Good on you Mare, for taking care of yourself and recovering. Having had exposure to a family member who wanted to commit suicide and was eventually successful, I know how exhausted you must be. People may not always realize how difficult it is to keep someone who wants to die, alive. It's extremely hard and mentally exhausting. I understand your anger and that you are moving on without the constant threat dominating your life. Stay strong Mare.
Thank you Susanne. It's impossible for anyone to really understand what it's been like for so many years, that constant fear. I am incredibly sorry that you have gone through something similar. I am grateful for your comment and understanding. oxoxo
Love how even though your going through such an unbelievable time, you still are taking time to do things for your friends. That's so amazing. You seem like such a great friend! And a great mom!!
Love that you enjoy making Q&A videos, because they're some of my favourite to watch! Can relate, in a way, to the unsolicited feedback received (not for being vegan) in my case, but I don't drink, haven't for 5+ years; and you wouldn't believe how worked up some people get over it! It's really odd because it literally doesn't affect them...!
OMG I bet you are asked if you are pregnant every five seconds. Why do people seem to care so much? I remember when I was pregnant and couldn't drink, suddenly I wasn't as fun for my friends and they didn't want me to come out. So confusing! I was still the same fun person and now I was the DD! So weird. But, you do you babe!
Haha, I've actually only been asked that once, and it was on vacation in Hawaii where I think a lot of people must go on babymoons, etc.! It is odd, though, the number of family members who always 'forget' and then constantly ask me at family functions if I'd like a glass of wine...
Just found your videos today. First, I'm sorry for your loss. Second, Your son is adorable. My youngest son and two grandchildren are on the spectrum. I love your personality and am really enjoying your videos. Subscribed and looking forward to watching more.
It's definitely up there, that's for sure. Not that I find myself being angry, it's more of a driving force to create a life for Thomas in which he's happy and safe and healthy.
Thank you for the Q+A! I live near Vancouver and my husband's parents recently moved to Osoyoos so I know the Penticton area, only I've only stayed there in the summer. For the next Q+A What's your favourite thing about living in Penticton? What is your favourite type of coffee, and what do you put in it as a creamer and to flavour it?
Love the Q&A videos Mare! Thanks so much for being such an open book with us all the time. I appreciate how down to earth and easy going your responses are. I thought of a couple more while watching today: - Your recently asked what our favourite apps are -- I'm curious what yours are! Perhaps a video or thrown in with a vlog discussing some of your favourites? :D Do you think you'll do a review of the Headspace app you mentioned? - Running a household and your own business I have to ask -- any organizing tips?! Especially for all the documents (financial, legal, bills, random adulting-type mail you can't throw away lol). Thank you, and see you tomorrow! :)
You always amaze me with your openness and honesty. That cannot be easy to share that with the world. You are probably right about the anger towards Jeremy from others-I know I am angry for you and Thomas. On a more positive note-you make putting makeup on look easy. If I wear makeup, it's eyeshadow, mascara and lipstick. But I love the concealer you put under your eyes-so I'm thinking of trying that. Anyways, 5 more sleeps until school-happy dance! See you tomorrow!
Have u watched comedians in cars getting coffee? Its great background listening while you're getting things done around the house. Its on crackle and Crave.
About a month ago I decided to challenge myself to a week of being meat free, no big deal right? Well, I made the grave error of mentioning it on FB and what a shit storm rained down on me!! Talk about a polarizing topic! Yikes! People literally thought I had lost my mind. I plan on doing meat free much more going forward either a couple days a week or a week a month idk. Won't be telling anyone about it though. I'm not going down that rabbit hole again!! LOL
Love your makeup! So fresh! Question- any plan to return to your radio job? Do you have any ideas of what to spend the money we donated on or is it in the savings bank? love you and T-Bone! xoxo
Isn't it fun doing adult outings? My bf and I went and saw Lady Gaga a week ago and stayed at a hotel in Cleveland. A must have get away! Her concert is a must see.
Do you follow any RUclipsrs that have an autistic child? Long time viewer of yours and because of you I've learned a lot about it and wanted to educate myself more. I just recently started watching "Fathering Autism" on RUclips, they have a non verbal 12yr old daughter Abbie , ❤️ I have learned so much and I think that is the key with anything, is to educate yourself. Too many people judge these days. Much love to you and Thomas. Xoxoxox T.
Thank you. That makes me so proud that you are learning from us about Autism and want to learn more. That was a big reason for Jeremy and I deciding to go public about Thomas. We want people to be more understanding and accepting and see how great he is :)
Check out the podcast "Plz Advise" if you like Q&A style videos. Molly McAleer is the host and she used to be a writer on 2 Broke Girls. She is absolutely hilarious and gives some great advice on a broad range of topics. I love having it on in the background.
