I wish I knew how pointless it was to try when I was younger. They only change their minds with social pressure. That is literally the only thing that will do it.
With the key takeaway being.. social pressure. They wont actually believe a new position.. they'll just say they do due to social pressure. aka Make it appear as though they've changed their minds. Remove that pressure and they'll go right back to where they were.
@@hoffybeefe exactly right and that's what I meant. They're followers, and the fact that we let them vote is actually terrifying because they're going to do whatever media tells them to do.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz as bad as men are women are way worse. You literally cannot change their mind for anything. They will never go against the social order whereas men will always eventually struggle against an injustice. And what's wrong with Tate?
@@PennyWise-eu9nz if you really think that using the "loverboy" method should be considered trafficking then I doubt your reasoning ability. And there's no evidence he actually did any of the things he boasted about in media. So why don't we wait to see what evidence they have against him besides him being able to charm women into SW. The fact that the "loverboy" method is even a thing is an admission that women are essentially children that must be protected from their own bad choices.
I had a car accident yesterday. It was the woman’s fault, but she was trying to blame me when it was so obvious she was in the wrong. It took a witness to explain exactly what I had told her for her to accept it was her fault. Still no apology though!
I got teeboned by a girl in a mall parkinglot, she was looking at her phone and blew through a stop sign, she owned up to it immediately. I should have gotten her number tbh
Had an ex girlfriend try to have me killed by the guy she cheated on me with, so that I couldn't tell anyone she cheated, police didn't take me seriously but I still have the jacket with the knife marks to this day, mostly to remind myself to be more careful, and ALWAYS remember your leather jacket
I say this all the time. Stop taking women so seriously. It sounds horribly sexist but its true. Funny thing is, women want to be the seconday sex, at least in relationships. Women hate men that are less then them, or men that pedestalize and exalt them. Women want to be subordinate. Treat them as such and watch them fall for you.
@@taxi9554 No, not as a small child, but as a woman. The natural hierarchy in humans is Man - Woman - Children - Pets - Livestock - and then the rest of the animal kingdom. Women are above children. To treat women as children would also be a violation of the natural hierarchy.
I am a 57 year old life long bachelor, the reason I mention this is because I have not lived with/talked to one women as most men that have been married most of their lives, but literally hundreds. I have yet to meet a woman that could stay on topic in a significant discussion. They will ALWAYS revert to their feelings/emotions to steer the conversation where they feel it should go. As Alex said, it is pointless, just walk away, the hamster wheel is real.
I've met a few women that were different, but usually those were career-driven asian women in stem fields and were very competitive as well due to that. Very rare though and naturally they have equally high expectations of their partner, so it's almost impossible for them to find a match either. Some will just accept the "reversed" roles and have a male housewife, which isn't necessarily an unhappy relationship. It's just a bit special.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
I bet you never met a woman with some autistic traits. Because, I guess you don't like them, or find them attractive. I like to focus on one topic, I like really mathematics, but I bet I can't compete with i. e. Temple Grandin with her excellent out of the box thinking.
@@GermanTaffer The only experience I have had with autism was way back in high school when I went to "help" with a class of autistic children, but they were all none verbal for the most part.
Same here, Jerry. I learned from examples of my dad, 2 brothers, numerous friends, and a career as a LEO. I'm fully intact, no legal or financial scars. Everything is mine, I owe no one other than monthly living expenses. I have interacted with many women as you have. The smallest handful were worth listening to.
Once upon a time I had a day off. The house was a mess and the gf was working. I went full ham on the house and did a deep clean, laundry, bathrooms, full kitchen scrub, recycling and purged a bunch of ueless stuff. Like a full 10 hours of it. I got dinner ready and was pretty happy with myself. GF came home expecting that I had done nothing so she was in a bad mood before she walked in the door. Even though she was upset at nothing her mood did not change all night. Not only did her expectations remove any joy that night for the both of us, there was never an appreciation that I had done anything for her.
@@Asto508 I am happily single these days. The thought of another long term relationship with a woman is daunting. I have dated many and I find it difficult to tolerate a relationship long term. I am still very much attracted to women and sometimes find myself convincing myself its worth it. However I find as soon as I am not in their immediate presense, and novel intimacy high wears off, I come to my senses.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
@@varunsingh7750 I have money. While it does help draw attention from women it the wrong type of attention. You can see straight away its not genuine. This is reflected in how one sided the relationship is. The issue isn't the attraction of women. Its the irritation they cause once you have one. If having a family is not on the agenda then there isn't much point. They are designed to love and nurture children. Not men.
I watched a video from PsychHacks that makes sense to me, which explains this. It based on how women and men are different when it comes to loyalty. Men are (generally) loyal to their word, so they do what they say and they mean what they say. And women are (generally) loyal to their feelings, so that's why the always say "I feel...", and why they initiate divorce more frequently. They always go with their emotions. And that's why they don't 'feel' like hypocrites because they are being loyal to their emotions, which is their standard of integrity.
You make it sound too flattering. If I used my drunk self to be my emotional source of integrity and sent that idiot out on all my dates and to job interviews, what would people call me when I say I am being loyal and consistant with my drunk self? I have that you take it or leave it attitude.
that's why in the past a man's word was important but no one ever said anything about a woman's word and if anything that silence was proven right by rambling inconsistencies of women's social media posts. Same girl will post a video complaining about men, then another one whining she can't find one, then another one where she finds a guy who's a decent man for a change, then another how that guy is boring, then another about a hot guy at work, then another about being ghosted by the hot guy at work, and back to a video complaining about men. Who would trust the word of someone like that?
@@eyenou8096 Exactly. Women are delusional children in adult bodies, they shouldn't be allowed to make important decisions (voting)... it is why our society has been in decline since we started to allow it, now society has to collapse before we can go back to the way it was.
@@pegg00 Explains why the vast majority of women are complete sheep though. Men are sheep don't get me wrong, but I see way more men willing to go against society and think for themselves than women. The only exceptions I've seen to women not quite being sheep is my mother and sister. Shame I probably will never have a future wife like my mother. She's an absolute legend.
The problem with meeting them in the emotional realm is that many of them do not show genuine vulnerability. They have been trained to be like men and to never trust a man. When they show vulnerability, it's often not genuine and only used to manipulate people or gain power in a relationship. If you try to meet her by embracing her faux emotional state, then she will see it as a weakness to exploit. From that point forward, she will begin to leverage that weakness against you to take away your power until she has control. It's all bad from there.
Call her bluff when she acts vulnerable. Respond in a way where you recognize her weakness and treat her as such. I don't mean to be controlling. I mean to take the reins she is saying she can't handle. See how genuine her words are then.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
Having been married for 20 yrs, there's alot of gems in this video. However, if you rely solely on changing a woman's mood to get her to agree to something, the effect won't be long lasting simply bc her mood will eventually change. You cannot change a woman's mood and keep it that way. It will burn any man out
@@decwow Yeah, because using emotions and tears to avoid serious discussions in your relationship is totally not manipulative behavior on their side. If you have such a woman, just walk away. You will always lose this game.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
I think you missed the point. It's only in that particular moment that you need to change her mood. A day or most likely just an hour later will be a totally different scenario.
@@user5812 lol, and you think bc you changed her mood and got her to agreed to something that her decision will stand? If you have to work this much to get her to agree to something her, her decision won't stand the test of time
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
Let me refine that - claiming the facts are untrue, so as to fit in with the environment, is what lesser minds do (less integrity and/or less intelligence.)
@@varunsingh7750 Why tf do you keep spamming this comment on every thread? If there was something you were selling or if you were providing some new groundbreaking information I'd understand... but this?🤔
This is actually true for everyone. You can never FORCE someone to change their mind but you CAN convince them that changing their mind was their own idea. The only difference is the method. This is a known effect in psychology.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
they are children... they go to absurd lengths to hide it too... for example if her motivation is just to hurt you because you said some bad word to her she will pretend the issue is really that blablabla; eg something completely unrelated. this is again tied to power dynamics... if you see her as what she really is; a child she will lose power over you. they love that men see them as more than what they are; it strokes their ego. that it is unwise and ultimately self-defeating youd have to be a man to appreciate.
When women complain to you, men tend to give solutions to their problems. It's not solutions she wants to hear from you, she wants you to listen to her, that's all. You just acknowledging her with "hmm", "oohh", "really, that's unfair", answers is all she wants to hear. Complaining about their problems to someone is like therapy to women.
Yes, they get really annoyed if you try to offer solutions. They take this as you shutting down her conversation and belittling her feelings by saying you can shake off the bad mood with logical action.
And the reason we offer solutions is because it's what we would want if we acted that way. As men, we want to be self sufficient, handle our own business, etc. When we are overwhelmed, it's likely because we are uncertain what to do or how to do it. Thus, we bring these frustrations up to friends, and getting solutions to the problems or advice is comforting. We feel more confident and capable after, and it reduces anxiety. Our poor emotional state is often the result of a lack of a solution. And if your emotional issue is something you know only time will fix, then talking about it is pointless. But for women, they need attention and to feel like they aren't in it alone, and don't have the head space to consider solutions until this need is met.
