Becoming a hermit not necessarily is to be miserable. Actually is a PERFECT time to think deeply about what happened in the relationship, and how to become a better human for people in general. Going hermit means going deeper into our internal being to accept life the way it is and eventually to move on.
#1 - 1:25 - The glorification of the High Points of the Relationships. #2 - 2:27 - Their fatal flaw is how "stubborn" they are. #3 - 3:23 - Your ex envies your successes. #4 - 4:53 - After a long term relationship with you they can't stop going on the rebound. #5 - 6:19 - A significant increase in their contact with you. #6 - 7:34 - On social media they will be sad and their actions reflect that (note: come on guys, this one is tautological) #7 - 9:08 - Your ex becomes a hermit.
Why only feelings of lack or negative feeling should attract the person back? It´s strange. missing out jealousy, of not going on trips together, jealousy of other stuff anxiety etc I thought if the person is already changed for the better, happy, joyful, loving, caring, spiritual grown-up It is what is needed for a fulfilled relationship on both parts.
If you are sticking to the rules and not watching their social media and not breaking the NC. Then you are not really going to see the signs as much unless you see things on your news feed, or mutual friends tell you what your ex is up to. So in the mean time you can work on yourself and be ready to cultivate a different image of yourself to your ex when you do speak again
@@chrisseitercoaching my ex after 11 month of breakup he unblock me then i saw his sharing a song i fall in love again ang beggin song.. Then something like he miss conversations with someone whi understand everything...
My long distance ex showed up to bring Christmas presents. (6 hour round journey). Thanks to your videos I kept it light and friendly. We laughed a lot. Even got a hug, which he didn’t do. No idea if it’s him wanting us to get back together or not, but it’s a start. Love your videos.
Its ok mine reach out after 5 months on christmas and i notice all those girl and on his friends list that i kinda feel jealous was not there anymore when he reach out on me
Was in love (addictionship) with a narcissist. 2.5 months after I was discarded, I was triggered by an article of hers and slipped and called her. I’ve read several articles about Narcissism and the trauma bond. I miss her like crazy, but I know it is in my best interest to not be with her. I’m human and hate the fact I have these feelings for her. Now I have to start the clock over.
I believe if your ex is truly miserable without you, they would not jump into the next relationship within minutes of leaving you. Now, either they were cheating on you with Ms. Instant-A$$ or they found an ex from the past (i.e., grammar, middle, high school, college) that they know would take him back at the drop of a hat under ANY circumstance.
My ex started a relationship with someone 2 mnths after breakup and now one month after being with her he told me she is moving in with him....to me this sounds like a rebound because he is having financial problems too
I was on limited to no contact with my ex (the dumper) for a week now (we needed to talk about when and how I'd get my stuff back). Suddenly his writing style got super tame, understanding... He admitted to having made mistakes as well, and even ASKED ME IF I WANTED TO STAY FRIENDS!? Which he declined when I asked him before going no contact TWO WEEKS AGO. Now I turned his offer down, and I wonder if that was a mistake from my side now. He even said I could contact him whenever I'm ready. We ended on EXTREMELY bad terms, so I'm confused to the max how one week of limited contract turned his choice of words 180° around. I told him that in cases of personal emergencies he could contact me as well, and that I'm not angry just bc I decided to move on now. He also asked me "if you're not done with me yet, why are you being so distant?". Ahhh the confusion ... Please anyone give me some input!
The thing that happens when someone asks to just be friends is a double edged sword because on one side of the sword you'll be hurting yourself you want them back you want to be with them on the other side it's also going to be allowing them to slowly let go of you so it doesn't hurt them nearly as much if you do no contact it will put the same level of anxiety and stress your and currently but it doesn't work off bat it works over a. Of months where you'll start out highly anxious and start feeling down on yourself because I'm assuming you're the dumpee it hits you like a train while he is completely fine or it seems like he's completely fine breakups are hard on both parties and we both start up on different sides of the spectrum you'll start inching in closer closer to being completely fine into that feeling of freedom and relief and he'll start pulling back into the stress and anxiety I'm not sure if this helps at all but I hope it does I do think that it's a good thing that you told him no to being friends at the same time big and contact and being any other person's life would give you the opportunity to better things down the road
Hey Chris. I got a question! It would be awesome if I could respond to this! If we get actually attracted to ppl who are the opposite of us.. But can't handle them well , n still also search ppl who treats us like our caregiver.. Is it possible than to fall for someone who treats us better than them or will we still hunt for the others n think we love them (these we couldn't handle n maybe just had a crush on but don't wanna loose somehow in some way) ..even though they won't give us wht we actually need? N how can we change this?
