I have another method that is based on two English words, "be" and "have", where "have" represents conditional and "be" represents unconditional mindset. as an example "I must have something to be happy" is a conditional statement that also projects lack, and what you project you attract. on the other hand just 'be' and 'have' will follow ..or as Master Yeshua ben Yousef taught us "seek ye first the kingdom of God - which is within, and all things shall be added onto you" !
Life's greatest accomplishment/triumph is not what you've accomplished vis-avis other humans, or what you have gained possession of, but the greatest triumph is becoming at-one-ment w/ the Spirit, in the transmigration of souls through eternity - this is the true and only salvation, wherein you are self-realized. Buddha, upon being self-realized under a Bodhi Tree, said I have no more questions. Yeshua ben Yousef said, "My Father and I are One", and Native American Seers, once consumed w/ fire from within, quipped, "Eagles command became my Command" . As for earthly fame, position and fortune, Buddha was born a crown prince but became a begging bowl monk from his early 30s until he died in his 80s, yet never returned to his princely estate. Yeshua was born poor, but when he was asked to be the king of Israel, he rejected and ran and continued w/ his mission w/ the masses of preaching the Good News as a wandering prophet. More recently, Africans were brought forcefully to the New World w/ no possibility of freedom, material possession or normal family life, but why did the "One" allow that existence to happen to his spiritual children? ... this is why I say one-size does not fit all, and yet designs of the Spirit is never w/o meaning or mindless as to why something like this seem to occur! It is said unless faced w/ what you are not, how do you affirm, w/o a stitch of doubt for eternity, who you really are? Even the angels in heaven are in awe at the wisdom gained from this proposition.
‘There’s no failure, only delay in results’ powerful, I’m manifesting my design for a certain project to be selected, and it is already done, I feel grateful
@@mirabela1344well, yeah but it makes so much sense (not the part about literally manipulating the physical reality) it has its roots in neurobiology, like, I've been researching about how the brain learns and motivation that and it makes so much fucking sense. Believing that you will get the win (pretty sure this will improve memory too) or whatever you want will allow you to do even do something very hard like learning quantum physics vs when you belive you don't believe that. And research has shown that dopamine is the highest not when you get the reward but when you have an expectation that you are just about to get it. And perhaps desensitisation yourself to the reward aka "projecting it into your life" will, I'm guessing, make you less anxious when you are in the middle of actually doing it and belief that you'll win actually helps alot. Research has shown that anxiety can make your memory worse, including cognitive function. It's so fascinating to me how a random woman just figured out the way to hack how the human brain works. Like, yeah, she may have been very smart but still.
oh shoot! that's so true ahhaah damn! i've been struggling a while in the past days, and i can see that what you say it's a choice that i wasnt doing consciously, but i can tell you that those days where i choose the pain of discipline, end with me having , most of the times, a hell of a day, hahaahah but with me ending that day rejoicing in the memories of the things that i had and did that day, and also, as she says in the vid, we dont get the fruit the same "momento" we plant the seed, but we do get the memories of doing so haahaha and that's real. hahahah thanks a lot for your lovely and wise words, mon ami. Greetings from Mexico👽
She didn’t win every contest. What I learned most from her interviews is she didn’t fear entering. Most of us never enter and give the universe a chance to work on our behalf.
She failed for over 10yrs and never mentioned this part of her life. Her interviews all start with announcing, 'i read Norman Vincent Peels's The Pwr of Postv Thinking, and...', i.e. she was brought back to first principles, of following the spiritual rules of law & SPEC came in last & was another one of her 'coined' catchy phrases. You have to reprogram yourself that's the only way - and you may never succeed due to the fact that no-one knows the subconscious really; or else, get someone else willing to do this for you so you don't keep sabotaging it I've succeed in this for others will miracle results that no-one would have believed the person would change, or things that happened, etc.
“You are no smaller nor larger than that man/woman you want in your life, hon. That car you want, or the career that you want, or the physical body that you want - wants you. Because without you, it only exists in your imaginal realm. You give it physical life. I think that makes you pretty cool. And that’s the mindset.” That was my favorite part of this video!! Thankful for your uploads always.
'Taking things off the pedestal' was my game changer. I started to cherish so much more than just the biggest wishes I had. Life is so grand. If you enjoy and love and relax into this, life gets incredibly amazing ♥️♥️♥️
Same! I got humbled by life and instead of fighting it I started questioning, detaching, accepting and kept moving. Anything that’s a threat to my emotional & physical being I move on from it. Introspection is key, question yourself. Your ways of thinking, carrying and choosing.
@@tokyogoonshe says in the video, to think of something you would do that's mundane or normal. So if you want a new car, you can imagine gassing up the car. Pretty boring, but it would be a reality with the new car. New house? Imagine moving your stuff in, or having to drill a hole in the wall to hang something.
Story time : my boyfriend had been looking for an apartment for a month, and was staying in hostels even though his class year already started early september, because the apartment market for students in his city is hell. Every time he’s apply for a place, someone got it instead of him, but he was determined to keep looking and not settle for a farther place. I showed him this video 2 days ago, he did the technique and used this mindset yesterday when he visited a place. He told himself « i am visiting my new apartment, i am 100% going to move in here » and he got it !! I don’t know if this is a huge coincidence but after a 1-month hunt i cannot tell you how happy we were. Thank you Maleeka for sharing this story :)
A one month apartment hunt is not that long, and maybe he settled for a mediocre apartment. And what would have happened if another person viewed the apartment and used the same mindset? Yeah.....
@@imFruzzyWhy are you even on this channel? You obviously don’t believe in law of assumption therefore you cannot possibly achieve anything you want and making negative comments to someone who actually believes and experienced a positive result is pretty lousy of you…Karma
*God is Good!!! My Husband and I just Acquired a new House here in Notting Hill worth (£159K), Despite all the ups and down in House Crises in U.K..... As you Congratulate me your own testimony awaits you. Praise God!* ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
My theory is when we wish with love , the energy is easily attracted to us , while in the state of doubt , fear repells the energy from our manifestation
I want to agree to this. Because with positive energy even if you fail you still win because you move on to the next thing. But with negative thinking the minute you fail you never do anything else again and you lose a thousand times. I'm like the second, I start things and then fear it if it will work or not and slowly doubt myself out of it and then that rolls down to anything else I want to do.
