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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2011
  • Santana (Glee) comes out to her Abuela, Alma.

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  • @NayaMitchell
    @NayaMitchell  12 лет назад +3802

    Naya Rivera, you changed and inspired us through our teenage years. You were a role model to many, impacting our lives deeper than most people could ever understand. To lose you is unthinkable. You were at one of the most joyous, vibrant times of your life when you were taken from us. My heart goes out to all of her family. Little Josey, I know you'll grow up remembering and learning every day what an amazing soul your mother was. Yolanda and George, I'm so sorry for your loss. No parent should ever have to outlive their child. Mychal and Nickayla, the bond you three had was stronger than even most siblings can understand. To everyone Naya touched in her life, may we all remember her forever, not in sadness but in the joy she so effortlessly shared with the world. Naya Rivera, rest in peace and power.

    • @morgan5373
      @morgan5373 4 года назад +19

      🥺💔

    • @kamyashrivastava7341
      @kamyashrivastava7341 4 года назад +30

      So beautiful of you to remember all her family members. Peace to Naya, peace to her family and her baby Josie, peace to you.

    • @gachaminimovies7730
      @gachaminimovies7730 4 года назад +14

      🥺 it must have been sooooo much harder for her son🥺 we miss her but we know she is in a better place❤️❤️❤️

    • @ava5688
      @ava5688 3 года назад +6

      perfectly said 🤍

    • @petrasolano9531
      @petrasolano9531 3 года назад +5

      @@deleted2001 she died?😭🥺

  • @footballking1122
    @footballking1122 12 лет назад +7119

    "i'm just too tired. i have to just be me" OMG that killed me

    • @_aldcdaydreams
      @_aldcdaydreams 3 года назад +21

      How are there no replies with 4.5k likes lol

    • @patrickbateman1540
      @patrickbateman1540 3 года назад +3

      There was no reply system back then

    • @ranip7644
      @ranip7644 3 года назад +3

      It shouldn't have. Your sexuality isn't you. It's part of you but it's not who you are. You can still be you and love people of the opposite sex.

    • @gabriellaa5936
      @gabriellaa5936 3 года назад +6

      I related so much to the Santana story ark I'm from Brazil originally and came out when I was 16 to the disappointment of my parents now I'm happily married to a wonderful woman but half my family still don't talk to me but I'm ok with that as the people in my life accept and support me for who I am to everyone going through this keep strong it gets better. Just remember WWBD ( what would Brittany do) ;)

    • @oliviaperera3323
      @oliviaperera3323 3 года назад +22

      @@ranip7644 well to gay people it is a part of them. When ur straight it’s considered the default. When ur gay ur considered different. So simply being urself is considered a political statement. Not an accurate comparison

  • @milagrosrada
    @milagrosrada 4 года назад +6091

    This scene meant so much to me. Can’t believe Naya is gone now.

    • @amandaebers1021
      @amandaebers1021 4 года назад +35

      I know 😭😭💜💜💜❤🖤

    • @chillouttkid9809
      @chillouttkid9809 4 года назад +36

      my heart hurts so much

    • @abriellalaxson9633
      @abriellalaxson9633 4 года назад +66

      Glad im not the only one bing watching her scenes on youtube ❤ we lost someone fucking amazing. 2020 is genuine shit.

    • @mags_life6511
      @mags_life6511 4 года назад +30

      I agree I’m watching all her videos too🥺🌈❤️ She honestly did sooo much for people especially playing this character

    • @karadizon4299
      @karadizon4299 4 года назад +7

      Mily The Au Pair I know it’s so difficult to realized that Naya is done. So sad

  • @Chavelly398
    @Chavelly398 12 лет назад +8583

    "Santana are you pregnant, because I will beat you up with this chair." - I love it!

  • @xX96000Xx
    @xX96000Xx 12 лет назад +5987

    Santana is such a strong character to me. When I first realized I was gay, I came to this video. That was about a year ago... Now i'm realizing how much this video really meant to me. Even though I still haven't come out, it makes me feel better time to time.

    • @tailtemari5948
      @tailtemari5948 7 лет назад +2

      Alix K YES! Me to!

    • @elli1722
      @elli1722 7 лет назад +10

      Alix K i havent come out since two years...I told my friends but not my parents...I'm to afraif they react like abuela

    • @melodygonzalez5800
      @melodygonzalez5800 6 лет назад +8

      I feel the exact same way. When I told my parents, who are religious, the same thing. This is exactly what happened to me and that’s why this video means so much to me

    • @notdantenathaniel
      @notdantenathaniel 6 лет назад +1

      Congrats! 👏

    • @merrillt8387
      @merrillt8387 6 лет назад +1

      Same same same

  • @xunekhx
    @xunekhx 12 лет назад +2234

    "When I'm with Brittany, I finally understand what people are talking about, when they talk about love."

    • @dugayogiminn2608
      @dugayogiminn2608 3 года назад +10

      Cuando estoy con Brittany, finalmente entiendes de lo que habla la gente, cuando hablan Sobre el amor🤩🤩Great phrase from Santana

    • @dalemuneqita
      @dalemuneqita 3 года назад +10

      I read this comment right when she said it 😂

  • @Niniane17
    @Niniane17 12 лет назад +3885

    "Everybody has secrets, they're called that for a reason". Interesting answer: she's mad at her not because she's a lesbian, not really, but because she's chosen to make it public. This is so different from the truth-based American culture. I think that grandma had some issues on her own in the past, but repressed them for family/society/whatever's sake, and now she expects Santana to do the same, or at least not tell her.

    • @ghostin.n2
      @ghostin.n2 4 года назад +93

      Niniane17 remember they are Latina it’s the Latin culture that’s what we are like (not me in perticular) but for Latin’s they do not like it when people aren’t straight.

    • @entertain7us148
      @entertain7us148 4 года назад +61

      that is such an intelligent reading of a glee scene...

    • @darkwriter_xx94
      @darkwriter_xx94 4 года назад +61

      Eriii Swa same for black people. And unfortunately, this need to keep face in the public allows many people to get hurt.

