“You all gotta stop this nonsense man” 😂 WORD Kirk 👏🏼 I’m a woman and I will never understand why women (smart women) would even waste their time with these men. Signs are there right from the start.
Men will say anything but the truth comes out eventually. Actions speak louder than words. I have learned to be discerning. Been told by men I am intimidating. Go figure.
You gotta be careful about them dudes that tell you about their dirt because when they start acting up they’ll weaponize that knowledge against you and throw it up in your face and say well you knew who you were getting in a relationship with. When you get with a dude who unloads all his baggage but ain’t dealt with none of it, he’ll take it as you accept it.
Once again Kirk, you give us the real eye opening truth. It seems like alot of guys just want smash buddies or FWB's. They're not interested in a committed relationship with a girlfriend or wife. They don't want to spend the money nor time to invest in developing a connection with a good woman but they want the benefits😢.
Facts! They want all the benefits of a HUSBAND, without making you a wife! Ladies, NEVER do wife duties at "girlfriend prices." Get your own BAG! 💰🏠🚗👩🎓
They'll really "want" you then... Since he only wants one thing anyway, he'd figure you're easy and give him a sample. Of course he's not going to tell you that...He'd go, the, "You're only human or He doesn't judge people like that." route.
As a mature woman looking forward to simply exploring and enjoying my life, I have gotten to the mindset that people have the right to experience life in their own way. I can only have control over my own thoughts, feelings, emotions, actions and reactions. By being honest with myself along with what another person showed actions towards me, I can best decide how I will show up in the relationship, if at all. What gets to me sometimes is that person who I have told that I am OK with not having a commitment with you, but you will have to wear protection and leave right afterward. It's crazy how a player or non committed person becomes upset telling them this preference and although they really don't want to be in a commitment with me and nor perhaps with anyone else. I am one to go into relationships, be honest, highly appreciative, and respect the same. ❤
Thanks so much. I had this happen to me. Called all the time daily, talked 2-3 hours daily. Then out blue he would start to mention other females. We never had sex ( I knew better) he starting being abusive masking it as a joke. He kicked me in my butt one day. After I cursed him out. I blocked him and that’s that. U don’t put yo feet on me tf? No, it didn’t hurt I barely felt it. I think he was just trying to make my behind move as I’m very butt heavy, and he plays all the time. But I couldn’t let that slide . That’s flat out disrespectful and if I accept that it would get worst!! Go kick yo mammy !! Thanks for letting me know what he was doing in the beginning. And I knew something was off because he never asked me on a date. Said he don’t go on dates he just meet up with ppl. So that’s was a no for me. But the emotional connection I had because of him talking to me daily ( through me off) and although we met up a few times. He never was asking to see me. ( men wanna see you when they like you) so I knew he couldn’t be interested in me. Just wanted sex ( didn’t get any) he did all the calling, I barely called him .. he would blow my phone up if I didn’t answer when he called. (13th times back to back). The game he ran on me!! Glad I blocked him. And my new boundaries are Im not giving no man my energy if we talked on phone for over 2 weeks and they haven’t asked to see me. Not being phone buddies with you. I don’t got the time
A high school classmate, known them for 20+ years got me by acting transparent. I peeped about 2 months in and got out quick. I see that is the new tactic amongst a lot of unserious men, they come with truth. But the situation will always be problematic where a relationship is not ideal right now.
This is ridiculous. Why do men have to "get us" anywhere? What do they need these games for? What is the point? Why would you lie and ruin an already existing relationship, a family, a potential partner? When did communication and society evolve into this? Please make a video about this. It's ridiculous, after all these tricks and videos on this topic, it makes us think there aren't any "normal" men around anymore. All of them seem to be players with issues.
Right! Then Kirk will say there are good men out there. Really, really. I just want to run away when a man approaches because I've got to get his blood type, fingerprint, and put him on a lie dector test and can forget a back ground check. By then, it's no fun and all excitement and hopefulness is gone. So many games are played and I'm so 💚 green when it come to games. I'm just getting out her on the dating scene.
