Adrienne finally woke up and realized the reality of life especially married . And what she said was so true though ... there has to be a genuine Friendship and strong Foundation there first before that "in love" comes . Tamera is right that is where that longevity comes in to play when that true friendship is established and in place . I now know this for myself and my next relationship
i remember when Tam tried to tell her that daily sex when you've a full-time jobs, kids, house chores etc is just impossible. And she insisted it's not
I’m going to miss Tamera so much, I could honestly cry. You just grow such an attachment. The show will never be the same ❤️ She is the reason I even started watching
ABSOLUTELY! I agree with Adrienne. I think that is what makes my marriage work. I really like my husband. I like his personality. I like hanging out with him. If we werent married.. He would def. Be someone I would want to be good friends with☺
I agree with you 💯, the only reason my parents marriage lasted 35 years was because they were friends first. When they almost broke up, they remembered they wouldn't want to hurt their friend especially because hate is stronger than dislike...💯
@@queenmapson2464 I feel the same. I see so much of myself in her, especially on the episode about her receiving Christ at an early age and being ahead of her time. 😊
Dam Samantha me too including my family! I regret to say I will no longer be watching TheReal new episodes without Tamara!! Tamara has become so sexy! Right?!?
The calm, gentle spirit she brings to the show will be missed. Her modesty and her beauty inside and out. Not to mention her humor! And yes she’s beautiful and yes she is relatable to mothers! Just because YOU fail to see her for all she’s worth doesn’t mean she will not be missed. And fyi, ratings went up when she was gone because everyone heard about her niece in the California shooting and were waiting to see her come back on the show to discuss it. You’re dismissed. Belinda
this is actually such a good idea. plus they both already ahve their own youtube channels so if they had a youtube channel where they both like talked it would be amazing!!!
Im gonna miss you Tam Tam! Love that we got to see and grow with you through the years. The show aint gonna be the same without you. Im happy you're going on to new ventures. Girl you still 👑 T to us!
M. Claire, Love can be blinding & based only on feelings, free radicals, & somatic sensations in the body. Some call it the fireworks. Like is something that evolves & grows. Some call it the fire in the fireplace. But all relationships are simply lessons, seasons, reasons & hopefully always point you back to see yourself to reflect & strengthen self love. When you are truly in self love, you can't help but to share that overflow of love to others.
T Will I had heard the exact opposite, that like is the butterflies or getting to know someone, but to love something your feeling of “like” grows. I think we both may be right, just in different perspectives!
In my perspective, what she meant is that In order to keep the same flow in the marriage, it is "more important" (although I would replace it with "crucial"), to like your spouse than only love. I love a lot of people that I don't want around me! I love them but I don't like them. When you like someone it is easier to rebound. Conclusion: You cam love someone forever, but if you don't like them it is not going to workout!
Please someone tell Adrienne that by doing it every single day she will not fix the sexless marriage of her parents in her childhood, which has affected her so much :(
I reallyyyyyyyy hope The Real has a farewell episode to Tamera. I mean I can bet that they won't but I really hope so!!! Even Tam, I feel like she barely even touched on leaving. Like, what?! Just gone :( I respect it but her fans are just going to miss her so much. We want a farewell!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yes! I tend to love all my friends and family. But...there are people I have i n my life I just don't like at times. For me it's when I lose respect for someone. If I don't respect someone's work ethic, morals, values and beliefs....that usually leads to me not liking someone.
I have alot of family that I dont like but do to our bond of family I love them. But I have people I have met over the years that I treat better than family because I respect them and we treat each other good
20somethingsWorld someone middle eastern, Indian, Native American.... especially Native Americans because there’s so underrepresented. It would be great to have someone younger because they seem to not understand anything about the younger generation
Y’all don’t get me wrong I appreciate Tamara so much but idk people are acting like she is the show. I watch for all of the ladies, the topics, the humor. Tamera will still exist and this will still be a good show.
