I Tried 911 Dispatch

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @MichelleKhare
    @MichelleKhare  2 года назад +16048

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  • @j5m1v8g
    @j5m1v8g 2 года назад +10295

    “Sometimes we are the last voice a person hears.”
    And the sound of that person’s final breath never leaves us.

    • @Rc_Sounds
      @Rc_Sounds 2 года назад

      🥲

    • @iTox1cc
      @iTox1cc 2 года назад +18

      Ok

    • @j5m1v8g
      @j5m1v8g 2 года назад +167

      @@iTox1cc Ok.

    • @MatHatMr
      @MatHatMr 2 года назад +9

      Rip

    • @A_Bag_of_Potatoes
      @A_Bag_of_Potatoes 2 года назад +146

      @@j5m1v8g It's arguably one of the most difficult jobs in the world with the toll it takes on them mentally. I wish the government would recognize this and appreciate the reality of being 911 emergency dispatch and gave the resources needed to help these people especially when it comes to mental health. They experience a near identical rate of PTSD to first responders and suicidal idealization more than doubled the rate of the general population it's 1 in 10 dispatchers and it is probably higher because the stigma behind admitting your mental health in dispatch not to mention the depression rates. The guy in the video is wrong about receptionists, 911 dispatch is classified as office personnel under emergency dispatchers. There was a push by a group in 2021 for a federal bill to give equal treatment benefits wise between emergency dispatchers & emergency responders I'm sure that is what he was referencing I'm pretty sure that bill failed, state & federal governments doesn't want to give these benefits because financial spending and certain politicians generally being corrupt greedy inhuman husks. Some state governments have given equal status, surprisingly Texas is one of those states Greg Abbott rarely becomes a human being sometimes.

  • @AustenAlexander
    @AustenAlexander 2 года назад +23430

    I came here for 911 dispatch and left knowing how to deliver a baby…I needed this

  • @katiemarroquin1721
    @katiemarroquin1721 2 года назад +32215

    when he said "sometimes we are the last voice a person hears" it really changed my prespective on what they do and how crazy it can be. thank you 911 dispatchers !

    • @emilystokes0413
      @emilystokes0413 2 года назад +633

      My mom is one and it is a very tough job especially when kids don’t make it through the situation. It’s crazy hearing what she has to hear and go through. Dispatchers are very under appreciated by the government and it’s so sad to hear because they are really the ones saving people by making the right decisions and staying calm.

    • @Ramstein5298
      @Ramstein5298 2 года назад +266

      Had a coworker last week talking to someone in a crash and that car was hit by another car. My coworker was the last voice that caller heard. And that's just one call in a night.

    • @german_countryball3495
      @german_countryball3495 2 года назад +52

      My soul was in pain from it

    • @okayy8226
      @okayy8226 2 года назад +54

      I don’t know how they do it they are so brave!

    • @Breadlol44646
      @Breadlol44646 2 года назад +4

      Why would you say that

  • @WhoaMonstuh
    @WhoaMonstuh Год назад +1599

    I passed the pre-employment test and I am interviewing for this job tomorrow. This video really shows how incredible these people are and I truly hope to be the one who helps people on their worst day!

    • @safcjcp
      @safcjcp Год назад +32

      I hope it went well

    • @AutumnKatto
      @AutumnKatto Год назад +28

      Any news on how it went? If you don’t mind me asking ofc

    • @TheNeonOption
      @TheNeonOption 10 месяцев назад +16

      I wanna know too!
      @@AutumnKatto

    • @lilicorne_official
      @lilicorne_official 10 месяцев назад +6

      How did it went :)

    • @roxymae8768
      @roxymae8768 9 месяцев назад +3

      Are you working as a dispatcher currently? How difficult is the job itself on a scale of 1 to 10?

  • @original_davidjoe8062
    @original_davidjoe8062 2 года назад +16157

    My mom was a dispatching, she would come home crying some nights because of the stories they hear and the things she went through. One night we went to a awards ceremony and she had saved over 15 lives in her time working there for 3 years, and she had found 4 missing people. My mom is a hardworking woman, and I'm so proud of her!

  • @hammerlane3871
    @hammerlane3871 2 года назад +8145

    As a firefighter, the dispatchers are the true lifeline. They're the first voice that a caller hears and they are the ones dealing with the worst moments of somebody's life, we've got a big respect for the dispatchers

    • @k.oseiagyarko4608
      @k.oseiagyarko4608 2 года назад +11

      What fire department?

    • @mayciefreeman5012
      @mayciefreeman5012 2 года назад +12

      I love to hear that❤️

    • @evaaa6178
      @evaaa6178 2 года назад +19

      @@kingchubbythe1541 well, even if they're homelles, it doesn't mean they're not that important. if it wasn't for really dumb reason, then I think the dispatchers are the life savers too.

    • @mastercyclisttv8486
      @mastercyclisttv8486 2 года назад +3

      @@evaaa6178 amen to that.

    • @grumpymilkshake_5167
      @grumpymilkshake_5167 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for your service! 😃

  • @michelleheegaard
    @michelleheegaard 2 года назад +3564

    These people are def not just receptionist. The amount of distress people can be in when they call 911 and they sit there listening in on people's worst moments and try to guide them through it until help arrives. Mad respect

    • @NaeNaeFuller
      @NaeNaeFuller 2 года назад +50

      @DANK a receptionist answers calls. these people answers real life emergencies, sometimes life or death, and help people get through maybe the toughest moments they’ll ever have to go through.

    • @Helljumper7200
      @Helljumper7200 2 года назад +1

      @@NaeNaeFuller I used to be a receptionist, I had one lady come telling

    • @espinoza1987
      @espinoza1987 2 года назад +16

      @DANK what similarities do they have besides answering calls?? Bc their calls are different. Go ahead since you know.

    • @delotrium6207
      @delotrium6207 2 года назад +1

      @@espinoza1987By definition a Receptionist is a "person employed to receive and assist callers and clients" which is kinda what 911 Operators do right?

    • @Jesstabulous
      @Jesstabulous 2 года назад +25

      @@delotrium6207 I highly suggest a ride along with your local 911 PSAP center. You can choose technical terminology and definitions all day but I can guarantee you that if you needed to call 911 for yourself or for your family you wouldn’t want a normal “receptionist” to answer your 911 call.
      A 911 Dispatcher does significantly more than just answer a phone call and what this video shows was just a small potion of that. A 911 Dispatcher goes through anywhere from 6-14 MONTHS of monitored training (not including specific ongoing yearly training and education from topics to domestic violence and bomb threats and so much in between), nothing like what say a dental office receptionist would do in a day.
      I challenge any regular receptionist to stay calm while listening to someone shoot themselves or someone else over the line, listening to a open line with a violent rape in progress while trying to locate an address to send help, or listen to a child’s last breath on the line while parents desperately try to revive them with CPR.
      California recognizes 911 Dispatchers officially as first responders along with police, medical, and fire responders. 911 Dispatchers can work up to 15 hours or more a day because of that classification.
      You don’t want a 911 Dispatcher that thinks the job is “just answering a phone” or “I am just a receptionist” answering YOUR 911 life and death emergency call.

  • @mandmhaunts
    @mandmhaunts Год назад +1220

    my mom is a dispatcher, she’s come home in tears multiple times because of things she’s heard on her shifts

    • @MoodyBluesRequiem80
      @MoodyBluesRequiem80 7 месяцев назад +24

      Stay strong, wish y'all best! 🥺🖤

    • @violetiscooi3346
      @violetiscooi3346 6 месяцев назад +29

      tell your mom that i appreciate what she has done for us and that she is saving lives and doing so amazing!!!!

    • @TheRealMysteryStudiosYT
      @TheRealMysteryStudiosYT 4 месяца назад +5

      @@MoodyBluesRequiem80fr

    • @alenaadamkova7617
      @alenaadamkova7617 4 месяца назад +4

      Dr Joe Dispenza channel is inspiriung to deal with stress or illness anxiety.. he teaches meditation and metacognition.

    • @PrismaticPlays
      @PrismaticPlays 4 месяца назад +2

      Tell your mom that you copied this commnet

  • @k3upikachu
    @k3upikachu 2 года назад +6049

    I like how proud they are of their jobs. They're doing hard work that's probably stressful and sometimes traumatizing, but they know how important it is and seem so professional even in situations where most people would panic

    • @MichelleKhare
      @MichelleKhare  2 года назад +654

      911 Dispatchers are truly incredible.

    • @HOT_HAND_CARDS59
      @HOT_HAND_CARDS59 2 года назад +13

      Second

    • @mastercyclisttv8486
      @mastercyclisttv8486 2 года назад +14

      @@MichelleKhare You can say that again.

    • @whatbenanimated79
      @whatbenanimated79 2 года назад +13

      I love this comment. We need more of these kind of people.

    • @lzxty6024
      @lzxty6024 2 года назад +21

      I heard the 911 call of a woman who’s house was broke into, and in the call you could hear the person eventually rape her, and then at one point the woman stopped screaming as she was I believe stabbed to death. It was so hard to listen to…

  • @miguelcarneiro8074
    @miguelcarneiro8074 Год назад +2533

    I broke into tears when he said "sometimes we are the last voice that person ever hears". So much respect for these incredible individuals

    • @JesusChristWon
      @JesusChristWon Год назад +9

      Jesus loves you sm!!!!

