I actually watched a girl get corrupted by TikTok in real time. They went from being a loving mother to a total narcissist, completely deluded that they would become some rich Instagram model. Spoiler: They didn't
Large portion of those rich insta “models” are using rented products on free promotional vacations and using men’s money to sell the idea of wealth. Heavily filtered and curated pictures some completely fabricated (some of this was exposed during Covid) pictures in locations they’ve never been. I remember a van life woman who was exposed as never leaving her parents neighborhood the whole time. Always selling the dream of travel, hiding rich boyfriends from their desperate followers, hiding the danger they put themselves in, hiding the non glamorous parts of living on a sailing vessel traveling around (usually funded by parents to bail them out) ect.
@@OnlyTwoShoes I feel sorry for those children losing what once to be a good mother from what you’ve said. It’s sad society is moving towards laziness and act as spoiled children
Women are the more agreeable sex, they are followers by nature, hence why they make up most of the consumer spending and student debt. India is wise for banning tik tok
Lol imagine if a man said his version of "self love" was living off a woman's income, playing videos games all day, buying expensive guy crap and absolutely refusing to clean up after himself or watch the kids. He would be ROASTED by every woman on this planet, and rightfully so! I saw a RUclips short of a woman who worked a 12 hour shift, and pointed out the dirty dishes in the sink that her "unemployed" husband hadn't done that day and complained about the beers he drank, etc. The comments were FILLED with women telling her to leave him and "he's a child," and even threats of violence, etc. The hypocrisy. 🤦🏼♀️ Useless to point it out. But cathartic anyway lol.
i dont think there is anything wrong with doing nothing at all. Women want to spoil their man and if it means spoiling em rotten for a while at the expense of a little cleanliness then it’s not the end of the world or anything. Especially if the relationship is genuinely profound and you both have been growing together through the years supporting each other. Adults aren't strong 24/7 sometimes people have moments where they can’t do shit mentally and physically. in this situation it would just have been dumb to raise a family and bring a being up in this nonesensical reality. If a kid must become more important than yourself for years then might as well learn to live a wholesome life foremost
@@awesomepants184 yeah but you have to get in there and the expsenses of whatever you do to be rich so yeah even for rich people doesnt fall of the sky (dont think im rich or anything im as poor as a middle age men working in mcdonals)
@awesomepants184 only if you're born into a rich family inclined towards nepotism. Not everyone that's rich was born into it and those that didn't become rich from nepotism have to work their asses off for years to get to those positions. Unless they're lucky af and bought bitcoin back in 2012 or some other ridiculousness. Of course most of the ultra wealthy were born into a wealthy family, but there's a massive difference between millionaires and billionaires.
@@bickyboo7789 I didn't say that people can't become rich by working, I meant if you're rich like Elon musk or Jeff besos money prints itself. They don't have to do anything else for the rest of their lives and they'll become richer and richer.
Don't take life advice from people that are deeply unhappy with theirs. All this woman wants to do is drag other women down to her level to feel better about herself.
They make everything childish... bcuz she wants to escape reality... welp, feminism took the magic out of the bottle and now it can't go back in .... win for men... you can provide for yourself you don't need no man!!!
@@zzzz-sf5lr I'm cool with them being "just the girlies", but only if that woman renounces some of those feminist positions. If I have to be the adult here, then I get final say on things and am allowed to tell you what to do. Power comes with responsibility. If you don't want responsibility, don't demand power.
It's also just factually incorrect. My parents struggled together A LOT. And my siblings and I are reaping the MANY rewards that their struggles provided.
In a roundabout way she's right. I've seen many examples of men leaving the wives that helped them become successful from nothing, then cheat, and get younger golddigger mistresses and get taken for a ride financially.
I get where you are coming from, but as a single woman I am not struggling right now, so why would anchor myself to a man who is so we are struggling together? That actually makes no sense.
The language she uses exposes the fact that she is A SUGAR BABY not a girlfriend. The constant use of the word "spoil" is the dead give away. I recently read a paper on this phenomenon of women expecting those in higher positions to come down for them while kicking everyone else below them. It's called "Leveling". It's how women compete. Everything above me is unfair and needs to be made equal. Everything below me needs to try harder while I actively push you down.
Stay strong fellas. I found a good woman with old school morals. Married at 25 and 22. My dad got dementia after 1 year we got married. She didnt leave my side the entire time. And i will never ever leave hers no matter what life throws. Struggling together is what makes a couple. Stay away from vapid superficial people.
Holy shit, I'm so glad that I got married in 2001, before this absolute insanity. My wife and I have been married for 22 years now, we share cooking duties, cleaning, etc. We have a life together, two awesome kids that don't use social media, and are doing well financially. I wouldn't wish this TikTok shit on anyone, it's cancer. To someone like me, it's just insane, complete and unadulterated insanity.
We got lucky dude. I worked out my issues with a damn good woman like, 3 months before all of this really started ruining the dating pool. Feels like I got a photo finish in a race and won. Sucks seeing SO many single, unhappy, men AND women now. And the bigger and uglier the woman, the higher her standards now. The most worthless people are expecting the top 1% of partner. It's madness
@@_badbish_98 My wife works her ass off and is set to retire in just a few short years. I have already retired from my first career at 45 years old and am now working on my second. We share all domestic duties. She is a good woman.
its disgusting these female Andrew tates don't get the same amount of hate that Andrew tate has. Yet these women want to say we have privilege and that male hating influencers aren't a real thing
As far as I can tell, these women aren't running a referral/MLM business. Tate is known (and therefor hated) because he scammed people into spamming his videos everywhere, not because he's sexist
What has Tate ever said that's the equivalent of this though? Tate always talks about how young men need to EARN their success, not that they're just entitled to anything.
"Struggling together" is only worthless if you think of your relationship and your man as valueless. If you actually care for your relationship and man, struggling together brings the two of you closer and deepens your relationship bonds...and that higher degree of intimacy is one of the most valuable things in the world.
100% agree, I got married at 19 and he was 21, we built our lives from the ground up and we couldn't be happier together. We're very financially stable now, but the first few years entailed a lot of hard work and poverty. It brought us closer
Exactly - and that's why women who thinks like ones from wideo have poor chances to catch valuable men - as most men are looking for partner to build life together (in 20') - until they build it on their own (so 30's) and kind of then we just want to avoid worthless people (not moneyless - worthless - thats different) - so kind of good man motivation is oposite to hers. :):):) And if he had basic experiance in relationship in 20 - he is reading her like a open book... Only good relationship I know were build in 20's by people who strugle together - and bond during that stuggle - thats important part - without it relationship is just disater waiting to happend.
And don't forget going out of the struggle faster because you can help eachother out. Marriage is supposed to be a teamwork, the vows say that *"In good and bad times, in wealth and poverty, in health and sickness, until death take us apart"* because THAT'S WHAT MARRIAGE AND FAMILY IS about, to honor the other and build something TOGETHER.
I find it funny I see this comment right as I open the video where TikTok extraordinaire or whoever this nobody is infers that Traditional Men are not providers XD
Sit back, relax and think before you sleep... It was right there... You know what, you're grounded for a lifetime for missing something so obvious... Go to your room aaaaaand think before you sleep... My god I'm on a roll today...
Sadly, this is the norm. My brother does a lot for his family. If his wife does just a little chore, she starts complaining saying she does lots and says he doesn't do anything. And then she brings up her sister and friends husband's, who are pretty much simps, who do everything for their wives. I told my brother if this is my wife, I would tell her straight up, I ain't no simp and a wife/girlfriend needs to do her share for the family. If they can't even do a minimum, then you gone.
His wife's endless complaints are a sign that she's checked out. It doesn't matter what your bro does. Covertly help him secure his future post the divorce that is coming his way. How do I know? That was me three years ago? I was advised to set up a secret nest egg for what was to come, and it did.
I'm so over this terrible idealization of a "lifestyle" these women project and gaslight onto other women into normalizing. This gives me even less of a desire of wanting to share my life with someone else
well its normal for women. women hate women more than men. women hate others having better than them. even mother hates her own daughter thats why she repeats her mistakes. where men not only want to save sons from his mistakes, but also other men. thats how mgtow started. we save men every day, one at a time. we dont force, dont shame, dont preach, we only show truth and you must be ready to see it and wake up from brainwashing. then our mission is over. cos when you wake up you crave more truth and knowledge by yourself. make your own conclusions. go your own way, like true mgtow is. find your own way to survive in this sick world that wants you dead
They'll realize they've been sold a lie when nobody wants them in their mid 30s. Let them learn their lesson and hopefully younger women can look to that in the future and realize the reality vs the lie sold.
My husband works every weekday 9-5. I have MS and Crohn’s disease so I stay home. I would feel INCREDIBLY GUILTY if I just said to him “you keep going to work and I’ll sit on my ass all day and do nothing.” Even though we have a large house, 2 kids and a dog I do my best everyday to make sure things are done at home. He works his ass off and the least I can do is make sure he comes home to a comfortable environment after work. These young women are gonna be single forever if they think a healthy relationship is one person doing everything.
@@Kokangalang Pharmacist here. M.S. (multiple sclerosis) is a neurologically degenerative autoimmune disease. Her immune system is attacking her nerve cells in her body and that can lead to lots of issues as it progresses (vision loss, trouble moving/walking/standing, muscle weakness, cognitive decline, etc.). It is treatable but not everyone responds well to the medication and/or physical therapy. She's a saint and a definite keeper for taking care of her family despite the difficulties that come with that diagnosis. God bless her.
My uncle (mad Jack) of mine used to say: "Boy, marriage is like a big jar full of sh!t, with a thin layer of honey on top." Lol..RIP uncle The first spoon full seems good & delicious........but it can only get worse from there, and you have to finish the entire jar. 😂🤢 Yea I'm sure newlyweds are happy but thats about it. After 2-3 years it drops off then you're looking at 50 years of misery
As a wife and a mother, my husband and I contribute to our home, money and family equally but in individual ways. No one in a committed relationship should be sitting on their ass leaching off the other. In order to have a happy love life, each person needs to contribute to the relationship because they care for the other person. When you take rampant narcissism out of the equation, you'll happily do things for your partner without expectation of more more more more. TikTok has become such a cesspool of entitlement that will lead young people to misery in older age.
This!!! All we need is balance but people are too desperate for convenience!! A committed relationship requires both parties to contribute to each other, it’s not fucking rocket science!
meh. i beg to differ. you can leach off each other intermittenly. if anything its good to take a break for everyone's health both mentally and physically. then again some things cannot be treated so easily like old age. there is no point in getting so far in time. Just a burden on any children you might have and even to society as a whole at that point, just becomes a relic to display or a broken record player on repeat
I disagree, men need to step up and provide for women. Women have suffered enough in the past, the least men can do is make sure women have easy lives.
@@paulinejackson5861 Yeah, all of those poor suffering women of the past who died in battle, died hunting food for their families, died in disasters because of the old way of saving the "men and children first", all of the women who died working dangerous jobs building skyscrapers and roads and bridges, mining, sewers, ect. ect. ect. Poor women. 🙄
I'm currently in the top 5% of wage earners in America, and there's no way in hell would I partner up with these types of donuts. Since I've worked for everything from humble beginnings, I understand the value of a dollar, and a quality partner. My wife was with me 2 decades ago when I made just $10 an hour.
@@TheCrippledGamer Accuse people of trolling when you have no argument right? It's good enough for the woman to stay at home and raise children but not good enough if she is the one having to pull the 55 hours workweek of the average bread-winning father while he gets to cook and clean the house
@Dusan Sladojevic Accuse people of trolling when you have no argument right? It's good enough for the woman to stay at home and raise children but not good enough if she is the one having to pull the 55 hours workweek of the average bread-winning father, while he gets to stay home
@@CooLin1stPlace "She's gonna be single in 10 years bro, trust!" That's a cope, even aged women have better dating success then aged men(and no money doesn't count unless you're fine with sugar baby/gold diggers) so don't get your hopes up to not have them shattered 😢
Knew she was speaking bs when she said “girlies” any of these girls on tik tok that use the sparking star emoji to high light words and dumbed down language are not playing a character. They’re actually that full of air.