I think alot of married people love their partner but sometimes fall out of like with them and then have to learn how to like them again. But that might be most relationships
@@vyspeeds I think to understand it you should use a non romantic example. A mother will love her child. There will be times she doesn't like her child. Because a child may do something that if it was a stranger you wouldn't allow and would cut them out your life. But because you love your child you will allow it and move on from it
No, she meant dont wait for the bigger signs to realise that someone is not compatible with you. There are loads of smaller signs of incompatibility that people always miss that would actually save you from a heartache. Dang...why you didn't catch that though?
2:32...ALL I EVER SAY IN LIFE. Steal my credit card. Wreck my car. We good. But drink my Pepsi and replace it with Coke and that proves to me that you don't give a DAMN about me! Reg Flags, people! Thank You Adrianne!
My grandparents married after 1 month of knowing each other and 60 years later they are still in love. Literally the definition of a happy marriage, not the typical "well oldies don't believe in divorce" so that's the only reason they all stay together stereotype. Time means nothing if you know its the right person.
No. You just have to treat your relationship or marriage like it's new. I see so many people get married and then just let it dry up because they look at it like it's a permanent relationship. They have a saying "treat your husband/wife like your boyfriend/girlfriend"
Lmao a whole clip of Adrienne getting off topic and rambling 😂😂 what did this have to do with the original topic of not liking someone you love at some point like in Pink's situation?
Sometimes Adrienne runs off with the topic and not even I understand what the heck she be talking about 🤣 only person that be making sense is tamera and Jeannie
Yeah im gonna miss Tamera a lot on the show and if Jeannie leaves too im done watching. Tam and Jeannie are the main reasons why I watch. No offense to the others I like them too. But I related mostly to Jeannie and Tam
hey Adrienne when the show is cancelled, do you think the producers will tell ?...just wondering lol lol worried much? God dont like manipulators . !!waiting. so waiting.
“No let me tell you, you got played”-Loni LMAO 😂
The speech of Adrienne is so deep.
Everytime Aid talks about past relationships, i always think she is talking about Rob Kardashian 🤦🏾♀️🤣
Ha! Me too 😅😅
Guilty! lol
I always think it’s about Lenny! She was with him for 6 years I feel like she learned a lot!
I think about all 4 ☝️ depending on the season and situation.
I always think lenny. She was the longest with him and did her really bad :/
Adrienne finally woke up and realized the reality of life especially married . And what she said was so true though ... there has to be a genuine Friendship and strong Foundation there first before that "in love" comes . Tamera is right that is where that longevity comes in to play when that true friendship is established and in place . I now know this for myself and my next relationship
Right lol but it's sad it took so long she is rlly insecure
I remember that segment they had before she got married. This is hilarious.
i remember when Tam tried to tell her that daily sex when you've a full-time jobs, kids, house chores etc is just impossible. And she insisted it's not
I’m going to miss Tamera so much, I could honestly cry. You just grow such an attachment. The show will never be the same ❤️ She is the reason I even
started watching
I’m with you😢 I’m gonna miss her so much on here.
Support Tamera in her next projects!
I know? Gail A.
Christina I just wanted to say that you can still keep up with her.
Oh okay :) Gail A.
ABSOLUTELY! I agree with Adrienne. I think that is what makes my marriage work. I really like my husband. I like his personality. I like hanging out with him. If we werent married.. He would def. Be someone I would want to be good friends with☺
I agree with you 💯, the only reason my parents marriage lasted 35 years was because they were friends first. When they almost broke up, they remembered they wouldn't want to hurt their friend especially because hate is stronger than dislike...💯
And that's the goal :)
Awe 💖💖🥺
I love the fact Adrienne communicated with her husband rather than just dismissing him. Communication is so so key
Thumbs up if you're going to miss Tamera😭
always and forever my girl but I get it
I know I am. I love her personality.😊
@@DrDanielle86 me too. She is the epitome of what a woman should be. Great spirit, heart and presence. Easily one of my role models.
