When She Says "No"
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- This vlog was about how we use ABA therapy in everyday situations to teach Abigail new skills. When I was editing it I noticed something much more important. We listen to her when she communicates and we help her to understand that communication is the best way to get what she wants and needs.
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Hey! Thanks for linking our channel. I can understand the taboo in the Hispanic community regarding special needs. I love when other Hispanic families find us and can relate. We try to help other family members understand what autism really means💙
I love watching families of all different cultures and ethnicities and find comfort and connections with all of them.
Yes! I understand completely. With my almost 3 year old brother, the very mention of Autism was almost a slap in the face to them! But slowly they are accepting that may be the case!
Maria Zaragoza yes! Early on family members were very defensive even of getting early intervention help. As if that would mean we did something wrong 💙
@@ROCKNSTIMS Well I'm totally subscribing too! 😊 Im sure I can show my mom a few videos too!
Maria Zaragoza thanks for the support 💙😊
Why is it taboo in the Hispanic community? I know someone who is Hispanic and has autism.
I know its not but at 11:12 it sounds like abbie said “I did a lot work” and her voice sounds so pretty 🥺
I heard it, Wow!
I heard it too
WOW It really does!!!!
You're right! It is so clear!
abalva I heard it too
11:08 sounded like Abbie said "come on" and "i did a lot of work" that is the most clear and presice I've ever heard her "speak" 😁 go Abbie, maybe hearing you say full words is closer than we think ☺
Yes, i think she's learning
No it didn’t
@@MelB868 go take your rude and unwanted negativity somewhere else
Oh she did. I had to watch the video twice to catch it. She said come on. 😄 She is starting to talk.
Yes - it sounded like Abbie spoke! She said "I did a lot of work"
Amazing! I watched it a few times. Have faith and stay motivated to learn. You can do it Abbie! 👍😅
Can I just say Brandi is amazing. I love how she communicates with Abbi she's stern but sweet and kind. Love this video
Kelly Stanley i don’t like her i like Summer!!!
@@claudiamuller9141 we don't know Brandi that well, of course we are unsure of her personality.
@@claudiamuller9141 …Brandy is a professional therapist, Summer is Abbie’s friend. Brandy is appropriately firm (she needs to be), and loving.
11:11-114 scared me because it actually sounded like a sentence I never heard her babble those sounds before....
ISSA CHERRY ‘I did a lot of work’
@@eabhasheehan1994 I heard it too! That was a clear sentence.
Isaiah: Wanna eat?
Abbie: -shakes head-
Isaiah: LIAR!
I love it 😂
I can tell that Summer living with you is great for everyone in different ways. Isaiah has a sister that can relate to him. Abbie clearly adores her. ☮️💜
Heartbreak Kid yes exactly 😁
Is summer related to them at all? Sorry im a new viewer here lol
Frankimoto no, Summer is not related to them, but they love each other like family.
Shes too forceful and restrains her shes awful
@@renee4075 I Disagree....I Love Summer Then Brandy
She's always vocal with Brandy , that's awesome. even when she doesn't want to do something, she's great with Abbie...
The lady at the bakery was so sweet. I love how patiently she looked at Abbie and waited for her answer. She didn't look to any of the adults to answer for Ab, and in the experiences I've had that is not common. 💙
YES! The Hispanic community NEEDS more info. I met a lovely family with a 12 year old with autism who has limited speech. The dad told me "we are new to autism." Their son is 12. No one told them why their son does what he does. No one gave them resources. I was so happy to answer a ton of questions, but it definitely highlighted to me how different access to information is in different communities.
I find it very hard to believe that a child can reach 12, not talk properly, and no doctor or teacher has ever raised the topic. Does the kid go to school? Theres no way you can reach 12, not talk properly and nobody has raised the subject.
I think its much more likely the family was in denial.
A little bit of advice, I think it would be beneficial to talk one person at a time. I think it can be overwhelming for everyone to be taking initiative when having her have calm hands and learn to wait for something that is coming. My son has autism & he usually need about 30 seconds to a minute to process the information. My husband and I usually over talk and not give him enough time. So we decided to change things and it really worked. Just a little suggestion because that’s something I do notice. All love for you guys. You’re an amazing family and team ❤️
U realize that the session and the video in general is edited so he shortens time or what ever from other videos they ckearly give her a lot of time to process what they said and to do what is asked im sure he cut the time between out
I wish people that ask or just give simple advice wouldn't get attacked, we are all learning about Abbie and autism so everyone, chill!