I kid you not, I'm currently halfway through reading Helene Hadsell's book "The Name It and Claim It Game". I heard a contest on the radio giving away trips to Cancun Mexico, Puerto Rico, or Jamaica. I entered the contest because my partner and I had been wanting to travel specifically to Cancun Mexico. Yesterday I got the call saying I WON. IT WORKS!! I had never won anything like that before! The first contest I ever entered, I won a vacation. Guys, you are all gods. Play the game of life and win. You got this!
Yoda spoke truth and the force is within all of us in like manner, they even meditated to gain wisdom , strength and become stronger with the force/ energy within
To anyone doubting this method, trust me, it works! I used this method just yesterday, wrote down what sort of job I wanted in my journal, and describe what a typical work day would look like and what the job would be like. Then I applied to a few openings on a job board. Only a few hours later I received an invitation to an interview, which I went to today, and got hired on the spot! The job even matches the specifications that I had written down about it, Thank you for this video and good luck to anyone else trying this!
Watched the video and applied the methods that day. I told myself we are going out to eat and I am going to get a free meal or a reduced price. Went to a restaurant expecting it to happen not worrying how. My child ordered a hamburger and a chicken salad because he couldn't decide between the two meals, we got the chicken salad for free. I left smiling, it was amazing. Later on that day after running errands and out of energy to make dinner I told myself one of the food delivery apps will have a special. Went to my phone, felt like opening a food app I rarely use and it was $0 delivery for a restaurant near me and ended up saving $15 off the order. So yes this works! I cant wait to try out bigger things.
Wow. I am sorry you are having a life that makes you unnecessarily mean to strangers so they can share in your misery. I hope things get better for you. Sending love and light. @@radar4536
I love Helen's mindset, it seems rare to find someone in their golden years who's still the intentional co-creator of their life experience, and not a jaded cynic.
Listening to *Her* say... "I Never try, I *DO* SOMETHING." I can't recall ever hearing so much *conviction* expressed from just mere words. THAT STRUCK ME! -💚*🙏🏼..."🧠".....❇!
It's not just the win or the outcome or the prize it is ALL the twists and turns, the surprises, the insights, the deepening of commitment and discipline, learning how to stay in love with the losses and knowing it's all a great exciting play.
A new affirmation to add to your affirmation list (you can modify it to your liking): I expect success, happiness, prosperity, and abundance in my life for my personal use now!
"When you love everything equally, you take the things you want off the pedestal, making them your equal" So you can float and gravitate toward them instead of climbing or feeling like you have to climb - Been out for 6 days but this video/your message has already impacted and changed my life for the better, I hope you know you're having the same effect on many other lives. Beautiful, thank you so much for creating this
“Without you, your desires would remain in your imaginations - you bring them to life in the physical” (paraphrased) That part shifted something in me ✨ Beautiful video, thank you! ❤
best manifestation vid ever and the editing? the clips? your voice? the way you dont gatekeep and get straight to the point? the quotes? THE VISUALS? so beautiful and educating and motivating at the same time.I JUST SUBBED i hope u make more
Dear everyone, I wish you peace inside your soul. We are all light and all connected, don’t be scare, all gonna be ok. Your futur gonna be fantastic because you are fantastic. Thank you so much for your reading.
It’s been a long time since I’ve listened to someone so calming, so eloquently spoken. This video is magnificent! You got the message across beautifully. Thank you❤️
She doesn’t need your money and you are searching for easy money so why are you giving it away. Give it to that hungry person not to a little girl who can use her mind ro get millions. Why does she need money from you.
@@bluwng bro chillll, @KnittingandManifesting only contributed money to her because they thought her content was useful. Didn't mean anything else. You get by giving.
I love the way helene addresses people "honey" in that kind old grandma tone, it's sounds so sweet. I also like when she says, "if you have a goal or desire, hang in there until you get it, success replaces failure until you can no longer fail"
I bought the Silvia Method book the one Helene Hadsell had, but up until today i haven't even started reading it yet, lately I'm in my depressive state and even went to the eucharist to pray and i end up weeping asking for help and a sign. Now i saw this, then i remember the book. and i keep on seeing repeating numbers such as 11:11, 222, 555
One of the most life changing things I've done for myself is saying out loud the things I want. There's a different between wanting something and keeping those desires as internal thoughts, and actually putting those thoughts out physically. I thought this was manifestation, but it's truly more than that - it's also a mindset. I love when you say "your mind is a garden" that needs to be cultivated... it's important to understand that getting your desires and reaching your full potential take time and growth!
The spine tingling sensation of knowing how very powerful god made us, when we decide to love. Our creative boundaries know no limits. Thanks for the vid, and much love to all of you reading this, i hope you achieve what you all deserve.🚀💯💪
Something important to point out that kinda got glossed over is that this woman consistently entered contests for 10 years, win or lose. I think that's the real power of this method, the positive thinking and resilience. Mr. Beast worked on RUclips consistently for about 10 years until he blew up, from what I understand. Dedicating yourself to some sort of craft for a decade and doing it with the positive expectation that at some point you will win, or even just trying to consistently improve, is powerful. I think a lot of people might get carried away with the manifesting aspect of all this, but the way I see it its just a method to achieve positivity and resilience. It's a pretty good one though.
I have a friend that i always was amazed by how things worked out for her. There were challenges, however the one thing she did, that stood out to me in this video...is putting things in place as if that which was desired was already there. This...boldface and expectant way of moving through life...I have come to realize is what is quantum entanglement. Tethering yourself to what is, yet has not been.
That’s the problem I have in getting things that I want. I’ve been so defeated in my life so everytime I want or try and get it, it always fail and I just give up. Hearing your words today made me a different person and will give it my all!!! Thanks for the inspiring video and keep up the good work❤
story of my life. I always feel like I’m winning in certain areas of my life. I feel that people are curious as to “how” I do it. I don’t think there’s any secret sauce too it, I just DO IT. (maybe my witchy ways plays a part too but idk lol)
I would say this saved me today from drowning in anxiety and negative thoughts. I'm currently giving exams. And the result of this exam decides if I will be able to reach my current biggest goal of life. But the sad part is I couldn't prepare for this exam for health and other issues. And I was panicking that I will fail. But now I believe that I will get my desired result, no matter what
The Universe is amazing. This video was brought to me today, exactly at the right time. Perfect message. I am now a subscriber. Thank you for these videos. Blessings to all.
