Candy Spelling on Tori: 'It hurts to see your child hurting'
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- Опубликовано: 10 май 2014
- Candy Spelling sits down with Weekend Express' Lynn Berry and talks about her new memoir, "Candy At Last." In the new book, she addresses her relationship with her daughter Tori and son-in-law, Dean McDermott. Plus, Spelling talks about the difficulty of moving on after a spouse dies. Watch: How real is Tori Spelling's reality show?
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She should of gave her kids a trust over time. She’s got enough for herself for God sakes !
It is digusting for a parent to have so much and leave her children struggling. Their parents raised them in ridiculous wealth and then leaves them a mess as adults. GREEDY HUMAN.
No! What is disgusting is when parents give their children millions and not allow them to build character and character is build by working hard and enjoying your fruits of your labor. There are many celebrities that are not planing on leaving millions to their children because for the reason that they don’t want them to be entitled braces.
Candy spelling NEVER WAS a mom to her two children. She was all about things money could buy. Greedy selfish self centered tori never thought she was loved she was given stuff! Things! Not a mother's love😢
How can children become adults when their mother is all about look who i am aaron spelling wife!!!!
What kind of sad, miserable woman hates her own kids that much?
Again I ask all those people attacking Candy to review Tori's Husband's history. She cheated with him while he was married to another woman who had a child. He refused to pay child support while living the life of luxury. He owes $100,000 and moe which lead to a oontempt of court charge and possible jail. If you feel Candy is being mean then I think Tori is being mean to Dean's first child. Tori should pay his back child support if she really loves him.
Tori was also newly married when her and Dean had an affair. She made her bed and now she has to sleep in it. Karma is a bitch.
You know as much as I hate to agree with Candy.. I do.. I'm at poverty level.61yrs old.. hairstylist.. body is in bad shape from my work for 30yrs. Why do I agree.. I have a 31 yr old son who has never left the nest who steals. And soaks me dry.. who's fault.. my fault and his dad's.. he's in the next room. Very disrespectful and selfish. Still my fault. I never forced him to grow up and I'm still paying for. I wished I had her strength.. you go Candy.. and it's my bad parenting of never letting my son suffer consequences
You just told everyone what a disconnected, narcissistic and emotionally barren mother you are. That poor kid never stood a chance with a “guide” like you in life.
No one to blame but both parents . They raised their children to spend money like water . Look at Jackie Kennedy how she raised her children .
Her son has a lovely wife and family and he lives a happy, regular life and even her son admitted he might not be this content in his life if he had $10 million dollars sitting in his bank or credit union account.
Bling SugarBaby that's not what he said he said he'd have a much different life with 10 million in the bank
victoria hale So would I......
Candy seems pretty content with all of Aaron's money.
To be honest I think Mr. Spelling left a small amount to the kids, with the belief that Candy would still give money and do for the kids. I actually believe Candy was a jealous wife and mother. She probably saw that her Husband did anything for his kids especially his daughter and I think holds a grudge towards her daughter.
I guess no one would be satisfied whether she gave them more money, or left them to fend more for themselves. If they had the money and had to go to rehab etc, people would say it was because they were given too much all their lives.
On the other hand, the parents expected their kids to at least learn to earn a living, They turned out well, and they seem to be happy. Why bitch about what the Mother is doing then. Some people complain just to be heard.
I have just read Candy`s book. I thought it was a very positive book about her new stage in life which other people also go through in life`s development. All the best Candy.Donalda Johnson
This woman is the worst excuse for a mother there is. Its horrible that she allowed their dad to to that to them in the will. She is the one who should have has the One million and they get the rest. If the shoe were on the other foot how would she feel. I hope she enjoys hell.
Just because Aaron left the kids a small amount doesn't mean she had to give them that amount...she could have given them as much as she wanted....just no less...she was greedy.
The story at the time was that Aaron became critically ill and Candy, last minute, pressured Aaron to change the will to essentially give Candy the entire estate. Candy was thought by her daughter to be having an affair with a family friend, which is the real reason for the rift and disagreements over money.