    • @nateriver3724
      @nateriver3724 4 года назад +7

      Eriii Swa this is not always true in every Latin country... not mine at least, in my city everyone is bi lol

    • @analivita
      @analivita 4 года назад +59

      As progressive as my family is, this is the exact response I would get if I did something like this. We’re taught to make sure our secrets that might “ruin the family’s reputation” are kept hush hush no matter what it is.

  • @mhm1133
    @mhm1133 4 года назад +1650

    naya literally shaped an entire generation of lgbt youth and her impact on the community will never ever be forgotten‬ ‪ミ☆

    • @stephenbyrne2170
      @stephenbyrne2170 2 года назад

      Who?

    • @macarthurradio
      @macarthurradio 2 года назад +18

      No literally and specifically for hispanic LGBT she meant so much to us, I remember my sister seeing this scene and it resonated alot with her (we're both gay but y'know she could relate a little more bc she's a girl)

    • @mp3holder94
      @mp3holder94 Год назад +2

      she really did

    • @giacherubini249
      @giacherubini249 Год назад +2

      @@stephenbyrne2170Naya the actress that played santanna

    • @musicallytalented16
      @musicallytalented16 3 месяца назад

      It's gross

  • @ivonnenieto8217
    @ivonnenieto8217 4 года назад +786

    Y'all have no idea how accurate this is for latinos. If you have a gay child even if she's out it is still basically an open secret.

    • @olyv8582
      @olyv8582 4 года назад +52

      Same with Filipinos. I’m Filipino and Latino so double negative 😬

    • @bunnyford7691
      @bunnyford7691 4 года назад +13

      Well, maybe true for some but not for all.

    • @mariannebrandon8891
      @mariannebrandon8891 3 года назад +22

      I like that one day at a time they mention that that they just call it being different that’s how my family is well my dads family super accurate for Latinos

    • @AlesAsmrrr
      @AlesAsmrrr 3 года назад +4

      @@bunnyford7691 it’s enough for you to be able to generalize

    • @ohwitchpls
      @ohwitchpls 3 года назад +33

      @@bunnyford7691 “for some”, no homophobia is so heavy amongst our culture, along with colorism, racism, machismo, and so on. it’s important we face these issues, if not for us then for our future generations .

  • @VinnyBoooy
    @VinnyBoooy 12 лет назад +8337

    " I'm the same person I was a minute ago."
    " Its selfish of you to make me feel uncomfortable."
    Those lines were just....wow. They are just wow.

    • @user-fc4bi1ez6c
      @user-fc4bi1ez6c 4 года назад +22

      Yeah

    • @punt2263
      @punt2263 4 года назад +465

      It’s actually the other way around, it’s selfish of the grandmother to make Santana uncomfortable.

    • @Conception13
      @Conception13 4 года назад +187

      This was such a good depiction of how even your most trusted confidant can hurt you like this out of no where

    • @ok-ih9rp
      @ok-ih9rp 4 года назад +2

      @@AntonioHernandez-ot5bo what-

    • @totallynotalpharius2283
      @totallynotalpharius2283 4 года назад +3

      This

  • @NessieJudge
    @NessieJudge 4 года назад +1761

    I love this scene, but her hair changing every cut is such a distraction 😭 damn why’d I have to notice.

    • @elaine_welles222
      @elaine_welles222 4 года назад +11

      NESSIEEEE OMG

    • @seorangsajawe86
      @seorangsajawe86 4 года назад +11

      Didn't expect to find you here, but price.

    • @neveroddoreven6597
      @neveroddoreven6597 4 года назад +59

      When, and who? Santana still has left side bang, and a bun on the top right through all of the shots, from what I can tell. And “Abeulita” has that same weird bang cut and bottom cut.

    • @chaoticiffanafs
      @chaoticiffanafs 3 года назад +2

      Omg Nessie !!!!

    • @octoberwitch7968
      @octoberwitch7968 3 года назад +5

      @@neveroddoreven6597 the hair sticking out on the side of the rest (her right, our left)

  • @shteve119
    @shteve119 12 лет назад +2190

    i admire santana for being so strong, i dont have the courage to come out with people in public, but im gonna come out to you people

    • @dayynish3107
      @dayynish3107 7 лет назад +7

      shteve119 thats sweet!

    • @denisesandoz8347
      @denisesandoz8347 6 лет назад +24

      shteve119 you don’t love boys the way your suppose to love girls. You love boys because that’s who you are and that’s ok. Your happiness is all that matters. If people can’t love you and accept you for who you are they are not worth your time.

    • @roxanelvgsch
      @roxanelvgsch 4 года назад +4

      Virtual hugs

    • @sophia6297
      @sophia6297 4 года назад +3

    • @ronja.85
      @ronja.85 4 года назад +5

      either way we're proud of you for realizing it for yourself and later when one day you come out.

  • @samanthalee9289
    @samanthalee9289 12 лет назад +5773

    her grandma is so mean
    poor santana

    • @stashasharum7467
      @stashasharum7467 7 лет назад +17

      I agree with you so mush right now and you are so right.

    • @inllanasworld7895
      @inllanasworld7895 7 лет назад +29

      now you know how Santana got her attitude

    • @kiravega5683
      @kiravega5683 7 лет назад +19

      samantha lee it's something Hispanics do... but luckily I am not that type of Hispanic

    • @sumayohussein5617
      @sumayohussein5617 7 лет назад

      samantha lee no

    • @nattievoices
      @nattievoices 7 лет назад +28

      her grandma is mean but you have to understand that catholics are very strict when it comes to heterosexual relationships and homosexual relationships. They believe that being homosexual is a choice but it's not. A lot of people who are very religious and their comes out to them they disown them. Its like being a member of scientology. If someone leaves the church of scientology they are completely shut out of their families life. You can not contact them, speak of them, or see them ever again.

  • @LizzyButtercup
    @LizzyButtercup 12 лет назад +6818

    Are you kidding me? She doesn´t care about her granddaughter running around and sleeping with every guy she met, but when she find her one love and it´s a girl, she cast her grandchild out?!?!? Does anybody else see the irony?

    • @esbeelavallee2568
      @esbeelavallee2568 6 лет назад +250

      I dont want to start a fight, but in my opinion sleeping with a lot of people is okay if you are protected and the sexual relation is a mutual consent. It's more the bullying I woudn't like if I was her grandma...

