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  • Опубликовано: 22 фев 2024
  • HOLY GIST PODCAST S1 EP 5
    Sex is created by God, it is beautiful within marriage and binds the couple further together within marriage. It is holy and sacred and must be done within God's allowance for it.
    Podcast available on Spotify and apple podcast.
    Video - Carel Films
    Location - Kadosh Studios.
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  • @victoriaorenze
    @victoriaorenze  4 месяца назад +92

    Hello everyone! All things consist in God! Let’s not shy away from talking to God about anything and everything! Share this and let’s be healed together!
    Watch, share, subscribe, turn on your notification for next video!

    • @franciscabonnie6584
      @franciscabonnie6584 4 месяца назад

      Hi Victoria blessings

    • @franciscabonnie6584
      @franciscabonnie6584 4 месяца назад

      I have a question , what about if your husband only want you for sex and nothing else ,no communication no plans he never share his monies with you .

    • @PrettyPrettyGOLD
      @PrettyPrettyGOLD 4 месяца назад

      Amen blessings sister Victoria 👑🙌❤🙏

    • @uzenialimbolous1208
      @uzenialimbolous1208 4 месяца назад +1

      Hi woman of God. I will not more of this teachings please it's really very important but we don't get this teachings at all

    • @AnthonyJohnson-lz3ft
      @AnthonyJohnson-lz3ft 4 месяца назад +1

      I'm in agreement with this message, Pastor Victoria❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @fidelngu
    @fidelngu 4 месяца назад +58

    Prepare the women throughout the day. Check on her at work, school, etc, show her you care throughout the day. Tell her words of affirmation. Come home and hug her, help her cook dinner or set the table, help her prepare for bed, that makes it easier for her to respond faster.

    • @essi6394
      @essi6394 4 месяца назад +3

      Reverend funke Adejumo said the same thing

    • @Shanmuth
      @Shanmuth 4 месяца назад +10

      They can even skip the helping in the kitchen but atleast engage us during the day,compliment us,notice our changed hairstyles 😂..

    • @jesusislord2003
      @jesusislord2003 4 месяца назад +9

      Sometimes the enganging is soo obvious and dramatic its very annoying. It should be a life style, just be a loving husband so that on the day you want I don't have to know why you are being extra sweet than usual. Its really annoying and has the opposite effect. On the other hand a secure woman and woman in love is always ready because its a mind thing for a woman not a sight thing.

    • @Nozipho-bg7su
      @Nozipho-bg7su 4 месяца назад

      Mxm a majority of Christian man are just annoying because they are simply wolves in sheep clothes. Just hypocrites. Not representatives of Christ in anyway. Mxm married people outside of the Christiandom are much more happy and satisfied in all aspects more than those in so called Christian marriages.

    • @risse301
      @risse301 4 месяца назад +3

      I'm HERE for it! These are wonderful words of WISDOM & Reality...... ❤

  • @jesseappiahnkansah7839
    @jesseappiahnkansah7839 4 месяца назад +8

    Speaking in tongues as I'm soaking in the message. Such a spirit-filled woman of God! Thank you PVO for responding to the call of God.

  • @Shanmuth
    @Shanmuth 4 месяца назад +6

    So true minister Victoria,I wish people would be open in church and start talking about this matter as many Christian marriages are just in survival mode because of this. And unfortunately many people are not seeking help and living secret lives. May the Lord help us as this is a huge issue in Christian marriages

  • @oreofegbonigi774
    @oreofegbonigi774 4 месяца назад +9

    Thank you for belling the cat!
    The understanding of the concept of FOREPLAY is very important in helping the ladies...

  • @ckinuthia1713
    @ckinuthia1713 4 месяца назад +10

    Amen to that . Preach Victoria, married women, we become too holy for our husbands😅

  • @versatilepal4117
    @versatilepal4117 4 месяца назад +16

    🤣🤣 This is unusual coming from a preacher, but we’ll get used to it. Thank you ma’am

    • @kwekucolecraft6139
      @kwekucolecraft6139 4 месяца назад

      Top comment😂 🙏🏾

    • @priscillachinsembu4669
      @priscillachinsembu4669 4 месяца назад +5

      You see... That's what she is saying.. these things should be talked about more in the church

  • @divinity1818
    @divinity1818 4 месяца назад +4

    I really lovd the way you have framed the profane words 🤣 thank you WoG 🙌😊
    I think its about time we Christians start to educate other's by using the godly words 🙌

  • @chukwuemeka_agu
    @chukwuemeka_agu 4 месяца назад +10

    Finally someone speaks very frankly about this topic,
    Thank you very much Minister Victoria for sharing these tips for us single people in preparation for marriage.
    Sex is beautiful within marriage❤.