    • @KakaBawls
      @KakaBawls Год назад +9

      @@JesusChristWonIm Muslim but I hope you had a good year the year is almost ending😙

    • @JesusChristWon
      @JesusChristWon Год назад +2

      @@KakaBawls I hope you have a great day too!!! I respect your religion completely and sorry if it sounds like I’m disrespecting it, but Jesus did preform real miracles that were impossible without Gods help, He also claimed to be the son of God, don’t you think God would have took away His powers if He “wasn’t” the son of God? Again I’m not disrespecting!

    • @ohhmangos
      @ohhmangos Год назад +18

      The fact that he has probably heard those people die on the phone makes me want to burst into tears. Truly the world's strongest.

    • @gretchenslusser2258
      @gretchenslusser2258 Год назад

      hi

  • @daniellebuilds
    @daniellebuilds 2 года назад +12589

    “I’m so sorry to bother you”, that was so sad. No one should feel guilty for asking for help 🥺

    • @missmysterious13
      @missmysterious13 2 года назад +643

      A lot of elderly people are. It really is sad. We have to reassure them all the time.

    • @crystall9522
      @crystall9522 2 года назад +319

      I'm in EMS and a lot of people apologize for calling us out. Especially if they end up deciding not to go to the hospital. But it isn't really necessary. That's what our job is.

    • @Marika50
      @Marika50 2 года назад +152

      Lot of elderly people really don't like bothering others, even if they actually need help.

    • @joylaw237
      @joylaw237 2 года назад +103

      Yeah I called last year for a bad stomach ache and a fever. After I hung up, my stomach ache went away (I think from all the adrenaline when I made the call). When the ambulance showed up I kept apologizing cause I thought I called them for no reason. I ended up having my appendix removed the next day. So glad I called. They're there for a reason.

    • @daemynion
      @daemynion 2 года назад +21

      I live in Belgium and at two occasions I need to manage once with Police sended by 112 (911in Europe).
      I told the officers that I was sorry to bother them for nothing.
      They answered me that they prefer to move for nothing instead of a real incident.
      Second time, after trying other solutions, I had to finally call 112.
      And even if I knew their job, I could not stop myself to start my call with "I'm sorry [to have to call you] (...)".
      No matter the country, you're never proud when you call them.
      Even if you know, most of the time you won't be able to stop yourself to start with "I'm sorry (...)".
      And you're going to repeat yourself to the responders that you're sorry. A lot.

  • @OfficialMeep
    @OfficialMeep 10 месяцев назад +178

    As someone who called emergency services 2days ago this is mind blowing even tho my call was nothing serious just car broke down and I spilled a lot of oil, but when I look back and I didin't know address where I was, I just explained surrounding and rough location and women on the call find out where I was in seconds, just mind blowing and fire truck came in under 2minutes.

  • @amazingwinner5002
    @amazingwinner5002 2 года назад +3439

    those few seconds between her saying " is the baby crying " and then complete silence is probably the most stress full seconds in my life and im just sitting on my bed with some Cheetos. The fact that this scenario , this FAKE scenario brought you to tears is incredible

    • @CrypticSnow
      @CrypticSnow 2 года назад +82

      Yea I was on the edge of my seat. I wasn't sure what my reaction would be if the baby wasn't breathing/crying.

    • @random_kid_on_youtube
      @random_kid_on_youtube 2 года назад +47

      Wait that wasn't a real call?????

    • @chewby9748
      @chewby9748 2 года назад +250

      @@random_kid_on_youtube the police legit said that we have some actors there is no way they would let her do it as they said any call can happen so letting her be there is a big risk and can be really bad so taking a chance to maybe have someone's life at risk just for a youtube video is dumb

    • @random_kid_on_youtube
      @random_kid_on_youtube 2 года назад +63

      @@chewby9748 Yeah I was thinking the same that how they really allowed her to do this after just few hours of training. But I really missed that part where they said it so I was quite confused, because everything felt so real.
      Thanks for explaining😊

    • @chewby9748
      @chewby9748 2 года назад +8

      @@random_kid_on_youtube np :D

  • @lolapup159
    @lolapup159 2 года назад +3352

    I love how seriously she takes these trainings. As a nurse, her paramedic one had me in tears. She shows the world how truly taxing these professions are.

    • @TheGoldenDuckies
      @TheGoldenDuckies 2 года назад +8

      this is my kingdom come
      this is my kingdom come

    • @davidarvingumazon5024
      @davidarvingumazon5024 Год назад

      911 is about Twin Tower

    • @Hattingt0n
      @Hattingt0n Год назад

      @@davidarvingumazon5024what in the actual [bleep] is wrong with you they only call it that because idk

    • @tazepatates4805
      @tazepatates4805 Год назад

      @@Hattingt0n tower go boom

    • @shawnmierczynski9830
      @shawnmierczynski9830 9 месяцев назад +1

      From the son of a former firefighter medic thank you for what you do I know you rarely hear that

  • @paigemadii3841
    @paigemadii3841 2 года назад +6954

    When the lady that fell on her knee and elbow said, “sorry to bother you.” It broke my heart, I’m glad the dispatcher made her feel calm and everything! ❤️

    • @baxtercol
      @baxtercol 2 года назад +104

      I have cerebral palsy and I have fallen many times. It's because of 911 dispatchers that I can live independently. They are the everyday unsung heroes who don't ever consider a call a bother, no matter its content. Because this is such a heavy topic and thread, I offer a bit of light humor. This is a true story: When I first moved to Florida from NYC where there are no snakes as far as I know, I saw a long black snake crawling towards me and my home. In a city girl panic, I called 911. Instead of laughing at me, they told me to call Animal Control and they gave me the number. When I described the snake not knowing whether it was poisonous or not, they took me seriously and we all had a chuckle when we ascertained it was a harmless garden snake that would be a welcome visitor because it would eat household pests. God bless all First Responders and keep them healthy and safe and God bless everyone they help.

    • @itz_kior6557
      @itz_kior6557 2 года назад +40

      Same! When she said that, I was so sad because she really needed help however, she still said sorry to brother you. Noooo, your emergency is just as important as everyone's else!

    • @superman2j3
      @superman2j3 2 года назад +3

      Tears

    • @ryanbaer7533
      @ryanbaer7533 2 года назад +2

      😭😭😭 I know right

    • @adamridza977
      @adamridza977 2 года назад

      dawdwa

  • @tatheldore
    @tatheldore 10 месяцев назад +64

    As soon as i heard and saw Michelle starting to tear up I was like trying to hold back my tears, being a 911 dispatcher is such a beautiful but also a hard job.

  • @bookwrm4evr
    @bookwrm4evr 2 года назад +6607

    "Just a receptionist" is quite an understatement for 911 dispatchers.

    • @bingletoncoochiesmith9138
      @bingletoncoochiesmith9138 2 года назад +16

      Police receptionist

    • @RonDeSantis2028
      @RonDeSantis2028 2 года назад +136

      @@bingletoncoochiesmith9138 You’re 10 if that’s what you think

    • @bingletoncoochiesmith9138
      @bingletoncoochiesmith9138 2 года назад +7

      @@RonDeSantis2028 perchance

    • @sbutler373
      @sbutler373 2 года назад +112

      I mean, they're *literally* THE first responder.

    • @kesseret
      @kesseret 2 года назад +53

      That's what we are classified as. Secretaries. It's ridiculous.

  • @Glorfindel_117
    @Glorfindel_117 2 года назад +1960

    im actually very happy they didnt let you do a real call. It's great you could do real stuff with the fire department and EMS and everything, but it makes me glad to know that the dispatchers understand just how important the brief time they have is. Being a paramedic means you still had other real medics with you, but any wasted time on a call could mean a death. So, massive respect to the office you went to for giving you this experience while respecting the gravity of their jobs. Thanks for doing this Michelle.

    • @juanna8822
      @juanna8822 2 года назад +25

      Was the call she did with the baby not real?

    • @annythekettle7031
      @annythekettle7031 2 года назад +243

      @@juanna8822 It wasn't, they said it was an actor speaking.

    • @panicking5190
      @panicking5190 2 года назад +29

      I'm also a medic. You know not everyone is cut out for this line of work. I have my favorite dispatchers. They are just better than others. I'm sure you already know this though 😉.

    • @confustled
      @confustled 2 года назад +118

      @@juanna8822 if it was real, there would definitely be a lot more screaming in the background lol

    • @wuanthecat617
      @wuanthecat617 2 года назад +20

      yea i was worried when i saw the title that she would be doing real calls

  • @TravelsofSarahFay
    @TravelsofSarahFay 2 года назад +17546

    Such an important story to tell. This must be such a stressful job.

    • @whatbenanimated79
      @whatbenanimated79 2 года назад +65

      No kidding. Thankful for these people

    • @Miss.Elaineous
      @Miss.Elaineous 2 года назад +36

      It can be, but it also can be extremely rewarding. 💙

    • @Jay-wo9vk
      @Jay-wo9vk 2 года назад +32

      It's massively stressful. Do you like marinating in your own adrenaline for the better part of a 8-12 hr day? Then, dispatch is for you!

