i love these kind of cleaning and selling out merchs and figure because i have similar problem while being a collector, i learnt a lot about what i want to collect and love personally and would rather slow down more than try to have it as fast as possible
I was also obsessed with collecting merch and figures, but lately I feel like this kind of hobby doesn’t seem to click anymore (along the way I also found myself a new interest), and it was drained for me atp to deal with the rest of tax money that I haven’t even fully paid for my merch. Watching this video, I could see myself in you, and I’m so proud of you for being able to let something you love go! Thank you for such inspiring video ❤️
Thank you for this video. I used to be a crazy figure and merch collector, until I was forced to realize that either I quit this lifestyle or be permanently broke every month. It’s been five years since I focused only on the media side of things, but I still have the majority of my figure collection. Watching your video might be the push I need to finally downsize it.
I have the same issues with buying collecting fanmerch but for various ships and fandoms. The dopamine hits hard when I get so hyper fixated with a new character or ship I love and then finding merch and things for a good price! But then I end up hoarding, selling stuff to fund the hobby , repeat cycle etc ^^' I love them all but half the time mine is in storage so I cannot fully appreciate them anyway as they are not out in display due to lack of space. I plan to downsize too, I don't have a tiktok account or a audience so selling stuff will be much slower but its a good start 😊Thanks for inspiring me so much with this video! 🙏 It must feel freeing to see all that empty space, like a fresh new start ❤
Lmao yeah, I’ve hoarded so much anime merch before just to fund my BL collection and now that I’ve sold these off, I can actually fund new novels I wanna read 😂 it really is rinse and repeat haha
Well i love bl ships i just collect fanart. Its digital. Also i collect screenshot of cool fights scenes in overpowered manhwa. Lets you imagine a cooler world too.
I hope you feel freer. Keeping smaller collections, keeping favorites, is so much better instead of thinking like you have to get everything available. Make memories, instead of hoarding things. I’m probably lucky because my fave is SVSSS except I’m not a Bingqui fan 😂 So there’s no merch for me. I’m always a side pair or rare pair fan in everything. You seem really cool. Which is why I watched this video, too. I hope this goes well for you!
Ooh an addition to a digital vs. physical books, it's a better choice to purchase physical just due to the reason of being able to own the item. With digital copies, there is always a risk that the copy disappears due to licensing issues or the eReader no longer functioning/being updated/supported. With a book it is always reliably there. On that note of physical vs. digital though, I also used to collect art prints but managed to cull that habit by collecting it digitally. It's harder to sell art prints just due to my taste being too different from others when I fall put of love for them so I instead just hoard a bunch of downloaded art on my phone so it's easy to look through and remains easily accessible.
It's a lovely process that those merch just pass on to one who also another passionate caretaker. I once collected colourful vintage beaded dresses from Y2K era, but there is feeling and time for everything. I sold some to those who also like those dresses, and was very happy about it because the dresses will be beautifully worn and useful again by those who also love them. Collectors are like this I guess.
I loved hearing your thought process on this. As a collector myself, I've come to realize to buy items that i truly love not and not in the jist of the moment due to fomo or how amazing it looks. I would've collected so many figures and mangas if I didn't have bills to contribute to, and the fact im still living with parents and my room isn't big enough to accommodate another bookshelf. Plus finding space to store the figure boxes is a nightmare. Ps: i follow you on ig so I was surprised to see your video in my feed. I love watching your content😊❤
I am currently leaving Lolita Fashion and I'm having the same attitude as you. I was in love with this hobby for a time but now it just doesn't click like it used to. So I'm selling off my dresses. I'm actually on a little break from taking pictures as I'm writting this, since there is so much organising to do!! Wish me luck. I wonder what next fashion trend I'll dive into next; I'm quite excited.
Congratulations! I think keeping what you have for the moment will help you feel happy with your purchases AND help with your collecting itch. Having too much space is often a motivation for my own buying. If you keep some things setup beautifully arranged, then you will hopefully see them daily and feel comfortable with what you have
Yeah I am the opposite. I started and stopped myself before I got to this point. I only get anime and manga. It is rare that I get prints and if I do I tend to scrapbook with them. It is SO HARD to part with some stuff though...😅 I have to constantly re-evaluate what I really love and what I could do without.