Consistency is less accurate a word. The real word is “integrity”. Men aspire to have integrity, women do not. That word is not even something most women utter in their lives.
I’m definitely a people pleaser. It’s not something that should be taken advantage of, because it sucks. It’s so hard to say no to things I don’t really wanna do and it takes so much energy, and it’s honestly kinda sad because I never get things the way I want. I might be nice to hang out with, but I’m letting my boundaries be stepped on because I automatically think “my wish is less important” and “I want the mood to remain good” instead of speaking my mind. I get that it sounds extremely fragile and victim like, and I don’t like that either but its the reality of people pleasers. Please, if you realize that anyone has a hard time with setting up boundaries or speaking their mind, be kind :)
It’s rather hard to set a boundary in first place, it’s good that you’re able to place boundaries on first place ; if you find that you are not comfortable with someone breaking up your boundary; you should work on saying “no” and communicating. Atleast you are aware about what is happening and on what you have to work; rather than an entitled person whose eyes are still to be opened. Also there’s no thing such as “kindness” for men. If you as a man flinch a little bit; it’s taken as a sign of weakness rather a step of failure towards success.
@@streeda6501 That's called being feminine, that isn't a bad thing in the company of a good man, he'll recognize your needs and boundaries without you saying a word and wouldn't exploit that.
Thank you kindly for your truth breaking the glass of the feminist ruling facade as being unacceptable and not healthy nor conducive to any male/female relationship. Your videos have ALWAYS been spot on and I'm glad you are still spearheading the way through all the lies and hypocrisy and power hungry feminist view that multitudes of poor well intentioned beta males have been duped with for so long. God bless good brother Alexander!
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
Once I dated a woman who told me she believed whatever men can do women can do better, I warned her, "then you'll end up doing the dishes, child care, work, paying bills...its better if there are some things you do better and some things a man does better and some things you help each other out doing." She was hot, but I had a life to live.
what do you think the outcome of that could be when women in position of power would be tasked with deciding whether to start a war or no?. a war fought by men because women are not drafted? start thinking how to hide from the draft for ww3, if you are in an age range and country in which you could be selected for it.
@@HonestyOverEverything animals are not that logical.. They can survive with only instincts and emotions. Men are disposable if they don't don't work or be someone. Women can be lazy and still have value.
The last girl I messed with, was nothing serious but we would "enjoy each other's company" no strings attached, it is what it is kinda thing. Eventually she started getting more involved w/church and gave me the " I don't wanna do this anymore if you don't get serious." I was like WTF I met you at a motel where my friend and I tag teamed on you!!!
She's not actually expressing a true opinion. This is just something she's mindlessly repeating, she doesn't truly believe it. You can tell by her tone and lack of volume and assertion. This is more along the lines of, she's not listening and mindlessly responding, than actually expressing her true thoughts on the situation.
women and narcissists do this. It's very annoying. Why should I constantly validate your feelings and make you feel like you're in the right when everything says you're not?
@@redrustyhill2 mmm. I don't know, It is usually men who takes advantage of long marriages more than women.. Women have it worse on marriages.. (specially long ones.) But it is also a doble edge problem.. Men sacrifice a lot for women ( their money, freedom, and sanity) for long term security. I guess that it depends but it is usually terrible most of the times.. But there is a small probability that it actually works. should you play dice?? who knows
@alexander g you must be very young. 50-80% of marriage ends in divorce (depending on demographic) 70-80% of divorce is initiated by women. Marriage is a fools game. Would you jump out of an airplane with a parachute if it was known that parachutes only opened 50% of the time? If you get married be prepared to loose everything you have.
Yes that would force them to improve, but do you know why women are not interested in improving themselves like men are? Because there are a bunch of simps validating them and even paying them every day just because of their looks.
it was an easy time that brought up weak people that could afford opinions like this girl. But the time her beauty fades, and the time gets tough the logic of life will hit her hard out of her delusion. Most guys learned this the hard way at a young age.
I was dating someone , she should told me that if she trained hard enough she could beat Usain Bolt, in a race. I obviously told her not possible. Less the facts she is mid 30’s and zero athleticism , still not possible. She proceeded to yell at me and told me never to put her down like that. Eventually it come down to she wanted to FEEL as tho she could beat him , apparently I needed to support that feeling. “Notting she can’t do “ type of thing. Needles to say, I did the bolt. Under 10 seconds the moment the conversation was over. Baffling. And I am grateful I never had to have another argument like that again .
I don't have time to indulge an adult child. The degree to which they do this isn't natural, it has been cultivated by a society which desired them to be easier to manipulate into joining the job market. These vvahmen can control their idiocy for 8 hours a day for a boss so we know they can do it. They only think they can get away with stuff when they're with a weak male. To be sure, we're all emotional creatures. However, men have evolved to pay a very high price for not understanding their environment. We can be shown evidence and convinced otherwise. Those of us who had a rigorous education in engineering anyway. Those in the humanities are always emoitonally driven and easy to con into various religious types of thinking. My emotional key that allows me to be logical is that I feel a rush when reality proves to be very consistent with my understanding of reality. The instant there's a mismatch, I decide the degree to which I must correct my worldview and then I correct it. When my environment changes even a little, it's like a beacon shining through everything else. Even in my later years I flipped political parties 180 degrees -- back in 2016. Once the Left changed, I left them and never looked back. Here's some differences between those who are driven primarily by emotion, and those who can place emotion in a secondary role: - they can change their opinion entirely as long as sufficient evidence is given and it's consistent over some time. - they live by principles that no amount of feelings can change. Men of principle often make heavy short term sacrifices for long term success or satisfaciton. There's always a near term price for virtue. - they accept the harsh reality rather than the pretty lie -- even if it hurts. I wanted to believe in god during the worst time of my life, but my logical mind wouldn't accept theistic religion as the "ground truth" reality. - they believe people are individuals and deserve to be judged as such - they desire to fix problems as soon as they can. A sign of an emotional thinker: - they believe reality matches their idea of their preferred reality. We call this "blue pill" euphamistically. - they remain utterly intransigent on their beliefs (no matter the evidence); or they shift their beliefs too easily. - they beleive people can be judged based on some arbitrary group they belong to. They also believe in collective guilt and punishment. Thus you hear, "all men" or "all wahmen". - they're hedonistic -- their highest aspiration is to seek happiness in any way they can -- especially by sacrificing long term health and happiness. - they wait until problems become so huge, they can't be fixed The degree to which people are driven by their emotions as adults is the degree to which they were incentivized to be neurotic as children and young adults. If emotionalism was rewarded, then it will be primary. If stoicism was rewarded, then it will be primary. I know this because I've seen it in action over 50 years. The vvahmen in my generation were less neurotic and generally more happy than those today. Being a sl*t was universally seen as a bad idea for their reputation so they had a bit of self control. It was generally that way about most decisions they made. The arguments and discussions we see today were only seen in young children in my generation. If men prioritized emotion over reason, then science wouldn't exist. The emotionalism of vvahmen we see today isn't natural. In the curren era, their neuroticism has been tuned to levels of pure insanity. It was deliberate -- an unhappy vvahman spends tons of money... most of it not her own. This is why you see vvahman flaunting the most absurd ideas. Ideas she would've been embarassed to utter just 30 years ago.
I would expect this from an 8 year old child who is learning where fantasy ends and reality starts. It would be like us escaping into a computer game and then pretending to be that character in reality, arguing with people about crap you have made up in your head.
There is the saying, "If a person is convinced against one's will, one will have the same opinion still." The trick is figuring out how to persuade the person to be willing to actually consider the other's side.
My wife is unusual among women in that she is unusually logical. She's great at math and enjoys programming and spreadsheets. Even with that uncommon level of logicallity in most of her thinking, when she gets upset, i have to 100% deal with the emotion first. Almost every time, all i have to do is create a spontaneous activity not in our normal environment, drag her away from whatever is upsetting her, absolve her of her responsibility (temporarily), and then let her indulge in some self pitying and venting... After her mood shifts away from the frustration, i can then reengage with her logical side and make some real headway with whatever the issue is. But trying to go straight in with rational solutions is entirely fruitless.
I have seen girls change their reality, the facts and gaslight to conform with their new mindset. I met a young woman who said I don't want kids. But after getting married and a kid. He never admited that she changed her position. I expected her to said yesh I was so wrong I realize that now I love being a mother now. Naaahhh she do a 1984 and she always for ever since she was a little girl she always wanted children. WTF. They are always right. And it seems that she believed in an orwell way the new version of her history. And memory holed everything contradicting that included me.
I’m a girl, this is very true. I’ve used this tactic to convince my younger sister to go visit our dad with us (she is not on good terms with him and is too prideful to get over it) I would hang out with her most of the day and suggest going to my dad’s and saying how she will benefit from it while also buying her stuff at the mall and such lol
So, basically you reinforce her bad behaviour by giving her attention and prizes. I would have said I feel better after spending time with him and tend to have a great day afterwards. Now, that plays on their minds. Especially when they see you happy, etc. afterwards.
