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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
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Комментарии • 67

  • @Samuel-ut6zf
    @Samuel-ut6zf 2 года назад +13

    I came out to my close friends last week
    Still scared of telling my conservative parents, I think I'll wait some time, your content really helps & inspires me thx

  • @helenpatton6478
    @helenpatton6478 2 года назад +8

    Wow welcome back Joseph what a comeback - loved the video - as usual it came from the heart - I have always been impressed by your videos - you are a beautiful person inside and out keep up the great work - take care 💚

  • @Larry-208
    @Larry-208 2 года назад +5

    I guess I didn't know you had grown up LDS. Always enjoyed your videos & your straightforward approach to life... I'm still LDS, married for 35 years & still struggle with that need for connection. In Idaho in the 80s, there didn't seem to be another choice, but to marry & conform. Anyway... thx for this. I cried all the way through David's 2nd video. And Tom's been a great friend & counselor. You're a good man... thx for being real. ❤🙏

  • @gregshook937
    @gregshook937 2 года назад +3

    Wow! Joseph this is wonderful. Beautifully presented. This makes my heart happy!

  • @collinsje5
    @collinsje5 2 года назад +6

    Everybody has their own picks for LGBTQ+ icons. My #1 is the late, great Elizabeth Taylor. Check out Wikipedia to learn what she did (and continues to do beyond her own lifespan) for us.

    • @chrisk5651
      @chrisk5651 2 года назад +1

      She did so much especially during the AIDS crisis!

  • @sladersawyer4385
    @sladersawyer4385 2 года назад +12

    I feel like this is a side of you I've not seen before in previous videos. While I've always enjoyed your videos, this seemed especially serious and well researched. I truly appreciate what you've presented here. Learning about these icons has made me want to be a better person.

  • @beastscooter
    @beastscooter 2 года назад +2

    You are a rock star, Joseph! This video is so well done and your perspectives are spot on; informed, intelligent, thoughtful. Thank you for doing your part to normalize being gay.

  • @woofenme1596
    @woofenme1596 2 года назад +4

    Joseph great video and a great LGBTQA history lesson, very well done!

  • @MJ-qb5ph
    @MJ-qb5ph 2 года назад +2

    Elton John - ok he came out late (he made multiple mistakes - was a drug addict etc) but once he sobered up he became a massive contributor to aids through his foundation). He came to the party late - he’s admitted that. Good on the guy for making up for lost time

    • @chrisk5651
      @chrisk5651 2 года назад

      He came out much earlier than most especially of someone of his status.

  • @bobsykes
    @bobsykes 2 года назад +2

    Wow, it's been so long since I've seen one of your videos. I could not agree more with the message you have here and your choices. Good one!

  • @tonyn5699
    @tonyn5699 2 года назад +1

    Ok. I feel like an idiot. I guess the $60.10 was the cumulative amount of the people who had subscribed. I went back and drilled down further to see that what you are asking is more than reasonable. So I am subscribing. Sorry I am such a dumb .a..

    • @josephgarner94
      @josephgarner94  2 года назад

      Lol it’s all good, I appreciate you 🙂

  • @Hokipoki4u
    @Hokipoki4u 2 года назад +2

    love this vid, Joseph!

  • @tcraigy
    @tcraigy 2 года назад +1

    Bea Arthur is a legend. Thanks for the video.😊

  • @RCaugh
    @RCaugh 2 года назад +2

    Well done. Bravo! Very enlightening.

  • @hayden7540
    @hayden7540 2 года назад +1

    Been watching you since the ur coming out vid

  • @PatrickVerst
    @PatrickVerst 2 года назад +1

    David Archuleta!!!!! Yes!!!!!

  • @sjarzem1
    @sjarzem1 2 года назад +1

    F yeah love the golden girls

  • @utubemally
    @utubemally 2 года назад +1

    God bless them all

  • @theworldisindeedcomicbutth2157
    @theworldisindeedcomicbutth2157 2 года назад

    My favourite LGBTQXZY icon has gotta be A.H ....

  • @chrisk5651
    @chrisk5651 2 года назад

    Taylor?!?! Ariana ?!?! What have they done to deserve LGBT+ icon status?