You’re an angel, your intro brought me tears. I don’t know why I can’t stop replaying it. I’m currently 22 almost 23 and feel like I have tooken many wins throughout my life. I’m still working towards bigger things, and the question still arises amongst your peers,”what if he just got lucky?” All the content I’ve been watching recently and this was one of those videos that brought everything full circle. Thank you!
my favorite affirmation that me and a close friend of mine were talking about was how whateever you believe in religiously, we are all the divine consciousness or god (i am god and i am a exact projection of god) , and we are a projection of them, meaning we possess the same power, and if we channel that and believe in that power (therefore taking control) we can manifest what we desire (as i have done with many things ive manifested) remember you are in control ❤ good luck! ♡
I just got let go from my job because my department got downsized and this found me at exactly the right time. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in such a lovely and calm manner, I am much less upset and feel serenity instead of stress. I know I'll find a job I like. It's just a matter of time and preparation. It's already in front of me
I lost my job 2 months ago and i’ve been turned down from 3 other job opportunities are the last interview. I just finished interviewing at my 4th job and i hear back Tuesday i’m confident this job ja mine but nervous, keep pushing!
I am limitless and everything I come to desire instantly becomes mine for physical world is a reflection of my spiritual world where I am I am that all derives from!!
Your videos give me so much strength. And have helped me discover much more about myself, spiritually and the overall universe. I’ve already started and have manifested a lot of my dream reality, and have a lot more to go. But I’m so excited and can’t wait for what’s to come.
I literally just asked, these days, the universe, for some signs and events, so i can grow more mentally to my higher self. This video helped me so much and it opened my eyes to a new direction. Thank you so much for posting this, your content is amazing❤❤❤
A top notch content creator! Very compelling storytelling, articulately written work, soothing background music, what more could I ask for? Thanks for making content! This is golden! 10/10
Heard of Helen Hadsell before, of course. Maleeka explains Helen's story with extra details that nobody else has explained so well before. Thanks, Maleeka !!!
You are the first woman I’ve met to speak of such great wisdom thank you I knew I was on the verge of finding something important, and then I found this. After accidentally, avoiding Neville Goddard and his method by somehow not completing the audiobooks I use. I have not heard of this woman until today. What a fascinating piece of history. Thank you for your content.
Your energy is truly is something hun. I was having a headache and I have a habit of watching RUclips while I'm eating. I didn't even remember I had a headache and realized it was gone by the time you ended the video. Thank you for all the guidance and love you give out to the word. Your message is gonna make so many people's lives better. Have a great life and may god bless you ❣
My breakthrough came when I made a decision as GOD! I have a slip of paper on one side I wrote: There is no hope, there is no try! There is only a holy decision from GOD! On the other side: As GOD do I decide to lose? As GOD do I decide to win? As GOD create that decision! Read and answer passionately, then repeat every 1:11:11!
@@lregis6822I’m not religious but I think the point OP is trying to make here is that, going off what I remember from my bible school days, everyone is made in god’s image so do you believe that god would want success or failure for himself and by extension those in his image? I could be wrong but that’s how it’s been explained to me whenever somebody in this community is religious and trying to manifest from this perspective.
@@lregis6822 @liesya4194 an alternate view is that you yourself are god because you are one with god as god is one with you, thats a very different notion than being *A* god.
Wow, this is gold! 💥 Helene's SPEC method (Select it, Project it, Expect it, Collect it) is reminiscent of the law of attraction. Rewatch the video and really absorb how powerful projecting and expecting is. It's like Neville Goddard’s teachings on feeling it real - it all begins in the imagination! You're the creator of your reality.
OMG you described this way completely more tolerably than the person I first heard about this from. You respect the to-the-point and detailed, succinct exchange of powerful personal information for others in a non-boring way and with no sales pitch or requirement. Thank you very much for respecting and being caring enough to make this video, truly.
I rarely leave comments but I wanted to thank you. These types of videos and creators like you are so wonderful (the community as well) It's the first of your videos I've watched and it seems to have arrived at the right time for me. You're positively changing lives beyond your own, truly. Best wishes to everyone reading this :)
"When you love everything equally, you take the things you want off the pedestal". This is huge. I have struggled with this idea of taking the things I want off a pedestal, I think this one of the first ways I've heard it be described as something you can do: love everything unconditionally and equally without judgment.
Love the content but also really like your calm, confident and soothing tone of voice. Makes it pleasant to listen to and so I eg. didn’t skip the interesting story of Helene.
Thank you once again....your Timing is Divine ❤....i keep growing and becoming more Humble with the knowledge you keep sharing.... Grateful for such a Soul 🫂🎁🪶❤️
My dreams always come true… ever since my childhood I’ve manifested and done the work and some how it becomes reality wether it’s winning ore receiving, experiencing. Well I have always felt great inner love blessed with the most profound thoughts about being able to live life even though I as like other people have had sorrow, sickness upon me and lost loved ones. But getting back to life realizing, that life is the greatest gift of all! Grateful for being able to give and receive love and less expectations about materialism somehow it keeps coming abundance seems never ending. I’m humbled to be a part of this lifetime and can’t miss out cause it’s a one way ticket…..
I am impressed w/ your video. Its not an AI talking, your speech is clear & crisp, no stuttering, & you have delivered your message w/ a lot of confidence. It should be the way all self help videos should in order to inspire those who seek to improve their lives by seeing a real person deliver the message & not just listening to an AI voice.
Hi Maleeka. Thank you for this video. I saw it on Sunday, 29.10.23 and stumbled over the 'SPEC' and pondered a bit about it. I wanted to manifest money and remember me thinking:'' Whatever is coming, is welcome''. Monday. 30.10.23 I opened my bank app and saw a bonus from my company. About £150.00. I felt so uplifted and happy. It might be a small amount but a big sign that manifesting is working. I will put more effort in it and learn. Thank you again for this one. God bless you. ;-)
Thank you so much for this beautiful video, my mom and i are healing slowly from years of abuse from my father, we don't really have many people in our lives or support from family at all, so we are struggling with a difficult economic situation, and she has multiple illnesses. With that being said, I'm a very positive and spiritual person and i know that in the end this will have been worth it, it's time to take power, and manifest into existence what's best for us, it's already there we just have to notice it and vision it. Thank you for this touching video, it helped a lot. 🌌❣️
The content of the video itself is great and valuable, but full credit on how you packaged it and presented it! you are very good at what you are doing , keep it up!