Wray Row Actually, Randy isn't happy about the situation at all. He has learned to cope but what he describes a downfall after essentially losing everything he was financially accustomed to his entire life. I can't imagine what must go through his head when he faces hardships he wasn't prepared to experience. I don't Tori is bad with her family. She was raised to have everything she wanted and her parents are to blame for that. Candy is the definition of greedy, cold and heartless.
Yes Yes!!!❤
Katherine Coles Exactly I would share with my babies f what my husband said.
Kinda crazy to raise your children in obscene wealth and privilege, and then say "okay bye go learn how to make it in the world" lol WTH?
I was never a Tori fan. I know who she is but I didn’t watch the shows that she’s was famous for. However I’m looking at this as a mother. Candy has no problem living her life of luxury while her daughter is living in poverty. I know Dean can be a problem, but her daughter loves him and she needs to respect that. I don’t think Aaron would allow his daughter to live like this. I think candy needs to step up to the plate and help her daughter. And by helping her daughter she would be helping her grandchildren. Tori was supposed to get more in the will, however candy didn’t like the way she spent money.
My God!! She was given a whole wing of the house growing up. She had Christmas trees in her room. Sitting rooms for her friends. They even had a couple rooms for wrapping gifts. She was raised in a life of luxury you can’t go from living like that to living in poverty, when there’s something that can be done about it. Sorry candy but as a mom I disagree with you.
I think Aaron Spelling knew what he was doing by leaving his wife the bulk of his money to his wife. His children would have probably be dead or in rehab by now. They have probably have struggled but have done ok.
So So Sad give the whole lot to the starving children in war torn countries .
Candy is being a good mother Seriously, just because she's rich doesn't mean you pay for everything. She's supported her for years and Tori needs to grow up, and Candy shouldn't have to explain herself. I feel bad for her :( Tori has a shopping problem and will blow the money in a couple years. She's thinking about the future and ensuring she has money left when she needs it.
She's teaching them to fend for themselves. No one owes them anything. Her brother seems to be doing ok and no one told Tori to marry a scumbag and have 47 children.
Aries it's true Tori does have a shopping problem. .with having that many kids you would think you would eliminate some or alot of the luxuries! Think of the kids!
why would she raise her children one way and then cruelly leave them to fend for themselves when their father passed? was it all tabloid garbage? sounds like there is some truth to it as tori is obviously living a different way
Gary Edwards Exactky because she’s a no good narcissist that wants to see them suffer as adults.
She's taught her (only) daughter the value of a dollar long enough ... life is short; it's time to spread the money around. You can't take it with you honey! I don't even know how one sleeps at night (with $600 MILLION dollars) knowing that your only two children are doing without. You can't "candy" coat it; something is awry here.
True. A trust with monthly payout would be nice. If I were Tori I would never reconcile with her
@@luxuryplushbyiblogfhsb CNW clocks Tori's est. wealth at around $1.5M these days (2022), so she's not hurting, but I maintain that something is off here. BTW, Candy denies that her family does without anything and maintains that she's always been generous. So who knows.
Seriously taught her what? She taught her zip!!#
loves the first 4 seconds of the video.
I don't have much but what I do have, I give as much as I can for my kids. I think she should have done much more
Candy lay off the plastic surgery
I haven't gotten any yet, but I"m going to as soon as Isave enough money. And I"ll consider it NUNYA when I do.
Well SHE IS SO UGLY INSIDE-THAT IT SHOWES OUTSIDE.
Candy is a narcissistic mother..She never cared about tori
Isabella White it’s why she choose a narcissist husband as well.
Because she didnt let her shop her inheritance?
@@reesecup6915 He sounded like a great guy, from everything I’ve heard
Nice of you for paying tori's bills I am sure you are only thinking of your poor grandchildren.
These parents should have raised their kids to work hard and understand the value of a dollar. They should have helped them to handle money correctly.