In the video, you said you can be his woman or his therapist, but you can't be both. Can you make a video about how to tell the difference between being used as a therapist and being an active listener/ supportive partner?
😂😂😂My slogan is " men are loyal to themselves" and I live by that. I m loyal to me and the more one understand other traits better my loyalty to me increases. I wish more women can hear you and will have less fatherless kids and bitter baby mothers. God bless
Both parties that are in a relationship don’t give each other clarity, so the anger 😡 start to bill up. I never understood how relationship leads to killing. Two people should be able to part ways safely and move on with their lives.
There’s nothing wrong with a man telling the truth. The truth should never be considered spitting game. For the guys out there who are honest, truth tellers I thank you and please continue to do so. Women who have an ounce of self esteem appreciates your candor. Now gather all of your liar friends and convince them to tell the truth too. To the women who would take the truth, “examples described in this video”, and twist them into your own narrative…seek counseling. This is a YOU thing, not a HIM thing.
Thank you Kirk, such a great video,we women need to be smart and value our self and learn to handle our emotions. I have learned you can’t change a man .
Truth be told my self respect now is always stronger than my emotions nearly got sucked into this one sure he had a partner in the background somewhere im done!
I have sons. As they were growing up I told them that they are to be honest with women. I told that women are stupid and will accept you if they like you alot and think they are special and can change him. I was told by my mom you can't change a man and has a woman there is nothing special about you when it comes to a man. So I know if I make a decision to accept something that I know is dangerous what happens was due to a choice I made. However I am rare, I am rational for a woman and had a smart moma.
Exactly, I don't lead with feelings, I lead with logic, but I have to be honest, it was a lesson learned from experience, but I'm going to teach my daughter
@Katrica670 She isn't wrong. Only a hit dog hollers. If it doesn't apply, let it fly. My husband and I teach our sons the same and our daughter has seen first hand how other women have been stupid.
@@d.y.h.w. but is she stupid, are you stupid? I am not stupid, we are just foolish with males, but most of us are Not stupid we are book smart! Also, instead of you guys teaching your sons women are stupid, teach them to be better humans, honest and taking advantage is Not a good human. That's all!
It is hard for a man to get me. Every man I meet. I think he has. HIV Aids. All kind of sexual transmitted diseases lung cancer. It has work for me. As a minster I had to figure out a way to stay holy. Thinking like this have help me ❤ I don’t hate no one. I have realized people are just no good
A retired police officer taught me this: "Let me show you how to protect yourself. Women always think that John Doe is a "nice guy" and puts her guard down. Always assume that a man is an "a**hole" until he PROVES himself differently. DO NOT be so quick to trust him. There's a lot of women in the graveyard I could have saved if they had only filed police reports, restraining orders, and pressed charges." 🚔
Well now ain't that some BULLSHIT!! Naw I vet vet vet!! I reign in my emotions no one can change NOBODY!! How weird is this? I wish we could go back ta the '70's..I be serious ASF!!
I had in my mind a particular scenario and spoke it many times guess what that's exactly what I attracted boom and the man now wants to change up go figure But listening to you Kurt the more I see he trying to play me thanks for making me think
Straight banger 🔥 I have had guys low key come at me with that foolishness but I saw straight through the smoke 💨 many people tells me I look way younger than my age but I’m not the new kid on the block lol but I was thinking 💭 when I was approached by these men, that straight up mentioned they was married, 1st who do this guy think I am? I definitely don’t carry myself that way & do he think he have such game that he can trick EVERY woman with the reverse psychology 2ndly it clearly showed me that in order for these guys to come at me with this approach obviously there are women that falls for it, which is really sad, I am a godly woman & I know how I am to be treated, I know none of us are perfect but I’m very confident & secure in who I am in Christ therefore I’m not compromising my value for NO MAN, just to say “I have a man & a husband” I love men but definitely isn’t desperate to the point I lower myself to have one, not trying to be harsh but we as woman have to better. I 💯 agree with you, men aren’t complicated & I think there’s good men out there as well as women, but learning who you are as a woman or man is vital…how can you properly love someone else when you don’t truly love yourself & full of wounds, insecurities, and low self esteem issues, abuse & trust issues 🤔 that’s baggage that needs to be dealt with first, otherwise you’re just out there moving reckless hurting others & getting hurt. I pray it works out for everyone that reads this 😊
My biggest takeaway from this video is not that there are these type of men out here…the message is about women and our decision making skills. We have to do better. 🎉 (Don’t get mad at the game…get good at it 😊💅🏽)
I'm a 50 year old woman. That is not "new." The thing is I'm the one that usually moves on because I believed him when he told me the truth from the beginning. So I never expected the relationship to be anything other than it was. So I love you. BUT, I recognize that I am not "in love with" you. So I move on. To be "in love with" someone has to be a mutual thing.
