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  • @noellefair4373
    @noellefair4373 6 месяцев назад +1013

    I think she's afraid at this point of actually being charged with a crime. If she puts anything self incriminating out there, it could help to build a case.

    • @cocochill1464
      @cocochill1464 6 месяцев назад +41

      Yeah I defiently got that from her apologies she cannot apologize without a charge.. because her apology would be enough proof in court

    • @freethegays
      @freethegays 6 месяцев назад +23

      Yep I think thats why the victims are just met with her legal team. If she apologizes she's admitting to literal crimes.

    • @AirConditioner402
      @AirConditioner402 6 месяцев назад

      This is why she doesn't apologize to ANY of the victims. If she apologizes, she is basically admitting to a wrongdoing (which is inappropriate interactions AND sending Trisha Paytas' nudes to minors!)

    • @caitlynthurber4625
      @caitlynthurber4625 6 месяцев назад

      @@freethegays
      L

    • @NR-wg4cf
      @NR-wg4cf 6 месяцев назад

      Man you people are dense.

  • @pixelatedddd
    @pixelatedddd 6 месяцев назад +461

    It’s so wild because I coach middle schoolers and I’m legally mandated to report these behaviors. Colleen is 12 years older than me and I literally can’t imagine hanging out with children and leaning on them for emotional support, like what does this say about her mental state?

    • @cocochill1464
      @cocochill1464 6 месяцев назад

      That she’s beyond mentally ill

    • @ditzycup8140
      @ditzycup8140 6 месяцев назад +25

      I think it’s emotional immaturity. It’s giving entitlement and like she hasn’t grown out of high-school teenager type behavior. Still a gossip, still selfish, still awful.

    • @tessie2487
      @tessie2487 6 месяцев назад +9

      Literally I feel weird telling my OWN LITTLE sister too much keep in mind she’s 16 and I’m 19 !!! I couldn’t imagine talking to minors online let alone depending on them as “friends” I work at a daycare and this “drama”(crimes) has really made me think and it makes so scared for the kids growing up in this generation imagine how many other RUclipsrs and influencers do this! Even celebrities may do things like this who knows

    • @Patchouliprince
      @Patchouliprince 6 месяцев назад +4

      So accurate. My best friend is my little brother, he’s 13, we are ten years apart, we hang and chat and play video games and stuff but my god I do not EVER lean on him for emotional support. Very much the opposite, because he’s the child, and I’m the adult. That is the direction emotional support is meant to go. I would never expect him to shoulder the burden of my adult issues!

    • @CovertChristo
      @CovertChristo 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@ditzycup8140wasn't she homeschooled? 😳

  • @NativeNYerChicHK
    @NativeNYerChicHK 6 месяцев назад +445

    I think he’s wrong. She didn’t say she was immature and inappropriate with her “fans”, she said she was immature and inappropriate with her “humor”. They’re not the same thing, and she’s guilty of BOTH. She wasn’t merely thoughtless in her interactions with her fans, she was immature and inappropriate with them, offstage, privately. And she never quite acknowledges that. It’s so frustrating. She is still downplaying what she actually did and the fact she facilitated her brother’s access to minors knowing he’s been highly inappropriate with even one of them.

    • @FabiolaMacabre
      @FabiolaMacabre 6 месяцев назад +24

      One of the reasons I stopped watching dr Honda, he often does this . He tries so hard to see positivity , even in the most vile of people and sometimes it’s like “dude really?”😅 .. did we hear the same thing? that’s not at all what these types of people are like. I feel kinda gaslit because I’m often hearing something troubling that he’s dismissing. But oh well , good for him to stay positive? 😅😂

    • @cocochill1464
      @cocochill1464 6 месяцев назад +16

      @@FabiolaMacabrehe has to be professional it’s his job to be.. think of it this way a rapist can go to a therpist or a abuser and that therpist cannot tell them how much of a piece of shit they are.

    • @TheSlipperyNUwUdle
      @TheSlipperyNUwUdle 6 месяцев назад +4

      I think he’s probably feeling a bit biased tbh. A lot of people will defend predatory women under the idea that they can’t be dangerous. Especially if they’re conventionally attractive.

    • @unselfishcefamandole6722
      @unselfishcefamandole6722 6 месяцев назад +5

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@TheSlipperyNUwUdlethat’s not what’s happening here, he’s aware of her horrible actions. He is definitely acting like a therapist just like cocochill described

    • @bornstandin
      @bornstandin 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@FabiolaMacabre Same. I've found his take to be obviously off a few times, so I just scroll past his videos now. NYerChic is right, there's a difference between "inappropriate with her fans" and "inappropriate with her humor," and Colleen is guilty of both.

  • @sorenshawnsen
    @sorenshawnsen 6 месяцев назад +193

    She's really just apologizing to fans, not the victims

  • @marcelaperez4126
    @marcelaperez4126 6 месяцев назад +144

    Kirk is just EXTREMELY unbiased. Y’all forget he’s an actual practicing professional and his RUclips videos will reflect on his work. He’s just literally giving his 2 cents. He can’t just straight up say “f Colleen that P**do” like… he’s professionally saying she’s wrong.

    • @axsyz6206
      @axsyz6206 6 месяцев назад

      Womp womp

    • @marcelaperez4126
      @marcelaperez4126 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@axsyz6206 lol okay? 😂😂😂😂

    • @GirlieCarolinas
      @GirlieCarolinas 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah well he wilted when the army attacked so whatever

    • @marcelaperez4126
      @marcelaperez4126 6 месяцев назад

      @@GirlieCarolinas naw, it’s more of a professional way to handle things.