So when you have a crush on someone who is wrong for you, eventually you relaise that you don't LOVE them because that bond has not been created more than just physical attraction, so if you were to meet someone who matched you better, you would likely leave the crush for the one who you felt closer to eventually. However, sometimes that crush can develop into something so you may find that you have more in common than you knew and feel satisfied with that connection. If you are with someone and are seeking out another partner, then you are not happy with what your current is able to give you in a relationship
Even with me, Initially she liked and unliked my post, indirectly notifying me that she is available after few months I wished her Christmas and New Year, but recently she started liking my post....what that does mean...should I need to follow her, because she might be following my post indirectly...what signal she is giving me. I am confused...even though I still love her.
I dated guy for 3years we broke up in 2019,I took 8months single I moved on and dated another guy it lasted 2months I was a rebound,then I dated another guy after 3months the relationship was toxic and lasted 5months😣Guys am so damaged I no longer want to date forever all these relationships hurt me so much so much😣and they all happy💔I've been single for 3months now but still mad and hurt at my exs.. guys how can I heal coz I gave up in relationships or love I don't want to try it again.. I'm only 24
You don’t have to date someone to be happy. Instead of dating. Search inward and learn to love yourself, then eventually you will be healthy enough to attract a good and lasting partner,
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Stop dating, actually take the time out to heal. Go find what your interested in, get in touch with old friends. Someone will find you during this time.
After 23 days of radio silence with my ex...my unblocked me 2 days ago and she just posted like ..oneday someone will come but that I won't care ..what doest that mean ,should I respond to her post or continue no contact please help
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My ex broke up with me after 3 years of long distance relationship and I did 60 days no contact and he blocked me every where and after the no contact I was out had some drinks and yaaa I texted him from a different Facebook contact saying hi and he immediately he replied asking how am I doing and how is my leg that got hurt and he was like showing me that he was also watching and spying on me and I went ahead and told him few things show that I was spying on him and later he became so cold which made me decide to tell him that I regret msging him and I blocked him I don’t know what to do I’m so inlove with him but I feel that he was so hot and suddenly he became as cold as ice
Hey JJG so. I can not tell you what to do, if you want the guy back then you have to unblock him so that you have a way of contacting him. To attract someone you need to be present for them to see how well you are doing. I suggest working on emotional control to so that things dont heat up when you do speak so you get upset or angry
Here's my story he hasn't talked to me in about two-and-a-half weeks but on social media for the last week he's been putting relationship memes every single day so to me maybe he's starting to miss me maybe he's going to come back?
If I was his first proper relationship what does that mean would the rebound be more intense even tho he’s a rusher he has no patience to go slow in the relationship that why he ended it with me
Wow! My ex is definitely number 4... 3 rships in over a year but, he always reaches out to me still. Still wants to meet up??? Still tells me all his problems or just keeps ringing and ringing until I pick up the phone. I was with him 14yrs and have children. So yeah, a long rship and he's never had that long. The one he's with now he tells me she isn't his type and too boring for him. I think he could be using her for a roof over his head. He moved in from day 1. Not good really. I'm just confused with it all. Why is he still reaching out to me? Wanting to ring all the time? Can have up to 10 calls within 5-15 minutes per time but he says it's for our children. People tell me it's because he's trying to disrupt your day and wanting to know what you are up to and wanting to listen to your background noise and who your with etc... no way he'd ring all those times just for the kids. What is your view on the matter Chris? Thank you...
