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EP 02 | Hard Truth | The Real Reason I Recorded My Self During Tlof Tlof

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  • @rebirthed4674
    @rebirthed4674 2 месяца назад +28

    I love this conversation. Ey mina I have a red gown that I have had for years, it is even torn under the armpits, my poor husband is seeing flames with me and that gown. I must do better shame.

  • @rhulanimbhenyani7065
    @rhulanimbhenyani7065 2 месяца назад +19

    Taking notes for when God blesses with marriage💃

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Amen 🙏

    • @kelebogilemillicent1207
      @kelebogilemillicent1207 2 месяца назад +1

      Same,this was insightful

    • @rhulanimbhenyani7065
      @rhulanimbhenyani7065 2 месяца назад

      @@kelebogilemillicent1207 very insightful these two should have weekly episodes regarding topics like these. We learn a lot

  • @user-yd4nb6le7f
    @user-yd4nb6le7f Месяц назад +4

    What a conversation ❤ I am married man and can relate🎉 thank you bazalwane bam for this conversation is building and good❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for watching ❤

  • @florencentesang8334
    @florencentesang8334 2 месяца назад +8

    I'm taking notes, i need Ndivhu to be my mentor bathong

  • @konananimphaphuli573
    @konananimphaphuli573 2 месяца назад +9

    Ladies your personality complement each other ❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад +1

      Right? I think it's also because we are way too different😅
      Thank you 😊

  • @likhaphaleboela6043
    @likhaphaleboela6043 2 месяца назад +13

    I am loving the green outfit.

  • @Happiness06
    @Happiness06 2 месяца назад +25

    When i met my husband , i was a very confident lady, who love make up,weaves,wear jeans, leggings etc. Years later he changed and said he doesnt like me with make up, i must stop wearing jeans and leggings,stop applying make up. I dont like myself anymore ,i dont look how i want to look, it affected our relationship, i hate him and im always angry . He wud tell me i look btful without all those things😢

    • @Amanda-yh2ve
      @Amanda-yh2ve 2 месяца назад +8

      My sister, do what makes you happy. If you enjoy make up then wear it.

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад +3

      How did it get here where you choose making him happy more than you are happy?
      So sorry you are going through this

    • @bongythwala9840
      @bongythwala9840 2 месяца назад +3

      Mybe you are really beautiful without makeup my love ,but choosing clothes for you u think he's exactly like my husband controlling and insecure .

    • @prudencemolefe6526
      @prudencemolefe6526 2 месяца назад +1

      If she loves make up, buy it practice the natural look you will see cause really that's what you like

    • @hangoutwithcharlotte
      @hangoutwithcharlotte 2 месяца назад +2

      This is why after marriage ppl become so free, thets not healthy. Marriage isnt supposed to change you. Seems like you hv lost yourself… be selfish n do wat makes you happy

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 2 месяца назад +4

    Ndivhu i appreciate ur wisdom,you are growing and developing everyday,
    Love you ladies,love ur questions Queen Rammy ,u asked on our behalf no Ndivhu did justice in those responses ❤❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @leenteba1887
    @leenteba1887 Месяц назад +10

    This husband is very lucky to have her😅❤❤❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад

      Yebooooo🥰🥰🥰😍😍

  • @tsietsimodutsoane9029
    @tsietsimodutsoane9029 20 дней назад +1

    This convesation is spot on welldone ladies i hope many ladies should listern

  • @lorrainebosha4075
    @lorrainebosha4075 Месяц назад +2

    Wow....such an amazing conversation...I love it

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад

      Glad you enjoyed it!❤️🙏

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 месяца назад +5

    You ladies looking so good! Yoo it’s really good honestly to have Ndivhu T regularly behind the mic!

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for the love , we see you and appreciate you ❤️

  • @Jan-ps6ul
    @Jan-ps6ul Месяц назад +2

    Wow those are realities which many fail to come in terms with.

  • @leoneeterblanche1974
    @leoneeterblanche1974 2 месяца назад +3

    You look beautiful Ndivhu❤.. i missed this space😅

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇👌👌👌

  • @matthewsngidi5833
    @matthewsngidi5833 21 день назад

    Hi guys thank you for sharing my motto of life is no matter what happens in life always protect your ex. Never cross the line to destroy them that's low is actually self destruction. Stay loving at a distance and protective be the bigger person for life time

  • @sebenzilemangana9907
    @sebenzilemangana9907 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you so much ladies for the teachings, I needed this

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for watching ❤️

  • @user-vx2lb2wi5x
    @user-vx2lb2wi5x 11 дней назад +1

    I love everything about you big up girl❤❤❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  8 дней назад

      ♥️♥️♥️🫂🫂🫂

  • @Theincredibleme-98
    @Theincredibleme-98 2 месяца назад +2

    Wow Ndivu the green❤❤❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nyakallolipholo4032
    @nyakallolipholo4032 19 дней назад