    • @icravedeath.1200
      @icravedeath.1200 5 месяцев назад +2

      He's actually the best suited, most equipped person for the job then.
      He has to act professional in situations like this because it reflects on his work, he also the verbiage and vocabulary to back his titles up.
      Ethan and crew were being dicks to him here.

  • @crowqueen69420
    @crowqueen69420 6 месяцев назад +25

    21:36, I used to work in CPS. A common method that abusers of that nature will begin the grooming and abuse process is by desensitizing the victim to those acts through showing them such materials. There are many, many, many, many instances in which an adult or parent exposes a child to explicit material such as that. It is extremely common, it is highly damaging to the child (the IRB, which is the board that academics have to go in front of to present their research in order to ensure they aren't doing immoral or unethical research studies, usually won't approve studies that revolve around exposing ADULTS to explicit material of that nature because research has shown time and time again how harmful it is and you can't do research when you know for a fact that the exposure of interest will do harm to the participant), it is a form of abuse, and if you are aware that it is occurring in any capacity and you're an adult in the United States, you are obligated to report such behavior.

  • @carter_lovejoy
    @carter_lovejoy 6 месяцев назад +304

    I’d love to see Ethan bring back Content Court. There’s so many bad channels and people he needs to cover. Reply who should be sentenced to the CC. I’ll start with who I think should be covered: Nerdrotic and Geeks + Gamers.

    • @namejeff9757
      @namejeff9757 6 месяцев назад +2

      Trisha Paytas

    • @culth3ad
      @culth3ad 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@namejeff9757I mean Ethan talks kindly of Trisha whenever she pops into whatever drama he’s covering so I doubt it plus it would be extra as hell to do

    • @ditzycup8140
      @ditzycup8140 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@culth3ad Shane Dawson (because why is he even back again?)

    • @dascherofficial
      @dascherofficial 6 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@ditzycup8140hasn't that horse been beaten to death at this point? By now everyone either knows what Shane is about or they don't care. He's back to conspiracy tube iirc anyway which is like the bottom of the content barrel and the audience for that content in general are the kind of people who really just don't care what you do, as long as you're on the conspiracy caboose they're riding it with you.

  • @krypticplumeria6180
    @krypticplumeria6180 6 месяцев назад +109

    Not to be a prude, but it’s overall weird to talk about your undergarments on livestream when your audience is mostly kids or if your brand isn’t about clothes.

    • @krypticplumeria6180
      @krypticplumeria6180 6 месяцев назад +29

      Also even if the fan was of age, I don’t understand how sending them unused panties is supposed to be funny whether they will use them or not.

    • @83113k
      @83113k 6 месяцев назад +1

      Right lol bad from start to finish

  • @WishGender
    @WishGender 6 месяцев назад +216

    the most offensive part of this video was Ethan not knowing who Captain Kirk was

    • @ohreally1997
      @ohreally1997 6 месяцев назад +10

      some might say the most offensive to date

    • @pearlosibu
      @pearlosibu 6 месяцев назад

      @@FukaiKokoroI’ve gone off him completely after that video. At this point he’s a coward.

    • @shaan702
      @shaan702 6 месяцев назад +1

      Go 👏 to 👏 jail 👏

    • @grasstastesbad
      @grasstastesbad 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@pearlosibu huh?

    • @shamstam
      @shamstam 6 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah, who's a coward for what? Haha

  • @Mari-il4bw
    @Mari-il4bw 6 месяцев назад +117

    I think one thing to take into consideration is Kirk tries to look at things in an unbiased neutral way because he has to do that with his clients even ones who have been perpetrators of abuse. Think about it, you can’t help someone if you come in being like this person is abusive so therefore they are a piece of shit and don’t deserve help and to be a therapist you can’t have those biases straight out the gate. Kirk is also very very out of the loop so his takes may not be accurate. However, I like his videos because he does listen to the person that’s under scrutiny unlike most videos where I already know what the opinion is going to be because we’re looking at it with a biased against Colleen as I think it should be but a professional like Kirk has to be impartial.

    • @shamstam
      @shamstam 6 месяцев назад +14

      Agreed! And he apologises in the pinned comment on his video as well. I rlly love kirk for the neutral takes and like, for actually listening. All of the others I watch are biased (as am i)

  • @misstakenbelief
    @misstakenbelief 6 месяцев назад +85

    Please have Dr. Kirk Honda on the show! A lot of us have been watching him for years and he's helped so many. He deserves so much more recognition.

    • @jennielizross
      @jennielizross 6 месяцев назад +5

      Agree!!!

    • @shannonburke5565
      @shannonburke5565 6 месяцев назад +9

      I completely agree. I feel like they are misunderstanding him by not watching the video completely through and by not knowing who he is already.

    • @xojacquie7356
      @xojacquie7356 6 месяцев назад +4

      Absolutely!

