Sam Vaknin's important life lessons (please READ THE VIDEO DESCRIPTION)

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  • Опубликовано: 26 май 2024
  • First and foremost my apologies to Sam Vaknin that I had recorded his video without showing his RUclips channel name and video title. I forgot which video this is but here is the link to Sam Vaknin's RUclips channel if you are interested in all his 1000's of highly intellectual video's: / @samvaknin
    The snippet I uploaded of one of his videos is my small contribution to spread his message amongst the public and to help those who need to hear his information. All credits go to Sam Vaknin.
    FULL TEXT:
    "I will treat myself with dignity.
    And I will demand respect from others.
    I will not allow anyone to disrespect me.
    I will set clear boundaries. I will make known to others what I regard as permissible and acceptable behavior and what is out of bounds.
    I will not tolerate abuse and aggression in any form or guise.
    I will seek to terminate such misconduct instantly and unequivocally.
    I will be assertive and unambiguous about my needs, my wishes, my expectations from others.
    I will not be arrogant. But I will be confident.
    I will not be selfish and narcissistic but I will love and care for myself. I will get to know myself better.
    I will treat others as I want them to treat me.
    I will try to lead by way of self-example.
    If I am habitually disrespected, abused or if my boundaries are ignored and breached, I will terminate the relationship with the abuser forthwith.
    Zero tolerance. No second chance will be my maxims of self-preservation."

Комментарии • 28

  • @theageofgoddess
    @theageofgoddess 18 дней назад +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @ZYX54321
    @ZYX54321 29 дней назад +2

    Thank you Professor.💫

    • @chocolatecookie8571
      @chocolatecookie8571  29 дней назад +1

      This is a snippet of one of Sam Vaknin's videos. Please visiti his channel for his entire collection.

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 18 дней назад +1

    This so much easier said than done..but a beautiful idea! Sometimes you are stuck with the wrong people and you are 80 and paralytic. When I was younger..I was married to the wrong person with five children I wanted to be There for. Very Challenging. 😊❤

  • @JoeMcKenzie888
    @JoeMcKenzie888 29 дней назад +4

    What a gem.

    • @chocolatecookie8571
      @chocolatecookie8571  29 дней назад +2

      Yes he is, check his RUclips channel for all his videos. This was my last snippet that I uploaded. I also have Sam Vaknin playlists in my channel.

  • @chocolatecookie8571
    @chocolatecookie8571  26 дней назад +3

    Full text:
    "I will treat myself with dignity.
    And I will demand respect from others.
    I will not allow anyone to disrespect me.
    I will set clear boundaries. I will make known to others what I regard as permissible and acceptable behavior and what is out of bounds.
    I will not tolerate abuse and aggression in any form or guise.
    I will seek to terminate such misconduct instantly and unequivocally.
    I will be assertive and unambiguous about my needs, my wishes, my expectations from others.
    I will not be arrogant. But I will be confident.
    I will not be selfish and narcissistic but I will love and care for myself. I will get to know myself better.
    I will treat others as I want them to treat me.
    I will try to lead by way of self-example.
    If I am habitually disrespected, abused or if my boundaries are ignored and breached, I will terminate the relationship with the abuser forthwith.
    Zero tolerance. No second chance will be my maxims of self-preservation."
    Link to Sam Vaknin's RUclips channel: www.youtube.com/@samvaknin

  • @vincecavedog3219
    @vincecavedog3219 29 дней назад +2

    True that!🎉

  • @elinaselene
    @elinaselene Месяц назад +2

    Ingrain this into my mind. Thank you Sam.

    • @chocolatecookie8571
      @chocolatecookie8571  Месяц назад +2

      I agree. Check his channel for all of his videos.

    • @elinaselene
      @elinaselene Месяц назад

      ​@@chocolatecookie8571 Thank you, Yes I have been listening to Sam consistently since Nov '23 and he helped me to leave a malignant narcissist for good, now healing.

  • @user-uu4ug4lq1c
    @user-uu4ug4lq1c Месяц назад +1

    🎉❤

  • @trustinsynchronicity
    @trustinsynchronicity 29 дней назад +1

    He has this soliloquy memorized to say during sex

  • @mbahdengahdengah
    @mbahdengahdengah Месяц назад +2

    How are you my friend🙏

    • @chocolatecookie8571
      @chocolatecookie8571  Месяц назад +1

      Halo bang, I am good. Di video ini bukan saya. Pria itu profesor Sam Vaknin.

  • @BluenatorT800
    @BluenatorT800 17 дней назад

    What about a relationship with a borderline? The partner can disrespect and consider to be an abuser emotionally something. Zero tolerance and leave too?

  • @capungplesiran
    @capungplesiran Месяц назад +1

    Sy tidak ngerti bahasanya 👍👍👍

    • @chocolatecookie8571
      @chocolatecookie8571  Месяц назад

      Nggih mas, bahasa ini Inggris dan dia professor Sam Vaknin. Dia bukan saya, wkwk. Maturnuwun wa assalaamu aleykum.

    • @chocolatecookie8571
      @chocolatecookie8571  Месяц назад

      itu ada hubungannya dengan psikologi

  • @ukaszwojtalik8198
    @ukaszwojtalik8198 29 дней назад

    sounds like a dream... man... you are propably ex soviet block... so you know the drill... and you propably did nothing important about it...😢