The Vanderbilt Ball of 1883 and the Dumb Rich People Drama that Caused It

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    In the Gilded Age, tension was high between the old money families with power and the nouveau riche families rising in high society. To challenge the New York system ruled by the Astor family, Alva Vanderbilt concocted an intricate scheme: she threw a huge costume ball like no one had ever seen before. Come learn with me about some rich people drama and let's rank some Victorian costumes!
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    Mrs. Astor's New York: Money and Social Power in a Gilded Age By Eric Homberger
    Fashion & Fancy in New York: The American Monarchs by Emilia Müller
    Vanderbilt: The Rise and Fall of an American Dynasty by Anderson Cooper and Katherine Howe
    Fashion and fancy in New York: Costume balls of the Gilded Age by Emilia Müller
    New York Has A Ball: The Bradley Martin Extravaganza by ROBERT MUCCIGROSSO
    The Aura of 660 Fifth Avenue: Alva Vanderbilt, Richard Morris Hunt, and the Emergence of American Luxury by Catherine Moran
    The Gilded Finch: An Exploration of Class Conflict by Mattea Harrison
    Vanderbilt Ball: How a costume ball changed New York elite society by Susannah Broyles for MCNY www.mcny.org/story/vanderbilt...
    The Obscenely Lavish Vanderbilt Ball That Inspired the Season Finale of The Gilded Age By Elise Taylor for Vogue www.vogue.com/article/the-obs...
    Mid-Week Echoes, The Sun, Thursday March 29, 1883 mcnyblog.files.wordpress.com/...
    All Society In Costume, New York Times, March 27, 1883
    Aftermath: Echoes from the Vanderbilt Ball Room, The Evening Star: Washington, Wednesday April 4, 1883
    New York City Life, The Brooklyn Daily Eagle, Sunday April 15, 1883
    Jumbo vs. Vanderbilt, The Boston Daily Globe, Sunday April 1, 1883
    Vanderbilt’s Ball: New York Aristocracy Turns Out En Masse, The Boston Daily Globe, Tuesday March 27, 1883
    New York’s Greatest Event: Mrs. Vanderbilt’s Grand Fancy Dress Ball to be Given Tonight, The Boston Daily Globe, Monday March 26, 1883
    Photos from the Museum of the City of New York

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  • @KazRowe
    @KazRowe  Год назад +1404

    At the end of this vid I mention it being my last of 2022 and saying I'm almost at 300k subs-- two things which have already passed haha. Apologies for this now being out of date, this video was originally going to go up last week. Thanks y'all!

    • @kinghenryxl1747
      @kinghenryxl1747 Год назад +19

      I hope you trademark/copyrighted your name and your likeness - Folks are shady out here. You have a great channel. keep rising!

    • @Bluebelle51
      @Bluebelle51 Год назад +23

      I hate to be "that" guy, but it's pronounced "Mobeel, Alabama", love your work

    • @connergraham1522
      @connergraham1522 Год назад +12

      Kaz, I have a question. Have you ever heard the story of Madeline Astor? she was the second wife of John Jacob Astor IV and whose life was upended by John's death on the Titanic in 1912.

    • @judithconoly4621
      @judithconoly4621 Год назад +2

      B Q

    • @edarroyo76
      @edarroyo76 Год назад +6

      Why didn't you mention Alva Vanderbilt joining the Woman's Suffrage movement later in life as Alva Erskine Belmont?

  • @Lovefromwcu1
    @Lovefromwcu1 Год назад +3499

    The fact that they tore down a castle to build a skyscraper is really sad to me. I know it creates more vertical space, but to lose that level of art is just depressing.

    • @susanpage8315
      @susanpage8315 Год назад +339

      Seeing all those ugly buildings replace the gorgeous mansions is depressing.

    • @caitlynrp818
      @caitlynrp818 Год назад +178

      The Vanderbilts (among many other wealthy millionaires of the time) have beautifully preserved summer homes in Newport, Rhode Island. Highly suggest taking a look into those. I talked to a staff member about their New York home and he said that their summer home was incomparable to their New York home.

    • @danielabertolotti-perez6923
      @danielabertolotti-perez6923 Год назад +55

      Oh you're depressed for millionaires. It's more depressing knowing that they spent all that money to build that to tear it down. When there are thousands of homeless people and poor people in New York then and now. Total waste. And nothing about your house would have them feeling sad if it was torn down for any reason. 🙄

    • @susanpage8315
      @susanpage8315 Год назад +322

      @@danielabertolotti-perez6923 II don’t feel bad for the millionaires, I am a fan of historic architecture. I am well aware of the disparities of that era (and now).

    • @stephaniewilliams9789
      @stephaniewilliams9789 Год назад +27

      @@susanpage8315 I totally agree.

  • @beccamazzini
    @beccamazzini Год назад +1163

    the way I GASPED when you said they didn’t invite Mrs. Astor’s daughter! the cleverness! the low blow! the high quality gossip!

    • @Lilguy_000
      @Lilguy_000 11 месяцев назад +21

      lol I love this comment

    • @leeannasloan2292
      @leeannasloan2292 11 месяцев назад +30

      I fainted!

    • @libraS.A.
      @libraS.A. 9 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@leeannasloan2292😂

    • @Alison-ku5ko
      @Alison-ku5ko 8 месяцев назад +2

      My hunch is you need to start a channel!

    • @GH-fb9dh
      @GH-fb9dh 8 месяцев назад +18

      That’s literally what went down in Gilded Age. Highly recommend it

  • @Lucy-lx3dn
    @Lucy-lx3dn Год назад +453

    The Chinese costume was actually pretty well done, I liked it. I am Chinese, by the way

    • @juliac3933
      @juliac3933 Год назад +40

      The craftsmanship looks exquisite. I wish there were hi def photos available

    • @ltahoe9257
      @ltahoe9257 11 месяцев назад +83

      Bruh honestly, I can't wait till we get past the cultural appropiation thing. Mexican here and as a little kid and even now I've always wanted to wear those beautiful chinese dresses(cheogsam?). I don't think I'd be able to today. I'd probably get shot down for being "insulting" or something when in reality I just appreciate how pretty they are.

    • @mallarieluvsgirls
      @mallarieluvsgirls 11 месяцев назад +39

      @@ltahoe9257it’s not something people will rlly get over. it’s weird that peoples ancestors or even grandparents have done horrible things to people of colour then proceed to take from the cultures after commuting genocide or even trying to kill out that culture in all of society ei: native people. it’s really up to the group that these crimes and genocide was committed against. there’s a lot of nuance to it but i don’t expect people who don’t have much empathy to understand. or historic knowledge.

    • @cascharles3838
      @cascharles3838 11 месяцев назад +98

      ​@@ltahoe9257I think the common consensus is that you can absolutely celebrate another culture, aka wearing their traditional clothes in a respectful way while wbing mindful of the culture and ideally getting some input from people of that culture. "Cultural appropriation" is supposed to be used for instances where people use other cultures as a mere costume or make a mockery of another culture. To be fair to Kaz, I think it's reasonable to assume that white American elites in the 19th century were not respecting the cultures they were using as a costume.