    • @zacharycoltrane3128
      @zacharycoltrane3128 6 лет назад +12

      LizzyButtercup Yes

    • @isabellechapman2612
      @isabellechapman2612 4 года назад +74

      LizzyButtercup this happens in real life and its horrible I have supportive parents so it wasn’t that bad but it’s something we have to chance just for who we love 🏳️‍🌈💛

    • @alexismonares1152
      @alexismonares1152 4 года назад +34

      They’ve all been taught from a young age that being who you are is wrong and following stereotypes is what’s right

    • @entertain7us148
      @entertain7us148 4 года назад +69

      reminds me of Brooklyn Nine Nine when Rosa's parents were originally fine thinking that Rosa was in an unhappy relationship with an unmarried man because at least that's straight, but hearing she's bisexual they couldn't accept it.

  • @DarrensGirl1958
    @DarrensGirl1958 12 лет назад +545

    "Santana, are you pregnant? Because I will beat you up with this chair."
    That line got a chuckle out of me. The rest of it brought tears to my eyes.

  • @ava130
    @ava130 4 года назад +1589

    “It’s selfish of you to make me uncomfortable”
    It’s selfish of YOU to tell your granddaughter she has to suppress her feelings for girls because you have issues with her being gay.

    • @ValeriaHernandez-06
      @ValeriaHernandez-06 2 года назад +32

      She is an old lady. Sadly many elders are still homophobic, we cant blame them but make a change by teaching new generations to respect every being. Lgbtq+ people, black, white, latin, asian, europeans, indigenous people and animals too :)

    • @azulaisafunnylewdgirl
      @azulaisafunnylewdgirl 2 года назад

      shut up kid

    • @ValeriaHernandez-06
      @ValeriaHernandez-06 2 года назад +4

      @@azulaisafunnylewdgirl you seem to be the kid instead

    • @azulaisafunnylewdgirl
      @azulaisafunnylewdgirl 2 года назад

      @@ValeriaHernandez-06
      k kid,go cry in a corner

    • @ValeriaHernandez-06
      @ValeriaHernandez-06 2 года назад +3

      @@azulaisafunnylewdgirl ok? Did you finish?

  • @thefearofvideogames
    @thefearofvideogames 12 лет назад +2959

    If i ever tell my family, this is would happen with some, some will push me away, some will think im sick and others will be their but such a small number. Im 22 and one day i will face this.

    • @stashasharum7467
      @stashasharum7467 7 лет назад +6

      are you gay to because there nothing wrong with that.

    • @Chloe-pi8hf
      @Chloe-pi8hf 7 лет назад +2

      has someday come?

    • @dayynish3107
      @dayynish3107 7 лет назад

      thefearofvideogames Im so sorry :(

    • @alvarodilaurentis7227
      @alvarodilaurentis7227 7 лет назад

      thefearofvideogames i hope you're ok

    • @roccodalo5581
      @roccodalo5581 7 лет назад

      But there´s a lot of people that are with you. Yes, some of them are going to tell you bad things but you can´t hide who you are it´s like hiding a very big thing, someone is going to notice that. I am not telling you to come out but do you really prefer a life without being honest? Not with the other ones, with YOURSELF. If you don´t tell people you´re gay you´re not accepting yourself as who you really are. If people tells you´re sick or if they push you out it´s going to hurt but, all many things in the world hurt and no one is really safe from bullying. But you have to remember that you have communites, friends, many people that you can meet, that you already know. You can go to many places with gay people or with people with the LGBT community. And also, of you came out you´re going to know who really loves you and who doesn´t because the people that loves you is going to stay with you.

  • @melina2685
    @melina2685 4 года назад +225

    This scene first came out when i was 14 years old, at this point i knew deep inside that i was a lesbian. But i refused to ever admit it to myself, let alone anyone else. There was so much shame and self hatred inside of me. Then i saw this scene, before this i had never seen a lesbian coming out scene on tv. And it was then that it struck me that the only thing i was missing was a little bravery and courage. Even though Santana's grandmother rejected her, she stood true to herself and walked her path. I realized that no matter what anyone thought of me or how anyone might react, I would make it through.
    Thank you, Naya. You played this role with so much love and dignity and even if you might never realize how many people you deeply touched and gave strength to, we are out here and we remember you.

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 3 года назад +1

      💙💙💙

    • @florence3612
      @florence3612 2 года назад +1

      this comment lowkey making me cry

  • @LilFlais
    @LilFlais 12 лет назад +460

    Santana is a really great actress!!

    • @coolbreeze625
      @coolbreeze625 6 лет назад +46

      Naya Rivera is the name of the actress.

    • @sersastark
      @sersastark 4 года назад +13

      Naya Rivera

    • @_zoeeee
      @_zoeeee 4 года назад +10

      *Naya

    • @Millie-yo9km
      @Millie-yo9km 4 года назад +9

      and now she's missing :(

    • @keeleyxmae
      @keeleyxmae 4 года назад +17

      Millie not missing anymore 😭😭😭

  • @LocaSexyGirls
    @LocaSexyGirls 12 лет назад +1057

    I feel for Santana in this episode I know it was hard for her to admit her true self to someone important in her life and that took such great amazing courage. Reality is hard when half of the people you love abandons you from life for the choices you make while the other half accepts you with open arms I honestly hope they bring her abuela back for a storyline with Santana see where their relationship stands

    • @charlikuran286
      @charlikuran286 7 лет назад +5

      At least it took time for her grandma to accept her with a little thing known s suecology

    • @lucykohl6807
      @lucykohl6807 4 года назад +1

      Me too because I haven’t come out to my grandma yet and I’m afraid to because she’s Christian and my friend told his parents and his dad isn’t happy about it idk about his mom tho my parents however are ok with it I’m just not sure if I’ll ever want tell my grandma I just feel so bad for my friend because it’s not a choice it’s something that you discover once you get older I mean people can’t help it if they like girls or if they like both it’s just who they are and if people don’t accept you for who you are then they are not worth your time or your energy

    • @midnightmoonbeam5600
      @midnightmoonbeam5600 10 месяцев назад +1

      I feel her there, I tried opening up to my dad and he didn't accept me.
      Now we just don't talk about it and he still hasn't accepted I hope we can talk to each other again

