Modern Etiquette: Dining Out with Chloe Malle - Vogue
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- Опубликовано: 5 апр 2015
- Are mealtime selfies acceptable? Updating the 1948 Vogue’s Book of Etiquette for the smartphone era.
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Modern Etiquette: Dining Out with Chloe Malle - Vogue
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Honestly, the best video I've ever seen on the Vogue channel. THIS is Vogue.
Agreed. They need to keep with this and stop the celebrity worship and political intentions.
Erin MacPherson Exactly sure is.
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I keep returning to this video for Vogue essence🙌🏼
So true lol
I really find it rude if people start eating before everyone is served, so I have to disagree on that one. Interesting video though
ILoveRuToo who cares nobody takes offense noob
Jacob J I do and most people with manners too: )
It's good manners to wait until everyone has been served so you can enjoy the meal together. Eating before everyone has been served shows that you must be ravenously hungry, or that you don't care about the communal spirit of a dinner party - the whole point of a dinner party is that everyone eats together.
You're actually not supposed to show up to a dinner party hungry. The event is supposed to be more about meeting friends, family or colleagues than it is about food, so showing up hungry means you are putting the food ahead of these relationships. It is recommended to have a glass of wine or prosecco and a light snack before heading out for the evening - at least, that is the very traditional way of doing things, which I have to say I very much enjoy.
@@roisinnigcrainn7722 the surver can actually be instructed to get all the food at once or in order of prepration, even corse wise, so if the server is instructed to bring food in order of prepration that means your companions don't mind you eating before them
VERY RUDE!!!
This is what Vogue is about!
more of this sort please VOGUE!!
For someone talking about etiquette, she could use a little warmth.
I'm genuinely afraid of her
The way she says, "THANk you."
Thank you. I thought I was judging a bit.
Why? I assume you are afraid of her mom too?@@soumig2382
She prolly is with people she knows well and feels comfortable with,just like her mother
I always find it odd that Americans don't hold their knife and fork when eating looks very uncomfortable to me but guess I'm just used to European Etiquette
We were taught to keep one hand in our lap. Use the knife to cut something, then put it down. Change fork from right to left to cut, then left hand back in your lap, and right hand to feed yourself. Prongs of fork point up. No elbows on the table.
+Phaedra Ovid that's funny cause here in Europe it's having your hands in your lap that is seen as very improper. you must have both hands on the table but never your elbows.
Didn't know it was a thing for America, thought it's how most ppl do it. But I think we work both ways too. We put our hand on the table, but I guess we're just much comfortable to just put them on our lap most of the time while our dominant hand does all the work, since if we do hold a knife and not really use it, we don't see the point. But I agree, for someone who isn't used to seeing it, it's somehow awkward to see the other hand kept being lifted
I guess they're just used to holding burgers with their bare hands. XD
eimearinez Americans no longer have manners,at least not in the small hick town I live in.
I love that she is promoting no leftovers
A few remarks after this rather poor and limited instruction on table etiquette:
- in a restaurant a dessert spoon is brought to the table together with the dessert. Only in a private home a dessert spoon may be on the table already;
- If restaurants would together with the salad forks also put a knife on the table to use with the salad, people who use both hands would be much more comfortable;
- What is it with that hand under the table; that is an American habit from previous centuries used by poor people. Americans should have grown up by now and be able to use cutlery in both hands;
- When you haven't finished your course yet but want to take a rest you put your knife at 4 o'clock and your fork at 8 o'clock on your plate. That way your waiter knows that you haven't finished yet and the waiter doesn't have to interrupt your conversation to ask if your plate may be cleared.
- When you leave the table between courses you leave your napkin on the chair not on the table. That is a sign for the waiter that you will return, on the table means that you won't return;
- It is still polite for a man to stand up when the lady leaves and returns to the table;
Table etiquette is an unspoken language used so not to embarrass yourself and others, as well as discreetly signaling the waiters how you have progressed with your dinner and how you wish to continue.
"Americans should have grown up by now and be able to use cutlery in both hands". The most educated Americans do not know how do this and they have no idea how utterly dumb it makes them seem...such a turn-off.
The comment under the video better than the video itself.
The lady is funny and relaxed, though
Couldve done without the rude American remark but great advice
Thank you for pointing out all of these. I was looking for this comment.
thanks for explaining
I would love to see this become a regular series!
