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There is an old Cajun way in the US to check for fidelity. Have the person drop their pants/shorts, exposing everything. Then you throw a handful of flour in their Crotch. If a lot of flour sticks to them, you know.
Could you blame any Man for not wanting to offer you the World if He could? Thumbs up is the very least I can do. But I could add Hearts Up, Love Jones Up, Cheer You Up, Kiss You Up...
I like the one when you catch them in bed and she says "it's not what it looks like" and you say, you mean you were just walking by while he was laying naked on the bed and you tripped and fell on his dick?
If you are sending money to someone you have not seen in person.(this includes video chatting) You are just throwing your money away almost every single time.
Damm this is a serious topic to discuss. Some women in the Philippines are sweet and humble but some are gold diggers and cheaters. But in this world no one is perfect. Thanks pea for talking about this on your channel.
Typically, men assume that whim min think the same way men think. Men appreciate kindness, helpfulness, honor, integrity, genuineness, generosity, etc., etc., and value these characteristics in other people. Men project these qualities toward whim min because men highly value these characteristics. Whim min do not value these characteristics. They see them as weakness opportunities like a mosquito that sees a patch of bare skin, except whim min go a step further and despise the host.
@@The-Cat thanks for the tip..i can spell perfectly but i have got into the habit of doing this because 9/10 of comments i make on videos get isolated with only me being able to see them
My American buddy's fiance denied that cheating got her pregnant even after a DNA test proved he was not the Dad; the baby's skin color indicated a full Filipina, but apparently my friend was the only one who did not notice that. She turned on tears and gave him an academy award winning performance of a sincere "I would never cheat on you." routine. He insisted over and over that DNA is positive proof and she insisted over and over that the test is lying, not her. Amazing actress, real tears and everything. Finally she admitted she was afraid she might lose him if she didn't secure him via pregnancy, so she did the foreman at the factory where she works to get pregnant faster. So my friend dumped her, so she dropped the baby with Grandma to raise, together with her previous baby by a different foreigner who skipped. After a few more foreigners, she found an American who married her into the USA, where she got a job in a factory to send support to grandma raising 2 illegitimate kids. I'll always remember the best most realistic actress/liar ever!!!! Standing ovation.
Well they're just starting to come out with DNA tests that identify women that have Cheating gene. All that would really take as a hair sample and I'm not joking about this either this is real this will be here in the next 10 years. We can identify for your spouse is cheating gene women it doesn't work for men if you're girlfriend or wife has Cheating gene is only passed on to a female children. Women that have this cheating gene will be worth a lot less highly identifiable.For extremely wealthy people this is already a reality.
I've found that when I'm falsely accused - it's the accuser who is the guilty party! I also feel that without trust, the relationship is worthless! Thanks, Pea for an entertaining video!😘🥰
LOL, good one. I have one I’ll share. Q: What’s the difference between a hoe and a b!+ch? A: A how will have sex with everyone and a b!+ch will have sex with everyone but you.
Great advice sis. Cheaters, weather male or female, will always trip themselves up eventually. Whatever you do in the dark will eventually come to the light. There's a translator you can purchase online that has a few of the predominant Philippines dialects on it. Just use your airpods, listen to their conversations and show no reactions. You can learn a lot this way.
Pea, My dear, OMG!!! You Nailed this one. Right on the Spot with the Filipina Codebook. LOL... Yes, I have been there and done that... You are absolutely right about the tale tale signs of a cheating Filipina. Thank you for confirming what I had already found out... The next time I am in the Philippines, I got a Story to Tell ya, and your fans are going to LOVE IT!!! The one I met, was engaged to me, engaged to another guy, and had more that 150+ men she was courting on various social media platforms and Dating Apps.. WOW!!!
Good content. We all get cheated on in life, sometimes it hurts sometimes not so much but its always a gift in disguise. You really don't want that calibre of person in your life.
Great video, Pea! I have to compliment you on your expertise in speaking English. There is a small accent in your voice, but your grammar and vocabulary are exceptional. I’d say better than many Americans who only speak English. It makes it pleasant to listen to you speak in your videos. Thanks for all of your effort to make these videos. It’s much appreciated!