    • @krystalpen4542
      @krystalpen4542 2 года назад +17

      It can be for sure. But some days it’s just second nature. Really depends on what kind of day it is and if there’s a full moon 😂

    • @Mini-n6l
      @Mini-n6l 2 года назад +12

      Their work is overlooked and undervalued.

  • @pairsquinn5251
    @pairsquinn5251 9 месяцев назад +247

    12:39 “do I push the baby back in or-“
    BOIIII DO YOU NOT WANT YOUR BABY 💀

    • @kaitax1
      @kaitax1 4 месяца назад +14

      he didn’t know

    • @abdulquddustalukder4752
      @abdulquddustalukder4752 4 месяца назад +24

      Bro wanted to go get milk before the child even poked her head out 💀💀💀

    • @Danz-Man
      @Danz-Man 4 месяца назад +15

      he didn't know what to do, and he was most likely in shock and wasnt thinking straight, its almost like most people dont know how to deliver a baby

    • @pairsquinn5251
      @pairsquinn5251 3 месяца назад +1

      @@abdulquddustalukder4752🧑‍🦲😭😭

    • @Danz-Man
      @Danz-Man 3 месяца назад

      @@Newfound-s9b Yea, I know I'm not stupid enough to think this is real. What im saying is that it makes sense for a person to not know how to deliver a baby

  • @anastasiastauber5332
    @anastasiastauber5332 2 года назад +2016

    I’m married to a 911 dispatcher and friends with a lot of his coworkers. These people are absolutely amazing, strong and take pride in their job. The multitasking they have to do while trying to keep their emotions in check are truly works of heroes. I’m glad you covered that the government currently classes them as receptionists instead of first responders. It’s something that needs to change.

    • @dapushka3355
      @dapushka3355 2 года назад +25

      It has been changed. Finally First Responders!

    • @mandyireson5101
      @mandyireson5101 2 года назад +11

      @@dapushka3355 Not in every State unfortunately - but it's coming!

    • @missdamia5342
      @missdamia5342 2 года назад +12

      Ironically we were trained to always remember we are the First first responders

    • @dapushka3355
      @dapushka3355 2 года назад +5

      @@mandyireson5101 our governor is horrible, but at least he got that done. Someone told me it passed the House and Senate. Good god give us the title at least because it surely isn't giving us anything else.

    • @_Mel_.
      @_Mel_. 2 года назад +4

      It’s kind of weird to me because they’re literally the first people to respond in situations of distress

  • @OopsExposed
    @OopsExposed 2 года назад +3924

    *As soon as she started to tear up, I started tearing up!! Insane how emotional this can get and that was only a pregnancy call. Imagine all of the different kind of calls they get other other MINUTE! So much respect for 911 dispatchers.*

    • @karmakangaroo309
      @karmakangaroo309 2 года назад +49

      A fake pregnancy call

    • @TT-xz5sy
      @TT-xz5sy 2 года назад +7

      @@karmakangaroo309 Lmao

    • @Lias_Lifestyle
      @Lias_Lifestyle 2 года назад +88

      @@karmakangaroo309 well obviously they’re not gonna give her a real one 💀

    • @exdianas
      @exdianas 2 года назад +65

      @@karmakangaroo309 well obviously i think it's the stress. plus it can seem real considering they added a BABY crying lmfao. god forbid if they did a murder one

    • @EEEEEEEE
      @EEEEEEEE 2 года назад +2

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  • @onlythejester4097
    @onlythejester4097 2 года назад +3361

    "Should I try and push the baby back in?" was so funny and the operator in the back laughed! 🤣

    • @YTGAMING-ws7iv
      @YTGAMING-ws7iv 2 года назад +100

      if you dont want it then yes

    • @thesysop4998
      @thesysop4998 2 года назад +91

      @@YTGAMING-ws7iv just resets the timer i think

    • @mardisamreth2151
      @mardisamreth2151 2 года назад +11

      i laughed at that too

    • @chewby9748
      @chewby9748 2 года назад +11

      @@thesysop4998 idk why i laughed at your comment so hard

    • @beadels9597
      @beadels9597 2 года назад +17

      yeah the operator laughed then stopped herself right away 😭

  • @ohhmangos
    @ohhmangos Год назад +9

    I had to call 911 when I was going anaphylactic due to my tree nut allergy. These people are some of the most compassionate, helpful, and kind individuals I've ever interacted with. I was shaking, had just injected myself with my epi-pen, and they were the ones who made sure I was 100% calm so my reaction would not progress any faster. Thank you dispatchers!!

  • @ThatSoonerGuy
    @ThatSoonerGuy 2 года назад +3962

    Dispatchers deserve all the respect. They are every persons lifeline during emergencies. They always stay calm. They know how to handle a plethora of issues and they’re only a call away. I’m thankful for them.

    • @MrPaxio
      @MrPaxio Год назад +13

      and they also know how to give you an attitude in any possible situation, its impressive tbh

    • @lagging38828
      @lagging38828 Год назад +11

      @@MrPaxio alright so let me get this straight you made a brain dead reply 3 months later? smooth

    • @sweatypalms5493
      @sweatypalms5493 Год назад

      Meow

    • @trafbackwards
      @trafbackwards Год назад

      @@sweatypalms5493 meoww :3

    • @elliesummerhayes3808
      @elliesummerhayes3808 Год назад +29

      As a dispatcher myself I was the last person this specific teenager spoke to as she was shot and killed in a school shooting, she was shot 4 times and I had to hold myself together as she was telling me she wasn’t ready to die and that she had so many things she still wanted to do. I had to talk with to this girl as she slowly bleed to death knowing the most I could do is reassure her that help would be there soon even though I knew the first responders were never going to make it her in time as they were stuck in a traffic blockade 1 1/2 hours away. I knew the call had to end when I head the phone clatter to the floor, and she stopped responding to me. She died 4 minutes before the first responders arrived on scene. Thank you so much for shedding light on what we go through everyday. Thank you so much

  • @mmulligan0426
    @mmulligan0426 Год назад +2695

    I’ve done 911 for 7 years, delivered 1 baby. I tell my rookies that it’s not our job to save anyone, our job is to manage the chaos until the responders get there. Great job with the delivery, you did fantastic!

    • @alexandraclay5139
      @alexandraclay5139 Год назад +21

      Any advice for someone who is in school for this job? I'm currently in my 2nd semester

    • @BennydoesstuffYT
      @BennydoesstuffYT Год назад +7

      i was your boss

    • @Zayna.A30
      @Zayna.A30 Год назад +10

      @@BennydoesstuffYTdon’t even lie dude

    • @Zayna.A30
      @Zayna.A30 Год назад +7

      Thank u for ur service! ❤

    • @BataraKado
      @BataraKado Год назад +6

      its everyones job to save anyone.. as a dispatcher you should show a bit more respect to those in worse positions then you.

  • @heyitsliz2775
    @heyitsliz2775 2 года назад +1761

    What I love most is how seriously Michelle takes everything. It's such a show of respect and she's one of the few people I watch who I feel really gives it a shot, instead of trying to be silly for views. I appreciate the authenticity.

    • @nwpboy2082
      @nwpboy2082 2 года назад +2

      @@2332Stephen leave the channel

    • @narwhal125
      @narwhal125 2 года назад +3

      @@2332Stephen ??? she really didn’t though. she walked in, proceeded to simply look around at everything cause shes never done this before or seen it? proceeds to respectfully walk over introduce herself hear about what goes on. then is given the headset. when the call came through EVERYONE ran over to the are not just her. so ??? like a full analysis of the first 2 mins 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @heelsdownauto
      @heelsdownauto 2 года назад

      I agree completely, it takes a lot of courage to jump into new situations- especially when it’s as serious as this. I love her content it shows her intelligence very well.

    • @aidangolemi127
      @aidangolemi127 2 года назад

      yass

    • @DavidGomez-le7if
      @DavidGomez-le7if 2 года назад +1

      @Dale Macarena these emotions are real, if you have worked as a medical interpreter, 911 dispatcher or anything else health/emergency you know things can go both ways. Really great 😃, or really sad 😭, or really infuriating 😡. These calls can go many ways, but the emotions you will never forget.

  • @Jeanette-iw8un
    @Jeanette-iw8un 9 месяцев назад +6

    Not me crying my eyes out during the final challenge. Lord, I would have shit myself my heart was beating so fast. Omg, thanks to the men and women who save our lives every second of everyday. Yall ROCK !!!!!!

  • @Andrea-qx7oy
    @Andrea-qx7oy 2 года назад +739

    The fact that he said: "there is calls where we are the last voice that that person hears" my heart breaks!! Never thought about that! WOW

    • @j5m1v8g
      @j5m1v8g 2 года назад +8

      And the sound of their last breath never leaves us.

  • @bricdw
    @bricdw 2 года назад +771

    When the second call came in, and that woman said 'sorry to bother you', I got the chills. She's apologizing. She is the one who needs help. I hope she is doing alright.

