How I became an unemployed MIT grad still living with my parents.
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- Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
- Happy to be back everyone! Here's a full update on what has been going on in my life and why I was absent from RUclips for so long.
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Just know you've improved the lives of countless people so you matter to a lot of us
Yes thanks to Keith my python skills are going ballistic
Can't agree more. Great help to my business life. Thanks!
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Yes! Thank you so much. You’ve helped my son who went through the eerily same experiences!
I am 23 and I'm still living with my parents due to expensive cost of living and also student debt. It's nothing wrong with everyone being adorable living with their best parents in order to save money. I love you bro
Agreed, nothing wrong with it!
Why living with parents is bad? This is what I never understand... when they r getting older u can help them.. what's the meaning u raise a kid to 18 and then they leave u.. btw MIT grad is already a triumph! 😻 u r always the best for me..
Yeah, it's definitely not a bad thing. For me I felt like I wouldn't be able to live on my own so that's why I felt some shame to live with my parents. I felt like I was a burden to them. Now that I'm feeling better, I'm very grateful to be living with my parents and I very much enjoy it. Thank you for the kind words.
@@KeithGalli I think it is a cultural thing, especially for US citizens lol
As I child who is always protected, I feel myself giving in to my parents when it comes to money or hard work. I had my independence as a little kid, like I could do what I want, and I learned to do the household chores myself etc. But when I got to have big changes in my life, my parents always want "me" to follow "their" goals. It comes from their worries and love, I understand. But for example, sometimes I imagine if I go on like this how my life will be when my parents aren't here anymore, it's kinda terrified. I just want to have some freedom to live my life.
I want to live "near" my parents but not "with" my parents. My family lived with my grand parents since my dad is the youngest child, and I can see the impacts on him and I think it's descending on me.
For your question, in my opinion it's more like a personal experience because I know lots of my friends who have good and open-minded relationships with their parents, and they already plan to buy big houses so their future family and their parents can live together.
i know. I love my parents they are a great emotional support for me and I want to see them as much as possible when they're still alive and healthy. I'm in grad school and barely seeing them now but when I graduate I'm gonna get a get a job near my parents house and live with them until I get married.
Also I think it's a cultural thing too because in my country living with your parents is not a shameful thing at all
@@KeithGalli you can do that shit brah
"As bleak as it may seem, do your best to hang in there. I at times had given up and didn't see what the point was. But being on the other side, I can see how great things can be again once the storm withers down." Thanks for this wisdom Keith. I'm so grateful to hear you're feeling better.
Thank you, Quincy :)
I’ve only recently realised how important it is, to be selfish and focus on personal growth rather than worrying about how others feel and constantly trying to make others happy. The moment you make this switch, life become easier.
Keith, you have helped me and countless others with getting into Data Analytics.
Your mental health is very important and we just want you to be ok.
Thanks for sharing Keith and glad that you're back, mental health is real although we can't see it, really appreciate your wisdom 😊
Oh and that snapping effect is really awesome!
Thanks Chanin! And lol glad you enjoyed the quick outfit changes xD
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Your fear of letting other people down just tells me how much you care for other people. You've got the heart in the right place, and that's what matters. Huge respect for your honesty. I think a lot people can relate to what you have experienced. \Cheers
I appreciate your kind words ❤️
@@KeithGalli In 2016 .. I joined a startup and that's my transition from regular MNCs to small startups.. All the team members and people from other teams are from Tier-1 college with very good communication skills and I lack both knowledge and skills.. i woke up everyday with a fear of facing my managers and couldn't sleep in the nights due to stress and pressure. After working for 1.5 years .. i just gave up.. without waiting for a new offer.. I resigned and went home and took a break for 3 months. all I did was just Sleep, Eat, Watch my favorite tv shows and movies with my parents and sister and stopped thinking about others. I couldn't believe what happened next.. I was fully recovered from stress .. and I chose to work in a company where the work pressure is not high but decent and used that period to cool off and learn new skills.. then moved on.. every person would've come across this cycle.. irrespective of their skill set.. congrats you passed that hard phase in your life and it will make you stronger going forward... Good luck for your next assignment!!
Mental health is vitally important, and I feel like it is too often overlooked in the tech domain. Thanks for having the courage to talk about your experience. I'm certain this will help many people to know that they aren't alone feeling things like this. Glad to have you back Keith!
Thank you, Ken! Excited to be back :)
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Good to have you back Keith! You are the inspiration that got me back to coding after a long time. Wishing you and your parents health and prosperity.
