10 Reasons Why You Feel Lonely

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +54

    *"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*

  • @ackerman.409
    @ackerman.409 3 года назад +26

    Your biggest enemy is yourself. Be careful who you choose to be surround with.. Learn from your mistakes, keep moving forward, stay positive, be yourself, life is short..Get out there and meet new people if they don't suit your energy, meet new ones and repeat! The right ones will find you :D God bless everyone!

  • @besttechhd1956
    @besttechhd1956 3 года назад +78

    The plan is to MOVE. Move out. Move on. Move forward. Move up. Move smarter

  • @motivation4u197
    @motivation4u197 3 года назад +86

    Convenient that it’s a day after Valentine’s Day 🤣

    • @matthewmiller3501
      @matthewmiller3501 3 года назад

      zds

    • @10ksuubswithoutvideochalle68
      @10ksuubswithoutvideochalle68 3 года назад

      How many years your family will live?
      1. Ignore- 0 years❌❌❌...
      2. 1 subscribe- 110 years🙂🙂🙂...

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад +1

      You noticed that too huh ?

    • @brownboy743
      @brownboy743 3 года назад +3

      This video comes out when my crush said no to me 😓🤦‍♂️

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад +3

      @@brownboy743 I'm there with ya man ... mine said we are done the day before Valentine's Day, I have the rose and book that I got for her sitting on my desk still.

  • @nuclearreactornumber1545
    @nuclearreactornumber1545 3 года назад +12

    Reasons why im lonely:
    -When I'm outgoing and social, i only attract annoying people or people who use me as a free therapist then never count my emotions.
    -People that i meet usually have nothing in common.
    -I never feel truly understood or valued.

    • @michaelokeke4976
      @michaelokeke4976 3 года назад

      Hey man,
      Been there and honestly through with how people behave at times. There just seems to be no common ground and most seem to be only good at seeing from their own rather than another person’s

  • @MohamedAli-mb9no
    @MohamedAli-mb9no 3 года назад +1

    Life is short... Live it fully ✨

  • @objectiveintuition77133
    @objectiveintuition77133 3 года назад +23

    Quite the contrary- I just need to stop smiling and stop being nice to people- then maybe I’ll get better results

    • @10ksuubswithoutvideochalle68
      @10ksuubswithoutvideochalle68 3 года назад

      How many years your family will live?
      1. Ignore- 0 years❌❌❌...
      2. 1 subscribe- 110 years🙂🙂🙂...

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад +1

      I feel like that quite frequently myself

    • @ripplechips5391
      @ripplechips5391 3 года назад

      I know it's like when you smile people look at you like your creepy sad

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад

      @@ripplechips5391 ruclips.net/channel/UCh5GY7QF25vsjvc86i2r7gQ

  • @ihatecringepplthings7267
    @ihatecringepplthings7267 3 года назад +25

    I need help with my loneliness. I can't connect with the people i choose to surround myself with. Even my housemates and within my family, i am unable to connect. I hate living as a ghost, and being around toxic people and the same old people. The lockdown makes it hard to connect. What can i do if i am not having luck anywhere?

    • @alitkhalife7028
      @alitkhalife7028 3 года назад +8

      Turn to God

    • @xiatdesisgn3257
      @xiatdesisgn3257 3 года назад +4

      Wow I can relate. I was like this. What help me was connecting to myself. How can we expect to connect with others if we're not connected to our self?? Right! But how? It kind of weird because when I read something like that it didn't make sense and I was like well how the heck do I do that? I had no idea. It hards to see a way out when your well feeling the way you do. It shitty! I didn't even try I just wondered n wondered. N it happen. If someone told me it will happen the way it did for me and when it happen....I would be like bullshit!!!... So I cant tell you how to connect to yourself because no one knows that... Or when it will hit you. But the most I can say is
      1. Accept your loneliness and your ability to not connect with people just As in tell yourself.." this is what it is and that's okay... Am a ghost and the people around me are toxic whatever , what can I do"
      It gets easier when start to have that attitude. Better for the health too.
      2. Ask yourself or wonder " how to connect to myself" think about it as much as you can. Just asked the question and let it be. Preferably before bed....
      Dont even wait for it or ponder. It will come to you when it need too... Meanwhile do you....
      Do/find things you like. Do it by yourself. Or read about stuff. Idk. Not really much option with the lockdown 🤷🏼

    • @xiatdesisgn3257
      @xiatdesisgn3257 3 года назад

      If you even read all of that. Sorry couldn't keep it short.
      I do hope it helps in some way. Luck & patience
      Please note: Suggestion were made based on personal experience. Normal person here no expert.