Hi Chris, so what if I have no idea wether my ex has got a rebound and he just doesn't reach out anymore? He is also not on Facebook ,Instagram, etc. Basically i have no clue what's going on in his life at the moment (don't really care though currently). The breakup now happened 7 weeks ago.
Hey Jess, so assuming that you have done a NC you can reach out and see what sort of response you get from your ex. Sending a sort of text that I suggest is best as it is a hook to get your ex talking, and make sure you are the one to end the conversation first not your ex
The ex doesn't have multiple rebounds, but he will complain to me about the girl he ultimately cheated on and left me for. It simply sounds like he's miserable (and stubborn)...is this also the case?
Shannon! Do not let him moan to you about the girl he cheated on you with! That is not fair, and also she is irrelevant, change the subject when he brings her up and talk about something fun or exciting, or a memory you shared with him. Have you completed a No Contact yet? Are you working to become Ungettable?
Hi Smile, I think you'll find that the right "your" has been used in this situation... Signs your ex is miserable...correct Signs you're (you are) ex is miserable.... incorrect
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Hey Xentics, you become ungettable by following the information of the Holy Trinity and working to become the best version of yourself, using social media to show all the great things you are doing. And as for being blocked on social media eventually you will be unblocked but your ex will also use mutual friends to spy on you when they get curious
We haven't talked in like a week and when we last talked it wasn't good and now she is sending me a picture of myself saying " you look good in this picture " what's this mean
Hey Tania, all comments need to be read and approved before posting on the website. Keep an eye out for it this week I'm sure Shaunna has replied to you on there
Hello Chris, I'm a subscriber for months already even when we're still together. It's been 1 week and 3 days already since we broke up. The reason I broke up with him is because I feel like he cannot fight for me in terms of his friends, relatives and even his family not liking me. He always told me he loves me and everytime I break up with him regarding the same issue, he won't agree yet he won't bother me at all. So being afraid he'll get tired and find someone new, I kept on doing the first move by saying sorry even when it's not my fault and then we're back together. That's our usual routine and I get tired. This current break up is the longest one. Funny but I really tried not contacting him. I am upset because he told me he really loves me yet he won't still make the first move. Next month is supposed to be our 6th year anniversary as a couple. I just want to know if he still loves me basing on his actions or not. I'm just really confused. Thank you. Sorry for the long rants. 😅
My ex is going through all these signs except the 1st and 5th sign. Yet he won't reach out and he still allows me to manage all his financial and real estate business on his behalf. Still focusing on myself now and I hope that one day he realizes what he has destroyed between us. Still waiting for him to come get his Real Estate Documents and office keys.
hey chris my ex has a habit of blocking me and he blocked me few days back i am trying no contact rule but idk it will work or not . He said he don't wanna be with me
He is not comming online on fb ,last when i msgd something bad he read half and after tht he didnt read entire msg and now he is not comming on fb only since tht day,I was being blocked on whtsapp .I msgd on mob called him once no response.Pls guide me
Hi Anindita, you need to do a no contact, stop reachign out to him as you are just gnatting him and he will end up blocking you on all medias if you continue this way
@@chrisseitercoaching He blocked me today on fb totally as bcos I said to one of his sisters to block me.He said why did i indulge others.Well am upset right now and shocked.He already did so blocked me everywhere its 4 yrs relation anyways after that i bursted thru sms and now am done
But what if he did reach out bc he misses me and had all of those signs and after talking for about 3 weeks he pushed away and is not answering to my message from two weeks ago. He is posting stuff that shows he is sad but if he really misses me he can just simply answer my message.. I don’t get it Tho my last message was a little bit hot I think or caring so maybe that’s why he pushed away
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My ex keeps going from talking about this girl he apparently talks to in past tense to present like. 20 days ago he was almost dating her, the next day she wasn't important and nobody's as important as me, 10 days later he WAS talking to her, the next day he said he's gonna date her and about 20 minutes down the line she again was someone he was talking to like she's not anymore. Wtfffff????????? Although, he says he isnt angry or blaming me but he is angry with me and blames me more than he blames himself. I really dont get it!!!!
