Dark MBTI: ISFJ - The Helicopter Parents of Society
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- Опубликовано: 7 окт 2024
- In this video, we discuss the darker side of the ISFJ. Their tendency to care of others is not as void of darkness as you might think. Characters like Marlin from Finding Nemo and Emma Pillsbury from Glee only possess small parts of the puzzle. In order to find the darkest an ISFJ can become, we have to dig deep through mythology and history.
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I'm an isfj. I just hope I don't end up like this as a parent
Please don't stop making these, I need to know about the dark sides of esfp and infp!!!
I will! It takes a while to make these, but eventually I'll make all of the types!
Mae Dawn I can tell you a little bit of the dark side of ESFP. Just my first hand personal experience.
Huge problem number one: you try to constrain them in dogmas and traditional expectations of the society. You make them feel unworthy because you take a high horse attitude of “you should because that’s the proper thing to do “. ESFP has it’s own moral compass (a very strong Fi). Others telling them what’s morally right and ridiculing them at that is a huge no no.
Second: you try to bulshit them. ESFPs have an inbuilt bull detector. They hate, HATE, sneakiness, double faceness, behind your back stabbing because they are a very straight forward people. . They are sensitive and don’t like serious confrontation, but if it has to be, do it face to face rather than talking behind their backs. It’ll hurt but still less than backstabbing. A second huge no no.
There’s more but those two are on the top. ESFP will feel ridiculed and betrayed to the core.
So what’s the worst ESFP will do then? What comes to mind is the saying “ Hell has no fury as the woman scorend “. Doesn’t matter if man or woman. ESFP will go out it’s way to destroy you where you’re most vulnerable. She) let’s say she for the sake of simplicity here) will expose you publicly, for everyone to see, the more the better. She’ll destroy your relationships which are based, according to her, on your lies and deceit. She’ll destroy your fake reputation for everyone to see.
On a larger scale?
ESFP will become The Joker. And that’s not the worst. If truly evil, they’ll become an shape shifting, worst of the worst of an ENTP. Their demon function.
I’m lucky i never got even close to the deprived demon function of mine.
So yeah, the fun loving ESFP will destroy you and your future when you least expect it. And it’ll be ugly. And you’ll find yourself asking wtf just happened???!!
Just my humble take on ESFP at its worst
ESFP
YES omg
DIY how to bring the best out of ISFJ : attach them to something that need their protection
DIY how how to ruin an ISFJ : attach them to something that familiar and need their protection, but already corrupt to begin with
That's an interesting perspective! It's totally right aswell! Thanks!
So glad to see another one of these up, keep up the great content, I have a feeling you're channel will blow up with popularity
Thank you! This means a lot to me!
Timberwolf I hope so! We need more people like him.
As an ISFJ, this feels right to me. I am a psychologist and now I have my own son. I have to watch this tendency to be a helicopter mom...find the right balance of protecting and letting go.
Exactly. Being aware of this can oftentimes make a huge difference.
ISFJ*
@@hanz2904 Thanks...yep...my fingers tripping over themselves. lol
@@sandy5791 i can see why you guys and gals respectively are called the nicest type, another person would've probably called me a grammar Nazi.
These deep thoroughly researched videos are highly interesting. I'm waiting for a really outstanding intj one.
Thank you! I will make the INTJ one after the next. Stay tuned I'd say!
Dude, what happened? I just found you and you stopped?? I'm dying, please continue with those amazing analysis
“see you next time” and then he never came back
I just don't understand why u stopped posting! you're amazing!
Please don't give up on making these videos. I LOVE them SO MUCH you couldn't even imagine! I discovered your channel and this series through your ENTP Dark side video. pleaaaaaaaaaase continue!!!
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Wow! Perfect examples for this ISFJ type! Thanks for sharing your ideas for my MBTI channel. I saw your video thumbnail through my RUclips algorithm today, yay! 😊😊😊
Man, I love these! Can't wait for INFP, pretty curious!
Thanks! Stay tuned for that!
@@CarstenTMacDonald Of course! Keep up the good work man, your videos are very interesting and well made. Good day~
I stumbled upon your INFJ video and after that I watched all the others. Your videos are very interesting and well edited. I'm sure you're going to blow up in no time if you keep up this dark mbti series.
Thanks! I hope so, but I won't be able to without peoples help! You guys are the community after all!
These are brilliant videos and I'm learning much from each one I view, and see the types' darker sides when reflecting on past experience. Causing long-term harm through short-term protection: yes, definitely ISFJ!