It reminded me of Myka Stauffer who kept saying "kiddos" instead of just "children" or "kids" to make herself sound 'softer', when in actual fact, she was a fucking monster who adopted a boy for likes for her channel. Sociopath.
if a woman loves to use socmed especially tik tok (flaunting her beauty, body, drama, lifestyle) she is not a traditional woman, just another delusional one
There is nothing more beautiful then a man who tries to give his family everything even if he has nothing to give.. I thank my husband everyday for the things he does for us.. We've been struggling together for years and our love just grew.. This woman is disgusting and shows how toxic they are nowadays..
In short, loyalty. A virtue most men are born with, but one that is conditionally availed by woemen. It is better to accept this to avoid being blindsided.
When my wife and I started dating she’d spend hours mindlessly watching TikTok, it led to a couple discussions and one argument before I made my boundary clear, she could keep Facebook but tik tok HAD to be deleted (I do not use social media any more and she was spending alot of our time on social media) haven’t looked back since and our relationship has stayed strong and is still strong. We do things together like video games, dates, events and gatherings, and recently got her into the 40K hobby, where there’s no time for social media anyways when you got a bunch of gray plastic to paint. I wholeheartedly believe we became so close because we have no sort of outside temptation or influence; we’re a unit. I’m so thankful and so lucky to have her.
This is what happens when your Chinese parents fail to instill the proper Chinese family values in you. Thank god it did not happen to me or my siblings.
I'm guessing you're of Chinese descent? I guess this must be a difference between overly westernized descendants and those who remembered the values of their ancestors (Eastern vs Western culture).
Yeah, without that you could just get a roommate who’s a guy and then you’re only paying half the rent and not being asked for money And you’ll have someone do half the housework, unlike before lmao
"there's no reward for struggling together"... *How about the security of always knowing your partner has your back?* (and visa versa) How about the reward of knowing that no matter how bad external circumstances get, it's better for both of you because at least you can face it together? How about the reward of knowing that even though it's tough now, you have joyful memories together that give you hope for where things will be once your through it? How about the joy of knowing that you have done what is right and can be proud of the character you have built? How about the benefit of _building together,_ multiplication of growth and results vs 1 person carrying both while the other leaches? Oh wait - you don't even understand that you are missing out those things, because you think instant gratification will grow into a satisfying life. Good luck with that.
My wife went through a depression spell. She would just sleep all day, and not do anything. After a few months I told her, she’s going to have to start cleaning the house, making dinner, and organizing the kid’s day or get a job so we can afford someone to do these thing for us. It turned into a huge fight, and I told her she will never escape work, and there is no difference between her sleeping all day and being dead, if she doesn’t change her ways I would be leaving because I’m not going to work just to come home and be a slave to her. I would then call her mid-day while I was at work to make sure she was out of bed then give her tasks to do. She eventually got over her depression and started being the mother our kids deserved.
This might not work for every depressed person, but I'm glad it worked for you guys. Doing something to try to change the situation is better than doing nothing.
She had zero responsibility and without responsibility people have no purpose, and no reason to do anything. Many people will not work if not pushed to do so. If you lift the weights for someone, they'll never get stronger.
I will say I hope there was therapy that you forgot to mention in this post. I will say this, you can be severely depressed and still do things and that is still depression. I recommend having a conversation to make sure she's still okay and if she's not in therapy already, therapy. People are often scared of it but it can change your life and worldview.
Why are men allowed to have 10 different pick up channels(with millions of views) where they discuss how to finesse, manipulate, fool women into thinking you love them then dump them when sex happens, cheat on them but when women do it is wrong? Why doesn't this biased channel make a video calling out those men? Hmmm is it because it caters to sad men population?
Exactly. Not to mention the way she's twisting that woman's words at 7:37 to make the guy seem like the bad one. This woman is a menace to society and need to be cancelled ASAP
Thank you so much think before you sleep for pointing out their blatant hypocrisy!! No one out in public will speak up about this and it’s very sad to see.
And that's why both my girlfriend and I told each other "baby, we're looking to have a future together, but if it doesn't work with you, I won't look for another one. I'll just move on single". From one side, you got these sociopaths teaching women to be a man's worst nightmare. From the other side, you got a bunch of sociopaths running as dating gurus telling men to sell women a dream, sleep with them and then throw them to the side of the road. This is insanity.
@@zusk8556 it's not. We both had enough of this sickness. I'm not going out there to find another sewing needle in the middle of a hospital, and neither is she. And we didn't made a "pact", we just happened to think alike in this matter before we even met.
I’ve been married to my husband for 3 years, we’ve been together for a total of 8 years. I would be an IDIOT to think I could just sit on my ass, spending his money all day and assume he won’t eventually get tired of me and leave me. I know he loves me, but everyone has their limits. Men are entitled to have boundaries and expectations just as women are. Relationships are about compromise and teamwork. It’s really sad to see women like this manipulate and trick young women into thinking this is acceptable behavior.
Seriously, if this woman and ones like her actually got what they wanted, what they claim men should do for them (which by the way is extremely sexist BS), most men would be onto another woman real quick. If he could get you this way, this easily just by having some money and spending a little on you, he can do that for a lot of other women. And once he gets what he wants, wink wink, he’ll move onto the next woman. That’s precisely how women get used and then they complain about it.
6:52 This is the most selfish concept ever. Struggling together for a dream/goal, financial or otherwise, is a beautiful way to strengthen your relationship, to love each other, and to support each other. My mom talks very fondly of the early years when she and my Dad were pretty poor. She talks about it like a big adventure, where they laughed and prayed and worked hard and problem-solved together. ❤
Alot of western women wanna wait at the finish line and pick a winner instead of joining the race WITH the man. They don't because they really don't love the man, only his money n value
Even with just family it's one of the most strength building experiences. I still remember the times my and my mom counted up our bills before checkout. We work through tough times and become stronger. Sad people have forgot that
Yup, and struggle will happen to everyone at some point. "Life is suffering" - if a partner can't handle that, they're not going to be a good partner. Just there for a good time, not a long time
@@plexyglass429It’s the definition of waiting at the finish line. Men say that metaphor all the time, if they don’t get why it’s problematic that’s their fault, they’ll learn the hard way
I'm a single dad. It is so incredibly easy to manage a house. 90% of the work is done by a robot or a machine. I honestly don't know what stay at home moms do all day when their kids are in school.
Yes, sir you are right. They need to make it look difficult to justify the little amount of value they actually bring. Like the guy on the job who works real hard when the boss walks in but the rest of the time sits on his ass. This is the part of manipulation.
@@niewieder99you don't even know him? You're the type of person you are referring to. He works, cleans, cooks and didn't abandon his child, yet you're judging him? You sound like a very lovely person, do you have a partner? Do they know you talk like this? Feel free to show them and let us know how single life goes for you after that.
I like how neutral your style is. You point our things you agree with even if you don’t agree with the overall message. Most people are just one sided bashers. I respect your character so much
These are the type of women who won't do basic household chores because they "won't be your mother", yet what they describe as a provider is acting as if you were their father.
I work full time at home, desk job, watch my kids so we don’t pay daycare, I do all the cooking and cleaning and inside chores, my hubby takes care of the outside. I was doing better financially than him when we first met and helped him work his way up. He just started a new job 80k/ year, double what he made before. Relationships require give and take, and sacrifice to help each other. He has offered for me to quit working. But no, that’s ok, I like bringing money in and I still have time to do all my household chores, cook, and go to the gym. I have never been happier.
So when I was 18, I was told I couldn't have kids. I was so devastated. But I knew God had a plan for me, and I knew it wasn't college, a huge debt. So I picked a feminine job as a housekeeper/breakfast staff at a hotel chain. If anything it taught me how to run my own home. I eventually met my husband at 22, and about a month into being married (unofficial for a short while cause covid closed the court houses), I found out I was pregnant! ❤ My husband looked at me and said he wanted me to be at home to raise our baby and I couldn't have been happier. He wasnt even making that much at the time. Yet we still made it work by forgoing having a second vehicle and unnecessary spending. Now my husband makes great money. I was raised by a frugal single father though, so I still pinch pennies so we can eventually move out to the country. Women like this are such gold diggers and big Ole harlots. 😂 This one old lady told me how you keep a man is feed him, empty his balls frequently, love him, and keep a clean house. Most men will stick around.
Why are men allowed to have 10 different pick up channels(with millions of views) where they discuss how to finesse, manipulate, fool women into thinking you love them then dump them when sex happens, cheat on them but when women do it is wrong? Why doesn't this biased channel make a video calling out those men? Hmmm is it because it caters to sad men population?
@Abu - The Blackpilled MGTOW Mirpuri AJK Pakistani the era might be gone, but that doesn't mean that tradition is dead. My husband and I made it work 🤷♀️
@Abu - The Blackpilled MGTOW Mirpuri AJK Pakistani It's really not. There are a lot of traditional families that still make it work, including my own. You just have to enter a relationship knowing that is what you want.
I dated a girl like this for 3 or so weeks. It's not that I dodged a bullet, its that I dodged one of those experimental MIRV launchers from fallout 3.
Don't let yourself be put off by the most extreme (video worthy) examples - most people have been humbled in one way or another (e.g. raised normally, had boundaries established by romantic partners) and are fine
I can't believe what I just heard. "Struggling together won't bring you reward". My parents have build everything almost from scratch together with team work. Majority of older generations too. The woman who says this will leave you when life gets rough (which it always does) in a blink of an eye
What I want to see in life is men no longer putting up with these kinds of relationships and taking on women who are nothing but overgrown children and a walking bill.
The reason women act this way is because many generations of men did not refuse to breed with and provide for awful women. I don't think it could be removed from the gene pool now even if it became humanity's top goal.
Will never happen. Men are suppose to be providers. They are insecure and will provide for “these” women because they have no standards and settled for less.
Building a life with your husband from when you were young and had nothing isn't about getting him to love you more. You do it because YOU LOVE HIM. Everything is about what she gets out of it, so mercenary. The result of starting a life together is wonderful for everyone too; a strong relationship that has stood the test of time and tough roads. You know you can weather the stroms of life together.
This right here! I feel like a lot of women don't want to do it anymore, especially women my age (29) and younger. They want a guy who makes six figures and don't want to do anything in return to be a good wife. My husband (then boyfriend) was out of work for a while soon not long after we moved in together. It was tough for a bit, but we made it work and now we are building our life together.
@@tomaszszupryczynski5453 not if you're married. If you're not married by all means have the testing done and bail if you don't want to help her raise the child. But marriage is a commitment to raise a family together
Think Before You Sleep Rule #42: The more beautiful the background he is talking over, the more brutal and merciless his takedown. Also... struggle bus? I know these people don't actually care about men but that's just... every super-successful guy used to be a "struggler" and will consider that statement inconsiderate and extremely hurtful, especially since masculinity distilled is "struggle and suffer until someone pays you a living wage."
The struggle bus is funny for me. I work in IT and my apartment is my office, but whenever I go out, I'd always either ride my bicycle to there or take the bus. Why should I pay 5 euro for gas to get to the same destination, when I can give 0.5 euro (yes, half a euro) to cover the same distance in a comfy bus, while reading a book? This literally makes no sense. And it's not like I have no driving licence - I do. And it's not like I can't afford a car - I definitely can even get myself a brand new one, but what's the point? I live in a walkable city with a good public transport (Europe), why would I overspend on unnecessary stuff? Should I also buy myself the newest iPhone Pro Max just for the flex? It's fucking stupid. People should spend below their means as I am pretty much living like I used to when my job was paying me many times less as a bartender. The struggle bus doesn't exist. There is only the "good financial decision bus".
These women are targeting easy middle class men who've grown up depending on their father's wealth (aka trust fund babies). No go getter falls for scams like these.