Thank you for being so open about your experiences and it’s great to have you back! We can all relate to the struggles of finding ourselves in the crazy modern day society. There is absolutely nothing wrong with living with parents and it’s a great blessing to have family and friends. I’ve found it really helpful to take time everyday to journal about my personal growth and all of the little joys in life. Take care!
You have played a huge part in helping me improve my skills, change careers and get more than a decent job. For that I will forever be grateful to you, brother. You are an inspiration to many, and for that you can hold your head up high. Lots of strength and loads of love to you Keith. Keep smiling.
Happy to see you back, you've taught me a lot.
When we enter in such a technique world like DS we often forget that behind all the dataframes, the models and the graphics there is actually people. Thank you for being in front of the cameras again and teach us, which is probably, the most important lesson.
Thank you for being so honest and sharing your experience. My sister has been through similar mental health issue and it was very tough. Glad to see you back! Wish you all the best.
Just wanted to let you know that your videos have helped me become a better programmer. I am grateful for that. It's really good to have you back. Looking forward to your amazing programming videos.
Keith, really happy to see you back. Your data science tutorials are so good and you show what others don't. So glad you are back. Good luck!!!
It takes a lot of courage to share something personal as this in public.
I too remember going through something similar during the pandemic and my parents especially my mom helped me through it too. :)
Kudos man! With or without MIT… you are amazing. 🤠❤️
Keith, I was tremendously helped when I was stuck with my data science assignments, just by watching your videos. I value your good work!
You're a great tutor. I've learned a lot from you. The world needs more good people like you... I wish you the best.
Welcome back and thank you for making such a candid video about mental health. You’re an inspiration and your videos truly helped me escape the feeling of letting others down by landing a great job in DS. Looking forward to what the future has in store for you - you deserve the best! (and thanks again for making epic videos 🙂)
Thank you for being honest,you have a kind heart.we support you, lots of love and hugs ♥️
its great to have you back Keith. every fans miss you so much. you're the best tutorial lecturer i've ever seen on this platform. i suffered from depression too. I understand what you been through and that's a horrifying experience even to remember. it's wonderful to see smile appear on your face again.
Thanks Keith for sharing all this! Glad you are feeling better now! Your videos have definitely helped me a lot for getting on Python and DS, look forward to more great content from you!
Thanks for sharing. You and Zach posting about the struggles have helped big time.
I was 27, a graduate from one of the top research institutes in India- studying at home and living with parents (this was my worst phase- had consistently failed, felt like wasting 2-3 years of my life, after dating me for 6 years my bf had broke up with me on phone and got married with someone else, it was pandemic year- I was stuck at home, I hardly had maintained any contact with my friends, I felt pathetic for not earning and being dependent on my parents while my counterparts were getting promoted, worst I had no idea what to do next)..
But then time changes everything.. I am 29 today earning quite well, Happy with my life, doing what I love- still living with my parents :P.. will be getting married to my childhood friend soon and live with my new parents :P..
Anyway my family have always supported me and today it’s my time to support them.. this is what family is.. it’s not financial support but emotional support we need as social animals in our difficult times.. never mind what society thinks.. it’s their perspective they least care about what you have gone through or your journey..
Dear Keith,
Never say the word depression again.. you are so capable and talented, and so many people admire and follow you.. Do what you love the most and be proud of yourself no matter how bad the circumstances.. Your future self will be proud of yourself for overcoming this phase and coming out strong.. You coming on this channel and sharing your story with your followers in itself is great step.. keep going- you are such a wonderful person.. love from 🇮🇳
Thank you very much for the kind words & sharing your own experiences. I think the key theme is that time changes everything (however it's super hard to realize that in the moment). Happy that you are doing well now! :)
@@KeithGalli na as Doctor House says "Time does not change anything. Doing thing changes things!". You are doing things so things will change soon if they have not already.
Depression is different for men and women
For men not able to provide financially can cripple them mentally
Glad to see you back!! Really love your python real life case, helped me a lot!!
Thanks for sharing Keith. Your videos were a big help along the way in my journey. Glad to see you doing better and hope the best is yet to come.
Glad to hear that you feel better and welcome back! Have learned so much about data science from your videos. Keep up the good work and most importantly, stay healthy!
thank you so much for sharing your story, I'm sure it wasn't easy, but I believe it will help a lot of people. mental health is so incredibly important and I'm glad you were able to find the help you needed. look forward to see what you do next, I'm rooting for you!!