Glad to hear that you enjoyed the video!
I love your insights and curious about how dark good old infps are (they are really dark) and your take of well known dark types, estps and istps! Thank you for your harf work to put these together, such a high quality content 💃
Thank you! This means a lot! I will make all of the types eventually, but it takes a lot of time!
God I love these, super interesting. Would love to see INTJ someday, since we seem to be stereotypically casted as mastermind villains for some reason lol.
Yeah they are easy to write as big villains, I'll try to give it a twist when I get to work on it!
Cailin Jeffers House is my favourite INTJ. Not the worst character by far but the favourite 😊
PLEASE DO INFP, we’re often painted as the ‘warm, empathetic, and dreamy healer’ whom quirks makes us the “fairy” personality type. all types have dark sides and I’m interested in knowing it. Like for example; I know I can be super manipulative + opportunistic...
I'll do one on every type! So stay tuned!
@@CarstenTMacDonald :(
@@thumb5225 yeah
Where did ya go?
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I just watched all three of your videos and i absolutely loved them. Is there any chance that you might continue this with the other types or at least some more? I'd love to learn more about this!
Amazing video once again! I know a few isfjs irl and the comparisons you drew really reminded me of them. Also love how calm your narration is - great video over all~!!
Thank you! That means a lot! Cool to see you back here :)
I really enjoyed your hard work, please keep going if you can.
I love your videos, I hope more will come in the next months ... I can't wait for the dark sides of ENFJ, ISTJ and ENFP!
I absolutely adore this channel for the way you present the information! I cannot wait for your INTP video🥰
Thank you! I'll try picking it up again soon.
Your videos are absolutely amazing! I've watched all of them from beginning to end. Keep up the great work! I'm looking forward to your ENFP video being an ENFP myself.
Cool! Stay tuned for that one! It may take a bit, but I'll make it eventually!
It's weird how I keep coming back to these videos from time to time. Thanks for these edits.
POST MORE VIDEOS, THEYRE AMAZING
I will! Stay tuned!
Subscribing in hopes of more content, you do such a phenomenal job!
i love this series! please continue ❤️
this is really nice good job man I really hope you blow up on youtube and I really enjoyed watching Good luck
Thank you! This means a lot!
Great video! Well worth the wait.
Thank you!
Great work! The analysis was shocking. Thank you & definitely waiting for the next one.
Thanks for commenting! This means more than you can imagine.
Hey where's the next one? These are so fun! Great introspective and creative resource!
I'm working on it! I try to balance it with work at the moment, but I'm making some progress.
@@CarstenTMacDonald Awesome! I know how hard it can be. Looking forward to it!
Subscribed 💕Looking forward for the INTJ video please 💙
Thank you! I'll start writing that after the INTP one is finished!
This serie of videos is so great, you are doing an amazing job!
I love this series, genuinely very interesting to see these dark sides of the personality types. i hope you end up doing INTJ (my type) :)
I will! After the next video about the INTP! They are both highly requested, but I though taking the type furthest from the previous was nicer for the variation.
Do what you think is best, we’ll all be here regardless!
Thank you so much for your support!
Hey man I love your content🌻 . The infj video taught me so much. Can't wait to see the ENFPs video. 😘
Thank you very much! I will make that type eventually so stay tuned!
This was very interesting. My mother’s an isfj and we are very close. The greatest source of contention between us is that I have an adventurous and unconventional side. I often feel discouraged from pursuing my goals and dreams in life. To her credit though she sees how unhappy it makes me to be forced into a little safe box. I see her trying hard to let go more and more. I know she doesn’t tell me how scared some of my decisions make her. I’m just now learning to appreciate how hard she’s trying and how hard it is for her.
Nice. I have been writing MBTI-blog in Finnish and made almost exactly same point about Himmler as you did. Was writing what kind of roles different MBTI-types usually had in the flow of history and had to include some "bad apple" to every type.
Awesome! If you want me to read your blog you can send it to me on Twitter! I'd love to take a look at it.
15:50 - "it's okay because we believe it's okay"
Your content is too good, please keep it up.
Thank you! I will! So far it seems people really like the content so that definitely keeps me going!
I love these videos It help me to understand and I like how you take pass and the show's to make a good example
Thank you! Glad you liked it!