I have leather goods from before going vegan/plantbased. I have some leather on my couches, purses, shoes, etc. I will be keeping. Although I really dont pay attention to brands, if I had any I would probably get rid of them if say if it was branded (name brand) and visible. My husband has to buy leather boots for work once a year. No other options. I have regular birthday cake once a year. Will I consume more than that in the future? NO absolutely not. I hope there will be better options in the future. Considering we are not consuming animal products like we did before I think it is progress. I pay no mind to fanatics. I believe in "when you know better you do better". I think I honor the animals by doing that. We do the best we can.
Oh yes! I love that Oprah quote. And yes by eating the little amount of animal product we do, we are making SUCH a difference. Thanks for this comment. Keep doing you!
I've been vegetarian for sixteen years now and it's only in the last few years that I haven't gotten harassed for it. I started to tell those people when visiting, sorry, guess you can't have any of this delicious apple pie, it's meatless. Haven't heard much since then. 😉 Ridiculous but true.
HI Mare! Matt and Nat have vegan shoes and boots, check out their website 😊 Thank you for your honesty and openness in this video, you have been and continue to be such an inspiration.
Good on you Mare, for taking care of yourself and recovering. Having had exposure to a family member who wanted to commit suicide and was eventually successful, I know how exhausted you must be. People may not always realize how difficult it is to keep someone who wants to die, alive. It's extremely hard and mentally exhausting. I understand your anger and that you are moving on without the constant threat dominating your life. Stay strong Mare.
Thank you Susanne. It's impossible for anyone to really understand what it's been like for so many years, that constant fear. I am incredibly sorry that you have gone through something similar. I am grateful for your comment and understanding. oxoxo
Love your honesty
Love the q&a!! I love the purple room!
Love how even though your going through such an unbelievable time, you still are taking time to do things for your friends. That's so amazing. You seem like such a great friend! And a great mom!!
I think it helps. I've always liked to do little things for other people, selfishly makes me feel good too ;)
Love that you enjoy making Q&A videos, because they're some of my favourite to watch! Can relate, in a way, to the unsolicited feedback received (not for being vegan) in my case, but I don't drink, haven't for 5+ years; and you wouldn't believe how worked up some people get over it! It's really odd because it literally doesn't affect them...!
I get it. I don't drink and I'm vegetarian. I'm a real hoot at parties.
OMG I bet you are asked if you are pregnant every five seconds. Why do people seem to care so much? I remember when I was pregnant and couldn't drink, suddenly I wasn't as fun for my friends and they didn't want me to come out. So confusing! I was still the same fun person and now I was the DD! So weird. But, you do you babe!
Haha, I've actually only been asked that once, and it was on vacation in Hawaii where I think a lot of people must go on babymoons, etc.! It is odd, though, the number of family members who always 'forget' and then constantly ask me at family functions if I'd like a glass of wine...
Very excited to see all the vlogs for all the exciting events, for the ones you want to share ❤️ amen mama to back to school!
Oh heck yes!
Just found your videos today. First, I'm sorry for your loss. Second, Your son is adorable. My youngest son and two grandchildren are on the spectrum. I love your personality and am really enjoying your videos. Subscribed and looking forward to watching more.
Thank you. In my own grief process I found anger the most motivating Be gentle with yourself. Peace, Jxx
It's definitely up there, that's for sure. Not that I find myself being angry, it's more of a driving force to create a life for Thomas in which he's happy and safe and healthy.
Fire in the belly (healthy anger) make the best Mamas ;) xox
Thank you for the Q+A!
I live near Vancouver and my husband's parents recently moved to Osoyoos so I know the Penticton area, only I've only stayed there in the summer.
For the next Q+A
What's your favourite thing about living in Penticton?
What is your favourite type of coffee, and what do you put in it as a creamer and to flavour it?
On the Q&A list :) Thanks Victoria!
Love the makeup q&a! It's actually inspired me to start some self care and make an effort to wear make up (and do my hair) and take time for me.
YAY! I hope it also shows that it doesn't have to be time consuming or expensive. oxox
So glad you have planned things to look forward to😊👍
Great video
Love the Q&A videos Mare! Thanks so much for being such an open book with us all the time. I appreciate how down to earth and easy going your responses are. I thought of a couple more while watching today:
- Your recently asked what our favourite apps are -- I'm curious what yours are! Perhaps a video or thrown in with a vlog discussing some of your favourites? :D Do you think you'll do a review of the Headspace app you mentioned?
- Running a household and your own business I have to ask -- any organizing tips?! Especially for all the documents (financial, legal, bills, random adulting-type mail you can't throw away lol).
Thank you, and see you tomorrow! :)
You got it!
Pink is phenomenal hands down best concert I've ever seen, highly recommend 😊❤️
Fingers crossed Aimee!!!
You always amaze me with your openness and honesty. That cannot be easy to share that with the world. You are probably right about the anger towards Jeremy from others-I know I am angry for you and Thomas.
On a more positive note-you make putting makeup on look easy. If I wear makeup, it's eyeshadow, mascara and lipstick. But I love the concealer you put under your eyes-so I'm thinking of trying that. Anyways, 5 more sleeps until school-happy dance! See you tomorrow!