Candy’s son is doing fine but Tori can seem to get it together. That’s not Candy’s fault. Maybe Tori shouldn’t have had that many children that she had if she can’t support them.
Tori should of had a trust that gave her so much a month, to learn how to spend money wisely❤️Bless them all hope they can have a happy life❤️
I have no doubt .Tori is a better mom than Candy .
What kind of PARENTS were Candy and Aaron, HE leaves Candy 300-500 million dollars (she also lives in a 100 million dollar high rise too), and doesn't provide for the children who received $750,000 when Aaron died. Come on, most wealthy people provide a lot fort heir family it's what they do. Kris Kardashian bought kylie a 1-2 million dollar house and Rob also. Candy obviously doesn't care one way or the other, she believes the money Aaron earned is hers...period.
Aaron disowned his Tori before he died. You guys should not be shocked that Candy got the doe. She pays for the grands care and school which is not her job, but she does it. We all have to make our own way in this world. Tori and her siblings are no different.
My pops died and didn’t bequeath a pair of socks, no love you growing up or any other time in my life.
She's worth at least 300 million dollars she can't give her daughter 50 million seriously!! Even being married to Dean I'm sure she will sign a prenup so he won't get her money. I think it's a way for her mother to control her if she divorce him I'll give her money issue and that is horrible she is 40 not 14 her mother is just being cruel.
+Loulou Willis I can't believe how many dumbass people like you there are in this world. This girl grew up in Beverly Hills went to the best private schools in LA, had all her expenses paid for, she could have made something of herself in medicine, law, business, or anything else. You talk as if shes out in the streets starving. There's a reason why Aaron Spelling didn't give his daughter his money, she didn't work for it, she didn't earn it, she isn't entitled to it, and Candy spelling can manage his money way better than what Tori can.
I don't know wtf is wrong with you to feel sorry for a rich girl who had more advantages in life than 99.99% of people. That money could be better spent on charities instead of spoiled children.
So you feel sorry for the mom? The same thing you said about Tori applies to the mother who by the way has never worked she is a Socialite or don't you know what that means she learned some of that from her momma. She has also worked from the age of 7 from the show Vegas to 90210 to tv movies. You're acting like she is a bum who has never done an honest days work in her life. If you had kids you're telling me you wouldn't give them money, What is good for her mother is not good enough for the daughter? I feel sorry for your offspring, what good is money if you can't give it to the ones you love because you can't take it with you her dad couldn't and her Mom can't either. She would rather give it to a stranger then her own kids. But maybe you are the type who thinks you can take it with you LOL!!! That is how you sound
Loulou Willis No, because I believe money isn't everything in life and that sometimes giving your kids a shit ton of money will destroy their desire to do anything meaningful with their life. Tori's living expenses are already paid by her mom including her child expenses. By giving her extra millions on millions of dollars your giving her no reason to do anything in her life. Bill Gates & Warren Buffett are doing the same with their kids, giving them enough that they can do anything they want, but not too much where they won't do anything.
This is a quote from Bill Gates:
"They will be given an unbelievable education and that will all be paid for. And certainly anything related to health issues we will take care of. But in terms of their income, they will have to pick a job they like and go to work."
I certainly don't feel sorry for the mom, but the decision wasn't made by the mom it was made by the father who made that fortune. Tori Spelling has all her necessities already covered. There's no reason to shed a tear for her. One of her range rovers could feed thousands of starving kids around the world for a year, and yet you feel bad for Tori. I don't get how you want to allocate resources that way, but I don't think it makes sense. These people have more opportunities in life than you ever will, but they expect to be giving millions of dollars for the rest of their life so that they wouldn't go after those opportunities and make some difference in the world. Either way the person who made all this money already made his decision of what to do with the money, which is her dad. Tori didn't make that money and so either way its not up to Tori to decide she needs to allocate those millions to her.