Please make more videos. We'd like to see the other types. Your videos are amaaazing. Thank you. I'm INFJ btw. 😌
Really great video. Can't wait for the rest, especially for the INTP one. :D
Thank you! INTP will be next hopefully!
Please carry on with this series!!!!! You stopped. Idk why.
I've had some delay with my video because of work, but I will continue! Hang in there!
I hope you’re not stopping to make these videos
I won't! It'll just take longer now since my work has become more intense and less predictable schedule wise.
I love this! It will be fun watching the rest of other types! Cannot wait for more!
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed the video. I'm currently working on the next video so stay tuned!
As an ISTP with an ISFJ mom like this, this hurts.
Wow, all of these are fantastic and really insightful. Honestly really impressed by and appreciative of the amount of effort and attention you put into these.
Thank you! It's also a bottleneck at this point though, because I want to uphold the quality but I have very little time. If I can squeeze in a few minutes of editing in the evenings I do it, but it is going much slower than before. I hope people aren't upset!
Looking forward to the rest of the series!
I just binged watch all your videos. This is a great series! Very on point. Can't wait to learn about all the INTPs that created efficient killing machines, death due to experimentation, or end up as sad loners in the woods with family that won't talk to them. Go team intp!
Lol what are you referencing? I'm intrigued to say the least haha. Glad you like my channel! This means a lot!
Carsten T. MacDonald please be careful here. Your message is to warn people of their worst traits. You will get lots of messages from people who find those comparisons encouraging. You need to stop it immediately, if you allow for the grey areas, you might start encouraging bad behaviour. You’re dealing with DARKEST sides of every personality and you need to be CLEAR, in every single if your comments, about what your attentions are. Not lol. Not I’m not sure what you’re talking about. I’m telling you this from the bottom of my heart.
things were going over my head a little during the beginning, but as soon as you mentioned glee i immediately understood because my sister has been binge watching it for weeks. your channel is very underrated! as an infp it was really interesting to see how unhealthy isfjs think, cause i know one and the way she acts kinda makes sense now. great video!
Thank you so much! This is great feedback!
Carsten T. MacDonald no problem :)
My mom is a ISFJ and lives with me due to illness. I am a INFJ... SHE DRIVES ME INSANE.
You have some impressive insights. I never thought a personality type's worst qualities would be shaped by their tertiary function. I look forwards to your video on ENFP ;) and congratulations with the success of your (relatively) new channel!
Thank you so much! I'm glad you found it insightful! Yes many of the other functions are disregarded but every type has all of the functions. It just depends on how you process those types of information and if you do it adequately.
@@CarstenTMacDonald So depending on a person's maturity/ability to learn you would be able to cultivate all functions well? as in, would ISFJ be able to cultivate good Extroverted Sensing for instance with enough practice?
Keep making these amazing videos. You’re really really good. Intelligent, thorough, to the point.
This is so nice of you to say! Thank you for your comment and glad you enjoyed it!
These videos are fabulous!! Can't wait for ENFP.
Thank you! I'll get to that type eventually!
Im am enfp and my best friend is a isfj i will love to hear about enfp! Subscribed
I would really love to see the ESTP. The videos are just fenomenal. The background, references and your narrating are awsome. I would suggest some light music in the background that matches the personality type. Keep up the good work. You will find success if you don't give up.
Thank you very much! I'll try my best!
Cool content. I'll be waiting for the intp.
Thank you! That one is next!
Nice! This a good sequence for me cos two of my closest friends are infj and isfj and im an intp. Haha. These videos are interesting for our discussion. Thanks!
This video completely changed my perception on ISFJs. Please do a video on ENTJs. I don’t see a lot about them and only see them in media and forums as antagonists.
I will! I'm working on the INTP at the moment but I'll get to ENTJ's eventually! Stay tuned!
I wanna see my types dark side, the INTJ.
I'll make that one after the INTP! Stay tuned!
Such an interesting take on ISFJ! Great work, well illustrated, thanks a lot
Thank you even more!
Dude please finish this series
Your channel is amazing, can't wait for INTP!
Currently editing it! It takes a bit longer than I expected due to some personal issues, but I'm working on it!
Looking forward for the ISFP one! Great video
Thank you!
These videos are really good, I certainly hope that you will keep it up :)
I will! Comments like these make it worth all the hours I put in it haha!
These videos are great! You’ve done well in explaining the characteristics of the different personalities. I hope INTPs are next.
They are next! I'm currently editing that type. I love how you commented this on all of the videos. Hold on to that determination! Thanks for watching my content. It means a lot.