Finally a Vogue worthy video! So classy and nice :)
Very unnatural and unpleasant the way she’s behaving and speaking with a creaky voice and a tone of sarcasm. “ “Thaaaaaaaaaaaaank you.”
That creaky voice is, like, everywhere now.
yeah, right.
Very annoying video.
It's called vocal fry, and is most common in California and New York, but appears elsewhere now due to social influence.
I love this!! It definitely deserves more views 😍
She seems really annoyed that she has to do this video.
John Wesson she's a New Yorker. So being a bitch is 100% normal
For real? Why does she must've gotten her looks from her dad then.
She is her mother's daughter...
She has a personality. If she didn't want to do it, she wouldn't.
That's not how jobs work dipshit.
I need more videos like this in my life. This is a great idea vogue, keep it up
LOVE this! More videos like this please.
that restaurant looks amazing nice and classy
christina love I
*The end tho! YAS! I can never leave food tbh, like it's food? Why waste if it can have a party in your tummy?* loved this video 🙌
The server reached across the lady with his left hand to remove a dish. I almost screamed. But that's another etiquette for another crowd.
EXACTLY. My mom always taught me never to reach across someone or their food or drink, always reach behind them. I wonder if the same rule applies for servers though.
Same here. And I was always taught the serrated edge of the knife must be facing inwards when you finish your meal, in the same way it faces towards the plate before you begin. British etiquette.
Walkeranz I think it depends on the layout of the restaurant. Usually at the restaurant I always go to, they don't usually reach over you unless you're sitting somewhere that they can't reach behind you, but of course they will always say "pardon my reach" before they extend their arm. For example, if you're sitting at a regular table then they can always reach behind you but if you're sitting at a booth or half booth they can't usually reach behind you.
You completely missed that he just cleared the table of the dirty plates and then served the entrées right after. Big NO NO. Especially for the Polo Club.
Please do a 73 Q's with Emma Watson.
I second this!
YES!!!!!
MrUlei123 I want to thumbs up this comment but it has 73 thumbs up and I don't want to ruin that perfect amount.
Yes
no with Chloe´s mom!
the savage in me would probably use one fork for everything
This is nice. She's so awesome
Are you joking??? She is terrible
great video. one thing I disagree with though is starting to eat before everyone gets served, unless they have explicitly asked you to start without them.
PLEASE put both your arms on the table while eating! never place your elbows, just your lower arm resting on the table when not being used, and the other arm must be placed while talking. NEVER keep the fork or knife while talking/body talking.
you have All reason.
In British etiquette, the arms rest on the lap. In French etiquette, hands must always be above the table.
what about in the US?
+John Wesson - North America has no rule for this. Your arm may be anywhere you choose as long as it's not obstructing anybody, and as long as your elbows are not perched up on the table.
In europe, it is etiquette to have both hands showing while eating. In Britain and the US, this is considered IMPOLITE and it appropriate to have the free hand resting in your lap.
I'd love to use this once I have a real family of my own. Serving properly at the table.
Great idea, please make more videos like this one!
This person has no idea about real etiquette
The soup spoon on top of the plate? Hmmm... I think not.
It is the dessert spoon... we found a flaw.
@@diegopitbull7580 INdeed...it wasnt a soup spoon at all.
That was lovely. Very vogue, need more stuff like this
Do more of these!
I'd find it a bit weird to start eating before others' food arrives..but I guess that depends on culture.
New sub! I would love to see more videos like this!
Loved this so much
So different from other etiquette video.. live it!
I would love to see more etiquette videos
loved the video! and her earrings!
more more more moreeeee of these pleaseeeeeeee
I loved this so much! I am young and no one has told me anything like this! our generation needs this please!
Excellent thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love this!
don’t know why but this is my comfort video
Wow loved this!!!!!!
Frank, to the point and yet charming. She definitely needs to be in more videos. Also, I was always taught that the silverware placed above the plate was for dessert, but that might be for private dining rather than for restaurants
"Dessert" is an incorrect term, its proper name is "pudding" (a cake of sorts) followed by a "sweet" (an item of fruit, usually an orange cut in half and served on a plate and eaten with a sweet spoon). 😁😁
This is helpful!
love this
She is awesome!
Very practical
Its 2022 and I'm here for it
Please do one for house parties hosted by work friends!
Love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love this video, Chloe Malle is great!