@@SigmaGrindset-vg4oh Unlike the rest of the developed world, in North America and especially the US, taking the bus is considered something poor people do
I've had the extreme misfortune of knowing a couple of hyper selfish people and when bad things finally happened to them literally everyone around them just laughed in their faces. One ended up getting hit by a truck and was left disfigured crippled and addicted to pills and when she started asking for help literally everyone told her that she deserved what happened ot her for being a rotten human being, she ended up taking an od when she finally realized that no one she knew liked or even cared about her.
Yeah that’s what happens when you turn into some bitter, resentful scheming person who is unable and too unwilling to treat people as an extension from themselves and vice versa. You become a bitter, Resentful, scheming narcissist and ultimately it leads you nowhere.
Nobody comes out of this story as a hero. Not even the 'human beings' that tell the other ones that they deserve this, because they are a rotten human being...
Thank you for this story. It honestly makes me happy to see woman go through the same woes as men sometimes. Gets me so freaking excited and frisky that gal got what's what.
Watching these videos makes me appreciate my wife and how great of a partner she is. There’s a huge difference between a strong woman and a toxic “girlie”.
"I took spoiling myself and giving myself everything that I wanted to the next level and became a hyper independent girly (sic): I could buy my own house, I took myself to nice spas, I took myself to really nice vacations, I had a great career, I could do everything on my own: Why did I need a man?" In case it still wasn't clear enough: This is what you amount to. This tells you everything about women's approach to relationships: As long as they can buy themselves whatever they want, you are useless to them. They don't want _you,_ they want _your money._ To them, you are a _tool._ Just like you would say, "I already have a chainsaw that works very well, why would I need another one", they say "I already have all the money I want, why would I want a man". Boy, is her crashing into the wall going to be satisfying.
I don't think it's about money as much as the fact that most women have become the men they wanted to marry. Opposites attract, not the other way around. They already are what they want, but they want it amplified in another person. It's like if men only went for men who are above them, socioeconomically. It's bound to put enormous pressure on the hierarchy and unravel it to the point of collapse. You can't obtain something you already are.
It's kind of funny how she uses the term "spoiled" a lot because spoiled literally means ruined or lost its value. She is transparently telling women to ruin their own value and people somehow just accept it.
I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s one of those people who claims “I don’t need a man in my life I could provide for myself”, but then she’s one of those people who tricked Man into sleeping with her has his kid and then dishes him only to be supported by all of his child support checks which she uses 10% of for the kid and the rest for herself.
It's actually a fairly easy thing to compartmentalize. I COULD take care of myself if I wanted to, but you SHOULD take care of me anyway. It doesn't enter her mind to offer a reason why.
I hear that's a very popular "elective" class at many Universities today. It's a form of financial planning. Only women are allowed into the course and it satisfies the math requirement for many degrees.
@@glevando It's not even from school. Girls coach one another to do exactly this. Mothers coach their daughters on how to fraud men. The entire female industry is a parasite
This is why I love social media. These women out themselves so we know who to avoid. Leave them be; don't try to help them. They can buy a dog and die alone.
It doesn't make a difference. Theres no karma or justice or punishment. Theres everyones individual truth now. We are a dead species. Clearout sale. Just do whatever. It doesn't matter now.
This is why I hate social media. It may out women to avoid but it doesn’t stop exposure. Young women’s minds are malleable and social media tends to change the way impressionable people think. I just pray for my kids.
It’s realllly important folks expose their sons and daughters to wives and husbands that understand their roles and obligations to each other and have long standing relationship. Breaks my heart to see it all get warped
And Tik Tok makes it more worst since even kids has access to these and will get brain wash by these peoples so called life advice on how to ruin your relationship with your boyfriend.
I’m a lib-left person myself, but I actually find myself agreeing more often with you than with content creators from my own political spectrum. In fact, your “relationship tips” are probably the best ones I’ve ever heard on the Internet. Thanks for your content brother💙
Be independent bruh, aligned for sensible rationality, left & right are basically just a different side of the same coin, take what's good from either side and trim all the uglies stuff out..
@@linuxjodi4311 exactly man, another person who gets it, no need to be bound by what side your on, no need to limit beliefs and values radically to one end of the spectrum and another, When problems are complex and this world is always changing
Relationships are an investment. I want someone to stand by come the wind and waves. Just like my parents before me. I do not need someone to "spoil" me. I want companionship, someone to become a better person with. There are reasons why I am single, and they are my fault, but at least I have the dignity to not take advantage of the guys I want to date
As an amateur psychologist I can guess this Nadeen fell hard for Chad, he dumped her, and now for the rest of her miserable life she'll be a male-hating terrorista -- who parks her hetero libido in terrible degen relationships with Schopenhauer poster-boys who just want to love her back to Julie Andrews-land. In the past playwrights wrote depressing existentialist plays about people like Nadeen and Sheraseven. It started with Ibsen's _Hedda Gabler_ which was a total freak-out back in the late-1800s for its depiction of a shockingly psycho femme fatale. People were outraged back then.
You can tell a lot about a person by the way they talk, especially what kind of words they use. The fact that this women uses the term "girlies" to refer to herself and women like her tells you everything you need to know. Shes mentally stunted, she's still living like she's a "mean girl" in middleschool.
So after my wife gave birth to our first kid, she was a stay at home mum for a bit. I was great house was clean and dinner was cooked. Then inflation hit and the bills were getting harder to pay. And so she went straight to work to help out. That's a woman I reckon guys need. The kids unfortunately go to daycare now, but he loves it there so I guess it's ok.
I think the lesson we can all learn is the fact that both men and women have content creators that promote toxicity in their lives and the best thing we can do is turn off our devices and stop listening to narcissist about how to live our lives
I really, REALLY wish the internet would stop pushing the self-love rhetoric, because it can be incredibly dangerous if taken too far. Self-esteem is something that needs to be managed if you want to be a good person, and someone thinking that they deserve to be spoiled is a prime example of someone who doesn’t know how to keep their self-esteem in check. This might shatter some people’s worlds, but your opinion of yourself doesn’t matter anywhere outside of your own head; you’re not entitled to anything simply because you think you’re the shit, that’s just a rule of life.
I honestly hate the word "deserve" when used on oneself. The moment you say "I deserve...", then you probably don't. I think it's more objective than people think. You know what you can expect, given who/what you are/have. And if you don't, then that's a problem in itself. You probably have a very low self-esteem on one end, or are a narcicisstic sociopath in the other.
"If you really care for me as a person, you'll do absolutely everything I want without me having to provide anything in exchange." Gee, I wonder how these women would react if a man said that to them.
One thing that always has bothered me is how women can get away with saying things like “don’t help your man, take his money and stop” and “don’t date dusties.” Society has an obvious bias towards women. One thing I do know, though, is all of these women planning to manipulate and extract as much resources from as many men as possible are not going to be happy doing it for long. Eventually, one day, they’ll realize that they wasted their life using and manipulating people for their personal gain. They’ll look around at their friends and their families and wonder why they aren’t happy in their mansion and driveway full of pink lamborghinis. While their other girly friends are building a family and watching their children grow up, they’ll likely be doing what they’ve been doing for the last 10 years, trying to “live their best life” at the expense of others. Maybe they’ll have a couple of kids from various men, or maybe they’ll even get married. But if they continue to follow this advice, I think it’s going to lead them down a road that begins with hope and happiness and ends with being miserable. I don’t know if women’s brains are designed in the same way as men’s when it comes to empathy and fulfillment. But if I acted this way throughout my life and looked back at my journey, I would be extremely disappointed in myself. Women complain a lot about being treated like objects, but they don’t realize (or maybe they don’t care) that they are doing the same exact thing to men. In this case, the men in question are ATM slaves. “Give me what I want, let me do whatever I want and you’re not allowed to complain and ask for anything.” Do you think this is a happy relationship dynamic? None of these girls are mentioning anything about relationship qualities, it’s always about who can live the better life, take more money from their potential husband, and manipulate as many people as they can to give them what they want. I don’t know what the fuck happened, maybe it was feminism, but this is crazy. I’m pretty young so I don’t know what it was like back then. I’d assume women were much more grateful and less demanding than they are today. This “never settle queen” and “live your best life” bullshit is clearly working on influencing girls to become extremely toxic people.
Oh about men and womens way of empathizing is an interesting subject actually. I don’t know much about the psychological or biological aspect but from myself and being around women I made a hypothesis that women display selective empathy. As in their more empathetic to experiences they can relate to and seem to care more for their own gender then the opposite. That’s why a lot of women care less for mens adversities but can get passionate about change and ideologies that promise change. For men it’s a general empathy for every experience and people but they’re less inclined to be passionate about change if that change seems out of reach. TLDR; Mens empathy is more encompassing but less passionate while womens is less encompassing but more passionate towards integrating perceived solutions to adversities. This is all my hypothesis and probably all wrong but I hope it’s interesting nonetheless.
I was engaged to someone like this. I was working 10-hour days, Made 90% of the money snd commuted. She worked maybe three hours a day and work was nearby. She started complaining I wasn't doing enough to help keep our one-bedroom apartment clean. Let me repeat, ONE BEFROOM aoartment. Like Lincoln, I freed this poor slave. Spoiler - 20 years later she never found somebody she thought was good enough and is still single at 47
Being a stay at home mom doesn't mean you dont get to have your own hobbies, my future MIL is a stay at home mom and she likes to restore antique furniture, my boyfriend's sister is 6 years old now and his mom still has time for her hobbies
These women just "have no time for hobbies" because they're terminally online with their phones. I work 9 hours in a warehouse and I try to keep it tidy all while packing orders. A housewife would just have a small house to take care of which if you clean regularly [Once every 1-4 weeks] then the house shouldn't be messy, and if they have kids to take care of it's not like you have to be in the same room doing things for them 24/7 like most of these childless women think you have to do. The woman wouldn't have to deal with the public or a boss and just get free stuff from the husband. My parents both worked and they would always find time for me if they wanted to and they'd still do their own things meanwhile I'd be playing with toys, video games, my bike, or over at a friend's house
If you have young kids you do have to be in the same room. Babies and toddlers can’t be left alone. Also the cleaning is horrendous. Just left my brothers house, kids throwing toys everywhere, baby has no sense of self preservation and the toddler is spreading toys and snacks everywhere lol. It’s a jungle in there, both of them work and it’s not working so he’s asking her to stay home. Food bill is now $700 just for eating out and around the same for groceries do to hcol area, plus they are health conscious. House is a mess and no food. Someone needs to stay home to manage the kids. Plus daycare is 4,200 a month for two kids. When I watch them I don’t get any breaks. I work from 6am to 10pm, 9-10pm is clean up after they both gone to bed. Baby wakes up multiple times a night to feed also. No time to shower or take care of myself. When they nap I’m cleaning… I think one parent should be at home during the early years. It saves so much chaos, unless both are REALLY high earners and can outsource all of the household tasks: Ie cleaning, laundry, chauffeuring kids, meal prep etc. my brother and sister in law are both high earners but def not millionaires. Whilst she does make more than day care costs it’s pointless because when someone is sick she’s got to get off from work, the house is a mess now, and there’s never any food. Also she’s more stressed now because once she gets home from working all day she has to clean. I think the ideal is to work part time, have one older kid in day care for education and the younger one at home: that way you can get breaks, save some money and time on food, daycare, cleaning.etc whilst having less stress.