Carsten T. MacDonald well, I wasn’t sure if my comment was going to be read so to increase the odds, I commented it on all the videos. You see, I never thought I’d even finish the first video I watched because I thought it was too long, then I found myself watching all the videos, my point is you made great videos and great points and analysis. I’ve been trying to figure myself out for months ‘till I remember being an INTP when my coworker made me answer a printed questionnaire and I tried it again recently, online, and I got the same result, after reading and watching about INTPs I’ve realized that I’m not broken or disabled, it’s just my personality. So I was hoping to understand myself better with your analysis.
Me with ADHD and OCD being an INTJ and the J part coming in at 100% 🤦🏻♀️ I have plans. In my head, that I may change last minute. But only I can be spontaneous and impulsive. My husband jokes that I have to “schedule his spontaneity”
I really love this series, and I am eager to see more :3 Thank you for making these videos!
Thank you! These comments are really nice to get :)
It would be awesome that you made these "dark type" videos with the INTJ. Excelent video anyway.
I am planning to do so! So stay tuned!
Your're very good at this. I look forward to seeing your channel reach new heights. Oh and I can't wait for the INTP video
Thank you! This is so nice to hear. INTP is next so stay tuned for that. They do take quite a while to make though!
@@CarstenTMacDonald By all means take your time, it will all be appreciated in the end.
Awesome series so far! I’m excited for INTP
Thank you! I hope you will enjoy it when it is finished!
People can type one way and have disorders that make them look like another type.
Associating OCD with Si is one thing, but theorizing OCD is more prevalent in Si types might be a stretch.
Autism is not OCD, but can correlate. Autism could also increase Si prevalence if sensory sensitivity leads to routine habits.
Whilst, I'm an INTP myself, I find your videos to be both fascinating and entertaining, I do hope that you do The INTP next.
You are in luck, because they are indeed next! Stay tuned!
@@CarstenTMacDonald If I may ask, how long does it usually take to create one of these videos?
@@appleasassin3314 it depends, if I have time I can write the script in about 1-2 weeks. But the research takes quite a while aswell. Then the editing. That's the most work which can take up to 2-3 weeks depending on the fact if I have time. I'm an analytical psychologist so spare time is rather scarce. Nevertheless I hope I can get quicker over time and improve the quality so that maybe (if I'm very lucky) I'll be able to earn money doing this instead.
@@CarstenTMacDonald Ohhhh, That's nice to hear, I wish you good luck on your next upload!
@@appleasassin3314 thank you!
6:22 why am I laughing so hard on this part though, the way your voice changes ksksks
Haha, I'm glad you liked it.
i cant wait for the INTJ dark MBTI upload.
Stay tuned for that one! It'll be made after the INTP one!
True broken ISFJ is Narrator from Fight Club. He becomes something like INTP. Helicoptering is not dark of ISFJ can do.
Your videos are sooooo good! Keep doing them PLS
Thank you! As long as you keep watching them this will be a very nice arrangement!
As an INFJ, I see after watching this video, that me and my ISFJ mate, might get into trouble if we are not careful.
I'd really love it if you did ENTJ! Truly appreciate how your videos touch on stereotypes from a whole different perspective, much deeper and beautifully analyzed!
Thank you, this means a lot! I will do all of the types eventually, but as you can imagine it takes quite a while to research and edit. Stay tuned though!
@@CarstenTMacDonald the quality is just superb, it took me half a video to subscribe. And that's a lot coming from an ENTJ lady like myself haha
@@beatrizcoelho7100 that's amazing! Thanks for telling me!
love these!
I'm an intp and i weirdly want to see the intp video in the future not so much for the sake of knowing what i need to watch out for and avoid in myself, but rather for a sort of weird confidence boost in saying "i can do this evil shit, and matter in the world. I don't because it's stupid to want to, but i could. I'm powerful." And i don't know why but i feel like the into dark side will be some depressing shit like "you do nothing all day and waste away".
I strangely relate
Please keep making these!!!
I will! Glad you like it!
@@CarstenTMacDonald I'm an INFJ so I watched that one first. Id be particularly interested in INFP.... but honestly I'm a huge mbti nerd in general so Id watch them all lol!
Awesome! Thank you!
I'm an ISFJ with Autism and a Schizoid personality disorder... And a parent of an 11 year old daughter...