    • @pearlosibu
      @pearlosibu 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@shannonburke5565I watched the whole thing. And unsubscribed. Smh

  • @shinobistream1256
    @shinobistream1256 6 месяцев назад +9

    Why was the comments shut off on the new video

    • @2the431
      @2the431 6 месяцев назад

      hasan fans are generally very toxic that's probably why

  • @junkisyou
    @junkisyou 6 месяцев назад +33

    She’s just apologizing to her fans for being gone

  • @paulabroadworth2504
    @paulabroadworth2504 6 месяцев назад +20

    Sorry to say but why does everyone keep calling the toxic gossip train video an apology. It was never an apology. Heck she never even said it was an apology or even title it an apology. It was more of an im mad at the world and those accusing me so I'm going to attack them too. So can we all stop calling it an apology already.

  • @ashmcgraw3894
    @ashmcgraw3894 6 месяцев назад +45

    It seems Kirk doesn’t know about her sending Trisha popcorn to minors.

    • @knitwitchpgh
      @knitwitchpgh 6 месяцев назад +10

      Yea we need to send him the swoop docs or get Olivia to send him the cliff notes

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 6 месяцев назад +167

    She’s a deeply weird person

    • @carter_lovejoy
      @carter_lovejoy 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah. She’s basically a cringey Disney Adult (I mean, her cameo in Wreck-It Ralph 2 proves it) but with a ton of fucked up shit on her résumé.

    • @inesako258
      @inesako258 6 месяцев назад

      To say the least

  • @pixiegirl9
    @pixiegirl9 6 месяцев назад +62

    I love how the whole episode got derailed by trying to educate Ethan on who Kirk is.

  • @ziggylegion1604
    @ziggylegion1604 6 месяцев назад +12

    i honestly dont think colleen was intending to intentionally imply something sexual with the the lingerie she sent adam, but contrary to the implied forgiving light that may cast on her, i think it actually shows the depth of her minds normalization with discussing and exposing some of her minor fans to inappropriate subjects. i think that actually shows a much more subconscious ignorance to her actions, which i think is a lot more malevolent in a way.

  • @Jennm4
    @Jennm4 6 месяцев назад +73

    Would love to know what this therapist thinks about Colleen’s therapist telling her to vlog to help her cope. When vlogging is what caused all this drama. So… go back to doing what kicked you down in the first place?

    • @FabiolaMacabre
      @FabiolaMacabre 6 месяцев назад +5

      I used to watch him (not anymore cause he frustrates me 😂😅) but I can tell you that he wouldn’t agree with that at all 😅

    • @marli8907
      @marli8907 6 месяцев назад +8

      I think either A. That never happened or B. She told her to only tape for her.

    • @AirConditioner402
      @AirConditioner402 6 месяцев назад +4

      I'm pretty sure therapists have to be unbiased, so their therapist in question might not even know that she is a huge internet personality. If they do, they might not watch their content or consume any content related to her, because that would make the therapist biased in their treatment of Colleen. So Colleen is most likely lying, making herself look good in front of their therapist, and then not listening to the good advice their therapist tells them.
      It's important to remember this: Colleen Ballinger is a NARCISSIST. She thinks so highly of herself. That kind of person HAS to want to change, and the fact stands that Colleen wants NO accountability for her actions.

    • @cocochill1464
      @cocochill1464 6 месяцев назад

      @@FabiolaMacabreit’s because he has to be professional think of it this way if abuser goes to a therapist, that therpist cannot tell that person how much of a piece of shit that person is same thing with SA cases to

    • @cocochill1464
      @cocochill1464 6 месяцев назад

      @@FabiolaMacabredoesn’t mean they don’t wanna say that tho just they gotta be professional

  • @TORTOISESFORDAYS
    @TORTOISESFORDAYS 6 месяцев назад +44

    Have the psychology in Seattle guy on! I love him sooooo much and you guys can talk about big Ed together!! He covers it all he knows ALL THE LORE

    • @ohreally1997
      @ohreally1997 6 месяцев назад +5

      That would be interesting, but I'd be surprised if Dr Honda accepted the invitation, honestly. I suspect Ethan's interview style (propensity for highly personal/invasive/inappropriate/persistent questioning) is a little too much for Kirk. Not that Ethan hasn't shown marked improvement, but still. I'd be fascinated to see how Dr Honda maintained his boundaries, and how Ethan responded in turn.

    • @FabiolaMacabre
      @FabiolaMacabre 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@ohreally1997yeah he’s too much of a nice guy for that 😂, he gives people like Ed grace all the time , he’d be uncomfortable lol

    • @ohreally1997
      @ohreally1997 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@FabiolaMacabreDr Honda would be sweatin bullets 😂

    • @angelic252
      @angelic252 6 месяцев назад

      I kinda want to see a collab even more because of this, their commentary styles would contrast eachother so much XD @@ohreally1997

  • @chapter_black3234
    @chapter_black3234 6 месяцев назад +46

    Glad to know Psych in Seattle is getting much deserved notice. Been a listener of the podcast for about a decade now

  • @niumoficial
    @niumoficial 6 месяцев назад +8

    I thought I’d be a h3h3 fan forever but here we are. Blocking comments on the leftovers ending announcement is such a wuss move. L egotop bozo

  • @MeeraReads
    @MeeraReads 6 месяцев назад +23

    25:20 I think “requesting forgiveness” is meant to be like, giving the power of decision making to the other person rather than being like “ope, I apologize, so we’re good now!”

    • @angelic252
      @angelic252 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah, I interpreted it to mean showing genuine eagerness and desire for a second chance, the opposite to "idgaf if you forgive me, it's your choice and your loss if you don't"

  • @paulabroadworth2504
    @paulabroadworth2504 6 месяцев назад +9

    My issue with the underwear thing is she knee at the time is was wrong and even commented how Adam's parents see it they wouldn't let him watch her or something like that. Yet she proceeded even after that to send them anyway. Whether she wore them or not its still creepy.