That’s the level I’m trying to get to. Do you also own a lot of manga and anime? I used to own 600+ manga/manhwa and eventually got rid of off most of it too lol
@@blbubble yeah my manga collection was pretty big but I have slowly been realizing that some of them I haven't read in years and have outgrown. I like more mature romance themes now (32 female ☺) and find it is easier to get rid of stuff. My advice, if you want it, is to take EVERYTHING (I am not kidding) off your shelves, this includes all 600 manga, separate them by series, and then hold each series one at a time. This will help you determine if you love it enough to keep it. Sounds crazy but it works. I will always want to watch/read new series but it is getting easier to let go of the ones I no longer use. I am never going to stop collecting but I am trying to get to a point where I am in control of the hobby and not the other way around. That fear of missing out can get you.
I think it's a really good idea to JUST collect the media!! That seems like a good path forward for you. Thank you for making the part 2, this series is so inspiring!!
Man I Missed Out On This!!!! But At Least You Can Start Over With Your Favorite Bl Or Anime. Right Now I'm Just Starting With My Scum Collection And I Have A Big Collection For Heaven Official's Blessing, Also A Big Black Butler Collection. (Also I'm Happy That You Didn't Sell Your Ring Doll's Because They Are So Expensive!!)
The goal isn’t to start all over again cause I literally just sold off my most favorite series lol it would be painful to collect it all over. My goal is to stick to the medias and keep the merch I have left. Maybe once in awhile I’ll pick up a new merch piece
congrats on being able to meet your initial financial goals!! it can be really hard to separate loving a piece of media from consuming merch related to it. limiting your focus and scope does not mean you love a series less. i'm sure this is tough in the moment, but you've got this ❤
What you kept looks so nice! A little sad to see you let the nendoroids go though. Is there a specific place or store you bought those art prints above your shelves from? Unrelated but in my opinion Physical Books are also the better option because of DRM, we're not in control of most digital content we 'buy' because what we're really buying is a license for the content that could be revoked at any time and isnt in your control and not the actual product/contents.
I'm basic. I see Link Click and I click like the button. As someone wanting to get into collecting. I did worry about the dopamine hit from collecting. Ya boy is AuDHD and impulse buying is something I'm trying to chill on. In the end I had to think what could I maybe keep digitally? and what manga do I truly want to keep with me? Thank you for the video, plus I found some great manga recommendations a and I've added them to my managa list
The only thing keeping me from making proper shrines is my living space. It's too small so I'm forced to think about not having too much. But yeah danmei merch is a whole thing i don't think i will get into as much even though its something of my interest. At least it gets sold really easy atm with its popularity....idk if thats a blessing or not 😂
I saw your last video and I got to say, WOW, I don't know you but I'm super proud of you, it must've been super hard but it's such a nice step, God Job!
I followed you because you reminded me that it’s okay to let go of your Merch. I’m just starting to realize that I really want to it down my collection and seeing someone else do it is really helpful
If something i would like to have is books with hard cover so they last longer good shape and something what every character have. Like luo binche (sorry if i write them wrong because poor memory) have green jade pendant, shen yuan have fan, wei ying have flute, lan zhan guqin, xie lian long white cloth and hua cheng have silver butterfly or red bead. If i have money i would buy books but they are so hard to get where i live so i can only cry there. I have read these in net before they where made paper books so i was lucky. And because i dont have money to buy many or rare thinks but what i have i merget with memori these books. Like i wanted as young have bambu flute to learn to play it, itsnt black or anything fansy but now i have memory of wei ying in it. I have kantele for lan zhan, (its finnish instrument) but closer i cant get with guqin. I have big silk fan for shen yuan. Luo bingche doesnt have anything right now because i dont have found right one. Xie liang and hua cheng have earrings, one red glass bead and one real silver butterfly. So isnt lot but i remember the books when i look or use these thinks.
Hi, I don’t really collect much manga series, but if you’re referring to the large collection in front of me, those are called “danmei” which is essentially Chinese BL. The merch I collect mostly are from the most popular danmei series called Grandmaster of Demonic Cultivation (MDZS), Scum Villain’s Self Saving System (SVSSS), and Heaven Official’s Blessing (TGCF). All 3 of those series are by the author Mo Xiang Tong Xiu aka MXTX. The original source are all novels, but there are different adaptations. MDZS has novels, animation (donghua), comics (manhua) and a live adaptation called The Untamed. All adaptations are censored except for the novel. SVSSS has novels and animation, but I heard the animation style sucks so I didn’t bother watching it. The novel was great. TGCF has novels, comics, and animation. You can read these series in any order, but the most popular series by her is MDZS. I recommend all 3. If you’re interested in other danmei series, there’s a site called sevenseasdanmei and this is the same English publishing company that released these novels and more.