Marriage means providing for each other and your families. People work that out individually, but when you marry, you should do so to GIVE more than to RECEIVE. Both of you. You are building a life together. That is what is so hard at times, but so wonderful. You build out of love, and that love becomes marrow-deep
In my case I provide for my woman without expecitng any labour from her, she does it anyways because she's a functioning human being but it's not like I'm expecting her to do it. I just want her to be happy and prioritize her mental and physical health so she can be the light of my life and be there for me when I need her emotional support, and she really is. She's always there to energize me when I feel tired or unmotivated, she always believes in me and pushes me to do better everyday, and since I have my own bussiness because of that I'm able to perform better economically as well, we both win. Now compare that to a few years ago when she was working a 9-5, we had constant arguments, her mental health was terrible and so was mine, and she held a lot of resentment because of her environment, I took her out of that as soon as I could and things only went uphill since then
"Good wifes become divorced wifes" If you are a good woman than that marriage will last until death does it's part Especially in marriage, both sides need to benefit each other equally, if one side is just there "just-because"... it won't last that long, unless you are looking for an eye candy in equal level of figurines you put behind glass
I love being a housewife ❤️ It's not terrible to keep the house clean and cook. I have all day to get everything done, and break it up while playing with our toddler. My day is usually like:wake up, make coffee for me and husband, put laundry in washer if needed, get our son up, make beds, make breakfast, clean up when we're done eating. Go outside to play with toddler or go grocery shopping, make lunch/pack lunch for husband while he goes to work, son might take a nap around this time, if he does I'll clean the bathroom, workout, clean whatever needs done. I like to listen to audible or something while cleaning so I'm listening to a book and it's a lot better than watching TV. Son gets up from nap, play with him, read, whatever his toddler self wants to do. Make dinner, we eat, clean up, son gets a bath, fold laundry from earlier in the day, clean something if it needs done, put son to sleep, sweep/mop, then I read/crochet/watch RUclips/shower, whatever until husband gets home, get his dinner ready, wash his dishes, go to sleep. It's not terrible, and I like to keep busy. This is all broken up with tending to baby, chilling with him, fitting what needs to be done for the day when son allows (toddlers can be crazy haha) Everyday is basically the same except Sundays when we go to church and spend the day with family. I love it tbh, I'm so much happier than when I was working full time before we had a baby. I don't take care of my family because I feel forced to, it's because I love them ❤️ I want them to have a clean house and healthy home cooked meals
God bless you and your marriage! 🌺 Please don't let anyone tell you that "you're a slave" or that "you're opressed" etc. I swear, they are miserable and they want you to be miserable like them.
Amen. All these people saying how awful being a stay at home mom is must never have had a real job in their life because being home with your kiddos is absolutely the greatest thing ever. I am a nurse part time (8 hours a week), and my worst day at home is still way better than my best, easiest day as a nurse.
If you ever decide to divorce him because you met someone better, please do not ruin his life by taking all his possessions, the full custody of the kid, etc.
Keep fighting the good fight bro Love your content and I appreciate your seeing the others side of the woke argument as it's unbelievable how much this shit has taken over in such a short time
You are one of the most well spoken channels I've found on RUclips. Keep up the good job. The world needs more people like you. Found your channel a few months ago and I am so impressed on the way you are so transparent. Respect man.
The people who are apart of these tiktok gender wars would be so much happier if they actually pursued people with the same mindset as them, they make it harder than it has to be, no one should have to change their beliefs to be in a relationship with you, traditional stick with traditional and modern stick with modern, it’s really that simple.
@@anthonybatissa1417 if you're having "open relationships" as a man then you most definitely failed as a man. A male person involved in a open relationship is not a man but a cuck.
My mother was a traditional wife/mother (the 1950ish type of wife/mother) and loved it. My dad work and she maintained the home, and myself being a baby boomer, I was exposed and taught that that is how a marriage, family and home life should be.
Unfortunately, that's a practical impossibility nowadays thanks to the victory of feminism and the "liberating" idea that women ought to be in the workplace, too. That's resulted in the decrease of wages due to a doubled labor pool, while demand for goods and services remained practically static.
I cook, I clean, I take care of children, I take care of vegetable garden, greenhouse and farm animals, I take care of our honey bee's. I do all that because my husband works 14 hours a day and I want to be worthy of his sacrifice.
"People saying things not to help you, but for views" I feel like more people need to hear this. I grew up with the internet so I'm very well versed on how things work (clickbait and stretches of the truth). Maybe this newer generation is more gullible than I give them credit for
I think the big difference is that you grew up with internet, not born and raised by internet Most of the new generation is born and raised with a steady dripfed of videos of any kind I'm not going into details because i'm not that well versed in english, but i hope i said clearly what i want to intend
As a single father of 2 teens, one autistic, house work is the least of my issues. And I kept a neat and clean home. I sometimes even enjoy putting on Spotify and catching up the vacuuming, laundry and whatever. It's low stress compared to my job and I feel satisfied when I'm done and my place looks and smells amazing.
men are to blame for this type of behaviour in women, because not only do we tolerate it, but we are accepting it, by dating/wifing them up, we are basically telling them "keep behaving this way, i dont mind that you dont respect me"
My boyfriend pays for everything and never asked for anything in return BUT I can't imagine not cleaning or preparing dinner for him after he comes home. No loving girlfriend would be JUST after money without even thinking about the guy.
She immediately strikes me as the kinda woman that would try and live off child support after ditching a guy she tricked into knocking her up.
i hope her next boyfriend cheats.
..her sister is worse! 🤣
@desperate need of scotch Until the era of the One Sith
@desperate need of scotch LOL!!!
Imagine paying a woman to be your wife while other guys marry a woman for free
I actually watched a girl get corrupted by TikTok in real time. They went from being a loving mother to a total narcissist, completely deluded that they would become some rich Instagram model. Spoiler: They didn't
Any examples if you don’t mind
Large portion of those rich insta “models” are using rented products on free promotional vacations and using men’s money to sell the idea of wealth. Heavily filtered and curated pictures some completely fabricated (some of this was exposed during Covid) pictures in locations they’ve never been. I remember a van life woman who was exposed as never leaving her parents neighborhood the whole time. Always selling the dream of travel, hiding rich boyfriends from their desperate followers, hiding the danger they put themselves in, hiding the non glamorous parts of living on a sailing vessel traveling around (usually funded by parents to bail them out) ect.
@@ZeroEternity How about not fighting for custody of her child because she wanted to live the 'full life'.
@@OnlyTwoShoes I feel sorry for those children losing what once to be a good mother from what you’ve said. It’s sad society is moving towards laziness and act as spoiled children
Women are the more agreeable sex, they are followers by nature, hence why they make up most of the consumer spending and student debt. India is wise for banning tik tok
Lol imagine if a man said his version of "self love" was living off a woman's income, playing videos games all day, buying expensive guy crap and absolutely refusing to clean up after himself or watch the kids. He would be ROASTED by every woman on this planet, and rightfully so! I saw a RUclips short of a woman who worked a 12 hour shift, and pointed out the dirty dishes in the sink that her "unemployed" husband hadn't done that day and complained about the beers he drank, etc. The comments were FILLED with women telling her to leave him and "he's a child," and even threats of violence, etc. The hypocrisy. 🤦🏼♀️ Useless to point it out. But cathartic anyway lol.
i think the male version of this is redpill guys who say treat women as disposable sex toys
Women's entire life consists of double standards and male exploitation
So essentially she wants to be treated like a child 😂
i dont think there is anything wrong with doing nothing at all. Women want to spoil their man and if it means spoiling em rotten for a while at the expense of a little cleanliness then it’s not the end of the world or anything. Especially if the relationship is genuinely profound and you both have been growing together through the years supporting each other. Adults aren't strong 24/7 sometimes people have moments where they can’t do shit mentally and physically. in this situation it would just have been dumb to raise a family and bring a being up in this nonesensical reality. If a kid must become more important than yourself for years then might as well learn to live a wholesome life foremost
@@alpacacomentadora413 at THIS point they're EXACTLY that
Calling your significant other "Provider" is the biggest red flag ever.
True. Women who want the traditional provider role from their husbands will have a litany of pet names for their role, including "King".
Might as well be calling him a "wallet" lol
Her financee er fiancee
Dehumanizing people is what narcissist do.
@@wnathanielw"Slave" is more accurate and on the nose.
I love how she refers to a man's job as "financial support" and some pretty simple house chores as "labor".
They have no fucking clue what it takes to make good money. Like that shit just falls out of the sky.
@@jackieboy1593 it does if you're rich
@@awesomepants184 yeah but you have to get in there
and the expsenses of whatever you do to be rich
so yeah even for rich people doesnt fall of the sky
(dont think im rich or anything im as poor as a middle age men working in mcdonals)
@awesomepants184 only if you're born into a rich family inclined towards nepotism. Not everyone that's rich was born into it and those that didn't become rich from nepotism have to work their asses off for years to get to those positions. Unless they're lucky af and bought bitcoin back in 2012 or some other ridiculousness. Of course most of the ultra wealthy were born into a wealthy family, but there's a massive difference between millionaires and billionaires.
@@bickyboo7789 I didn't say that people can't become rich by working, I meant if you're rich like Elon musk or Jeff besos money prints itself. They don't have to do anything else for the rest of their lives and they'll become richer and richer.
you gotta be down bad, i mean rock bottom, to take relationships advice from a woman on tiktok
They fell down to the bottom, and they digging deeper now
or teen with not a fully functioning brain
Let alone a woman who can’t even reach a 7 with a full face of makeup on
@@inandoutofreal1ty 💀
If you have TikTok you are down pretty bad too.
Don't take life advice from people that are deeply unhappy with theirs.
All this woman wants to do is drag other women down to her level to feel better about herself.
Misery likes company
Unless the advice is telling the person to avoid doing stupid crap like they have done, but that would require someone of higher character and morals.
@@jackalsmalls4995 Funny enough this is what Pearl is doing.
Misery loves company.
Thats social media in a nutshell. Before this was restricted to toxic friends, now the whole world can tell you deserve better
If you call yourself a "girlie" you've already crossed the line between normal and possibly insane
They make everything childish... bcuz she wants to escape reality... welp, feminism took the magic out of the bottle and now it can't go back in .... win for men... you can provide for yourself you don't need no man!!!
@@zzzz-sf5lr I'm cool with them being "just the girlies", but only if that woman renounces some of those feminist positions. If I have to be the adult here, then I get final say on things and am allowed to tell you what to do. Power comes with responsibility. If you don't want responsibility, don't demand power.
The same goes with “bestie”
Well there is a term kidult now which shows how society has become full of losers now
I came for this comment... "girlie" is so annoying...
“There’s no reward for struggling together” is the most demonic, anti-marriage thing a woman could say
ikr, its okay if the guy struggles but as long as hes paying for everything
It's also just factually incorrect.
My parents struggled together A LOT.
And my siblings and I are reaping the MANY rewards that their struggles provided.
In a roundabout way she's right. I've seen many examples of men leaving the wives that helped them become successful from nothing, then cheat, and get younger golddigger mistresses and get taken for a ride financially.
That's the mindset of alot of these women nowadays. It's sickening
I get where you are coming from, but as a single woman I am not struggling right now, so why would anchor myself to a man who is so we are struggling together? That actually makes no sense.
The language she uses exposes the fact that she is A SUGAR BABY not a girlfriend. The constant use of the word "spoil" is the dead give away. I recently read a paper on this phenomenon of women expecting those in higher positions to come down for them while kicking everyone else below them. It's called "Leveling". It's how women compete. Everything above me is unfair and needs to be made equal. Everything below me needs to try harder while I actively push you down.
Could you share the title of the paper?
My god that's my old boss to a T.
@@TheThirdWay. can you warn me when you receive the answer?
Looks like I have a rabbit hole to go down
@@Toppgg-ci9er i can't find your khan kattak book
Every time she used the word girlie I felt my blood pressure tick up a couple points
Its the Dylan Mulvany tactic. Keep saying girl instead of women so that you will be held to a lower standard than an adult.
What are you at? 1230 over 1010?
I'm glad it wasn't just me.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
editing the video and doing the research must have been abolute hell if just watching the final product is hell aready
Stay strong fellas. I found a good woman with old school morals. Married at 25 and 22. My dad got dementia after 1 year we got married. She didnt leave my side the entire time. And i will never ever leave hers no matter what life throws. Struggling together is what makes a couple. Stay away from vapid superficial people.
What year were you married, if you don’t mind my asking
@@hellaspoicey2280 4 years ago
Thats still very young. Would not surprise me if you dont make it past 30 with her.