But she's not a kid anymore she is a grown woman with 4 kids who has worked hard all her life she's not a bum in the street and she takes care of her kids as a matter of fact she is the bread winner in that family. It is not about money destroying her she's 42 not a kid anymore so money destroying her does not seem to be an issue. To me it looks like she wants to control her child who is not a child anymore. She pays all her bills and pay her mortgage she said so herself that is what she told TMZ why not give her the money to do it herself. Tori Spelling has money about 2 mil her mother has 200 mil. She does the same to her son as well. Why wait until you die to give your kids the money? Like I said she likes the control she has over Tori just giving her enough so she keeps coming back. That is not how a loving parent should act with their grown kids.
+Loulou Willis She's not controlling her. Tori is a grown woman and it's her choice to keep going back. She still to this day has the option to get a job that pays a lot more than any job the average American has and use that to pay her own way through life (downsizing if necessary). She's lucky her Mom pays for her expenses at all.
The fact is that Candy's money isn't Tori's and if left to Tori it would probably be wasted. There's no reason to feel for Tori at all in regards to her financial situation. She's better off than most and isn't entitled to any of her father's money at all.
I've honestly tried to read her previous books. Couldn't get threw the first 50 pages!
ClaytonTed Green , pray tell :o why not ?
Candi seems to be obsessed with money and is cold
Greedy Candy should equalize the inheritance. Tori and her brother got crumbs in comparison to what Candy inherited. What's Cindy's problem? I'll answer that one for you. The answer is greed. There is no way Candy could blow through what she was left in quite a few life times. I have no respect for her.
Sad to see such greed for money
Hey Candy, whatever the will was, you are still the mom and you should have made things right!! With the money you have and they grew up with, you could have given them houses! This woman is full of lies when it comes to her "love" for her children. True that money isn't love but again, you could have made things right!!!
Candy isn't giving up all those millions of dollars she got from Aaron for nothing.
tori grew up a very spoiled child. she needs millions to be happy.
Candy needs millions to be happy too...
Not exactly a probing, uncompromising interview.
Much nicer of a person than I had thought, I hope she is close to her daughter, for both of their sakes. . I think Tori's mom and dad had good reason not to give her more than 800.000 when he died, she blew all of it foolishly.
Holy shit emperor palpetine at 1:33 from star wars
Tori messed up. She doesn't how to pick a great guy.
This family seems weird ! Somethings not normal ! Who has 400 million and their kids are crying being broke...
al reynolds m
No matter how much money Tori has she will foolishly blow right through it ,she pretty much already proved that she hasn't grasp how to spend porpusly
facts
Lady, you're worth 500 million dollars!!! Give your two kids more. They've never known poverty a-hole. just give them trust funds.
This lady is beyond creepy. She is famous, he books sell based on one fact, her daughter got 1/10th of 1%. Of the family fortune so got it all.
Never heard of her before in my life.
I would have bought a house not rented for each child. Then put money/house is a trust that they get a monthy wage to live off. That way Tori couldn't sale it and lose money. Send her to counseling if she refused then she would never get total acess to the money. Each child is different, Randy might be able to handle his money. But not Tori.
The worst mom and grandmother ever!!!
They say that Tori get enough money after her father died.Eighty million think or eighty thousand.
The book really sucks .
Tori always tried to striper of Deans maskulinity and the good way he does father his kids, she dont let him be a man and complains when he steps up in a a healty and down to earth way of raising his kids.. . She hollywood her kids to much. To much energy for nothing. This cotton men
fs learn to spell.
Gry Nina Fosso
Aaron Spelling made his will not her so people need to stop blaming her cause of what his will did.Fact is the kids are grown and she owes them nothing,
+margo peters Why would you raise your kids in such obscene wealth and ostentatious luxury then leave them nothing without giving them the life skills to survive, that's cruel. Look at her poor daughter trying to sell her soul to make a buck to survive.