I am pretty sure I am an ISFJ but I've also gotten INFJ as a result recently so I guess this makes me a mad helicopter queen. I am fine with this.😂
I suggest comparing the two types in a type comparison tool so you can figure out which one is your base type. It can explain a lot.
Please do INTP, looking forward. You're awesome!
That one is next! Thanks for your comment!
Came here months later still hoping for a new infp episode.
I'm loving these Dark MBTI videos, Please do an INTP !
That type is next!
Hey, what's the result of your MBTI test, Carsten? Loving all your videos, especially the last one since I never knew why I always felt like the joker until realising he's an ENTP like me. :) I love considering endless possibilities and thinking about what potential may be actualised into, in the future. It is on this foundation, that I strongly believe your channel will become far more successful than it currently is, and it's already statistically better than most channels that have no subscribers or uploaded videos. Technically, you're already ahead of the curve. You've found a niche and you're making it more interesting than many. I've relentlessly been searching for a good channel about personality psychology since my newfound interest in it. You're truly the best fit.
I myself am an INTJ! Glad you enjoyed the video!
@@CarstenTMacDonald I envy the judgemental types. The ENTJ-A is the best for a leader (I'm assertive, rather than turbulent) are you A or T?
@@callumr9365 I don't really use the A/T dichotomy, since it's not part of MBTI nor Socionics. It's something 16personalities.com made up to compensate for the lack of an neuroticism dichotomy. They took that from the BigFive. If anything I'm moderately neurotic. Since on my BigFive test I scored 48% Neurotic.
@@CarstenTMacDonald Yeah, I thought it seemed out of place too, given other MBTI tests I'd taken had lacked it. I scored very low on neuroticism, I think around 12%.
I feel like ISFJs are well meaning but can end up being controlling.
Well explained 👍
Dark MBTI: INTJ
Yes that one is coming! All in due time though, they do take quite a while to make.
9:38 No, their third function is introverted thinking. This video was so good until you got that wrong. Anyone can Google this if you think I am incorrect here.
Very interesting content! Thanks! 💞🇧🇷
I love this stuff. I watched everything on your channel and I want more. Specially ENFP ; )
I will make all of them eventually! So stay tuned!
Enfps aren't being that requested unfortunately, but oh well...
I can't wait to see the evil seeds within our people, fear me world!
@@imiguifurr I do like the ENFP's as a type so I'll try to get to them at an appropriate time!
This is a wonderful analysis, like the previous ones. Looking forward to dark ENFJ and ISTJ!
Thank you!
Yeah I am also awaiting for the ENFJ dark side video!
Thanks for this exploration of ISFJ type. I believe there is a difference between someone having a objective compulsive personality, OCP, and objective compulsive personality disorder, OCPD. Just wondering if this differentiation may be relevant in this case.
I enjoy these types of videos you are creating. Keep up the informative quality and top notch content, and you are bound to grow in popularity fast! Not just for mbti/big five and psychology nuts and curious of the lot who can enjoy knowledge; but also this is great for writers. As for other types, that are not as much into internet/ underrepresented (living the real life out there, not much into the banter-debates and philosophy); i mean like not having as much internet prevalence/exposure as in S types (ESTP) or career nuts like ENTJ ? Can we expect videos coming up on them in the future sometime perhaps? Or do you prefer to create videos based upon your favourite historical evil figures / availability of data and ease of research?
I plan on doing all the types! It means so much to get comments like these because that makes it worth working on them for hours! Thank you very much!
We have a saying that roughly translates as "great goods don't need advertisement". Don't be afraid to take your time when it comes delivering quality content. In meantime, looking forward to next 13 videos and more!
Could you provide insight on INTJ? thanks
I will after the INTP!
@@CarstenTMacDonald Awesome, but since INTJs are usually depicted as villains which is unfair but understandable, itd be great if you could cover some INTJ heroes and reasons why they become heroes, common reason INTJs hold High moral principles for example, just a suggestion.👍
I've been thinking about how type theory correlates to being nonneorotypical lately and I think learning about this could help a lot of people rather than going on medication.. antidepressants, adderall, or whatever it may be.. So I'm glad you mentioned that!! XD
Yes it's rather difficult to destingush the difference between personality and disability. Some people may find it a curse to be very structural for example, but that might look like a superpower to a perceiving type.
Yess, and I think that learning about the types could be a potential help to control this in extreme cases- as not to deny people of personality traits that could be seen and used as strengths if they were simply wielded in a healthier manner.
Love it!
Thank you!
I love these videos...
Thank you!