BRAVO 👏 FANTASTIC 🌟 MESSAGE 😁 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🛑🚧 DANGER 🛑🚧🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨The Fairytales Are OVER Princess. You Are Queen 👑 Who Should Reign With A King 👑 You Are Worthy 🌟
I said I know of some females he dated before good looking set of women, I said he hurt all them, I’m not the exception .. he’s blocked still not dealing with it
No lie I did this dumb shit in Jamaica it’s like I was listening but not listening and realized when I got home I was acting foolish hearing what I want in the moment
It feels so good telling a married man that you don’t entertain married men. Walk away sis!
Yes ❤
I've done it 3 times this year alone
Single women feel safe with a married man.
@@merouria6524
Single women who don't want true commitment, yes.
Great!
Kirk I just want to thank you. The more I listen to you. The more I don’t give a dam about what these men say and think
❤❤❤❤ on God lol
🙌🏾💪🏾✊🏾
Sometimes men do tell the truth❤
Lol you better say it chy
That is why we will always get hurt cause we think we have powers to change a frog into a prince thank you kirk for always keeping it real with us ❤❤
Older men do this. They know lies get them in trouble. A predator is a predator.
“You all gotta stop this nonsense man” 😂 WORD Kirk 👏🏼 I’m a woman and I will never understand why women (smart women) would even waste their time with these men. Signs are there right from the start.
maybe secretly, we only want him for the short term. I just play along for the ride 😊 this dude talks a lot of sense..
Men will say anything but the truth comes out eventually. Actions speak louder than words. I have learned to be discerning. Been told by men I am intimidating. Go figure.
Translation: She doesn’t take any mess, I can’t run game on her.
Ladies pay attention to their patterns...
You gotta be careful about them dudes that tell you about their dirt because when they start acting up they’ll weaponize that knowledge against you and throw it up in your face and say well you knew who you were getting in a relationship with. When you get with a dude who unloads all his baggage but ain’t dealt with none of it, he’ll take it as you accept it.
this is so true!! Experienced it.
That only works on women with issues and desperate. I will respect the honesty and keep walking
Facts. Lies do not work on a healed actualized woman.
"DANGER, DANGER"---Lost in Space 😂😂😂 Thank you for the raw truth!
Once again Kirk, you give us the real eye opening truth. It seems like alot of guys just want smash buddies or FWB's. They're not interested in a committed relationship with a girlfriend or wife. They don't want to spend the money nor time to invest in developing a connection with a good woman but they want the benefits😢.
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Facts! They want all the benefits of a HUSBAND, without making you a wife! Ladies, NEVER do wife duties at "girlfriend prices." Get your own BAG! 💰🏠🚗👩🎓
"i got 6 babies from 7 dudes" 🤣🤣🤣
They'll really "want" you then... Since he only wants one thing anyway, he'd figure you're easy and give him a sample. Of course he's not going to tell you that...He'd go, the, "You're only human or He doesn't judge people like that." route.
