The Real Reason Why People Don't Change
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- Опубликовано: 26 июн 2020
- Why people don't #change? The answer is because there is #resistance to the change. In other words, not all energies involved are a ‘yes’ to the change, some are a ‘no’ to the change. This is very hard to recognize when you are not conscious of the resistance. For example, let’s imagine that what you really, really want is to have a loving partner. You may not be conscious of parts of yourself that think having a loving partner would mean losing your sense of autonomy. And so you may consciously be doing everything to get a partner while in the background, the other parts of you are #sabotaging every effort you make relative to finding a partner and are keeping you single on purpose.
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My experience that people won't change until they suffer enough being the way they are 😬
Totally agree 👍
I know that people change when they have heartbreak 🙃 sad but true :/
Exactly 👍
Ohh yep....
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.
That's why some people think 2020 is a good year, it has been uncomfortable enough to force people to change.
Yes, it’s the WORST, but maybe also the best.
@@raerae2885 It is always best,but foolish call it worst.
Yes, I'm one of those people. I feel 2020 is so bad that 1. The bs in modern life is being exposed and people are realizing they need to take their power back, and 2. The universe is forcing us to change. Like Teal said, if we don't make moves, the universe puts more and more pressure on us until we kinda have no choice but to change.
Too many are either changing for the worst or showing their true colors and it’s not pretty.. I’ve seen a handful attempting to make changes for better and I hope it sticks!
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Being in a wheelchair I am feeling I need to change as I am a 45 year old man and no longer a child. I need to speak up for myself when people treat me in a way that feels uncomfortable.
This is not a dress rehearsal so you might as well express yourself. Some people will appreciate it, other people will learn from it.
I'm not in a wheelchair myself. But I work with people who are (I'm a personal assistant). What bothers me most is this (what I call) "nice prejudice" where people believe that you can't do such simple things as buying your own groceries because you're in a wheelchair, and praise you for it. I fully support you standing up for yourself as I experience that people view people in wheelchairs as a second class citizen. I think that's a huge problem.
@@ErikAnkan73 Thank you. You brought up another thing that bothers me about able bodied folks. That "nice" mentality. I despise it.
Follow the feelings trust me
Yes, Raider! This is a great breakthrough you have made, and entirely correct. Act on it!
This lime colour suits you really well Teal. Makes you so bright and lively.
I thought the same
I thought the same
Teal on neon green is a whole mood!!
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That's my favorite color. Next to deep purple, it jumps in your vision, like red/blue.
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See this is exactly why I'm protective of you, my Teal. There a so many people look at you like a sex symbol. When you are so much more, you are the love of my life. Please write me an email, xrave3@gmail.com. Derek Michael Nickeson
People don’t change because they feel safe and comfortable doing what they’ve always done.
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Unrelated, but I'd love it if Teal would monetize her videos. I want her work to be supported and there is no reason why she shouldn't earn from RUclips ads, as far as I'm concerned. Especially with how 2020 has impacted workshops. Please consider it, Teal. Much love and gratitude 🌱
She offers the videos for free because she monetized so much elsewhere..itsca service she offers because she makes A LOT of money.go to her website
What a good person u are, arent u?
I agree with this, and it’s something I’ve thought of multiple times as well. Teal, you have earned it through all the knowledge you share so selflessly. Your platform is huge because of what you’ve created. All of this is adding to the healing of the whole world 🤍
I can say that she most likely gets something from my watching, having RUclips Premium. With the lack of ads for me, demonetized videos still get some revenue when I watch them. I don't know how this works if monetization was never asked for to begin with. I am happy to be able to support the channels I frequent regardless of if the "Powers that Be" decide they can run ads or not.
FB demonetized her when the covid crap came out
I served in the military and we learned to change We use to say shift gears on the fly. Be flexible like a weed in the wind
And like a weed, be ready to be uprooted at any moment 😅
"there's no such thing as self sabotage" was really helpful to me.