    • @sofiacamacho4347
      @sofiacamacho4347 2 года назад +10

      i literally cried man

    • @untrouble8191
      @untrouble8191 2 года назад +46

      its like, people need help but they're so afraid of being a nuisance because of past childhood experiences probably

    • @StephenZipprich
      @StephenZipprich 2 года назад +7

      That happens a lot. People believe they are imposing on us for their real issues. It does seem to be mostly elderly people who apologize, but I'm constantly telling people "You don't have anything to be sorry for."

    • @Idk-fj7kf
      @Idk-fj7kf 2 года назад +7

      i felt so bad whe she started apologizing. someone or some people probably made her feel like a burden :(

  • @Sagiannis
    @Sagiannis 5 месяцев назад +19

    Maybe the most emotional episode we watched between all the challenges. You are awsome.I am really happy to have discovered your youtube channel.Stay strong Michelle

  • @nillawaffer5295
    @nillawaffer5295 2 года назад +4749

    I just imagine this woman as a grandma telling her grandkids all the things shes done 😂😂
    Its like Barbie with all her different jobs 😂

  • @YourWorldTourGuide
    @YourWorldTourGuide 2 года назад +1205

    I can't imagine how difficult being a 911 Dispatcher is. All the emotion and stress it can be.
    Very cool experience you had seeing it first hand.

    • @terrycolasilveira3453
      @terrycolasilveira3453 2 года назад

      Jr.6

    • @terrycolasilveira3453
      @terrycolasilveira3453 2 года назад

      Jr.6

    • @TheRobbieDawson
      @TheRobbieDawson 2 года назад +2

      Watch the guilty or last call really good movies that show what it’s really like

    • @emilystokes0413
      @emilystokes0413 2 года назад +13

      My mom is one and it is a very tough job especially when kids don’t make it through the situation. It’s crazy hearing what she has to hear and go through. Dispatchers are very under appreciated by the government and it’s so sad to hear.

    • @DashDarko
      @DashDarko 2 года назад +2

      ikr even i got emotional

  • @auntiefup9248
    @auntiefup9248 2 года назад +1559

    You represented us well. As a dispatcher myself I am elated you showed parts of how our job really is. And don't feel bad for crying for your first child birth, I did on mine also. Luv ya ❤

    • @MichelleKhare
      @MichelleKhare  2 года назад +273

      Thank you so much for your service - this experience was so eye opening.

    • @HablemosDeMelenas
      @HablemosDeMelenas 2 года назад +64

      Im not a 911 dispatcher but I am an interpreter for 911 and my very first call was a birth... I was on that call for about 45 minutes because even though the paramedics got there quickly they still needed me to translate, I swear I felt like I had given birth myself that day.
      I'm not a colleague but I'm able to be on many of those calls in a daily basis, thank you for your service.

    • @auntiefup9248
      @auntiefup9248 2 года назад +26

      @@HablemosDeMelenas and thank you for your vital services as an intepreter

    • @alexandraclay5139
      @alexandraclay5139 Год назад +1

      Any advice for someone who is in school for this job? I'm currently in my 2nd semester

    • @auntiefup9248
      @auntiefup9248 Год назад +2

      @@alexandraclay5139Just know that this is one of the hardest careers one can take on, but can also be one of the most rewarding. You're going to have stress sometimes beyond belief. But the calls you get when you save a life are incredible. Most important thing is to always take care of yourself. This job is very mentally taxing so you will need to find healthy ways to decompress after very bad calls. I personally go home and work out with my punching bag. The best advice I can give is you'll have to find a way to let things go. You can't hold onto things, they'll eat you alive. Sometimes no matter how well you handle a call it ends badly. Good luck future headset warrior! You got this

  • @samanthabroaddrick2529
    @samanthabroaddrick2529 Год назад +13

    Michele that was unexpectedly emotional for me as well. I also was in tears as you finished telling them how to deliver their baby safely. It is normal human emotion in that interaction i assume. That was raw and scary and you did such a great job!!! Congratulations on helping deliver a baby by emergency and by telephone!! Wow! (And 911 dispatchers should DEFINITELY be considered as First Responders, i can't believe they arent being recognized as such automatically!) They have helped save my life numerous times over the years and got me the help i desperately needed asap! I have overdosed on different meds and was sent an ambulance and sent to hospital and got my stomach pumped which saved my life both times. Ive also had severely su*cidal reactions to antidepressants and scared of my own intrusive thoughts it caused me to have and was sent an ambulance and to hospital, then to a psych ward to help figure out i was having those bad reactions to meds and that saved my life. And I've had emergency situations from car wrecks to traumatic events in my life that 911 got me the appropriate police and ambulance dispatched. The 911 dispatchers are true life savers!!!

  • @zackslay2938
    @zackslay2938 2 года назад +656

    The fact that she was stressed and emotional after 1 call shows how mental these jobs truly are.

    • @emilystokes0413
      @emilystokes0413 2 года назад +33

      My mom is one and it is a very tough job especially when kids don’t make it through the situation. It’s crazy hearing what she has to hear and go through. Dispatchers are very under appreciated by the government and it’s so sad to hear because they are really the ones saving people by making the right decisions and staying calm.

    • @AprilA15
      @AprilA15 2 года назад

      It is I myself can’t handle it mentally

    • @QemeH
      @QemeH 4 месяца назад

      Well, luckily they aren't all like this. Most of it is more customer service than emergency response - but yes, some of them are quite intense.

  • @rrek7
    @rrek7 2 года назад +912

    I was a dispatcher for 8 years. I lost a mother and a daughter in two separate wrecks on the same day. The mom died in a wreck on the way home for when her daughter got off the school bus. When mom wasn’t home the little girl tried to run across the 2 lane highway to grandparents house and was struck and killed. I quit that day. Bless those that continue to do the work. They don’t get the praise they deserve. Thanks for shedding light on this profession.

  • @rebeccahogan6230
    @rebeccahogan6230 2 года назад +2782

    This series is so incredibly useful for young adults like myself who have no idea what they’d like to do. It shows a great look into all these various careers. Thank you!!

    • @kaydeebarker8487
      @kaydeebarker8487 2 года назад +66

      If you are thinking of a career as a dispatcher go to your local center and see if they will allow you to do a sit in. This will allow you to go in to the actual center, listen to actual callers, and see what actually goes on. Highly stressful but equally rewarding.

    • @globaladdict
      @globaladdict 2 года назад +7

      @@kaydeebarker8487 damn that's cool

    • @nestasymonds3469
      @nestasymonds3469 2 года назад +1

      dang thats wicked

    • @AudreysKitchen
      @AudreysKitchen 2 года назад

      Agreed! I wish there was more stuff like this when I was young. 30 years old now and just starting to figure out what I might want to do.

  • @6hams
    @6hams 4 месяца назад +15

    the fact that she was crying was wholesome, i hope you have a great career Michelle!

  • @SobeSalas
    @SobeSalas 2 года назад +762

    Dispatchers being called resptionists is heartbreaking especially when they hear the scariest moments of people's lives on that call from injuries to kidnappings to even death. It's so honorable that these people do what they do and they keep going even after hearing those calls is so brave.

  • @fox2mike28
    @fox2mike28 2 года назад +1166

    Sarah is just awesome; a fantastic role model. She projects an aura that oozes credibility and is just so unquestionably slick, confident, professional, comforting, and an excellent mentor to Michelle.

  • @ericagoehring1089
    @ericagoehring1089 2 года назад +5116

    This made me chuckle. My husband called 911 when our baby came quickly. 😄 The dispatcher also said, "The baby will be slippery."

    • @geraldbudd8656
      @geraldbudd8656 2 года назад +18

      Stop

    • @alexcalver7655
      @alexcalver7655 2 года назад +74

      @@geraldbudd8656 ??

    • @deaaronfox5
      @deaaronfox5 Год назад +260

      who knew she was reading off instructions from a computer 😂

    • @Moonwalker2923
      @Moonwalker2923 Год назад +265

      @@deaaronfox5 I never knew that they did that. Makes a lot of sense. I’m sure there’s situations where they have to make stuff up on the spot though.

    • @Darki13
      @Darki13 Год назад +9

      @@Moonwalker2923 yeah

  • @-sunny-429
    @-sunny-429 2 месяца назад +5

    I cried with you. One time I had to call the ambulance for our elderly neighbor and stood outside the house, wanting to catch the ambulance driving by. I was crying so hard and was in the middle of a panic attack, the only way out was by listening to the dispatcher's voice and following his instructions. It wasn't about me, but he still cared about me. My respect goes to all the people who work on saving people's lives. Dispatchers, doctors, police officers, firefighters and so many more!

  • @cbdy1358
    @cbdy1358 2 года назад +448

    As a law enforcement officer I’m so glad you did this episode. Dispatchers are literally lifesavers, not gonna lie I teared up during this episode

    • @Blap552
      @Blap552 2 года назад +5

      I teared up too,she did Super-Good! Thank you as well sir!

    • @LT2503
      @LT2503 2 года назад +4

      You and me both. I am a former LEO turned firefighter, truned dispatcher myself, specific to fire/rescue in a European capitol, and I had no idea this job was so similar across the pond. It was weird watching this before bed, after a 12 hr shift. Surprised to feel absolutely ALL the feels from this.