  • @NeonUnicorn4321
    @NeonUnicorn4321 6 месяцев назад +32

    🚩He's so right! What Colleen did was expose them to not having s#xual boundaries with strangers, ADULTS, and could have lead kids to putting themselves in potentially difficult situations they can't get out of! 😭 Because their GROWN UP ADULT idle talked se#ual to them so then they would think it's NORMAL for all adults to be s#xual with them! 🤯😭😡😡 Kids 💔

    • @FabiolaMacabre
      @FabiolaMacabre 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yep this is why it’s so dangerous, and so many silly people don’t get it, just because she didn’t engage in secksual contact with an underage person (that we know of) it’s still bad because of what you explain here …she normalized this behavior for them

    • @llamaczech
      @llamaczech 6 месяцев назад

      I mean, not really. What she did was more so cultivate an incredibly personal and one sided parasocial relationship that she'd take advantage of for free labour, you know, one of the larger, more egregious acts of manipulation she engaged in, which is how Adam talked about it. But, you know, not looking into the actual details of the event someone's supposed to be apologising for will do that.
      The type of garment sent is kind of basically inconsequential, and I'm pretty sure people only latch onto the lingerie is because of the implications, both in sexual grooming, and with what the therapist kind of just slapped onto the situation without much forethought.

  • @AJ-xc4nm
    @AJ-xc4nm 6 месяцев назад +26

    Holy shit Ethan, You are doing amazing with the weight loss. It makes it seem like these things are possible for myself. Haven't stopped by in a minute and you are doing really well. Good to see.

  • @paulabroadworth2504
    @paulabroadworth2504 6 месяцев назад +15

    In order for an apology to be sincere the person first must admit guilt. Which she hasn't and won't. Therefor until she admits she did something wrong no apology from her or anyone else is ever going to be sincere.

  • @lydiabliss4473
    @lydiabliss4473 6 месяцев назад +3

    Love and Ethan accidentally synchronized “mmh hmm” has me so dead 😭 32:40

  • @jennaye8142
    @jennaye8142 6 месяцев назад +4

    Colleen didn't just commit literal crimes, commend her child grooming brother's actions by NOT saying anything, defame her ex-husband with allegation's of extremely abusive behavior whom she actually cheated on...etc. etc....but she's a bully.
    She is a bully. She is a mean girl. She's insecure & therefor gossips in hurtful ways towards others, including literal children. She bullies adults, cast, crew, fans, family & her relationships EVEN WHEN they are no longer present in her life. She still cares that Josh spoke up, and she's clearly trying to get some passive revenge yet again. I don't hear enough people talk about this. Her accusations are wild, and there's tons of proof & screenshots & videos & voice memos to prove all of it. We can all agree she is as bad as everyone is claiming she is, BUT no one is mentioning that while Colleen hurt a lot of children, which is terrible, she is this way towards EVERYONE she comes across, including me & you & the entire internet by posting these "apology" videos that lack an actual apology to the actual people she actually really really hurt. She can only apologize to the people who still support her because she is a coward, and she still thinks she is in the right, and she's a narcissist but what RUclipsr isn't...

  • @kittystetson6737
    @kittystetson6737 6 месяцев назад +25

    This is such a weird cross over of my two favorite channels. 😂😂

    • @ohreally1997
      @ohreally1997 6 месяцев назад +1

      it's giving bizarro PTA night

  • @lilyflower0616
    @lilyflower0616 6 месяцев назад +8

    Part of her apology feels like regurgitation of what people were saying about her original apology. “I should have handled the situation with maturity and empathy” “I let my ego take over” “I was just mad”

  • @meganhume8694
    @meganhume8694 6 месяцев назад +7

    She twisted it Adam didn’t ask for them specifically :(

    • @LM-mr3fd
      @LM-mr3fd 6 месяцев назад

      How do you know this? It is literally one person's word against another's word and you are neither of those two people.

    • @meganhume8694
      @meganhume8694 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@LM-mr3fd I watched the unedited video where she was the one who suggested it smarty pants god I’m worried about society

    • @meganhume8694
      @meganhume8694 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@LM-mr3fd pls learn to at least educate before playin ur little logic games cause it doesn’t work when there was a video of her grown self suggesting to send the panties to Adam before he a fan prob wanting something of hers agreed gtfo ur mad weird

    • @LM-mr3fd
      @LM-mr3fd 6 месяцев назад

      @@meganhume8694 So, me simply pointing out that YOU (like the majority of ppl discussing this topic) do not have first hand knowledge of this situation motivated you to call me ''smarty pants'' and makes you concerned about society?? I said nothing about what I personally believe may have happened because that would be WRONG to do. Unlike you, I refuse to treat opinions as though they are FACTS. Since you mentioned the ''unedited video'', perhaps you can explain to me how you can know with 100% uncertainty that it wasn't the video that was actually edited OR that they both weren't edited? You totally missed the point of my first response to your initial comment. YOU and I, and the rest of those not directly involved, should not be regurgitating information that we've read or have been told as though it is 100% accurate. I agree with you that we should be concerned about society but not for the reasons you think.