    I really enjoyed this podcast! I even subscribed🥰🥰..
    Really enjoyed!! 🤞🤞🤞🤞

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  18 дней назад

      Welcome aboard!👌👌🎉🎉

  • @keneiloemyoli
    @keneiloemyoli 2 месяца назад +2

    I enjoyed this ladies

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for watching 🙏👌😇

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 месяца назад +2

    Hahahha loving this real talk 😂

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Thank you Letho ❤️❤️❤️

  • @faithing88
    @faithing88 Месяц назад +4

    please dont sell your dignity and soul to please a mere mortal
    A man that loves his wife would want to honour her,

  • @Luk012NW
    @Luk012NW 2 месяца назад +1

    I loved this conversation so much ❤❤❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Appreciated and thank you for watching 🫂❤️😇👌

  • @virginiamoriri7105
    @virginiamoriri7105 28 дней назад +1

    Wisdom right there 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 2 месяца назад +4

    Ndivhu is born for the mic good to see you here ❤

  • @terrancesekatane3448
    @terrancesekatane3448 24 дня назад

    You have gained a new follower 🎉

  • @mindclub_onmentalhealth.5585
    @mindclub_onmentalhealth.5585 17 дней назад

    Eish before I got married I used to make it a point that I wear matching underwear
    Now 3 years in marriage hai sana mix masala or no underwear at all. I need to do better
    Thank you ladies for this conversation.

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  15 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing, remember it's never too late to start over and afresh.
      There's always room for improvement

  • @MrsD_2022
    @MrsD_2022 2 месяца назад +5

    What a beautiful episode. I have shared this on whatsapp, telling the ladies to come here and listen to this because this is a B.R.U.T.A.L honest.
    It got me thinking that I wish men can also have something like this, because they too tend to be too comfortable after marriage, don't look after their hair cuts, they don't take care of their bodies, they let themselves gain o thole motho a na le mokhaba wa beer, ( that time we women especially after babies, we become so hard/harsh on ourselves, I need to lose some weight, I need to have a flat tummy. They too need to know that we need them to look attractive all the time too, am not saying they should have six packs, no, but they shouldn't leave themselves, kare motho ke ntate but e sa le o monyane. They should also put in the work, the same guy who used to make sure that they come looking good and smelling good when coming to us, when they were still our boyfriends, they should still do the same thing when they are husbands, smell good and make sure that the hair cut is always up to date. Look sexy for their wives.

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад +1

      Very Important conversation that we need to have, I will suggest it on Rough Cut ✂️ men also relax and get comfortable after marriage.

  • @Chiefwidzo
    @Chiefwidzo 18 дней назад

    You ladies , u are still far from heaven
    ... yooh

  • @KbMkhize
    @KbMkhize 2 месяца назад +3

    Ndivhu ❤️❤️

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @siphomahlalela7092
    @siphomahlalela7092 Месяц назад +1

    Very true Christian marriage are suffering because they want to be spiritual even in bedroom and they forget that once your bedroom suffer its the end of your marriage

  • @moketemofokeng-de9pu
    @moketemofokeng-de9pu Месяц назад

    That's very interesting topic, we only live once to be happy...

  • @danielmwapindaitssadndunfo6582
    @danielmwapindaitssadndunfo6582 23 дня назад

    Interesting we are learning a lot❤

  • @mbongeningomane4761
    @mbongeningomane4761 26 дней назад

    Great and informative conversation

  • @Chichinekhubvi-1
    @Chichinekhubvi-1 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the convo, im always on my phone watching podcasts and stuff, always not in the mood 4 sex

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      Fire let there be a revival 🤣🤣🤣🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

  • @tapiwaruni2597
    @tapiwaruni2597 19 дней назад

    You may live longer. What a lesson to us

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  19 дней назад

      🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

  • @mabutibebula6290
    @mabutibebula6290 Месяц назад +3

    So when did she realise that she is suppose to do be wht she became... nd wht changed her to think the way she eventually became.?Coz thats very important for those who still dont believe in it.

  • @SinethembaCeba
    @SinethembaCeba 27 дней назад

    Please remind them every now n then.. they forget

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  27 дней назад

      Halala 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊

  • @abongilesibhoko539
    @abongilesibhoko539 2 месяца назад

    Guys nibahle vha❤❤❤you are so beautiful ❤️

  • @sibulelesonka4759
    @sibulelesonka4759 Месяц назад

    I am going to share this episode with my future wife the day she arrives in my life 😂

  • @melvammamashila
    @melvammamashila Месяц назад

    I love the topic.. ❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for watching 🙏 ♥️

  • @beloved-mn2lw
    @beloved-mn2lw 2 месяца назад +2

    yoh ladies i wish i can talk to one of you one on one. Thank you for this conversation

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      You can DM 1 of us ❤️❤️

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 Месяц назад

    Ladies your outfits 👌👌❤️❤️

  • @lebohangmoleleki
    @lebohangmoleleki Месяц назад

    But other men when you start upgrading your lingerie,they start being suspicious.They think the woman is cheating.Where have you learned those styles.That's what they say.So it's very hard😮😮

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад

      Trust and communication Lebo ❤️

  • @poshenese
    @poshenese 23 дня назад

    Elderly women just make a lot of gumption and are realistic, one of the reasons why I will never marry a lady that's younger than me.❤️

  • @lifewithsanelyfkamajola6788
    @lifewithsanelyfkamajola6788 Месяц назад

    Kenna the snorer keee🤪😭😂

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yvonnekhumalo
    @yvonnekhumalo Месяц назад +1

    The church has no knowledge when it comes to marriage unfortunately,we are too spiritual.