    • @cheng-lucky888
      @cheng-lucky888 3 года назад +4

      It could be many reasons that makes a person cannot build the connection with others, sometimes we have to reflect ourselves, but sometimes it’s just as simple as no “click” with others. Here’s some ways to try:
      1. You must love yourself first (find your self value is the most important) and learn to enjoy doing things you like alone
      2. Talk to God (yes it helps me a lot)
      3. Perhaps you can explore MBTI in order to have better understanding about yourself and others? Coz different personalities has different preferred ways to do certain things. Don’t abuse it but just use it for understanding each others.
      I used to closed my heart after being deeply hurt by toxic people. I don’t hate them, instead I appreciate that experiences that made me a better person today. So never lose your hope because you’ll find the connection in one day. While waiting for the day to come, talk to yourself and understand yourself first. Hopefully it helps! Cheers!

    • @k27ism
      @k27ism 3 года назад

      For God so loved the world...

  • @bootsarmstrong8421
    @bootsarmstrong8421 3 года назад +5

    I haven't worked for awhile cause of the virus so my circle of friends has shrunk. Married people don't have time for single people. I learned this along time ago. Plus, I don't like to hang out with people who drink, do drugs or smoke. So that eliminates a lot people plus nobody every calls. I have to call my family members to keep the communication going.

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 3 года назад +1

    I find people difficult and not many give me the response I deserve (others can make up for it) so was comforting to watch your video. My friendliness can feel like I'm making a fool of myself and don't want to allow this as I don't like feeling silly.

  • @actuallybusiness1622
    @actuallybusiness1622 3 года назад +18

    *Every family has a person who breaks the chain of poverty. I hope you will be that person!!*

  • @MentorMyLife
    @MentorMyLife 3 года назад +7

    Loneliness is a killer. It can be so difficult to overcome. One way is to find fulfillment. When you aren’t getting fulfillment in life, you attract people who are also unfulfilled. Having friends like that is still like having no friends at all. Find fulfillment and you will attracted those same type of individuals. Receiving love from a friend like that, will feel like receiving love from 1000 people. Stay blessed my friends. Great video! -Kushtrim

  • @InsomniSuA
    @InsomniSuA 3 года назад +12

    Is it just me or when your experiencing loneliness, you don’t feel like talking or being around people for some reason 😔

  • @edwardtamas6067
    @edwardtamas6067 3 года назад +10

    I've stopped feeling lonely...even if I'm still alone

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +7

    *The moment you stop complaining and take FULL responsibility for your life, that's the moment you get the full control on your life to achieve your goals...*

  • @SimpleLifeSG
    @SimpleLifeSG 3 года назад +8

    When I feel lonely I was like to take a walk and practice gratitude. Appreciate what I have.

  • @Universalhealing1122
    @Universalhealing1122 3 года назад +2

    Stop and Breath. The first step to gaining control over your subconscious may seem a little counteractive, but in fact, it's this inactivity that sets you on the right path. ...
    Meditation. ...
    Mantras. ...
    Yoga. ...
    Take time to yourself.

  • @deehaus3822
    @deehaus3822 3 года назад +5

    This is WHY I don't believe in LUV... One person has, what the other one needs. As they grow their needs change. So they file for divorce...!!! Your not lonely, your TUNED in to your personal UNIVERSE... If it were different, I would be happy and connected. I live alone but I'm open to possiblity. I'm an Empathy centered Taurus in the age of Socialpathic Aquarius. Enough said.

  • @AgentAO7
    @AgentAO7 3 года назад +1

    Most of these are true. Especially Nos. 2, 3, and 6. I’m at the point in my life right now that I have built an emotional wall because of No.6 which are problems in the past that I haven’t really addressed. I just moved on and tried to forget without really solving the past problems. I just shut down & walked away. And I can pretty much relate it to No.3 which is outgrowing the people around me. Yes, I have changed, but my surroundings did not. And now it’s happening to me again. I’m at the point of my life right now that I just want to walk away again & I badly needed a change.

  • @healthfit4760
    @healthfit4760 3 года назад +9

    To everyone that reads this...
    May God Bless you Forever and May You Succeed in every thing you do. Very very educational content...
    God bless you all.🙏

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад

      "All is one and One is all "
      In light and love , we can recall ,
      Peace and joy are our goal ,
      Easy to flow , with life we scroll,
      We share the view of such a call ,
      Never too big but never too small , everyone could call all in all ,
      With people like you ,
      We 're beyond control ...
      With God , we become complete and whole ...
      Say once again, stars never would fall ...