As a person who wishes to live in world that like some overpowered manhwa with mana qi/martial arts, never felt the urge to buy merch. Its a pale immatation. Also i love bl mnahwa and bl ships so dogital art saving is all thats needed.
Wow, I wish I didn’t feel the need to buy merch, but I end up collecting physical and digital art 😩 I do think danmei merch is the prettiest, most aesthetic merch I’ve ever collected, but it’s good you don’t feel the need ‘cause it’s so expensive lol
@@blbubble What can i say im de attached from the world . 🙏But i do feel the need to do some digital sweeping but then think how nice it be to go back after a long time and look through all the pretty art. And yes danmei is pretty espically chu wanning.
How i kept forgot to sub your channel because i wanted see collection journey no matter sizes is! Cx Congratulations for did job! Cx sorry i may selfish because i worried if you delete your videos i wanted to catch or visit to see any old and new collection. :') because i see these are memories to me. Cx ❤ orz
Heartbreak to see those merch gone, but so proud that u have found your inner peace and the courage to let them go.
i love these kind of cleaning and selling out merchs and figure because i have similar problem while being a collector, i learnt a lot about what i want to collect and love personally and would rather slow down more than try to have it as fast as possible
I was also obsessed with collecting merch and figures, but lately I feel like this kind of hobby doesn’t seem to click anymore (along the way I also found myself a new interest), and it was drained for me atp to deal with the rest of tax money that I haven’t even fully paid for my merch. Watching this video, I could see myself in you, and I’m so proud of you for being able to let something you love go! Thank you for such inspiring video ❤️
Thank you for this video. I used to be a crazy figure and merch collector, until I was forced to realize that either I quit this lifestyle or be permanently broke every month. It’s been five years since I focused only on the media side of things, but I still have the majority of my figure collection. Watching your video might be the push I need to finally downsize it.
That’s really good if you haven’t bought any new merch in 5 years. It’s hard to stick with it due to fomo
@@blbubblethe FOMO is real. The FOMO tries to break down my doors every week. You stay strong 😂
I have the same issues with buying collecting fanmerch but for various ships and fandoms. The dopamine hits hard when I get so hyper fixated with a new character or ship I love and then finding merch and things for a good price! But then I end up hoarding, selling stuff to fund the hobby , repeat cycle etc ^^'
I love them all but half the time mine is in storage so I cannot fully appreciate them anyway as they are not out in display due to lack of space. I plan to downsize too, I don't have a tiktok account or a audience so selling stuff will be much slower but its a good start 😊Thanks for inspiring me so much with this video! 🙏
It must feel freeing to see all that empty space, like a fresh new start ❤
Lmao yeah, I’ve hoarded so much anime merch before just to fund my BL collection and now that I’ve sold these off, I can actually fund new novels I wanna read 😂 it really is rinse and repeat haha
Well i love bl ships i just collect fanart. Its digital. Also i collect screenshot of cool fights scenes in overpowered manhwa. Lets you imagine a cooler world too.
I hope you feel freer. Keeping smaller collections, keeping favorites, is so much better instead of thinking like you have to get everything available. Make memories, instead of hoarding things.
I’m probably lucky because my fave is SVSSS except I’m not a Bingqui fan 😂 So there’s no merch for me. I’m always a side pair or rare pair fan in everything.
You seem really cool. Which is why I watched this video, too. I hope this goes well for you!
Ooh an addition to a digital vs. physical books, it's a better choice to purchase physical just due to the reason of being able to own the item. With digital copies, there is always a risk that the copy disappears due to licensing issues or the eReader no longer functioning/being updated/supported. With a book it is always reliably there.
On that note of physical vs. digital though, I also used to collect art prints but managed to cull that habit by collecting it digitally. It's harder to sell art prints just due to my taste being too different from others when I fall put of love for them so I instead just hoard a bunch of downloaded art on my phone so it's easy to look through and remains easily accessible.
It's a lovely process that those merch just pass on to one who also another passionate caretaker. I once collected colourful vintage beaded dresses from Y2K era, but there is feeling and time for everything. I sold some to those who also like those dresses, and was very happy about it because the dresses will be beautifully worn and useful again by those who also love them. Collectors are like this I guess.
I loved hearing your thought process on this. As a collector myself, I've come to realize to buy items that i truly love not and not in the jist of the moment due to fomo or how amazing it looks. I would've collected so many figures and mangas if I didn't have bills to contribute to, and the fact im still living with parents and my room isn't big enough to accommodate another bookshelf. Plus finding space to store the figure boxes is a nightmare.