    • @sandravasquez7628
      @sandravasquez7628 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@mallarieluvsgirls This idea could not be more eurocentered and UScentered. What if someone from Africa wants to go to a costume party as an ancient Chinese aristocrat? Then how can you acuse that person of having "ancestors who have done horrible things to people of colour and the proceed to take from their cultures". Do you reallize that NOT EVERYBODY is from the US or European? That maybe just maybe the rest of the world (over three quarters of it has nothing to do with that history and we would enjoy dressing up as each other? You guys are always so self centered even when trying to be politically correct. Most of us around the rest of the world couldn't care less about your "polítical correctness" and the things you would like to as usual impose on others to make you guys feel better about yourselves. Dressing up as someone else is not usually done as mockery it's usually a compliment because one can appreciate the beauty in the other culture. Woke statements like yours are SO boring always trying to view everything from an American or European point of view and forcing such view on the rest of the world.

  • @guadalupejararodriguez1295
    @guadalupejararodriguez1295 Год назад +243

    Imagine having such an epic costume that people a century later still remember it...

    • @kdd3925
      @kdd3925 3 месяца назад

      Good point

  • @mintjaan
    @mintjaan Год назад +1898

    My Great Great grandmother was the Piano teacher for the Vanderbilt's and my Grandmother actually had a collection of photos she donated to their museum. Whenever we went to Biltmore, she loves to tell people there and a lot of the staff are descends themselves. So there's this workingclass solidarity between them

    • @sleepysartorialist
      @sleepysartorialist Год назад +28

      That's pretty cool

    • @theobolt250
      @theobolt250 Год назад +50

      This shows something of significance. Why do these people value this kind of servitude so much? There's more that meets the eye than you would expect.

    • @joanodom2104
      @joanodom2104 Год назад +11

      My paternal grandmother taught music at The Webb School in Bell Buckle, TN and piano and voice to children in Nashville and surrounding counties, until 1947.

    • @feliciagaffney1998
      @feliciagaffney1998 Год назад +10

      That's awesome. What a wonderful story. I bet she had some awesome stories! Would love to hear them...

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 Год назад +5

      @@theobolt250 My thoughts exactly.

  • @mfuentes4961
    @mfuentes4961 Год назад +1496

    I am a simple woman. I see Kaz Rowe upload a new history video and I will drop everything (including office work) to watch it.

    • @vvforme
      @vvforme Год назад +11

      I literally put the office “do not disturb” status on so I could watch! Lol!

    • @just_.b.
      @just_.b. Год назад +6

      same, i was in uni live lesson and i dipped cause they send the recording anyway. kaz >>>>

    • @ecpetty
      @ecpetty Год назад +5

      Saaaaame. My heart sings whenever a new Kaz video appears in my feed.

    • @christianbrown7959
      @christianbrown7959 Год назад +8

      As long as you are not a surgeon mid surgery, it's ok, job can wait.

    • @mmminno
      @mmminno Год назад +1

      Same.. truly

  • @angelicaapperson950
    @angelicaapperson950 Год назад +147

    I'm not even a fan of the court jester look, but when Isaac Bell came on screen I gasped and said he looks marvelous and belongs in S tier. His posing, that outfit, it's just so on point, that guy slayed.

  • @pileofhagfish
    @pileofhagfish Год назад +129

    It's, literally a cosplay ball at a convention, right down to everyone taking photos of their expensive costumes

  • @bean0329
    @bean0329 Год назад +283

    Alva Vanderbilt's ball was exactly what I wanted from the gilded glamor met gala. And instead I got disappointment. A modern take on the electric light dress would've been amazing.

  • @kazza6078
    @kazza6078 Год назад +535

    Watching the outfit ranking has me realizing they must have had a lot of photographers and background spaces available. Like a museum that's just Instagram bait, rooms and rooms of just backgrounds

    • @GreebleClown
      @GreebleClown Год назад +37

      Often it would be painted backdrops with props. Like a photo studio.

    • @kazza6078
      @kazza6078 Год назад +21

      @@GreebleClown good point, I'd didn’t think about that! But with the things in the foreground, the extent of it all, and how many people were there, I bet it was still a few rooms. Still, that sounds wayy more manageable

    • @GreebleClown
      @GreebleClown Год назад +6

      @@kazza6078 Yeah, most of the studio would be packed with props or the customer would bring some of their own. I still remember going to the photo studio as a child and the back room was floor to ceiling with things to sit on, put in the foreground, and hold, all depending on what theme the photo had.

    • @drewgehringer7813
      @drewgehringer7813 Год назад +4

      often it was one well-lit room and a bunch of swappable painted backdrops and props

  • @eddue12345
    @eddue12345 9 месяцев назад +52

    John Whipple's costume was emulating a Spanish Toreador (Bull-Fighter). Because of the striking contrast and detail of his garment, I personally thought it was kind of amazing.

  • @newtypealpha
    @newtypealpha Год назад +30

    I can never ever hear the name "Vanderbilt" without smirking to myself. Not since 10th grade history class when my teacher pointed out, with a completely straight face, that Alva Belmont threw a literal tantrum over the fact that she didn't get invited to Jack Aster's balls.

  • @romana34
    @romana34 Год назад +485

    If I am remembering correctly, The 400 was also in reference to how many people Mrs. Astors ballroom could hold. That was how the number of acceptable society came into being, how many people could fit in a ballroom of a specific person.

    • @jaclynneal1888
      @jaclynneal1888 10 месяцев назад +13

      She just restricted the number for fun, and her ballroom could hold well over 400 people!

    • @LlyleHunter
      @LlyleHunter 8 месяцев назад +17

      Her first ballroom held 400. When they moved uptown her balls grew to 1200 people as her home was much larger

    • @marthaball8029
      @marthaball8029 7 месяцев назад +5

      She started with the 400 and kept it that way so she wouldn't have to worry about not inviting the new rich...

    • @gekigami1791
      @gekigami1791 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@LlyleHunter usually balls aren't supposed to grow like that, did she get checked for testicular cancer?

  • @samanthadunat2718
    @samanthadunat2718 Год назад +900

    These costume parties still kind of happen. Once I was on a college shuttle in Rhode Island and I overheard this group of (maybe students? Maybe people from the area catching the bus to the train?) talking about their family histories and how they were from the first families to America. One girl casually mentioned with a chastising tone how her grandma would talk about how many slaves the family used to own. Then they all started talking about the upcoming annual workers party. Basically all these privileged kids would dress up like the working class as a theme. One of the kids sheepishly mentioned how his family was basically nouveau riche and he didn't think it was right for him to participate and pointed out the ick factor or a party like this.

    • @hauthot287
      @hauthot287 Год назад +70

      Damn, good on him ig

    • @padraigmaclochlainn8866
      @padraigmaclochlainn8866 Год назад +29

      As a Rhode Islander, I believe you're confused and this tale is filled with one too many gaps.

    • @MAA77723
      @MAA77723 11 месяцев назад +32

      Eyes wide shut is today’s costume party style amongst the elite .

    • @craisins95
      @craisins95 11 месяцев назад +12

      Yup that sounds like the kids in College Hill alright.