Tonia Kind I wasn’t actually but you can think what you please, I respect it. I love this family. They’ve helped me overcome a lot and if I could give my advice I will. I didn’t say take it or you’ll fail. I understand the videos are edited, but go back and watch more videos than just this one and you’ll see the over talking and no process time. It is not a bad thing & it also doesn’t make them bad parents or therapists. They have kind souls. We are all in this journey called life, together. ❤️ It is all love.
Tonia Kind I wasn’t actually but you can think what you please, I respect it. I love this family. They’ve helped me overcome a lot and if I could give my advice I will. I didn’t say take it or you’ll fail. I understand the videos are edited, but go back and watch more videos than just this one and you’ll see the over talking and no process time. It is not a bad thing & it also doesn’t make them bad parents or therapists. They have kind souls. We are all in this journey called life, together. ❤️ It is all love.
I have Autism. I wonder if you see that there is a consistent pattern that when multiple people ask Abbie a question and multiple people are asking multiple questions, Abbie will have a loud expression and/or shut down and then you guys ask her why she has a mood or say that Abbie must just not be into the situation. When multiple people ask me questions and multiple questions at a time, I feel the same way when if that had not happened, I would have been able to have participated. Many times I start to shut down with all the rapid questions and then Abbie starts to respond with loud expressions too.
Agreed
Becky thank you for sharing! My sweet girl is 8. I’m trying my best to help her without making her feel overwhelmed.
@@iseashia as I am more and more able to understand what people are doing, they are telling me that they believe they are helping and including me and they don't know that it is overwhelming.
At least 80% of time I wanted to interact, I had to stop because of how people responded to it.
I could interact more if people did not do what they are doing.
Becky what approach would be most comfortable for you? My daughter is nonverbal. What do you suggest I do to support her while trying to interact with her as well? Again, thank you for sharing.
Euphøria Musiç autism is a spectrum. Some autistic people can talk, some cannot. Some have high needs, some have low needs. Many autistic people have high intelligence levels and abilities but simply process the world differently than a neurotypical person. So, just because someone is able to type a comment to explain their situation doesn’t mean they aren’t autistic. I hope this helps! :)
GREAT JOB ABBIE!
One thing that helped my sons was playing doctor, dentist, eye doctor, ear doctor all the time and using lots of social stories. Super proud of Abbie. No one really likes doctors. I feel ya sista!
I'm currently studying ABA in undergrad, and it's been so cool seeing it in action through your videos. My mom recommended your channel to me, and your sweet family has me hooked.
I am ADDICTED to your channel! I check all of the time to see when you guys have posted. I found you guys randomly on facebook and I’ve been HOOKED since. I know no one with autism, but watching you guys teaches me a lot. You guys are the best and you do an AWESOME job with Abbie ❤️
I found them randomly last year on fb too. I’m so happy I did too. They are one amazing family!! 6pm est can’t come fast enough everyday. 😀
Thank you Asa and Cilla for letting us into your home. You are touching lives, educating us and entertaining as well
Im the youngest of 4 girls and this I can tell you for sure. I’ve learned countless valuable lessons by observing my older sisters. Your channel does just the same. If you feel led to explain things, please do so. But we learn just as much by watching you all interact with Abbey. Thank you for sticking around RUclips. 😊
At 6:51... I love all of Abbie’s “faces”...but that one makes me MELT 😍😍😍 I love when she makes that face like she’s studying things. Asa, we absolutely love videos with ABA therapy. It teaches us so much, and furthers inclusivity. Thank you for including these parts in the videos. 💜
I've loved seeing Abbie's progression over the last year that I've been watching and can't wait to see what the future holds. Well done Abbie and everyone. You inspire me to work hard and do my best.
My sister has autism well aspergers and it's very mild but everytime i watch your videos i recognize little things she does that never made me think that it was due to her autism thank u for opening up my eyes and allowing me to try to understand autism more
Your videos never fail to make me start crying happy tears. Yall talking about meeting other parents with autistic children got me.
I'm so happy I came across this channel a year or so ago. I don't have any family or anyone close to me with autism, but I've learned so much from you guys. I absolutely adore your family.