Can anyone actually make a cogent argument as to how dealing wth women (as a whole) is even worth it? The mere fact that this channel has so many videos about what to do and what not to do regarding women is kind of proof that it's not...too much energy that is likely being wasted on a group of people that are fickle, capricious and unreasonable far too often. I assume Alex wouldn't want to acknowledge that perspective since it would call into question his choices (he's in a relationship and has a child, a daughter at that I believe). But even he would have to acknowledge (at least on an intuitive level) that what I just said is true. Not just the headaches women bring socially and emotionally, but also (if not worse) financially and legally. At the very least he would have to consciously acknowledge that his partner can destroy him on the financial and legal end. His argument against that may be that she's a "high quality woman" so she wouldn't do that...but how many men have said the "it won't happen to me" or the "but she's different" lines before....Just a thought that came to me. I'm curious what he'd think about this.
We take this great risk/amount of effort because we only have 1 life and the family path seems to be the universal direction we go for. Our urges and hormones point us that way. If not family, a long term companion. I agree with you but all my interests and hobbies start to wane after a while. A peaceful life is good but it can also get lonely and boring. I don’t know what higher purpose there is for me.
I think the normal lifecycle of a relationship is the procreation time until children are born and grown somewhat self-sufficient around the age of 6-8. Usually then it's time for a relationship to fall apart if it had no other basis than procreation in the first place. Most relationships work like this and if you accept this as the natural cycle, your question more or less becomes obsolete since it's just a business bargain in the end and not about "being happy". After this business is finished, there is basically no reason for a man to have contact with women other than for casual fun and expecting anything else than that, is probably the root of the whole problem here. It's very unlikely you will ever find a friend in a woman before she hits menopause due to the complete control of hormones over her whole existence. They basically become more male in later life and thus become "normal human beings".
just make it so that the only people who can vote are white men who own property and/or are married and you have a yourself a functioning civilization@@here_we_go_again2571
i sometimes catch those day time adverts, you know the ones please sponsor an orphan pony, sad music black and white lol i wonder how many women as oppose to men get their purse . wallet out
@@here_we_go_again2571 'Taxpayers' is the word you're looking for. Originally, taxes were deeply tied up with property ownership in many places. Later it was extended to people subject to the draft, i.e., men. Stuff like the income tax came about later as well. It wasn't actually restricted for women specifically in places like the US, IIRC.
Yes and No. Because when they are in bad mood, even when you are in vacation in exotic place, or in a fancy restaurant, they are very willing to share their bad mood to you and ruining everything, instead I think the best way is to escape first and let her get immersed in her emotion pool and comeback only after she drained it.
It's true. Some women become totally inconsolable and there's nothing to be done about it. It's like the weather, just wait for it to change to sunnier skies, but find shelter first lol.
Hiding each time, she is adding those events up as you are not there for her emotional needs. Some point she leaves. Listening and letting her pour and sour you good mood is part of being in a relationship. I think it blows and they are rarely appreciative that you do this for them.
great vid Alexander appreciate the support. We should defo collab i'm from Perth too btw. Also I'm now perma banned from TikTok lmao they absolutely hate me
¡Just hits no misses! Dam. As always Alexander spitting facts from the start. How can i never saw that. "In order to change a womans mind you have to change her mood first" -
"Validate her emotions first" is a great way of saying it. Change her mood, or understand her mood, or work through her mood FIRST is one of the best insights there is and wish I knew this when I was a kid.
@@dirkdiggler3009 Yes that's true. However, when you keep it in mind, it's easier to do because you understand it. As leaders, men are good at dealing with the "unfair rules" of life. You just accept it as a force of nature, deal with it and move on. You're not going to change nature, you can only change yourself.
@@DD-lm1gv Sounds great when you say it. Reality is a lot different. Men are human too. We have emotions and are not robots. Combine that with the fact that women are experts at getting under a mans skin when they want to, you begin to realize it just isnt worth it. No amount of mental gymnastics can over come this. Hence the stereotypes of marriage.
@@dirkdiggler3009 Bro, I'm in a happy and meaningful relationship and the girl is hot. Modern men have become degenerates too. You can find a good woman, they exist. Reject modernity, embrace tradition, and stop being a "bi*ch" (not saying YOU are, just general advice). Improve yourself and you will attract quality to yourself. Set standards and you will have people in your life with similar standards. Stop wasting time on low quality women and improve yourself. That's my best advice (and find God but that's another level).
@@DD-lm1gv Does changing yourself change the laws associated with losing half of your stuff? Does changing yourself change your girl from eventually becoming unhappy and seeking fullfillment elsewhere? One thing is for certain. Given enough time you will eventually change your opinion about women. Your still young. That will also change.
"All they know is what they feel right now." That is it in a nutshell. Nailed it. Do feel it necessary to add that this only applies to around 50% of women in my estimation though. Really gotta sort through a lot of irrational women to find the good ones.
I literally did not know this at all, tried it with my girlfriend who has been kind of distant, and it worked to get on good communicative terms. Amazing, we'll see how far this goes
she doesn't care about basketball, she doesn't even want to be rational about it, what she's doing is holding her ground and see how you will react to it. Women say a lot of things they don't mean, the way toddlers say things, it's social play and they are playing that game to how good this relationship is for them. That's really what they care about.
It just comes to me, Alexander has chosen one of the most difficult jobs available, explaining stuff logically that isn't rooted in logic, wow! :D The arguing part Alexander describes here is very true, you know you can't win, even if you're right and are presenting valid points that can't be diagreed with. With another guy this most of the time would lead to a soliution, that's why this is your go-to solution to resolve something, in this case it drives her more mad, it doesn't resolve the issue. So the most lies guys tell in their lives are apologies they don't really mean that way. The agreeing part made me remember a very similar event from my younger years, where a woman on a party was just agreeing on everything with me and I tested it that time by stating something nonsensical and o**ensive, I don't believe in myself and even contradicted stuff we agreed on before and yet she kept on agreeing. Even if that was meant for appearing pleasant, I did not like her behaviour but I didn't like stating something I don't believe in, even if that was the point of, never did that again.
The thought process of valuing is actually logical and reasonable,but because emotions are added it becomes incredibly difficult to describe,define,explain to others.
This is incredibly accurate. Actually had this situation with my gf a couple of months ago! Thanks Alexander, it helps me understand and calm my strong need for logic when dealing with my female partner
Having someone who validate your emotion and comfort you is not only a female desire. Particularly guys who didn’t have the experience of unconditional love that the mother should give to her children (especially when the children is young) crave that emotional support. I’m talking about guys with angry, always depressed, neurotic mothers. These guys want to be heard and supported. But they know they will never get that because it’s not a masculine role to be comforted like that. I understand that, but what pisses me off is how in the world I’ m required to do give that to another person even if I never experienced it my self (even when I was a child). It’s hard. And the best solution I have come up with is that both people in the relationship support each other. Hope that this make sense. But believe me is hard to make people aware that guy have feelings, emotional needs and weaknesses too… the society don’t care, we are disposable.
A good prerequisite to put in front of and at the end of ANYTHING a woman or an emotional person says is: "I Feel" - before the statement, and "Right Now" - after the statement. This translation of womanese emotional speak can save us a lot of trouble. "I Feel, I Love You, Right Now". "I Feel, I hate you, Right Now". Emotions are written in water.
Hahaha Alexander I must say, it’s been amusing to see you change your tune pertaining to modern women. I remember years ago you use to “try to be more fair” I noticed you gave up some time ago to give them the benefit of the doubt but I am glad you’ve just accepted it.
This is why many mgtow:s are comparing women with children. Because children makes decisions based on emotions, and growing up means taking responsibility and thinking things through.
Truth. I didn't game up on this skill until the marriage was already nearly done. When I did she expressed genuine joyful astonishment but still left because I lacked a vagina. How far do men have to go in facing this difference? I'm not a woman and I'm done with playing one whenever her emotions suck all the air out of the room. At some level this becomes unattractive to us all. So find yourself a partner who has some mature awareness of this difference too, and can appreciate the effort you are taking to bridge it, the or else admit your partner is just too selfish for her own good and just stay single.
Yeah, this is one of those problems where we tend to use euphemisms for no reason. Doesn't matter how women FEEL about being inconsistent. They ARE still being inconsistent nonetheless. There is no way around it. Emotions are not an excuse. If a woman tries to use emotions to justify their behavior, it is our job to point it out, and not accept it under an circumstances. Also, the correct attitude is NOT to focus on her moods, but to refuse to participate in any kind of debate that is not about facts. If a woman wants to be treated as an adult, she must behave as one...
We would call it to " Butter them up" years ago if you wanted something from your mother or grandparents, you would butter them up first befor you asked.