    • @amelmatt5641
      @amelmatt5641 3 года назад +1

      Did you just copy and paste your comment from a previous one ?

  • @Universalhealing1122
    @Universalhealing1122 3 года назад +2

    Stress is the new smoking. Studies have linked stress to countless health problems including insomnia, inflammation, obesity, Alzheimer’s Disease, anxiety, depression, asthma, heart disease, diabetes, gastrointestinal disorders, premature aging, and even premature death.
    Get sunlight in your waking hours. Looking to enjoy your days more? ...
    No screen time 2 hours before bed. ...
    Avoid caffeine late in the day. ...
    Don't nap too late. ...
    Create a sleep schedule. ...
    Optimize your bedroom environment. ...
    Don't eat right before bed. ...
    Get regular exercise.
    Affirmations are positive statements that can help you to challenge and overcome self-sabotaging and negative thoughts. When you repeat them often, and believe in them, you can start to make positive changes. ... Self-affirmation may also help to mitigate the effects of stress.

  • @JasonKifner
    @JasonKifner 3 года назад +1

    Re: Fear of rejection, I don't understand this idea that "people just might surprise you." I feel like there is almost zero chance that people won't reject me. I understand that that feeling is sort of self-fulfilling, but it remains because of an entire lifetime of rejection. I can try to think to myself, "Just give it a chance. Maybe it'll be different this time," but it never is. Eventually those expectations of rejection resurface and the familiar pattern of rejection happens once again adding another to the mountain of past rejections.
    I see the pattern, but I can't do anything to escape it. The idea that "you have nothing to lose" isn't really logical either and kind of denies the real pain of rejection that is the likely consequence of trying to form relationships.

  • @Universalhealing1122
    @Universalhealing1122 3 года назад +3

    The good thing about science is that it's true whether or not you believe in it.
    We are part of this universe; we are in this universe, but perhaps more important than both of those facts, is that the universe is in us.
    Curious that we spend more time congratulating people who have succeeded than encouraging people who have not.

  • @marygrant882
    @marygrant882 3 года назад +5

    People are lonely because we are forbidden to leave our homes and cannot interact with other people!

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 3 года назад +1

    I guess the title says it all for me.

  • @MissKrisstt
    @MissKrisstt 3 года назад

    everyone says that it's better to be alone that with fake friends. and i agree. but i don't want those kind of friends. i want to find friends i can be me with. also, i'm so shy that i can't even cross my leg atthe bus cause i think everyonewill stare and laugh at me... maybe it's social anxiety kicking in.
    being lonwly is not that easy. and it's not that easyto get out of there.

  • @cptjkzz798
    @cptjkzz798 3 года назад +1

    Love these videos man

    • @cptjkzz798
      @cptjkzz798 3 года назад

      @@eddiedoyle1058 bro just stop tryna bait peopl🤣

  • @neddiego2570
    @neddiego2570 3 года назад +5

    I feel loneliness 99% of time since last year.
    Is it possible for loner to find a GF?

  • @theinnovativeknowledge9030
    @theinnovativeknowledge9030 3 года назад +1

    Nice video sir , keep it up 👍

  • @M_3693
    @M_3693 3 года назад +2

    LOVE FROM INDIA

  • @coolcash3959
    @coolcash3959 3 года назад +1

    Sometimes people that you connected with in the pass can lead you to loneliness. Then you discovered you are better off being lonely, so you can focus on you.

  • @someonesomeone25
    @someonesomeone25 3 года назад +1

    I know exactly the two reasons why I am lonely. One is possible, though hard and out of my control, to solve. The other is impossible. So I will be forever lonely. Ateast in this life. Kinda sucks.

  • @Oscar_AH
    @Oscar_AH 3 года назад

    Love yourself. The rest just gets easier.

  • @mickeymouse4923
    @mickeymouse4923 3 года назад

    Nice explaned

  • @missintrovert8313
    @missintrovert8313 3 года назад +1

    I am so stressed out with my job. This is making me so sad. I want to resign, but its not possible because its the only source of income. Im telling myself now that this too will pass. As to when? no one knows.

  • @arterisdewberry9467
    @arterisdewberry9467 3 года назад +1

    I'm always lonely because I choose to be lonely. Tired of hearing people's opinion. I want to do whatever I want to do. I don't need friends.

  • @neviiin1
    @neviiin1 2 года назад

    Whenever Im not alright, and someone asks me “how are you” i start crying randomly, and i say im fine, but im really not. Im just thinking about all those things..