It’s all belief’s ... no right or wrong mutherfuckers
Sergi Sanz Tora The reason one says it doesn’t is because from the smaller perspective yeah it does hurt you think of it like short term.But when you look back at it from a bigger perspective or pov whatever it was that it looked like was hurting you was only tryna help you.Their is no wrong or right,only subjectively.I know what I said isn’t clear but the gist of what im tryna say is there
Wowwww. My life has been so stagnant, an everyday replay. Thank you for dropping this at the perfect time ❤️
How has it gone for you? Just interested to know. I myself struggle with changing.
Change is inevitable. Whether it is resisted, or intentionally chosen and acted upon, *it's still gonna happen*. Regardless of how the change feels, the aim and desire for a positive outcomes will always be present. Which is where we must trust our own ability to move towards that outcome we desire to experience.
Well said Nsimba and so true. Thank you!
"Change is the only constant."
@@Damons-Old-Soul Exactly
I don’t think I’ve come across other teachers that teach just as clearly and with such passion as you. I’m sure they exist but there’s something special about you, Teal, that I resonate deeply with. I’m just so thankful to have come across you. It’s like I manifested you at the perfect time 3 years ago. Ever since I’ve binged watched almost all your videos and have evolved so much with still a lot to go but I enjoy the journey. I know one day I’ll be able to go to a workshop and meet you until then sending you all my love from colombia!!
What you resist persists and growth doesn't happen in your comfort zone. Awareness is key in unlocking your greatest potential for growth and positive change.
*Edit* Wow, thanks for the likes everyone. Blessings to you.🙏🏼😊
Well said Mandy 💚
@@NewEarthlings Thank you 💗
The comfort zone is just a blanket term we use to shun what we can easily overcome with a little effort. If we are in full awareness we will realise that the personality however sweet is the most comforting aspect of our existence. Are you prepared to drop it?
This really explains people don't change no matter how painful the situations they are in. Thank you Teal. 🙏
About specific videos, what I'd personally like to hear Teal's takes on are the following:
• eyesight issues, and going deeper into *possible* causes or things that impact it psychologically/spiritually
• specific "recognized" mental illnesses, such as BPD maybe? ( 😅 ) I know she's not a big fan of dividing and taking these things one by one but I think it could help new people approach her work and to others like me to maybe hear some key points which would be beneficial in acquiring back freedom from various mental illnesses. Also, many people who are diagnosed do have stuff in common with those specific illnesses so it could be quite helpful.
• last and not least, self honesty in general.
The thing is they tell us we are sick but we are not .... I am speaking about all these "mental health issues" if it is not some real malfunctioning in the brain (Which are not so many all consider...) All the rest is depression and not knowing about these kind of thrashings.
I am very curious about these topics too
I chase change almost pathologically. But then again, I grew up amongst a lot of change constantly, so maybe me chasing change is in fact keeping things the way I am used to them 🤣 and the change I'm referring to is usually only a certain type of change which I have a positive association to i.e. a lot of moving countries and jobs. At 27 years old I've lived on 26 different living arrangements in 5 countries and had 21 jobs! Haha
In your case then change would mean putting down roots...(?) :)
@@jasmith8438 maybe but it wouldn't be the right time for me or be in alignment, so maybe the change I need is to not have to chase certain types of change haha idk I guess she isn't necessarily telling us to change just to be aware of the resistance
Wow! What a life! I like this style of life until I'm settling down. Nice👏
Now I'm much more grateful for the "crisis" that caused that change I needed.
indeed!
Is it just me, or am I the only person that wants to see ALL of Teals outfit! 🤔Loving the neon green top, 😍 just wish I could see the rest!
This is just what I need right now, I'm having some resistance to change. Thank you so much Teal.
I can't get enough of your videos, Teal. I learn so much about human nature and myself. Ty ❤️
Be careful.
@@ninanewman5926 be careful of what... words?
One of her most under-rated videos!!
I had this deep desire to cut myself off from everyone who financially supports me and just go do what I wnana do so I got a hotel room for a week expecting to just give tarot readings to keep paying for my life and I found I felt really lonely and i found I wasn’t ready to work for myself. That experience was enough for parts to get on board with going into sober living and getting a job working for someone else. Lol. I guess I’m someone that benefits greatly from going after a desire, feeling how it feels once achieved, then changing after that based on preferences changing. Lol idk but ya that happened
The way you open and discuss the topics is amazing. Thanks 🙌🏻
I really love this video. It takes an open mind to actually watch this and accept this truth but I’m so glad I cleared my mind to watch this.