Thank you for always making the distinction of low quality men/women and high quality men/women. Especially since.. many of us have not encountered high quality women in the dating market (since that’s not where they tend to be 😅) and may get the impression that it’s just all women that are like this… And that would be… kinda disheartening and disappointing. Essentially, having to resign oneself to the knowledge that… the only way they can have lasting companionship, is by tactfully engaging with an emotionally unstable, incompetent, ego maniac… a child in the mind and body of an adult… And what a grim picture that would paint. Thank god… that’s not all there is to it, and thank you for always making sure to distinguish these important differences 🙃🙂
many men do the same. it's just less obvious as they often back up their opinions with pseudo-arguments. you can often observe this in your professional environment
You've certain hit the nail on the head and any man that has been in a long term relationship (successfully) gets this. However, as controversial as this may be, it does support the premise that society was and would function a lot better if woman were not given positions of responsibility and probably not even the right to vote .You can't have a smoothly running system that is not based on facts and reality. A bridge doesn't stay up because you feel that it should. When people are relying on you for results, this can't be defined by men saying the right thing at the right time based on how he's deduced you feel at this particular point in time. Level headed and rational is a virtue. Ask 10 woman why they voted the way they did and 8/10 will give a completley illogical and emotional reason why that may changed a week later..
The problem with that argument is that also 5/10 men won't give you a sensible response and 2/10 women may actually give you one. There are other means to base voting rights on than mere biology.
This only makes their general mindset as the hypocrites. Probably the reason why in religions like Islam, their testimony is truly "half the worth" of that on a man. Heck, WE HAVE AN EPIDEMIC OF FALSE ACCUSATIONS. 🤷♂️
no. It' s not at all about emotions and moods: when someone defends an un-defendable thesis, there's only one reason for that: "it's difficult to change someone's mind about an issue, with their advantage - or wage - being dependent on that opinion". Therefore, it's way simpler: they know they're wrong, but they won't admit it, in order not to lose the argument. It's just like talking to little children.
I noticed this dichotomy many years ago, and use it to my benefit ever since. I just say my manly intuition, and ability to change my mind is innate. Women can't handle it. it's great fun to see her try to respond.
How agreeable men are with women is highly influenced by how attractive she is. Good looking women are rarely called out on their BS because men think that could jeopardize their chance of having sex with her.
I had to get my ex to watch a short ted talk from a female feminist before she would honestly let the information about men's rights stink in. She would never listen to a white man
Its important to note that it's the women who hold men to a high standard of consistency, the first instinct in a female if she has even a tiny interest in a guy is to watch and test him for his consistency between what he does and what he says to try to catch him in anything and if they catch even the smallest detail they will zero in on it. So yeah, consistency is forced on men whether they like it or not.
Women are basically just overgrown children lmao. Focus on yourself, go to the gym, do what’s best for you. If a woman comes along to add to your life, then good. But don’t go searching for some woman to complete you, you will inevitably over-prioritise them. Place them on a pedestal and she won’t respect you. We wish to return to the simpler traditional times, but it’s not the case. The world has changed, it’s a different game being played, and if we don’t find our place in the game, we get left behind.
Wait so in a traditional relationship, the man pays the bills, goes out to work, comes home and then has to deal with her bullshit, then go out of his way to coddle her like a child when she's being bitchy? I'd have no problem if women just thought logically and solved their issues/looked for proper advice. I have no problem with bitching as long as you're going to take actions to correct/fix what you're complaining about immediately after you finish bitching. But I have to hold off on giving solutions, then later on give solutions only when she "feels" better? Considering I also hate hookup culture and polygamous relationships, yeah I think I'm going to stay single. If a man is bringing the money, the protection, the leadership, and now has to bring the emotional support as well, wtf is the woman exclusively bringing? It's certainly not emotional support because he isn't allowed to show weakness. It's not sex because they're both getting that. Cooking and cleaning? Honestly at that point hiring a maid might be better because the man doesn't have to deal with the annoying emotions and the extra toll of providing emotional support. Even in a traditional relationship, assuming Alex is correct in that the best relationship includes the man being able to emotionally support and coddle, then I see absolutely nothing a woman can give on practical terms that cannot be easily replaced with something or someone else.
Note the woman in the early interview is blinking her eyes a lot. In traditional body languages that is a sign of willful lieing. She not only lies, she knows she is. Why? Telling the truth, and conceeding to simple provable facts weakens all women, and by relation weakens her as well. As a woman, her agenda will not allow her to be diminshed in any way. As to her mood, it may well have started out as curiosity, but when she started believing she was being insulted in a subtle sort of way, her mood doubtlessly changed to resentment-- whereby the lies continued along with outright "stonewalling" As to changing her mood, I say good luck. A woman in a state of resentment will not allow the man who angered her to get away unpunished. For a man, this would be like someone walking up and punching you in the face. You will take it personally even if it did end up being a case of mistaken identity, and you will severely want to tear the guy up for his behavior. No amount of reason will be likely to reach you in that moment.
The primary issue with the masculine is pride, the primary issue with the feminine is vanity, you can explain all problems with the sexes from these two set points.
I wish I knew how pointless it was to try when I was younger. They only change their minds with social pressure. That is literally the only thing that will do it.
I hate to think about how many thousands of hours I've wasted trying to talk sense to women when the smarter move is to just walk away.
With the key takeaway being.. social pressure. They wont actually believe a new position.. they'll just say they do due to social pressure. aka Make it appear as though they've changed their minds. Remove that pressure and they'll go right back to where they were.
@@hoffybeefe exactly right and that's what I meant. They're followers, and the fact that we let them vote is actually terrifying because they're going to do whatever media tells them to do.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz as bad as men are women are way worse. You literally cannot change their mind for anything. They will never go against the social order whereas men will always eventually struggle against an injustice. And what's wrong with Tate?
@@PennyWise-eu9nz if you really think that using the "loverboy" method should be considered trafficking then I doubt your reasoning ability.
And there's no evidence he actually did any of the things he boasted about in media. So why don't we wait to see what evidence they have against him besides him being able to charm women into SW. The fact that the "loverboy" method is even a thing is an admission that women are essentially children that must be protected from their own bad choices.
I had a car accident yesterday. It was the woman’s fault, but she was trying to blame me when it was so obvious she was in the wrong. It took a witness to explain exactly what I had told her for her to accept it was her fault. Still no apology though!
Women DO NOT want to take responsibility.
Been there
I got teeboned by a girl in a mall parkinglot, she was looking at her phone and blew through a stop sign, she owned up to it immediately. I should have gotten her number tbh
@@olaf_sonofrasmus7673 Yeah man, she t boned you, you t bone her.
Had an ex girlfriend try to have me killed by the guy she cheated on me with, so that I couldn't tell anyone she cheated, police didn't take me seriously but I still have the jacket with the knife marks to this day, mostly to remind myself to be more careful, and ALWAYS remember your leather jacket
I say this all the time. Stop taking women so seriously. It sounds horribly sexist but its true. Funny thing is, women want to be the seconday sex, at least in relationships. Women hate men that are less then them, or men that pedestalize and exalt them. Women want to be subordinate. Treat them as such and watch them fall for you.
So treat them as a small child is a good strategy?
@@taxi9554 No, not as a small child, but as a woman. The natural hierarchy in humans is Man - Woman - Children - Pets - Livestock - and then the rest of the animal kingdom.
Women are above children. To treat women as children would also be a violation of the natural hierarchy.
@@TJ-vl1ff That might be the natural hierarchy from a mans perspective but unfortunately on their caring hierarchy it's - Children - Pets - Men
@@ChrisLee-yr7tz With greater power comes greater responsibility.
@@TomFranklinX what does this mean?
I am a 57 year old life long bachelor, the reason I mention this is because I have not lived with/talked to one women as most men that have been married most of their lives, but literally hundreds.
I have yet to meet a woman that could stay on topic in a significant discussion. They will ALWAYS revert to their feelings/emotions to steer the conversation where they feel it should go.
As Alex said, it is pointless, just walk away, the hamster wheel is real.
I've met a few women that were different, but usually those were career-driven asian women in stem fields and were very competitive as well due to that. Very rare though and naturally they have equally high expectations of their partner, so it's almost impossible for them to find a match either. Some will just accept the "reversed" roles and have a male housewife, which isn't necessarily an unhappy relationship. It's just a bit special.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value
U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc
If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure
If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad
So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
I bet you never met a woman with some autistic traits. Because, I guess you don't like them, or find them attractive. I like to focus on one topic, I like really mathematics, but I bet I can't compete with i. e. Temple Grandin with her excellent out of the box thinking.
@@GermanTaffer The only experience I have had with autism was way back in high school when I went to "help" with a class of autistic children, but they were all none verbal for the most part.
Same here, Jerry. I learned from examples of my dad, 2 brothers, numerous friends, and a career as a LEO. I'm fully intact, no legal or financial scars. Everything is mine, I owe no one other than monthly living expenses.
I have interacted with many women as you have. The smallest handful were worth listening to.
Once upon a time I had a day off. The house was a mess and the gf was working. I went full ham on the house and did a deep clean, laundry, bathrooms, full kitchen scrub, recycling and purged a bunch of ueless stuff. Like a full 10 hours of it. I got dinner ready and was pretty happy with myself. GF came home expecting that I had done nothing so she was in a bad mood before she walked in the door. Even though she was upset at nothing her mood did not change all night. Not only did her expectations remove any joy that night for the both of us, there was never an appreciation that I had done anything for her.