There are some valid points here however just remember who is running the show. When you think you are in control of outcomes God just may decide to teach you otherwise. Also be very careful about being attached to results which leads to disappointment. You definitely deserve what you want but there may be some things that need to be learned on the way, like loving yourself unconditionally ❤️❤️❤️
Loved this so much. I have just recently gotten into proper meditation and it's like this video appeared at the perfect time for me. Thanks for sharing this! :)
“Ignatian indifference” is a concept by St. Ignatius of Loyola who said you should treat everything equally so nothing is on a pedestal, mostly when yo desire something.
From my experience. I tend to win when I've lost the most, meaning those around me who see me winning simply haven't fallen and stood back up as many times as I have.
Came back to watch this again, because the message presented here is so powerful and true. Thank you again and have a Happy and Blessed New Year.🤗 btw - I shared this with my cherished friends and those I study spirituality with. So love how you presented this🥰
thank you maleeka you have zero clue how bad i needed to hear the last part. the life that i want, the success that i want, wants me more because without me it only exists in the imaginary realm. i bring it to life. i give it physical life.
Thank you for this video. Viewing it during this period of my life was meant to happen as the experiences I have been having affect my mindset and my mindset has been affecting these experiences. My grandmother used to tell me “We wouldn’t know Joy, pleasure, happiness, and success if we didn’t experience Loss, failure, grief and trials. You have to experience both to be able to recognize the other.”
Perhaps, you weren't actually REALISTIC about the selection of your dream in the first place. And/Or during the PROJECTION part, you started having doubts that clouded your mind and influenced it to stray from what you want (Or did you truly wanted it?)
I have applied the power of visualization in pursuing my own goals and dreams in life. However, I only dedicate this practice to only few, but of utmost importance, pursuits. I have to say that most of them I was able to achieve. That's how powerful it is. For the rest of the goals that did not translate to reality, it's because I had doubts about them. I wasn't able to project clearly that I already have them because only much later did I realize that I didn't actually wanted them. Or that those goals weren't actually realistic given the time, place and other circumstances. And I realize how it makes so much sense why I couldn't have them. This could be your situation.
"I never try, I do something." - Helene Hadsell 💓
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I have another method that is based on two English words, "be" and "have", where "have" represents conditional and "be" represents unconditional mindset. as an example "I must have something to be happy" is a conditional statement that also projects lack, and what you project you attract. on the other hand just 'be' and 'have' will follow ..or as Master Yeshua ben Yousef taught us "seek ye first the kingdom of God - which is within, and all things shall be added onto you" !
Bless you little sister. New sub. 🙏
Hey can i 😝😛 that 🐟🐟 hon
Life's greatest accomplishment/triumph is not what you've accomplished vis-avis other humans, or what you have gained possession of, but the greatest triumph is becoming at-one-ment w/ the Spirit, in the transmigration of souls through eternity - this is the true and only salvation, wherein you are self-realized. Buddha, upon being self-realized under a Bodhi Tree, said I have no more questions. Yeshua ben Yousef said, "My Father and I are One", and Native American Seers, once consumed w/ fire from within, quipped, "Eagles command became my Command" . As for earthly fame, position and fortune, Buddha was born a crown prince but became a begging bowl monk from his early 30s until he died in his 80s, yet never returned to his princely estate. Yeshua was born poor, but when he was asked to be the king of Israel, he rejected and ran and continued w/ his mission w/ the masses of preaching the Good News as a wandering prophet. More recently, Africans were brought forcefully to the New World w/ no possibility of freedom, material possession or normal family life, but why did the "One" allow that existence to happen to his spiritual children? ... this is why I say one-size does not fit all, and yet designs of the Spirit is never w/o meaning or mindless as to why something like this seem to occur! It is said unless faced w/ what you are not, how do you affirm, w/o a stitch of doubt for eternity, who you really are? Even the angels in heaven are in awe at the wisdom gained from this proposition.
‘There’s no failure, only delay in results’ powerful, I’m manifesting my design for a certain project to be selected, and it is already done, I feel grateful
It's so delulu. But sometimes this is the solution
@@mirabela1344you had one chance to say solulu
@@mirabela1344well, yeah but it makes so much sense (not the part about literally manipulating the physical reality) it has its roots in neurobiology, like, I've been researching about how the brain learns and motivation that and it makes so much fucking sense. Believing that you will get the win (pretty sure this will improve memory too) or whatever you want will allow you to do even do something very hard like learning quantum physics vs when you belive you don't believe that. And research has shown that dopamine is the highest not when you get the reward but when you have an expectation that you are just about to get it. And perhaps desensitisation yourself to the reward aka "projecting it into your life" will, I'm guessing, make you less anxious when you are in the middle of actually doing it and belief that you'll win actually helps alot. Research has shown that anxiety can make your memory worse, including cognitive function.
It's so fascinating to me how a random woman just figured out the way to hack how the human brain works. Like, yeah, she may have been very smart but still.
Hey, I can't believe how your design got picked for that project!! That's crazy; insane talent. I'm so prouddddddddddddd!!
I wanted everyone to die then the vax came out
"Each day you must choose the pain of discipline or the pain of regret"
oh shoot! that's so true ahhaah damn! i've been struggling a while in the past days, and i can see that what you say it's a choice that i wasnt doing consciously, but i can tell you that those days where i choose the pain of discipline, end with me having , most of the times, a hell of a day, hahaahah but with me ending that day rejoicing in the memories of the things that i had and did that day, and also, as she says in the vid, we dont get the fruit the same "momento" we plant the seed, but we do get the memories of doing so haahaha and that's real. hahahah thanks a lot for your lovely and wise words, mon ami. Greetings from Mexico👽
When you have found your passion you dont need discipline to start...but to stop :)
@cosmicspectrum4507 I absolutely love that
@@alexandrenedellec7116 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
you‘re very much stuck in the hamster wheel since your life is ruled by pain
“Your desires want you too. Without you they can never become reality.” I love all of your videos! ❤
im manifesting your tatty bo jangles
Wow thanks for sharing 💕
im trying to manifest to "eat you out"..
@xrp589baby I'm surprised your vulgar comment is still here.
