Please enjoy our red flags, what we look for in a boyfriend, and current/past gay dating stories with my buddy Steve. Instas: @Josephgarner94 @itsliterallyjuststeve
My worst: A so-called friend of mine set me up with HIS creepy stalker. I met the guy and honestly the first thing he said was "Ain't I good looking?" (asking me if I thought he was good looking). Cut to my phone ringing and my 'friend' laughing at me. I was a very nice date and spent the evening telling him how much my 'friend' really liked him and oh here is his current phone number and where he lives. Revenge is best served cold.
A red flag for me is 'too much touching." A huge plus is 'kindness' If the person is kind to others. I like that alot. Thank-you for the fun video. Steve was a great addition.
Okay!! Why is Joseph so cutee?! 🤧 He doesn't let me focus on my SAT prep. Oh shit--I thought I had a crush only on Joseph but I was wrong. Turns out I love Steve tooooo!! He so handsome
Informative. It was interesting to listen tio as well. You just never know with people. When you do not date often or raely date, you just do not know these things.
No one is perfect so I can't say I really had a worst date long time ago when I used to date between the ages of 27 and 33. I have not dated since then and that was over 20 years ago. I remember one time this really cute guy was dating another friend of mine and after a month or so he was dumped and my friend said the reason why was he spoke too much. The cute guy really fell hard for my friend and his heart was broken after the breakup. I felt bad for him. Can't tell you tho how many gay guys end up alcoholics or drug users, especially back in those days and I had dated a few and that was not my cup of tea. Still, I've known many others who have tolerated it. We all have tough decisions in life to make. Be safe and be happy. Thanks!!!!!
If you're taking requests for future vids, I'd love a deeper look into internalized homophobia and how that affects relationships in your experience. I guess I assumed the coming out process would kind of force a person to confront all that?
I am 16.. Never dated a guy lol. I had a huge crush on a guy in his twenties and I told him but he rejected me coz he's straight Hell No I don't feel sorry for myself. Single life is the best.
A major plus for me is a man who is kind, to waiters, to dogs, to his mother ... A red flag is someone who croaks or can't speak without that vocal fry affectation. No matter how cute, if he has the vocal fry, it's a real turn off.
Oh boy, my worst-date was a week before Nov 3rd election & I had already mailed-in my 1st ever ballot, this guy I matched with was sweet initially, but on our first date, he started asking who I voted for... I kept denying that I voted, to keep politics off the conversation but than he repeatedly asked what party I support, that's where this MAGA supporter snapped at me! I was like: I'm done with you & just walked away
Oh I once went on a few dates with a guy who was kind of evasive about what he did for a living but I just assumed it was because we were new. After like the third date he admitted that he was a drug traffic guy and under FBI investigation! WTF!!?!?! I immediately dropped him.
No fault intended but your friend keeps interrupting you while you telling your worst date episode while you don’t say a word while he tells of his experiences.
When you are on a date with a man and he says " omg that guy over there is really hot" is a clear sign that he is NOT looking for a relationship! He probably wanted to see your reaction so he can eventually bring up the idea of a 3sum.