I hope you ditched her. The last thing you need at home is a negative nancy.
@@Asto508 I am happily single these days. The thought of another long term relationship with a woman is daunting. I have dated many and I find it difficult to tolerate a relationship long term. I am still very much attracted to women and sometimes find myself convincing myself its worth it. However I find as soon as I am not in their immediate presense, and novel intimacy high wears off, I come to my senses.
She came home wanting to fight. Spent the whole day getting up for it, hands taped, ready to rumble.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value
U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc
If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure
If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad
So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
@@varunsingh7750 I have money. While it does help draw attention from women it the wrong type of attention. You can see straight away its not genuine. This is reflected in how one sided the relationship is. The issue isn't the attraction of women. Its the irritation they cause once you have one. If having a family is not on the agenda then there isn't much point. They are designed to love and nurture children. Not men.
Opinions of socially engineered ppl are shaping the current flow of what logic is. This destroyed the cinema, music and video games industry.
No, you're thinking of the Jews who dominate finance, education, and the media and are now enforcing their demands through corporate ESG scores.
Sage words my friend, sage words.,
Correct. We live in a free range tax slave plantation and these tactics were designed to keep us at war with each other
I watched a video from PsychHacks that makes sense to me, which explains this. It based on how women and men are different when it comes to loyalty. Men are (generally) loyal to their word, so they do what they say and they mean what they say. And women are (generally) loyal to their feelings, so that's why the always say "I feel...", and why they initiate divorce more frequently. They always go with their emotions. And that's why they don't 'feel' like hypocrites because they are being loyal to their emotions, which is their standard of integrity.
Did not now that thanks for the help
You make it sound too flattering. If I used my drunk self to be my emotional source of integrity and sent that idiot out on all my dates and to job interviews, what would people call me when I say I am being loyal and consistant with my drunk self? I have that you take it or leave it attitude.
that's why in the past a man's word was important but no one ever said anything about a woman's word and if anything that silence was proven right by rambling inconsistencies of women's social media posts. Same girl will post a video complaining about men, then another one whining she can't find one, then another one where she finds a guy who's a decent man for a change, then another how that guy is boring, then another about a hot guy at work, then another about being ghosted by the hot guy at work, and back to a video complaining about men. Who would trust the word of someone like that?
@@eyenou8096 Exactly. Women are delusional children in adult bodies, they shouldn't be allowed to make important decisions (voting)... it is why our society has been in decline since we started to allow it, now society has to collapse before we can go back to the way it was.
@@pegg00 Explains why the vast majority of women are complete sheep though. Men are sheep don't get me wrong, but I see way more men willing to go against society and think for themselves than women. The only exceptions I've seen to women not quite being sheep is my mother and sister. Shame I probably will never have a future wife like my mother. She's an absolute legend.
Before she even answered the question I knew her answer was going to be “everything.”
The problem with meeting them in the emotional realm is that many of them do not show genuine vulnerability. They have been trained to be like men and to never trust a man. When they show vulnerability, it's often not genuine and only used to manipulate people or gain power in a relationship. If you try to meet her by embracing her faux emotional state, then she will see it as a weakness to exploit. From that point forward, she will begin to leverage that weakness against you to take away your power until she has control. It's all bad from there.
Someone who is like that should not be in your, or anyone's life
As a female who was retrained to be logical, this is mostly how I see it as well. As a group, we can really be one f-ing manipulative bunch!
Call her bluff when she acts vulnerable. Respond in a way where you recognize her weakness and treat her as such. I don't mean to be controlling. I mean to take the reins she is saying she can't handle. See how genuine her words are then.
@@Snappypantsdance how were you trained to be so, genuine question, and any other insights that come to mind would be welcome as well
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value
U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc
If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure
If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad
So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
Having been married for 20 yrs, there's alot of gems in this video. However, if you rely solely on changing a woman's mood to get her to agree to something, the effect won't be long lasting simply bc her mood will eventually change. You cannot change a woman's mood and keep it that way. It will burn any man out
Not only that, but eventually she's going to come to the conclusion that you're a manipulator.
@@decwow Yeah, because using emotions and tears to avoid serious discussions in your relationship is totally not manipulative behavior on their side. If you have such a woman, just walk away. You will always lose this game.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value
U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc
If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure
If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad
So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
I think you missed the point. It's only in that particular moment that you need to change her mood. A day or most likely just an hour later will be a totally different scenario.
@@user5812 lol, and you think bc you changed her mood and got her to agreed to something that her decision will stand? If you have to work this much to get her to agree to something her, her decision won't stand the test of time
The secret (as per Alexander’s first examples):
-be extra attractive
-do not be unattractive
Changing opinions to fit in with your environment like a chameleon, is what narcissists and psychopaths do.
Not true - they appear to be that way. They still have their opinions that tend not to change.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value
U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc
If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure
If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad
So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
@@veritasliberabitvos454 higher functioning ones with some self awareness maybe yes
Let me refine that - claiming the facts are untrue, so as to fit in with the environment, is what lesser minds do (less integrity and/or less intelligence.)
@@varunsingh7750 Why tf do you keep spamming this comment on every thread? If there was something you were selling or if you were providing some new groundbreaking information I'd understand... but this?🤔
This is actually true for everyone. You can never FORCE someone to change their mind but you CAN convince them that changing their mind was their own idea. The only difference is the method. This is a known effect in psychology.
IT'S MR OBVIOUS
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@@rymerium how does he have 273K subs and no videos? what?
@@mangakasaide2166 he lost his channel. I used to watch him I didn't know he was back
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value
U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc
If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure
If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad
So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
Shorthand: talk to them like they are children. 😄
they are children... they go to absurd lengths to hide it too... for example if her motivation is just to hurt you because you said some bad word to her she will pretend the issue is really that blablabla; eg something completely unrelated. this is again tied to power dynamics... if you see her as what she really is; a child she will lose power over you. they love that men see them as more than what they are; it strokes their ego. that it is unwise and ultimately self-defeating youd have to be a man to appreciate.
When women complain to you, men tend to give solutions to their problems. It's not solutions she wants to hear from you, she wants you to listen to her, that's all. You just acknowledging her with "hmm", "oohh", "really, that's unfair", answers is all she wants to hear. Complaining about their problems to someone is like therapy to women.
Yes, they get really annoyed if you try to offer solutions. They take this as you shutting down her conversation and belittling her feelings by saying you can shake off the bad mood with logical action.
And the reason we offer solutions is because it's what we would want if we acted that way. As men, we want to be self sufficient, handle our own business, etc. When we are overwhelmed, it's likely because we are uncertain what to do or how to do it. Thus, we bring these frustrations up to friends, and getting solutions to the problems or advice is comforting. We feel more confident and capable after, and it reduces anxiety. Our poor emotional state is often the result of a lack of a solution. And if your emotional issue is something you know only time will fix, then talking about it is pointless. But for women, they need attention and to feel like they aren't in it alone, and don't have the head space to consider solutions until this need is met.
@@DavidSmith-mt7tb the way they think is pretty stupid tbh
This is the reason "Are you just venting or do you want actual solutions?" is THE question to ask even before she begins to speak
Yep it's called: Being her emotional tampon
now go wring yourself out and soak up some more ( cause she's not done)
This video should be shown in schools. Pure masterclass
How is it master class look at this dude bro
Consistency is less accurate a word. The real word is “integrity”. Men aspire to have integrity, women do not. That word is not even something most women utter in their lives.
I doubt most women even understand this word lol
This is why girls who are pleasers are treasures. You don't need to change her mind, she automatically does that to make you feel happy
I’m definitely a people pleaser. It’s not something that should be taken advantage of, because it sucks.
It’s so hard to say no to things I don’t really wanna do and it takes so much energy, and it’s honestly kinda sad because I never get things the way I want. I might be nice to hang out with, but I’m letting my boundaries be stepped on because I automatically think “my wish is less important” and “I want the mood to remain good” instead of speaking my mind.
I get that it sounds extremely fragile and victim like, and I don’t like that either but its the reality of people pleasers.
Please, if you realize that anyone has a hard time with setting up boundaries or speaking their mind, be kind :)
It’s rather hard to set a boundary in first place, it’s good that you’re able to place boundaries on first place ; if you find that you are not comfortable with someone breaking up your boundary; you should work on saying “no” and communicating. Atleast you are aware about what is happening and on what you have to work; rather than an entitled person whose eyes are still to be opened.
Also there’s no thing such as “kindness” for men. If you as a man flinch a little bit; it’s taken as a sign of weakness rather a step of failure towards success.
@@streeda6501 That's called being feminine, that isn't a bad thing in the company of a good man, he'll recognize your needs and boundaries without you saying a word and wouldn't exploit that.
Thank you kindly for your truth breaking the glass of the feminist ruling facade as being unacceptable and not healthy nor conducive to any male/female relationship. Your videos have ALWAYS been spot on and I'm glad you are still spearheading the way through all the lies and hypocrisy and power hungry feminist view that multitudes of poor well intentioned beta males have been duped with for so long. God bless good brother Alexander!