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад

      True that's why Marriages don't last 💔

    • @user-ud2km6kk8b
      @user-ud2km6kk8b 23 дня назад

      Am a victim even though we didn't devoce ​@@TheTeaWorld

  • @SydwellChauke-ct1kp
    @SydwellChauke-ct1kp 10 дней назад

    Big up basadi

  • @skatttieskatttie
    @skatttieskatttie 2 месяца назад +4

    Mina im no more interested in sex i dnt know weather its menopause na ,yey i get angry whn my hubby ask for sex

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      How old are you? Maybe there’s an underlying issue that could be solved ❤️

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali 2 месяца назад

      🤣 eish… askies

    • @nancyleolo8498
      @nancyleolo8498 2 месяца назад +2

      I remember I was also told maybe there is an underlying problem.but I will say there is nothing wrong with you an you are not alone.drink seamoss every morning .

    • @user-jv8be6pm7n
      @user-jv8be6pm7n 2 месяца назад +2

      What is seemos? and where to get it

    • @oneonly317
      @oneonly317 Месяц назад +1

      Go see a practioner or gynecologist as soon as possible

  • @tsietsimodutsoane9029
    @tsietsimodutsoane9029 20 дней назад

    And mirror on the waredrope

  • @ntozabobhembe4595
    @ntozabobhembe4595 Месяц назад

    I see my life when am 40 xem

  • @WisemanMnisi-mr6em
    @WisemanMnisi-mr6em 21 день назад +1

    Christian's marriages are falling seriously

  • @moilwa6209
    @moilwa6209 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      ❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂

  • @keneiloemyoli
    @keneiloemyoli 2 месяца назад

    Be Spider-Man 😂 27:58

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅

    • @keneiloemyoli
      @keneiloemyoli 2 месяца назад

      @@TheTeaWorld 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lebomoshapo
    @lebomoshapo Месяц назад

    Das true sex drive marriage without it the marriage is not there anymore

  • @mistercup8280
    @mistercup8280 Месяц назад

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад

      ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @MrsD_2022
    @MrsD_2022 2 месяца назад +4

    This was just too beautiful. But also there are some factors that are just beyond our control as women. In fact let me say me.
    I got pregnant with my second baby, when I was 3 months pregnant, I kid u not, I just went on a dry spell, for the whole of my pregnancy, I remember this one time, I was like, let me give it to him, because I understood that it was mot fair on him, who got hurt? Me during the penetration. Because remember his D. Is up, and I was just dry, I just wanted him to finish and that was it. Told myself am not going to do this to myself again, because it's not like am doing this on purpose, my libido just switched off, I even asked my gynae if is it normal, he said it's normal. Fine, after giving birth the dry spell continued, my libido came back after a whole year, my baby was now a year old. I was confused myself as to what is going on with me, because it's not like am saying , I don't want to sleep with u, or no am fasting, I don't know how to explain this dry spell, but women go through alot after giving birth, we go through a season that we ourselves don't understand and we get confused ourselves as to what is going on with me, why kante am I not getting horny, why the sudden lost interest in sex. Only after a year, that's when I could feel myself yearning for sex could feel no, my V e batla ntho ya teng.
    So my thing is, I wish u could invite a gynae, and explain all this. Because I was even googling, researching because I was oncerned myself.

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад +1

      Ja neh, tk think of it hearing from a professional could be an Eye opener.
      But thank you for sharing your journey 🙏

  • @ayandazungu3901
    @ayandazungu3901 Месяц назад

    this topic 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @DurbanRealTv
    @DurbanRealTv Месяц назад

    me and my wife got caught doing it in the car by the police, 8 years now and we still talk about about

  • @boitumeloletlhakwane4997
    @boitumeloletlhakwane4997 2 месяца назад

    😂😂😂 9pm

  • @mshazimahlobo8334
    @mshazimahlobo8334 Месяц назад

    Kubalulekile ukubhebhana bafazi

  • @user-bz7vt6gm6o
    @user-bz7vt6gm6o 2 месяца назад

    Upu are s child of God and your husband partner thats not biblical therefore its wrong

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  Месяц назад

      Well noted

    • @faithing88
      @faithing88 Месяц назад

      My dear I am shocked at what woman would stoop to for the sake of pleasing a mere mortal

  • @letsunpackedthepackage9848
    @letsunpackedthepackage9848 2 месяца назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dying 😂😂

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tso7778
      @tso7778 26 дней назад

      Hello there

  • @KennethNkuna-jy6py
    @KennethNkuna-jy6py 2 месяца назад +2

    I don't think you should do sex everyday as Christians.

  • @keneiloemyoli
    @keneiloemyoli 2 месяца назад +1

    But they are not the same 😂🫣🤭 20:59

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld  2 месяца назад

      At all 🤪🤪😅😅😅