  • @dhrubajyotisahathepuremagn4840
    @dhrubajyotisahathepuremagn4840 3 года назад

    EXCELLENT.🏆

  • @dragos.m
    @dragos.m 3 года назад

    a grate moment for this

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +2

    "All is one and One is all "
    In light and love , we can recall ,
    Peace and joy are our goal ,
    Easy to flow , with life we scroll,
    We share the view of such a call ,
    Never too big but never too small , everyone could call all in all ,
    With people like you ,
    We 're beyond control ...
    With God , we become complete and whole ...
    Say once again, stars never would fall ...

  • @Universalhealing1122
    @Universalhealing1122 3 года назад +3

    Well, what the cosmic perspective does is it shows you that first, you're small - in space, and in time, and in almost every metric you could come up with, relative to the universe. ... The molecules and atoms of your body are traceable to the universe, (and at the same time) the universe is manifesting within us.

  • @Caktusdud.
    @Caktusdud. 3 года назад

    To be fair loneliness isn't all bad it does give you some huge advantages over most people, like you peruse where you want to go easier, you are generally nicer as you don't want to have others experience your pain, you pick up things about people that most are completely oblivious to.
    The thing of lonely people have lots of friends is A BIT of a myth not all lonely people have friends or many like me who is completely new to this whole social thing.

  • @anaelsambo9015
    @anaelsambo9015 3 года назад +1

    Where was this video on Valentine’s Day...Lol great theory...

  • @fatima-hp6cq
    @fatima-hp6cq 3 года назад

    I still lonely even after watching this.

  • @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything
    @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything 2 года назад

    Hate : i just want to destroy lonliness
    Love : i just want peace within myself

  • @Michael_black777
    @Michael_black777 3 года назад

    I hate how a lot of people seems to be afraid of having a meaningful person to person interaction. it's like they are so insecure without their ego, so pathetic.

  • @Emilyx239
    @Emilyx239 Год назад

    avpd?

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub 3 года назад +11

    Humans evolved in groups and deviating from that behavior has all kinds of adverse effects

  • @uwaybie
    @uwaybie 3 года назад +1

    I’m not lonely for a different reason. 😔

  • @Universalhealing1122
    @Universalhealing1122 3 года назад +4

    UNIVERSAL HEALING We are all connected; To each other biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe atomically. - Neil DeGrasse Tyson🙏💯🥰💞❤️✝️🤩🔱🔱🌞🛐🏞☮️🌎🧿☺️🌌🌠☪️💟✡️☦️🎆🌄🌳💯💯COEXISTENCE

  • @Universalhealing1122
    @Universalhealing1122 3 года назад +1

    TODAY IS A BEAUTIFUL DAY TO REALIGN YOURSELF CONNECT WITH YOUR HIGHER SELF WITH NATURE WITH UNIVERSE & THE COSMOS MAY THIS DAY BRING YOU SO MUCH LOVE & JOY HEALTH LOVE & WEALTH MAY YOUR HEART ❤️ HEALS FROM ALL THE PAIN AND STRESS AND MAKE YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND HEAL YOURSELF I LOVE YOU ALL MY HEART IS POURING WITH BLESSINGS GOOD WISHES HEALTH JOY LOVE PROSPERITY ABUNDANCE PEACE MANY PRAYERS AND BLESSINGS TO EVERYONE WHO SEES THIS AND WHO DOES NOT💯🙏🔱🧿🌎🌳🌞🌌l

  • @Mabdalla_hq
    @Mabdalla_hq 3 года назад

    The more I try to bring down my walls, the higher they get

  • @jatinpawar7120
    @jatinpawar7120 3 года назад

    All of my friends are fair weather. So I always choose to stay from them.coz my friends are worse than cancer.

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 3 года назад +1

    I think I'm lonely because my city is under a lockdown, and I broke up on Valentine's Day...

  • @roldanrosario243
    @roldanrosario243 3 года назад +1

    This video seems to connect more with extroverts. Or people going through a faze.
    As an introvert. I get worried sometimes because it takes a lot for me to feel lonely. Yet I love people, which is an odd combination. It’s easier for me to build strong relationships with fewer individuals. People are wired differently. Thanks for posting. It was quite fascinating to examine a different point of view.

    • @xiatdesisgn3257
      @xiatdesisgn3257 3 года назад

      I agree with you. Am the same way. Took me years to understand that odd combination. Ive accepted it and enjoy it.
      Are you an Aquarius by any chance?