    • @allisonphillips1675
      @allisonphillips1675 11 месяцев назад +18

      its legit the met gala

  • @meatballjones6418
    @meatballjones6418 Год назад +6

    “I think this video is revealing something about me” the only thing being revealed is that you have good fashion sense - and a soft spot for swords

  • @jackielope1969
    @jackielope1969 11 месяцев назад +11

    The Electric Light gown is one of my favorite Worth gowns, and i highly recommend doing a deep dive into his work. He was the most influential gown maker for a long time, and to own even one of his gowns was a huge status symbol in and of itself.

  • @ilionreactor1079
    @ilionreactor1079 Год назад +602

    John Whipple was dressed as a Zouave soldier, which were specialized regiments during the American Civil War. They wore Ottoman-inspired costumes, and were famous for their drill-team work (there are some old, early film of their drills on YT, kind of like cheerleaders, but with rifles). They also fought like hell, and were much feared.

    • @LunarCrystal07
      @LunarCrystal07 Год назад +32

      Hi there! Was scrolling through the comments to see reference to that costume. I looked up the Zouave soldier (learned something! Very cool!) and the costume doesn't really match with what John Whipple is wearing, I think? Is there documentation describing his costume? To me, it looked somewhat matador-ish (the pants, stockings, and shoes). The hat threw me off though. Thoughts?

    • @ilionreactor1079
      @ilionreactor1079 Год назад +56

      @Carol Belle There were many different Zouave groups and they all dressed differently. Some Zouave regiments were still active at the time of the party, so he may actually have been one, himself. I don't know if that's what he was trying to portray, but the Zouaves were extremely popular in culture, and it just reminded me of some of the photos and drawings I've seen over the years. Your mileage may vary.
      PS- it is gratifying to hear you were inspired to learn something new. This channel fosters that kind of community.

    • @eldorados_lost_searcher
      @eldorados_lost_searcher Год назад +10

      @@ilionreactor1079
      I got more of a hussar vibe from the costume, but that was mainly from the elaborate trousers. I'm probably wrong, though.

    • @DesertBirdie
      @DesertBirdie Год назад +12

      I knew there was something ottoman empire about it.

    • @nusbacher
      @nusbacher Год назад

      Zouaves wore baggy trousers. This fellow is wearing a version of Montenegrin national dress.

  • @Colorbrush21
    @Colorbrush21 Год назад +140

    Years ago, I read a biography of Consuelo Vanderbilt. A lot of nouveau riche traveled to Europe and met royalty and aristocrats. To titled Europeans all Americans whether they were old Boston Brahmins, old Philadelphia society, old New York descended from Dutch settlers or the newly rich, were all the same. So Alva took her family to Europe, met and wined and dined with royalty. When Alva announced her ball, she let it be known that the guest of honor was a high ranking member of English aristocracy or royalty. (I cannot remember his name or exact rank but it was high). This is the reason all those old money people wanted to attend Alva's ball. Rubbing shoulders with royalty gave Alva instant status.

    • @longlegs7881
      @longlegs7881 11 месяцев назад +31

      That was a different ball Alva had and it was the Duke of Marlborough who married Alvas daughter and the ball was in Newport. The reason why everyone wanted to attend was to see Alvas house which was new, grander and cost more then any other house so everyone wanted to get inside to see for themselves.

    • @SkippackCougar
      @SkippackCougar 4 дня назад

      the common word was 'old'!

  • @daharasmom
    @daharasmom Год назад +66

    Putting the woman with the Egyptian costume in Dud is sadly revisionist. I mean, at the time, she probably hired an amazing seamstress or costume maker to make something that they both believed looked realistic and she probably loved everything she could find about ancient egypt. She personally had nothing to do with any governmental or industrial policies towards the middle east.

    • @mastermarkus5307
      @mastermarkus5307 6 месяцев назад +2

      It's Kaz's personal list; it's not like the choice has significance regarding what history is going to be preserved or something.

  • @ahleena
    @ahleena 11 месяцев назад +133

    "I'm going to judge these costumes solely on the merit of the costumes." *Proceeds to judge the costumes on modern day standards of appropriateness.* I enjoyed your video essay, except for this part.

    • @Ololinko
      @Ololinko 8 месяцев назад +24

      Agree. So dissapoiting.

    • @PaleGreyGardens
      @PaleGreyGardens 8 месяцев назад +35

      Same. It was the 1880s, so of course there were going to be people dressed in clothing from or inspired by other cultures! The comment about the Egyptian costume made me roll my eyes.

    • @hinoname3954
      @hinoname3954 7 месяцев назад +14

      I agree. I understood the point about the Egyptian costume being a result of their culture being seen as trendy to consume by wealthy Americans. Nevertheless, it was a GORGOUS piece, clearly made with a lot of good intent, love, and gorgeous craftsmanship, even if part of that was due to romanticization. It was S tier to me for sure. She didn't do just another generic "European" costume. It stands out, and even though we obviously know better now, I definitely think that would fit into "cultural appreciation" for the time.

    • @keep.on.trying
      @keep.on.trying 7 месяцев назад +3

      Same here, I couldn't finish the video because of this.

    • @kora4185
      @kora4185 6 месяцев назад +3

      Modern American college kids’ standards*

  • @tb.7788
    @tb.7788 Год назад +1001

    i’m glad you mentioned anderson cooper in here. that blew my mind when i first found that out. it’s actually pretty depressing if you go down the wikipedia rabbit hole of either the richest american families or political families because the amount of overlap and how many of the two groups are either married or related is kinda terrifying although i’m not surprised. so many of the mega rich have sway in the government not only by wealth but through blood as well.

    • @gaywizard2000
      @gaywizard2000 Год назад +31

      Yeah since you're supposed to be anti monarchy!

    • @haileybalmer9722
      @haileybalmer9722 Год назад +98

      The reason there's so much similarity between politics now and in the Gilded Age is because everything is being run by the same families. I keep saying that we need to take all of their things and banish them to isolated islands where they only have each other, but I guess everyone would rather have another great depression instead. I can't wait for that! Start stuffing money in your mattresses now, kids!

    • @gaywizard2000
      @gaywizard2000 Год назад

      @@haileybalmer9722 you Americans just need to raise taxes on the rich like Obama talked about and the rest of the world needs to shut down tax havens, I'm looking at you Ireland, island nations, Maryland!

    • @seabreeze4559
      @seabreeze4559 Год назад

      freemasons

    • @gaywizard2000
      @gaywizard2000 Год назад

      @@seabreeze4559 ? Freemasons are a group of non religious do gooders.

  • @kay5197
    @kay5197 Год назад +573

    Speaking of the Vanderbilts - I’m sure you’re aware that in 1895 George Vanderbilt constructed the grand Biltmore mansion in Asheville. They would also throw lavish parties at this mansion, with it being a popular spot due to the fact that it had an indoor pool (something no one had in their houses yet). I would love to see you do more videos on rich people drama and parties, especially on the hijinks that happened at the Biltmore ones! Anyway I love your content, it’s exactly my vibe of history mixed with a love of fashion

    • @vxlley_flower5672
      @vxlley_flower5672 Год назад +12

      I'm from NC and never knew this! Thank you for sharing, I do hope Kaz shares stories of the Biltmore hijinks

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 Год назад +3

      Didn't he try to get people to essentially become serfs on the estate?

    • @philhatch483
      @philhatch483 Год назад +12

      I've toured the V. Mansion in Poughkeepsie NY but never the one in Asheville. Hellacious ceiling art featuring a nude Mr. Vanderbilt himself.