Ps: i follow you on ig so I was surprised to see your video in my feed. I love watching your content😊❤
I'm glad you're keeping the crochet dolls, you worked so hard on them and I loved seeing your joy in them.
I am currently leaving Lolita Fashion and I'm having the same attitude as you. I was in love with this hobby for a time but now it just doesn't click like it used to. So I'm selling off my dresses. I'm actually on a little break from taking pictures as I'm writting this, since there is so much organising to do!! Wish me luck. I wonder what next fashion trend I'll dive into next; I'm quite excited.
👀👀 I’m a lolita, are you selling on lace market?
@@mizushimma yes, I'm listing on both Lace Market and Vinted. My name in Lace Market is the same: LumytheQueen
Congratulations! I think keeping what you have for the moment will help you feel happy with your purchases AND help with your collecting itch. Having too much space is often a motivation for my own buying. If you keep some things setup beautifully arranged, then you will hopefully see them daily and feel comfortable with what you have
Yeah I am the opposite. I started and stopped myself before I got to this point. I only get anime and manga. It is rare that I get prints and if I do I tend to scrapbook with them. It is SO HARD to part with some stuff though...😅 I have to constantly re-evaluate what I really love and what I could do without.
That’s the level I’m trying to get to. Do you also own a lot of manga and anime? I used to own 600+ manga/manhwa and eventually got rid of off most of it too lol
@@blbubble yeah my manga collection was pretty big but I have slowly been realizing that some of them I haven't read in years and have outgrown. I like more mature romance themes now (32 female ☺) and find it is easier to get rid of stuff. My advice, if you want it, is to take EVERYTHING (I am not kidding) off your shelves, this includes all 600 manga, separate them by series, and then hold each series one at a time. This will help you determine if you love it enough to keep it. Sounds crazy but it works. I will always want to watch/read new series but it is getting easier to let go of the ones I no longer use. I am never going to stop collecting but I am trying to get to a point where I am in control of the hobby and not the other way around. That fear of missing out can get you.
I think it's a really good idea to JUST collect the media!! That seems like a good path forward for you. Thank you for making the part 2, this series is so inspiring!!
Just stopped by to say good job on downsizing and I wish you the best
Man I Missed Out On This!!!! But At Least You Can Start Over With Your Favorite Bl Or Anime.
Right Now I'm Just Starting With My Scum Collection And I Have A Big Collection For Heaven Official's Blessing, Also A Big Black Butler Collection.
(Also I'm Happy That You Didn't Sell Your Ring Doll's Because They Are So Expensive!!)
The goal isn’t to start all over again cause I literally just sold off my most favorite series lol it would be painful to collect it all over. My goal is to stick to the medias and keep the merch I have left. Maybe once in awhile I’ll pick up a new merch piece
@@blbubble Ahh I See! But When I Said Start Over I Meant Your Other Favorite Bl And Anime's That You Really Want To Collect.
cheering on u!! > w
congrats on being able to meet your initial financial goals!! it can be really hard to separate loving a piece of media from consuming merch related to it. limiting your focus and scope does not mean you love a series less. i'm sure this is tough in the moment, but you've got this ❤
What you kept looks so nice! A little sad to see you let the nendoroids go though. Is there a specific place or store you bought those art prints above your shelves from?
Unrelated but in my opinion Physical Books are also the better option because of DRM, we're not in control of most digital content we 'buy' because what we're really buying is a license for the content that could be revoked at any time and isnt in your control and not the actual product/contents.
If you’re referring to the posters of the dudes in suits, it’s by the artist Ereyzme. I have links to her shops in my bio :)
Congrats!
This was not expected but Im glad you can do it :3!!
Adios lovely merch 😭😭😭
It definitely was an emotional goodbye. I had a good long look at it before letting it go 😭
@@blbubble we will all miss the merch that you’ve collected 😭
@@blbubblebut why ?😢
@@littlebigkicker I’ve already spent 20 minutes explaining why in my last video 😂
@@blbubble well i didnt see inyour last video your video just poped up in my feed so there that lolz
that is so amazing that u feel better about this and ur healing while also continuing to collect what u love
I'm basic. I see Link Click and I click like the button.
As someone wanting to get into collecting. I did worry about the dopamine hit from collecting. Ya boy is AuDHD and impulse buying is something I'm trying to chill on.
In the end I had to think what could I maybe keep digitally? and what manga do I truly want to keep with me?