Your truth? You mean.. “the truth”. Truth is objective. Nobody gets their version of it. That would be subjective
@@Skeetopunk01 You're clearly not a woman.
one thing which is important to know is that if u have MATERIAL gains say good body, good looks, money, car, house or something of high value
U will enjoy the world, girls, status etc
If u dont have then u will be sad u wont get enjoyment BUT only if u keep on desiring the pleasure
If u leave if u renounce u will be happy if not, if u keep desiring pleasures then u will be sad
So Recognise it as soon as possible if ur fitting in ways of world then go if not Then leave it
There is not a your truth or my truth. Only, _the_ truth.
Once I dated a woman who told me she believed whatever men can do women can do better, I warned her, "then you'll end up doing the dishes, child care, work, paying bills...its better if there are some things you do better and some things a man does better and some things you help each other out doing." She was hot, but I had a life to live.
Its so funny to me any woman would actually say that, I know they have to know that theyre wrong. it's just being in denial
Women view emotions as the truth, seeing the world through an emotional lens based on intuition.
what do you think the outcome of that could be when women in position of power would be tasked with deciding whether to start a war or no?. a war fought by men because women are not drafted? start thinking how to hide from the draft for ww3, if you are in an age range and country in which you could be selected for it.
Emotions are important for survival.. Men are the disposable sex.
@alexander g
Neither sex is disposable, that's ridiculous. And both emotions and logic are needed for survival.
@@HonestyOverEverything animals are not that logical.. They can survive with only instincts and emotions.
Men are disposable if they don't don't work or be someone. Women can be lazy and still have value.
@@alexanderg8466 there are 0 matriarchal civilizations.
The last girl I messed with, was nothing serious but we would "enjoy each other's company" no strings attached, it is what it is kinda thing. Eventually she started getting more involved w/church and gave me the " I don't wanna do this anymore if you don't get serious." I was like WTF I met you at a motel where my friend and I tag teamed on you!!!
😂😂😂
Imagine the wedding, with the same friend as Best Man...ahhh the awkwardness and memories...
@@SuperiorByFar I would say to her, how am I gonna tell my family how we met
@@jasons7044 Haha - spit roasted over the motel bed...pure romance.
@@jasons7044 Tell them you saw her at a museum opening or before or after a stage play 😁
She's not actually expressing a true opinion. This is just something she's mindlessly repeating, she doesn't truly believe it. You can tell by her tone and lack of volume and assertion. This is more along the lines of, she's not listening and mindlessly responding, than actually expressing her true thoughts on the situation.
women and narcissists do this. It's very annoying. Why should I constantly validate your feelings and make you feel like you're in the right when everything says you're not?
well said
Thats what stupid simps do. Smart men never get married and never take a woman seriously.
@@redrustyhill2 mmm. I don't know, It is usually men who takes advantage of long marriages more than women..
Women have it worse on marriages.. (specially long ones.)
But it is also a doble edge problem.. Men sacrifice a lot for women ( their money, freedom, and sanity) for long term security.
I guess that it depends but it is usually terrible most of the times.. But there is a small probability that it actually works.
should you play dice?? who knows
@alexander g you must be very young. 50-80% of marriage ends in divorce (depending on demographic) 70-80% of divorce is initiated by women. Marriage is a fools game. Would you jump out of an airplane with a parachute if it was known that parachutes only opened 50% of the time? If you get married be prepared to loose everything you have.
Simple: stop interacting with low quality woman. Walk away.
Good luck trying to find a "high quality" woman. They are just better at hiding their solipsism.
@@JJ-wi2uw Nah, I found more than one. They are not that rare.
Yes that would force them to improve, but do you know why women are not interested in improving themselves like men are? Because there are a bunch of simps validating them and even paying them every day just because of their looks.
it was an easy time that brought up weak people that could afford opinions like this girl. But the time her beauty fades, and the time gets tough the logic of life will hit her hard out of her delusion. Most guys learned this the hard way at a young age.
She will never learn that. Even if she is living under a bridge missing all her teeth, it will always be someone elses fault, a mans fault
I was dating someone , she should told me that if she trained hard enough she could beat Usain Bolt, in a race. I obviously told her not possible. Less the facts she is mid 30’s and zero athleticism , still not possible. She proceeded to yell at me and told me never to put her down like that. Eventually it come down to she wanted to FEEL as tho she could beat him , apparently I needed to support that feeling. “Notting she can’t do “ type of thing. Needles to say, I did the bolt. Under 10 seconds the moment the conversation was over. Baffling. And I am grateful I never had to have another argument like that again .
I don't have time to indulge an adult child. The degree to which they do this isn't natural, it has been cultivated by a society which desired them to be easier to manipulate into joining the job market.
These vvahmen can control their idiocy for 8 hours a day for a boss so we know they can do it. They only think they can get away with stuff when they're with a weak male.
To be sure, we're all emotional creatures. However, men have evolved to pay a very high price for not understanding their environment. We can be shown evidence and convinced otherwise. Those of us who had a rigorous education in engineering anyway. Those in the humanities are always emoitonally driven and easy to con into various religious types of thinking.
My emotional key that allows me to be logical is that I feel a rush when reality proves to be very consistent with my understanding of reality. The instant there's a mismatch, I decide the degree to which I must correct my worldview and then I correct it.
When my environment changes even a little, it's like a beacon shining through everything else. Even in my later years I flipped political parties 180 degrees -- back in 2016. Once the Left changed, I left them and never looked back.
Here's some differences between those who are driven primarily by emotion, and those who can place emotion in a secondary role:
- they can change their opinion entirely as long as sufficient evidence is given and it's consistent over some time.
- they live by principles that no amount of feelings can change. Men of principle often make heavy short term sacrifices for long term success or satisfaciton. There's always a near term price for virtue.
- they accept the harsh reality rather than the pretty lie -- even if it hurts. I wanted to believe in god during the worst time of my life, but my logical mind wouldn't accept theistic religion as the "ground truth" reality.
- they believe people are individuals and deserve to be judged as such
- they desire to fix problems as soon as they can.
A sign of an emotional thinker:
- they believe reality matches their idea of their preferred reality. We call this "blue pill" euphamistically.
- they remain utterly intransigent on their beliefs (no matter the evidence); or they shift their beliefs too easily.
- they beleive people can be judged based on some arbitrary group they belong to. They also believe in collective guilt and punishment. Thus you hear, "all men" or "all wahmen".
- they're hedonistic -- their highest aspiration is to seek happiness in any way they can -- especially by sacrificing long term health and happiness.
- they wait until problems become so huge, they can't be fixed
The degree to which people are driven by their emotions as adults is the degree to which they were incentivized to be neurotic as children and young adults. If emotionalism was rewarded, then it will be primary. If stoicism was rewarded, then it will be primary. I know this because I've seen it in action over 50 years. The vvahmen in my generation were less neurotic and generally more happy than those today. Being a sl*t was universally seen as a bad idea for their reputation so they had a bit of self control. It was generally that way about most decisions they made.
The arguments and discussions we see today were only seen in young children in my generation.
If men prioritized emotion over reason, then science wouldn't exist. The emotionalism of vvahmen we see today isn't natural. In the curren era, their neuroticism has been tuned to levels of pure insanity. It was deliberate -- an unhappy vvahman spends tons of money... most of it not her own.
This is why you see vvahman flaunting the most absurd ideas. Ideas she would've been embarassed to utter just 30 years ago.
Great post. So true. What a world hey
damn the feminization of society
I would expect this from an 8 year old child who is learning where fantasy ends and reality starts. It would be like us escaping into a computer game and then pretending to be that character in reality, arguing with people about crap you have made up in your head.
I think this video is one of the most valuable on your channel. Thanks.
There is the saying, "If a person is convinced against one's will, one will have the same opinion still." The trick is figuring out how to persuade the person to be willing to actually consider the other's side.
My wife is unusual among women in that she is unusually logical. She's great at math and enjoys programming and spreadsheets. Even with that uncommon level of logicallity in most of her thinking, when she gets upset, i have to 100% deal with the emotion first. Almost every time, all i have to do is create a spontaneous activity not in our normal environment, drag her away from whatever is upsetting her, absolve her of her responsibility (temporarily), and then let her indulge in some self pitying and venting... After her mood shifts away from the frustration, i can then reengage with her logical side and make some real headway with whatever the issue is. But trying to go straight in with rational solutions is entirely fruitless.
Golden advice, thank you. I wish I had known this as a teenager. We need women 101 taught in high school or college
This is pretty much true and it's why I kinda prefer to be single. I can't deal with all this emotion stuff.
I have seen girls change their reality, the facts and gaslight to conform with their new mindset. I met a young woman who said I don't want kids. But after getting married and a kid. He never admited that she changed her position. I expected her to said yesh I was so wrong I realize that now I love being a mother now. Naaahhh she do a 1984 and she always for ever since she was a little girl she always wanted children. WTF. They are always right. And it seems that she believed in an orwell way the new version of her history. And memory holed everything contradicting that included me.