  • @Lupin788
    @Lupin788 2 года назад

    Your list of icons is not controversial at all. You provided a lot of insight into your choices. It's a shame David Archuleta felt the need to justify his orientation but he gave a beautiful statement.

  • @jacquespoulemer3577
    @jacquespoulemer3577 2 года назад

    Enjoy your content. I recently discovered your videos. You'll discover as you dance about in the universe that most human categories are quite fluid by nature. That includes sexuality. Have fun. Your friend you never met. Jim

  • @rjcarter2904
    @rjcarter2904 2 года назад

    I enjoyed the video. And I agree with you about the first four (not familiar with the last).

  • @brian52763
    @brian52763 2 года назад

    I get why you don't post that often, you come across as someone who wants to put fourth quality as opposed to quantity! I for one am grateful for what you put out there! I look forward to all your posts!

  • @iSimonLyon
    @iSimonLyon 2 года назад +1

    Nice to see you back. After your health problems and no news was worrying.

  • @donaldthomas1963
    @donaldthomas1963 2 года назад +1

    David's Video was like me growing up gay and being mormon, his story hits home

  • @Hello-jp2jr
    @Hello-jp2jr 2 года назад +1

    Nicely done. Stay safe and I hope your healthy again.

  • @michaelbrown-tf1so
    @michaelbrown-tf1so 2 года назад +1

    Joseph .... Absolutely fantastic! Intelligence, truth and love in one. You know, there has been Mark Miller, Tom Daley and Zach from adventures of Zach and B .... but your masculine, "non-sexual" truth about love is love is amazing. I keep saying we need to reproduce to save humanity, but equally, we need same sex partners to keep ourselves from the consequences of overpopulation, like creating our own extinction. May blessings be yours ...

    • @erickoehler4798
      @erickoehler4798 2 года назад

      Total agree. So why is it so hard for gay couples to adopt in certain areas? Too many people here already. Why make more?

  • @Houdini_Bob
    @Houdini_Bob 2 года назад +1

    it has been an emotional week for a variety of reasons. this video made me cry because of its positive content and strength of your personality in it. I am so glad you are able to be yourself, unlike when I was a teen in 1970s. I have never had that special someone for a variety of reasons. Peace be with you Joseph, you are a most amazing and caring man.

  • @meekrodriguez6438
    @meekrodriguez6438 2 года назад +1

    I like your videos

  • @lloyd2364
    @lloyd2364 2 года назад

    Yaasssss loved your pics

  • @JD-qx3lb
    @JD-qx3lb 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful video and mentioning your icons. Their the people who bring a healthy and respected vision of the LGBTQ+ community. Although, I don’t see your new project being advertised therefore unable to join. I’m one that came out during the AIDS crisis and it was hard getting adjusted to the criticism and homophobia. Although I’m not sure if we as a society have moved more towards inclusivity in our fractured country. I personally was involved in the community as an aids personnel organization that provided testing and counseling opportunities for the LGBTQ community. I also got the chance to have meetings with parents in a safe place to talk about gay siblings and help them with bridging the gap between them. It was a great experience and a tragedy hearing the reasons for not accepting their own kids. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and icons please stay safe and healthy with admiration ❤️🏳️‍🌈🙋‍♂️

  • @erickoehler4798
    @erickoehler4798 2 года назад

    Thanks for being here with us. Yes, GOD made us the way we are, whether str8/gay/bi and why should society & the church, any church, discriminate for what they don't know about the truth of the human race? BTW, I always loved Betty White too:-)

  • @michaelbrown-tf1so
    @michaelbrown-tf1so 2 года назад

    I wish brotherly love was far more about honor and nobility. On You Tube, there is a post called SOFT MERTHUR MOMENTS from the Merlin series, where Merlin and Arthur talk about their "friendship." That's the kinda vision I have about brotherly love.

  • @chrisk5651
    @chrisk5651 2 года назад

    Love that you are raising awareness and money for the Ukrainians.