Brother, we accept ALL people. What WE (The Church) DON'T ACCEPT is SIN in ANY FORM and it is The LORD, NOT The Church, nor the Prophet nor me nor you nor the world who defines what sin is and is not and what lifestyles are acceptable and are not acceptable! The LORD DEFINES what is and what is not sin. Period! The Church has NO SAY SO in the matter. He decrees. We obey!!! He is Sovereign over the Universe and HE and ONLY HE has the right to create, state, and maintain law and change it at HIS OWN WILL, not us. People say we do not accept them. That is not true. WE do have an intolerance, an intolerance for sin but NOT BY ANY MEANS the person. If ANYONE should know that, It is me: a former same sex and drug addict who is African American. Lol!. The Gospel is for EVERYONE!!! What we do not accept is their way of sinful living or lifestyle neither did Christ in His encounters with people in the New Testament. He told people to "Go and sin no more". The Apostle Paul said that the Church CANNOT FELLOWSHIP SINNERS! That is partly what baptism is for: to cleanse you of yourself or YOUR OWN "ite-ness" or separation from GOD because of sin and become ONE in the Fellowship of Christ. And that is partly one reason why we partake of the Sacrament each week, because we repent of the things we do during the week and have faith in Christ's blood that HE will forgive us and continue to stretch us beyond the capacity that we "are now," thus making us gradually a little bit better each week. If one has issues with that, Take it up with the LORD, not His Church, or His people because they did not create the commandments; HE DID! His Church didn't make the rule and let me tell you, He will ALWAYS win. lol. I suspect that the ones who want to stay as they are are the ones unwilling to repent of their sins and a lifestyle that THE LORD has forbidden. If so, then they are not Fit to be members of the Church. Spiritual Apathy is One of Satan's greatest tools in these last days. Staying where you are. No man and I might add woman, having set his hand to the plow and looking back is FIT for the Kingdom of God. Those are not the Church's words but the words of THE MASTER. IT is HIS CHURCH and HE makes the requirements to become a member. NOT US OR THE CHURCH!! TRUTH=TRUTH and it CANNOT BE ALTERED, CHANGED or AMENDED. One can reject it, yes, but cannot amend it. The Lord will NOT ACCEPT people in SIN. He has said more than once in the scriptures: "For, I, The LORD CANNOT look upon sin with the LEAST DEGREE OF ALLOWANCE." The Book of Mormon plainly teaches this. His arms are always outstretched, but we have to come to HIM the WAY HE HAS OUTLINED or we cannot come at All. The way of the disciple of Christ is DEMANDING and HARD and IT WILL COST US EVERYTHING and the placing of our will upon GOD'S ALTAR and having it (our WILL) and Life consumed upon it is non negotiable and ONLY THE SPIRITUALLY STRONG survive. IT causes you to give up all of the world and what it has to offer or says what you should be. (natural man). We cannot keep one foot in the Church and the other in the world, or how WE WANT TO LIVE. That is the NATIONAL ANTHEM OF THE NATURAL MAN: "MY WAY". And Those who persists in living their own way remains an enemy to God and have no interest in obtaining the Kingdom of Heaven. Also, as Abinadi states, "The devil has all power over him". It is not in a Christian's DNA for such. I have tried. This is coming from someone who lived that way (a same sex lifestyle and drug addict who WAS Disfellowshipped!) and has now returned. God Bless you. The Church WAS NEVER MEANT to accept people as they are. The Church is here to make them BECOME and that becoming is like Christ. The full measure of a Man or Woman in Christ. There is no stasis in the Kingdom of God or HIS CHURCH!!! The Church is GOD's avenue of Growth! If you Want to grow and BECOME, let's do it together brother!!! For The Church isn't the same and won't be the same without you! We need you! We are either moving forward in Christ or moving backward in Satan. No middle ground. No stasis. If we are not FOR HIM, then we are by DEFAULT: AGAINST HIM! And the consequences of such are VERY SEVERE! End of discussion. God LOVES YOU (us) just the way we are, but He refuses to leave us that way. I hope that helps. I Love you and am your brother in Christ. God Bless you.
Thanks for making me wanting to do it more. If you are not a Christian, That's your business, but I believe in the Bible and YOU have no authority against It. have a blessed day. Bring it!!
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Joseph is a catch ! The guy who gets Joseph is a lucky boy !
racism is my deal breaker! Also, treating service industry people badly!
Those are great ones, true for me as well.
Steve is just adorable and seems like a great friend.
Joseph has really great knees. Not the only thing that's great about him, but probably something most people don't notice or admire a big lot...
My worst: A so-called friend of mine set me up with HIS creepy stalker. I met the guy and honestly the first thing he said was "Ain't I good looking?" (asking me if I thought he was good looking). Cut to my phone ringing and my 'friend' laughing at me. I was a very nice date and spent the evening telling him how much my 'friend' really liked him and oh here is his current phone number and where he lives. Revenge is best served cold.
A red flag for me is 'too much touching." A huge plus is 'kindness' If the person is kind to others. I like that alot.
Thank-you for the fun video. Steve was a great addition.
Okay!! Why is Joseph so cutee?! 🤧 He doesn't let me focus on my SAT prep.
Oh shit--I thought I had a crush only on Joseph but I was wrong. Turns out I love Steve tooooo!! He so handsome
This was wholesome. A fun chat!
Confidence, without arrogance!
You guys are very entertaining, not to mention HOT! Thank you for the laughs, after the week I've had I needed some laughs.
Anyone with that many pets.... That's a good hearted guy. And a catch.
Informative. It was interesting to listen tio as well. You just never know with people. When you do not date often or raely date, you just do not know these things.