Why is she leaving
@@queenmapson2464 I feel the same. I see so much of myself in her, especially on the episode about her receiving Christ at an early age and being ahead of her time. 😊
Hope 2014 Check her IG for the explanation.
I'm gonna miss Tam❤️ but have fun sis!
Where is she going?
Anna Smith why???
Dam Samantha me too including my family! I regret to say I will no longer be watching TheReal new episodes without Tamara!! Tamara has become so sexy! Right?!?
Yes, I'm sad also. She added this innocent, funny humor into the show.
Ms too
You can be lovers and not have sex everyday, that's OK Adrienne. She kept it up for 3 years she a champ, her husband must be a happy man.
Some women think the man wants sex all the time. Men are really ok with just being together
@@michellerichardson3090 ik but she is insecure I feel bad for her
@@kenz-hi6rn it really is sad
@@michellerichardson3090 ik 🥺
It's not gonna be the same with out Tamera in the show 😭😭
I think I'll probably just stop watching it
The calm, gentle spirit she brings to the show will be missed. Her modesty and her beauty inside and out. Not to mention her humor! And yes she’s beautiful and yes she is relatable to mothers! Just because YOU fail to see her for all she’s worth doesn’t mean she will not be missed. And fyi, ratings went up when she was gone because everyone heard about her niece in the California shooting and were waiting to see her come back on the show to discuss it. You’re dismissed. Belinda
I will miss the relationship and energy between Tamara n Adrienne
I understand Adrienne point of view .
Adrianne and Jennie should have their own show, they’re compatible. And they listen to each other.
who would watch it tho, not many ppl
this is actually such a good idea. plus they both already ahve their own youtube channels so if they had a youtube channel where they both like talked it would be amazing!!!
Tamera Mowry H, I will miss your style, humour and everything that makes you!!! 😪💖😍 The gap will never be filled.
People change and you can also fall out of like with somebody. Nothing is guaranteed. Every marriage will be tested in one way or another.
Andrienna absolutely true, it takes time to notice the BIG difference of LOVE and LIKE. I choose to like and then comes love.
This has been uploaded like 3 times but I still watch it😂 Get that coin The Real🙌
I can’t wait for the new season to start. I want new videos.
@@gaila.9852 yesss same
Well I'll be damned! That was big of her to admit she was wrong 😂
I was so confused with where Adrienne was going half this video
I’m LIVING for adriennes look here😍 also that lip color on Jeannie okkaaaay hunnnaaaay!
True or correct?...humans learn new information individually and out grow some people they used to like. It's normal and it's not that deep.
You just have to re learn your partner.
I understand Adrienne point of view .
Im gonna miss you Tam Tam! Love that we got to see and grow with you through the years. The show aint gonna be the same without you. Im happy you're going on to new ventures. Girl you still 👑 T to us!
I was sure I was gonna miss Amanda, but now Tamara's gone too? 😭😭😭😭 I wonder what the show's gonna look like now
The host of the real were perfect from the beggining
Now that i have been heartbroken i deff understand Adrienne!!
But Adrienne use to say " like " is better than "love " all the time but I don't get it
M. Claire,
Love can be blinding & based only on feelings, free radicals, & somatic sensations in the body. Some call it the fireworks.
Like is something that evolves & grows. Some call it the fire in the fireplace.
But all relationships are simply lessons, seasons, reasons & hopefully always point you back to see yourself to reflect & strengthen self love.
When you are truly in self love, you can't help but to share that overflow of love to others.
T Will very true
T Will I love this. Needed to hear it this morning. Thank you.
T Will I had heard the exact opposite, that like is the butterflies or getting to know someone, but to love something your feeling of “like” grows. I think we both may be right, just in different perspectives!
In my perspective, what she meant is that In order to keep the same flow in the marriage, it is "more important" (although I would replace it with "crucial"), to like your spouse than only love.
I love a lot of people that I don't want around me! I love them but I don't like them.