@@joshuataylor6087 Tori was given $800,00.00 in Aaron's will. She blew through that very fast. Also, she has made ALOT of money over the years but spent it as fast as she got it. She's an adult with 4 kids. She needs to grow up and quit expecting her mom to give her money that she would quickly squander. Aside from supporting her kids, paying a mortgage and basic needs, Tori would blow it on nonsense that she doesn't need. Then start begging for more. Why should Candy enable that? Tori seems to be self-entitled. No one owes her anything. Especially an extravagant lifestyle.
Shes greedy.. She cant take it with her when she passes on
both kids son and daughter are estranged
She seems just a mom. Who has a lot more money than the rest of us.
He finally got that but was seriously in trouble in his persinal life. It took time and a patient woman who gave support as a wife to him but he was in trouble before this
some kids even a parent cant love....
the son seems divine tho.
candy has fab art i bet...
looks like her face is melting
she got $500M why can't she give at least $10M to Tori and another $10 to her son if they blew it then don't give them any dime. But this "mother" is soooo greedy. She rather hug her money than her grandkids and children. For her money will make her happy. I feel sorry for her kids.
Very nice lady. I like Mrs. Spelling. Wish her well.
Had the will changed and cheated her kids. Even if that was the real will Candy should've wrote them a check. They have kids! Despicable!
They were given 700 or 800K at the time. Also Tori has said her mom always helps her financially.
mannyac02 tori would have spent it all and been back wanting more !!! I would give that girl money either
@@davidyatesmckay , yes and when their dad was alive they v
Both blew. Lions if dogara a year tori blew 18 million in two years he wanted his kids to learn to work
manny - those kids are their responsibility. Tori had 4 of them when Dean was already playing child support to his son. It was their choice to have too many kids they couldn't afford. That is on Tori & Dean.
Wonder did she leave Tori anything in her will u have to wonder.
This woman KNOWS that Dean was/is only with her daughter for the $$$$$. I bet if Tori ever leaves him, she will get a ton of money.
These comments are so mean.
Why r u so stingy give ur children some money
Jean Diamond , she technically pays for Tori’s essentials including childcare which for all her seemingly selfish ways is generous ...
She is lying...she says she had been with Aaron for 38 years.. and how she got with him in lean times....well 38 years prior to 2006 when he died....WERE NOT LEAN YEARS CANDY....HE WAS IN HIS PRIME OF IMAGINATION...LIAR....
Wasn't, I mean
I guess you'd feel a bit sorry for Tori for being "cheated" with the inheritance given the amount of money her father had and the lifestyle she grew up with. In reality, she is still considered lucky though. She should have had enough connections and opportunities from her 90210 days. A billionaire's tragedy but still lucky compared to the rest of us mere mortals.
That she didn't get enough money after her father died and her mother got all of the money .
She raised Tori rich and is SOOO greedy. So mom grew up a certain way and can change it for her daughter. But won't. Millions of dollars and won't even pay the credit cards for a few thousand? Mom with A Limo, a driver!...extravagant to the hilt and expects Tori to live for way less. Tori got nothing from her dad so I bet mom suffers when daughter files bankruptcy! Oh the press will be well deserved. Credit cards go to collections and bad credit when they are bought off. Or bankruptcy....
There are many kids who feel privileged, even if their parent aren’t rich. Time to grow up.
How can she abuse her Grandchildren emotionally and financially
CREUELLA
YOU ONLY WANT THE MONEY.
As a mother Shame on you ! Share your money with your children!
Candy said she helps her with her bills plus food. And that man of hers. Good grief he might end up leaving her. Maybe not. Probably waiting for candy to croak.
not trying to be disrespectful or mean but Tori has no idea about money ive watched some of her videos for fun. she is a very nice person and a great mother but she spends money like water. I know when you have it u can do with it what u want. I don't think she understand when you are in a money situation certain things should be important certain things should not. she's never had to live without. a massive amount of money till now. I think her mom is scared if she gives her a bunch of money she will run right thru it. I don't know. I've never had that luxury. she needs a financial advisor to help her figure out money and not think her mom will bail her out. she's right that her husband needs to work and quit whining not much of a man. he knows it too. I feel bad she has no real guidance.