  • @anyka1111
    @anyka1111 Месяц назад +1

    I want to say that from very young, by age five experiencing sex, led me to not having any respect for my body. I did not understand until Pastoria Victoria said sex is like glue that binds people. So even though I did not understand sex until now. When I accepted Jesus in my life, I started making decision based on Deuteronomy 30:19 Life and death choices, I always saw the consequences of sex and decided to choose life, as I got to love God more, I added in Genesis 39:9 How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God after he saved my life while I was homeless? Encountering a person who had HIV, God stopped him from giving it to me.
    So God has been Good to me, I Just completed my Law degree, and I still believe God is healing my damaged past. I love him! Anyone who is reading this statement and came from a broken home.. I can say that there is nothing God cannot do! give your life to Jesus today Amen!

  • @angeljadechitandika
    @angeljadechitandika 4 месяца назад +3

    "We begin to bind ourselves to other people" 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I love that!

  • @jessicacurry3100
    @jessicacurry3100 4 месяца назад

    Such a blessed teaching! 🙏🏾❤️🙌

  • @fidelngu
    @fidelngu 4 месяца назад +9

    It is a form of worship!

  • @ishamunu1283
    @ishamunu1283 4 месяца назад +1

    Powerful word thank you 🙏 great minister of Gods

  • @nitseybellefleur5717
    @nitseybellefleur5717 4 месяца назад

    Wowwwa commmonn noww Gloryyy be to Yeshua thank you WoG Victoria 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @QueenMunkombwe-tc5jg
    @QueenMunkombwe-tc5jg 4 месяца назад

    Learning 🥰
    Powerful message

  • @joyfwoloshi
    @joyfwoloshi 4 месяца назад

    Powerful..thank you so much woman of God , I'm really blessed

  • @user-qi3rj6li4j
    @user-qi3rj6li4j 28 дней назад

    Thanks for sharing these/this. May God continue to richly bless you and use for His glory and honor. What you are sharing is the absolute truth. God initiated marriage/sex. It's therefore important that it is done according to His principles, ways, rules, or statutes. Glory and honor be to God, Pastor Victoria.

  • @patriciakasenge9927
    @patriciakasenge9927 4 месяца назад +10

    My honest advice to married men is to develop great friendships with their wives, they should be open enough to learn how to create s*xual compatibility with their wives. Things like loving, caring gestures i.e. gifts, and just spending quality time satisfies women more than the actual s*xual encounter. No wonder older men with reduced physical capacity are winning over younger ladies because they know how to love and care for a woman and compensate for any other issue.

  • @belovedsoniathewriter
    @belovedsoniathewriter 4 месяца назад +1

    Preach preacher! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @fidelngu
    @fidelngu 4 месяца назад

    Marriage Altar Talk! Thank you for talking on the subject.

  • @LovenessKasongole-th3yv
    @LovenessKasongole-th3yv 4 месяца назад

    True teaching God bless you 😢 watching from Zambia

  • @elipraise3599
    @elipraise3599 4 месяца назад

    Well spoken woman of God. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. Thank you for talking about it openly, it should be tought in church.❤🙏

  • @xitshembisomabobo6828
    @xitshembisomabobo6828 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Pastor Victoria Orenze ❤

  • @aprayerawaywpastorshon9429
    @aprayerawaywpastorshon9429 4 месяца назад

    This was excellent and needs to be discussed openly!!

  • @emmabaptiste4281
    @emmabaptiste4281 4 месяца назад

    Thanks you mum for ur wisdom be blessed

  • @wendyprice8090
    @wendyprice8090 Месяц назад

    tHX SO GLAD YOUR TALKING ABOUT THIS... i THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE EXPERIENCING THIS.

  • @michellepaul4394
    @michellepaul4394 4 месяца назад

    Thank you very very much. We just need to hear and realize if it happens this way we avoid adulterers affairs. You plucked the courage to tell us the truth..BTW I love your worship. I worship everyday with u.. God bless you.