    • @meganhume8694
      @meganhume8694 6 месяцев назад

      @@LM-mr3fd lol I think ur missing the point that Colleen did a live video where she came up with the idea to send panties to a minor then tried to twist it and it was all posted on her little RUclips account, we have first hand knowledge of that video hun he was one of the fans watching the stream. I may not know more personally but I have eyes that can see that’s why I think ur smarty pants look at ur new comment yesterday 😂😂😂😂

  • @Marndarrr
    @Marndarrr 6 месяцев назад +8

    To my understanding, your timeline is slightly off regarding Colleen’s sending of the lingerie. She and Adam were not yet on friendly terms, or even talking. It was at that point that she recognized his humor and they got closer after that. (Please someone correct me if I’m wrong. Also, because someone might take it the wrong way: sending sexy undies to an unknown kid is terrible, too, and I’m not at all making the argument that not knowing the kid somehow makes her actions better.)

    • @twilit
      @twilit 6 месяцев назад +1

      they were talking she called him and asked him if he wanted it while laughing and blogging and he said yes

  • @serenityseen
    @serenityseen 6 месяцев назад +12

    OLIVIA WITH THE GLASSES!!!!!

  • @FabiolaMacabre
    @FabiolaMacabre 6 месяцев назад +7

    I’d actually love a TRUE analysis on this dr, but I feel like yall would get lynched or something, 😅everyone always acts like dr Hondas word is gospel and I think he often misses the point because he’s always trying to be positive even with the worst types of people, that he misses the parts that are truly malicious , I sometimes wonder if he does it to be professional or he just doesn’t see it ? . I often feel like I’m watching a different clip than he is 😅. I had to stop watching his analysis of “90 day fiance” problematic characters because it was honestly Frustrating af to me. He also often misses important context like the edited part of Colleen’s “apology” , where she edits out asking Adam about the lingerie. It’s like he is kinda naive imo

    • @cocochill1464
      @cocochill1464 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yes he is being professional this is stuff he has to say.. think of it this way if a abuser goes to a therapist they can’t tell that person how much of a piece of shit they are

  • @arianaink100
    @arianaink100 6 месяцев назад +1

    20:41 from his psychology perspective this is like (a kid sees their parents on the couch watching an adult film on tv - it’s an oops moment. Or a kid going to a home computer/laptop and seeing a random tab which is a bit too adult for them. Again accidental exposure.)
    (or a kid witnessing their own parent nude say if they’re parents take off their clothes and walk nude/semi unclothed through the house - that’s a choice by the parents who may be doing something else- had a stain/took a shower/was hot inside the house so they took off a shirt- it’s a moment of exposure but it happened because of an activity or accident. Someone splitting their pants is an accident and also exposure and it’s understood 9/10 times and unintentional. )
    All of which expose the kids to nudity and to adult bodies ::: this is not intentional sexualization of the children or adults to interact… and not for the purpose of exposing children to adults bodies/adult content -
    it’s daily life as a human being which includes nude bodies - and this kind of exposes a kid because kids are still learning. So it can influence ‘oh this is normals/socially acceptable/standard/what adults do/what people do.’ -> but it’s not done with the intention of say grooming a child or intention to manipulate a child or intention to sexualized the child.
    (It’s also key to not with psychology how wealth does influence stuff like this: People with little water may share a bath or shower it’s weird but for really little kids who can drown alone sometimes this is a necessity to both keep kids alive and keep kids clean- we also know that it’s not designed to be sexualized it’s bathing and something every human has to do- we also know from legal experiences that some individuals can/will sexually assault family members and ‘bath time’ when they are isolated and alone is a frequent moment where sexual misconduct can take place. // this is similar to locker rooms - getting changed is a standard thing all humans will have to do and do so in shared semi-public spaces - there’s still ways to be appropriate and inappropriate and ways to be average with getting changed vs perverted. And also how certain individuals in locker rooms will use the isolation/remote location to do things/actions that are inappropriate -locker room talk/locker room attitude and behavior and how there’s normal ‘just joking around’ and ‘extreme violence’ )
    --
    There’s other parents who are thinking sex ed - teaching kids/having kids learn or be mature- involves showing adult content to understand or doing something explicit as a way to teach or tease. So say a parent being overly sexual of their own body ‘saying their hot look at their xxx’ to make fun of their child for being in a child body. Or adults showing kids explicit things say movies/tv/film/books/photos/straight up pornography.
    (There’s a lot of really shitty parents who were raised in the 40-80s and to today - that probably thought ‘hey they’re learning to be adult/what a kiss is or a boy/girlfriend/they’re wanking - time for the ‘you’re an adult convo’ which can go so so so bad so fast. And with the internet a lot of parents thought it was normal to be like ‘see this ad don’t click it it’s porn’ or ‘this is an adult website don’t ever use them’ or ‘this is an adult website which won’t give the computer a virus if you use anything - that.’ There’s billions of people on the planet there’s a ton of horror stories and ‘I can’t believe my parent thought that was a good idea/normal/straight up abuse’

  • @sydneycopps3046
    @sydneycopps3046 6 месяцев назад +3

    I used to take care of shatners horses.

  • @FukaiKokoro
    @FukaiKokoro 6 месяцев назад +10

    I like kirk but during my time watching him there was a couple things that bothered me about him. Overall I'd say he's good and my opinion about him leans positive. I REALLY like HealthyGamerGG and Mickey Atkins.
    Up there for one of the worst imo is Dr. Todd Grande. He acts like a therapist but as I'm aware"allegedly" he's not a actual therapist but more so a sports therapist / administration or something similar. The way he talks about people is gross. And he's doing a huge disservice to mental health. If you disagree with the way he's talking about people specifically women or have a different opinion his fans will attack you.
    Again Kirk is great. I just personally don't vibe with everything he says but that's fine. I'll still watch him.