Hi Tara, I would say that this is showing he is unsure of how he feels and what he wants. If you have not yet - start your NC period and let him think he is losing you. IF you have completed NC and are starting to text your ex again try to avoid talking about the new girl. You need to act as if you are not bothered about them in your exes life.
point 2 was my ex, then he took me back and we had a bad fight and broke up again...point 3, I have been being serious UG and holy trinity, and today my ex took me off Snapchat, would that relate to this? Point 4, my ex says we were together 1.5 years but I say 4.5 months official from date... a week after a break up he was on Tinder, Does that fall in that point? Point 6, were not firneds on social media anymore, but I know what hes posted due to mutual friends, onece he thought I was crazy, and one he took a stabe about being with a girl and how wish he could hear from certain people, I know both were jabs at me...his status has been quite since... would that fall in the sad? Point 7. im pretty sure hes become a hermit as I know hes not hanging out with friends unless they are going to his place.....
@@chrisseitercoaching Hey Chris, thank you! I am in my NC stage and have been struggling with wanting to know why he wont reach out if he says he loves me like he does..... I found out today that he's been liking all of my brothers posts sept for the ones I am tagged in... would that be a form of soft reach out?
I shouldn't have been so cruel when I dumped the ex beau when I was single and who I loved and wanted to be with, but in the end, after thinking on it after years of being single, I'm glad. I wouldn't have later met the new man in my life who after we dated for over eleven years, is now my only husband. Thank you to the ex for setting me free and letting the Lord lead me to my husband.
I need a reply Chris! I me and my ex have a 2 year old I was emotionally abusive toward her I guess I had too grow up well now she wont even speak too me but we had sex last week? And now shes posting alot of Facebook post about moving on or some shit or even music towards me idk what tot think it's her house shes evicting me
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Hello Dear. I know of a powerful man who can manifest your ex back easily without any delay , he helped me to get back my ex 2 days ago he can bring back your ex without any stress, his name is Dr Frank
Hi Chris ! I broke up with a guy I was about to marry . It's been 3 months now. He use to post a lot and check my posts too. All of a sudden he is gone. Should I consider him to be Moved on or he is in hermit mode? He hasn't blocked me though. I'll be greatful if you replied. Blessings.
focus on self growth, become his best option, I bet you will outgrow him and when he wants another chance with you, you won't even be interested in his emotional mess.
Hey there is a chance he is feeling that way yes, have you been working on yourself in the mean time to be the Ungettable girl that I spoke of in my video? This is very important thing for anyone to do when they want to get an ex back
@@chrisseitercoaching thank you Chris. And yes I am working on myself. It just bothers me sometimes , loosing him. I don't want him back I just miss him. And only cause I miss him is not a good enough reason to want him back. He put me through a lot. Imagine calling off the wedding. But I did for the greater good.
Becoming a hermit not necessarily is to be miserable. Actually is a PERFECT time to think deeply about what happened in the relationship, and how to become a better human for people in general. Going hermit means going deeper into our internal being to accept life the way it is and eventually to move on.
#1 - 1:25 - The glorification of the High Points of the Relationships.
#2 - 2:27 - Their fatal flaw is how "stubborn" they are.
#3 - 3:23 - Your ex envies your successes.
#4 - 4:53 - After a long term relationship with you they can't stop going on the rebound.
#5 - 6:19 - A significant increase in their contact with you.
#6 - 7:34 - On social media they will be sad and their actions reflect that (note: come on guys, this one is tautological)
#7 - 9:08 - Your ex becomes a hermit.
Thanks 🌟
Why only feelings of lack or negative feeling should attract the person back?
It´s strange.
missing out jealousy, of not going on trips together, jealousy of other stuff
anxiety etc
I thought if the person is already changed for the better, happy, joyful, loving, caring, spiritual grown-up
It is what is needed for a fulfilled relationship on both parts.
But how do you know these if there is zero contact???
If you are sticking to the rules and not watching their social media and not breaking the NC. Then you are not really going to see the signs as much unless you see things on your news feed, or mutual friends tell you what your ex is up to. So in the mean time you can work on yourself and be ready to cultivate a different image of yourself to your ex when you do speak again
@@chrisseitercoaching my ex after 11 month of breakup he unblock me then i saw his sharing a song i fall in love again ang beggin song.. Then something like he miss conversations with someone whi understand everything...