  • @UVBIFORJESUS
    @UVBIFORJESUS 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you so much sister, God bless you for bringing this out, I thank the lord for giving me husband who understands me, you are so so right about this, I am my husband was speaking of this few months ago, I am so surprised you are saying it, more wisdom more anointing in Jesus name Amen 🙏👍👍

  • @user-mb2gs3iu5r
    @user-mb2gs3iu5r 4 месяца назад

    God bless you Pastor Vicky 🔥❤️🙏🏽📝you are a blessing Ma❤️🔥

  • @manikasakala5866
    @manikasakala5866 4 месяца назад +4

    Thankyou for this wisdom Ma, watching from Zambia

  • @annahmwangangi2049
    @annahmwangangi2049 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you woman of God I am born again to honest I didn't know the journey is different av always mistaken this with unfaithfulness now I know I'll find a way to share this with my hubby.🙏

  • @monicachanda3258
    @monicachanda3258 4 месяца назад +1

    Wow I needed to learn this though single...
    Am grateful Lord

  • @emmanuelrichmusic3452
    @emmanuelrichmusic3452 4 месяца назад

    Very educative

  • @Oluchi4306
    @Oluchi4306 4 месяца назад +1

    Teaching good woman of God
    You are blessed

  • @carolam1089
    @carolam1089 4 месяца назад +4

    AMEN!! Praying for a Partner Say a Prayer for me 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🧎‍♀️

  • @topeleye
    @topeleye 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing, Ma. Hopefully, this helps married couples.

  • @AnthonyJohnson-lz3ft
    @AnthonyJohnson-lz3ft 4 месяца назад +2

    I am in agreement with this message, Pastor Victoria❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @hadijaMuhamad25
    @hadijaMuhamad25 4 месяца назад +1

    I love the way Victoria is open about everything 😅 God bless you so much dear🥰🙏

  • @Israel_Stickz_Music
    @Israel_Stickz_Music 4 месяца назад

    Amazing! 💕💕

  • @sophiajirnuya
    @sophiajirnuya 4 месяца назад

    Thank God for this ❤

  • @frappemocha88
    @frappemocha88 4 месяца назад

    You are doing the Lord work, saving marriages, talking about things most women can't even imagine sharing with their best friend.I pray they hear you!

  • @cristianebrahimovich9080
    @cristianebrahimovich9080 2 месяца назад

    So many people are like what did she just say that. My sister & brother yes!!. See our Leaders in Church are the ones that make many people think that such things can not be said about certain kinds of people. Because our leaders runaway faster than a bullet train from such topics yet Sex is a big part of marriage

  • @getrudefunya7100
    @getrudefunya7100 4 месяца назад

    Thanks I've been helped on this topic

  • @evelynkamau795
    @evelynkamau795 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this topic

  • @MaiOakInspires
    @MaiOakInspires 4 месяца назад +1

    God bless you

  • @HelenNyathi
    @HelenNyathi 4 месяца назад +7

    Left at the bridge 😂. I'm enjoying this podcast! Men...where are you in the comments? Haha

    • @harrietmvula
      @harrietmvula 4 месяца назад

      😅😅😅😅 😅. And shy at the same time

    • @adeOLUWA
      @adeOLUWA 4 месяца назад

      😅😅😅😅

    • @cristianebrahimovich9080
      @cristianebrahimovich9080 2 месяца назад

      We are here my sister

    • @cristianebrahimovich9080
      @cristianebrahimovich9080 2 месяца назад

      She is right i think we need to invite her on the next men conference just so she can say exactly this.

  • @user-dm1tf9ft7p
    @user-dm1tf9ft7p 4 месяца назад

    Wow. God bless you woman of God. I have a revelation about this topic i pray one day i will get the opportunity for that.🙏🙏🙏

  • @luckyboy344
    @luckyboy344 4 месяца назад

    Thanks 🙏 for sharing

  • @cates8223
    @cates8223 Месяц назад

    Preach Ms Victoria chai 🔥👏🏾

  • @ijeomavictoria1763
    @ijeomavictoria1763 4 месяца назад

    Thank you ma’am
    This is amazing coming from you and we are supposed to know and understand it as couples 🥰
    Even as single this is a subject to understand before marriage. Thank you ma for sharing ...