Cilla with her "yes sir" and such at that post office, such a southern thing! Cute. I'm from Michigan, and the mailman would have most likely laughed a bit.
I don’t know, Michigan has that “mid western charm” and I say yes sir often 😂 maybe I’m just awkward
Cilla was lovely and polite ... but was the Postmaster? Not so much.
Is that a southern thing? I’m from Indiana and do it lol
@@ellenskinner974 I thought it was just me that thought he came off a bit rude 🤣. But, I didn't even think twice about the "Yes, sir"
She is so polite even when the guy at the post office is rude.
Thank you for pointing out what Abby is learning and perfecting her communication with society (work in progress). I also appreciate that you are mindful of her surroundings and helping her with lessening the sound stims. I enjoyed and learning more from this vlog. Thank you. Please do more of pointing things out.
Abbie is so smart and it’s so interesting to see mrs Brandi working with her! You can see that Abbie knows exactly that mrs Brandi expects an accurate communication and that is so so important! !! Abbie communicates with mrs Brandi so much more on point and is much more focused and accurate in her signs. And you can see that Abbie knows exactly that the rest of the family doesn’t expect this so she is more inaccurate in her signs. Perfect mrs Brandi, great work!!!
Brandi is so amazing with Abbie I love seeing them interact
You all are amazing and always so patient with Abbie and so loving. I really love how everyone speaks to Abbie with a calm and peaceful voice. I always love to watch your channel
I just love that Abbie takes her shoes off everywhere 😄 makes me lol
I love the look Abby gave Asa told when he told her she could have just left her shoes on.
You're channel has really taught me how to not only interact with my niece who is autistic but to really understand as much as i can to help my niece to thrive.
I just want to let you all know I so enjoy watching you & your family! Abbie is doing well so proud of her using her words,& signing etc...Thats a big deal🤗💖
It's my favorite time of day! It's so fun to see Abbie laugh and smile.
I’m a den leader and one time the scouts in my den were getting to rowdy and I actually used hands waiting with them to get them to stop messing with things and listen to me. So I’ve learned some skills I can use with my kids and scouts from watching your videos! My kids also have watched videos with me and ask questions about why Abbie does certain things (like her stims) so it’s been awesome to educate them about people they may meet in public that are different than them.
I'm so glad I found your channel. I love the bond you all have, and even on your rough days you still smile and stay positive. I'm a caregiver myself. I sit with a disabled guy, who is in a wheelchair, and a disabled lady who is very sick. I'm 31 and have been doing it for 8 years and love it. I just love Abbie and her personality.
Abbie seems so much more at ease with communicating with Brandi
Asa does a great job of explaining the connections between real life experiences and aba therapy.
Just look how adorable Abbie is. She is so intelligent, you can see her try to process and be happy she gets awards. She seems calmer in the open air vehicle not the regular as she isn't trying to comfort herself as much. She is doing amazing, just watching her make her own choices, making signs to try and speak to Mom and Dad. Great Job Princess Abbie
Love all the videos but I especially love the ones with Ms Brandi! Very informative and interesting!
I swear abby said" I did alot of work "
Bless her she so clever
THANK YOU so much another awesome ABA video! As an aspiring ABA therapist this makes me on FIRE for the future impact I will have in the Autism community! Your family makes such an enormous impact for Autism! Thank you!!
It's so amazing watching her learn her skill's and the way y'all teach her these things.
As someone who is in a Hispanic family. This is so true Autism or any mental illness is considered taboo and no one ever acknowledges it. My brother had Autism and til is day my dad still doesn’t recognizes that Autism is something that will always be apart of our lives
Beautiful voice ! She for sure communicated that she did a lot of work ❤️
I have never heard those noises she made around 11:10! It almost gave me chills and I had to re-watch several times.
Wow, Abbie said "come on" in the cookie shop. Outstanding!
I have followed y'alls family for a while. I love your family. I can't say that I truly understand how it is with an autistic child. My sister is an ABA therapist.
I don’t have an autistic child but I love watching you guys! I watch everyday and I have never seen any abuse or neglect at all. Abigail is always hungry like any teenager and she certainly does not look like she’s starving. Also I have seen so much growth in her since I have been following you all and children that are abused or neglected or whatever the case may be do not progress they regress. I love you all and you are amazing!