Wow
She didn’t win every contest. What I learned most from her interviews is she didn’t fear entering. Most of us never enter and give the universe a chance to work on our behalf.
Did they ever say what percentage of contests she entered?
Omg, your comment was all i need ❤❤❤
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Also most contests back then were actually real and far less people entered them (the odds were far better)
She failed for over 10yrs and never mentioned this part of her life. Her interviews all start with announcing, 'i read Norman Vincent Peels's The Pwr of Postv Thinking, and...', i.e. she was brought back to first principles, of following the spiritual rules of law & SPEC came in last & was another one of her 'coined' catchy phrases. You have to reprogram yourself that's the only way - and you may never succeed due to the fact that no-one knows the subconscious really; or else, get someone else willing to do this for you so you don't keep sabotaging it
I've succeed in this for others will miracle results that no-one would have believed the person would change, or things that happened, etc.
To everyone reading this comment, may your dreams blossom into reality, filled with endless joy, prosperity, and love.
Thank you i needed this 🥹
Thank you. Back at you.
And yours, also! 😊
Thanks and same to you!❤🙏🏾
Thank you ❤
“You are no smaller nor larger than that man/woman you want in your life, hon. That car you want, or the career that you want, or the physical body that you want - wants you. Because without you, it only exists in your imaginal realm.
You give it physical life. I think that makes you pretty cool. And that’s the mindset.”
That was my favorite part of this video!! Thankful for your uploads always.
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Thank you dear, bless you
absolutely loved that part and very much needed to hear it!
can you please elaborate, im having slightly harder time understanding the giving it life part
@@munch4ice basically the reality you want, wants to exist. And you and God are the only ones who can make that reality, real
The best thing about being a fearless manifestor is knowing that you will never fail. There’s no failure, only greater good.
omg this quote is so deep!
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failure only means another chance for me,so i guess it is never a fail
'Taking things off the pedestal' was my game changer. I started to cherish so much more than just the biggest wishes I had. Life is so grand. If you enjoy and love and relax into this, life gets incredibly amazing ♥️♥️♥️
Same! I got humbled by life and instead of fighting it I started questioning, detaching, accepting and kept moving. Anything that’s a threat to my emotional & physical being I move on from it. Introspection is key, question yourself. Your ways of thinking, carrying and choosing.
100%
How do you de-pedestalize
@@tokyogoonshe says in the video, to think of something you would do that's mundane or normal. So if you want a new car, you can imagine gassing up the car. Pretty boring, but it would be a reality with the new car. New house? Imagine moving your stuff in, or having to drill a hole in the wall to hang something.
Story time : my boyfriend had been looking for an apartment for a month, and was staying in hostels even though his class year already started early september, because the apartment market for students in his city is hell. Every time he’s apply for a place, someone got it instead of him, but he was determined to keep looking and not settle for a farther place.
I showed him this video 2 days ago, he did the technique and used this mindset yesterday when he visited a place. He told himself « i am visiting my new apartment, i am 100% going to move in here » and he got it !!
I don’t know if this is a huge coincidence but after a 1-month hunt i cannot tell you how happy we were. Thank you Maleeka for sharing this story :)
bruh its gotta be fake Dx
@@GaM3RaDaRhow do you know are you her?
A one month apartment hunt is not that long, and maybe he settled for a mediocre apartment. And what would have happened if another person viewed the apartment and used the same mindset? Yeah.....
@@imFruzzy Do you often tear people down?
@@imFruzzyWhy are you even on this channel? You obviously don’t believe in law of assumption therefore you cannot possibly achieve anything you want and making negative comments to someone who actually believes and experienced a positive result is pretty lousy of you…Karma
*God is Good!!! My Husband and I just Acquired a new House here in Notting Hill worth (£159K), Despite all the ups and down in House Crises in U.K..... As you Congratulate me your own testimony awaits you. Praise God!* ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Maria Luisa Abrams.
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
My theory is when we wish with love , the energy is easily attracted to us , while in the state of doubt , fear repells the energy from our manifestation
Ahh that just clicked, makes so much sense!
I want to agree to this. Because with positive energy even if you fail you still win because you move on to the next thing. But with negative thinking the minute you fail you never do anything else again and you lose a thousand times. I'm like the second, I start things and then fear it if it will work or not and slowly doubt myself out of it and then that rolls down to anything else I want to do.
@@clashofqueen93 i relate to that, lately ive been starting a bit smaller with things and so far that seems to bring more consistency and persistence.
@@mellow_frequencies it just clicked for me too
I mean it makes sense I like that theory it may be accurate
"No matter how high the stakes are I always win" 🙌
Race me
Please tell me what you have won and how many times. Thanks!
I kid you not, I'm currently halfway through reading Helene Hadsell's book "The Name It and Claim It Game". I heard a contest on the radio giving away trips to Cancun Mexico, Puerto Rico, or Jamaica. I entered the contest because my partner and I had been wanting to travel specifically to Cancun Mexico. Yesterday I got the call saying I WON. IT WORKS!! I had never won anything like that before! The first contest I ever entered, I won a vacation. Guys, you are all gods. Play the game of life and win. You got this!
I will look for the book and must read
How is it going with the book?
@@cloudydays6277 I have not seen paper back yet maybe I'll do soft copy
oh god are u kidding🎉🎉🎉❤
Awesome! Thanks.
I’m so lucky to be born with this type of thinking and feeling things. Thank you for this beautiful video!
Everyone's born with it but certain obstacles in life will bring you down and make you loose hope
like your commons and i have learned from some great manifestation programs like to share with you as well.
“No, Try Not. Do or Do Not, There Is No Try.” - Yoda to Luke
exactly right. "Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter." -Yoda. is my other favorite quote of his.
Yoda spoke truth and the force is within all of us in like manner, they even meditated to gain wisdom , strength and become stronger with the force/ energy within
To anyone doubting this method, trust me, it works! I used this method just yesterday, wrote down what sort of job I wanted in my journal, and describe what a typical work day would look like and what the job would be like. Then I applied to a few openings on a job board. Only a few hours later I received an invitation to an interview, which I went to today, and got hired on the spot! The job even matches the specifications that I had written down about it, Thank you for this video and good luck to anyone else trying this!
Liar.