  • @matparakalenga1065
    @matparakalenga1065 4 месяца назад

    Good morning woman of God. Stand with me in prayers i want God to revive my spiritual growth. I love your song Am made for more .may I carry God wherever i go in Jesus 🙏🇿🇲

  • @deeOris_official
    @deeOris_official 4 месяца назад +1

    My PVO ❤
    PVO is just real. Thank you for talking about this.

  • @adenikeawobimpehephzibah6547
    @adenikeawobimpehephzibah6547 4 месяца назад

    That’s true, prepare her for the journey. Truth WOG ❤

  • @NsomVandora-ek4lf
    @NsomVandora-ek4lf 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you great women of God
    You are blessed and beautiful

  • @bibianamathieu4134
    @bibianamathieu4134 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @user-vd4le8iz9b
    @user-vd4le8iz9b 4 месяца назад

    You are very correct ma God bless you

  • @mutalefaith4659
    @mutalefaith4659 4 месяца назад

    Learning

  • @thandiwenalungwe8538
    @thandiwenalungwe8538 4 месяца назад

    ❤thank you Woman of God...am glad am learning this profound word from PVO on the HOLY GHOST GIST....
    Sex binds us that's why it should be done in the confines of marriage.....imagine binding yourself with more partners 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️
    Thank you WOG ♥️♥️
    STAYING TUNED TO THIS 🔔

  • @daisysindiga9212
    @daisysindiga9212 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for the good work pVO

  • @rondedzerodzeupenyu
    @rondedzerodzeupenyu 4 месяца назад

    Thanks Pastor Victoria Orenze

  • @Iamzamar
    @Iamzamar 4 месяца назад

    Listening

  • @luckyboy344
    @luckyboy344 4 месяца назад

    Thanks 🙏 for sharing ma

  • @adebimpedivine6575
    @adebimpedivine6575 4 месяца назад +2

    My bed, ,,my secret place.. My Christ mind about sex
    Holy brand. You need to hear this..
    Weldone Sis Victoria Orenze.
    God bless you ma.

  • @Recreated.james.01
    @Recreated.james.01 4 месяца назад

    ,❤️🔥🔥🔥

  • @hellenrose484
    @hellenrose484 4 месяца назад

    Well said…..

  • @folakemioluduro
    @folakemioluduro 2 месяца назад

    Thank you very much PVO ❤️

  • @preciousperry4033
    @preciousperry4033 4 месяца назад +2

    This is so GOOD and needed!! Can you please biblically speak from a perspective of when you have constantly dealt with infidelity in your marriage and theres no desire and hard for you to have sex with your husband!!!!

  • @RosalindDavidson-cg8pr
    @RosalindDavidson-cg8pr 2 месяца назад

    Love you, Love your story 😊

  • @stanislasngoran3634
    @stanislasngoran3634 4 месяца назад

    Amen❤🙏

  • @KomMartheCarolle-zm2pg
    @KomMartheCarolle-zm2pg 4 месяца назад +2

    The best teaching i ever hear from a beloved child of GOD about sex.
    Thank you so much❤❤❤❤❤❤

    Thruth set free

  • @MekutangaHange-rq5cg
    @MekutangaHange-rq5cg 4 месяца назад

    Amen

  • @user-tz6uy2go6s
    @user-tz6uy2go6s 3 месяца назад

    Indeed its beautiful
    When you invite the spirit of God in the act❤❤😂

  • @ifypros3309
    @ifypros3309 4 месяца назад

    I've actually learnt alot

  • @user-ky5cs4ey9p
    @user-ky5cs4ey9p 4 месяца назад

    Honour the grace upon you

  • @aserwalinda812
    @aserwalinda812 4 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @m.akosuaofosuasefa
    @m.akosuaofosuasefa 4 месяца назад

  • @Aba_Vanessa
    @Aba_Vanessa 4 месяца назад +2

    God Bless You Mama❤️ The world is really schooling us and feeding us wrongly. even us believers because we don’t talk about it. It’s like this information is non existent. As a single woman this is well appreciated, and this is even new information to me, can u Imagine! Thank you and God Bless You for using your platform to talk about this🙏🏽

  • @tonyadavid6604
    @tonyadavid6604 4 месяца назад

    Teach Teacher!!! God created it and it is the optimal best when not perverted, a gift from God that no devil can duplicate.