    • @williamoconnell1233
      @williamoconnell1233 9 месяцев назад +1

      You will. Just give him a lot of time for him to find a way to accept you. In the main time you can talk to me about it. I totally feel the same way when I told my parents that I am Transgender. My dad thinks he's protecting me by forcing me into the men's public restroom, but it only makes me feel humiliated, and degraded. I don't know how to start a civil unrest for all women to use women's public restroom not just cis women without getting arrested

  • @eggman5524
    @eggman5524 4 года назад +334

    R.I.P. Naya Rivera. Your time on Glee has molded and shaped the better most of us into the people we are today. You showed little Latina girls to be proud, you gave women confidence, you gave representation to the LGBTQIA+ community, and in a way, you were a voice for so many marginalized groups of people. You were talented, radiant, beautiful, and strong. The roles you played have helped so many people throughout the years, and it’s truly saddening how we have lost you. Naya Rivera, you will always play an integral part in cultivating my childhood, my appreciation for music, and my compassion for all communities of people. You awoke my eyes to the possibilities of the world and the people I share it with. You taught me to be tolerant, accepting, and strong. Naya, may you Rest In Peace knowing you’ve impacted and changed the lives of so many people. From your friends, to your family, and your fans. We love you.

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 3 года назад

      Stop you're making me cry a river 😭😭😭

  • @susushisushi
    @susushisushi 4 года назад +131

    “you’ve made your choice, now i’ve made mine. it’s selfish of you to make me uncomfortable.”
    being gay isn’t a choice, it’s not something you get to pick when you’re a specific age. it’s practically fate. you either are or you aren’t. and it’s not selfish of her to make her uncomfortable. it’s selfish of the grandma to not accept her. R.I.P Naya.

  • @shteve119
    @shteve119 12 лет назад +3532

    i love boys they way im suppose to love girls

    • @noctuaryfahy1509
      @noctuaryfahy1509 7 лет назад +66

      shteve119 - that's okay, I don't love anyone...

    • @emilyhorne9509
      @emilyhorne9509 7 лет назад +88

      i love both

    • @then.e.r.d3049
      @then.e.r.d3049 6 лет назад +58

      I love both the way i am suppose to love boys

    • @zacharycoltrane3128
      @zacharycoltrane3128 6 лет назад +48

      Same. Only thing is... we're not "supposed" to love anyone. We aren't obligated to have a crush on anyone or love anyone. Whoever we love is true to us and that is a gift of the universe. That's just my take 👌👌

    • @patrickg.m.caluza5263
      @patrickg.m.caluza5263 6 лет назад +2

      Me too

  • @tiahmurphy6152
    @tiahmurphy6152 4 года назад +70

    When she talks about brittany in 1:20 its the cutest thing ever

  • @Lucykbee
    @Lucykbee 12 лет назад +401

    My stomach is churning with sad feels.

  • @DoranGale
    @DoranGale 7 лет назад +481

    Other way around for me. Coming out as bi to my mom was like Kurt coming out to his dad. If I had come out to my dad before my mom and I left, I'm positive his reaction would've been like this, and worse. He was already abusive and extremely homophobic. I'm glad Glee essentially showed a what to do and what not to do contrast.

    • @dmf1301
      @dmf1301 3 года назад +19

      I’m sorry your dad was homophobic.
      Sounds like you have your mum on your team, though, which is good. 💐

  • @aimeea5158
    @aimeea5158 4 года назад +67

    I came out to my mum one week ago (in honour of Naya in a way) and this is almost exactly the same way she reacted. My heart is shattered but this storyline always gave me hope. I hope Naya knew how many lives she changed, I'll love her forever.

    • @lilymay3588
      @lilymay3588 4 года назад +5

      Sending love

    • @aimeea5158
      @aimeea5158 4 года назад +1

      @@lilymay3588 thank you, that really means a lot ❤

    • @lauratheexplora4936
      @lauratheexplora4936 4 года назад +2

      Aimee A I’m soo sorry. If I ever come out my mom would beat me so I feel for you ❤️

    • @flora3113
      @flora3113 3 года назад

      I hope that you are gonna be fine 😌

    • @aimeea5158
      @aimeea5158 3 года назад

      @@lauratheexplora4936 I'm so sorry for you too 😔 It's so hurtful knowing your own parent won't even accept you but yeah, we're not alone and I'm always here if you ever want to talk to someone about it ❤

  • @greenio52
    @greenio52 12 лет назад +654

    "santana are you pregnant because I will beat you up with this chair"
    hahaha

  • @elliesmith7742
    @elliesmith7742 12 лет назад +1934

    After watching this episode, I felt afraid to come out to my mother. I did though and she didn't take it well

    • @dayynish3107
      @dayynish3107 7 лет назад +48

      Ellie Smith Im so so sorry :(

    • @Toycadet
      @Toycadet 7 лет назад +17

      be strong

    • @goaliegeek0119
      @goaliegeek0119 7 лет назад +29

      Ellie Smith I'm sorry. I know we don't know each other or anything but I accept you

    • @monicachang3054
      @monicachang3054 7 лет назад +11

      same here, we can only hope that time will help, right?

    • @monicachang3054
      @monicachang3054 7 лет назад +1

      oops just realized this comment was 4 years ago lol

  • @BrianFalconi
    @BrianFalconi 4 года назад +59

    Seeing another gay Hispanic character when I was growing up was extremely reaffirming and I am so grateful I live in a time where I had shows like this. Rest in paradise Naya

  • @aspasiakrouskas9607
    @aspasiakrouskas9607 4 года назад +45

    The scene that made me realize I could find the strength to come out, no matter what anyone’s reactions may be. Rest in the sweetest peace, Naya.

  • @Nilos.Bakedgoods
    @Nilos.Bakedgoods 4 года назад +53

    She gave us so much with the character she played in this series. Such a beautiful and radiant soul. We will miss you so much Naya. In loving memory for an enternity

  • @binx414
    @binx414 3 года назад +41

    The fact this happens to kids in real life breaks my heart. It’s why we need pride

  • @LushyTV
    @LushyTV 12 лет назад +309

    I went through this with my Aunt. I remember her telling me "You're a walking sin, a disgrace to this family." That really broke me....
    I just HATE people like that because EVERYONE SINS!