Glad to see you back. I love your videos, I've learned a lot from you. And I'm struggling mentally myself too, so I know how you feel, and knowing that you're still around makes me even happier. Welcome back!
Thanks for the kind words. Sorry to hear that you're struggling too. Stay strong! I'm rooting for you.
It was great to see the notification on my phone from Keith!! Sorry to hear about the depression, and I've seen myself in the video, always laughing but in depression. However, like in the last section, it's great to see you excited about being back with great ideas!! Wishing health to everyone reading this.
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Hello Keith, it's really great you put this video out here. Apart from helping people with data science, you are also helping people with overcoming their mental health challenges.
I'll like to say you have inspired me and your data science videos have taught me a lot. Even though we are of the same age, I am really inspired by you and what you do.
Keith, sorry to hear what you've been going through. I hope things are better now!
Brave and strong. Thanks for your honesty and willingness to share. That takes a lot of courage and it will help others. Cheers!
so happy to see you back and doing well Keith.
Thanks for sharing dude. So glad you pulled through.
Welcome back Keith, RUclips missed you so much, learnt so much from your videos, missed your way of teaching, looking forward to more videos, stay healthy and happy, many strengths to you 👍🙂
Man your Data Science videos are at next level. Definitely the best content out there. Anyways great to have you back. Just know that you've helped a lot of guys including me through your teaching.
I have learned a lot from you! Delighted that you are back!
Thanks for sharing your story, I think it will help a lot of people. Glad to hear that you are doing better. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos in the future. Take care of yourself.
So happy you are back! Thanks for telling us your story and being transparent. I am actually glad you "let the team down" versus not being on this earth. You have too many amazing things to accomplish before you leave. Just remember tomorrow is another day and it will always be better. Looking forward to more great videos!
Thank you for the kind words!
Love you Keith, great to have you back! Thanks for sharing, and looking forward to seeing what you have planned for future 😁
Man this is just great! It’s great having you back. Hope to learn more from you. De Colombia para el mundo
this is so brave . Your videos on Data Science were my introduction to this field. Thank you for existing. Hope you get over your inner demons.
Keith I cannot begin to tell you the transformation you have brought to my life. I tried so many different resources to learn basic programming to help with my research as I was stuck at home and away from my research lab, ironically even the free courseware from MIT didn't do much for me. Your casual approach including going straight to the point and making errors as you teach really clicked with me. I went from knowing nothing to embracing scary things like machine and deeplearning in a matter of just a few weeks. It totally changed my approach to research and I went from feeling stuck, and also having a hard time dealing with the major suck that was 2020 and all its anger, anxiety, loneliness and despair, and it really really helped my psych and career. I also have encouraged young people in my research field that coding is achievable and opens many doors for research and life by holding a basics workshop at a global conference. There's a cascading effect to what you do!
It's really cool seeing you talk about your mental health so openly and publicly. This is not easy. You are not alone! (donated in your honor)
Glad to hear it! ❤. Thanks for the message & sharing your own experiences.
Hi Keith, it is truly a blessing that I stumbled upon this video. I could relate to your story so well --graduated from a top Uni, worked in a startup (client success team also) and felt extremely miserable, quit my job shortly but felt no relief at all due to anxiety, disappointment at myself, feeling like a failure/imposter, and shame. I also moved back with my parents, and I am a content creator as well (I make content mostly on Tiktok).
None of the people around me are like this, so seeing this video is the first time when I feel relived and know that I am not alone. Seeing that you got thru the whole thing encourages me soooo much. I cannot thank you enough for this--I honestly didn't know how to cope with all the negative feelings!
Thanks again for the video. All the best!
Hey Harry, sorry to hear that you have gone through something similar, but glad that this video helped you find some relief. This type of thing can feel so isolating, know that you're not alone and things get better (no matter how hard that may seem to believe). Hoping for all the best for you in 2023 🙏
I just saw this from two years ago. Thanks for sharing your story. I appreciate it. Your candor does everybody a big favor.
And, of course I saw it because i like your tutorials so much, and I wandered back through your catalog. Keep teaching!
Hi Keith, it is great that you are back! You are doing an enormous job for a lot of people. Stay safe and healthy!
Thanks for making this video. It is good to hear others talk about their obstacles. Hope all is well and thanks for the data analytics insight.
Never suspected that from you, your content is so upbeat and your personality so dynamic. As an older person, I can only recommend that you find a pace of living that allows you to appreciate people around you and their support and that you keep this very curious brain of yours fed with knowledge and new challenges. Enjoy life, enjoy learning. Thanks for sharing and we are lucky to have you producing quality content again.