    • @randomthings3227
      @randomthings3227 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for your service

  • @Sophie-nz9fz
    @Sophie-nz9fz 2 года назад +1117

    these people are heroes. it's insane that they're considered receptionists to the job market when they are literally the FIRST people you call in a scary or life-threatening situation. they're essential.

    • @krayziejerry
      @krayziejerry 2 года назад +19

      They get paid like $20/hr with mandatory overtime, not much. Money for that position.

    • @Jackryan229
      @Jackryan229 2 года назад +14

      Luckily in Canada 911 Dispatchers are considered First Responders and are treated and paid as such

    • @HyenaBellaDanceNSing
      @HyenaBellaDanceNSing 2 года назад +7

      @@krayziejerry to be fair a lot of emts and medics dont make much more, if at all. hell some make less. all first responder positions (and I include dispatch in that as thats what they are) are not paid nearly enough.

    • @Nina-856
      @Nina-856 2 года назад +3

      I was in shock that they are seen as receptionist. I always believed they were considered first responders

    • @EEEEEEEE
      @EEEEEEEE 2 года назад

      E‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎

  • @richbiggie8331
    @richbiggie8331 2 года назад +1533

    I'm a 911 operator and Police/Fire dispatcher. She does well with this video explaining it. But it's also only 1% of what we do.
    Baby delivery does not happen often, but we hear and deal with far far worse daily. Would love to give you more insight about it. Sad reality is, most dispatch and centers aren't recognized on a state and federal level. We're the calm voice in the dark, bur sadly usually forgotten about after the call is done.
    It's actually pretty sad. Murder, shootings, fights, stabbings, medical, fires, MVA, drownings, suicides.... list goes on and on. We take pride in what we do and will continue to fight and try to stay sane lol. Hardest part is keep work from home life and seen this way to often. Loved ones being lost to the stress of the others job. Very high divorce rate career due to the stress, mental health, PTSD, and the high payload/hours worked.
    Thin red line, blue line. We're the thin Yellow line that keeps them together.

  • @Sophie-ob2zu
    @Sophie-ob2zu 11 месяцев назад +7

    i was fighting back tears the whole video, i’m so thankful for our emergency dispatchers. i hope i will never need to call them, but i am so glad they are always there to help those in trouble❤️🙏🏼

  • @NickMos
    @NickMos 2 года назад +1820

    I love how much respect and care she takes with these videos. These people have really hard jobs Michelle does a great job highlighting that.

    • @muunmen9586
      @muunmen9586 2 года назад +3

      Couldn't agree more! Just checked out your channel by the way and you make some really interesting content as well can't believe I never heard of you.

    • @NickMos
      @NickMos 2 года назад

      @@muunmen9586 thanks man that means a lot! I’m glad you enjoy the vids 😊

    • @soldaliberdade13
      @soldaliberdade13 2 года назад +1

      this was amazing and made me so grateful for these responders... interested in this kind of work, too!

    • @reporterrehimynameisricard3399
      @reporterrehimynameisricard3399 2 года назад +2

      I love how much respect and care she takes with these videos. These people have really hard jobs Michelle does a great job highlighting that.

  • @TheCrazyPUNKIN
    @TheCrazyPUNKIN 2 года назад +1921

    Watching Michelle with her first call brought me back to my first call. Although mine wasn’t a child birth it was a suicide. You never know what to expect. The emotions are high, your adrenaline is rushing, sometimes it was hard but every dispatcher will become numbed to these situations with time. I know that sounds bad but when we deal with stuff like this every day it becomes a normal occurrence for all of us. This video really does capture the overwhelming emotions we all get when we first start doing the job.

    • @gisellethesquid
      @gisellethesquid 2 года назад

      But Michelle was doing a fake call right? The call was staged?

    • @ila_serah
      @ila_serah 2 года назад +25

      You're amazing 💕

    • @griffinroblox73
      @griffinroblox73 2 года назад +3

      why would a child birth have something to do with a suicide

    • @MelvinMLX
      @MelvinMLX 2 года назад +58

      Its about their first call

    • @shelleys1872
      @shelleys1872 2 года назад +7

      how long does it take to numb you? I am in the process of taking the test to become a dispatcher

  • @cheyennehenry1
    @cheyennehenry1 2 года назад +762

    The school shooting segment had me teary eyed.... actually the whole thing had me crying. Thank you, Michelle, for showing your audience the raw and real emotions of the other voice of on the end of a 911 call.

    • @TheGoldenDuckies
      @TheGoldenDuckies 2 года назад +1

      yet people still push the defund the police

    • @carterskindle7086
      @carterskindle7086 2 года назад +3

      @Lil Candle Light yeah, I don't understand people's ideologies these days. People are trying to defund the police over a couple freak accidents and a whole lot of bull$*it. We need the police lmao, society would go to hell if we didn't have them.

    • @cheyennehenry1
      @cheyennehenry1 2 года назад

      @@TheGoldenDuckies 911 dispatchers are not police officers

    • @TheGoldenDuckies
      @TheGoldenDuckies 2 года назад

      @@cheyennehenry1 it affects the dispatchers regardless so whats your point

    • @bigdawg2004
      @bigdawg2004 2 года назад +1

      @kkitahs21 who is the most important to you? Take that person, act like their on your call. Maybe there’s a break in, and you hear screaming, then silence. That’s the last thing your hear from that person, for months you have to know that’s the last of them you hear,

  • @WiscoBoundTrucker
    @WiscoBoundTrucker 10 месяцев назад +5

    14:15 that is EXACTLY why i could NEVER do that job. For a man im a very emotional creature, and i feel 180% of the emotions your average person goes through. I would legit probably quit my first day. I have MAD RESPECT for anyone that does that job.

  • @Min_majesty33
    @Min_majesty33 2 года назад +1016

    This couldn’t have come at a better time! I’m taking the civil service exam next week in my city to potentially be a 911 dispatcher and I have no idea what it’s like on the inside, so this little window into what to expect is super helpful!

    • @MichelleKhare
      @MichelleKhare  2 года назад +198

      Good luck with your exam!!! :)

    • @AzraNr7
      @AzraNr7 2 года назад +20

      good luck,you've got this :)

    • @fra1593
      @fra1593 2 года назад +8

      Best of luck to you!! You can do it!😊

    • @johnnylchalk2370
      @johnnylchalk2370 2 года назад +6

      Good luck 🤞

    • @Luca_fallz
      @Luca_fallz 2 года назад +4

      Good luck, I wish you the best in your exam

  • @tracyalan7201
    @tracyalan7201 2 года назад +614

    Michelle is a superwoman. She's so impressive tackling some of the most difficult challenges imagined and she shows that she can do it. She is no paper tiger, she's the real deal.

    • @notjustinyeetroblox9928
      @notjustinyeetroblox9928 2 года назад +4

      The best channel here on this platform

    • @notjustinyeetroblox9928
      @notjustinyeetroblox9928 2 года назад +2

      or one of the best

    • @cu12351
      @cu12351 2 года назад +2

      The real superwomen/men are those who do this job everyday because they want to, and their passion is helping people not for for views money or clout

    • @bojanakovacevic6801
      @bojanakovacevic6801 2 года назад

      someone said it was fake call?

  • @KateHawkeye
    @KateHawkeye 2 года назад +1416

    There's calls where you hear a baby's first cry, and there are calls where you hear a caller's heart break as she's doing CPR on her best friend after cutting them down from the ceiling. It's a really rough job, it can seriously suck when people call in to cuss you out while there's (for example) a shooting happening in a different part of the city.
    If you DO NOT have an emergency, call the non-emergent line. Please. It could mean someone's life. No matter how mad you are at your baby's momma for not having your child back to you on time (for example, happened A LOT) please be considerate and call the non-emergent line. The number for your area can be googled.
    Yeah, it's a tough job.
    But nothing else will do. After you get that rush, and you do your job...nothing can beat it.

    • @StephenZipprich
      @StephenZipprich 2 года назад +25

      Fellow dispatcher here, thanks for answering the call.

    • @KateHawkeye
      @KateHawkeye 2 года назад +9

      @@StephenZipprich Thank you for your work too. :)

    • @Idk-fj7kf
      @Idk-fj7kf 2 года назад +16

      @intriguing Woman u dont sound intriguing at all

    • @nadifaidriss3504
      @nadifaidriss3504 2 года назад +1

      very stressful job to do.
      I am thankful for all the jobs done and serving everyday life in the nation.

    • @silas537
      @silas537 2 года назад +3

      @@Idk-fj7kf 💀

  • @SiennaAndCeleste
    @SiennaAndCeleste 4 месяца назад +3

    You never realize how much you actually need 911 dispatchers unless something happens like this. But to me, it was me realizing how much we really need them after watching this. Thank you dispatchers.

  • @tmack1078
    @tmack1078 2 года назад +377

    Michelle will never be out of a job. She knows how to do everything. Literally.

  • @julian4805
    @julian4805 2 года назад +453

    My dad has been a dispatcher for over 20 years, I think reaching 30 soon. He’s taught rookies, gotten awards. He intentionally turned down any opportunities to work in the field for higher pay because of the chance of one day not coming home to me and my sister. I’ve always been grateful for that and never thought for one second that his job dispatching was small or lesser than those who go out to respond to the emergency calls. The stories he tells me stick with me and it amazes me how much of a bright optimistic person he remains but still teaches me how to stay safe, especially as a woman. I’m so proud of my dad and his recognition in his department. I have the utmost respect for anyone answering these stressful calls

    • @angelship4687
      @angelship4687 Год назад +1

      He’s been a dispatcher since he was 10??