Thanks Diana :)
Pink is phenomenal in concert. Yes, definitely go see her if she tours.
Fingers crossed!
I would love for you to share the playlist you had on your phone the other day! Always looking for a great playlist :)
i will answer this in a Q&A :)
Have u watched comedians in cars getting coffee? Its great background listening while you're getting things done around the house. Its on crackle and Crave.
I LOVE it! It makes me so happy :)
About a month ago I decided to challenge myself to a week of being meat free, no big deal right? Well, I made the grave error of mentioning it on FB and what a shit storm rained down on me!! Talk about a polarizing topic! Yikes! People literally thought I had lost my mind. I plan on doing meat free much more going forward either a couple days a week or a week a month idk. Won't be telling anyone about it though. I'm not going down that rabbit hole again!! LOL
Miss Tracey may be Mare will do another vegan challenge in the future, that was helpful to a lot of people. It's no ones business but yours.
annaandgary1...I know right? I couldn't believe how bent out of shape people got. haha!
WHY do people care?!?! Lol you do you! And I'm proud :)
Love you!
Love your makeup! So fresh!
Question- any plan to return to your radio job?
Do you have any ideas of what to spend the money we donated on or is it in the savings bank?
love you and T-Bone! xoxo
Thanks Paige! I will answer this in an upcoming Q&A oxox
I recommend you research Bogs winter boots. I love mine : they are super warm and not too expansive 🙂
Thank you!
Most of Urban Decay's line is cruelty free.
Oh good to know, thanks!
Isn't it fun doing adult outings? My bf and I went and saw Lady Gaga a week ago and stayed at a hotel in Cleveland. A must have get away! Her concert is a must see.
OMG! Isn't she just incredible live?!?!?!
Do you follow any RUclipsrs that have an autistic child?
Long time viewer of yours and because of you I've learned a lot about it and wanted to educate myself more. I just recently started watching "Fathering Autism" on RUclips, they have a non verbal 12yr old daughter Abbie , ❤️
I have learned so much and I think that is the key with anything, is to educate yourself. Too many people judge these days.
Much love to you and Thomas.
Xoxoxox T.
Thank you. That makes me so proud that you are learning from us about Autism and want to learn more. That was a big reason for Jeremy and I deciding to go public about Thomas. We want people to be more understanding and accepting and see how great he is :)
I seriously thought you were already wearing makeup at the beginning of the video! Dang girl you look fine! 😘
You are too kind!
Check out the podcast "Plz Advise" if you like Q&A style videos. Molly McAleer is the host and she used to be a writer on 2 Broke Girls. She is absolutely hilarious and gives some great advice on a broad range of topics. I love having it on in the background.
Thank you!
Do you plan on going back to the part-time radio job?
Thanks Kelly! It's in the Q&A I filmed yesterday :)
Hi, Mare. I have a question. Has Thomas asked for Jeremy since his passing, and if so, how often does that occur, and what do you say?
Courtney R. Watch the last video. It was the first time it had happened
The essence liquid eyeliner pens are the best! Just don't get the ultra fine.
Thanks!
I have leather goods from before going vegan/plantbased. I have some leather on my couches, purses, shoes, etc. I will be keeping. Although I really dont pay attention to brands, if I had any I would probably get rid of them if say if it was branded (name brand) and visible. My husband has to buy leather boots for work once a year. No other options. I have regular birthday cake once a year. Will I consume more than that in the future? NO absolutely not. I hope there will be better options in the future. Considering we are not consuming animal products like we did before I think it is progress. I pay no mind to fanatics. I believe in "when you know better you do better". I think I honor the animals by doing that. We do the best we can.
Oh yes! I love that Oprah quote. And yes by eating the little amount of animal product we do, we are making SUCH a difference. Thanks for this comment. Keep doing you!
I've been vegetarian for sixteen years now and it's only in the last few years that I haven't gotten harassed for it. I started to tell those people when visiting, sorry, guess you can't have any of this delicious apple pie, it's meatless. Haven't heard much since then. 😉 Ridiculous but true.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA amazing! I just don't understand why people even care.
How has the grieving process for Thomas been? I imagine with his autism along with his age it makes it more difficult and confusing for him.
I've answered this last week's Q&A :) It's definitely much different. oxo
Question: You call one of your friends your "wife" (sorry, I can't remember her name), and I'm curious where that nickname came from? I love it!
You got it! It's on a Q&A list.
HI Mare! Matt and Nat have vegan shoes and boots, check out their website 😊 Thank you for your honesty and openness in this video, you have been and continue to be such an inspiration.
RUNS TO WEBSITE!
Does is it get overwhelming for you to have people talk to you about their mental health issues or the issues their loved ones experience?
On my Q&A list!
Try yoga nidra and you'll sleep like a baby 😉
Thanks!