Great to see you back, and also great that after all, you are doing better!
Thank you so much for sharing your story - such an important topic, especially for guys, who are statistically less likely to seek help. Very inspirational!!❤️❤️
Hey man! Just want to let you know that I've learned a great deal from your videos, and thanks to that I love data science more. Much appreciated. Glad to see you are doing better :D
We've all missed you -- a _lot_ so, big welcome back.
Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. Many of us can relate
You’re an inspiration and have such a knack for explaining things clearly. The video on webscraping with Beautiful Soup opened up a whole new world for me. I can’t thank you enough! Thank you for bringing awareness and being you.
Glad that video was very helpful for you! Thank you for the kind words :)
Hey Keith, It takes tremendous Courage and strength to come out and tell all this to people, Thank you for sharing with us. Take care and I really hope You get better. I have been through this, Please take some time off :)) and I hope you bounce back at your own pace.
Thank you so much for sharing this! Although you've helped me so much with your tutorial videos, but this video is the one that I find the most helpful.
There's so many things to relate and learn from this video, like to know that I'm not alone going through such things like not doing anything productive or useful for my future despite knowing that I can very well do them, and to know that no matter how bad it is, there's always hope and you can get the control of you life back and be successful and happy. And although some of these things are said by some other people as well but coming from you, someone i really look up to, these just hit on a different level.
I could go on and on but again thank you so much for sharing this.
I wish nothing but the best for you and hope and pray that you become the happiest and the most successful than you've ever been.
Thank you very much! Glad that this video was very helpful for you :)
Thank you for sharing that journey. I just want to say you are an amazing teacher and I subscribed a while ago because I enjoyed your tutorials. One more thing I wanted to say... whenever you listen to your inner voice, you are on a good path. Just keep going in the direction it tells you. Now I'm looking forward to the new content more than ever.
You've helped my coding abilities so much, I'm so grateful for you.
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Good to see you back, a lot of love from Poland ♥️
I had the same experience with depression. I'm still in the process of working my brain to be back to where it used to be. Staying with family and time definitely help. I'm glad you got out of it and I hope you will never go back to that path again.
Sorry to hear that. Glad to hear you're spending time with family. Stay strong! Enough time will heal things.
I can feel what you have been feeling. Probably in the same situation. Boston can get depressing too I know. But happy that you’re back. You are giving hope . Thanks for sharing.
Hang in there man! 🙏
love to see you back. You dont know how much i love to watch ur video, the way u think, the way u teach and ur voice
Wishing u and ur family health and happiness
Love from VietNam
Thank you for this video.it is nice to see someone so open and honest!
This video is very valuable to share Keith, thank you so much. I am struggling with anxiety for some time now because of the uncertainity in life in general - but I can see the point where everything gets better in time, I am also getting support from a therapist which helps big time.
This is a very important video for young adults like me, took my feeling of feeling alone in this situation away. Thanks a lot.
You are definitely not alone! Things get better with time :)
@@KeithGalli Thank you so much!
Keith, first of all, I just want to say that your videos on data science got me a great gig as an analyst at Sony Music! I’m truthfully very thankful. I also had a very tough and dark time a couple years ago, I was dealing with GAD and was miserable for quite some time, it got better for me eventually, and I’m really glad to hear the same from you. Mental health is no joke and I just wanted you to know you’re not alone.
I have learned a lot from you and always be grateful for that...keep doing what you love to do and be strong. May the force be with you always :).
Keith, I can relate to your story. Thanks to God you are back to happiness. Your story is very encouraging!
Thank you Keith for all your hard help
im so happy that you got better Keith! u inspire me dude! u sharing ur experience will help so much people going through similar experiences!
Thank you for the kind words!! :)
This is your first video I have watched. RUclips probably suggested because of the MIT tag. I absolutely love OCW, it is just a great act of generosity to me and so is this video in some sense. I will pray for you and I'll be probably be looking at your videos on data science that I am being suggested right now. Keep it up and kiss your parents for me
Thank you for sharing this! I hope you are feeling better these days!
Hi Bro, just want to mention it is glad to see u again and what you did in RUclips really helps me a lot. Learning python with u is a part of my life in the past years. Hope u enjoy your life and keep bringing us fantastic things.
