Great video. I love this type of “love” video, insightful without focusing on romance. I once read/heard that freedom is more valuable than love. So when you say you love people that help you feel free, it makes sense and is very relatable. But I think it’s funny because I love INTJs because they ground me, they are logical and consistent. Me and another ENFP, it would be fun for a short time, but very chaotic and it would eventually combust. I don’t understand INTJ hate. You guys are my favorite.
As an Intj, I found some key points that may apply(or not). Is Ni objective/neutral/ ying and yang. Does Te lean masculine or feminine. Does Fi lean masculine or feminine. Does Se lean masculine or feminine. Spectrum analysis of internal mental structure and mental structure building may be key for self-development and internal growth. I like to frame love in terms of peace and joy and gives comforting solace. However, in a harsh world we often put on our game face to get through life's hurddles. So, finding our happy place, can also have its challenges. Ni is such a grand concept/reality, it is hard to find like minded individuals, especially high achiever types. Academic, physical, ect.
Another awesome video, Kiara! It got me to wondering, in your opinion as an INTJ, do you enjoy typical romantic gestures? Such as flowers, love notes, hand holding, etc
3 variables, admiration+respect+trust = Love huh? Wow, only 3. Interesting. What about attraction? Is that part of admiration? What about affection? I do agree with her definitions with admiration, respect, and trust. Nothing annoys/puts me off more, than someone suddenly acting out of character. I can understand traumatic events (i.e., accidents, death of a love one, rape, severe lack of sleep, food, water, etc.,) can cause a person's character radically change. Perhaps because I'm on a autism spectrum, but I can suffer from being overloaded with emotion that it inhibits my thinking? This only happens when someone I love and/or deeply trust hurts me either emotionally or physically. Just curious. Thanks Kiara, for sharing your perceptions and thought processes in regards to your interpretation of "Love."
@@DarinM1967 thanks for your comment, you may have missed at the start of the video I noted love for me is across context, romantic or friendship. Attraction and affection are separate things in my eyes and are not foundational aspects of “love” as a concept (this is just to me).
@@CoachKiara I think I did hear that. Perhaps I didn't take it as literally as I should have. My error. I'm not used to listening to as literal of a thinker as myself. Living most of my life among people who aren't can do that I guess. Also maybe it's because as a male, I value physical attractiveness, especially in potential female friends/mates higher. Thank you, Kiara for taking the time to respond to clear up my misunderstanding.
Funny you say that about 10 Things I Hate About You, growing up I loved watching Matilda and turns out she is an INTJ too!
Great video. I love this type of “love” video, insightful without focusing on romance.
I once read/heard that freedom is more valuable than love. So when you say you love people that help you feel free, it makes sense and is very relatable. But I think it’s funny because I love INTJs because they ground me, they are logical and consistent. Me and another ENFP, it would be fun for a short time, but very chaotic and it would eventually combust.
I don’t understand INTJ hate. You guys are my favorite.
@@Sofiarey285 I really appreciate your comment 🫶🏻
Well Damn, now I feel loved and encouraged.
As an Intj, I found some key points that may apply(or not). Is Ni objective/neutral/ ying and yang. Does Te lean masculine or feminine. Does Fi lean masculine or feminine. Does Se lean masculine or feminine. Spectrum analysis of internal mental structure and mental structure building may be key for self-development and internal growth. I like to frame love in terms of peace and joy and gives comforting solace. However, in a harsh world we often put on our game face to get through life's hurddles. So, finding our happy place, can also have its challenges. Ni is such a grand concept/reality, it is hard to find like minded individuals, especially high achiever types. Academic, physical, ect.
Another awesome video, Kiara! It got me to wondering, in your opinion as an INTJ, do you enjoy typical romantic gestures? Such as flowers, love notes, hand holding, etc
@@RockofOTown my opinion is that’s not personality based and you should ask the woman you’re talking about directly their opinion 😉
3 variables, admiration+respect+trust = Love huh? Wow, only 3. Interesting. What about attraction? Is that part of admiration? What about affection? I do agree with her definitions with admiration, respect, and trust. Nothing annoys/puts me off more, than someone suddenly acting out of character. I can understand traumatic events (i.e., accidents, death of a love one, rape, severe lack of sleep, food, water, etc.,) can cause a person's character radically change. Perhaps because I'm on a autism spectrum, but I can suffer from being overloaded with emotion that it inhibits my thinking? This only happens when someone I love and/or deeply trust hurts me either emotionally or physically. Just curious. Thanks Kiara, for sharing your perceptions and thought processes in regards to your interpretation of "Love."
@@DarinM1967 thanks for your comment, you may have missed at the start of the video I noted love for me is across context, romantic or friendship. Attraction and affection are separate things in my eyes and are not foundational aspects of “love” as a concept (this is just to me).
@@CoachKiara I think I did hear that. Perhaps I didn't take it as literally as I should have. My error. I'm not used to listening to as literal of a thinker as myself. Living most of my life among people who aren't can do that I guess. Also maybe it's because as a male, I value physical attractiveness, especially in potential female friends/mates higher. Thank you, Kiara for taking the time to respond to clear up my misunderstanding.