Abbies really sounds like she’s trying to say words and a beautiful voice she’s has!! 💗🧩 love y’all are so amazing.
So glad you linked Rocking the Spectrum! Like yours, they are also a family I watch every time they post 😊
You can see how much Abby has mastered over the last year. ❤️
I get chills when you guys talk about who you've impacted... ❤
This was one of my favorite videos! I love them all but this one stood out for some reason. When Summer said she got chills I was like “Yess girl me too!” Great content fam! Love you guys❤️
Thanks for the inspiration of your daughter. I’m an autistic person and I’m higher functioning but I have my issues too. Keep making the content you guys are doing great and you are all amazing. Keep up the great work. From a fan from Indiana.
I love your vlogs.. when I'm having a bad day I turn you guys on and the stress goes away. Thank you
Love watching yalls videos! I’m aware that Abby is nonverbal but in this video at 11:12 it sounds like she answers summer by saying “ I cannot wait” when asked about food
I am a single mom. And all 3 of my kiddos are autistic. What you are doing is amazing.. I know I have already commented on a few videos. But I am so thankful for and blessed by your channel. I feel alone a lot. But watching your channel is so uplifting for me, and I am so happy that Abbie has such a loving family. Thank you so much for sharing so much of your lives. 💚💚
She makes me proud and she’s not my child but is achieving so many goals and rocks ‘‘em every time
Abbie had so much fun with her siblings!! I love it!!! Asa and Priscilla you are doing a amazing job with everything!!!
She actually stringed together a few words “I did a lot of work” I hope soon she will talk more!
Probably just a sounds
We have done ABA at my son's favorite restaurant, the mall and even a Halloween trunk or treat. I love when we can work in the "real world" .
I am so proud of Abbie!!!!She is making accomplishments in leaps and bounds!!! I also think that Summer being there is so beneficial for Abbie ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I swear it sounds like Abbie spoke at 11:12 !!! I did a lot of work!!! In the laundry room with Summer!!
You should make a compilation of just Abbie🥰
They need to let Abbie take over the vlog for a day. I’d like to see what she would do
givememore4free if you’re watching these videos like you say you do then you’d know she doesn’t sit on the couch much at all
I have been binging on your channel. You two are amazing parents. Isaiah is an awesome brother!
Well done Abbie helping Mom in the Post Office...👏🏻👏🏻💜⭐️⭐️
Well deserved treat for you sweetheart.... x✨💜✨
Shes so cute. She has such a sweet little heart and you are both doing an amazing Job. Big support here from Manchester UK
Awesome commentary Asa!
Your videos are more like a show..... Not talking about the family. Strictly speaking of how you edit your videos. You are the real deal my friend! It captures your attention right from the start... I never want the videos to end. I often wonder how you get such great scenes.... Amazing!!!
Jersey - 💜
Anytime we see Abbie, we learn more about Autism. I agree that your family doesn't have to always point out and talk about everything she does to make the vlog about Autism. And the vlogs you've done that don't have as much of Abbie because she wasn't in the mood to be filmed have still been awesome. Your family is very likeable and real.
I live to have as much patience as brandy! She’s great
Thanks go you guys I am actually working on desensitization with someone I support! So far its been working and its made things so much easier on him to handle his obsessions. He watches your channel with me all the time. Thank you for bringing more knowledge and awareness to everyone!!
Abbie and her therapist look a lot a like lol they look like sisters! Both so beautiful
VIDEO IDEA! Make a compilation of all the video clips ppl time stamped in the comments, where people hear Abbie make sounds that sound exactly like words appropriate for the situation. And caption it! It might be a cool way to explain your take again on if she might actually be trying to say certain words sometimes?
At 3.10ish after aser says come on it Really sounds Like Abbie attempts to repeat it. The annunciation is not defined but the sound is there. Great job Abigail !!
Abby looked so super cute in that blue shirt! I've been watching for a while and her progress has been incredible. Love your fam! ❤
I swear she said come on..I just love this whole family
This gives me so much perspective in my own life. Thanks for these videos.
I say it all the time and I'll keep saying it, y'all are awesome! You are changing the world!! Love y'all!!! 💙💙💙
What a blessing to have amazing support staff!
Thank you for sharing your family. It's great to see how a real family is.