But the best of luck
@@marmite_popsicle im 31
@@marmite_popsicle but thanks anyway, hope i can inspire you to stop thinking everything and everyone is miserable
single bitter and lonely woman: "Here is my dating advice for successful relationships..."
Ironic isn't. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
If women are so dumb that they listen to incompetence then they deserve to be alone.
every singel one of them are cat ladys too 😂
Holy shit, I'm so glad that I got married in 2001, before this absolute insanity.
My wife and I have been married for 22 years now, we share cooking duties, cleaning, etc. We have a life together, two awesome kids that don't use social media, and are doing well financially.
I wouldn't wish this TikTok shit on anyone, it's cancer. To someone like me, it's just insane, complete and unadulterated insanity.
We got lucky dude. I worked out my issues with a damn good woman like, 3 months before all of this really started ruining the dating pool. Feels like I got a photo finish in a race and won. Sucks seeing SO many single, unhappy, men AND women now. And the bigger and uglier the woman, the higher her standards now. The most worthless people are expecting the top 1% of partner. It's madness
Wish I was you
Does she work or is she a SAHM?
@@_badbish_98 My wife works her ass off and is set to retire in just a few short years. I have already retired from my first career at 45 years old and am now working on my second. We share all domestic duties. She is a good woman.
@@Pavewy does she like working that hard ?
its disgusting these female Andrew tates don't get the same amount of hate that Andrew tate has. Yet these women want to say we have privilege and that male hating influencers aren't a real thing
Male hating influencers outnumber Female hating influencers at ten times the ratio smash bros casuals outnumber smash bros tryhards
Gynocentric society
As far as I can tell, these women aren't running a referral/MLM business. Tate is known (and therefor hated) because he scammed people into spamming his videos everywhere, not because he's sexist
@@axmoylotl he didn't scam anyone. Many people made a living off reposting his videos
What has Tate ever said that's the equivalent of this though?
Tate always talks about how young men need to EARN their success, not that they're just entitled to anything.
"Struggling together" is only worthless if you think of your relationship and your man as valueless. If you actually care for your relationship and man, struggling together brings the two of you closer and deepens your relationship bonds...and that higher degree of intimacy is one of the most valuable things in the world.
100% agree, I got married at 19 and he was 21, we built our lives from the ground up and we couldn't be happier together. We're very financially stable now, but the first few years entailed a lot of hard work and poverty. It brought us closer
Exactly - and that's why women who thinks like ones from wideo have poor chances to catch valuable men - as most men are looking for partner to build life together (in 20') - until they build it on their own (so 30's) and kind of then we just want to avoid worthless people (not moneyless - worthless - thats different) - so kind of good man motivation is oposite to hers. :):):) And if he had basic experiance in relationship in 20 - he is reading her like a open book... Only good relationship I know were build in 20's by people who strugle together - and bond during that stuggle - thats important part - without it relationship is just disater waiting to happend.
Absolutely 🎉
And don't forget going out of the struggle faster because you can help eachother out. Marriage is supposed to be a teamwork, the vows say that *"In good and bad times, in wealth and poverty, in health and sickness, until death take us apart"* because THAT'S WHAT MARRIAGE AND FAMILY IS about, to honor the other and build something TOGETHER.
Here we go, sit back relax and watch some sensible RUclips.
Yeah it's nice to be reminded I'm not surrounded by nothing but fools
I find it funny I see this comment right as I open the video where TikTok extraordinaire or whoever this nobody is infers that Traditional Men are not providers XD
I am very relaxed knowing many guys out there pay to have a gf / wife while I have one for free
@@outdoorfr3akwe are here fren. Don’t give up hope 💪
Sit back, relax and think before you sleep... It was right there... You know what, you're grounded for a lifetime for missing something so obvious... Go to your room aaaaaand think before you sleep... My god I'm on a roll today...
Sadly, this is the norm. My brother does a lot for his family. If his wife does just a little chore, she starts complaining saying she does lots and says he doesn't do anything. And then she brings up her sister and friends husband's, who are pretty much simps, who do everything for their wives. I told my brother if this is my wife, I would tell her straight up, I ain't no simp and a wife/girlfriend needs to do her share for the family. If they can't even do a minimum, then you gone.
His wife's endless complaints are a sign that she's checked out. It doesn't matter what your bro does. Covertly help him secure his future post the divorce that is coming his way. How do I know? That was me three years ago? I was advised to set up a secret nest egg for what was to come, and it did.
@@balladbuster5109 💯
He should hire a maid. A HOT, latina or Asian maid.
@@balladbuster5109 🎯
Like mentioned above, he should start hiding cash in the backyard. His time to split is inevitable.... 😮
I'm so over this terrible idealization of a "lifestyle" these women project and gaslight onto other women into normalizing. This gives me even less of a desire of wanting to share my life with someone else
I can't even imagine how it is possible, but I guess I have a boyfriend I love, not a boyfriend that made me fall in love with his wallet
@@silviaconsonni586 everyone deserves love like that
well its normal for women. women hate women more than men. women hate others having better than them. even mother hates her own daughter thats why she repeats her mistakes. where men not only want to save sons from his mistakes, but also other men. thats how mgtow started. we save men every day, one at a time. we dont force, dont shame, dont preach, we only show truth and you must be ready to see it and wake up from brainwashing. then our mission is over. cos when you wake up you crave more truth and knowledge by yourself. make your own conclusions. go your own way, like true mgtow is. find your own way to survive in this sick world that wants you dead
They'll realize they've been sold a lie when nobody wants them in their mid 30s. Let them learn their lesson and hopefully younger women can look to that in the future and realize the reality vs the lie sold.
You shouldn't share your life with anyone besides your friends, the damn people that know you, you know?
My husband works every weekday 9-5. I have MS and Crohn’s disease so I stay home. I would feel INCREDIBLY GUILTY if I just said to him “you keep going to work and I’ll sit on my ass all day and do nothing.” Even though we have a large house, 2 kids and a dog I do my best everyday to make sure things are done at home. He works his ass off and the least I can do is make sure he comes home to a comfortable environment after work. These young women are gonna be single forever if they think a healthy relationship is one person doing everything.
Wdym by MS.
Besides that, agreed. True love is not being a parasite to your lover.
@@Kokangalangmultiple sclerosis i think?
@@Kokangalang
Multiple sclerosis
@@Kokangalang Multiple sclerosis, its a condition that basically causes your immune system to attack yourself which has quite a lot of symptoms
@@Kokangalang Pharmacist here. M.S. (multiple sclerosis) is a neurologically degenerative autoimmune disease. Her immune system is attacking her nerve cells in her body and that can lead to lots of issues as it progresses (vision loss, trouble moving/walking/standing, muscle weakness, cognitive decline, etc.). It is treatable but not everyone responds well to the medication and/or physical therapy. She's a saint and a definite keeper for taking care of her family despite the difficulties that come with that diagnosis. God bless her.
I like how you incorporate nature scenes between the clips where female satan speaks. Really refreshing to the spirit.
Really calming
Facts
My uncle (mad Jack) of mine used to say: "Boy, marriage is like a big jar full of sh!t, with a thin layer of honey on top." Lol..RIP uncle
The first spoon full seems good & delicious........but it can only get worse from there, and you have to finish the entire jar. 😂🤢
Yea I'm sure newlyweds are happy but thats about it. After 2-3 years it drops off then you're looking at 50 years of misery
Female Satan 😂
@@benlotus2703 that's exactly what Satan would say
As a wife and a mother, my husband and I contribute to our home, money and family equally but in individual ways. No one in a committed relationship should be sitting on their ass leaching off the other. In order to have a happy love life, each person needs to contribute to the relationship because they care for the other person. When you take rampant narcissism out of the equation, you'll happily do things for your partner without expectation of more more more more.
TikTok has become such a cesspool of entitlement that will lead young people to misery in older age.
This!!! All we need is balance but people are too desperate for convenience!! A committed relationship requires both parties to contribute to each other, it’s not fucking rocket science!
meh. i beg to differ. you can leach off each other intermittenly. if anything its good to take a break for everyone's health both mentally and physically. then again some things cannot be treated so easily like old age. there is no point in getting so far in time. Just a burden on any children you might have and even to society as a whole at that point, just becomes a relic to display or a broken record player on repeat
I think there's plenty that are miserable now tbh.
I disagree, men need to step up and provide for women. Women have suffered enough in the past, the least men can do is make sure women have easy lives.
@@paulinejackson5861 Yeah, all of those poor suffering women of the past who died in battle, died hunting food for their families, died in disasters because of the old way of saving the "men and children first", all of the women who died working dangerous jobs building skyscrapers and roads and bridges, mining, sewers, ect. ect. ect. Poor women. 🙄
Nadeen is a wonderful example of how someone pretty can actually be a very ugly human being. Wow, she's disturbed to put it nicely.
She ain't even beautiful bro, she is mostly makeup & filter 😂
Pretty 🤨
Bruh she ain't pretty at all, very unattractive personality.
She's plain even by asian standards
but she isn't pretty
I'm currently in the top 5% of wage earners in America, and there's no way in hell would I partner up with these types of donuts. Since I've worked for everything from humble beginnings, I understand the value of a dollar, and a quality partner. My wife was with me 2 decades ago when I made just $10 an hour.
Beautiful brother good job you did it right could I ask in what setting you met your wife
Reciprocal relationships are the only way to get a lifelong relationship. 31 years married. We were 18 & 19
Traditional marriage has never been a reciprocal relationship, unless the wife also works. It's basically legalized pro sti tution
@@simpdefendmlady6579 I know you're trolling but still....
@@simpdefendmlady6579 💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@TheCrippledGamer Accuse people of trolling when you have no argument right? It's good enough for the woman to stay at home and raise children but not good enough if she is the one having to pull the 55 hours workweek of the average bread-winning father while he gets to cook and clean the house
@Dusan Sladojevic Accuse people of trolling when you have no argument right? It's good enough for the woman to stay at home and raise children but not good enough if she is the one having to pull the 55 hours workweek of the average bread-winning father, while he gets to stay home
She's literally shaming millions of proud stay-at-home moms..😂
She's jealous and when her opportunities to have that dry up in 10 years, she'll be sad and lonely. Forever.
@@CooLin1stPlace "She's gonna be single in 10 years bro, trust!"
That's a cope, even aged women have better dating success then aged men(and no money doesn't count unless you're fine with sugar baby/gold diggers) so don't get your hopes up to not have them shattered 😢
She’s also shaming self respecting men
@@danielsurvivor1372 bro confused getting pumped and dumped as relationship success lmao.
@@_luni_2834he's a victim 😂😂
Knew she was speaking bs when she said “girlies” any of these girls on tik tok that use the sparking star emoji to high light words and dumbed down language are not playing a character. They’re actually that full of air.
Inflatable shell of a person am I right.
It reminded me of Myka Stauffer who kept saying "kiddos" instead of just "children" or "kids" to make herself sound 'softer', when in actual fact, she was a fucking monster who adopted a boy for likes for her channel. Sociopath.
if a woman loves to use socmed especially tik tok (flaunting her beauty, body, drama, lifestyle) she is not a traditional woman, just another delusional one
These women are stuck in an adolescent stage of their life and truly never grew up to be an adult
Just fucking gen Z doing their usual bs
There is nothing more beautiful then a man who tries to give his family everything even if he has nothing to give..
I thank my husband everyday for the things he does for us.. We've been struggling together for years and our love just grew.. This woman is disgusting and shows how toxic they are nowadays..
Beautiful good job
Social media apps like Instagram, Snapchat, and Tiktok absolutely ruined people's scope of reality.
And RUclips.... media in general has always been a form of indoctrination.
📠
Not people, mostly women, and maybe the younger generation of boys. The men that grew up without it are just fine in reality.
It’s not the “being poor” thing that some men are driving at, but that you’re there for them.
For richer or poorer. In sickness and in health.
In short, loyalty. A virtue most men are born with, but one that is conditionally availed by woemen. It is better to accept this to avoid being blindsided.