    • @WabbyDoo
      @WabbyDoo Год назад +18

      That pool scared me so much as a kid. Seeing it empty made me feel like I was going to fall in and slide right down the drain. Hoping to visit again soon. Such an interesting place.

    • @Nephritesword
      @Nephritesword Год назад +17

      @@WabbyDoo oh man that pool freaked me out so much when I went there. This was in December 2000; I was 9 and for some reason I instantly felt scared when my group went through the room and I couldn't get out fast enough. Had no weird feelings with the rest of the Biltmore, it was just that fucking indoor pool.

  • @itsalex8520
    @itsalex8520 Год назад +2

    I’m a huge history nerd and can’t believe that I just now found your channel. It’s safe to say I’m obsessed now.

  • @irishamericanpinupdoll
    @irishamericanpinupdoll Год назад +176

    This subject was so interesting, but I will say that while I don’t agree with anyone mocking another culture in any way, we do have to be mature and realize that these are not our specific choices, they were a product of the group mindset (however poor) of the era. I realize this is your personal costume ranking, but looking specifically at the costuming for what it was, some of them definitely could have scored better on the workmanship and creativity within the chosen theme. No big deal❤

    • @BeanieThe13th
      @BeanieThe13th Год назад +17

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @ksy4747
      @ksy4747 11 месяцев назад +6

      Agreed.

    • @sandravasquez7628
      @sandravasquez7628 11 месяцев назад +5

      Me too! I came here to say exactly the same.

    • @naturegirlfromny
      @naturegirlfromny 9 месяцев назад +26

      I agree, using todays politically correct tendencies to judge the costume choices from a ball that took place well over 100 years ago isn't really fair.

    • @pinklola2105
      @pinklola2105 7 месяцев назад +9

      When a Gen Z’er judges costumes from over a century ago…🙄

  • @ohdarah
    @ohdarah Год назад +209

    My beloved grandmother also passed away last year- I binged your videos and it helped take my mind away from the overwhelming grief for a while. She was basically my mother for a huge chunk of my life. Thank you for all your videos, and hope your year ahead treats you with gentleness and grace.

    • @DeidreL9
      @DeidreL9 Год назад +11

      Blessings dear. I lost my mum. It’s hell. And yes, Kaz has helped so very much. Be kind to yourself, sending you comfort and solace. Big hugs @ohdarah ❤️

    • @wordzmyth
      @wordzmyth Год назад +2

      The intense sweet love for a grandmother made worse by the primal grief for a mother is such a huge painful life event. Wishing you find some beauty and connection whether through nature, animals, human kindness. Maybe if it is good to see a counsellor.

    • @ohdarah
      @ohdarah Год назад

      @@DeidreL9 thank you so much 💗

  • @rkate9697
    @rkate9697 Год назад +17

    I love your videos! I've learned so much. Just a side note, Mobile, AL is pronounced, 'Mo-beel' most likely to separate us from the "Mo-byle" you might see hanging above a crib. This is certainly not that important in the overall message of your video I know but I just thought I'd pointed out since I'm a Mobilian. Thank you again for your videos and how you're able to inform in a way that is relatable and memorable 😊

  • @angelareade3324
    @angelareade3324 10 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t know how I stumbled upon this channel but I am so glad I did! I am from England and know nothing about the Guilded Age and this family. But I have already bought a book off Amazon on it. Thank you you are my new favourite channel!!

  • @barbrice721
    @barbrice721 Год назад +621

    Since it was a costume Ball as far as costumes go I personally think the Egyptian gown was gorgeous.

    • @amitisshahbanu5642
      @amitisshahbanu5642 Год назад +25

      a lot of work by a designer

    • @kellicoffman8440
      @kellicoffman8440 Год назад +113

      I agree we it is good. We should never expect historical people to think like us and impose or personal values on them although I agree that Alva Vanderbilt was not nice

    • @wasserperson
      @wasserperson Год назад +55

      ​@@kellicoffman8440 Before I cut "historical people" slack because maybe they didn't know better on any particular issue,
      I ask myself if maybe there were, actually, plenty of people at that time who objected to the same stuff we object to, today? Then I look for that,
      & more often than not it turns out there were people in every year & decade & century saying, like,
      "Hey, that shitty behavior is shitty"
      🤔🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @tula1433
      @tula1433 Год назад +97

      Yeah I don’t think dressing up in Egyptian style gown is offensive. Honestly people would probably be honored to have people finding their fabrics and garments beautiful. We did used to TRADE materials etc. The whole notion of cultural appropriation is a woke made up term by young people in a first world country with nothing to complain about. If we go into world war 3 believe me the wokeness will disappear and we will all revert back to traditional gender roles as history shows us society always does during hard times. The times are not hard now, which is why we are so BLESSED to be complaining about made up issues.

    • @kellicoffman8440
      @kellicoffman8440 Год назад +12

      @@tula1433 exactly my thoughts on the subject

  • @sugarapplesweet
    @sugarapplesweet Год назад +281

    Is it possible that a lot of the costumes don't still exist because they used pieces of those costumes to make new ones for the latest party? I know they were all wealthy, but I'm sure some among them had a sense of frugality with certain things. Just a thought.

    • @justicar5
      @justicar5 Год назад +78

      possible, it's also possible that they were viewed as disposable, it is simpler (tho not simple) to make a costume that will look great for one night, as opposed to one that will stand up to multiple uses.

    • @elizabethsohler6516
      @elizabethsohler6516 Год назад +16

      Valid point. You don't often become rich by lavish spending.

    • @Mhidraum
      @Mhidraum Год назад +30

      Short answer: fast fashion was all the rage in the late 19th century, and a lot of clothing was not made to last. Re-using older clothes was also popular (I think at least a few of them are using original pieces from the 18th century).

    • @mynamejeff3545
      @mynamejeff3545 Год назад +26

      @@elizabethsohler6516 That may be true for working and middle class people, but the kind of people who would organize and go to these balls were already drowning in money. Hell, the whole point was to spend a lot of money to show off how rich you are. Frugality was the absolute last thing on people's mind

    • @elizabethsohler6516
      @elizabethsohler6516 Год назад +2

      @@mynamejeff3545 True.

  • @williamballard767
    @williamballard767 Год назад +2

    I barely found your channel and have immediately become obsessed with your topics.
    I hope you are doing better health wise and my condolences

  • @KumoriCoffee
    @KumoriCoffee Год назад +1

    just wanted to drop in and say that i really love your videos and they've taught me a lot about history while being accessible and entertaining to watch! i've always struggled a bit with learning history, because i didn't learn much at school and so i don't have very good foundations, but your videos are such a great place for me to learn in a chill environment while i craft along :)

  • @rebeccaturner8340
    @rebeccaturner8340 Год назад +344

    Consuelo Vanderbilt is a fascinating person to hear about if you ever feel like diving into her story. She definitely had enough going on in life to warrant a video. She had a horrible mother who effectively sold her for prestige (who is surprised?). I heard a podcast rundown on her a few years ago but it was a fascinating listen

    • @memorian8472
      @memorian8472 Год назад +8

      Do you happen to remember the podcast/episode?