My long distance ex showed up to bring Christmas presents. (6 hour round journey). Thanks to your videos I kept it light and friendly. We laughed a lot. Even got a hug, which he didn’t do. No idea if it’s him wanting us to get back together or not, but it’s a start. Love your videos.
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wow. i cant relate. my ex doesn't care eventho he seems sad but he isn't reaching out to me :')
Update?
Its ok mine reach out after 5 months on christmas and i notice all those girl and on his friends list that i kinda feel jealous was not there anymore when he reach out on me
Was in love (addictionship) with a narcissist. 2.5 months after I was discarded, I was triggered by an article of hers and slipped and called her. I’ve read several articles about Narcissism and the trauma bond. I miss her like crazy, but I know it is in my best interest to not be with her. I’m human and hate the fact I have these feelings for her. Now I have to start the clock over.
Stay strong, Ive almost slipped a couple of times. Had to call older females to get their wisdom and each one told me not to contact them period!
we had a 30 yr history...the last 10 long distance emotional affair, he sent me a photo he looks sad and has lost weight
I believe if your ex is truly miserable without you, they would not jump into the next relationship within minutes of leaving you. Now, either they were cheating on you with Ms. Instant-A$$ or they found an ex from the past (i.e., grammar, middle, high school, college) that they know would take him back at the drop of a hat under ANY circumstance.
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My confirmation. 🤷🏽♀😌 . he's my past not my future.
But if someone only wants you because you’re ungettable, then when they do actually get you won’t they just stop wanting you?
Layla. Eric Clapton got Patti Boyd from George Harrison and it didn’t last.
See mines knows how to say “I love you” “ I miss you” but don’t know how to say he wants me back😂
My ex started a relationship with someone 2 mnths after breakup and now one month after being with her he told me she is moving in with him....to me this sounds like a rebound because he is having financial problems too
That’s why she’s moving in
Why would her new man be telling you that ?
@@paulmiller3257 my thoughts exactly
Wow...Chris ..great signs....pleased to hear from you...❤️❤️
Very welcome :)
What if he sends you a friend request on Facebook but isn’t messaging or liking or commenting on anything ?!
I was on limited to no contact with my ex (the dumper) for a week now (we needed to talk about when and how I'd get my stuff back). Suddenly his writing style got super tame, understanding... He admitted to having made mistakes as well, and even ASKED ME IF I WANTED TO STAY FRIENDS!? Which he declined when I asked him before going no contact TWO WEEKS AGO. Now I turned his offer down, and I wonder if that was a mistake from my side now. He even said I could contact him whenever I'm ready. We ended on EXTREMELY bad terms, so I'm confused to the max how one week of limited contract turned his choice of words 180° around. I told him that in cases of personal emergencies he could contact me as well, and that I'm not angry just bc I decided to move on now. He also asked me "if you're not done with me yet, why are you being so distant?". Ahhh the confusion ... Please anyone give me some input!
The thing that happens when someone asks to just be friends is a double edged sword because on one side of the sword you'll be hurting yourself you want them back you want to be with them on the other side it's also going to be allowing them to slowly let go of you so it doesn't hurt them nearly as much if you do no contact it will put the same level of anxiety and stress your and currently but it doesn't work off bat it works over a. Of months where you'll start out highly anxious and start feeling down on yourself because I'm assuming you're the dumpee it hits you like a train while he is completely fine or it seems like he's completely fine breakups are hard on both parties and we both start up on different sides of the spectrum you'll start inching in closer closer to being completely fine into that feeling of freedom and relief and he'll start pulling back into the stress and anxiety I'm not sure if this helps at all but I hope it does I do think that it's a good thing that you told him no to being friends at the same time big and contact and being any other person's life would give you the opportunity to better things down the road
He remarried but continued to speak bad about me and tell lies
Hey Chris. I got a question! It would be awesome if I could respond to this!