Nobody gets married for richer or poorer in sickness and in health. It's quite the opposite.
Women like this make me appreciate being single
Amen to that brother.🙏
That's not a woman, that's a child. A bratty child.
When my wife and I started dating she’d spend hours mindlessly watching TikTok, it led to a couple discussions and one argument before I made my boundary clear, she could keep Facebook but tik tok HAD to be deleted (I do not use social media any more and she was spending alot of our time on social media) haven’t looked back since and our relationship has stayed strong and is still strong. We do things together like video games, dates, events and gatherings, and recently got her into the 40K hobby, where there’s no time for social media anyways when you got a bunch of gray plastic to paint. I wholeheartedly believe we became so close because we have no sort of outside temptation or influence; we’re a unit. I’m so thankful and so lucky to have her.
40K Chads stay winning
This is what happens when your Chinese parents fail to instill the proper Chinese family values in you. Thank god it did not happen to me or my siblings.
I'm guessing you're of Chinese descent? I guess this must be a difference between overly westernized descendants and those who remembered the values of their ancestors (Eastern vs Western culture).
people think that asian girls are more conservative but let me tell you, the western born and raised asians are just as bad as western women
Thank God for traditional values.
Long live the Republic of China.
Long live traditional lifestyle.
I always wonder if Chinese people see Chinese Americans as Chinese because they are so unintelligent.
Take bedroom activities out of a relationship and you'll find most people have nothing to offer.
Yeah, without that you could just get a roommate who’s a guy and then you’re only paying half the rent and not being asked for money
And you’ll have someone do half the housework, unlike before lmao
Also “bedroom activities” I’m guessing you got a face for radio and a voice for print?
@@Mashamazzi
No Jokers in the deck.
@@Mashamazzihaha 😂 better bachelor I see huh
Wow she's unreal. The only guys she will get with this attitude are those who will replace her once she is 30 or older. It's her fault.
The whole deal is a recipe for disaster.
"there's no reward for struggling together"...
*How about the security of always knowing your partner has your back?* (and visa versa)
How about the reward of knowing that no matter how bad external circumstances get, it's better for both of you because at least you can face it together?
How about the reward of knowing that even though it's tough now, you have joyful memories together that give you hope for where things will be once your through it?
How about the joy of knowing that you have done what is right and can be proud of the character you have built?
How about the benefit of _building together,_ multiplication of growth and results vs 1 person carrying both while the other leaches?
Oh wait - you don't even understand that you are missing out those things, because you think instant gratification will grow into a satisfying life. Good luck with that.
My wife went through a depression spell. She would just sleep all day, and not do anything. After a few months I told her, she’s going to have to start cleaning the house, making dinner, and organizing the kid’s day or get a job so we can afford someone to do these thing for us. It turned into a huge fight, and I told her she will never escape work, and there is no difference between her sleeping all day and being dead, if she doesn’t change her ways I would be leaving because I’m not going to work just to come home and be a slave to her. I would then call her mid-day while I was at work to make sure she was out of bed then give her tasks to do. She eventually got over her depression and started being the mother our kids deserved.
Good telling someone with depression to do shit helps glad she is over it
This might not work for every depressed person, but I'm glad it worked for you guys. Doing something to try to change the situation is better than doing nothing.
She had zero responsibility and without responsibility people have no purpose, and no reason to do anything. Many people will not work if not pushed to do so.
If you lift the weights for someone, they'll never get stronger.
I will say I hope there was therapy that you forgot to mention in this post. I will say this, you can be severely depressed and still do things and that is still depression. I recommend having a conversation to make sure she's still okay and if she's not in therapy already, therapy. People are often scared of it but it can change your life and worldview.
Sure it was real Depression and not "depression".
A new Think Before You Sleep upload always makes Nazeem’s day
Oh what are you saying? Of course I don’t.
Hello there, old friend.
*unsheathes sword*
Do you get to the cloud district very oft-
Do you always refer to yourself in the 3rd person?
Nazeem does refer to himself in 3rd person, yes.
She's literally teaching the 1% that succeed to be a kept wife/girlfriend, while the 99% that fail - she's teaching them to be alone w/ muli-cats
Why are men allowed to have 10 different pick up channels(with millions of views) where they discuss how to finesse, manipulate, fool women into thinking you love them then dump them when sex happens, cheat on them but when women do it is wrong? Why doesn't this biased channel make a video calling out those men? Hmmm is it because it caters to sad men population?
and boxed wine!
Exactly. Not to mention the way she's twisting that woman's words at 7:37 to make the guy seem like the bad one. This woman is a menace to society and need to be cancelled ASAP
@@bullshark7888 ruclips.net/video/ZndNZgm2tP8/видео.html
multi-cats isn’t a bad thing :3
Thank you so much think before you sleep for pointing out their blatant hypocrisy!! No one out in public will speak up about this and it’s very sad to see.
And that's why both my girlfriend and I told each other "baby, we're looking to have a future together, but if it doesn't work with you, I won't look for another one. I'll just move on single". From one side, you got these sociopaths teaching women to be a man's worst nightmare. From the other side, you got a bunch of sociopaths running as dating gurus telling men to sell women a dream, sleep with them and then throw them to the side of the road. This is insanity.
That's just dumb. If it doesn't work, you can try again.
Well, when you run across a plethora of women who are indeed a "nightmare", what else would you do with them?
You may move on single, but she won't. That's like a preteen love pact, man. Wish you the best though.
@@zusk8556 it's not. We both had enough of this sickness. I'm not going out there to find another sewing needle in the middle of a hospital, and neither is she. And we didn't made a "pact", we just happened to think alike in this matter before we even met.
True, only correct pill is blackp1ll, sadly looks are king and if you don't have em, ovah for you 😢
I’ve been married to my husband for 3 years, we’ve been together for a total of 8 years. I would be an IDIOT to think I could just sit on my ass, spending his money all day and assume he won’t eventually get tired of me and leave me. I know he loves me, but everyone has their limits. Men are entitled to have boundaries and expectations just as women are. Relationships are about compromise and teamwork. It’s really sad to see women like this manipulate and trick young women into thinking this is acceptable behavior.
Seriously, if this woman and ones like her actually got what they wanted, what they claim men should do for them (which by the way is extremely sexist BS), most men would be onto another woman real quick.
If he could get you this way, this easily just by having some money and spending a little on you, he can do that for a lot of other women. And once he gets what he wants, wink wink, he’ll move onto the next woman. That’s precisely how women get used and then they complain about it.
Also please spread this awareness to other women out there, especially the young ones. I beg you for our sake 😭
I’m sure your husband treasures you for that. Keep doing what you do we need more like you.
Go farm for validation somewhere else.
@@Nobody90019 I made this comment 4 months ago. What kind of loser scans through the comments looking for people to be an asshole to?
6:52 This is the most selfish concept ever. Struggling together for a dream/goal, financial or otherwise, is a beautiful way to strengthen your relationship, to love each other, and to support each other. My mom talks very fondly of the early years when she and my Dad were pretty poor. She talks about it like a big adventure, where they laughed and prayed and worked hard and problem-solved together. ❤
Alot of western women wanna wait at the finish line and pick a winner instead of joining the race WITH the man. They don't because they really don't love the man, only his money n value
It's the game of life, all these women wanna skip it
Even with just family it's one of the most strength building experiences. I still remember the times my and my mom counted up our bills before checkout. We work through tough times and become stronger. Sad people have forgot that
Yup, and struggle will happen to everyone at some point. "Life is suffering" - if a partner can't handle that, they're not going to be a good partner. Just there for a good time, not a long time
@@plexyglass429It’s the definition of waiting at the finish line. Men say that metaphor all the time, if they don’t get why it’s problematic that’s their fault, they’ll learn the hard way
I'm a single dad. It is so incredibly easy to manage a house. 90% of the work is done by a robot or a machine. I honestly don't know what stay at home moms do all day when their kids are in school.
Yes, sir you are right. They need to make it look difficult to justify the little amount of value they actually bring. Like the guy on the job who works real hard when the boss walks in but the rest of the time sits on his ass. This is the part of manipulation.
You’re a single dad for a reason 😅 I’m all for this channel but man it brings out some interesting cats…
@@niewieder99you don't even know him? You're the type of person you are referring to. He works, cleans, cooks and didn't abandon his child, yet you're judging him? You sound like a very lovely person, do you have a partner? Do they know you talk like this? Feel free to show them and let us know how single life goes for you after that.
@@lupe8302do you believe in 50/50 relationships?
if 90% of work is done by a robot or machine then you probably don’t have any financial issues, hence why everything is easy.
I like how neutral your style is. You point our things you agree with even if you don’t agree with the overall message. Most people are just one sided bashers. I respect your character so much
These are the type of women who won't do basic household chores because they "won't be your mother", yet what they describe as a provider is acting as if you were their father.
Embodiment of the phrase "give them nothing but take from them everything".
That was a phrase?
That just seems like an exact description
@@gregg6398 it's from the movie 300
@@ishitrealbad3039 oh. Thank you
I work full time at home, desk job, watch my kids so we don’t pay daycare, I do all the cooking and cleaning and inside chores, my hubby takes care of the outside. I was doing better financially than him when we first met and helped him work his way up. He just started a new job 80k/ year, double what he made before. Relationships require give and take, and sacrifice to help each other. He has offered for me to quit working. But no, that’s ok, I like bringing money in and I still have time to do all my household chores, cook, and go to the gym. I have never been happier.
So when I was 18, I was told I couldn't have kids. I was so devastated. But I knew God had a plan for me, and I knew it wasn't college, a huge debt. So I picked a feminine job as a housekeeper/breakfast staff at a hotel chain. If anything it taught me how to run my own home. I eventually met my husband at 22, and about a month into being married (unofficial for a short while cause covid closed the court houses), I found out I was pregnant! ❤ My husband looked at me and said he wanted me to be at home to raise our baby and I couldn't have been happier. He wasnt even making that much at the time. Yet we still made it work by forgoing having a second vehicle and unnecessary spending. Now my husband makes great money. I was raised by a frugal single father though, so I still pinch pennies so we can eventually move out to the country. Women like this are such gold diggers and big Ole harlots. 😂 This one old lady told me how you keep a man is feed him, empty his balls frequently, love him, and keep a clean house. Most men will stick around.
“Empty his balls frequently” LOL 🤣
That old lady was gold.
@@joress she was such a sweet old lady too. 😂😂 I didn't even expect that to come out of her mouth. I had cackled so hard.
That old lady is a really smart woman
Those 4 advises have way more deeper meaning that they look
Why are men allowed to have 10 different pick up channels(with millions of views) where they discuss how to finesse, manipulate, fool women into thinking you love them then dump them when sex happens, cheat on them but when women do it is wrong? Why doesn't this biased channel make a video calling out those men? Hmmm is it because it caters to sad men population?
I laughed 😂, this old lady is pure gold
Being a housewife isn't a bad thing. It's nice to be here to welcome him home after work.
I would love to have that. I want someone to cook for.
@Abu - The Blackpilled MGTOW Mirpuri AJK Pakistani the era might be gone, but that doesn't mean that tradition is dead. My husband and I made it work 🤷♀️
Me too, I want to be a trad husband. Be able to cook, clean for my man. Support and appreciate him after working so hard to provide for us. ☺️
@@priestesslucy W
@Abu - The Blackpilled MGTOW Mirpuri AJK Pakistani It's really not. There are a lot of traditional families that still make it work, including my own. You just have to enter a relationship knowing that is what you want.
I dated a girl like this for 3 or so weeks. It's not that I dodged a bullet, its that I dodged one of those experimental MIRV launchers from fallout 3.
>game reference
a game waifu is no gf buddy
Jesus dude that was me for 6 weeks. Tactical nuke dodged.
“Oh you look good in bright orange that’s your color”
Let this be a lesson boys, no one’s color is bright orange.
There is so much narcissism and entitlement in the world today that I can't even fathom dating.
I would rather stay single..... No stress, no drama.