I’m a girl, this is very true. I’ve used this tactic to convince my younger sister to go visit our dad with us (she is not on good terms with him and is too prideful to get over it) I would hang out with her most of the day and suggest going to my dad’s and saying how she will benefit from it while also buying her stuff at the mall and such lol
Lol nice, you got any tips on dealing with women or any other insights?
So, basically you reinforce her bad behaviour by giving her attention and prizes. I would have said I feel better after spending time with him and tend to have a great day afterwards. Now, that plays on their minds. Especially when they see you happy, etc. afterwards.
Sounds like manipulation & pandering. Cool!
Very insightful! Pay attention to the persons emotional state to seek change rather than logically explaining.
Good stuff! Thanks for the reminder, Alexander. Stay awesome!
Can anyone actually make a cogent argument as to how dealing wth women (as a whole) is even worth it? The mere fact that this channel has so many videos about what to do and what not to do regarding women is kind of proof that it's not...too much energy that is likely being wasted on a group of people that are fickle, capricious and unreasonable far too often. I assume Alex wouldn't want to acknowledge that perspective since it would call into question his choices (he's in a relationship and has a child, a daughter at that I believe). But even he would have to acknowledge (at least on an intuitive level) that what I just said is true. Not just the headaches women bring socially and emotionally, but also (if not worse) financially and legally. At the very least he would have to consciously acknowledge that his partner can destroy him on the financial and legal end. His argument against that may be that she's a "high quality woman" so she wouldn't do that...but how many men have said the "it won't happen to me" or the "but she's different" lines before....Just a thought that came to me. I'm curious what he'd think about this.
We take this great risk/amount of effort because we only have 1 life and the family path seems to be the universal direction we go for. Our urges and hormones point us that way. If not family, a long term companion.
I agree with you but all my interests and hobbies start to wane after a while. A peaceful life is good but it can also get lonely and boring. I don’t know what higher purpose there is for me.
Because we need to procreate as a species.
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"Because we need to procreate as a species."
This is only true if one lives their life in the gynocentric matrix.
@@ac2395 You dont have a higher purpose! Just enjoy the ride.
I think the normal lifecycle of a relationship is the procreation time until children are born and grown somewhat self-sufficient around the age of 6-8. Usually then it's time for a relationship to fall apart if it had no other basis than procreation in the first place.
Most relationships work like this and if you accept this as the natural cycle, your question more or less becomes obsolete since it's just a business bargain in the end and not about "being happy". After this business is finished, there is basically no reason for a man to have contact with women other than for casual fun and expecting anything else than that, is probably the root of the whole problem here.
It's very unlikely you will ever find a friend in a woman before she hits menopause due to the complete control of hormones over her whole existence. They basically become more male in later life and thus become "normal human beings".
therefore, permitting them to vote is objectively wrong
Voting is Stup1d regardless you are male or female
Hmm .... Maybe voting
should be forbidden to
anyone who does not
own property OR whose
income is less than "x"
amount per year!
just make it so that the only people who can vote are white men who own property and/or are married and you have a yourself a functioning civilization@@here_we_go_again2571
i sometimes catch those day time adverts, you know the ones please sponsor an orphan pony, sad music black and white lol i wonder how many women as oppose to men get their purse . wallet out
@@here_we_go_again2571 'Taxpayers' is the word you're looking for.
Originally, taxes were deeply tied up with property ownership in many places.
Later it was extended to people subject to the draft, i.e., men.
Stuff like the income tax came about later as well.
It wasn't actually restricted for women specifically in places like the US, IIRC.
we need more educational videos like that, thank you
Yes and No. Because when they are in bad mood, even when you are in vacation in exotic place, or in a fancy restaurant, they are very willing to share their bad mood to you and ruining everything, instead
I think the best way is to escape first and let her get immersed in her emotion pool and comeback only after she drained it.
It's true. Some women become totally inconsolable and there's nothing to be done about it. It's like the weather, just wait for it to change to sunnier skies, but find shelter first lol.
@@leopardsbasketball She will complain though that you distance yourself from her and her emotional needs. Been there, done that. Won the t-shirt.
Hiding each time, she is adding those events up as you are not there for her emotional needs. Some point she leaves. Listening and letting her pour and sour you good mood is part of being in a relationship. I think it blows and they are rarely appreciative that you do this for them.
great vid Alexander appreciate the support. We should defo collab i'm from Perth too btw. Also I'm now perma banned from TikTok lmao they absolutely hate me
It’s a good technique, not just for women, but also for children 🤷♂️
¡Just hits no misses!
Dam. As always Alexander spitting facts from the start. How can i never saw that.
"In order to change a womans mind you have to change her mood first"
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This is a critical lesson for men and women.
"Validate her emotions first" is a great way of saying it. Change her mood, or understand her mood, or work through her mood FIRST is one of the best insights there is and wish I knew this when I was a kid.
The only problem is managing to successfully do this without also effecting your own mood.
@@dirkdiggler3009 Yes that's true. However, when you keep it in mind, it's easier to do because you understand it. As leaders, men are good at dealing with the "unfair rules" of life. You just accept it as a force of nature, deal with it and move on. You're not going to change nature, you can only change yourself.
@@DD-lm1gv Sounds great when you say it. Reality is a lot different. Men are human too. We have emotions and are not robots. Combine that with the fact that women are experts at getting under a mans skin when they want to, you begin to realize it just isnt worth it. No amount of mental gymnastics can over come this. Hence the stereotypes of marriage.
@@dirkdiggler3009 Bro, I'm in a happy and meaningful relationship and the girl is hot. Modern men have become degenerates too. You can find a good woman, they exist. Reject modernity, embrace tradition, and stop being a "bi*ch" (not saying YOU are, just general advice). Improve yourself and you will attract quality to yourself. Set standards and you will have people in your life with similar standards. Stop wasting time on low quality women and improve yourself. That's my best advice (and find God but that's another level).
@@DD-lm1gv Does changing yourself change the laws associated with losing half of your stuff? Does changing yourself change your girl from eventually becoming unhappy and seeking fullfillment elsewhere? One thing is for certain. Given enough time you will eventually change your opinion about women. Your still young. That will also change.
In other words, men have values and principles and women have moods :)
...and women lack values and principles
"All they know is what they feel right now." That is it in a nutshell. Nailed it. Do feel it necessary to add that this only applies to around 50% of women in my estimation though. Really gotta sort through a lot of irrational women to find the good ones.
What country are you from? Where are you getting this 50% number?
I'm so used to people being rude to me that him calling me a hypocrite means nothing. Nobody respects nice guys who are low in attractiveness
Bro, who’s calling you a hypocrite?
I literally did not know this at all, tried it with my girlfriend who has been kind of distant, and it worked to get on good communicative terms. Amazing, we'll see how far this goes
If she is is distant my guy. 9/10 their is another guy that she is thinking might be better than you as a boyfriend. Be careful and stay strong!!
she doesn't care about basketball, she doesn't even want to be rational about it, what she's doing is holding her ground and see how you will react to it. Women say a lot of things they don't mean, the way toddlers say things, it's social play and they are playing that game to how good this relationship is for them. That's really what they care about.
Good point
Really like toddlers
It just comes to me, Alexander has chosen one of the most difficult jobs available, explaining stuff logically that isn't rooted in logic, wow! :D
The arguing part Alexander describes here is very true, you know you can't win, even if you're right and are presenting valid points that can't be diagreed with. With another guy this most of the time would lead to a soliution, that's why this is your go-to solution to resolve something, in this case it drives her more mad, it doesn't resolve the issue. So the most lies guys tell in their lives are apologies they don't really mean that way.
The agreeing part made me remember a very similar event from my younger years, where a woman on a party was just agreeing on everything with me and I tested it that time by stating something nonsensical and o**ensive, I don't believe in myself and even contradicted stuff we agreed on before and yet she kept on agreeing. Even if that was meant for appearing pleasant, I did not like her behaviour but I didn't like stating something I don't believe in, even if that was the point of, never did that again.
The thought process of valuing is actually logical and reasonable,but because emotions are added it becomes incredibly difficult to describe,define,explain to others.
These things show up so true.
With females gaining more positions of power and authority I ponder how it relates to greater society
This is incredibly accurate. Actually had this situation with my gf a couple of months ago! Thanks Alexander, it helps me understand and calm my strong need for logic when dealing with my female partner
Totally spot on!
this exact same conversation plays out in marriages every single day all around the world.
Having someone who validate your emotion and comfort you is not only a female desire. Particularly guys who didn’t have the experience of unconditional love that the mother should give to her children (especially when the children is young) crave that emotional support. I’m talking about guys with angry, always depressed, neurotic mothers. These guys want to be heard and supported. But they know they will never get that because it’s not a masculine role to be comforted like that. I understand that, but what pisses me off is how in the world I’ m required to do give that to another person even if I never experienced it my self (even when I was a child). It’s hard. And the best solution I have come up with is that both people in the relationship support each other. Hope that this make sense. But believe me is hard to make people aware that guy have feelings, emotional needs and weaknesses too… the society don’t care, we are disposable.