    • @kathrynandkandi9165
      @kathrynandkandi9165 4 года назад +12

      Remember you are beautiful...just the way you are.

    • @user-mo1zj1tl3b
      @user-mo1zj1tl3b 4 года назад +24

      When people do that, I believe that their faith in god is completely discredited.

    • @namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404
      @namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404 4 года назад +26

      Dema S. the thing is though, it’s not a sin. Yes everyone sins but being gay is not one of them. The bible is simply man made and that’s it

    • @AshLoRo
      @AshLoRo 4 года назад +14

      Your right, everybody does sin. But Loving who you love, male or female. I can't believe love is a sin. I hope you see it that way too. You never had anything to be ashamed about. Anybody who had a problem with it or didn't approve, thats nothing to do with you. Thats their business, let them off 💜

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 3 года назад +3

      @@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404 you're right
      Btw I think I saw you on another video before lol

  • @BoneyNoney
    @BoneyNoney 12 лет назад +338

    it's not a choice and it's just who they are, and when people say it is, it sickens me

    • @j.i.r608
      @j.i.r608 4 года назад +3

      Actually, it is a choice. While it's true that you can't choose who you fall in love with, you can choose who you get into a romantic/sexual relationship with. It's also your choice on whether or not you act on your feelings towards another person. You are in total control of your thoughts, emotions, & behavior; but if you're not, that means that there is something very wrong with you & you should see a psychologist about it

    • @AGolfHitter
      @AGolfHitter 4 года назад +49

      @@j.i.r608 sexuality is attraction, not who you choose to have relations with!

    • @urfavorgan
      @urfavorgan 3 года назад +10

      @@j.i.r608 Loving who you want isnt a choice!!! Just like being transgender isn't a choice or being non-binary isn't a choice. I THINK you should see someone if YOU are thinking like that because right now I am disgusted that anyone would think that.

    • @fartyfat6539
      @fartyfat6539 3 года назад +7

      @@j.i.r608 it is not a choice. Do you think straight men choose to only have a boner to women? its a biological response. With gay men, they can only be turned on by another men.
      Obviously this applies to gay women too.

    • @toebag4286
      @toebag4286 3 года назад +3

      @@j.i.r608 so you agree? Who you’re attracted to isn’t a choice? That’s basically what you’re saying💀

  • @WhyNotSmile74
    @WhyNotSmile74 4 года назад +34

    This is why she will always remain in our hearts...she touched so many ppl with the emotional scenes, especially this one💔

  • @dominic8054
    @dominic8054 4 года назад +236

    I didn’t realize this was the same grandma as Jane the virgin

    • @jasonesmero5255
      @jasonesmero5255 3 года назад +1

      I know

    • @anniepie11
      @anniepie11 2 года назад +5

      I’m so sad to see her like that!! She was such a beautiful person on Jane the Virgin. So sad!!

    • @calliopedollhouse259
      @calliopedollhouse259 2 года назад

      @@anniepie11 she is not actually homophobic, she is an actress

    • @anniepie11
      @anniepie11 2 года назад

      @@calliopedollhouse259 I know that! I just meant I don’t like to see someone I saw as such a beautiful character acting out that ugly scene. Of course she’s just an actress, it was just a gut reaction. I’m not a moron. Lol.

  • @lanaslesbiandaughter7707
    @lanaslesbiandaughter7707 Год назад +6

    the fact that santana said “you’re so special to me, i wanna share this with you because i love you so much” made me so emotional. she’s so sweet and loves her grandma so much. the fact that her grandmother reacted this way is so heartbreaking

  • @Eboe89
    @Eboe89 3 года назад +27

    i’m a gay man and santana’s character arc on this show meant so much to me.

    • @johnrainsman6650
      @johnrainsman6650 3 года назад

      That's totally cool, my friend

    • @nicholaswaldron5190
      @nicholaswaldron5190 3 года назад

      Same here. Her character and especially her storyline about coming out shaped me in so many ways. Naya did such an amazing job with this character.

  • @matiasrobledo7600
    @matiasrobledo7600 4 года назад +33

    This scene really shaped my adolescence when I was struggling with my sexuality and I looked up to Santana several times. She was so brave and I wanted to be like that. I learned a lot from her. I can't believe Naya is gone, I will always remember her.

  • @normablue1
    @normablue1 4 года назад +27

    i'm so so eternally grateful for naya's portrayal of this beautiful character and this storyline. she helped so many people and she will be missed dearly. may she rest in power

  • @checkeredvans1015
    @checkeredvans1015 4 года назад +48

    She showed so many of us that it was okay to be true to yourself.

  • @nala36924
    @nala36924 4 года назад +16

    The power of this scene and the impact it had on people... Naya you are an inspiration, you will be dearly missed but NEVER forgotten💕

  • @gamergirl2127
    @gamergirl2127 3 года назад +8

    Anytime i think abiut naya i always tear up, such an amazing, talented woman i feel so lucky just being able to witness such beauty in every way

  • @venus-zi3ew
    @venus-zi3ew 3 года назад +98

    I started crying so much at this scene. I’m afraid it might happen to me with my grandmother... edit: i told her, SHES SO SUPPORTIVE OMG IM SO HAPPY

    • @johnrainsman6650
      @johnrainsman6650 3 года назад +6

      If you're gay, that's totally cool. If your grandma can't accept that, then she'll be proving she has the intelligence of Patrick Star or Homer Simpson, like all homophobes.

    • @veronicacarrillo1483
      @veronicacarrillo1483 2 года назад +1

      Thats nice . My grandmother is latina and she has already heavily expressed her basically hatred for the lgbtq community . Honestly not a surprise bc that's just Latino culture. Its been like this for a long time and even in this day and age with people being more open there is always still those fucking annoying types of people still preaching the same vulgar hatred over and over . Its annoying. And tbh I don't think ill ever come out to her, I don't feel the need to explain myself to anyone . Not even her even if she is the closest thing I've ever had to a real mother

  • @abriellalaxson9633
    @abriellalaxson9633 4 года назад +13

    "Santana i will beat you with this chair."
    Something 100% my grandma would say to me this whole scene was everything Naya will be missed she was too amazing for us we didn't deserve her.