If we get actually attracted to ppl who are the opposite of us.. But can't handle them well , n still also search ppl who treats us like our caregiver.. Is it possible than to fall for someone who treats us better than them or will we still hunt for the others n think we love them (these we couldn't handle n maybe just had a crush on but don't wanna loose somehow in some way) ..even though they won't give us wht we actually need?
N how can we change this?
So when you have a crush on someone who is wrong for you, eventually you relaise that you don't LOVE them because that bond has not been created more than just physical attraction, so if you were to meet someone who matched you better, you would likely leave the crush for the one who you felt closer to eventually. However, sometimes that crush can develop into something so you may find that you have more in common than you knew and feel satisfied with that connection. If you are with someone and are seeking out another partner, then you are not happy with what your current is able to give you in a relationship
Even with me, Initially she liked and unliked my post, indirectly notifying me that she is available after few months I wished her Christmas and New Year, but recently she started liking my post....what that does mean...should I need to follow her, because she might be following my post indirectly...what signal she is giving me. I am confused...even though I still love her.
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My ex posting so much on social media about break up ,like dont insist and wait for the right person, ,what does it mean ?
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I dated guy for 3years we broke up in 2019,I took 8months single I moved on and dated another guy it lasted 2months I was a rebound,then I dated another guy after 3months the relationship was toxic and lasted 5months😣Guys am so damaged I no longer want to date forever all these relationships hurt me so much so much😣and they all happy💔I've been single for 3months now but still mad and hurt at my exs.. guys how can I heal coz I gave up in relationships or love I don't want to try it again.. I'm only 24
You don’t have to date someone to be happy. Instead of dating. Search inward and learn to love yourself, then eventually you will be healthy enough to attract a good and lasting partner,
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Stop dating, actually take the time out to heal. Go find what your interested in, get in touch with old friends. Someone will find you during this time.
After 23 days of radio silence with my ex...my unblocked me 2 days ago and she just posted like ..oneday someone will come but that I won't care ..what doest that mean ,should I respond to her post or continue no contact please help
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I don't think he is miserable just lonely in that case that's his problem
My ex broke up with me after 3 years of long distance relationship and I did 60 days no contact and he blocked me every where and after the no contact I was out had some drinks and yaaa I texted him from a different Facebook contact saying hi and he immediately he replied asking how am I doing and how is my leg that got hurt and he was like showing me that he was also watching and spying on me and I went ahead and told him few things show that I was spying on him and later he became so cold which made me decide to tell him that I regret msging him and I blocked him I don’t know what to do I’m so inlove with him but I feel that he was so hot and suddenly he became as cold as ice
Hey JJG so. I can not tell you what to do, if you want the guy back then you have to unblock him so that you have a way of contacting him. To attract someone you need to be present for them to see how well you are doing. I suggest working on emotional control to so that things dont heat up when you do speak so you get upset or angry
Here's my story he hasn't talked to me in about two-and-a-half weeks but on social media for the last week he's been putting relationship memes every single day so to me maybe he's starting to miss me maybe he's going to come back?
He told me his life is boring not much going on and he is alone. I told him what am I your entertainment committee.
Good response!
If I was his first proper relationship what does that mean would the rebound be more intense even tho he’s a rusher he has no patience to go slow in the relationship that why he ended it with me
Wow! My ex is definitely number 4... 3 rships in over a year but, he always reaches out to me still. Still wants to meet up??? Still tells me all his problems or just keeps ringing and ringing until I pick up the phone.
I was with him 14yrs and have children. So yeah, a long rship and he's never had that long. The one he's with now he tells me she isn't his type and too boring for him. I think he could be using her for a roof over his head. He moved in from day 1. Not good really.
I'm just confused with it all. Why is he still reaching out to me? Wanting to ring all the time? Can have up to 10 calls within 5-15 minutes per time but he says it's for our children.
People tell me it's because he's trying to disrupt your day and wanting to know what you are up to and wanting to listen to your background noise and who your with etc... no way he'd ring all those times just for the kids.
What is your view on the matter Chris?
Thank you...
My ex does not having my number I was very calculating when I made my exit....... bye bye!