Too many woman (many man too) have Ego higher then sky.
"Vanity is my favourite sin"
Lucifer
A good prerequisite to put in front of and at the end of ANYTHING a woman or an emotional person says is: "I Feel" - before the statement, and "Right Now" - after the statement. This translation of womanese emotional speak can save us a lot of trouble.
"I Feel, I Love You, Right Now".
"I Feel, I hate you, Right Now".
Emotions are written in water.
Hahaha Alexander I must say, it’s been amusing to see you change your tune pertaining to modern women. I remember years ago you use to “try to be more fair” I noticed you gave up some time ago to give them the benefit of the doubt but I am glad you’ve just accepted it.
This is why many mgtow:s are comparing women with children. Because children makes decisions based on emotions, and growing up means taking responsibility and thinking things through.
Truth. I didn't game up on this skill until the marriage was already nearly done. When I did she expressed genuine joyful astonishment but still left because I lacked a vagina. How far do men have to go in facing this difference? I'm not a woman and I'm done with playing one whenever her emotions suck all the air out of the room. At some level this becomes unattractive to us all. So find yourself a partner who has some mature awareness of this difference too, and can appreciate the effort you are taking to bridge it, the or else admit your partner is just too selfish for her own good and just stay single.
Yeah, this is one of those problems where we tend to use euphemisms for no reason. Doesn't matter how women FEEL about being inconsistent. They ARE still being inconsistent nonetheless. There is no way around it. Emotions are not an excuse. If a woman tries to use emotions to justify their behavior, it is our job to point it out, and not accept it under an circumstances.
Also, the correct attitude is NOT to focus on her moods, but to refuse to participate in any kind of debate that is not about facts. If a woman wants to be treated as an adult, she must behave as one...
This needs to be pinned.
We would call it to " Butter them up" years ago if you wanted something from your mother or grandparents, you would butter them up first befor you asked.
When a woman lies she is actually being extremely loyal, to herself
A mind must be functional to be changed.
Thank you for always making the distinction of low quality men/women and high quality men/women.
Especially since.. many of us have not encountered high quality women in the dating market (since that’s not where they tend to be 😅) and may get the impression that it’s just all women that are like this…
And that would be… kinda disheartening and disappointing.
Essentially, having to resign oneself to the knowledge that… the only way they can have lasting companionship, is by tactfully engaging with an emotionally unstable, incompetent, ego maniac… a child in the mind and body of an adult…
And what a grim picture that would paint.
Thank god… that’s not all there is to it, and thank you for always making sure to distinguish these important differences 🙃🙂
many men do the same. it's just less obvious as they often back up their opinions with pseudo-arguments. you can often observe this in your professional environment
Alexander's look when she says "everything". The female default setting.
I call them dumb in their faces, they got upset, argumentative, I just laught at them which drives them crazy...which makes me laugh even more :)
You've certain hit the nail on the head and any man that has been in a long term relationship (successfully) gets this.
However, as controversial as this may be, it does support the premise that society was and would function a lot better if woman were not given positions of responsibility and probably not even the right to vote
.You can't have a smoothly running system that is not based on facts and reality. A bridge doesn't stay up because you feel that it should. When people are relying on you for results, this can't be defined by men saying the right thing at the right time based on how he's deduced you feel at this particular point in time. Level headed and rational is a virtue.
Ask 10 woman why they voted the way they did and 8/10 will give a completley illogical and emotional reason why that may changed a week later..
The problem with that argument is that also 5/10 men won't give you a sensible response and 2/10 women may actually give you one. There are other means to base voting rights on than mere biology.
@@Asto508 Based. Gender isn't the problem, it's the lack of critical thinking skills
So if we need all this effort to convince our partner to efficiently and logically choose the best way forward, is it actually worth it?
To drop her argument one only needs to answer with "convince me".
@Katana_soul_91 well, then tell her that men are better at reaching top shelves.
This only makes their general mindset as the hypocrites. Probably the reason why in religions like Islam, their testimony is truly "half the worth" of that on a man. Heck, WE HAVE AN EPIDEMIC OF FALSE ACCUSATIONS. 🤷♂️
What is to prevent a man from simply intimidating a woman in order to 'change her mood'?
Social pressure, her family, Nature/G-d/Ancestors will set things straight: Karma.
She will see through that pretty quickly and notice it is not your usual position and is inauthentic.
That might work as a short-term strategy, but in the long run, it's bound to backfire.
no. It' s not at all about emotions and moods: when someone defends an un-defendable thesis, there's only one reason for that: "it's difficult to change someone's mind about an issue, with their advantage - or wage - being dependent on that opinion". Therefore, it's way simpler: they know they're wrong, but they won't admit it, in order not to lose the argument. It's just like talking to little children.
Or just don't deal with troublesome women in your life you will be more happier that way lol
I noticed this dichotomy many years ago, and use it to my benefit ever since. I just say my manly intuition, and ability to change my mind is innate. Women can't handle it. it's great fun to see her try to respond.
The old addage applies: a fool convinced against his(her) will is of the same persuasion still.
This really is relatable with my dating era.
Now when my wife is being emotional,then im the logical stoic rock. She cant break it
She's not being serious though. She's clearly trolling the guy.
Maybe so, but the point still stands
The fact that she'd even troll when asked simple non-offensive questions, is the point right there...
I totally do this with women where I talk to them from a rational point of view when I should be constantly reminding myself that it doesn't matter.
REALITY is the final arbiter of any dispute. Just move on and let the truth of it sink in.
Women only accept chad's opinion.
Women are not like they always have been, this is an enchanted modern women model.
damn that guy found a noice biscuit on omegle, it's very rare to find biscuits like that.
Instructions were unclear. Tried convincing the blue haired college girl that men have struggles too. Got reported to the Dean’s office
Obvious waste of time. -1
We gave these people voting rights
How agreeable men are with women is highly influenced by how attractive she is. Good looking women are rarely called out on their BS because men think that could jeopardize their chance of having sex with her.
5:30
Not even women should be so extremely emotional, women should at least have some brain and know how to use it.
Well said..
I had to get my ex to watch a short ted talk from a female feminist before she would honestly let the information about men's rights stink in. She would never listen to a white man
Its important to note that it's the women who hold men to a high standard of consistency, the first instinct in a female if she has even a tiny interest in a guy is to watch and test him for his consistency between what he does and what he says to try to catch him in anything and if they catch even the smallest detail they will zero in on it. So yeah, consistency is forced on men whether they like it or not.
She'll respect you if you can change her mood whether it's positive or negative
Women are basically just overgrown children lmao.
Focus on yourself, go to the gym, do what’s best for you. If a woman comes along to add to your life, then good. But don’t go searching for some woman to complete you, you will inevitably over-prioritise them. Place them on a pedestal and she won’t respect you.
We wish to return to the simpler traditional times, but it’s not the case. The world has changed, it’s a different game being played, and if we don’t find our place in the game, we get left behind.
Wait so in a traditional relationship, the man pays the bills, goes out to work, comes home and then has to deal with her bullshit, then go out of his way to coddle her like a child when she's being bitchy? I'd have no problem if women just thought logically and solved their issues/looked for proper advice. I have no problem with bitching as long as you're going to take actions to correct/fix what you're complaining about immediately after you finish bitching. But I have to hold off on giving solutions, then later on give solutions only when she "feels" better? Considering I also hate hookup culture and polygamous relationships, yeah I think I'm going to stay single.
If a man is bringing the money, the protection, the leadership, and now has to bring the emotional support as well, wtf is the woman exclusively bringing? It's certainly not emotional support because he isn't allowed to show weakness. It's not sex because they're both getting that. Cooking and cleaning? Honestly at that point hiring a maid might be better because the man doesn't have to deal with the annoying emotions and the extra toll of providing emotional support. Even in a traditional relationship, assuming Alex is correct in that the best relationship includes the man being able to emotionally support and coddle, then I see absolutely nothing a woman can give on practical terms that cannot be easily replaced with something or someone else.
This guy just shows me a randol omeggle scenario and I'm supposed to walk away from this thinking "Oh yeah, that's what women are like.".
Note the woman in the early interview is blinking her eyes a lot. In traditional body languages that is a sign of willful lieing. She not only lies, she knows she is. Why? Telling the truth, and conceeding to simple provable facts weakens all women, and by relation weakens her as well. As a woman, her agenda will not allow her to be diminshed in any way.
As to her mood, it may well have started out as curiosity, but when she started believing she was being insulted in a subtle sort of way, her mood doubtlessly changed to resentment-- whereby the lies continued along with outright "stonewalling"
As to changing her mood, I say good luck. A woman in a state of resentment will not allow the man who angered her to get away unpunished. For a man, this would be like someone walking up and punching you in the face. You will take it personally even if it did end up being a case of mistaken identity, and you will severely want to tear the guy up for his behavior. No amount of reason will be likely to reach you in that moment.
The primary issue with the masculine is pride, the primary issue with the feminine is vanity, you can explain all problems with the sexes from these two set points.