When you like someone it is easier to rebound.
Conclusion: You cam love someone forever, but if you don't like them it is not going to workout!
It’s crazy how perfect timing this was for me😭.
I love those mugs so much.
OMG I LOVE A's hair like this. Especially the color.
Please someone tell Adrienne that by doing it every single day she will not fix the sexless marriage of her parents in her childhood, which has affected her so much :(
We definitely gonna miss Tam. All the best for her new journey 😘💐
“You got played” 😂😂😂😂
Adrienne:I have put sleep in front of sex
Tamera: I am so proud of u
Oww my God😂😍really love Tam Tam
Ade took over this convo...I am happy for her .
Ahahaah I sasnt expecting Adrienne to say that! And then I turned over. ...
Adrienne is hilarious I love her . Tamera I love you n your vibes. All the best for you sis 👍🙏❤
And that’s what we call growth✨
Love is a decision ❤️...
I reallyyyyyyyy hope The Real has a farewell episode to Tamera. I mean I can bet that they won't but I really hope so!!! Even Tam, I feel like she barely even touched on leaving. Like, what?! Just gone :(
I respect it but her fans are just going to miss her so much. We want a farewell!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
When you like a person it will help you to tolerate them when tough times come or when you fall out of love
I don't want Tamera to leave 😞 😔
Oscar Fish Check her IG for the explanation.
It's important 2 "LIKE THE PERSON THAN 2 LOVEEEEE THE PERSON"❤ OMG that's is soooo true!!!
Yes! I tend to love all my friends and family. But...there are people I have i n my life I just don't like at times. For me it's when I lose respect for someone. If I don't respect someone's work ethic, morals, values and beliefs....that usually leads to me not liking someone.
I have alot of family that I dont like but do to our bond of family I love them. But I have people I have met over the years that I treat better than family because I respect them and we treat each other good
This is my favorite show!
adrienne looks beautiful here😍😍😍
I’ve always wondered what time people go to sleep when they have to wake up at 3 am.
I hope the management will hire new co hosts that will have different ethnicities or someone younger
Like what, it’s already pretty diverse
I agree sometimes they generalise about the younger generation it would be interesting to have someone in their twenties to offer that perspective.
20somethingsWorld someone middle eastern, Indian, Native American.... especially Native Americans because there’s so underrepresented. It would be great to have someone younger because they seem to not understand anything about the younger generation
Maybe they can hire me😝🙈am in Africa though 😂 but they can fly me in 😁 I give good advice according to the people in my life
Other religions too
The girls are so gorgeous...... I can’t😔🤚🏾
Y’all don’t get me wrong I appreciate Tamara so much but idk people are acting like she is the show. I watch for all of the ladies, the topics, the humor. Tamera will still exist and this will still be a good show.
GOD bless you all. GOD loves you all.
Haha Tam! Dang, definitely gonna miss her!
Jeannie looks greatttt!
I think alot of married people love their partner but sometimes fall out of like with them and then have to learn how to like them again. But that might be most relationships
The way Tam stares into Adriennes 👀
Loni was low key being a hater towards Adrienne
Lol why are you guys seated in that arrangement?
Am not used to it 😂😂😂
wish we had a chance to say bye to tamera with a farewell episode 😢 gunna be so weird not seeing her at all next seadon
Tam looks beautiful in the thumbnail.
Adrienne, you got PLAYED!
Her drink got weak lol this is Val.
😍😍 Adrienne
Perfect time to bring back Tamar
she read the comments on that one video she was talking all that mess in lol
Adrienne dragged out her point just to say that she had sex in the end anyway
The chemical went away hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
Im going to miss Tamera so freaking much!
Adrienne wanna dance in the rain😎
I definitely think you can love someone without liking them.
Do you think that is healthy or sustainable?
@@vyspeeds I'm talking about in general, not specifically in a romantic relationship.