    • @rebeccaturner8340
      @rebeccaturner8340 Год назад +26

      @Memorian The History Chicks podcast episode 134. That episode has several gilded age heiresses but Consuelo was definitely the most memorable to me.

    • @spectralballadeer1255
      @spectralballadeer1255 Год назад +28

      I knew her name was familiar and now remember her from a book I read a couple years ago about the Dollar Princesses of American heiresses basically sold off to English nobility who needed the large dowries of money to save their estates 🙄 So they were trapped in these loveless marriages in a society they were ill prepared for with entirely different rules

    • @rebeccaturner8340
      @rebeccaturner8340 Год назад +7

      @spectral balladeer absolutely 🙄 all for titles that honestly they didn't need at that level of wealth. 🤦‍♀️

    • @CristinaAlmarazLopez
      @CristinaAlmarazLopez Год назад +7

      ​@spectral balladeer That sounds like the plot of Crimson Peak! How interesting, I didn't realize this was a thing at that time

  • @beverlypeace149
    @beverlypeace149 Год назад +2

    Just had to say I have a dear, dear friend who texts me periodically throughout the day, telling me which sitcom she's watching or what she just ate, what somebody else did or said. When she asks what I'm doing, I usually just say I'm reading, listening to music or watching a video. This time, I told her what I'm watching, to which she replied "oh". I answered "lol, you asked". During the ensuing conversation, I realized that if my mind is not stimulated, I'm bored and bitchy. My friend and I both thank you for stimulating my mind today and teaching me new things! I'm a new subscriber as of today. Thank you for helping me to be a better person. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear grandfather.

  • @boofmacaroni79
    @boofmacaroni79 7 месяцев назад

    I hope things are doing better for you!! Thank you for all the work you do!

  • @299meena
    @299meena Год назад +511

    It was nice to see your perspective on the Egyptian inspired dress. I'm a South Asian person so I can't speak very much to the Egyptian experience but I thought it was interesting that you put the Egyptian inspired gown in dastardly duds it seemed well made and definitely not authentic but more inspired by Egyptian elements. Also, just pointing out the Belmont man right after was sporting a tulwar (Indian curved blade) as well as some Indian elements in his dress during the time India was literally still under English occupation.

    • @ifoundasquirrelwildliferescue
      @ifoundasquirrelwildliferescue Год назад

      Apparently cultural appropriation that this person doesn’t recognize is acceptable
      And it’s bad to kill Wildcats but fine to kill domestic ones

    • @SmallBobby
      @SmallBobby Год назад +164

      Yeah it was foolish to assume the costume was made through nefarious ways. Even if it was, the criteria for judging the costumes shouldn't include assumptions on whether it was culturally appropriating or not. The Egyptian dress definitely belongs in the Simply Marvelous column.

    • @persephonev3074
      @persephonev3074 Год назад +158

      It was a bummer that she was judging a 19th century dress by today's standards. Like that's a no for me, specially when she said she was going to do the ranking based only on the fashion, not the people.

    • @iamthebleh
      @iamthebleh Год назад +30

      @@persephonev3074 i thought the same, it was a very beautiful dress! but on a somewhat unrelated note, i think kaz rowe uses they/them pronouns?

    • @persephonev3074
      @persephonev3074 Год назад +11

      @@iamthebleh Really? I had no idea, didn't mean to disrespect.

  • @poppyonline4034
    @poppyonline4034 8 месяцев назад

    You are literally beyond adorable and funny rating the pictures. Your commentary was on point and had me in stitches. Love you and your channel!!

  • @starcrossreverie
    @starcrossreverie 8 месяцев назад

    I love learning about basic events from the past, and I'm so glad your video appeared in my recommendations!

  • @melissahourihan2344
    @melissahourihan2344 Год назад +64

    I have a lot of health issues and when I’m feeling sick it’s hard to find watching anything enjoyable, but your vids are something I can always turn to to distract me from the pain I’m in and I never have to worry that the subject matter of the videos will make me feel worse so thank you :)

    • @mipmipmipmipmip
      @mipmipmipmipmip Год назад +2

      I find it hard to read books etc in such a state, but to hear about the trivial misfortunes of the silly rich in the Gilded Age at a historical Fyre fest really can't hit close to home.

    • @miss.l.1563
      @miss.l.1563 Год назад

      A lot of people have health problems but don't feel the need to share it on the internet for 'likes' &/or comments.
      Save that 💩 for tiktok, it's got a whole load of attention seeking kids making videos on their health issues. 😂😂😂.

    • @melissahourihan2344
      @melissahourihan2344 Год назад +8

      @@miss.l.1563 there’s no need to be rude. I’m being appreciative of the fact that they’ve helped me through those times. God, no one can say anything on the internet without someone assuming their intentions are bad and then being a dick about it. I can say whatever tf I want wherever tf I want. It’s not harming you or anyone else so keep your brazen comments to yourself.
      I’m too busy looking for attention for my illness to put up with this shit 😂

  • @MustAvoidScurvy
    @MustAvoidScurvy Год назад +64

    I'm so ready to hear more about all this rich, horrible people drama!
    More, Kaz, please!!
    I'm so sorry about your grandpa passing 😢

  • @Bea56601
    @Bea56601 Год назад

    I hope this year is better for you than the last. Thank you for these videos, they've helped ease my anxiety as I try to fall asleep at night.

    • @user-eq6ln2gs3r
      @user-eq6ln2gs3r Год назад

      🎁......Hello fan thanks for watching and commenting, you have been selected among my shortlisted winner's....👆👆👆... 🎁🎁

  • @butterfly3676
    @butterfly3676 Год назад +1

    This is the first of your videos I’ve watched. I really enjoyed it. I’m sorry to hear about your grandpa. I look forward to watching more 😊

  • @jakey_hendy
    @jakey_hendy Год назад +90

    Don’t lie to us Kaz, you made this video just as an excuse to rate hoity toity ball dresses

  • @karl8272
    @karl8272 Год назад +48

    this is such perfect timing for my audition to be warner in legally blonde where in my monologue i say “and my brothers at yale law, and so is his new wife. and she’s a god damn vanderbilt!!”

    • @Phelie315
      @Phelie315 Год назад +1

      This is what went round in my head the entire time as well, lmao

  • @brimclean2082
    @brimclean2082 Год назад +1

    hi i hardly ever comment on videos but my dad and i love history and have struggled to find a channel we both like until we found you. your videos are well thought out and put together and you bring a certain charm to each of them i've never seen before so i wanted to thank you for giving my dad and i something to bond over and some quality time together. love your videos!

    • @user-eq6ln2gs3r
      @user-eq6ln2gs3r Год назад

      🎁......Hello fan thanks for watching and commenting, you have been selected among my shortlisted winner's....👆👆👆🎁... 🎁

  • @CallmeMelinanow
    @CallmeMelinanow 5 месяцев назад

    I’m so glad I’ve found my way to this side of RUclips!! Thanks for the video, very interesting and entertaining!! ❤

  • @fallingawayfromthenorm
    @fallingawayfromthenorm Год назад +84

    I had gotten into The Gilded Age last year and done some reading into the real-life inspirations behind the drama with the Russels and the old money (including the Astors). So I’m super excited to watch this video to get even greater details and backstory.