Super level content once again, Pea! A serious reality check for any foreigner. Certainly there are issues of infidelity in other countries, but these variations take the cake, even if in a low percentage. Putting these type of toxic women on blast? Priceless!!
I'd like to add an important note: don't let paranoia over topics like this ruin your relationship with your Filipina who is (probably) genuine. RUclipsrs and expats will constantly bombard you with stories about scamming, cheating, lying, dishonest Filipinas who are always talking to other men behind your back and always have multiple Facebook accounts hidden from you and always giving you false excuses about their absences, etc etc etc. Don't start being paranoid to your Filipina unless you have a solid reason to be. This way of thinking almost ruined my relationship with my Filipina because of unjustified mistrust against her, caused by these constant warnings from everyone. At the end of the day, it's still just a small minority of Filipinas who behave this way behind your back...REMEMBER this fact. The red flags will be obvious...don't ruin your relationship by digging so hard for hidden red flags that you dig her heart out.
ABSOLUTELY‼️‼️Yours is the best comment here ‼️ I had to stop watching and unsubscribe from so many youtube channels because they kept calling just about everything a “Red Flag”. They had me so worked up and paranoid about everything that I was about to either destroy my relationship or just ghost her. I took a metaphorical deep breath, and simply wrote down on paper what “signs” and actions (red flags) she was exhibiting. I then thought about each one and assuming her innocence, did any of them actually stand out. Ultimately, I discovered how many were legitimately due to miscommunication or misunderstanding and/or me projecting on to her what I had seen in those videos. I didn’t say anything about all that to her and eventually asked her to marry me. She is the most loving, caring, honest and loyal woman I have ever known. Now I wake up every morning to find her cuddled up next to me sleeping like an angel. So I agree with you 100%. Cheers
I'm beginning to think my American ex-wife was, deep down, a Filipina because you described her perfectly. Thank you for all the info. I've made notes. Take care and be safe
A few good tips are: 1. Girls from the province will most likely be more traditional. 2. Make sure she has a good relationship with both parents. Its very important for women to have had a good relationship with their father. If not, it often effects their relationship with men negatively. 3. How does she dress? If she dresses more western and provocative, that can be a red flag. 4. When she poses for photos, how does she conduct herself? If she is pushing her butt out and trying to show her cleavage off, that is a red flag. 5. Any mention of money or a sob story about money is a red flag. 6. If she is 18 years old, to say 28 years old, and you're 45+, she is interested in you because of your money. If you're older, don't be afraid to date someone a bit older. At least be open to the possibility. 7. Don't fall for the first woman unless you get lucky. Good luck, men.
Hi Pea! Hope you and everyone reading this comment has a blessed day. Thanks for another thoughtful video! I am a strong believer in being upfront and truthful. Be honest and kind in your dealings with others. Deceitful people who cheat on their partners often try to project their actions onto said partner. Also, watch out for sudden changes in habits and routines. In the end, I find cheaters and deceitful people sad and, quite frankly, pathetic.
I went through at least 6 very quickly... Lesbian couple, wanted in, could NOT be separated, another wanted my $$ to build a brothers house, (you turn over all money to the bro in that family, ) sales clerk looking to move her family into the condo, etc. Finally got a great lady, and married after 2 years... Keep looking, guys.
It is not a “glance” Pea! Much more a scrutinised study ! A university degree thesis! A record session of innuendos, a masterclass in double entendre, an unrivalled wits and bons mots collection! A linguistic opera in C major, an avalanche of humour! Thank you Pea 😊😘
Super informative. I wish i had seen a video like this 8 years ago. It would have saved me from a broken heart and lots of money...i am still paying back.
That’s why if you’re an expat in the Philippines you: 1. Get a vasectomy 2. Always rent the place you live in 3. Never put expensive things in her name 4. Never get into any business ventures with her, her family or friends 5. Never give her access to all your money. Open multiple accounts and only give her access to one that have the amount of money you are comfortable losing If she cheats on you, don’t get upset. You can replace her with a 19 year old in 3 minutes. Since she cheated, you demote her into being a side piece. Get a new woman (preferably her sister, cousin or friend) and throw her out of your house. If she still wants your money, make her work for it. You’re the expat. The one with money. You’re the king.