Learn psychology.
You can know what they really are after the first date
Peace of mind is priceless 👊👑
Don't let yourself be put off by the most extreme (video worthy) examples - most people have been humbled in one way or another (e.g. raised normally, had boundaries established by romantic partners) and are fine
@@steflift5165it's true there is narcissism everyone feels entitled better to stay single
I can't believe what I just heard. "Struggling together won't bring you reward". My parents have build everything almost from scratch together with team work. Majority of older generations too. The woman who says this will leave you when life gets rough (which it always does) in a blink of an eye
What I want to see in life is men no longer putting up with these kinds of relationships and taking on women who are nothing but overgrown children and a walking bill.
The reason women act this way is because many generations of men did not refuse to breed with and provide for awful women. I don't think it could be removed from the gene pool now even if it became humanity's top goal.
It’s men that enable this behavior.
Will never happen. Men are suppose to be providers. They are insecure and will provide for “these” women because they have no standards and settled for less.
Won't happen since ppl keep denying the blackp1ll fax
I always enjoy your commentary. You emphasize quality, which is rare. Thank you for all of the effort.
Building a life with your husband from when you were young and had nothing isn't about getting him to love you more. You do it because YOU LOVE HIM. Everything is about what she gets out of it, so mercenary. The result of starting a life together is wonderful for everyone too; a strong relationship that has stood the test of time and tough roads. You know you can weather the stroms of life together.
It is😊 it's absolutely wonderful.
This right here! I feel like a lot of women don't want to do it anymore, especially women my age (29) and younger. They want a guy who makes six figures and don't want to do anything in return to be a good wife. My husband (then boyfriend) was out of work for a while soon not long after we moved in together. It was tough for a bit, but we made it work and now we are building our life together.
Yep. Reciprocation is a key component of functional relationships.
@@tomaszszupryczynski5453 not if you're married.
If you're not married by all means have the testing done and bail if you don't want to help her raise the child.
But marriage is a commitment to raise a family together
@@priestesslucy everyone can cheat, even if they're married, paternity test is necessary always
Think Before You Sleep Rule #42: The more beautiful the background he is talking over, the more brutal and merciless his takedown.
Also... struggle bus? I know these people don't actually care about men but that's just... every super-successful guy used to be a "struggler" and will consider that statement inconsiderate and extremely hurtful, especially since masculinity distilled is "struggle and suffer until someone pays you a living wage."
The struggle bus is funny for me. I work in IT and my apartment is my office, but whenever I go out, I'd always either ride my bicycle to there or take the bus. Why should I pay 5 euro for gas to get to the same destination, when I can give 0.5 euro (yes, half a euro) to cover the same distance in a comfy bus, while reading a book? This literally makes no sense. And it's not like I have no driving licence - I do. And it's not like I can't afford a car - I definitely can even get myself a brand new one, but what's the point?
I live in a walkable city with a good public transport (Europe), why would I overspend on unnecessary stuff? Should I also buy myself the newest iPhone Pro Max just for the flex? It's fucking stupid.
People should spend below their means as I am pretty much living like I used to when my job was paying me many times less as a bartender.
The struggle bus doesn't exist. There is only the "good financial decision bus".
I live in Italy and have deadass started to associate the landscape outside my house with this guy's voice
These women are targeting easy middle class men who've grown up depending on their father's wealth (aka trust fund babies). No go getter falls for scams like these.
@@SigmaGrindset-vg4oh Unlike the rest of the developed world, in North America and especially the US, taking the bus is considered something poor people do
@@SigmaGrindset-vg4oh if you don't mind answering, in which city do you live?
I've had the extreme misfortune of knowing a couple of hyper selfish people and when bad things finally happened to them literally everyone around them just laughed in their faces.
One ended up getting hit by a truck and was left disfigured crippled and addicted to pills and when she started asking for help literally everyone told her that she deserved what happened ot her for being a rotten human being, she ended up taking an od when she finally realized that no one she knew liked or even cared about her.
Yeah that’s what happens when you turn into some bitter, resentful scheming person who is unable and too unwilling to treat people as an extension from themselves and vice versa. You become a bitter, Resentful, scheming narcissist and ultimately it leads you nowhere.
Nobody comes out of this story as a hero. Not even the 'human beings' that tell the other ones that they deserve this, because they are a rotten human being...
Thank you for this story. It honestly makes me happy to see woman go through the same woes as men sometimes. Gets me so freaking excited and frisky that gal got what's what.
jesus christ
I want a channel exclusively about shitty women taking their own lives after karma gets them. Would watch every ep
Watching these videos makes me appreciate my wife and how great of a partner she is. There’s a huge difference between a strong woman and a toxic “girlie”.
"I took spoiling myself and giving myself everything that I wanted to the next level and became a hyper independent girly (sic): I could buy my own house, I took myself to nice spas, I took myself to really nice vacations, I had a great career, I could do everything on my own: Why did I need a man?"
In case it still wasn't clear enough: This is what you amount to.
This tells you everything about women's approach to relationships: As long as they can buy themselves whatever they want, you are useless to them. They don't want _you,_ they want _your money._
To them, you are a _tool._ Just like you would say, "I already have a chainsaw that works very well, why would I need another one", they say "I already have all the money I want, why would I want a man".
Boy, is her crashing into the wall going to be satisfying.
+1
It's going to be delicious I hope I'm still around.
I don't think it's about money as much as the fact that most women have become the men they wanted to marry. Opposites attract, not the other way around. They already are what they want, but they want it amplified in another person. It's like if men only went for men who are above them, socioeconomically. It's bound to put enormous pressure on the hierarchy and unravel it to the point of collapse. You can't obtain something you already are.
Your last sentence is why women domt want you...
@@nelliee6736 Mobody asked you.
It's kind of funny how she uses the term "spoiled" a lot because spoiled literally means ruined or lost its value. She is transparently telling women to ruin their own value and people somehow just accept it.
in an apocalyptic scenario, she would be the biggest liability, steal food from your children so she can live her best life.
That's why she would get put down first or else she breaks her ankle trying to be that bad bitch 😂
These "people" are weak, they wouldn't survive long enough to even be a consideration, bunch of no counts if you ask anyone of reasonable sense.
In an apocalyptic scenario, if you have any self respect, she's getting kicked to the streets.
@@superstar64 of course, first 5min. 💪🏻
thank you. people that care and know what they are doing is the kind of help everyone needs...
I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s one of those people who claims “I don’t need a man in my life I could provide for myself”, but then she’s one of those people who tricked Man into sleeping with her has his kid and then dishes him only to be supported by all of his child support checks which she uses 10% of for the kid and the rest for herself.
It's actually a fairly easy thing to compartmentalize. I COULD take care of myself if I wanted to, but you SHOULD take care of me anyway. It doesn't enter her mind to offer a reason why.
There is no such thing as a strong and independent woman. A woman is only as strong as the men propping her are
I hear that's a very popular "elective" class at many Universities today. It's a form of financial planning. Only women are allowed into the course and it satisfies the math requirement for many degrees.
@@glevando It's not even from school. Girls coach one another to do exactly this. Mothers coach their daughters on how to fraud men. The entire female industry is a parasite
She is, she literally said she can support herself but needs him to also
She can’t or won’t support him in anyway though..
This is why I love social media. These women out themselves so we know who to avoid. Leave them be; don't try to help them. They can buy a dog and die alone.
It doesn't make a difference. Theres no karma or justice or punishment. Theres everyones individual truth now. We are a dead species. Clearout sale. Just do whatever. It doesn't matter now.
Nah, cats. A dog would walk out on them as well.
This is why I hate social media. It may out women to avoid but it doesn’t stop exposure. Young women’s minds are malleable and social media tends to change the way impressionable people think. I just pray for my kids.
Without social media you would probably have a better selection of women so no, internet doesn’t help honestly
Problem is they most probably won’t stay alone
It’s realllly important folks expose their sons and daughters to wives and husbands that understand their roles and obligations to each other and have long standing relationship. Breaks my heart to see it all get warped
And Tik Tok makes it more worst since even kids has access to these and will get brain wash by these peoples so called life advice on how to ruin your relationship with your boyfriend.
His performance improvement plan: 50 items long
His list for her: lose weight
Girl: REEEEEEEEEEEEE
I’m a lib-left person myself, but I actually find myself agreeing more often with you than with content creators from my own political spectrum. In fact, your “relationship tips” are probably the best ones I’ve ever heard on the Internet. Thanks for your content brother💙
You're on a journey, brother.
It’s never too late to free yourself from the divisive and radical cancer that is the political spectrum and adopt your own viewpoint and opinions
Be independent bruh, aligned for sensible rationality, left & right are basically just a different side of the same coin, take what's good from either side and trim all the uglies stuff out..
@@linuxjodi4311 exactly man, another person who gets it, no need to be bound by what side your on, no need to limit beliefs and values radically to one end of the spectrum and another, When problems are complex and this world is always changing
Commie 😅
Relationships are an investment. I want someone to stand by come the wind and waves. Just like my parents before me. I do not need someone to "spoil" me. I want companionship, someone to become a better person with. There are reasons why I am single, and they are my fault, but at least I have the dignity to not take advantage of the guys I want to date
As an amateur psychologist I can guess this Nadeen fell hard for Chad, he dumped her, and now for the rest of her miserable life she'll be a male-hating terrorista -- who parks her hetero libido in terrible degen relationships with Schopenhauer poster-boys who just want to love her back to Julie Andrews-land. In the past playwrights wrote depressing existentialist plays about people like Nadeen and Sheraseven. It started with Ibsen's _Hedda Gabler_ which was a total freak-out back in the late-1800s for its depiction of a shockingly psycho femme fatale. People were outraged back then.
You can tell a lot about a person by the way they talk, especially what kind of words they use. The fact that this women uses the term "girlies" to refer to herself and women like her tells you everything you need to know. Shes mentally stunted, she's still living like she's a "mean girl" in middleschool.
Entitled princesses sometimes end up under the guillotine...
@@jean-louislalonde6070 😂
So after my wife gave birth to our first kid, she was a stay at home mum for a bit. I was great house was clean and dinner was cooked. Then inflation hit and the bills were getting harder to pay. And so she went straight to work to help out. That's a woman I reckon guys need. The kids unfortunately go to daycare now, but he loves it there so I guess it's ok.
Just make sure there are no alphabet stuff in the daycare.
@@ramonsouza9846?
I think the lesson we can all learn is the fact that both men and women have content creators that promote toxicity in their lives and the best thing we can do is turn off our devices and stop listening to narcissist about how to live our lives
@Bogdan100pink Great advice!
Beautiful statement. I fully agree.
Yes. More touching grass, please
"It's not controversial - it's sociopathic" Thumbs up for that
I really, REALLY wish the internet would stop pushing the self-love rhetoric, because it can be incredibly dangerous if taken too far.
Self-esteem is something that needs to be managed if you want to be a good person, and someone thinking that they deserve to be spoiled is a prime example of someone who doesn’t know how to keep their self-esteem in check.
This might shatter some people’s worlds, but your opinion of yourself doesn’t matter anywhere outside of your own head; you’re not entitled to anything simply because you think you’re the shit, that’s just a rule of life.
I honestly hate the word "deserve" when used on oneself. The moment you say "I deserve...", then you probably don't. I think it's more objective than people think. You know what you can expect, given who/what you are/have. And if you don't, then that's a problem in itself. You probably have a very low self-esteem on one end, or are a narcicisstic sociopath in the other.
"If you really care for me as a person, you'll do absolutely everything I want without me having to provide anything in exchange." Gee, I wonder how these women would react if a man said that to them.
This is why feminism needs to be eradicated from society
One thing that always has bothered me is how women can get away with saying things like “don’t help your man, take his money and stop” and “don’t date dusties.”
Society has an obvious bias towards women.
One thing I do know, though, is all of these women planning to manipulate and extract as much resources from as many men as possible are not going to be happy doing it for long.