    • @FukaiKokoro
      @FukaiKokoro 6 месяцев назад +2

      Sorry forgot about Katie Morton. Shes the worst worst. Then Dr Todd Grande

    • @ohreally1997
      @ohreally1997 6 месяцев назад

      Dr Grande is a dumpster fire. So weird how he went from making really basic educational (almost training style) videos to making offensively unprofessional clickbait right before my eyes. The way he talks about people (yes, women even more so) is horrifying, and that's with the camera rolling and his professional name on the line. I'm shocked he even has fans still.

    • @amandamandamands
      @amandamandamands 6 месяцев назад +2

      Agree about Dr Grande, the first content on his channel is so different to what he does today and the way that he churns out content he only does very surface research about a person.
      Apparently his degrees are Master's of Science in Community Counseling from Wilmington University and a Ph. D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from Regent University. His certifications are Licensed Professional Counselor of Mental Health (LPCMH) and Licensed Chemical Dependency Professional (LCDP) in the State of Delaware and is a National Certified Counselor (NCC)
      So yes a very different vibe than what he implies by what he says

    • @freethegays
      @freethegays 6 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah he's taken a strange right-wing turn...

    • @BlisaBLisa
      @BlisaBLisa 6 месяцев назад +2

      never watched this kirk guy but i suspect at least for this instance hes just out of the loop, like i dont think he knows about the truly heinous shit of her facilitating these relationships between her fans and her pedo brother

  • @Belarus2012
    @Belarus2012 6 месяцев назад +3

    shout out to Ethan for standing with Gaza

  • @zedohe172
    @zedohe172 6 месяцев назад +2

    As a an avid H3 fan as well as a Psychology in Seattle fan, if ya'll don't know, Dr. Kirk Honda is perhaps the most "give benefit of the doubt" person out there. That's just who he is and it is what makes him a good therapist. He's like the complete opposite of someone like Kati Morton. However, he hasn't really covered this case properly and it's very obvious he hasn't. However, I'm 90% sure he would still give her benefit of the doubt, the only thing that would change is he could be more insightful about the transgressions themselves. I highly advice checking out his content still, he does great work when it comes to in display interpersonal interactions and models for his audience better communication.

  • @alexelizondo7207
    @alexelizondo7207 6 месяцев назад +1

    How many more vidoes you gonna make on this topic

  • @billyloomis8263
    @billyloomis8263 6 месяцев назад +9

    She didn’t say she was inappropriate with her fans. She said some of her comedy was inappropriate. Totally different.

  • @xxonspotlight
    @xxonspotlight 6 месяцев назад +3

    As someone who does crisis management when it does happen, the reality is that you also don't want your client to admit to anything because admission would mean potential jail time. And we don't want our clients to go to jail. :))

    • @ashleighmyers5548
      @ashleighmyers5548 6 месяцев назад

      i was thinking the same thing- then i thought about how james charles admitted but nothing happened bc the victims never pressed charges. it seems like these ppl are untouchable if the victims don’t take direct action /: which is sad ALTHOUGH in this case, i feel as if the victims WOULD (basing this on how strongly they feel- i’ve watched adam for years) and that is why she is avoiding it. just my opinion. at the bare minimum- this sucks and she needs to reach out directly to them and even if she doesn’t straight up admit to things- at least give them a *personal* half-ass apology lol

  • @kyleknight9686
    @kyleknight9686 6 месяцев назад +2

    Kinda weird for yal to turn off comments on the Leftovers highlight clip - so I'll post my comment here instead. Rip, a great podcast - but mental health is important too. Just wish you both weren't so stubborn. Half the time, it was like yal listened to the other person to simply respond back/argue and were often going in circles. Early episodes were solid. But at any rate, was glad for the time yal gave us during the pandemic. Yal helped a lot during those years. I'll miss it.

  • @walrooausterelous9329
    @walrooausterelous9329 6 месяцев назад +2

    That red striped shirt tho. Where can I get it?

  • @WantedDH
    @WantedDH 6 месяцев назад +4

    I really wish they would have watched the Kevin spacey apology video, it’s crazy

    • @pearlosibu
      @pearlosibu 6 месяцев назад +1

      “They” who?

    • @WantedDH
      @WantedDH 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@pearlosibu “They” like the people doing the thing that we are watching and commenting on. Ethan and the cast are who I was talking about.

  • @caitlinpowell9010
    @caitlinpowell9010 6 месяцев назад +8

    Colleen is just as insincere as she was before and no one should fully believe her words, moreso her actions MORE THAN EVER. And what really pisses me off is she's using her motherly duties as an escape goat to really be sorry for her actions. Those babies didn't do anything. They don't deserve that.

  • @LaurenElizabethxxxx
    @LaurenElizabethxxxx 6 месяцев назад

    What is the Chestnut Sting incident that Ethan referring to?

  • @Marndarrr
    @Marndarrr 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m a regular watcher of Dr Honda and I will now have to resist the urge to call him Doctor Commander Kirk. Thanks, Ethan. 🤣

  • @ellemarr7234
    @ellemarr7234 6 месяцев назад +4

    Dr. Kirk and H3?! Here for it 😂🎉

  • @kevinvaldez7594
    @kevinvaldez7594 6 месяцев назад +19

    Stop eating on the mic Ethan!