Thank you for the video, plus I found some great manga recommendations a and I've added them to my managa list
The only thing keeping me from making proper shrines is my living space. It's too small so I'm forced to think about not having too much. But yeah danmei merch is a whole thing i don't think i will get into as much even though its something of my interest. At least it gets sold really easy atm with its popularity....idk if thats a blessing or not 😂
It’s a blessing for me that it got sold easily, because the items that don’t sell becomes a pain to let go for free lol
@@blbubble 👍 yeah, I'm glad you could rather than with other merch that had less followers 😊
e-readers have SD cards so you will never lose your things!
I saw your last video and I got to say, WOW, I don't know you but I'm super proud of you, it must've been super hard but it's such a nice step, God Job!
I followed you because you reminded me that it’s okay to let go of your Merch. I’m just starting to realize that I really want to it down my collection and seeing someone else do it is really helpful
Think of it as sharing your joy with others
Ugghh I wish I saw this earlier I would’ve loved to help out by buying (I’m also obsessed with ur old level of mdzs and tgcf merch)
not sure if you mentioned this before, but how did you attach those posters on the wall? they detached cleanly
I use thumbtacks to pin my posters to the wall and sticky tack for posters on my bookcases
@@blbubble thanks for answering! 🥰 Were there any issues removing the sticky tack on the posters itself?
was excited when i saw the video thumbnail, im rlly happy for you!!!
If something i would like to have is books with hard cover so they last longer good shape and something what every character have. Like luo binche (sorry if i write them wrong because poor memory) have green jade pendant, shen yuan have fan, wei ying have flute, lan zhan guqin, xie lian long white cloth and hua cheng have silver butterfly or red bead.
If i have money i would buy books but they are so hard to get where i live so i can only cry there. I have read these in net before they where made paper books so i was lucky.
And because i dont have money to buy many or rare thinks but what i have i merget with memori these books. Like i wanted as young have bambu flute to learn to play it, itsnt black or anything fansy but now i have memory of wei ying in it. I have kantele for lan zhan, (its finnish instrument) but closer i cant get with guqin. I have big silk fan for shen yuan. Luo bingche doesnt have anything right now because i dont have found right one. Xie liang and hua cheng have earrings, one red glass bead and one real silver butterfly.
So isnt lot but i remember the books when i look or use these thinks.
u can read the books on laptop or phone~ that’s what i do 😊
Hi. Just found your channel and was curious on the names of the manga. Is it just one series or multiple manga stories?
Hi, I don’t really collect much manga series, but if you’re referring to the large collection in front of me, those are called “danmei” which is essentially Chinese BL. The merch I collect mostly are from the most popular danmei series called Grandmaster of Demonic Cultivation (MDZS), Scum Villain’s Self Saving System (SVSSS), and Heaven Official’s Blessing (TGCF). All 3 of those series are by the author Mo Xiang Tong Xiu aka MXTX. The original source are all novels, but there are different adaptations.
MDZS has novels, animation (donghua), comics (manhua) and a live adaptation called The Untamed. All adaptations are censored except for the novel.
SVSSS has novels and animation, but I heard the animation style sucks so I didn’t bother watching it. The novel was great.
TGCF has novels, comics, and animation.
You can read these series in any order, but the most popular series by her is MDZS. I recommend all 3. If you’re interested in other danmei series, there’s a site called sevenseasdanmei and this is the same English publishing company that released these novels and more.
my jaw dropped omg what
As a person who wishes to live in world that like some overpowered manhwa with mana qi/martial arts, never felt the urge to buy merch. Its a pale immatation. Also i love bl mnahwa and bl ships so dogital art saving is all thats needed.
Wow, I wish I didn’t feel the need to buy merch, but I end up collecting physical and digital art 😩 I do think danmei merch is the prettiest, most aesthetic merch I’ve ever collected, but it’s good you don’t feel the need ‘cause it’s so expensive lol
@@blbubble What can i say im de attached from the world . 🙏But i do feel the need to do some digital sweeping but then think how nice it be to go back after a long time and look through all the pretty art. And yes danmei is pretty espically chu wanning.
How i kept forgot to sub your channel because i wanted see collection journey no matter sizes is! Cx
Congratulations for did job! Cx sorry i may selfish because i worried if you delete your videos i wanted to catch or visit to see any old and new collection. :') because i see these are memories to me. Cx ❤ orz
Where are you selling your items? I couldn't find a link to buy.
I’m done selling now, but I sold it on TikTok via messages
IS THAT ENNEAD SETH!!!!!!!
YES!!! 🗣️
@@blbubble HE SO PRETTY
Ty to wszystko sprzedajesz?
I already sold it. This video is about me explaining how I feel while selling it.
hey, just like keep in mind you may need to be taxed on the money.