Ikr😂😂😂
Hilarious
Sad
😂😂😂❤
I've definitely gotten got like this before. Never again 😂
Kirk you're killing me your truths are soo hilarious 😂😂
😅
A lot of truth in that Kirk ... everyone wants what they want...& some women are happy to take a gamble , men too
❤️❤️
As a mature woman looking forward to simply exploring and enjoying my life, I have gotten to the mindset that people have the right to experience life in their own way. I can only have control over my own thoughts, feelings, emotions, actions and reactions. By being honest with myself along with what another person showed actions towards me, I can best decide how I will show up in the relationship, if at all. What gets to me sometimes is that person who I have told that I am OK with not having a commitment with you, but you will have to wear protection and leave right afterward. It's crazy how a player or non committed person becomes upset telling them this preference and although they really don't want to be in a commitment with me and nor perhaps with anyone else. I am one to go into relationships, be honest, highly appreciative, and respect the same. ❤
The mission impossible and danger zone example is spot on.
Right, we start to have compassion for them until you get bitten!😢
😂😂😂😂That trick don't work on me! Go by what he does, not what he says!
Yep...That Was Me❗Accountability Brings Change . Your Videos Are Falling On Good Ground ✌🏿
I F’in fell for this once!!!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ he was upfront about being an ahole but told me I was an exception 🙄
Thanks so much. I had this happen to me. Called all the time daily, talked 2-3 hours daily. Then out blue he would start to mention other females. We never had sex ( I knew better) he starting being abusive masking it as a joke. He kicked me in my butt one day. After I cursed him out. I blocked him and that’s that. U don’t put yo feet on me tf? No, it didn’t hurt I barely felt it. I think he was just trying to make my behind move as I’m very butt heavy, and he plays all the time. But I couldn’t let that slide . That’s flat out disrespectful and if I accept that it would get worst!! Go kick yo mammy !! Thanks for letting me know what he was doing in the beginning. And I knew something was off because he never asked me on a date. Said he don’t go on dates he just meet up with ppl. So that’s was a no for me. But the emotional connection I had because of him talking to me daily ( through me off) and although we met up a few times. He never was asking to see me. ( men wanna see you when they like you) so I knew he couldn’t be interested in me. Just wanted sex ( didn’t get any) he did all the calling, I barely called him .. he would blow my phone up if I didn’t answer when he called. (13th times back to back). The game he ran on me!! Glad I blocked him. And my new boundaries are Im not giving no man my energy if we talked on phone for over 2 weeks and they haven’t asked to see me. Not being phone buddies with you. I don’t got the time
Kirk, you are like women's best guy friend.
When they tell you who they are believe them the first time....
A high school classmate, known them for 20+ years got me by acting transparent. I peeped about 2 months in and got out quick.
I see that is the new tactic amongst a lot of unserious men, they come with truth. But the situation will always be problematic where a relationship is not ideal right now.
Facts
This is ridiculous. Why do men have to "get us" anywhere? What do they need these games for? What is the point? Why would you lie and ruin an already existing relationship, a family, a potential partner? When did communication and society evolve into this? Please make a video about this. It's ridiculous, after all these tricks and videos on this topic, it makes us think there aren't any "normal" men around anymore. All of them seem to be players with issues.
Myn are defective from birth. Do the research.
Right! Then Kirk will say there are good men out there. Really, really. I just want to run away when a man approaches because I've got to get his blood type, fingerprint, and put him on a lie dector test and can forget a back ground check. By then, it's no fun and all excitement and hopefulness is gone.
So many games are played and I'm so 💚 green when it come to games. I'm just getting out her on the dating scene.
In the video, you said you can be his woman or his therapist, but you can't be both. Can you make a video about how to tell the difference between being used as a therapist and being an active listener/ supportive partner?
Lolol “you thought you could be the Jesus”
Truth, Yah help us!🔥🕊🙏🏾👑
Thanks for keeping it sooo real Kirk ❤
😂😂😂My slogan is " men are loyal to themselves" and I live by that. I m loyal to me and the more one understand other traits better my loyalty to me increases.
I wish more women can hear you and will have less fatherless kids and bitter baby mothers.
