone!!!
Keep the faith Nelson, God will work it for you
Get it, brother! I'm a C4-C5 and will gladly share tips I've learned, over the last 19 years, for complete independence. Just hit me up. Women are attracted when you can say and show independence.
1 day GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE 🤞😊
You’ll find her! Keep the Faith!
And you will get one Sooner
What a great girl you have Cole... You must also be very special to deserve her. God Bless you both!!
He is sooo special! ❤️🤗 I’m a lucky gal- Charisma
@@coleandcharisma Girl you have "Charisma" as well. I am rooting for you two...
@@coleandcharisma
I feel sorry for you...
@@mercyogbee7077 and I would say I feel sorry for YOU that YOU CAN'T appreciate what THEY have TOGETHER for EACH OTHER but I don't. Lol Stay in your small, miserable selfish self-centeredness. Just wish you wouldn't sully THIS BEAUTIFUL page with it.
@@ellehub2136
You are just hypocrital like the mayority of the commenters.
As a black women I can asure you that he had no other option. And knowing what we go throuth "being healthy" , for sure, if she were the one disable he wouldn't have even notice her existence.
True hurst but must be said.
All my black friends agree with me.
You will never EVER will see a healthy white dude taking care of a disable black girl, having tons of options.
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Cole gets more handsome the more he gets older .. & he makes her happy & she makes him happy & I see in her face she loves him more & more each day & they looks like they make each other happy .. she loves her husband for better or worse & they are happy .. I love that ..
Charisma's energy is so infectious that my anxiety just went away and Cole's chill mood feels so calming. Just watching you both helped me relax and worry less about petty stuff. You guys are awesome💕
Ikr, I need to be this positive with life
I so agree with you!!
Totally agree. I have a lot on my plate but watching them is inspiring. She is such a hard worker and he really does a lot on his part. Very nice couple.
He has a partner and also a angel by his side god gave him a gift for life I wish both off you the best and every good will come to both off you
This Man has to thank God for finding this woman.