You guys have no idea what you are talking about. I’m old enough to remember why this is all happening. She’s literally saving Tori from squandering all her fortune, and putting her through the school of hard knocks so that when candy dies, and Tori inherits it, it won’t all be gone in two years. Even you’re understands why this is happening. Don’t let Tori fool you, her mom foots the bills that are most important. She pays all the kids school fees, and makes sure they are well fed and clothed. They gave all they need. Her mother told her father their whole childhood that him spoiling them so badly was going to ruin their future, but he could never say no. So, since he knew exactly what type of kids he had raised, he only gave them each $800,000, and let Candy be the one who is the bad guy to teach them as adults how money works. She gives them all they need. She just doesn’t give them all they WANT.
If you love your kids, you don’t give them everything they WANT, you give them what they NEED. Tori needed to learn how money is not water. It’s hard to get, and it runs out. She was nowhere near close to grasping the concept.
What exactly is wrong with her
throw the kids a few more bucks mom
Tori Spelling and her brother should take to the court the last will of her dad. It would close big mouth of Candy, who tries to blame and ashamed Tori every f day.
Aaron put a clause in that the will can’t be contested or they would lose their 800,000
Yuck. Just yuck.
What a bunch of bullshit . This person is so bad to her children. It's a good thing they don't have much to do with her.
I know alot of people dont like candy. But I like her , tori needs to find a real man and quit popping out kids!
Rich kids usually end up on drugs or alcoholics. He did the right thing leaving it to her. When she dies the kids will get the money and they will be old enough to know not to piss it away.
How come her son is doing okay Tori's not her mother is paying her house bills the kids school they're clothes food cars her dad left her a million she spend it all Dean hasn't worked since their son was born he didn't have to she paid for everything
Hypocrite
what a loving mother
Never liked this woman for some reason..
Dean is a bum
This is really interesting is it tori not being able to manage money in which case it’s the parents fault for not teaching them proper financial skills. Or is it the mother being selfish and greedy it’s really hard to tell
Blah blah blah bs
luv that trivago guy
mmmmm
Candy seems like a lovely lady. I wish she was my mom, lol.
shut up stupid ! u must be greedy like her
Ok. Why would we ever take any advice from this woman? There is nothing about her that is relatable to common people. Stop interviewing these rich people. They live like .00001 percent of the population.
Candy is greedy and she plans to take it with her.
its her husband and her money - leave her alone
What a hypocrite, her daughter had to sell her home, having 5 children and her mother lives in a mansion with her father’s hundreds of million of dollars. She said I pay her bill and food. Showed up at her grandchild birthday with a friend and acting nonchalant. She could at least buy her a home and pay the bills. Speaking on her book she should focus on going to counseling with her children. Her advice “just be happy” your daughter is struggling.
there is much more going on here than meets the eye.....aaron spelling left an estate worth $600m n left his 2 bio children a pittance.....Both kids were raised in a lap of luxury as his bio children n as far as we knw neither has any substance abuse issues or appeared to be on the outs with him.....So why wld aaron leave both practically nothing.....N why wld neither child sue the estate to get their rightful share....kandi is no more entitled to the majority than either of them are.......has 2 be a reason they did not sue the estate n not buying a no contest clause....
I think she's protecting herself with the money her husband left her...she knows what she's doing,,,why doesn't tour's husband go out and find a job,,,he's young,,,he can make kids but not support them with a job?..eventually when Mrs. Spelling sees her children are responsible and mature,,,she will give them some of it,,,,not all of it,,,in some kind of living trust with her lawyers to handle her estate carefully...good for her!!!
She's saving up to be a Jew
Tori always tried to striper of Deans maskulinity and the good way he does father his kids, she dont let him be a man and complains when he steps up in a a healty and down to earth way of raising his kids.. . She hollywood her kids to much. To much energy for nothing. This cotton men