    • @danib5443
      @danib5443 6 месяцев назад

      I was enjoying the content but had to stop listening. The sound of eating on mic and talking with food in his mouth was killing me.

  • @buffy6673
    @buffy6673 6 месяцев назад +1

    I have been waiting so long for Ethan to discover Kirk

  • @oliviachate5086
    @oliviachate5086 6 месяцев назад +4

    She basically was like, sorry bout that anyway here’s my life

  • @shelby6144
    @shelby6144 6 месяцев назад +2

    Okay is he just going to blow past where she says “I was inappropriate with some of my comedy” no where in that video does she say “inappropriate with my fans” ????????

  • @Catstimesinfinity
    @Catstimesinfinity 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, I've been watching psychology in Seattle for a couple years now and he's so humble and down to earth... did not know he had so many credentials!

  • @nikkil7995
    @nikkil7995 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s hard to accept an apology from her at all when you know she didn’t actually reach out to any of the people her actions hurt. She posted that clip at the beginning of a vlog, like it didn’t even deserve its own video. She’s a mom now, you would think she would have some actual empathy for not only Adam and Becky and Oliver, but also their parents! Imagine a content creator did or allowed half of what she allowed to any of her children, she would be so upset. To be clear I’m not in any way saying I want that to happen to them, but I’m saying she should put herself in the perspective of not only the people she hurt but their parents too, I mean, all of their parents trusted Colleen to a certain extent, and she broke that trust. Apology not accepted Colleen, until you can apologize to the actual people and families that you hurt and actually say what you did wrong.

  • @jennaalden3658
    @jennaalden3658 6 месяцев назад

    you reacted to Dr Honda! Love him.

  • @ozkele611
    @ozkele611 6 месяцев назад +1

    I pretty much just watch clips. All the eating noises and talking with mouth full all the time triggers me to exit out early 😢

  • @chelseachelseabun
    @chelseachelseabun 6 месяцев назад +2

    ‘You don’t need any armour when you can hide behind a screen’ right, Colleen?

  • @MOONSLIFE36
    @MOONSLIFE36 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm listening to this as I'm unpacking my Walmart groceries, and I'm pulling out a light bright.
    The topic is brought up😂
    it may or may not be for me

  • @jodie8687
    @jodie8687 6 месяцев назад +1

    32:05 I think he is referring to the gen z trend of diagnosing yourself as a psychopath.

  • @user-vk8yk8ro2l
    @user-vk8yk8ro2l 6 месяцев назад

    Imo there is no point in public apologies because its about the person receiving the apology, but you need to hear the person to know where you hurt them before you can learn and apologise. Just meet the people you hurt then acknowledge your conversation and attempt for growth to the wider public later.

  • @MrUNiCORNSTUFFR
    @MrUNiCORNSTUFFR 6 месяцев назад

    What a random place to find Dr Kirk Honda mentioned

  • @lawrence1444
    @lawrence1444 6 месяцев назад +3

    Ngl Olivia looks hard asf in this episode

  • @arBauer
    @arBauer 6 месяцев назад

    the star trek interlude cracked me UP

  • @lmnopeepeepoopoo
    @lmnopeepeepoopoo 6 месяцев назад +2

    No one will ever get a true apology from that woman bc it admits to her CRIMES

  • @cassimarr8103
    @cassimarr8103 6 месяцев назад

    The way Zach and Dan are at each others throats

  • @THEDubbleHelixx
    @THEDubbleHelixx 6 месяцев назад

    I appreciate how he called out body language analysis as being full of misinfo. That's my biggest hang up with any "psychologist review."

  • @Quli3n
    @Quli3n 6 месяцев назад +10

    ok thats hilarious i freaking love psychology in seattle

  • @pnwexplorer1122
    @pnwexplorer1122 6 месяцев назад +1

    honestly guys, title every highlight video by the number, no specifics... ex: Highlight #856 or highlight #1238.. THAT WAY haters will have to click around and run up the views trying to find the part where you offend them...

  • @888shadesofwoman
    @888shadesofwoman 6 месяцев назад

    What did ethan have to apologize about

  • @timothyonime8199
    @timothyonime8199 6 месяцев назад +4

    Olivia got that sh!t on though! 😎

  • @CodeDeb
    @CodeDeb 6 месяцев назад

    Ethan’s shirt reminds me of third grade class photo attire

  • @grasstastesbad
    @grasstastesbad 6 месяцев назад +2

    i know they’re joking but he’s only saying blablabla bc he’s talked about apologizing a lot 😭

  • @pearlosibu
    @pearlosibu 6 месяцев назад +1

    When he says “hard to know” it’s frustrating cuz it’s only hard to know if you have no context about Colleen and her actions over the years. When most people goof like this, their fans straighten them out and they apologize and do the work. Kirk, enabled by his subscribers doubles down, refuses to do the work but insists on continuing these reactions. There’s way too much info out there to be this ignorant about Colleen. Some level of skepticism would really elevate his videos. This insistence on “everyone is well-intentioned” is fucked.