  • @jkim3210
    @jkim3210 6 лет назад +6

    The way that Naya delivered the lines and facial expressions are just so wonderful. She's a great actress. And Santana oh my brave baby..

  • @missvt6640
    @missvt6640 4 года назад +19

    This scene moved me back when I was questioning my sexuality, I didn't watch the show but I stumbled on Santana's story, Naya's portrayal is so sincere and in particular this powerful scene. I just want to thank her for fighting for this story-line and the work she put into this character, so heartbreaking what happened to Naya I wish her family all the strength in the world in this devastating time :(.
    She helped me understand what was going on in myself and for that I will always be thankful and remember her.

  • @WhimsicalNessa
    @WhimsicalNessa 3 года назад +12

    As someone who’s Mexican, I’m thankful that my grandma didn’t react like this when I came out.

  • @nickthebrazilianguy
    @nickthebrazilianguy 4 года назад +16

    I actually came out to a lot of people with this scene and I just feel grateful to live at the same time as Naya. I love you and will miss you forever, my baby. rest in peace...😔❤

  • @betterinbluestopanimaltest8584
    @betterinbluestopanimaltest8584 3 года назад +10

    Santana was my favorite. She’s gone. It’s so hard🥺

  • @CMaklai
    @CMaklai 12 лет назад +167

    its sad how her grand ma wont support her and be happy for her. to tell your grand daughter you never want to see her again is really hurtful and wrong. I for one was happy santana finally came out and was with brittany

    • @NSB-me8fv
      @NSB-me8fv 4 года назад +3

      But she eventually accepted her

    • @CMaklai
      @CMaklai 4 года назад +2

      Yeah you are correct and I’m glad she did.

  • @ObsessiveForever
    @ObsessiveForever 12 лет назад +47

    She sounds so young at 2:17 and it's heartbreaking. I watched this one on my own first and I am grateful, because I knew I couldn't enjoy it properly with my family in the room after the not so great conversation we had when I came out as bi. Santana's story provides us with hope and inspiration. Naya is so talented

  • @simstarr4461
    @simstarr4461 4 года назад +12

    This scene is way too powerful and I love it so much!! Santana Lopez, the person who made so many of us girls say that we are gay and finally accept ourselves for who we really are. Thank you Naya for giving us the strength to feel good about ourselves. Rest easy. We love you❤️

  • @johnnybb3669
    @johnnybb3669 3 года назад +13

    I really felt bad for Santana, coming out isn’t easy and it sure wasn’t easy telling her grandmother. Santana didn’t deserve anything her grandma has told her. She should be proud and happy that Santana even came to her, she shouldn’t have kicked her out of the house. Santana could’ve easily ended up on the street. It was selfish of her OWN grandmother to kick Santana out. She is the same person that she was before she told her grandmother she’s gay. This scene meant a lot to many people out there. Santana is strong. And I’m happy that Naya did everything she could to give us this character❤️

  • @beautybarheavy
    @beautybarheavy 6 лет назад +4

    Awe Santana is beautiful, and this scene is adorable glad she found her voice

  • @jenhaley
    @jenhaley 4 года назад +6

    Growing up in a Hispanic (Puerto Rican and Peruvian) household, this scene was a lot. RIP Naya, you meant a lot to so many kids and young people.

  • @xXMileyDemiGirlXx
    @xXMileyDemiGirlXx 4 года назад +10

    My heart is broken, this scene showed me to be okay with who u are. I love you naya rest easy💔

  • @songurl16
    @songurl16 12 лет назад +123

    Everytime i watch this video i get teary eyed god Santana is just amazing in this scene

  • @MikeHarrison3266
    @MikeHarrison3266 12 лет назад +542

    ok, just a story line form a tv show, but, I am SO angry with grandma.

    • @stashasharum7467
      @stashasharum7467 7 лет назад +3

      OMG me too that was so mean there was no reason to do that.

    • @NSB-me8fv
      @NSB-me8fv 4 года назад +2

      Eventually she came around and accepted Santana

    • @rma2110
      @rma2110 3 года назад +4

      NSB 2003 Brittany going to meet Santana’s grandmother was so sweet. Brittany even spoke Spanish. Wonder where she learned that from? Santana because Mr. Shue was a worthless Spanish teacher 😂

  • @ItsMe-eu9br
    @ItsMe-eu9br 3 года назад +13

    This hits different when you’ve just come out and not been supported by your own mother.

  • @love4musicable
    @love4musicable 12 лет назад +53

    I really hope Santana's mom gives the abuela a piece of her mind for what she said to her daughter.Hopefully this season. I love Santana, she's the best character on Glee :3

  • @timeforsomegirltalk
    @timeforsomegirltalk 9 месяцев назад +2

    this scene just existing honestly changed my life forever. this is why i believe having accurate representation is so important, and naya portrayed and advocated for santana so beautifully. she has been my role model ever since i watched glee for the first time. i seriously can't believe she's gone even now. i hope naya knows what a trailblazer she was and how she is missed and adored dearly.

  • @charlottefisher4733
    @charlottefisher4733 3 года назад +4

    I have watched this scene over a 100 times and I still cry every time. I still can’t believe how her grandmother treated her.😢😔🥺

  • @gianna8300
    @gianna8300 4 года назад +7

    This scene was so special to me. Rest In Peace naya, I cant believe your gone.

  • @ella9120
    @ella9120 3 года назад +7

    I am not gay myself but I know a lot of people who are and this scence right here helped them so much. This secence means so much to so many people. I just can not believe naya gone so heart breaking. She deserved such a longer life. My love goes out to her family. One of my fav celebs so heartbreaking. Thank you Naya for the impact you have had on this world. So many people needed this. RIP Naya miss you❤️

  • @MadiBendy
    @MadiBendy 2 года назад +5

    this really puts things into perspective for me. I was blessed to have a grandmother that accepted me when I came out at bisexual before she died; not everyone has the same experience I had. To everyone who is struggling right now I send you so many hugs. Things will get better. ❤️

  • @keeleyxmae
    @keeleyxmae 4 года назад +5

    RIP to this beauty, she will be missed dearly 😭💕

  • @littleliondog
    @littleliondog 12 лет назад +4

    I love Glee for doing this. For making people realise the struggles people face every day simply because of the prejudices of other people. No one deserves to hide who they are or pretend to be someone else. This scene was really emotional and Naya did a great job!