The b and d trick was a great tip, thank you
Oh I like this kind of video
Love it
Wow! Everyone has so much comment on this video criticizing the woman, although she is the one who go to this kind of restaurant regularly compare to the critique. Well, it is common for people who rarely go to high end places to think that they have to be proper and all. However, unless it is a state dinner, you don't really have to become a robot!
Today's etiquette has changed so much because of globalization, since people from different world has different standard of etiquette. What you think as polite in your part of the world might seem impolite somewhere else; you have to learn to accept other people either way, and the way your boss/business partner won't be stuck on your dinner etiquette but on your performance in your job.I think this is what this video wants to convey.
The most important thing is knowing your utensils and avoid being disgusting (such as farting, scratching, talking trash, burping, and ignoring your meal partner).
TheAndchipzz The biggest etiquette faux-pas is commenting on the mistakes of others. It says more about the person pointing the finger than the one being pointed at.
Still pictures of Chloe don't convey how much she resembles her mother both in appearance and in her verbal and facial mannerisms. You see it here.
indeed.And I don´t understand why people seem to be so upset about that.Besides of that her mom is extreamly well mannered.
She does have her eyes
Please.
NEVER LEAVE YOUR FOOD ALONE, EVEN MORE IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE PERSON.
If you want to go to the bathroom, go before or after the dinner.
Or just before the dessert is going to be served
But if i have diarrhea❓
But what if I have to go during dinner?
Nice, simple, to the point, very very modern.
... i still wouldn't start eating until everyone has their meal. Other than that, a great video! Manners are so important.
Learn how to eat with knife and fork!!!! (hand on your lap??? Come ooooon...!!!!)
lovely
This feels like an airplane safety video
Cool!
The last one. Lol.
Going to take a piss here but I disagree with some of the things said. Wait until your host or the most important person (ex. boss) starts eating. Also do not put your knife with the blade facing to the outside when putting your cutlery down after eating. Cheers.
Thank you! I’ve grown up never being able to even afford ihop and now that I have my own job I’ve been saving up to take my mom out for Mother’s Day, but I haven’t the first clue how to act since that wasn’t a really relevant topic. Now I’m practicing for her so I don’t make a fool of myself and embarrass us lol!
Which spoon and folk do you use for dessert? I think those were missing on your table.
the man's jacket is not sewed on the shoulder!
After watching this... eating burger and fries at the back of the car seems to be more... appealing.
super
i like herr
🙌🙌🙌
Where do you put your knapkin when going to loo? on chair or on table?
Especially if it’s a meeting for a Mars Dior dress Project
no sequel?
I do that since am a child 👍🏻
Not child really i mean like 12 or 13 😂
Chloe Malle is so naturally beautiful
Just like her mother
I will practice it at MCDONALD'S
So refreshingly lovely and actually helpful. I need more....
Cool
Thank you so much for this, Chloe! We need more of this. People are so unclassy these days with the selfies and constant texting.
Well, she can join them.
You should learn how to hold a fork.. Also the dessert spoon is NOT the soup spoon.
speak quietly in a restaurant, don't move your mouth as much as she does, don't put too much on your plate, don't leave your napkin on the table when you stand up (but aside or even tucked closely beneath the dinner plate, ...), etc etc
Don't hold your fork as if it is a dart,
We could all use a few pointers !
She didn't even pick up the knife at the first course.. Eating like its TV dinner 🙄
The establishment looks amazing, the atmosphere reminds me a lot of the first two seasons of Sex and the City.
Vogue : Stop with the celebrities - I'm enough of them. Keep doing this !
The Polo Bar is a great place to dine!
Since when the soup spoon is on the desert’s spoon place?
Etiquette says if you get up an intend your return leave your napkin on your seat. If you get up and don’t intend to return put it by the side of your plate.
I agree with not waiting to start eating. I always say EAT, don't wait on me. ever.
oneday hopping to go for such an exotic restaurant 😂 In India .. use your hand ...
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This video is perfect. MORE OF THIS AND HER PLEASE?
Be on time for your friends too. Thinking they'll understand just tells them that they fall low on your priority list. Also, leave a little bit for lady manners. It's not about what you think. It's about what manners are. Good point about the phone. If you miss all the rest, at least have manners with your phone.
More CHLOE MALLE
Watching this in 2024 still wanting to be polite
Where is the first course fork?
The first course is usually the salad
Why is it in my recommendation in 2020? Universe is trying to tell me something. :')
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"leave a little for lady manners" obviously not watched any mukbang videos recently.lol