Hi Chris, so what if I have no idea wether my ex has got a rebound and he just doesn't reach out anymore? He is also not on Facebook ,Instagram, etc. Basically i have no clue what's going on in his life at the moment (don't really care though currently). The breakup now happened 7 weeks ago.
Hey Jess, so assuming that you have done a NC you can reach out and see what sort of response you get from your ex. Sending a sort of text that I suggest is best as it is a hook to get your ex talking, and make sure you are the one to end the conversation first not your ex
@@chrisseitercoaching hi Chris, Well thanks but I am still in no contact at day 12 at the moment.
The ex doesn't have multiple rebounds, but he will complain to me about the girl he ultimately cheated on and left me for. It simply sounds like he's miserable (and stubborn)...is this also the case?
Shannon! Do not let him moan to you about the girl he cheated on you with! That is not fair, and also she is irrelevant, change the subject when he brings her up and talk about something fun or exciting, or a memory you shared with him. Have you completed a No Contact yet? Are you working to become Ungettable?
I want to believe this badly but you used your instead of you're and now I don't know what to believe. 😢
Hi Smile, I think you'll find that the right "your" has been used in this situation...
Signs your ex is miserable...correct
Signs you're (you are) ex is miserable.... incorrect
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Does this video count after 10 years Together and going on three years of separation
Of course!
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I know this video is from a while ago and you might not see my comment, but how do I become “ungettable” if they’ve blocked me on social media?
Hey Xentics, you become ungettable by following the information of the Holy Trinity and working to become the best version of yourself, using social media to show all the great things you are doing. And as for being blocked on social media eventually you will be unblocked but your ex will also use mutual friends to spy on you when they get curious
We haven't talked in like a week and when we last talked it wasn't good and now she is sending me a picture of myself saying " you look good in this picture " what's this mean
It shows she is looking at your social media and an attempt to speak to you.
I reached by a comment on a blogpost on your site. But it did not get posted when i hit submit. I did this twice. Not sure if you could see it.
Hey Tania, all comments need to be read and approved before posting on the website. Keep an eye out for it this week I'm sure Shaunna has replied to you on there
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Hello Chris, I'm a subscriber for months already even when we're still together. It's been 1 week and 3 days already since we broke up. The reason I broke up with him is because I feel like he cannot fight for me in terms of his friends, relatives and even his family not liking me. He always told me he loves me and everytime I break up with him regarding the same issue, he won't agree yet he won't bother me at all. So being afraid he'll get tired and find someone new, I kept on doing the first move by saying sorry even when it's not my fault and then we're back together. That's our usual routine and I get tired. This current break up is the longest one. Funny but I really tried not contacting him. I am upset because he told me he really loves me yet he won't still make the first move. Next month is supposed to be our 6th year anniversary as a couple. I just want to know if he still loves me basing on his actions or not. I'm just really confused. Thank you. Sorry for the long rants. 😅
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My ex is going through all these signs except the 1st and 5th sign. Yet he won't reach out and he still allows me to manage all his financial and real estate business on his behalf. Still focusing on myself now and I hope that one day he realizes what he has destroyed between us. Still waiting for him to come get his Real Estate Documents and office keys.
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hey chris my ex has a habit of blocking me and he blocked me few days back i am trying no contact rule but idk it will work or not . He said he don't wanna be with me
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My ex-girlfriend stayed with her parents and sometimes with her bff gurly ish group after we brokeup 💔❤🩹 and she still hates me
He is not comming online on fb ,last when i msgd something bad he read half and after tht he didnt read entire msg and now he is not comming on fb only since tht day,I was being blocked on whtsapp .I msgd on mob called him once no response.Pls guide me
Hi Anindita, you need to do a no contact, stop reachign out to him as you are just gnatting him and he will end up blocking you on all medias if you continue this way
@@chrisseitercoaching He blocked me today on fb totally as bcos I said to one of his sisters to block me.He said why did i indulge others.Well am upset right now and shocked.He already did so blocked me everywhere its 4 yrs relation anyways after that i bursted thru sms and now am done
But what if he did reach out bc he misses me and had all of those signs and after talking for about 3 weeks he pushed away and is not answering to my message from two weeks ago. He is posting stuff that shows he is sad but if he really misses me he can just simply answer my message.. I don’t get it
Tho my last message was a little bit hot I think or caring so maybe that’s why he pushed away
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My ex keeps going from talking about this girl he apparently talks to in past tense to present like. 20 days ago he was almost dating her, the next day she wasn't important and nobody's as important as me, 10 days later he WAS talking to her, the next day he said he's gonna date her and about 20 minutes down the line she again was someone he was talking to like she's not anymore. Wtfffff????????? Although, he says he isnt angry or blaming me but he is angry with me and blames me more than he blames himself. I really dont get it!!!!