2:58 I've done that before on a date, but I was kidding. Now looking back, I could see how it might've been taken the wrong way.
No one is perfect so I can't say I really had a worst date long time ago when I used to date between the ages of 27 and 33. I have not dated since then and that was over 20 years ago. I remember one time this really cute guy was dating another friend of mine and after a month or so he was dumped and my friend said the reason why was he spoke too much. The cute guy really fell hard for my friend and his heart was broken after the breakup. I felt bad for him. Can't tell you tho how many gay guys end up alcoholics or drug users, especially back in those days and I had dated a few and that was not my cup of tea. Still, I've known many others who have tolerated it. We all have tough decisions in life to make. Be safe and be happy. Thanks!!!!!
I Love how Steve is Manspreading with those thick thighs
Hi Joseph am new to your channel you guys are awesome love the way Steve is relax nice smile baseball cap looks good too
Cute. Joseph will meet a good Mormon huckleberry and they will be great together. Thanks for sharing and being an example for gay youth and adults.
If you're taking requests for future vids, I'd love a deeper look into internalized homophobia and how that affects relationships in your experience. I guess I assumed the coming out process would kind of force a person to confront all that?
That could be a great video idea. Thanks!
Dam. That Steven is very handsome.
Tell me your worst dates 👇🏻
I am 16.. Never dated a guy lol. I had a huge crush on a guy in his twenties and I told him but he rejected me coz he's straight
Hell No I don't feel sorry for myself. Single life is the best.
Love ya!!! Going to be in Austin Sunday, what’s the best gay bar on a Sunday?
If you go to fourth street you can hit up oil can Harry’s , rain, and highland lounge 🙂
Extremely entertaining
So many critters in the house for sure
I'd go on a date with Mr Garner!
you guys you should date each other :)
Great video
A major plus for me is a man who is kind, to waiters, to dogs, to his mother ... A red flag is someone who croaks or can't speak without that vocal fry affectation. No matter how cute, if he has the vocal fry, it's a real turn off.
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Omg what a cute smile! 😌😀🤩😩
Joseph reminds me of a young Armie Hammer. YUM!
Today for the first time I kissed a boy
It's 1am and I can't stop watching gay vids
Oh boy, my worst-date was a week before Nov 3rd election & I had already mailed-in my 1st ever ballot, this guy I matched with was sweet initially, but on our first date, he started asking who I voted for... I kept denying that I voted, to keep politics off the conversation but than he repeatedly asked what party I support, that's where this MAGA supporter snapped at me! I was like: I'm done with you & just walked away
The manspread is on point!
Are you demonstrating “red flag” behavior?
@@rjyeezy76 - How would I “demonstrate” or action so-called red flag behaviour through the written word honey?
I once had someone offer me cocaine after we had dinner. And it was NOT a small amount lol. Didn’t text him again
A little dessert, how thoughtful 😂
Oh I once went on a few dates with a guy who was kind of evasive about what he did for a living but I just assumed it was because we were new. After like the third date he admitted that he was a drug traffic guy and under FBI investigation! WTF!!?!?! I immediately dropped him.
@@seang2012 that’s so wild
Hmm...that wouldn't have been me. Turning it down.
@@seang2012 yikes yikes yikes 😳
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Stick horses 😳😂
Lol she got me GOOOD
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Sweet kids, but the drama of it all is a reason why I am done with dating.
yeah both of them are your typical gay guys that are really shallow
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been a while
Too long for sure 😅
@@josephgarner94 so make us happy
Red flag: telling stories about bad dates. (just joking)
Complainers - stories about problem situations and problem people.
OK, I'll say what everybody is thinking. Steve has really nice thighs. 😎😎
No fault intended but your friend keeps interrupting you while you telling your worst date episode while you don’t say a word while he tells of his experiences.
Sorry your date talked to me for so long. -- joke
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The games gay guys play. How about finding someone more substance and less on looks next time then you would have better luck.
exactly! I see right through these two. Steve is very shallow. He thinks he's very special but he isn't.
When you are on a date with a man and he says " omg that guy over there is really hot" is a clear sign that he is NOT looking for a relationship! He probably wanted to see your reaction so he can eventually bring up the idea of a 3sum.