    • @roldanrosario243
      @roldanrosario243 3 года назад +1

      @@xiatdesisgn3257 Thanks. Possibly Aquarius but close to Capricorn. Not sure. I like the mystery. And enjoy just developing without the labels. It’s cool to look into sometimes though.

    • @xiatdesisgn3257
      @xiatdesisgn3257 3 года назад +1

      @@roldanrosario243 I agree it was just a curiosity.

  • @PsychologyHub
    @PsychologyHub 3 года назад

    I wish you a happy day!

  • @snehabhagat7280
    @snehabhagat7280 3 года назад +1

    (some random stranger)_ who knows u better than you know yourself?
    ( Me)_ top think, obviously 😂❤️

  • @kevinomondi9480
    @kevinomondi9480 3 года назад

    No 5 is my problem 😔😔😔

  • @WisdomWealth77
    @WisdomWealth77 3 года назад +5

    Standing alone is better than being around people who don’t value you. 💞

  • @chosenone2363
    @chosenone2363 3 года назад

    Ive been Lonely so Long that it just doesnt Matter anymore. Ive trued to connect with individuals but their looking for perfect, only jesus is perfect peeps need to expect you for who you re.

  • @Jpvmw
    @Jpvmw 3 года назад +1

    The full 10 reasons filled and matched me, I’m walking away of this crap, good bye.

  • @hasminesiddiqui6742
    @hasminesiddiqui6742 3 года назад

    😔

  • @ramanant963
    @ramanant963 3 года назад

    You guys missed a practical truth, If friends are all held up with other issue and work, or may even live in other state, this holds back one from comfortably socialising. Ppl don’t easily decide meeting up these days, even if they’re just within an hour’s drive. They don’t even respond messages and phone calls, cuz they think it’s cool to be that way. They keep us in different levels of response rate. They be partial among their own friends. And when you do realise u’re not being treated equally, things get disappointing.

  • @KidLondon
    @KidLondon 3 года назад

    Where is “This is Peter from TopThink”? His voice was smoother, less aggressive and less likely to cause anxiety to the listener... I don’t like this current voice. If you can direct me to which channel Peter is, please do. Thanks.

  • @siham25
    @siham25 3 года назад

    ليت العرب يترجمون لنا الفيديو 💜💜

  • @SuccessSprinterz
    @SuccessSprinterz 3 года назад +1

    and here I thought it was because of the lockdown
    silly me

  • @glynnispitcher9423
    @glynnispitcher9423 2 года назад +1

    (REHAB TIME!) IF EU R BORED ALONE WITH URSELF IT MEANS THA EU R IN A BAD SOCIETY. FACTS OVA FEELINGS!

  • @alexanderpadalka5708
    @alexanderpadalka5708 3 года назад

  • @uwaybie
    @uwaybie 3 года назад

    I’m lonely because it is the year of the COVID-19 so I am isolated from my friends. 🦠😔

  • @chosenone2363
    @chosenone2363 3 года назад

    If you sneeze wrong they dont want to be yoyr friend.🙄

  • @Jordie_42
    @Jordie_42 3 года назад +5

    Im not alone. I got my waifu body pillow.

  • @chosenone2363
    @chosenone2363 3 года назад

    Jesus is my friend.

  • @markc1894
    @markc1894 3 года назад

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @kakashii04
    @kakashii04 3 года назад +4

    I can't understand your language please do open translation to Arabic 😐💔

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +2

      Try using English Arabic translator for the main ideas ...

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад

      التواصل مع الناس ضروري ومع اشخاص مناسبين...

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад

      انظر للحياة بنظرة محبة وايجابية وتعلم من الاخطاء

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад

      التطلع نحو الافضل ...
      بالشكر تدوم النعم...

  • @skylovermc2146
    @skylovermc2146 3 года назад

    I’m never alone. I got ghosts.

  • @brownboy743
    @brownboy743 3 года назад

    I'm sad everyday

  • @yeswing10
    @yeswing10 3 года назад +12

    Get a Bible. Time spent with God is never wasted. You'll never feel lonely.

    • @yeswing10
      @yeswing10 3 года назад +1

      @@eddiedoyle1058 No thank you. I have treasure in Heaven.

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 Год назад

    Nono fulll 35

  • @riyalrishabh22
    @riyalrishabh22 3 года назад +1

    Pehla ma gareeb tha taab mene free fire download kiya aur fir ma bhikari ban gaya😓😓😓😓😓😓

  • @Itsnoahscott
    @Itsnoahscott 3 года назад

    Because nobody loves me lol

  • @txbased1659
    @txbased1659 3 года назад +1

    First