    • @loonylaura85
      @loonylaura85 Год назад +2

      I watched the show quite recently & it's made me want to read about that era.

    • @cocoaorange1
      @cocoaorange1 Год назад +2

      Great show.

  • @augustlunaonline
    @augustlunaonline Год назад +73

    As a Rhode Islander who has visited a number of the Newport Mansions, including the ones build by the Vanderbilts, a video about the juicy Vanderbilt history is right up my alley 💕

    • @bobymcgee
      @bobymcgee Год назад +1

      I think the only one I haven’t been to is rosecliff. My favorite parts of the tour besides the gardens outside, are the bathrooms! I snuck a picture of a bathtub that was carved out of marble I think? it was so thick
      Always so cool to find fellow Rhode Islanders in Kaz’s comment section

    • @augustlunaonline
      @augustlunaonline Год назад +1

      @@bobymcgee Rosecliff is such a stunning piece of architecture! I love the ballroom. The gardens are also one of my favorite parts. I also love the bathrooms, too! They are so lavish, it’s insane!

    • @padraigmaclochlainn8866
      @padraigmaclochlainn8866 Год назад +2

      Many school trips spent walking around those mansions- I'm proud to be a Rhode Islander ⚓ 🌊

    • @staciwilkes6707
      @staciwilkes6707 7 месяцев назад

      Anybody know which source I can read to find out what an awful person Alva was?

  • @osteophagus
    @osteophagus Год назад +15

    I love rich people drama purely because it's hilarious to watch them melt down over complete non-issues.

  • @morenofranco9235
    @morenofranco9235 Год назад

    Great documentary, Kaz. Thanks for the imaginative and hard work.

  • @marlyd
    @marlyd Год назад +30

    Justice for Second Dude With Sword who didn't get put into the S category for simply having a sword! He was robbed!

  • @niche2
    @niche2 Год назад +135

    god i love learning about terrible historical people and their shenanigans

    • @possumroberts1856
      @possumroberts1856 Год назад +5

      If the content were factual and not opinion.

    • @TheEternallyAggrieved1999
      @TheEternallyAggrieved1999 Год назад +1

      @@possumroberts1856 Glad someone had the courage to say it. We're living in a second dark age so any opinion these particular people have on history is disregarded by me.

    • @damienthonk1506
      @damienthonk1506 Год назад +8

      @@TheEternallyAggrieved1999 it's literally just a tier list of pretty dresses from a ball. It's not a top-down act of political sabotage of the working class or whatever, it's not that deep. It doesn't require "courage" to complain about a RUclips video.

    • @jm6406
      @jm6406 Год назад

      @@TheEternallyAggrieved1999 oh no gay people exist its a second dark age!!!! thank god someone had the courage to say they hate gay people!!!! gay people are trying to steal straight history from us!!!!

  • @im19ice3
    @im19ice3 Год назад

    i love your work

  • @oneslikeme
    @oneslikeme Год назад

    I'm so sorry about your grandpa. And your ER visits. I hope things look up for you this year.

  • @marykayryan7891
    @marykayryan7891 Год назад +30

    I so appreciate the historical exactitude with which you do these videos. You treat us as if we have the intelligence and attention span of dignified adults who can actually sit through full length material. Thank you so much for the high quality of your work--even interspersed with humor and good fun. Nice jacket, BTW.

  • @sariahmarier42
    @sariahmarier42 Год назад +59

    Okay, Kaz... This may win me some epic negative feedback... But seriously with the costume ratings!? Your opinions are totally chill in general (and they are opinions), but the historical and cultural diversity of the costumes was something very telling for their time and should not be judged according to our modern sensibilities regarding cultural appropriation. And, if you're going to judge based on cultural appropriation, then you're being totally unfair by misjudging Hispanic, European and Turkish influences higher than those more obvious like the Egyptian dress, as we have no evidence that the French inspired costumes were worn by a person of French descent, and the same goes the with Hispanic and Turkish dress. If we're going to condemn people, we should at the very least be egalitarian in our condemnations.

    • @tyrranide8708
      @tyrranide8708 Год назад +14

      Agreed, was a little disappointed by the lack of understanding regarding what cultures the costumes were from unless painfully obvious and then the assumption based on skin colour that someone may or may not wear a costume.

    • @sariahmarier42
      @sariahmarier42 Год назад +15

      @@tyrranide8708 I have serious issues with blanket cultural appropriation discussions. They exclude the cross cultural and historical influences which are both natural and often positive in human history. And they're full of logical fallacies which drive me batty!!! Like Regency dress was highly influenced by Grecian style, but it's totally okay to go full on Jane Austen and nobody calls that appropriation. But God forbid someone dress with a style or apparel which takes influences from ancient Egypt... Cross cultural influence in dress should be celebrated as one of the truly inspiring forms of global acceptance of cultural diversity. ... End Rant. 🌍💙

    • @mercycunningham2813
      @mercycunningham2813 Год назад +16

      Came here to say that. They all stole from cultures that are not theirs. The egyptian inspired dress was stunning and the lady wearing it most likely didn't know about cultural appropriation since it's a modern thing. Fashion always was inspired by other cultures or centuries.

    • @dagak1180
      @dagak1180 11 месяцев назад +8

      Yeah, that entire segment was ridiculous. She had no problem appreciating and enjoying different European inspired costumes but the moment she recognizes something from a different continent she decides to give a lecture instead.

    • @rebeccablackburn9487
      @rebeccablackburn9487 4 месяца назад +4

      @dagak1180 Exacty!! She likes what she likes, but if she doesn't understand what it is or it looks slightly ethnic, the person in it is guilty of "cultural appropriation", which back in the 1880s happened all the time by everyone, but not necessarily with malicious intent.

  • @crimson5k440
    @crimson5k440 Год назад

    Happy New Year and thank you as well!

  • @DaraMartinez0819
    @DaraMartinez0819 Год назад

    I've been to Biltmore so many times, but this is really my first time learning THIS much about the family!

  • @ilduce5874
    @ilduce5874 Год назад +21

    Alva’s daughter was named after Consuelo Yznaga. Consuelo Vanderbilt was forced by her mother to marry Winston Churchill’s cousin, the 9th Duke of Marlborough.

  • @anacarolingia
    @anacarolingia Год назад +35

    "So what did we learn: I don't actually like anyone in this story" me every time I study about the bourgeoisie

    • @namedrop721
      @namedrop721 Год назад +2

      These are definitely not the bourgeoise; I suggest a dictionary and a history book

    • @anacarolingia
      @anacarolingia Год назад

      @@namedrop721 well I never said I was talking about the specific people in this video, I just made a joke with Kaz's phrase because I think it's funny. I suggest a class on "101 reading the room".

    • @maguffintop2596
      @maguffintop2596 Год назад

      @@namedrop721 Thank you!! Absolutely correct.