Hi Tara, I would say that this is showing he is unsure of how he feels and what he wants. If you have not yet - start your NC period and let him think he is losing you. IF you have completed NC and are starting to text your ex again try to avoid talking about the new girl. You need to act as if you are not bothered about them in your exes life.
point 2 was my ex, then he took me back and we had a bad fight and broke up again...point 3, I have been being serious UG and holy trinity, and today my ex took me off Snapchat, would that relate to this? Point 4, my ex says we were together 1.5 years but I say 4.5 months official from date... a week after a break up he was on Tinder, Does that fall in that point? Point 6, were not firneds on social media anymore, but I know what hes posted due to mutual friends, onece he thought I was crazy, and one he took a stabe about being with a girl and how wish he could hear from certain people, I know both were jabs at me...his status has been quite since... would that fall in the sad? Point 7. im pretty sure hes become a hermit as I know hes not hanging out with friends unless they are going to his place.....
Hey Jody, yes these all seem like whats been going on here. If you want your ex back I think giving that you do the work needed you have a good shot
@@chrisseitercoaching Hey Chris, thank you! I am in my NC stage and have been struggling with wanting to know why he wont reach out if he says he loves me like he does..... I found out today that he's been liking all of my brothers posts sept for the ones I am tagged in... would that be a form of soft reach out?
and other pictures of things.
Just what is happening between me and my ex
Take not and make sure you are working on yourself to be the better version of yourself at the end of this break up and pain
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There's people that still talk to their exes???!!
Yes and that's because we are still in love with them 😂 not because of anything else
You’ll never move on and heal
Staying in contact with an ex
I shouldn't have been so cruel when I dumped the ex beau when I was single and who I loved and wanted to be with, but in the end, after thinking on it after years of being single, I'm glad. I wouldn't have later met the new man in my life who after we dated for over eleven years, is now my only husband. Thank you to the ex for setting me free and letting the Lord lead me to my husband.
He contacted me on Fb msg 🙄 to wish me merry Christmas 🎄🎁 than asking if was with my husband ☺️ lol what a stalker...
He is still in love with you definitely.
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I need a reply Chris! I me and my ex have a 2 year old I was emotionally abusive toward her I guess I had too grow up well now she wont even speak too me but we had sex last week? And now shes posting alot of Facebook post about moving on or some shit or even music towards me idk what tot think it's her house shes evicting me
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She is doing it to draw your attention and she still love you very much
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This is stupid! Why would you be in contact still? If you're still talking it's a fake breakup
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Hey Chris. I wrote a thorough comment on your “will I ever hear from my ex again?” Video . If u could jus please check it out.
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Do you still intend getting your ex back?
Hi Chris ! I broke up with a guy I was about to marry . It's been 3 months now. He use to post a lot and check my posts too. All of a sudden he is gone. Should I consider him to be Moved on or he is in hermit mode? He hasn't blocked me though. I'll be greatful if you replied. Blessings.
focus on self growth, become his best option, I bet you will outgrow him and when he wants another chance with you, you won't even be interested in his emotional mess.
Hey there is a chance he is feeling that way yes, have you been working on yourself in the mean time to be the Ungettable girl that I spoke of in my video? This is very important thing for anyone to do when they want to get an ex back
@@chrisseitercoaching thank you Chris. And yes I am working on myself. It just bothers me sometimes , loosing him. I don't want him back I just miss him. And only cause I miss him is not a good enough reason to want him back. He put me through a lot. Imagine calling off the wedding. But I did for the greater good.
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