Brother, we accept ALL people. What WE (The Church) DON'T ACCEPT is SIN in ANY FORM and it is The LORD, NOT The Church, nor the Prophet nor me nor you nor the world who defines what sin is and is not and what lifestyles are acceptable and are not acceptable! The LORD DEFINES what is and what is not sin. Period! The Church has NO SAY SO in the matter. He decrees. We obey!!! He is Sovereign over the Universe and HE and ONLY HE has the right to create, state, and maintain law and change it at HIS OWN WILL, not us. People say we do not accept them. That is not true. WE do have an intolerance, an intolerance for sin but NOT BY ANY MEANS the person. If ANYONE should know that, It is me: a former same sex and drug addict who is African American. Lol!. The Gospel is for EVERYONE!!! What we do not accept is their way of sinful living or lifestyle neither did Christ in His encounters with people in the New Testament. He told people to "Go and sin no more". The Apostle Paul said that the Church CANNOT FELLOWSHIP SINNERS! That is partly what baptism is for: to cleanse you of yourself or YOUR OWN "ite-ness" or separation from GOD because of sin and become ONE in the Fellowship of Christ. And that is partly one reason why we partake of the Sacrament each week, because we repent of the things we do during the week and have faith in Christ's blood that HE will forgive us and continue to stretch us beyond the capacity that we "are now," thus making us gradually a little bit better each week. If one has issues with that, Take it up with the LORD, not His Church, or His people because they did not create the commandments; HE DID! His Church didn't make the rule and let me tell you, He will ALWAYS win. lol. I suspect that the ones who want to stay as they are are the ones unwilling to repent of their sins and a lifestyle that THE LORD has forbidden. If so, then they are not Fit to be members of the Church. Spiritual Apathy is One of Satan's greatest tools in these last days. Staying where you are. No man and I might add woman, having set his hand to the plow and looking back is FIT for the Kingdom of God. Those are not the Church's words but the words of THE MASTER. IT is HIS CHURCH and HE makes the requirements to become a member. NOT US OR THE CHURCH!! TRUTH=TRUTH and it CANNOT BE ALTERED, CHANGED or AMENDED. One can reject it, yes, but cannot amend it. The Lord will NOT ACCEPT people in SIN. He has said more than once in the scriptures: "For, I, The LORD CANNOT look upon sin with the LEAST DEGREE OF ALLOWANCE." The Book of Mormon plainly teaches this. His arms are always outstretched, but we have to come to HIM the WAY HE HAS OUTLINED or we cannot come at All. The way of the disciple of Christ is DEMANDING and HARD and IT WILL COST US EVERYTHING and the placing of our will upon GOD'S ALTAR and having it (our WILL) and Life consumed upon it is non negotiable and ONLY THE SPIRITUALLY STRONG survive. IT causes you to give up all of the world and what it has to offer or says what you should be. (natural man). We cannot keep one foot in the Church and the other in the world, or how WE WANT TO LIVE. That is the NATIONAL ANTHEM OF THE NATURAL MAN: "MY WAY". And Those who persists in living their own way remains an enemy to God and have no interest in obtaining the Kingdom of Heaven. Also, as Abinadi states, "The devil has all power over him". It is not in a Christian's DNA for such. I have tried. This is coming from someone who lived that way (a same sex lifestyle and drug addict who WAS Disfellowshipped!) and has now returned. God Bless you. The Church WAS NEVER MEANT to accept people as they are. The Church is here to make them BECOME and that becoming is like Christ. The full measure of a Man or Woman in Christ. There is no stasis in the Kingdom of God or HIS CHURCH!!! The Church is GOD's avenue of Growth! If you Want to grow and BECOME, let's do it together brother!!! For The Church isn't the same and won't be the same without you! We need you! We are either moving forward in Christ or moving backward in Satan. No middle ground. No stasis. If we are not FOR HIM, then we are by DEFAULT: AGAINST HIM! And the consequences of such are VERY SEVERE! End of discussion. God LOVES YOU (us) just the way we are, but He refuses to leave us that way. I hope that helps. I Love you and am your brother in Christ. God Bless you.
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@@happyglock3426 No I wont. Have a great day!!!
Thanks for making me wanting to do it more. If you are not a Christian, That's your business, but I believe in the Bible and YOU have no authority against It. have a blessed day. Bring it!!
@@happyglock3426 you can laugh and laugh and laugh and laugh and laugh...Hit Me with your BEST SHOT!
@@happyglock3426 you HAVE no Authority lol
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Bless you Joshua Garner 🙏🏻✨