Keith man great to see you back! You helped me a lot with DS and Python and now you helped me look at my mental health. You deserve huge box of donuts
Thanks for the message man! and hahaha I would love some donuts xD
Bro, I would have to say you have provided some valuable info in the world of coding. I look forward to seeing you coming back with your tutorials. More power to you.
Glad you're feeling better :) Looking forward to the upcoming videos :D
proud of you Keith! some things I needed to hear in this video too, appreciate your sharing and being open about this stuff
Thanks Jon! Love and miss ya bro
Hey man I just started an online Data Science course and went on YT to find some more info and stumbled upon your channel. It took me 5 mins of watching one of your vids to like and subscribe to your channel (something i usually never do unless content is optimal). I hope you keep building on tutoring and making new videos. Helping us (the YT community) might as well help you day after day. So thanks for your time, and I hope I can keep learning from you :D
Great to see you back and in better health.
That was just just "the honest" video.... love you bro... hope you and your family are healthy and happy... god bless you...
Glad to hear that things are looking up for you and you feel like you are in a better place now, if the last 2 years has taught us anything, it is that life is too short and precious to be miserable. I am glad that the stigma around mens mental health is improving, but there is still a way to go and that is why it is so important for people to be able to talk about their struggles. Therapy is a good thing and maintaining that support is the best way to avoid going back to that very dark place, where it is very hard to make rational choices. I encourage all who are struggling to seek support from the vast array of support services, no one should suffer in silence! I wish you well on your continuing journey.
PS.
Funnily enough, only a couple of days ago, I recommended your channel to a colleague who was asking for information on Python and Machine Learning/AI.
Hi Keith,thank you for sharing and welcome back. I started to learn Python last year,although I am 55yo already,your tutorials are the best and are helping me a lot. I am using them to solve my real work tasks. So thanks a lot for your work! Good luck ! Gabriela
Im super happy you made this video. I really dont wanna feel, not working, not coding, if i dont do them im gonna be nothing but a empty shell.
The line, "hang in there " have been giving me the tolerance to push through in my tough times and seeing you using the exact words made me really happy.
Thinking of you mate, things do get better!
@@KeithGalli im doing great keith ✌, thank you for worrying bout me.
Great to have you back, learned a lot from you.
Thanks for sharing your story, Keith. ❤️❤️
Happy to see you back.
Keep up the good work 🙂🙂🙏
Keith is very inspiring and helpful for people going through depression or losing their way. I'll pass this video to my grandson, he is 20 and suffering from depression and being lost. In my time we just went to the army for 2 years and hoped for the best! Somehow, it did work but you have to go through mental suffering and physical endurance. I would certainly not advise anyone to go to the army!
your channel is one of my favorite youtube channels. I'm glad you are feeling better now. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Appreciate the support, man!
I'm proud of you. I hope that you can see how making your RUclips videos are somewhat therapeutic, getting things off your chest. You have given many of us so much with your videos and you should know that we are all rooting for your success.
Thank you :)
I feel you, man! I hope you’ll be better soon!
Great you are better! Hopefully you start making new videos about data science. Your videos have been a great added help.
I've only come to notice this video. It's hard for one to realize his/her influence in this online environment, but know that you've helped a LOT in this career shifting journey I go through. Imagine, guiding someone halfway across the globe in Indonesia. One day when I'm finally able to transition my job to analytics/DS, I owe a large sum of it to you Keith. And that doesn't include countless other you've shed your knowledge on.
Hope you're in a better state of mind now, Godspeed Keith!
glad to see u again! I was imperssed by your pandas vedio, that really helped me a lot during my study in UK! Now I am back in china and got to see this vedio, life is full of trouble, but believe in yourself, what doesnt kill u makes u stronger!
imagine how many people you can reach when a brilliant person like you chooses to share your story and struggles with mental health. shame and stigma can be debilitating for some. big props mad respect and you, thanks for sharing x
Thanks for sharing, man. I'm going through something similar, and is always nice to know theres a chance to get better. Thank you, seriously.
Stay strong brother! 💪
Dude- I’ve been there too. I feel for you. I love your content. Don’t give up!
You're awesome man. We're here for you.
You single-handedly got me excited to start my data analytics journey with your "Solving real world data science tasks with Python Pandas!" video and here I am two years later in a data science role.
To thank you isn't enough mate. I know I'm just one of thousands, and not many people can vouch for having that great of a positive impact on this world. You're an absolute G and we're happy to see you back mate.
Kudos for sharing all of this very personal stuff. Keep on keeping on and thank you for all the great content you put out there. Truly inspirational.
Thank you for the kind words!