    • @chrisk5651
      @chrisk5651 2 года назад

      You should watch Winter on Fire which is on Netflix but supposedly they have allowed it on RUclips and other platforms for free. It’s about Ukraine and their move away from Russia which helped lead to today. Very powerful. Tough watching with thinking about what they are going through now!

  • @jbowersxxbb
    @jbowersxxbb 2 года назад

    You are a rockstar

  • @belayemelkamu
    @belayemelkamu Год назад

    i like u so much love

  • @Haburg
    @Haburg 2 года назад

    Cute

  • @darinhareis9451
    @darinhareis9451 2 года назад

    💕

  • @darinhareis9451
    @darinhareis9451 2 года назад

    💓

  • @darinhareis9451
    @darinhareis9451 2 года назад

    💖

  • @mjohnson9563
    @mjohnson9563 2 года назад

    I remember when I came out back in the mid 90s everyone was talking about the golden girls. But the biggest thing that happened back in those days was Queer as Folk. It was the real deal. No more pretending with hidden messages. From what I hear Cinemax produced it in Toronto for a huge loss but they did it to honor the LGBTQ community. Your last two choices however are the best as those are personal level contacts. Everyone has their own heros but the ones that are intimate are the ones that are the best. Glad to hear you have them in your heart. Love and passion are great but are even better as seeds to the tree of love. Thank you for sharing and the hard work you did on creating this video.

    • @mjohnson9563
      @mjohnson9563 2 года назад

      And one 80s television show that just came to mind was Cagney and Lacey. Check it out. If that show didn't show what true love was. Kinda like Thelma and Louise.

  • @seang2012
    @seang2012 2 года назад +2

    I heard he almost beat a man to death for touching his hair. Truth?

    • @josephgarner94
      @josephgarner94  2 года назад

      Lol are you talking about me?

    • @joshua.garner
      @joshua.garner 2 года назад

      His hair is perfect.

    • @seang2012
      @seang2012 2 года назад

      @@josephgarner94 of course. Who else has luxurious but deadly hair?

    • @seang2012
      @seang2012 2 года назад

      @@joshua.garner but deadly! Never touch his hair or he will go into a rage! Danger!

    • @collinsje5
      @collinsje5 2 года назад

      His hair is evil - watch out! watch out!

  • @stevemoseley7420
    @stevemoseley7420 2 года назад

    dont be gone so long

  • @basedavocado2
    @basedavocado2 2 года назад

    Change your hairstyle

  • @milescumminski8077
    @milescumminski8077 2 года назад

    I grew up in the 80's as did my husband. We are both 53 years old. I lost so many friends, and some of these guys died before reaching the age of 25. It was so difficult, because it felt like people in the government did not care. I am lucky that I graduated from high school in 1986, so we knew about safer sex practices, and how to keep your chances low of contracting the disease. I could easily have contracted HIV if I had been born just 5 years earlier, because people did not really know how it was transmitted then. I still feel blessed to have gotten through those times without getting infected, but I will never forget those friends that left us way too soon. I think about them all the time. My husband and I have now been together for 24 years, and we worry that young people do not realize that people still die of AIDS now. There are drugs to treat the virus, but if you do not get tested to know you have it, you can be positive and get sick quickly and die. Things are so much better now, but this fight is not over, and I wish everyone in this world would remember that!

  • @joshua.garner
    @joshua.garner 2 года назад +1

    First comment! I win!

    • @josephgarner94
      @josephgarner94  2 года назад +1

      🏆 🏆 🏆

    • @mitchellbarnow1709
      @mitchellbarnow1709 2 года назад

      @@josephgarner94 Your awesome brother and his wife?

    • @josephgarner94
      @josephgarner94  2 года назад +1

      @@mitchellbarnow1709 that is one of my awesome brothers but that’s his son in the photo with him.

    • @joshua.garner
      @joshua.garner 2 года назад +1

      @@mitchellbarnow1709 you were right the first time, I am THE awesome brother.

    • @mitchellbarnow1709
      @mitchellbarnow1709 2 года назад +1

      @@joshua.garner You are awesome and I enjoyed watching your RUclips videos, too! I see where your brother got his talent from!