  • @ChromaticaBitch
    @ChromaticaBitch 6 месяцев назад +1

    Why are all the OG RUclipsrs turning into creeps… first Shane… now Colleen… and then they try to make a comeback as if nothing ever happened…

  • @FukaiKokoro
    @FukaiKokoro 6 месяцев назад +2

    Speaking of star trek, I personally think strange new world's and lower decks are the best new star treks. Discovery sucks.

  • @rebeccah4177
    @rebeccah4177 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow! As a long time Dr Honda fan and a long time h3 fan, I am losing my s*** and I'm like 5 seconds into this video

  • @paulabroadworth2504
    @paulabroadworth2504 6 месяцев назад +1

    The apology at thr beginning of her vlog was her attempt at an apology. Observe did an excellent look at her body language in the recent Colleen apology and I agree with what he saw. She wasn't sincere and was not apologizing to anyone but those who still follow her. The way she did it was how an adult apologizes to a child. Real vague because kids domet care about details. I'm top of she turned it into a I'm a victim just raising my kids. Which by the way if truly sorry she would actually apologize to the actual victims, take the stupid train video down, take some accountability for her actions. And last wouldn't be putting her kids back online because instead of now exploiting young fans she's exploiting her own kids. Its sad and sick. RUclips and other platforms that you can profit on should stop allowing people to use kids for profit period. Stop monetizing family vloggers especially with young kids who have no say in it. Older kids it depends on the kid but still not a good idea.

  • @xojacquie7356
    @xojacquie7356 6 месяцев назад

    Dr.Kirk Honda is wonderful! That would be so cool if you had him on the show.The crossover we didn’t know we needed!

  • @gabbys.5041
    @gabbys.5041 6 месяцев назад

    frasier reference we love to see it

  • @frostieuk3064
    @frostieuk3064 6 месяцев назад

    Ethan your looking amazing!!! Got into H3 before my best best friend passed away as he loved the show. Watching you helps me feel close to him. We need H3 in the world and appreciate your stance on Palestine being Jewish. Your fair people 🎉

  • @GodLambIt
    @GodLambIt 6 месяцев назад

    Man, I haven’t been on RUclips as much and Ethan is looking great!

  • @AndrewLloyd-sf3xs
    @AndrewLloyd-sf3xs 6 месяцев назад

    I'd pay good money to see Dan schtick it to Zach

  • @tvtvtfan3767
    @tvtvtfan3767 6 месяцев назад

    27:57 I think it’s hard to make up something on the spot. If your aren’t something that innate problematic when comparing to Colleen. What is did was inappropriate at best. More needs to be looked in on her.

  • @dreambrush7251
    @dreambrush7251 4 месяца назад

    20:30 well uhmmm... let's just say that I know some parents who weirdly enough watch game of thrones with their 9 year old daughter but apparently the dad skips/fast forwards on the sex scenes (which i have no idea what that even means, like doesn't she catch glimpse of them anyway)

  • @gagu8942
    @gagu8942 5 месяцев назад

    olivia looks like yassified judge dredd in those glasses its a gr8 look

  • @liliannapizzo8523
    @liliannapizzo8523 6 месяцев назад +16

    hire me I’m a graphic designer

    • @ZorinZato
      @ZorinZato 6 месяцев назад +1

      No hire me I am too

    • @RustyBagel11
      @RustyBagel11 6 месяцев назад +9

      Hire me. I'm
      Not but I'm fun

  • @bfu4971
    @bfu4971 6 месяцев назад

    The diatribe from Dr. Kirk to Captain Kirk is on point..... kudos to the Trekkies in the crew

  • @dreamer.taurus
    @dreamer.taurus 6 месяцев назад

    Omg I LOVE @psychologyinseattle ! I can’t believe H3 mentioned him 😮😮😮😮

  • @knitwitchpgh
    @knitwitchpgh 6 месяцев назад +3

    UM EXCUSE ME! LITE BRITES ARE NOT A BOOMER REFERENCE 😂 boomers wish they had lite brites 😂

  • @GiannaBelenT
    @GiannaBelenT 6 месяцев назад +1

    What did she even do I’m so behind

    • @GirlieCarolinas
      @GirlieCarolinas 6 месяцев назад +1

      Nothing that warrants all this. I agreed with these people at the beginning until they started getting bloodthirsty- this is just sadism against an easy target.

  • @sophieeel4478
    @sophieeel4478 6 месяцев назад

    IF A GIY WERE TO DO EXACTLY WHAT SHE DID THERE WOULDNT BE NO DISCUSSION ABT IT, LIKE IT BE SO WRONG TREAT FEMALES WITH THE SAME REGARD, ITS CREEPY AND WEIRD

  • @megamovieman101
    @megamovieman101 6 месяцев назад

    Okay I love Olivia’s glasses 😂 so cute

  • @nandierae
    @nandierae 6 месяцев назад

    Olivia needs to take him down the rabbit hole

  • @psychopopdesign
    @psychopopdesign 6 месяцев назад +2

    Some would even say he's the Peabodiest

  • @valeria3070
    @valeria3070 6 месяцев назад

    I absolutely love Doctor Honda, and I am sure he is beyond happy!

  • @Theworldis_myne
    @Theworldis_myne 4 месяца назад

    The internet is a funny place. I am reacting to Ethan, reacting to Ben, reacting to Colleen.

  • @sweetcheeks5775
    @sweetcheeks5775 6 месяцев назад

    is ethan ok ?

  • @kaylynbarajas6380
    @kaylynbarajas6380 6 месяцев назад

    Doctor Kirk Honda?