    • @NiftyDiy
      @NiftyDiy Год назад +7

      no? why would you assume that?

  • @userruth
    @userruth Год назад +483

    I’m a fireman myself and hearing this made me tear up myself because sometimes we get caught up in what going on we don’t take a moment to realize the impact it has on not just those who are directly involved but us as first responders. Having a kid my self it is an amazing thing.

    • @MoodyBluesRequiem80
      @MoodyBluesRequiem80 7 месяцев назад +1

      What a wonderful job! Thank you for your service! Stay strong! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @RailiHower
    @RailiHower 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m in ems. Dispatchers truly are the first first responder. Wouldn’t be able to do anything without you guys.

  • @That9one1Guy
    @That9one1Guy 2 года назад +223

    I've been a 911 Dispatcher for coming up on a decade now. I was 7 weeks into training when I listened to someone die for the first time. Heroin overdose. 33yo female. We all remember our first.
    She was dying, knew she dying, and desperately didn't want to die, but she was so out of it she didn't know where she was. At the time, our center didn't have a phone system with built-in phone mapping (old version of Vesta, we use Callworks now) or a CAD capable of independently mapping (Wintegrate at the time, and a version from somewhen in the 80's or 90's, we use a Centralsquare CAD program now) so we had to go through the phone company for a GPS ping. For those who aren't aware, that isn't just clickety-click instant like it looks on TV. It takes them a few minutes, and half the time, they fax us over paperwork for us to fill out, authorizing the release of that information to us, before they release it. Privacy laws, folks. Anyway, while my partner is doing that, I tried to keep her talking, keep her engaged. Slowly, her sentences became one word answers, then grunts or moans, then just breathing, and eventually just silence. When medics rolled up, she was DRT, phone still in her hand. That messed me up for a long time. We really are, for some people, the last person they ever speak to.
    I've listened to a woman breathe her last.
    I've listened to a man burn to death, suicide by self-immolation.
    I've listened to woman get shot and killed by her ex-boyfriend on the side of the road, after he ran her off of it; heard the gunfire, counted the shots.
    I've listened to one of my firefighters get shot, caught in the crossfire of an argument between two neighbors. A classic case of wrong place, wrong time.
    I've listened to one of my officers get shot, 5 times, and survive only by the grace of God, some exceedingly quick thinking of responding officers, and the goodwill of a citizen in the neighborhood who happened to be one of our own retired sergeants, who leapt into first aid and who's actions the surgeon ultimately determined saved that officer's life.
    I thank every last one of my lucky stars I haven't had to live a dispatcher's worst nightmare, losing one of our colleagues in the line of duty.
    Yes, it is an exceedingly stressful job, and it isn't for everyone. Rare are the men and women who can do it, rarer still are the ones who can thrive, who love it.
    That said, it also has it's upsides.
    I've delivered babies.
    I've consoled the grieving.
    I've helped lost people find their way home.
    I've talked men and women out of self-harm and suicide.
    I've guided citizens through the sometimes-byzantine process of filing reports for just about anything you can imagine.
    I've encouraged children in their dreams, one comes to mind who called us wanting to be a cop someday, so enthusiastic and ready. Wanted to know what steps he needed to take. I remember giving him the Leadership Test, a simple question engraved on a challenge coin Bill Westfall once gave my father, who, 15 years ago, gave to me, which I've since carried every day (I want to have it punched and turning into my wedding ring someday); "Am I doing the right thing, at the right time, in the right way, and for the right reason?" Ultimately gave him the recruiters' number, that kid brought a lot of smiles to the radio room that day.
    I have the unique position of saving lives every day, making a measurable and quantified difference in the world for the better.
    I am a 911 Dispatcher, I am NOT a receptionist or a secretary; and I love my job.
    P.S. Watching Michelle take the criticall test was a moment of extremely potent schadenfreude for me, I remember my own so long ago.

    • @stephanieflores276
      @stephanieflores276 2 года назад +10

      beautifully said

    • @_josephinakay_7518
      @_josephinakay_7518 2 года назад +8

      Thank you for everything you do! My dream job is to become a dispatcher and if you don’t mind me asking, did you go to college to become a dispatcher? If so what did you major as to become one?

    • @1_nqp683
      @1_nqp683 2 года назад +1

      Wow. Utterly beautiful, thank you for sharing!!

    • @That9one1Guy
      @That9one1Guy 2 года назад +13

      @@_josephinakay_7518 Nope! I graduated high school, spent three years in residential construction, then applied for the dispatch position when I was 20. No college degree needed.
      While a degree in something like, say, criminal justice, will help you stand out on your application, for the overwhelming majority of PSAPs (public safety answering point(s)), it is not a requirement.
      Go to college if you want to, it's up to you, but during that time, in college or not, get to know yourself.
      Develop your multitasking abilities, "talk and type" especially. Go on RUclips, slap on your headset, and pull up radio traffic recordings. Try to understand them, pick out the words, don't worry about codes or anything, just start working on your "radio ear." Understanding radio transmissions, especially yelling officers, or firefighters with their SCBAs on, is definitely an acquired skill.
      Lastly, andI cannot stress this one enough, stress control. What we do is exceedingly stressful. Developing healthy ways to let off steam, de-stress and relax now, you'll be thankful you did rather than trying to do it later. Learn where your happy places are, you'll be glad you did. I guarantee it.

    • @alicepicari7790
      @alicepicari7790 2 месяца назад

      You are an hero, 10 years need a lot of fortitude

  • @wesleyferino415
    @wesleyferino415 2 года назад +488

    As a former 911 dispatcher, current police officer, thank you for making this video! Thanks for shedding light on the unsung heroes!

    • @therealmarsx
      @therealmarsx 2 года назад +11

      thank you so much for your service. your work is truly appreciated

    • @Daniella_Wolfie
      @Daniella_Wolfie 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for your service, I appreciate you saving lives, you are a hero ❤

    • @missdamia5342
      @missdamia5342 2 года назад +5

      Wesley, as a former dispatcher (20+years) just a bit of advice. Don’t forget what a dispatcher does for you and try not to get too frustrated with them
      It’s easy to do from the road (1st hand knowledge. Was also a reserve deputy). Deep breath before you bite someone’s head off Please.

    • @therealmarsx
      @therealmarsx 2 года назад

      @@missdamia5342 huh?

    • @wesleyferino415
      @wesleyferino415 2 года назад +2

      @@missdamia5342 oooh trust me! I'm the one guy on my shift that doesn't bite their head off

  • @godswill2509
    @godswill2509 2 года назад +287

    the moment when the baby cried and then when Michelle cried was the most heartwarming moment , salute to all of the people

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet 2 года назад +795

    13:57 :')
    amazing Michelle! so amazed by you

    • @Ayzlxn
      @Ayzlxn 2 года назад +3

      Ahh hi Natalie!

    • @lr_laura
      @lr_laura 2 года назад +3

      Hii and I agree

    • @Hello-iy8oq
      @Hello-iy8oq 2 года назад +3

      Omg I’m a big fan and u inspire me so much! Keep doing what u do

  • @SpoonbillSnooze
    @SpoonbillSnooze 10 месяцев назад +3

    One of my favourite challenge accepted videos, when Michelle starts helping the man and woman with the delivery I cried, you did so good Michelle😭

  • @noname8354
    @noname8354 2 года назад +2097

    A few months ago, I called 911 because my dad died. The operator was honestly amazing and she helped me with CPR (I already knew he was dead and there were some problems so I didn't call them until 15min after he stopped). So while it was pointless doing that, I'm thankful with how calmly the operator handled the situation
    Edit: to everyone giving their condolences in the comments, thank you so much.

    • @BaileyxFilmz16
      @BaileyxFilmz16 2 года назад +77

      Im so sorry for your loss

    • @ria6480
      @ria6480 2 года назад +40

      im sorry, hope ur doing well ❤️❤️

    • @AGHSTS_TSAWLM
      @AGHSTS_TSAWLM 2 года назад +29

      same thing happened to me, sorry for your loss.

    • @Dctctx
      @Dctctx 2 года назад

      Come on you bastard, BREATHE!

    • @sharissenormoyle8073
      @sharissenormoyle8073 2 года назад +10

      Dude omg thats so ssd dude that happened to me i know how you feel but the 911 operrster resly just made me realy calm

  • @shelbyjeanellis2657
    @shelbyjeanellis2657 2 года назад +634

    As a firefighter, I really couldn’t do it without my dispatchers. Thank you guys so much! Your all rockstars!!

  • @Prisy087
    @Prisy087 2 года назад +325

    I love how Michelle is literally the definition of someone who never had settled down for one job but instead decided she just can do and try them all !!! Also props to all the Emergency dispatchers wow as one myself i know the feeling and you’ve been strong !