  • @jesswokeup
    @jesswokeup Год назад

    i realised recently that my home and sub pages were full of negativity and sadness. thank you for making your videos, you helped me tonight 💖

  • @desert_holly
    @desert_holly 10 месяцев назад +1

    I do believe this is my absolutely favorite new channel!! ❤

  • @arliecarnagey1560
    @arliecarnagey1560 Год назад +38

    hey Kaz! alabama native here: just wanted to mention the city of Mobile is pronounced Mo-Beel. great video! 💗💗💗

    • @dawnnewell237
      @dawnnewell237 Год назад +3

      Was about to comment that. 👍🏻

    • @zoehughes5704
      @zoehughes5704 Год назад +2

      Quite a lot of pronunciations butchered in this. Whew. lol

  • @MariaAntonia-tv4sn
    @MariaAntonia-tv4sn Год назад +27

    I was watching you judge people's costumes while hand-sewing a historical blouse myself hehe :DD
    The electric light dress is so pretty - I would love to make a replica one day!

  • @kiramartinij
    @kiramartinij Год назад

    Thank you for an incredibly fun and entertaining video. I had a great time listening to your thoughts and seeing your rankings. :)
    More personally, I am so sorry for the loss of your grandfather. My own Pa was incredibly special to me, and when he passed suddenly (some years ago now) it utterly destroyed me. I hope you are taking care of yourself, and that you are able to lean on your family and friends during this difficult time. I hope you are remembering to eat and to drink water and get rest. I know it has been some months for you, but I wish peace and healing on you and all who loved him and are missing him. May his memory be a blessing.

  • @debrazificationmiller3119
    @debrazificationmiller3119 9 месяцев назад

    Love you Kaz! Love your intelligence, wit and knowledge. I learn something interesting and new with each post.

  • @kassig7547
    @kassig7547 Год назад +33

    Kaz I found your videos a few months back and always watch ASAP when I see you’ve released a new one. I just want to say thank you for all the educational and entertaining content you make. I can’t imagine how much work goes into to researching and scripting these videos, and I hope you know how much you are appreciated!

  • @vannieleigh
    @vannieleigh Год назад +9

    I’m sorry for your loss. Grandparents are something special and the time we spend with them are irreplaceable. I hope you have a wonderful year ahead. Thank you for all you do.

  • @marneruesink8956
    @marneruesink8956 10 месяцев назад

    I absolutely loved this video! Thanks for all your research

  • @TakeWalker
    @TakeWalker 2 месяца назад

    I'm amazed just how much inserting a laptop into the shot with you breaks the immersion I didn't even know I was experiencing. :D

  • @TheLucySmith123
    @TheLucySmith123 Год назад +41

    I love listening to your history videos, especially learning random history I would never learn otherwise! Would love to hear some anicent history / classic stories from you!

    • @dawsonsd_d
      @dawsonsd_d Год назад

      I myself do not take her lessons seriously but with a grain of salt.

  • @jasonfrankel5316
    @jasonfrankel5316 Год назад +10

    lol not me seeing this 15 seconds after it was posted

    • @TalLikesThat
      @TalLikesThat Год назад

      I'm late! A full minute after upload. Shame on me.

    • @s0ckpupett
      @s0ckpupett Год назад +1

      @@TalLikesThat a whole 2 minutes 😩

  • @littlerat329
    @littlerat329 Год назад +77

    i was just at the breakers mansion in newport, ri last week (the vanderbilt’s summer “cottage”) and it is absolutely insane. it was the very definition of “you have too much money”. it was very beautiful but also…why? it’s very ostentatious

    • @bobymcgee
      @bobymcgee Год назад +13

      I’ve been twice! It’s nicer in the summer, the garden/backyard area is so pretty.
      It always made me mad that it was their “summer home” so it just sat empty most of the time.
      I grew up in northern RI, where all of the factories were during the Industrial Revolution, so going on a field trip in the eighth grade and seeing the huge difference between the now crumbling factories and the mansion that had literal gold in the ceilings was… weird.

  • @elizabethshepard.5393
    @elizabethshepard.5393 9 месяцев назад

    This is my first time to view your channel and this was fabulous! Ty!!🎉❤😊

  • @graysonmaxmom
    @graysonmaxmom Год назад

    Amazing video. Love the approach. Sending best wishes for a wonderful 2023

    • @user-eq6ln2gs3r
      @user-eq6ln2gs3r Год назад

      🎁......Hello fan thanks for watching and commenting, you have been selected among my shortlisted winner's....👆👆.... 👆🎁🎁

  • @kaileymo
    @kaileymo Год назад +13

    I loved Isaac Bells costume because he really swung for the fences! Plus the pose he did for the gram 10/10

  • @thepainteduniverse3648
    @thepainteduniverse3648 Год назад +26

    This is very interesting. I bought a cabinet card of a lovely young man wearing a fancy costume that I found randomly at an antique store. I thought maybe he was an actor or something, but now I’m quite sure he must have been going to a dress ball like this one. The card was photographed by Talbot in New Berlin, NY, and the young man’s name is penciled on the back as Clarence.

  • @ashtonix3308
    @ashtonix3308 8 месяцев назад

    I’ve never loved learning so much you explain in such a beautiful way. Thank you ❤

  • @LiveAndLetLivia
    @LiveAndLetLivia 7 месяцев назад

    This is so interesting and entertaining. I especially appreciate you providing the information and insight about how & why Alva's strategy of not inviting Carrie turned out to be advantageous to everyone involved. Well done! Thank you! Subscribed.

  • @CleoHarperReturns
    @CleoHarperReturns Год назад +55

    23:50 And old roommate I had in my twenties was Wiccan; she had the same broom. It was her "travel broom" that she would pack into her suitcase. My best friend hated her (for good reason) and loved to joke that the little broom was how she so often flew across the country.

    • @thequeenofcringe1585
      @thequeenofcringe1585 Год назад +30

      You can’t just say that you’re best friend hated someone for good reason and not give us some tea.
      And just so you know, it kind of comes off as you saying that being Wiccan is good reason to hate someone. Just saying.

    • @CleoHarperReturns
      @CleoHarperReturns Год назад +1

      ​@@thequeenofcringe1585 Oops! No, absolutely NOT saying anything negative about Wiccans, just Nicole's personality. I knew she practiced witchcraft when I moved in and though I myself am an atheist I wasn't raised on hate and her religion never felt threatening in any way. All beliefs deserve respect and this country is built on our differences. It was built FOR our differences. It was the woman that was difficult for me to tolerate. Soapbox...I digress.
      Nicole was a petty, entitled little brat that had a major problem with alcohol. When she'd have more than a glass or two of wine, her already unstable personality was amplified. She openly hated men and whenever she saw Nick (my friend) whilst in a drunken state she went out of her way to publicly humiliate him -- and even to inflict physical pain once. I knew she had mental health issues when she moved in (so do I); I did not know the true beast that Nicole could be with booze. It took a minute to move out and I didn't exactly come out unscathed either.
      Even at 40, Nick looks like a cute, freckle-faced kid, but he's also the most emotionally generous, funniest, kindest-to-all person I've ever met. He's the kind of guy that can take a bully down with kind words and humor. Everyone that meets him loves having him around and looks forward to seeing him again.
      I think this intimidated the hell out of Nicole because life always seems effortless for Nick (it's not). She would body-shame him for being small in stature, she threw red wine on him once as a greeting, she made jokes about his non-existent love life, and even try to make him feel inadequate about his relationship with me. And once, Nick said to her, "Merry Christmas, Nicole." And she claw-slapped him, leaving four huge, ragged scratches across his face. He looked like a suspect with defensive wounds.
      I don't care if she was Wiccan, one of the Abrahamic religions, Buddhist, or anything else -- she was just an asshole.
      🫖Come over any time for tea!🫖

    • @lilithserena342
      @lilithserena342 Год назад +8

      @@thequeenofcringe1585 wicca is heavily based on and around cultural appropriation !!