Dear Teal, thank you for all your videos, teachings and good energy you're sending to all of us. Watching your videos almost everyday, because trying to know better myself and become best version of myself. I tried so many videos and other stuff, but your teaching is helping me most! Bless you, sweetheart 🙏
Great points made in this video. This is why self-awareness is so important. When we align with what is authentically us, we sidestep a great deal of painful, uncomfortable and even self-destructive situations.
WOW PERFECT TIMING EVERY TIME!! Everytime you release a video , it resonates soooo hard with the current energy I'm dealing with. Love you!
Thank you Teal. God bless you! 😇😊💖
Love how ur video titles make me think ur gonna go a particular way with a topic but then u flip it on its head. Thank u for ur perspective
Teal, thank you for what you do.
Be careful of who you trust.
Joe Dispenza and Abraham Hicks mentions this all the time. Resistance to change is why we constantly create the same reality. If you really want to move on and create change then stop pondering and stiring up past actions, past emotions, the past in general, that would be a good start. Unfortunately many people's pain body is too scary and hard to get rid of.
Yes, I have been craving to be authentic with people since I lost myself as a child. The hard part is that I don't trust people with my feelings underneath it all, and I still get hurt when I notice that people are assuming that I am unintelligent.
The core of my childhood was being labeled as dumb, it's still hard even when I've known this for many years. I open up, get disappointed or feel threatened and close back and feel bitter. I know I can get through this, it will not be easy. It's a fulltime job for me, takes up most of my energy and I often feel like I am running into a wall. I feel like this video, and seeing more from Teal lately is going to help me a lot. Thank you 💞
Exactly what I need to hear right now. Thank you Teal for the reminder and confirmation
Thank you for putting the time in to do the videos you create I find them informative and positive and great to listen too they really do get me thinking about myself and surrounding in a great way
Wow, you have really helped me understand why I have been resisting change. I feel a hell of a lot braver now. Thanks for your empowering insight 💗
holding life with a open hand is my calling, to nurture and be loving, thats just how I am. the stress is a bit too intense and the resistance creates panic. its all ok, here I am allowed to heal and be myself here + I am welcomed. Evetyone reading this, you are loved, you are welcomed, vote for yourself. I didnt know how lied to I was but I can say that and talk about it. I was lied to about our own choices, this world is not our fault, we are free to have our own lives. Its sad to express all this at 2020. Please re appear with Ralph, please. Linda
I've been on self healing journey for 10 years now. I have experienced childhood neglect and emotional abuse with domestic violence. From age 1 to 13 I used to disassociate most of my time. Prolonged pychological trauma impacts a brain structure and there's evidence for that. I have tried almost all healing modalities including different types of psychotherapy - medications, holistic ways, spirituality... At the end there's no results to my structured psyche. I have changed some of my false beliefs and mental blockages but that's it. I still experiencing dissociation on daily basis unexplainable mood swings and alterations of psychy not a clear sense of my needings and wantings, paranoid ideations and lack of consistency in my sens of self. In conclusion I want to change and be happy enjoy this life's journey but I don't know how. My learning capabilities are handicapped like I'm living in reality where laws of the universe are not applicable for myself. This lifes joy is ment for majority but not for everybody in this life time and that's not my belief that's a fact. Maybe one day someone will figure out this freaking brain functions to treat this unexplainable conditions and I give all my hopes to that🙏💙
Thank you for this. Current events have made me realize I have a ton of resistance to enmeshment, and participating in collective flow towards unity feels totally opposed to a deep need I've identified for sovereignty and autonomy. I'm still figuring out how to reconcile this.
Beautifully said! I see your comment is from a year ago. Would love to hear what resolve you’ve come to since then regarding this!
I cannot change others, I can only change what I don't like of my life.
Hurtful, frack yeah!
Necessary double frack yeah!!
Did I learnt this the smooth way...nope.
Took the first "mind" step...almost immediately good changes came towards me.
There is no safety of outcome for anything. Dare to change!
Teal you "hammered" those vital concepts, indirectly of course, in my head...and have grown slow but constantly!
Thank you!!!