God bless
Both parties that are in a relationship don’t give each other clarity, so the anger 😡 start to bill up.
I never understood how relationship leads to killing. Two people should be able to part ways safely and move on with their lives.
If he had told me and he was in a relationship, I wouldn’t have gotten to know him better. I learned my lesson on that one.
Real talk. Thank you. Its my decision, my fault, my life.
Wow, facts all those parts 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 lol he said we got to stop this nonsense i agree 😅😅😅😅 woman
Good morning Kirk and chat family 👋🏾🙏🏾❤️
There’s nothing wrong with a man telling the truth. The truth should never be considered spitting game.
For the guys out there who are honest, truth tellers I thank you and please continue to do so. Women who have an ounce of self esteem appreciates your candor. Now gather all of your liar friends and convince them to tell the truth too.
To the women who would take the truth, “examples described in this video”, and twist them into your own narrative…seek counseling. This is a YOU thing, not a HIM thing.
Great points made here!! ❤
You thought you was the Jesus! That was hilarious 😂
Thanks for giving Understandings‼️❤️
Kirk I got this just last month lol these men soo smart yeahhh
Thank you Kirk, such a great video,we women need to be smart and value our self and learn to handle our emotions. I have learned you can’t change a man .
Truth be told my self respect now is always stronger than my emotions nearly got sucked into this one sure he had a partner in the background somewhere im done!
Real upfront big-brother or dad advice💯‼️
I have sons. As they were growing up I told them that they are to be honest with women. I told that women are stupid and will accept you if they like you alot and think they are special and can change him. I was told by my mom you can't change a man and has a woman there is nothing special about you when it comes to a man. So I know if I make a decision to accept something that I know is dangerous what happens was due to a choice I made. However I am rare, I am rational for a woman and had a smart moma.
Exactly, I don't lead with feelings, I lead with logic, but I have to be honest, it was a lesson learned from experience, but I'm going to teach my daughter
@karenbrown uhm you told your sons women are stupid? 🙄 why don't you just teach them to be actual good human beings? 🧐
@Katrica670 She isn't wrong. Only a hit dog hollers. If it doesn't apply, let it fly. My husband and I teach our sons the same and our daughter has seen first hand how other women have been stupid.
@@d.y.h.w. but is she stupid, are you stupid? I am not stupid, we are just foolish with males, but most of us are Not stupid we are book smart! Also, instead of you guys teaching your sons women are stupid, teach them to be better humans, honest and taking advantage is Not a good human. That's all!
False I've seen married women change men entire character the man ended up having the woman character.
Definitely I’ve experienced it and fell for it once
Your voice in imatation of us.😂❤
you are incredible….you are very right. thank you so much. keep up the good work ❤
We can not tell what a man up to .women all ways giving and giving another thought
I love it. Please keep teaching folks these facts❤
It is hard for a man to get me. Every man I meet. I think he has. HIV Aids. All kind of sexual transmitted diseases lung cancer. It has work for me. As a minster I had to figure out a way to stay holy. Thinking like this have help me ❤ I don’t hate no one. I have realized people are just no good
You're a minister and you think people are no good?! 😮Wow! You are a minister of what, may I ask?
I assume all men like this until they prove me wrong. Add stalker & domestic abuser too.
A retired police officer taught me this: "Let me show you how to protect yourself. Women always think that John Doe is a "nice guy" and puts her guard down. Always assume that a man is an "a**hole" until he PROVES himself differently.
DO NOT be so quick to trust him. There's a lot of women in the graveyard I could have saved if they had only filed police reports, restraining orders, and pressed charges." 🚔
Well now ain't that some BULLSHIT!! Naw I vet vet vet!! I reign in my emotions no one can change NOBODY!! How weird is this? I wish we could go back ta the '70's..I be serious ASF!!
Thanks Kirk.
You have changed my life🙌🏼🙌🏼thank you very much
You are absolutely right.
Thank you 😊 for sharing this information 😊
Geesh where were you when I was a kid!