    • @findingbeautyinthepain8965
      @findingbeautyinthepain8965 Год назад +8

      @@thequeenofcringe1585 It doesn’t come off like her friend hated her for being Wiccan. The reason she mentioned she was Wiccan is because she had the broom. The reason she mentioned her friend hating her was because they made jokes about her. The two don’t go together at all. And unless this particular Wiccan girl comes from at least one of the cultures Wicca steals from, being Wiccan is a reason to dislike someone. Saying you have special powers, that were only believed to be held by people of certain cultures, is very uncool if you don’t belong to those cultures. The term Wiccan in itself is a huge red flag, because people who practice the magic of their ancestors identify as what their ancestors did. I’ve never met a Wiccan that wasn’t a white Anglo Saxon.

    • @thequeenofcringe1585
      @thequeenofcringe1585 Год назад +3

      @@lilithserena342 did I say anything even remotely close to “wicca is completely perfect uwu”?

  • @kj7067
    @kj7067 Год назад +11

    So sorry to hear you've had such an awful year! I just wanted to let you know that your videos have brought a great deal of joy to my life, and I'm deeply impressed by the fact that you've delivered such amazing, interesting work during a time that must have been deeply difficult. I hope this year will be better for you!

  • @mothermagenta9123
    @mothermagenta9123 Год назад

    I just found you and I love your content and presentation. Well done you!!

  • @susanmathers7209
    @susanmathers7209 Год назад

    First time viewer. New subscribers. I really enjoyed your show and decor. Thank goodness it's a new year. I hope it will be a better one for you.

  • @aprilhelms6141
    @aprilhelms6141 Год назад +22

    The gentleman you asked about- I'm thinking he was dressing as a matador. The bolero jacket, those white stockings and the footwear put me in mind of bullfighters.

    • @Biggestgayestbird
      @Biggestgayestbird Год назад +4

      I was wondering that too but the fez threw me off!

    • @mkuti-childress3625
      @mkuti-childress3625 Год назад +2

      That is _exactly_ what I was thinking… except for that hat. If it isn’t a matador, it could still be based on a Spanish persona of some kind…

    • @marinieves9717
      @marinieves9717 Год назад +7

      Definitely not spanish. Ottoman inspired I think

  • @LoZander
    @LoZander Год назад +7

    Thank you for all the awesome content Kaz! On a sombre note, I'm really sorry to hear about your loss last year and your health problems. I hope you are holding up alright. I'm looking forward to continuing this historical journey with you this year.

  • @gurlfriend9443
    @gurlfriend9443 Год назад

    Thank you!! I love your style of educational content and sense of humor!

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      @user-eq6ln2gs3r Год назад

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  • @cinamingrl
    @cinamingrl 11 месяцев назад

    I really like your content and how informative you are.

  • @madisoncotis9990
    @madisoncotis9990 Год назад +18

    Oh hey! I had no idea that one of the Otis’ attended! Weirdly enough, the family naming tradition kept it so that there was a James every other generation (usually), so it’s fun to see a James represented here.

  • @ProfessorChaosKitty
    @ProfessorChaosKitty Год назад +6

    I'm so glad I found your channel. I love history, especially when it's fashion related. My condolences for the loss of your grandfather. I hope 2023 is a wonderful year for you

  • @annastevens1526
    @annastevens1526 Год назад

    Speaking of outfits... I LOVE the jacket you are wearing for this video! 😍 The detail work is superb!

  • @noragraham-smith7991
    @noragraham-smith7991 4 месяца назад

    Great content: well curated, pace, details and excellent vocal tone. Brava.

  • @melowlw8638
    @melowlw8638 Год назад +42

    oh i LOVE 19th century drama!! the notifs are blessing me with kaz's content recently thats a nice gesture coming from ytb 🤭🤭
    also this jacket is so pretty i wanna touch all the shiny embroidery
    edit: also im sorry but is that a fricking winnie the pooh dreidel and pine tree candles?? so cute!!
    dont mind me editing my reactions in but i was so stoked when kaz mentioned marie antoinette cosplaying poverty for fun because thats exactly what i had in mind when they mentioned what vibe the ladies attending the ball went for
    unfortunately, i do find the robe a la française she wore to do so, so pretty 😪😪

  • @bayleypair4826
    @bayleypair4826 Год назад +4

    As someone who has also had a tough year and the worst year ever health-wise, I can say you videos have always been a light in the dark. I love getting to learn so many interesting unique things while also getting a chance to take my mind off of everything else. Thank you so much for making these videos 😊

  • @peterd.9522
    @peterd.9522 11 месяцев назад

    I am so pleased to have discovered your fascinating channel. ❤

  • @DiscoTimelordASD
    @DiscoTimelordASD Год назад +1

    I've just given up and made my own Kaz Rowe playlist - The content is too good!

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      @user-eq6ln2gs3r Год назад

      🎁......Hello fan thanks for watching and commenting, you have been selected among my shortlisted winner's....👆👆👆🎁... 🎁

  • @cafeAmericano
    @cafeAmericano Год назад +117

    I think you should do a vid on Marchesa Luisa Casati. An eccentric italian fashionista who was essentially the Lady Gaga of the early 20th century. She bought a palazzo . She walked Venice at night time dressed in an elaborate for a coat carrying a boa constrictor around her neck and walking her cheetahs on Bejeweled leashes... she snubbed Aleister Crowley offended Mussolini and inspired Cecil beaten . Fascinating woman Who Lived fast and died in poverty in london creating scarves out of discarded newspapers.

    • @ChristinaFromYoutube
      @ChristinaFromYoutube Год назад +4

      This is a good lead thank you!!

    • @Grace-ms7un
      @Grace-ms7un Год назад +5

      I must have her directions for scaves out of newspapers 📰

    • @pompe221
      @pompe221 Год назад +5

      "She snubbed Aleister Crowley, offended Mussolini"
      I already love her!

  • @davidduffield7902
    @davidduffield7902 Год назад +10

    You are doing and amazing job as a storyteller. Really happy for these stories and frankly look forward to them at the end of my day! Thank you. Would love to see you expand the program with additional friends who share the same interests doing these videos with you. Again. Excellent job, truly thankful for your talent and time.

  • @Duchess_Aourai
    @Duchess_Aourai Год назад +11

    One of my new years resolutions was to learn more. I'm so glad I clicked on this video. Not only did I learn a lot, but I read the Luxe novels, a while back and it's fun to know the history of the society the chargers of the books were from.

  • @lonnieloupaints
    @lonnieloupaints 5 месяцев назад

    The first video I saw of yours I throughly enjoyed but THEN you mentioned your book and I have never subscribed and subsequently went and purchased something so quickly. I've loved Claude's imagery for a minute but haven't been able to put together an extensive history on them so I'm excited to excited to learn more! I think my copy comes tomorrow 🤞

  • @Missticc
    @Missticc 6 месяцев назад

    First time seeing your channel and I love it! Time to benge watch