The way you yell "NOOO!!!" is so funny I can't 🤣
I wish you knew just how much you've helped me through some of the hardest things I ever dealt with in life..
Teal you been big help in my life. You make me see things clearly. Thanks for your time,knowledge and wisdom. All the best to you gorgeous 💯❤️
Many people get comfortable with who they are and may fear not only to change, but just the fact they may have to admit to themselves they need to change. So they sit in their comfort zone. Thanks for sharing this!
Thank you Teal ♥️
I hope mentally, physically and emotionally healthy and managing the current circumstances well, Teal. Take care of yourself and your family. Much love to you. :)
Trust yourself and don’t worry about others changing or not. Sometimes it’s just subjective. If you are resisting change sometimes it’s for a good reason
Thank you Teal, love your work.
I want to tell that you really look amazing teal swan! Breath taking literally
Agree!
Thank you so much Teal. You’ve helped me soo much in my spiritual journey.
❤️🙏
People don’t understand, change is inevitable. it is the nature of consciousness, but change only happens to the person and it’s counterpart (the world) There is no change at source. the personality- the false is only a projection which you take to be real. What you are in reality cannot be subject to change. If it were you would not notice the difference . All change happens in your consciousness . This consciousness you had as a child is the same consciousness you have now. Only as a child it was innocent. Now, as an adult there is a personality which is not compatible with your being.
Change is constant. Life is all about it as nothing remains the same unless the universe stops dead in its tracks. Inner conflict is probably one of the things that has us resisting change. We tend to avoid risks that are beyond our control.
Maybe the problem is expecting another person to change simply because we want them to or we think they should. Maybe instead we should be loving them and accepting them exactly for who they are.
Love your videos Teal! (I am an energy healer / reiki practitioner who also has MS and Fibromyalgia). VERY happy to see other great light-bringers here!
Excellent! The things you speak of in your videos aligns with what I have actually experienced in my life, thus validating the information you present.
I have recently came across this pattern dynamic where I saw & felt as if others didn’t have my best interest at heart another thing that I need to keep nourishing is expressing my true feelings not holding it in creating bad karma for me I DONT NEED THAT I also like how teal suggests to work through the resistance & begin open to or with it I APPRECIATE ALL YOUR SUGGESTIONS TEAL 💯✔️
I don’t know why this video just popped up that it didn’t show up earlier in the week very strange you’re amazing I love you
Wonderful video! Thank you for sharing your knowledge! You are a blessing on this world! :)
Realising this makes making the change much easier. I wonder whether we can see the potential changes that there are available to us to make our life better, but we just don't see it because we resist 'seeing'.
Video Ideas--
• How to get rid of Paranoia/Paranoid thoughts
• Power of Music on our brain
• Why do people have ADHD and how to deal with it?
adhd has to do with the brain and diet, eating less carbohydrates and sugar is shown to have positive impact on adhd people.
Tobi Hashtag as someone with adhd, I can tell you this alone won’t do absolutely anything. It’s like saying to someone who’s had their arm fall off to put a bandaid on it. Of course there’s also the USA who don’t even consider it a real learning disability half of the times.
I’m a trained nutritionist, and very healthy. Wonder why I’m not cured.
Good Idea, I hope teal do it, we might also do a video about ADHD and Dyslexia soon, its on my list
thanks for the suggestions
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ADHD video please!!
Teal already did a video on ADHD. She talked about ADHD and dislexia in one vid, so type in "teal swan dislexia" and the first recomendation is the right one.
Thank you teal 🌼
I knew this "changes occurs when people are in crisis" but it makes me feel a lot better to know from this amazing woman, what I do is try to define what i have to change or want to but still can and try to picture A CRISIS from that and try as hard as possible as take it to the extreme and if possible feel what would be and then is a lot easier to accept tha i have to change
You’re amazing, Teal. Thank you
I’m embracing the change, because I perceive myself as the architect of that change. I feel empowered and in control to a degree.
I don’t know what WILL happen, but I’m striving to actualize and realize what MIGHT happen by pursuing it in earnest. So far it’s going really well!
This is subject is definitely something i need to understand, so excited to watch this tonight when I get the chance :) thanks for sharing this kinda stuff Teal Swan ^^
The part about trust is so damn insightful!!! Thank you Teal Swan
Absolutely divine timing when I watched this video! Thank you!