@@vyspeeds I think to understand it you should use a non romantic example. A mother will love her child. There will be times she doesn't like her child. Because a child may do something that if it was a stranger you wouldn't allow and would cut them out your life. But because you love your child you will allow it and move on from it
Love Adrienne here
So long, Tamera💔
Tamera looks gorgeous here
I’m gonna miss tam ❤️but I love the other cohosts 🥰
And I'm also going to miss Tamera and Amanda, love them all. Didn't really like Tamar on the show. But I wish Tamar the best.
Cheating on you is one of the “smaller things”?!!! Ok, Adrienne🤦🏾♀️
No, she meant dont wait for the bigger signs to realise that someone is not compatible with you. There are loads of smaller signs of incompatibility that people always miss that would actually save you from a heartache.
Dang...why you didn't catch that though?
2:32...ALL I EVER SAY IN LIFE. Steal my credit card. Wreck my car. We good. But drink my Pepsi and replace it with Coke and that proves to me that you don't give a DAMN about me! Reg Flags, people! Thank You Adrianne!
Morning beautiful people Happy Wednesday 💜🤗💜
#DaAfricanPrincess
#DoubleRR
#Rhanni
#LatashaBrown👄
This is why you don’t marry after a year 😂
Ommfg that is so true
😂😂😂
My grandparents married after 1 month of knowing each other and 60 years later they are still in love. Literally the definition of a happy marriage, not the typical "well oldies don't believe in divorce" so that's the only reason they all stay together stereotype. Time means nothing if you know its the right person.
There are so many stories of people who got married after a short period of time and are still happy years later.
They’re still happily married tho so what was your point?
I feel like that means that you have to date for more than 3 years before you get engaged
No. You just have to treat your relationship or marriage like it's new. I see so many people get married and then just let it dry up because they look at it like it's a permanent relationship. They have a saying "treat your husband/wife like your boyfriend/girlfriend"
Oh Tam 😭😭😭
that's happen to me and is still happening
What if you are falling out of love with someone?
You either have to remember what made you love them or go your separate ways
It's not "action" it's vibration. If you're not REAL you're not going to attract what's REALly meant for you!
Totally going to miss tam.
Is this filmed during this period?
No, this is old.
We all saw that face Loni
Have a love/hate relationship with how this became about Ade more than the topic. Lol Jeannie still had to share, Loni too.
oh my God she talked the whole 5 minutes lmfao
Adrienne🤣🤣
She's not describing love that's infatuation
They’ve reposted this three or four times now 😂
They are sooo annoying! They just want money from the views 😑
Adrienne and Jennie are the best
Lmao a whole clip of Adrienne getting off topic and rambling 😂😂 what did this have to do with the original topic of not liking someone you love at some point like in Pink's situation?
Where is TamTam going?...any update pleaseeee
Keep up with her on her social media pages.
You can also watch her on the you tube channel “The Housley Life.” She hasn’t talked about it there yet but I assume she will at some point
Sometimes Adrienne runs off with the topic and not even I understand what the heck she be talking about 🤣 only person that be making sense is tamera and Jeannie
Not gonna be the same without Tamera. 😥😥😥😥. Good luck Tamera. Now if Jeannie decides to leave then I will be COMPLETELY DO NE!
Yeah im gonna miss Tamera a lot on the show and if Jeannie leaves too im done watching. Tam and Jeannie are the main reasons why I watch. No offense to the others I like them too. But I related mostly to Jeannie and Tam
hey Adrienne when the show is cancelled, do you think the producers will tell ?...just wondering lol lol worried much? God dont like manipulators . !!waiting. so waiting.
I wonder who the new co-host(s) will be .. 🤔🧐
Yevette nicole brown ,or tisha cambell
Yvette would be nice, hopefully not tisha though she’s so cringy to watch
Would love to say a south Asian or middle eastern lady up there
Having sex everyday is not going to keep him for straying besides dont u get a period
Tamera's "Haaaaaallelujah" 😂😂😂
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