  • @HopeWren
    @HopeWren 4 года назад +9

    If my child or any of my family came out to me, even if I didn't agree with it, I would never react like this. People disagree with each other & that's ok but it's never an excuse to be unkind or unloving ❤️ I would still love them exactly the same ❤️

  • @Rima27ify
    @Rima27ify 4 года назад +2

    I love santana outfit 💖💖 she's so beautiful r.i.p naya 💖💖

  • @dudette0911
    @dudette0911 12 лет назад +87

    I think Dianna Agron does a good job too. Both their characters have the most intense storylines in my opinion.

  • @jchomes1258
    @jchomes1258 12 лет назад +1524

    ITS NOT A SIN!

    • @sitinuraliafatihah3312
      @sitinuraliafatihah3312 7 лет назад +18

      Jchomes 12 IT IS A SIN!

    • @alynavelasquez4543
      @alynavelasquez4543 7 лет назад +24

      Jchomes 12 Ikr Im not a sin I'm not going to HELL RIGHT WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE THESE PEOPLE THAY ARE LIKE U BUT THEY JUST LIKE THE SAME GENDER LIKE WTF

    • @alynavelasquez4543
      @alynavelasquez4543 7 лет назад +5

      Jchomes 12 Ikr Im not a sin I'm not going to HELL RIGHT WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE THESE PEOPLE THAY ARE LIKE U BUT THEY JUST LIKE THE SAME GENDER

    • @ManLikeMeech
      @ManLikeMeech 6 лет назад

      Lool

    • @hollij30
      @hollij30 5 лет назад +22

      Jchomes 12 it is... the Bible tells us it’s an abomination. However, we ALL sin, one way or another, so who am I to judge?

  • @fernandatovar9978
    @fernandatovar9978 12 лет назад +56

    "Say something please!"...that kills me!

  • @mei-we6ft
    @mei-we6ft 2 года назад +3

    “i love girls the way that i’m supposed to feel about boys”
    i felt that

  • @denomava5470
    @denomava5470 3 года назад +6

    R.I.P Naya, you were a beautiful soul and you shall always shine in our hearts, thank you for the amazing role you played, you helped a lot of LGBT+ kids out there, who were watching, we were watching Santana being a strong woman that overcame her fears and was proud and loud about her feelings.

  • @songurl16
    @songurl16 12 лет назад +35

    Santana did an excellent job in this scene she totally deserves an award for this performance glee made a perfect point not all families are going to be as accepting as kurt dad was especially in a Hispanic family and this scene made me love Santana even more I am going to go crazy the day i get the honor of meeting Naya Rivera

  • @adeleaslan8182
    @adeleaslan8182 3 года назад +7

    I don’t know how this woman can call herself a Christian while she hates someone. You can’t be a Christian and hate, period

    • @johnrainsman6650
      @johnrainsman6650 3 года назад +1

      Speaking of which, maybe you can help me out with something. I'm working on an essay about Christianity and homosexulaity. I was wondering if you could clarify this from an article I'm citing, which explains why the former condemns the latter. "Our prayer is that pro-LGBT churches in the UK would rethink and change their current position regarding ‘pride’ and LGBT issues, that Christians across the nation would be united in a biblical view of marriage and sexuality. We long to see all people welcomed into churches, and more people come to accept Jesus as their Lord and Saviour, being transformed more and more into his likeness." Is it pro or con gay rights?

  • @norastack6110
    @norastack6110 Год назад +2

    I’m straight and was never big fan of glee, but this scene is heartbreaking. Families should love each other unconditionally.

  • @sashacat936
    @sashacat936 6 лет назад +2

    Wow... This is the best coming out speech I have ever heard! Santana perfectly depicted her feelings in a genuine relatable way while putting her grandmother on a pedestal and making her understanding that coming out is making her a better person. I can't believe her grandmother could have reacted that way, and Santana clearly didn't expect her reaction at all! It's the first scene I've seen of her grandmother, but at the beginning Santana really shows how she looks up to her and expects her to love her and support her no matter what. I've never respected Santana more than in this scene!

  • @dudette0911
    @dudette0911 12 лет назад +82

    this is exactly how it'd go down if i told my parents i was a lesbian, x100. my dad would kick me out, and my mom would try to beat it out of me. they're lucky i'm not. i just know that if one of my kids one day came up to me and told me their gay, the first words i would say are "that's okay, i love you".

    • @sydneewalker9535
      @sydneewalker9535 4 года назад +2

      Shana I love you

    • @peggingbatman
      @peggingbatman 3 года назад

      your making me cry stop

    • @salembn1176
      @salembn1176 2 года назад

      I feel so blessed that I can say that's exactly what my mom said when I told her: 'That's okey, to me you're my baby, just that' I still feel like crying when I think about it, I felt so relieved. I hope someday every person can experience that, I hope we move on from all this hate in the world.

  • @autumnwetsel2922
    @autumnwetsel2922 4 года назад +6

    can we take a moment to appreciate how glee brought up these issues

  • @frankielol2101
    @frankielol2101 Год назад +2

    Honesley this is just heart breaking she is the same person i wacthed the whole show and this episode was so sad!

  • @awakenmygen
    @awakenmygen 4 года назад +5

    this scene meant so much to me in middle school 😭😭 you'll always be in our thoughts naya 🥺💞

  • @gracenogal6134
    @gracenogal6134 6 лет назад +8

    I'm 13, and I realized I was gay about a year ago. I'm also Latina, so I feel like I can connect with Santana a lot easier. I haven't come out yet because I'm Catholic, and I'm afraid of how my family and friends will react. Santana means so much to me. I really hope that everyone out there has the courage to be proud of who you are. You were created to better the world, so don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise or that you are a mistake.