  • @marissafunk3889
    @marissafunk3889 2 года назад +934

    The one time I had to call 911 was for my mom. She had a heart attack when I was 14 years old and my dad was at work. It is unbelievable how 911 dispatchers stay calm and try to guide you through the situation now matter how stressful or severe it is. I don’t know how to describe how thankful I am for 911 dispatchers always being there at the press of a button. Without them she probably wouldn’t have made it, and there knowledge on just basic CPR and walking me through it means so much. It’s heartbreaking how much emotional distress they go through every single call and scary to think how they can be the last voice someone hears. A very underpaid job, I would say they are our guardian angels. Thank you all Dispatchers and emergency response ❤️

    • @definitelynotriley
      @definitelynotriley 2 года назад +8

      Aww I hope shes okay now ❤️

    • @bubblysquidd4671
      @bubblysquidd4671 2 года назад +6

      Similar story, when I was 12, we were traveling around the south with my best friend and one of our dogs. We were in a hotel about to get up and go eat and my mom fell, at first I thought she was joking around or just tripped but we still ran over. She was twitching in her hand and foaming at the mouth, my stepdad was trying get her to safety and me and my friend had to call 911 while holding the dog in the bathroom. Still one of the scariest things to ever happen to me. Hearing the door open and close was so awful. So grateful for the operator and workers that helped us. Thank god I’ve never had to call since.

  • @isso013
    @isso013 2 года назад +274

    Props to every dispatcher! Worth noting that they show emotions just like Michelle did, yet they don’t hold back to face these calls that would haunt most of us! Love this video, it’s almost a documentary.

  • @OathBlivion15
    @OathBlivion15 3 месяца назад +1

    The section where he says "sometimes we are the last voice a person hears," I started tearing up bad. And when they played even a snippet of that school shooting call, oh man... Then Michelle started tearing up on the call and now I'm a mess lmao... What an intense job this is. Thank you to all the 911 dispatchers who handle these kinds of things for our safety and concerns!

  • @inf1n1typlus1
    @inf1n1typlus1 2 года назад +206

    Hearing the man talk about his personal experiences as a 911 dispatcher gave me chills.

  • @Jc-qx1uw
    @Jc-qx1uw 2 года назад +141

    As a dispatcher in a large 911 center currently, I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to see what our job is like. Even if it was just a glimpse of our reality. It’s an extremely stressful, emotional, but rewarding job. Unfortunately, we are still considered just clerical staff which at many centers effects our wages and benefits. But, I’m sure you saw that it is a job that is much more than clerical duties. Thank you again for bringing this job briefly to the forefront!

    • @starbeck96
      @starbeck96 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for what you do. I was a 911 dispatcher for about 5 years. I was one of those who could not leave the emotions and stress on the job. I brought it home with me. I worked in a small dispatch center but we did cover our entire county. We had 2 dispatchers working so when something major happened it was extremely difficult. We tried to have one answer and one dispatch, but there were plenty of times that we had to take the call and dispatch it. In calls where someone dies you always second guess yourself after the call and wonder if you could have done more or if you should have done something differently. Many times you never know what happened once you hung up that phone.
      I definitely agree with you that dispatchers should be paid more and their status should be Emergency Services and not clerical duties. You go through lots of training and you must remain calm and be able to multi-task well. You have to be able to think things through quickly because a second matters.

  • @rma9258
    @rma9258 2 года назад +597

    I used to be a 999 call taker for the Police in the UK. My first ever emergency call was trying to convince someone to not throw themselves off a bridge into the motorway. So stressful, but incredibly rewarding when there are good outcomes! Although there are some calls that will never leave me. Only did it for a year due to the stressful nature of it, but I do look back on that job fondly. Thanks for bringing light to this job!

    • @tiffanytaylor2345
      @tiffanytaylor2345 2 года назад +40

      why did i switch accsents after reading "in the UK"

    • @cityinsect
      @cityinsect 2 года назад +7

      @@tiffanytaylor2345 immersion

    • @SteakBoss1
      @SteakBoss1 2 года назад

      @@tiffanytaylor2345 the uk isn’t just England

    • @tani6113
      @tani6113 2 года назад

      Are you allowed to tell them about your own life? or do you have to keep it strict and stick to a script?

    • @EEEEEEEE
      @EEEEEEEE 2 года назад

      E‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎

  • @ashmoshrishon
    @ashmoshrishon Год назад +1

    Sorry i'm late - only just come across your channel Michelle. I'm a grown man, fairly used to the roughs of life, had all sorts of ess aitch eye tea thrown at me throughout the years, yet reduced to tears listening to that baby being delivered. This is one of the most wholesome videos on the internet, so thank you.

  • @CoryGillis
    @CoryGillis 2 года назад +144

    Watching Michelle take the mock call at the end took me right back to the feelings when I first started taking 911 calls! Was the scariest thing I think I've ever done, but it's SO worth pushing through those nerves to keep going. There's no better feeling than the one you get when you know you've made a positive impact in someone's life by sending help and being that reassuring voice on the other end of the phone to get them through until help arrives. Thanks Michelle for giving such great visibility to an often unseen and misunderstood role!

    • @moneyca9981
      @moneyca9981 2 года назад

      I’m in tears That’s very intense.

  • @samnicole6764
    @samnicole6764 2 года назад +177

    When she started crying trying to help deliver the baby over the phone, I started crying. That was so emotional and such a beautiful moment.

    • @EEEEEEEE
      @EEEEEEEE 2 года назад

      E‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎

    • @ansaksa
      @ansaksa 2 года назад +1

      that moment when she asked:is the baby is crying?moment of silence.yes she is crying! pheeew,jeez!

  • @jasonb9562
    @jasonb9562 2 года назад +1430

    The level of professionalism these people show is incredible and the level of trauma they go through is terrifying. I kind of thought they’d make her listen to the Ruth Price call.
    Edit: corrected. Thanks for the heads up. Apologies.

    • @brynbreakerofrules8058
      @brynbreakerofrules8058 2 года назад +77

      You mean level of trauma, ptsd is a disorder not an Adjective :)

    • @wolfxyt626
      @wolfxyt626 2 года назад +3

      @@brynbreakerofrules8058
      Who cares?

    • @brynbreakerofrules8058
      @brynbreakerofrules8058 2 года назад +73

      @@wolfxyt626 people with ptsd probably don’t like appropriating a disabling mental illnesses, even if on accident and would probably want I corrected.

    • @lainebee9535
      @lainebee9535 2 года назад +65

      @@brynbreakerofrules8058 as a person with CPTSD thank you for your correction :) Dispatchers do frequently suffer from PTSD and it’s a serious thing. Using the term loosely to describe things CAN be harmful to those with the disorder as it doesn’t address the actual symptoms someone faces.

    • @yuunn9339
      @yuunn9339 2 года назад +8

      @@wolfxyt626 i do

  • @murob2347
    @murob2347 12 дней назад +1

    My one and only 911 call for myself, the dispatcher was amazing. I remember her asking, "is this the worst you have ever been hurt?", and I just started crying, and said, "yes". She was so good to me, and I will be forever thankful for her.
    I was 22, and I was bleeding everywhere, and scared to death.

  • @danvers34
    @danvers34 2 года назад +282

    Respect to all first responders for doing this every single day.

    • @mastercyclisttv8486
      @mastercyclisttv8486 2 года назад +6

      Thank you for your support! mad respect to my fellow responders.

  • @misterezioauditore
    @misterezioauditore Год назад +187

    Wow I wasn’t expecting to cry while watching this video. The old lady calling in to say that she fell was so sad but then the way the dispatch handled the situation and was able to immediately dispatch help, that’s what brought tears to my eyes.

  • @isabellefelicetty225
    @isabellefelicetty225 2 года назад +79

    As a 911 Dispatcher myself, we tend to be over looked as first responders. I want to say thank you for showing how stressful this job can really be and we are not just receptionists we are helping those on their worst days!!💗

  • @SpicyKermie
    @SpicyKermie 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s so amazing how good you can feel, even through the screen, knowing how much of an impact you made by saving 2 lives, even I shed a tear

  • @laurenalice1806
    @laurenalice1806 Год назад +1183

    I’m 5 minutes in and I’m already fighting back tears. Absolutely blown away by what these people do and go through every single day!

    • @laurenalice1806
      @laurenalice1806 Год назад +23

      Coming back after watching the whole video, man I should not have watched this on my period, full on bawling rn

    • @desrainis123
      @desrainis123 Год назад

      ​@@laurenalice1806same

    • @RealBurstYT
      @RealBurstYT Год назад +9

      nah bros crying

    • @sarahhchan
      @sarahhchan Год назад +7

      😭😭 i cried when she started crying

    • @AndrewChukin
      @AndrewChukin Год назад +2

      @@sarahhchan same

  • @crakdpenut3571
    @crakdpenut3571 2 года назад +501

    Oh my holy freaking crap I can’t imagine how much pressure she must have been in. The first call she gets is to help birth a baby it’s crazy she truly is an amazing person! And so are 911 dispatchers! WE ALL LOVE YOU!! ❤️

    • @juliannaevierivera
      @juliannaevierivera 2 года назад +19

      It was a fake call

    • @juliannaevierivera
      @juliannaevierivera 2 года назад

      @@Shadoofus I know…

    • @crakdpenut3571
      @crakdpenut3571 2 года назад

      Why was she crying at the end?