Everyone has a method that works for them
Watched the video and applied the methods that day. I told myself we are going out to eat and I am going to get a free meal or a reduced price. Went to a restaurant expecting it to happen not worrying how. My child ordered a hamburger and a chicken salad because he couldn't decide between the two meals, we got the chicken salad for free. I left smiling, it was amazing. Later on that day after running errands and out of energy to make dinner I told myself one of the food delivery apps will have a special. Went to my phone, felt like opening a food app I rarely use and it was $0 delivery for a restaurant near me and ended up saving $15 off the order. So yes this works! I cant wait to try out bigger things.
Maybe you should cook yourself at least for tour child!!! Instead of ordering food. Shame on you!
did you try out bigger things?
Wow. I am sorry you are having a life that makes you unnecessarily mean to strangers so they can share in your misery. I hope things get better for you. Sending love and light. @@radar4536
As you develop positive thinking, success replaces Failure until you can no longer fail 💯
you got it and prepare to receive it, for anything you want to accomplish believe you can. I have some gret program would like to share
I love Helen's mindset, it seems rare to find someone in their golden years who's still the intentional co-creator of their life experience, and not a jaded cynic.
Also, I love that she used the word 'it's coming' instead of 'trying'. I just wanted to say that you really looked good in this video.
The way she worded this was quite lovely👏🏼 and thank you 😊
"No matter how high the stakes are, you always win" this is hands down facts 🙌🏼🔥
Listening to *Her* say...
"I Never try,
I *DO* SOMETHING."
I can't recall ever hearing so much *conviction* expressed from just mere words.
THAT STRUCK ME!
-💚*🙏🏼..."🧠".....❇!
I recommend everyone to find the forbidden book titled Money's Hidden Magic; it goes deep into all of this, and it changed my life
pls, send me a file or any link that u have of this book, it's hard for me to find and read it
Hi how do I find it?
How to find it?
This could be a plug so yes the book will change original posters life because from his/her comment desperate people will go buy
Let me guess, you or someone you know wrote it?
It's not just the win or the outcome or the prize it is ALL the twists and turns, the surprises, the insights, the deepening of commitment and discipline, learning how to stay in love with the losses and knowing it's all a great exciting play.
This is the best mindset!
Feels great to win in life over and over. I love you thank you family 💜🙂
You're welcome darling😊
the likesare exactly 111
A new affirmation to add to your affirmation list (you can modify it to your liking): I expect success, happiness, prosperity, and abundance in my life for my personal use now!
"When you love everything equally, you take the things you want off the pedestal, making them your equal" So you can float and gravitate toward them instead of climbing or feeling like you have to climb - Been out for 6 days but this video/your message has already impacted and changed my life for the better, I hope you know you're having the same effect on many other lives. Beautiful, thank you so much for creating this
a lot more lives than she realizes
“Without you, your desires would remain in your imaginations - you bring them to life in the physical” (paraphrased)
That part shifted something in me ✨ Beautiful video, thank you! ❤
“no matter which contest i enter, no matter how high the stakes are, I always win.”
best manifestation vid ever and the editing? the clips? your voice? the way you dont gatekeep and get straight to the point? the quotes? THE VISUALS? so beautiful and educating and motivating at the same time.I JUST SUBBED i hope u make more
Reading the comment section, and how people express what has happened to them is just as important as watching the video. Thank You ALL...
Dear everyone, I wish you peace inside your soul. We are all light and all connected, don’t be scare, all gonna be ok. Your futur gonna be fantastic because you are fantastic. Thank you so much for your reading.
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It’s been a long time since I’ve listened to someone so calming, so eloquently spoken. This video is magnificent! You got the message across beautifully. Thank you❤️
"There is no failure only delay in result " such a powerful quotes for me. I exactly need this .Thanks youtube for showing me this vd
in my feed.
You communicate with such clarity of being. Love it!! ☺️
May I get help with a meal please thank you so much $cwillz215 ❤
She doesn’t need your money and you are searching for easy money so why are you giving it away. Give it to that hungry person not to a little girl who can use her mind ro get millions. Why does she need money from you.
@@bluwng bro chillll, @KnittingandManifesting only contributed money to her because they thought her content was useful. Didn't mean anything else. You get by giving.
@@thaarikka she just told me she doesn’t like others answering for her.
@@bluwng it's just a kind gesture if one's content is benefiting you.
I love the way helene addresses people "honey" in that kind old grandma tone, it's sounds so sweet. I also like when she says, "if you have a goal or desire, hang in there until you get it, success replaces failure until you can no longer fail"
I bought the Silvia Method book the one Helene Hadsell had, but up until today i haven't even started reading it yet, lately I'm in my depressive state and even went to the eucharist to pray and i end up weeping asking for help and a sign. Now i saw this, then i remember the book. and i keep on seeing repeating numbers such as 11:11, 222, 555
Synchronicity!
Give it a try! I used it before and it definitely helps with strengthening the mind to focus on the wish fulfilled
One of the most life changing things I've done for myself is saying out loud the things I want. There's a different between wanting something and keeping those desires as internal thoughts, and actually putting those thoughts out physically. I thought this was manifestation, but it's truly more than that - it's also a mindset. I love when you say "your mind is a garden" that needs to be cultivated... it's important to understand that getting your desires and reaching your full potential take time and growth!
The spine tingling sensation of knowing how very powerful god made us, when we decide to love. Our creative boundaries know no limits. Thanks for the vid, and much love to all of you reading this, i hope you achieve what you all deserve.🚀💯💪
Something important to point out that kinda got glossed over is that this woman consistently entered contests for 10 years, win or lose. I think that's the real power of this method, the positive thinking and resilience. Mr. Beast worked on RUclips consistently for about 10 years until he blew up, from what I understand. Dedicating yourself to some sort of craft for a decade and doing it with the positive expectation that at some point you will win, or even just trying to consistently improve, is powerful. I think a lot of people might get carried away with the manifesting aspect of all this, but the way I see it its just a method to achieve positivity and resilience. It's a pretty good one though.
so beautiful!! the way you edit and express your knowledge into teaching us is impeccable!
Thank you so much🙂🩷
I have a friend that i always was amazed by how things worked out for her. There were challenges, however the one thing she did, that stood out to me in this video...is putting things in place as if that which was desired was already there. This...boldface and expectant way of moving through life...I have come to realize is what is quantum entanglement. Tethering yourself to what is, yet has not been.