  • @arturotravis4346
    @arturotravis4346 12 лет назад +33

    when im with brittany im finally understand when the people talk when they talk about love

  • @Rose2gard
    @Rose2gard 4 года назад +2

    She was amazing..........Gone too soon

  • @christinab6411
    @christinab6411 4 года назад +3

    Thank you Naya💔🕊❤️

  • @MiladyCorrine
    @MiladyCorrine 12 лет назад +53

    That's why Santana is so scare to came out..poor her
    Wish her grandma understand her someday

    • @rita609
      @rita609 4 года назад

      She does in later seasons

    • @ellecullen3986
      @ellecullen3986 4 года назад

      @@rita609 what's this episode? And the season??

    • @rita609
      @rita609 4 года назад

      Elle Cullen season 6 episode 8. Brittany and Santana’s wedding

  • @rodweave1445
    @rodweave1445 3 года назад +3

    rest easy naya rivera we love you

  • @hgvb17
    @hgvb17 4 года назад +1

    Rest in peace, Naya 💔 You've inspired so many people and have changed so many lives including mine. I'll forever be grateful to you for portraying this amazing character. You're a legend

  • @allebasaiadartse3951
    @allebasaiadartse3951 2 года назад +1

    I wish I would've come out to my grandmother before she passed away... no matter her response... she was like my mother, she deserved to know.

  • @april1642
    @april1642 3 года назад +5

    when i first watched this scene, i was around 12. glee was one of the first shows that helped me come to terms with my homosexuality. seeing this scene then, i was terrified. i held fear and comfort in this scene knowing my traditional parents and their views. i held onto this scene as a reminder of what was to come, while at the same time i held so much comfort in the character of santana. although closeted, i held a small pride in my heart thanks to this show, and ill forever be indebted.
    when i was 18, i was outted and my mothers reaction was so scarily similar to this scene. it was like my worst nightmare had come to fruition. still though, seeing the continuation of santana's gay storyline over the years had me hopeful for the acceptance that she eventually got. for the last 8 years, this character and esp this scene has been embedded and ingrained in my soul, in my hopes, in my dreams, and my worst nightmares.
    today, i finally come back to this scene as my mother has finally accepted my identity. even if this small acceptance is just a small step in my journey, i have only this scene to thank. to thank for being the hand that i held through all the pain of my coming out. it was like santana was there telling me that everything would be okay, that this pain would happen, but it would, cheekily, get better. i have held so much pain and love in my heart for santana lopez and naya rivera. i have felt the lows and highs of this character as if i was in the show myself. i wish i could express how much naya meant to me now and then. i foolishly hope that my words will reach her, and that she'll know that she has helped me in ways i cannot describe without minimizing.
    rest in paradise, naya. thank you for all you've done, i hope this message reaches you.

    • @mangoccoi1103
      @mangoccoi1103 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your story!! i was a freshman during online school when i first saw this and as I guy who is trying to accept my homosexuality, this scene also helped me come to terms with coming out to my mom, however i still have a boundary between my dad. I dont know how to tell him. Our relationship is very bad and i never talked to him in a good manner. He treats me differently and treats my straight brother like his own son. I feel like shit bc i feel as my dad loves my brother more than me. We always argue and he already knows that im gay i just dont know how to talk to him abt it. It hurts that naya left and she gave me a big impact to myself and other ppl.

    • @mangoccoi1103
      @mangoccoi1103 2 года назад +1

      Im also a sophmore right now and also again thanks for sharing ur story

    • @april1642
      @april1642 2 года назад

      @@mangoccoi1103 i genuinely hope everything gets better for u :")

    • @mangoccoi1103
      @mangoccoi1103 2 года назад

      @@april1642 thank you I hope everything else is going well for you too

  • @cashewthecashew2713
    @cashewthecashew2713 3 года назад +4

    I didn't want to watch this scene. I'm young and new to Glee, but San has always been my favorite. I see so much of myself in her. Our anger and our desperate need to be loved. This happened to me too, though on a lesser scale. The uncomfortable part is the exact same. It was my grandmother too. I'm glad that her grandmother came to her wedding and that it got a tad better. I did for me too. But this moment is something we will never forget. Naya's skill was incredible, thank you for the connection you brought to us.

    • @johnrainsman6650
      @johnrainsman6650 3 года назад

      If you're gay too, that's totally cool

    • @cashewthecashew2713
      @cashewthecashew2713 3 года назад +1

      @@johnrainsman6650 yeah, I'm bi so, you know, pretty gay. I thought my icon gave it away, gay oreos and all.

    • @johnrainsman6650
      @johnrainsman6650 3 года назад

      I'd never heard of this icon before. But I respect your sexuality. Homophobes, bleh!

    • @cashewthecashew2713
      @cashewthecashew2713 3 года назад

      @@johnrainsman6650 yeah they're the worst

    • @johnrainsman6650
      @johnrainsman6650 3 года назад

      Based on their intelligence, they remind me of Patrick Star and Homer Simpson

  • @lemon_3612
    @lemon_3612 4 года назад +2

    Santana is such a private person, that this episode had a much different meaning. Santana was brave, amazing and talented. Props to her

  • @krissymconnorsvlog7321
    @krissymconnorsvlog7321 Год назад +1

    I cried when Santana finally came out to her grandma but I was incredibly proud of Santana for telling her grandma 💕

  • @hiphipjorge5755
    @hiphipjorge5755 2 года назад +4

    After seeing this scene and Quinn's parents kicking her out you really come to love Burt and Carol

  • @priya3300
    @priya3300 4 года назад +8

    whenever i imagine coming out to my grandparents this is the kind of scenario that i think will happen. i'm terrified, although i don't plan on coming out to anyone in my family (except for my cousin) until i am in college.

  • @oldschoolhiphop4145
    @oldschoolhiphop4145 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am happy to Santana was true to herself by coming out
    It also broke my heart when her grandmother kicked her out of the house
    Santana was always my favourite character maybe since she was a cheerleader that caught my eye
    Miss her
    We lost someone really special
    I know she is in a place of everlasting happiness with god

  • @mariaanamarmolejobalderas.2614
    @mariaanamarmolejobalderas.2614 4 года назад +6

    "I'm the same person, I was a minute ago"
    Brooo :(((