    • @StyLER_YTBE
      @StyLER_YTBE 2 года назад +1

      @@crakdpenut3571 idk I thought it was weird

    • @terrybanks5063
      @terrybanks5063 2 года назад +2

      @@crakdpenut3571 beacause shes not cut out for the harsh realities of the real world. and this wasnt even real calls, kind of proves my point. maybe its cos she realised how lucky she was, also a possibility. some people dont realise their bread is buttered both sides.. i bet she thought being a youtuber was hard (which it is in its own way) but theres levels aint there. good idea for a vid though..

  • @clorett15
    @clorett15 2 года назад +709

    I was a dispatcher for awhile and I loved it. Unfortunately, I have bills to pay and I decided to seek a higher income. I currently do less and make more. Its very frustrating how little dispatchers are thought of.
    Thank you for the likes. I now have more free time to do community service. I learned a valuable lesson that a job doesn’t have to define who you are. I can still help others while working in a less stressful environment.

    • @mademoiselleadeline261
      @mademoiselleadeline261 2 года назад +21

      omg that really needs to change

    • @katieahhh2719
      @katieahhh2719 2 года назад +1

      You would rather make more money? Wow- here i thought you done it for people's lives.

    • @pilomaryy
      @pilomaryy 2 года назад +76

      @@katieahhh2719 you're in for a rude awakening when you'll have to pay taxes and bills

    • @branddransnothing
      @branddransnothing 2 года назад +61

      @@katieahhh2719 And what about you? Do you save lives? Do you wake up each day and say “wow! I wanna save people for free! I don’t need money to survive!”
      Stop judging someone for their career choices when you don’t even know the full story. Saving peoples lives is great and all but many people forget that they have lives too, they should save themselves too.

    • @A_Bag_of_Potatoes
      @A_Bag_of_Potatoes 2 года назад +15

      @@katieahhh2719 Kind of hard to save lives if you live in a cardboard box and lost your car and have to ride a bike to work. You should direct that Karen attitude to the state government slashing dispatch budgets and not giving these people who are critical to our society a decent wage. While these rich state & federal politicians left and right wing pocket our tax dollars and go golfing in Cancun.

  • @est9949
    @est9949 11 месяцев назад +21

    Can we all take a moment to appreciate Sarah? She's such a badass, such a calm and cool person. Seriously.

  • @astro_gabe
    @astro_gabe 2 года назад +524

    I'm a medic in another country. I have huge respect for these dispatchers - in our system, we separate dispatchers and calltakers, so what you showed in this video is basically double the work our dispatchers do. We give them a lot of shit for some of the decisions they make, but it's important to remember that we would not have a job without them. Dispatchers are just as important as the medics, nurses and doctors that take care of the patients.

    • @cafryrmn2550
      @cafryrmn2550 2 года назад +3

      I 100% agree with you. Having an excellent dispatcher is valuable. Sometimes, it’s not easy to obtain info from a caller. They have to do the best they can. True, we don’t like or agree with some of their actions or decisions but they are important team members. Stay safe and have fun. Edit: autocorrect errors.

    • @yanglu9555
      @yanglu9555 2 года назад +2

      You know, I wish that they can look at us in that type of situation and still make sense of it. The perception of dispatchers goes from agencies to agencies give a different outlook. However, dispatchers makes less than Police Officers, Fire Fighters, or EMTs. But I guess I find my calling and to be out in the field rather than doing the unthinkable.

    • @pogurl2011
      @pogurl2011 2 года назад +1

      Perfectly stated!

    • @andynonymous6769
      @andynonymous6769 2 года назад +1

      @@yanglu9555 I think medics, dispatchers, firefighters and police should all get paid the same, but that’s just my 2 cents

    • @yanglu9555
      @yanglu9555 2 года назад +1

      @@andynonymous6769 I totally agree with you! But I don't understand why they are not. That is why I decided to op-out of being a dispatcher.

  • @anthonyjolson87
    @anthonyjolson87 2 года назад +410

    As a fellow Telecommunicator and training officer, I couldn't help but cover my mouth and laugh and cry throughout Michelle's pregnancy card training call. Thanks @MichelleKhare for bringing light to our profession.

    • @alexandraclay5139
      @alexandraclay5139 Год назад

      Any advice for someone who is in school for this job? I'm currently in my 2nd semester

  • @chelseajknapp
    @chelseajknapp 2 года назад +115

    This was so awesome and got me so emotional! I delivered my baby on the floor of my apartment with a 911 dispatcher on the phone, he was so helpful, your practice scenario is literally just how my birth went, I felt my baby's head and had to push on it and everything. The mental fortitude that those in this profession must have is incredible, God bless them all ❤️

    • @MichelleKhare
      @MichelleKhare  2 года назад +25

      This is an incredible story, oh my goodness! Much love to you for your bravery, and to the dispatcher who helped over the phone!

    • @gregdrivesdriver5104
      @gregdrivesdriver5104 2 года назад

      practice scenario, bs

  • @artyoutandme
    @artyoutandme 11 месяцев назад +1

    At the end of the final challenge, I was in tears. Happy and Sad tears were at the verge of falling down my eyes. Thanks to all dispatchers anywhere and everywhere

  • @kbarts316
    @kbarts316 2 года назад +314

    This is beautiful. You don’t realize how much work goes into being a 911 Dispatcher. I got emotional when she started getting overwhelmed. 😭
    It’s remarkable how well she did, on her first try. You definitely gotta be mentally strong for this line of work. But in the end, it’s all worth it.
    They’re not receptionists, they’re heroes. 💕

    • @vimlaggingv7496
      @vimlaggingv7496 2 года назад

      It’s fake

    • @mandyireson5101
      @mandyireson5101 2 года назад +8

      @@vimlaggingv7496 While the call itself may have been a mock call, when you pick up that phone it becomes reality and you feel the adrenelin rush and work through it to get the best outcome....dispatchers save lives while waiting for the medics to get there and take over.

    • @kbarts316
      @kbarts316 2 года назад

      @@mandyireson5101 Very true.

  • @QuinnWaldron
    @QuinnWaldron 2 года назад +333

    I seriously got full body chills when you delivered that baby over the phone, and it was your first try performing the real deal. You're such an incredible person and I love how you love to help people! Can't wait for the upcoming videos :)

    • @PolarBear-ty7kw
      @PolarBear-ty7kw 2 года назад +48

      It wasn't real

    • @THEDOORIZCLOSED
      @THEDOORIZCLOSED 2 года назад +19

      It wasnt real LOL

    • @tyffaneelavely8087
      @tyffaneelavely8087 2 года назад +19

      It was a mock call. It was meant to imitate a real call, as part of the last test for someone who is trying to become a dispatcher. I know it seemed pretty dang real though.

    • @junemarieweaver974
      @junemarieweaver974 2 года назад +1

      This was prerecorded.

    • @timins.
      @timins. 2 года назад +2

      @@junemarieweaver974 no its just an actor, its not recorded

  • @stefaniebuchholz1199
    @stefaniebuchholz1199 2 месяца назад +2

    2 years ago. Wow.
    I remember when this was just uploaded! You did great Michelle!

  • @mackenzietalley4947
    @mackenzietalley4947 2 года назад +185

    When you started crying while assisting on the delivery, I absolutely lost it. Thank you for taking us on this experience with you. I didn’t know who you were until a few days ago you were on my suggested. I have absolutely loved this series and appreciate your hard work.

  • @makimera
    @makimera 2 года назад +226

    So much respect to dispatchers. They are so important.

  • @tamaralindenbach9368
    @tamaralindenbach9368 2 года назад +221

    When you started crying, I also entirely lost it. These guys are INCREDIBLE. Keep shining a light on behind the scenes of jobs like this one. Much love

  • @waynestewart1919
    @waynestewart1919 Год назад +1

    Well done @SouthMetroFireRescuePIO 911 Communications Center! And thank you Mrs. Khare for sharing your experience. The part where the trainer breaks down a bit really got to me. Congratulations on your badge. You earned it!

  • @bradleypryor5586
    @bradleypryor5586 2 года назад +318

    Well shit. That actually hit me in the feels at the end. But, as a retired firefighter, I recognize the importance of our 911 operators. They are first responders as much as anyone else and are an indispensable part of the system.

    • @MmaFan34
      @MmaFan34 2 года назад +3

      I was an EMT. And I respect the hell out of 911 dispatchers!

  • @samanthawilliams9710
    @samanthawilliams9710 2 года назад +461

    The fact that they are considered receptionists is just galling. Heroes, every one of them!

    • @emilystokes0413
      @emilystokes0413 2 года назад +2

      My mom is one and it is a very tough job especially when kids don’t make it through the situation. It’s crazy hearing what she has to hear and go through. Dispatchers are very under appreciated by the government and it’s so sad to hear because they are really the ones saving people by making the right decisions and staying calm.

    • @la._.morenaaa4479
      @la._.morenaaa4479 2 года назад

      @@emilystokes0413 let your mom know I consider her a HÉROE ❤️

    • @emilystokes0413
      @emilystokes0413 2 года назад

      @MOPARGuy wow that’s ridiculous. I’m so sorry for that.