Eventually, one day, they’ll realize that they wasted their life using and manipulating people for their personal gain. They’ll look around at their friends and their families and wonder why they aren’t happy in their mansion and driveway full of pink lamborghinis.
While their other girly friends are building a family and watching their children grow up, they’ll likely be doing what they’ve been doing for the last 10 years, trying to “live their best life” at the expense of others. Maybe they’ll have a couple of kids from various men, or maybe they’ll even get married. But if they continue to follow this advice, I think it’s going to lead them down a road that begins with hope and happiness and ends with being miserable.
I don’t know if women’s brains are designed in the same way as men’s when it comes to empathy and fulfillment. But if I acted this way throughout my life and looked back at my journey, I would be extremely disappointed in myself.
Women complain a lot about being treated like objects, but they don’t realize (or maybe they don’t care) that they are doing the same exact thing to men. In this case, the men in question are ATM slaves. “Give me what I want, let me do whatever I want and you’re not allowed to complain and ask for anything.” Do you think this is a happy relationship dynamic?
None of these girls are mentioning anything about relationship qualities, it’s always about who can live the better life, take more money from their potential husband, and manipulate as many people as they can to give them what they want.
I don’t know what the fuck happened, maybe it was feminism, but this is crazy. I’m pretty young so I don’t know what it was like back then. I’d assume women were much more grateful and less demanding than they are today. This “never settle queen” and “live your best life” bullshit is clearly working on influencing girls to become extremely toxic people.
red pill guys say shitty things about women.
Women are complainig about objectidication but treat pretty boys as segs objects. It's called 'accusing your opponent of what you are doing'.
Poison is only toxic if you ingest it. Don't try to understand why snakes bite you when you try to deal with them.
Oh about men and womens way of empathizing is an interesting subject actually.
I don’t know much about the psychological or biological aspect but from myself and being around women I made a hypothesis that women display selective empathy. As in their more empathetic to experiences they can relate to and seem to care more for their own gender then the opposite. That’s why a lot of women care less for mens adversities but can get passionate about change and ideologies that promise change.
For men it’s a general empathy for every experience and people but they’re less inclined to be passionate about change if that change seems out of reach.
TLDR; Mens empathy is more encompassing but less passionate while womens is less encompassing but more passionate towards integrating perceived solutions to adversities.
This is all my hypothesis and probably all wrong but I hope it’s interesting nonetheless.
@@Jesei1211 'selective empathy' There is a word for this i.e. discrimination
I was engaged to someone like this. I was working 10-hour days, Made 90% of the money snd commuted. She worked maybe three hours a day and work was nearby.
She started complaining I wasn't doing enough to help keep our one-bedroom apartment clean.
Let me repeat, ONE BEFROOM aoartment.
Like Lincoln, I freed this poor slave.
Spoiler - 20 years later she never found somebody she thought was good enough and is still single at 47
Being a stay at home mom doesn't mean you dont get to have your own hobbies, my future MIL is a stay at home mom and she likes to restore antique furniture, my boyfriend's sister is 6 years old now and his mom still has time for her hobbies
These women just "have no time for hobbies" because they're terminally online with their phones. I work 9 hours in a warehouse and I try to keep it tidy all while packing orders. A housewife would just have a small house to take care of which if you clean regularly [Once every 1-4 weeks] then the house shouldn't be messy, and if they have kids to take care of it's not like you have to be in the same room doing things for them 24/7 like most of these childless women think you have to do. The woman wouldn't have to deal with the public or a boss and just get free stuff from the husband. My parents both worked and they would always find time for me if they wanted to and they'd still do their own things meanwhile I'd be playing with toys, video games, my bike, or over at a friend's house
If you have young kids you do have to be in the same room. Babies and toddlers can’t be left alone. Also the cleaning is horrendous. Just left my brothers house, kids throwing toys everywhere, baby has no sense of self preservation and the toddler is spreading toys and snacks everywhere lol. It’s a jungle in there, both of them work and it’s not working so he’s asking her to stay home. Food bill is now $700 just for eating out and around the same for groceries do to hcol area, plus they are health conscious. House is a mess and no food. Someone needs to stay home to manage the kids. Plus daycare is 4,200 a month for two kids. When I watch them I don’t get any breaks. I work from 6am to 10pm, 9-10pm is clean up after they both gone to bed. Baby wakes up multiple times a night to feed also. No time to shower or take care of myself. When they nap I’m cleaning… I think one parent should be at home during the early years. It saves so much chaos, unless both are REALLY high earners and can outsource all of the household tasks: Ie cleaning, laundry, chauffeuring kids, meal prep etc. my brother and sister in law are both high earners but def not millionaires. Whilst she does make more than day care costs it’s pointless because when someone is sick she’s got to get off from work, the house is a mess now, and there’s never any food. Also she’s more stressed now because once she gets home from working all day she has to clean. I think the ideal is to work part time, have one older kid in day care for education and the younger one at home: that way you can get breaks, save some money and time on food, daycare, cleaning.etc whilst having less stress.
Im a SAHM and I dont have time for hobbies, unless you count cooking or reading. Any activity I do has to be scheduled or able to be interrupted.
@@finkamain1621 Spoken like someone who has never been a parent lol.
it's unfair how this man doesn't have 1M followers
Marriage means providing for each other and your families. People work that out individually, but when you marry, you should do so to GIVE more than to RECEIVE. Both of you. You are building a life together. That is what is so hard at times, but so wonderful. You build out of love, and that love becomes marrow-deep
Well said.
Uh... how do you both give more than you receive?
Are u traditional or egalatarian minded if i may ask?
@@bunnieskitties293 Heh, sorry if that didn’t make sense. I meant that each of you should have that mindset
@@jimmckay2337 Thank you so much 😊
In my case I provide for my woman without expecitng any labour from her, she does it anyways because she's a functioning human being but it's not like I'm expecting her to do it. I just want her to be happy and prioritize her mental and physical health so she can be the light of my life and be there for me when I need her emotional support, and she really is. She's always there to energize me when I feel tired or unmotivated, she always believes in me and pushes me to do better everyday, and since I have my own bussiness because of that I'm able to perform better economically as well, we both win.
Now compare that to a few years ago when she was working a 9-5, we had constant arguments, her mental health was terrible and so was mine, and she held a lot of resentment because of her environment, I took her out of that as soon as I could and things only went uphill since then
"Good wifes become divorced wifes"
If you are a good woman than that marriage will last until death does it's part
Especially in marriage, both sides need to benefit each other equally, if one side is just there "just-because"... it won't last that long, unless you are looking for an eye candy in equal level of figurines you put behind glass
I love being a housewife ❤️
It's not terrible to keep the house clean and cook. I have all day to get everything done, and break it up while playing with our toddler. My day is usually like:wake up, make coffee for me and husband, put laundry in washer if needed, get our son up, make beds, make breakfast, clean up when we're done eating. Go outside to play with toddler or go grocery shopping, make lunch/pack lunch for husband while he goes to work, son might take a nap around this time, if he does I'll clean the bathroom, workout, clean whatever needs done. I like to listen to audible or something while cleaning so I'm listening to a book and it's a lot better than watching TV. Son gets up from nap, play with him, read, whatever his toddler self wants to do. Make dinner, we eat, clean up, son gets a bath, fold laundry from earlier in the day, clean something if it needs done, put son to sleep, sweep/mop, then I read/crochet/watch RUclips/shower, whatever until husband gets home, get his dinner ready, wash his dishes, go to sleep. It's not terrible, and I like to keep busy. This is all broken up with tending to baby, chilling with him, fitting what needs to be done for the day when son allows (toddlers can be crazy haha)
Everyday is basically the same except Sundays when we go to church and spend the day with family.
I love it tbh, I'm so much happier than when I was working full time before we had a baby. I don't take care of my family because I feel forced to, it's because I love them ❤️ I want them to have a clean house and healthy home cooked meals
You mean you're not a slave? It's maybe even a little enjoyable being mom?
God bless you and your marriage! 🌺
Please don't let anyone tell you that "you're a slave" or that "you're opressed" etc. I swear, they are miserable and they want you to be miserable like them.
Amen. All these people saying how awful being a stay at home mom is must never have had a real job in their life because being home with your kiddos is absolutely the greatest thing ever. I am a nurse part time (8 hours a week), and my worst day at home is still way better than my best, easiest day as a nurse.
If you ever decide to divorce him because you met someone better, please do not ruin his life by taking all his possessions, the full custody of the kid, etc.
@@SL2797 Divorce isn't allowed in our religion
Never commit, never provide.
Based.
Keep fighting the good fight bro
Love your content and I appreciate your seeing the others side of the woke argument as it's unbelievable how much this shit has taken over in such a short time
You are one of the most well spoken channels I've found on RUclips. Keep up the good job. The world needs more people like you. Found your channel a few months ago and I am so impressed on the way you are so transparent. Respect man.
The people who are apart of these tiktok gender wars would be so much happier if they actually pursued people with the same mindset as them, they make it harder than it has to be, no one should have to change their beliefs to be in a relationship with you, traditional stick with traditional and modern stick with modern, it’s really that simple.
Well said.
Welcome to reality Anna the world is a shithole and only getting worse gotta learn how to evolve or die
@Anna Honestly I think the reason it's not that simple is that the Modern tries to corrupt the Traditional while trad keep to themselves (mostly).
@@anthonybatissa1417 if you're having "open relationships" as a man then you most definitely failed as a man. A male person involved in a open relationship is not a man but a cuck.
This is just toxic...not modern. Calling it modern is insulting.
Tell them to "run baby girl run" then she ends up 44, single, childless, and miserable, or worse: a baby momma
He's gonna need this video now.
"can I just say how happy I am to see more and more spolied girlies" - something a Cruelty Squad NPC would say before I send them death dimension.
Ah, a fellow gentleman of a refined gaming palette! Good day to you o7
I can hear that banjo kazooie sounding speech box sound when these flesh automatons talk
Kick them.
throw a toxic toilet at them
some real severed, divine light shit
She represents everything wrong with modern women. I’m just glad that she can serve as a warning of what to avoid.
Not to mention she’s a solid 4/10
@@mattcardarelli I think you're being too nice with your numbers there bud.
My mother was a traditional wife/mother (the 1950ish type of wife/mother) and loved it. My dad work and she maintained the home, and myself being a baby boomer, I was exposed and taught that that is how a marriage, family and home life should be.
Unfortunately, that's a practical impossibility nowadays thanks to the victory of feminism and the "liberating" idea that women ought to be in the workplace, too.
That's resulted in the decrease of wages due to a doubled labor pool, while demand for goods and services remained practically static.
I cook, I clean, I take care of children, I take care of vegetable garden, greenhouse and farm animals, I take care of our honey bee's. I do all that because my husband works 14 hours a day and I want to be worthy of his sacrifice.
You are a keeper and I want you to know your husband is happy with you.
Men, DON'T Protect or Provide for Women or a Society that treats you as "Disposable", the '''Feelings'''' are NOT worth it
"People saying things not to help you, but for views"
I feel like more people need to hear this. I grew up with the internet so I'm very well versed on how things work (clickbait and stretches of the truth). Maybe this newer generation is more gullible than I give them credit for
I think the big difference is that you grew up with internet, not born and raised by internet
Most of the new generation is born and raised with a steady dripfed of videos of any kind
I'm not going into details because i'm not that well versed in english, but i hope i said clearly what i want to intend
As a single father of 2 teens, one autistic, house work is the least of my issues. And I kept a neat and clean home. I sometimes even enjoy putting on Spotify and catching up the vacuuming, laundry and whatever. It's low stress compared to my job and I feel satisfied when I'm done and my place looks and smells amazing.
men are to blame for this type of behaviour in women, because not only do we tolerate it, but we are accepting it, by dating/wifing them up, we are basically telling them "keep behaving this way, i dont mind that you dont respect me"
My boyfriend pays for everything and never asked for anything in return BUT I can't imagine not cleaning or preparing dinner for him after he comes home. No loving girlfriend would be JUST after money without even thinking about the guy.