Thanks, great explanation. With me it's having a new partner and loosing independency. And 2nd thing is my beautiful house which has a big terrain, a pool, a wonderful view, freedom, but can't leave it easily cause of that big beautiful maintained terrain and the cats and my friends are sitting just too far away, my neighbours are getting too old. And 3rd I'm getting older and get aches and pains here and there and all that hard work is too much for me. And I'm not rich, so can't afford hiring people in. Writing this down makes it already clear, I have to find something else. And better don't wait till life forces me ...
Thank you Teal, your episodes are always very helpful 💗
I agree and may I add that change is needed for progress!
Yeah! Doesn't matter what the other parts think!✊
teal swan , is the best to tell it. 💯
Great video, I also noticed your face, makeup and skin look great and I love the bright green tank. You’re so beautiful!
I'm actually sharing 1-2 of your videos per day on Facebook. You're really awesome.
Nicely said, on point and clear....continue the good work
When it comes to change, for me, I would rather face NEW adventures, NEW endeavors, NEW problems head on, than revisiting the SAME problems over and over again. Also, keep the things you know that work for you, but dump or face, embrace and come to terms with the things you're use to that are detrimental to you and your growth. If I'm with someone or someones, I would rather have us learn a new thing TOGETHER, especially if it's foreign to all those involved. It evens the playing of who is better equipped for this new thing we're facing. This is how I approach my loving relationships. One of the main killers of relationships is when one in the relationship wants more, to do more, to BE more and the other wants things to remain the same as day one. It's the same with co-owners of small businesses, property, possessions; multiple visions of what's expected from a shared thing.
Thank you Teal 🙏🏽❤️
Hi Teal. I love your videos. I've watched so many already. Thank you.
Thank you, teal! lots of love from Morocco
Video recommendation:
-Borderline personality dissorder
Thank You Teal ...
wow i know you in some of the unexpected lots of love you are brilliant thank you for being a truth teller
That's one of my favorite colors, looking great as usual. Thank you for everything ❤️ you.
incredibly Accurate why we resist change.
it was for me all along... thank you!!
I’m LIVING for the ultra teal paint on the walls. I don’t have your skin tone or eye color. So I'd look hobgoblin 'esque in there.
It totally reminds me of the times when the housemates are talking to the camera on MTV's "The Real World."
Except you’re actually contributing something of substance to the world.
Not just taking substances on "The Real World." HA!
thank you, Teal
Love you Teal 🙏🏾 💜 thank you for your philosophy
Again, unrelated, but a video on hair care or how it is that Teal maintains her hair to be so healthy and shiny would be so good.
Perfectly timed video. Thank you
Friendship is in a very conditional state with mainstream people. If you don't agree with your mainstream friend, then they will feel that you are a traitor to the friendship. In order for mainstream people to change, then all their friends need to change at the same time and in the same way. I believe most people are addicted to their conditional friendships because those friendships are the only ones they can get.
Great episode.
I would rly like you to tackle the topic of solipsism. That's one of my greatest struggles.
Thanks for all you do. Love your videos
Oh I have a suggestion I’m not sure if you actually made a video on “intrusive thoughts” but I would genuinely love a video to help with that since I personally deal with that every day! Love you teal your the best
*Thank you so much! Love/Light.* ♥♥♥
Wow so deep so clear took alot to be where you are at and to help others dive deep to heal is awesome sincere appreciation for all your videos I've watched so f a r wow very cool thank you
Your logics are legend x
Love your videos! Thank you so much!😁✌❤
This is exactly what I've had a discussion on with my daughter on weight loss. I said the same thing almost verbatim.
Question submission:
You’ve mentioned we can facilitate healing through another process you presented as Future Self Work-where you bring the optimal version of yourself into the now.
You’ve also mentioned how going for the positive feeling could be a cop out to feeling emotional pain
How do I mesh these two things together because they seem quite opposite.
Thanks!
Future Self Work plus Shadow Work combined
You are already in the now. Disregard your mind and you will remain there.
You are Divine. Thank you for you. A Muse for LOVE. Spartakus Famore