  • @ckinuthia1713
    @ckinuthia1713 4 месяца назад

    Good morning from Washington

  • @user-ll7hs5rz3m
    @user-ll7hs5rz3m Месяц назад

    thank you Mum

  • @bridgettepetunia5164
    @bridgettepetunia5164 4 месяца назад

    Morning PVO 🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤

  • @ochangokorn
    @ochangokorn 4 месяца назад +1

    Someone please bring me back here, some day even if it's in March 2044, I'm not done yet with this.
    THE ELEPHANT 🐘 IN THE ROOM

  • @olipachapala139
    @olipachapala139 4 месяца назад

    Good evening from Zambia. I love your music cause it takes me to another level spiritually. Am not yet married but am learning a lot here, Marriage is a beautiful thing ❤ but when it comes to others they don't want to explore in there sexual life (married couples) because they say some sexual stiles are demonic. Thank you for the word cause I needed a clarification on this.I have had friends who go through such situations where she does it for the sake of the other . How I wish she was listening to this😢 too.

  • @user-ky5cs4ey9p
    @user-ky5cs4ey9p 4 месяца назад

    Honour the eloquency

  • @olufemiafolabi4793
    @olufemiafolabi4793 4 месяца назад

    Pastor Vicky!!!

  • @Brightside777
    @Brightside777 23 дня назад

    Sex is very important in marriage for health issues and that was revealed to me by God. We need to work all muscles in our body. And certain toxins need to be eliminated from are body. And those areas have veins that need to be circulated right. Even if it sound wrong or crazy, but yess it is important to talk about these things and yess we need to be exercised in all areas.

  • @RMillie04
    @RMillie04 4 месяца назад

    It is accepted by God and approved by Him in the context of marriage only like you said Ma but it’s not something we should classify under holy because as Bible believers,the word holy is mostly synonymous with God and all things in heaven.Bodily fluids especially with discharges were things that God told the Israelites to clean themselves before going to the holy temple to worship.Even now we are made away to avoid sex during fasting when we want to be serious with God.

  • @godismyhelp6359
    @godismyhelp6359 4 месяца назад

    Title of the introductory music

  • @praiseo.3680
    @praiseo.3680 4 месяца назад

    You’ve said nothing wrong, my dear.❤

  • @preciousndou5760
    @preciousndou5760 4 месяца назад

    😂 " the woman is not there" 😂 where is the woman, man?

  • @madoramadora1903
    @madoramadora1903 4 месяца назад +1

    What if you are in a sexless and loveless marriage?

  • @stendo6743
    @stendo6743 4 месяца назад +1

    Sex is type of worship in the concept of marriage … Hearing this coming from a worshiper, heed your ears twice.

  • @preciousndou5760
    @preciousndou5760 4 месяца назад

    Amen woman of God! Lord help us and teach us Holy Spirit as you perpare us for marriage. Educate my future spouse aswell, in Jesus Name.

  • @KGLOVE14
    @KGLOVE14 4 месяца назад

    My husband is beautiful

  • @CheM238
    @CheM238 4 месяца назад +1

    Please oooo I’m asking for a friend in the lord ……..loool
    How does one deal with opposite sex drive In a marriage.
    The wife with extreme low sex drive and husband with high sex drive.

    • @fidelngu
      @fidelngu 4 месяца назад +2

      The woman needs to see her GYN for help (therapy or medications can help). The husband might have increased/abnormal libido and may also need help- he needs to seek help (medications to decrease libido). They need to seek help for further assessment and diagnosis and appropriate help. They don’t have to be miserable.

    • @WilsonMutahi
      @WilsonMutahi 4 месяца назад +1

      The lady with low sex drive also need to eat natural food and fruits that increases her need añd not all medication are solution to low sex drive unless she is older. Thank you God help your friend

    • @nathanaelbartholomew
      @nathanaelbartholomew 4 месяца назад

      Pornography is the culprit. Does she watch porn or has she watched porn before. What happens in the dreams? That's the are of focus.

    • @CheM238
      @CheM238 4 месяца назад

      @@nathanaelbartholomew your ignorance is very shocking…….your response is why Christians run to the world instead of the church for solutions when it comes to the issue of sex……….
      you automatically assumed it’s pornography…without thinking….cud it be relating to mental health (ptsd, depression, anxiety, rape, etc)
      Please do better……