IAM so proud of her she has come so so far I love seeing her progress she is so smart and yes it is very important that others understand our kids
Another awesome video. Love all the information that is shared. Abbies communication is getting so much more amazing.
Wow! I love watching the ABA content y’all put out. It’s so informative and enlightening. It really helps unexposed (to disabilities & disorders) people like me understand communication with people with disabilities and disorders.
Thanks so much!✌🏼🤟🏼🧡
-Also, love the joke of the day!
I LOVE the testing doctors office tools in home idea. My daughter gets so scared. I need to get her into ABA.
Nicole Braun can do without ABA.
Just Yes - I understand I can do this without ABA. Watching how much ABA has helped Abby and lots of others in many aspects I would want this same help for my daughter. I know she would benefit from the program 🙂
I LOVE HOW MOM IS WITH ABB ALL THE WAY ENJOYING WITH HER BABY GIRL.
COOL MOM N DAD 💛💛💛♿🙋
You guys are pros with NET (natural environment teaching) and finding so many opportunities to work in different targets while maintaining an enjoyable experience for everyone. I'm so glad other autism parents and everyday people get to see the importance of getting out into the community, and not always being over-accommodating when someone is working through something and how possible it is to cram in tons of learning into a little time.
I was talking to a guy I work with and he was mentioning that he has a new girlfriend who has sons with autism. He told me she was really struggling and he didn’t know what to do to help. I told him about your vlogs and now she watches all the time and it’s really helped with her everyday life. I just came across you lot on Facebook and just carried on watching. I don’t have a link to Autism but I watch to expand my knowledge of people. Another case was that, at work (I work in travel) I had a mother on the phone worried about her autistic child on a plane, and because I watched your video going to LA I was able to advise her to talk to the flight attendants and show the child what it’s like to be on a plane. So thank you, you dunkin lovin lot. You are a gift that keeps on giving.
Abby's expression when Brandy was showing her the medical equipment was just precious, truly curious and so innocent. I think you guys are doing an amazing service for those of us without much exposure to Autism, and it has been really eye-opening to see how much progress she has made just since I started watching a few months ago (I went back and started from the beginning, and watch new and old vlogs to see progress), and it's so cool!! I was wondering how you get Abbie to give blood, when she has to have labs. I'm sure with being on the types of medications she is on, that they have to do labs sometimes in order to make sure her doses are appropriate. Does she understand this at all or is it a traumatic experience for her? Thanks for all you guys do to educate us!
For me, even if you guys don't obviously point it out, everything has something to do with Autism. Every day with my son and everything we do is a learning opportunity for both of us.
We are just north of you in Savannah. We are a mixed Hispanic/white family with an 8 year old daughter that has autism/Fragile X. Glad to see all the love and patience that Abby has around her.
The impact y’all are having so freakin awesome 👏🏻👌🏻
I’m so glad you are pointing that out! We try to save up and at least once a month we go out and have a family dinner in a restaurant. It’s great to get out as a family but I also use it to work with our son with autism. So many tasks and behaviors to work on just in one setting. Many don’t see that and understand family outings with us are combined with therapy for Blake.
Fantastic idea Brandi so useful for those fearful of doctors parafenalia....
I wish my Son had himself a Brandy....i love the way she works with Abby!!
I love u guys u are amazing u always manages to put a smile on my face when I'm not the best never ever let anyone get to u or put u and your family down bullys have nothing better to be doing I love Abbie she's so cute I love it when she says no
I really love your channel. You guys really bring awareness to people who don't really know about autism. I learned so much from you guys. Thank you!!!
That is super awesome video you guys are super funny and awesome amazing work and I really love your daughter smile she got a beautiful and cute smile
Abbie is so funny I love her and love everything you do for her
I just love watching your vlogs - I work with special needs students and have even started using hands waiting with one of my students which I learned from you guys
Abbies skills really seem to be sky rocketing over the last year or so. And I swear her NO seems very clear. I hope I'm right :)
Its the sound she makes all the time
It was cool to see Abbie have a conversation with her ABA therapist. When she wanted a break she wanted to stay their and made that clear. It’s cool to see her growing!
You guys helped me figured out that my daughter has Autism❤️ I had to fight to get her tested & she has Autism. She was diagnosed 12/12/2019 I’m still new too. I was watching your guys videos when I suspected Autism & to this day after her diagnosis. I love your videos❤️