That’s the problem I have in getting things that I want. I’ve been so defeated in my life so everytime I want or try and get it, it always fail and I just give up. Hearing your words today made me a different person and will give it my all!!! Thanks for the inspiring video and keep up the good work❤
story of my life. I always feel like I’m winning in certain areas of my life. I feel that people are curious as to “how” I do it. I don’t think there’s any secret sauce too it, I just DO IT.
(maybe my witchy ways plays a part too but idk lol)
I would say this saved me today from drowning in anxiety and negative thoughts. I'm currently giving exams. And the result of this exam decides if I will be able to reach my current biggest goal of life. But the sad part is I couldn't prepare for this exam for health and other issues. And I was panicking that I will fail. But now I believe that I will get my desired result, no matter what
May the best come to you
I have a very hard national exam in one month and I'm in a similar solution. Good luck on your exams, I am sure we will both do great
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Not only is your appearance beautiful, so are your words and this video. Much love and appreciation.
The Universe is amazing. This video was brought to me today, exactly at the right time. Perfect message. I am now a subscriber. Thank you for these videos. Blessings to all.
Not the universe, it’s the algorithm lol
You’re an angel, your intro brought me tears. I don’t know why I can’t stop replaying it. I’m currently 22 almost 23 and feel like I have tooken many wins throughout my life. I’m still working towards bigger things, and the question still arises amongst your peers,”what if he just got lucky?” All the content I’ve been watching recently and this was one of those videos that brought everything full circle. Thank you!
“You must love and respect everything” yes yes yes yesssssss! Love one another and all of His creations 💛👁️
my favorite affirmation that me and a close friend of mine were talking about was how whateever you believe in religiously, we are all the divine consciousness or god (i am god and i am a exact projection of god) , and we are a projection of them, meaning we possess the same power, and if we channel that and believe in that power (therefore taking control) we can manifest what we desire (as i have done with many things ive manifested)
remember you are in control ❤
good luck! ♡
I just got let go from my job because my department got downsized and this found me at exactly the right time. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in such a lovely and calm manner, I am much less upset and feel serenity instead of stress. I know I'll find a job I like. It's just a matter of time and preparation. It's already in front of me
Better work is coming, that was push so you can find it❤
I lost my job 2 months ago and i’ve been turned down from 3 other job opportunities are the last interview. I just finished interviewing at my 4th job and i hear back Tuesday i’m confident this job ja mine but nervous, keep pushing!
@@HinotenguKeep us posted. Wishing you the best!
It's the reason you lost your job, always embrace change for when you change inside your outer world changes to match, don't ? It embrace it!!
Beautifully done. I love your calm, confident, poetic presence. All the love to you.
This video brought tears to my eyes because it gave me chills, I felt like I just achieved what I’ve been wanting. This video is so powerful! ❤️❤️❤️
This is what the internet was made for ❤thank you
This is Guardian Angel and I approve this Message ✨🕊🕊🕊
no shot my guardian angel??!
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I am limitless and everything I come to desire instantly becomes mine for physical world is a reflection of my spiritual world where I am I am that all derives from!!
I heard this years ago and I’ve been implementing it into my life over the years….it really does work ❤
I have seen Helenes story before but appreciated your delivery..you have a wonderful presence..very calm and a lovely delivery❤🇦🇺🙏
ur voice is so soothing, it makes me want to keep intently listening.
Your videos give me so much strength. And have helped me discover much more about myself, spiritually and the overall universe.
I’ve already started and have manifested a lot of my dream reality, and have a lot more to go. But I’m so excited and can’t wait for what’s to come.
I'm so excited for you sweetheart💗
Soon the whole world will be muslim and their would absolute peace.😊
Can I just say, the production of these videos is brilliant. The way you narrate it is so smooth. A really lovely watch as always
I literally just asked, these days, the universe, for some signs and events, so i can grow more mentally to my higher self. This video helped me so much and it opened my eyes to a new direction. Thank you so much for posting this, your content is amazing❤❤❤
Universe? Oh You meant God
@@jbz2169Well not everyone is religious lol
A top notch content creator! Very compelling storytelling, articulately written work, soothing background music, what more could I ask for? Thanks for making content! This is golden! 10/10
Heard of Helen Hadsell before, of course. Maleeka explains Helen's story with extra details that nobody else has explained so well before. Thanks, Maleeka !!!
You are the first woman I’ve met to speak of such great wisdom thank you I knew I was on the verge of finding something important, and then I found this. After accidentally, avoiding Neville Goddard and his method by somehow not completing the audiobooks I use. I have not heard of this woman until today. What a fascinating piece of history. Thank you for your content.
Try reading up on jose silva, too!
Your energy is truly is something hun. I was having a headache and I have a habit of watching RUclips while I'm eating. I didn't even remember I had a headache and realized it was gone by the time you ended the video. Thank you for all the guidance and love you give out to the word. Your message is gonna make so many people's lives better. Have a great life and may god bless you ❣
Wait what!? Me too ,what happened ? Gotta save this video for the future 😂
My breakthrough came when I made a decision as GOD! I have a slip of paper on one side I wrote: There is no hope, there is no try! There is only a holy decision from GOD! On the other side: As GOD do I decide to lose? As GOD do I decide to win? As GOD create that decision! Read and answer passionately, then repeat every 1:11:11!
ur not God bruv, God is by your side and wants you to win tho, u just gotta accept it him .
@@lregis6822I’m not religious but I think the point OP is trying to make here is that, going off what I remember from my bible school days, everyone is made in god’s image so do you believe that god would want success or failure for himself and by extension those in his image? I could be wrong but that’s how it’s been explained to me whenever somebody in this community is religious and trying to manifest from this perspective.
@@lregis6822 @liesya4194 an alternate view is that you yourself are god because you are one with god as god is one with you, thats a very different notion than being *A* god.
@@lregis6822thats not what they are saying
@@lregis6822 If God is everywhere and everything, how can that not include you and me?
Maleeka you’re actually incredible. i’ve never come across a LOA video this impactful.
Wow, this is gold! 💥 Helene's SPEC method (Select it, Project it, Expect it, Collect it) is reminiscent of the law of attraction. Rewatch the video and really absorb how powerful projecting and expecting is. It's like Neville Goddard’s teachings on feeling it real - it all begins in the imagination! You're the creator of your reality.