Thank you so much that's exactlly what happened to me🙂
This video alone is eye opening 🔥 🔥 🔥
I love your lady”s accent !! Hope we all don’t sound like that !!!
Powerful ❣️
Lol I can respect the Truth and still save myself the time of not trying to change anybody but myself.Ciao 😆😂🤣
You've said it all kirk
I had in my mind a particular scenario and spoke it many times guess what that's exactly what I attracted boom and the man now wants to change up go figure But listening to you Kurt the more I see he trying to play me thanks for making me think
Oh my if i laugh😅😂😂😂 u right this to funny 😁 but real
Straight banger 🔥 I have had guys low key come at me with that foolishness but I saw straight through the smoke 💨 many people tells me I look way younger than my age but I’m not the new kid on the block lol but I was thinking 💭 when I was approached by these men, that straight up mentioned they was married, 1st who do this guy think I am? I definitely don’t carry myself that way & do he think he have such game that he can trick EVERY woman with the reverse psychology 2ndly it clearly showed me that in order for these guys to come at me with this approach obviously there are women that falls for it, which is really sad, I am a godly woman & I know how I am to be treated, I know none of us are perfect but I’m very confident & secure in who I am in Christ therefore I’m not compromising my value for NO MAN, just to say “I have a man & a husband” I love men but definitely isn’t desperate to the point I lower myself to have one, not trying to be harsh but we as woman have to better. I 💯 agree with you, men aren’t complicated & I think there’s good men out there as well as women, but learning who you are as a woman or man is vital…how can you properly love someone else when you don’t truly love yourself & full of wounds, insecurities, and low self esteem issues, abuse & trust issues 🤔 that’s baggage that needs to be dealt with first, otherwise you’re just out there moving reckless hurting others & getting hurt. I pray it works out for everyone that reads this 😊
That why i don't believe words more that action haha
Thank you ❤
We heard it alllll before. Nutting new
My biggest takeaway from this video is not that there are these type of men out here…the message is about women and our decision making skills. We have to do better. 🎉 (Don’t get mad at the game…get good at it 😊💅🏽)
THANKKKKKK YOUUUUU SO MUUUUCHHHHH 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
So true ❤❤❤❤
Ehé! 6 babies for 7 dudes😅
You are right they’ll say I’m not interested in a relationship lol bye Felicia
Right.. she will think I xan change him
We except things like this when you are desperate and ignore the signs and really want a man no matter what 😂
Mission impossible ❤❤😊Jesus ..... lmao 😂
I love him so much😊
I'm a 50 year old woman. That is not "new." The thing is I'm the one that usually moves on because I believed him when he told me the truth from the beginning. So I never expected the relationship to be anything other than it was. So I love you. BUT, I recognize that I am not "in love with" you. So I move on. To be "in love with" someone has to be a mutual thing.
So true ❤🎉
Great
BRAVO 👏 FANTASTIC 🌟 MESSAGE 😁 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🛑🚧 DANGER 🛑🚧🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨The Fairytales Are OVER Princess. You Are Queen 👑 Who Should Reign With A King 👑 You Are Worthy 🌟
We can’t be so easily manipulated by Men especially when the red flags are there walk away.
I said I know of some females he dated before good looking set of women, I said he hurt all them, I’m not the exception .. he’s blocked still not dealing with it
No lie I did this dumb shit in Jamaica it’s like I was listening but not listening and realized when I got home I was acting foolish hearing what I want in the moment
run as fast as you can from that guy
No way not this one. When you’re mature you see through the bull.
We already know
@1:13 they say that they are in a relationship? 😱
Hmmmmm truth hurts
You can't change a man only Jesus can change anybody
His bullsh*t does not deserve my magic....it is for my self care only.
How can i buy this !!
but he will change for the right girl / the one who treats him like shit or keeps rejecting him or is unattainable ?
This was hilarious
Hey Professor
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Truth Serum....
That's not new, that's old game. He's just a liar. Always watch a mans actions. The more he talks the less I listen....😒