You have such a calming vibe and voice. Thanks for breaking this down so neatly and confidently
OMG you described this way completely more tolerably than the person I first heard about this from. You respect the to-the-point and detailed, succinct exchange of powerful personal information for others in a non-boring way and with no sales pitch or requirement. Thank you very much for respecting and being caring enough to make this video, truly.
I rarely leave comments but I wanted to thank you.
These types of videos and creators like you are so wonderful (the community as well) It's the first of your videos I've watched and it seems to have arrived at the right time for me.
You're positively changing lives beyond your own, truly.
Best wishes to everyone reading this :)
"When you love everything equally, you take the things you want off the pedestal". This is huge. I have struggled with this idea of taking the things I want off a pedestal, I think this one of the first ways I've heard it be described as something you can do: love everything unconditionally and equally without judgment.
This is the first time anyone has explained the reason WHY what you want also wants you. It finally makes sense! Thank you so much.
From the air, to food, and to my hopes, I am going to love unconditionally. Thank you for sharing❤
Love the content but also really like your calm, confident and soothing tone of voice. Makes it pleasant to listen to and so I eg. didn’t skip the interesting story of Helene.
Thank you once again....your Timing is Divine ❤....i keep growing and becoming more Humble with the knowledge you keep sharing.... Grateful for such a Soul 🫂🎁🪶❤️
You are so welcome😊💓
Sidetrack. You are so pretty. Goodness gracious. And your voice is very calming. Love your content girl...❤
My dreams always come true… ever since my childhood I’ve manifested and done the work and some how it becomes reality wether it’s winning ore receiving, experiencing. Well I have always felt great inner love blessed with the most profound thoughts about being able to live life even though I as like other people have had sorrow, sickness upon me and lost loved ones. But getting back to life realizing, that life is the greatest gift of all! Grateful for being able to give and receive love and less expectations about materialism somehow it keeps coming abundance seems never ending.
I’m humbled to be a part of this lifetime and can’t miss out cause it’s a one way ticket…..
I needed this I’m currently on my path to manifesting all the things I desire so thank you for this video
girl ur getting prettier every video😩😍💅
Thank you for this Maleeka. This has unlocked so many blocks and opened all my doors. I am now grateful to the Universe for granting me my desires. ❤
She's cute I saw her video like a year ago and I was thinking she was a Hispanic. But Maleeka. Hmm Pakistani? Must be mixed, Muslim or something.
Looks like name used to be Chelsea.
@@nickb839 what do you think about being muslim
I am impressed w/ your video. Its not an AI talking, your speech is clear & crisp, no stuttering, & you have delivered your message w/ a lot of confidence. It should be the way all self help videos should in order to inspire those who seek to improve their lives by seeing a real person deliver the message & not just listening to an AI voice.
Hi Maleeka. Thank you for this video.
I saw it on Sunday, 29.10.23 and stumbled over the 'SPEC' and pondered a bit about it. I wanted to manifest money and remember me thinking:'' Whatever is coming, is welcome''. Monday. 30.10.23 I opened my bank app and saw a bonus from my company. About £150.00. I felt so uplifted and happy. It might be a small amount but a big sign that manifesting is working. I will put more effort in it and learn. Thank you again for this one. God bless you. ;-)
Thank you so much for this beautiful video, my mom and i are healing slowly from years of abuse from my father, we don't really have many people in our lives or support from family at all, so we are struggling with a difficult economic situation, and she has multiple illnesses. With that being said, I'm a very positive and spiritual person and i know that in the end this will have been worth it, it's time to take power, and manifest into existence what's best for us, it's already there we just have to notice it and vision it. Thank you for this touching video, it helped a lot. 🌌❣️
Your vibe is so calming and grounding ❤❤❤
The content of the video itself is great and valuable, but full credit on how you packaged it and presented it! you are very good at what you are doing , keep it up!
you speak so eloquently
subscribed immediately. the way you make your videos is an ART
There are some valid points here however just remember who is running the show. When you think you are in control of outcomes God just may decide to teach you otherwise. Also be very careful about being attached to results which leads to disappointment. You definitely deserve what you want but there may be some things that need to be learned on the way, like loving yourself unconditionally ❤️❤️❤️
Loved this so much. I have just recently gotten into proper meditation and it's like this video appeared at the perfect time for me. Thanks for sharing this! :)
“Ignatian indifference” is a concept by St. Ignatius of Loyola who said you should treat everything equally so nothing is on a pedestal, mostly when yo desire something.
From my experience. I tend to win when I've lost the most, meaning those around me who see me winning simply haven't fallen and stood back up as many times as I have.
I’m in the highest Gratitude of your knowledge and beauty Goddess 🙌🏽🙏🏽 Thank you 💚
"Do, or do not. There is no try." -Yoda
Came back to watch this again, because the message presented here is so powerful and true. Thank you again and have a Happy and Blessed New Year.🤗 btw - I shared this with my cherished friends and those I study spirituality with. So love how you presented this🥰
thank you maleeka you have zero clue how bad i needed to hear the last part.
the life that i want, the success that i want, wants me more because without me it only exists in the imaginary realm. i bring it to life. i give it physical life.
Thank you for this video. Viewing it during this period of my life was meant to happen as the experiences I have been having affect my mindset and my mindset has been affecting these experiences. My grandmother used to tell me “We wouldn’t know Joy, pleasure, happiness, and success if we didn’t experience Loss, failure, grief and trials. You have to experience both to be able to recognize the other.”
I was convinced… CONVINCED… that I would be a rockstar by 30. It didn’t happen and I had a nervous breakdown at 32.
Be careful with this.
How old are you ?
Perhaps, you weren't actually REALISTIC about the selection of your dream in the first place. And/Or during the PROJECTION part, you started having doubts that clouded your mind and influenced it to stray from what you want (Or did you truly wanted it?)
I have applied the power of visualization in pursuing my own goals and dreams in life. However, I only dedicate this practice to only few, but of utmost importance, pursuits. I have to say that most of them I was able to achieve. That's how powerful it is. For the rest of the goals that did not translate to reality, it's because I had doubts about them. I wasn't able to project clearly that I already have them because only much later did I realize that I didn't actually wanted them. Or that those goals weren't actually realistic given the time, place and other circumstances. And I realize how it makes so much sense why I couldn't have them. This could be your situation.
@@diarysawan I’m 48. This was a long time ago… but it was very real.