I think the 3 minutes and King days may be long gone, but otherwise correct. Today it's more like the Thai joke: 3 minutes, 3" and 3,000 bhat. Finding a regular girl is really tough these days IMHO. Do you have some magic PUA line?
Terrific Video 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 and Breakdown. I Bet Tons of Cheating and Sneaky Filipna's Don't Like the Fact that You are Exposing the God Honest Truth and are Helping Men Big Time Globally. Keep up the Great Work Homegirl 🤣🤣🤣👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Cheating is NOT a mistake but a selfish choice! No amount of money, no amount of power or influence or status, physical appearance, should ever cause anyone to make the choice to cheat upon someone they said they loved. One shouldn't date someone that they wouldn't consider marrying either..! Also this topic is NOT just for Filipinas but men and women worldwide...!
The one where she accuses the guy is big here in the US. Every time I've had a woman accused me, she was already cheating. A friend of mine told me about a girl he had tried to set me up with a couple years ago. She has an Australian boyfriend now, but is really dating a Filipino guy and has a kid with him. Tells him, the Filipino boyfriend is family. Definitely something to watch out for in the Philippines.
@@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement Yes, SE Asia has that scam running a lot. The one in the west is the marry a guy you don't like and divorce him. It takes more time, but they get more money, sometimes for life. It's kind of like a retirement program.
"Don't you trust me?" "No." "If we don't have trust we have nothing!" "Then leave." don't be bullied men. they need you much much more than you need them. good men are rare. pretty girls are common.
I completely disagree. There are heaps of good men, but they're just being put through the ringer like lemmings and hoping things will work out for them. Women in this day and age don't really need men at all. They're doing better than men in pretty much all measurements.
Temptation can be hard to fight, but yes, one is always guilty for falling for the bait. There are always aggravating or extenuating factors depending on the context, but it's still a capital trust offense
You can definitely tell when a Filipina is really interested in you. They will demand your time, and get upset when you have to go run errands. I may have been cheated in the past, but it's their loss. My one ex asks decided to start talking to the guy she was with, who according to her and left her with bruises and black eyes. While being unfaithful and he was married apparently. There's millions more to give it a shot, eventually you see the ones who want you, and the ones who don't. Still better than any experience I've had over here.
Pea has many of the signs nailed down. I also find that if she has limited time for you it's because she has someone else she is entertaining. I've even had a GF text another guy in front of me every 2 minutes with hearts and kisses, then deny she has another BF. The thing is I am not the jealous type and really don't care if she has another BF. However, I do get annoyed at her being distracted and dishonest.
Yeah, wife was watching with me, and she attests to the meeting of large family and cousins to a new foreign boyfriend. She was in a group of cousins and was shocked when her cousin introduced a person she never met before in her life as a cousin to the new boyfriend. Needless to say, that guy found out and dumped the wife's cousin.
OMG! This was side splitting hilarious! 🤣 I can relate to so much of this one, LDR/ Dating/ Chatting online for 5 Years then married and living in the Philippines for close to 10 Years, I have seen it all and I was thinking "Telenovela" sums up much of what I have witnessed here with Family Members and friends. Then BOOM! you dropped it! 😆 Living here can be like living in the worst acted scripted Telenovela known to Filipino History, but I would not trade it for anything! If anything, it is very entertaining and over the top so much. I am living in the Land of Crazy and love the challenge! 😁 lol This Video really brightened up my day!
One thing Ive learned over the years is trust your gut feeling. if it feels wrong it probably is. Also, trust those closest to you. They can often see things from the outside looking in that we are unable to see because we are blinded by our feelings for the person we are with. Thanks for the content Pea. Flying into Cebu on May 4th. Woot Woot! 😁
Great advice. Your gut might be misleading at times, but it never lies to you. It's letting you know something is wrong, but might be fuzzy on the details.
Good lord, this reasonates with some of the experiences i have had with meeting some Filipino ladies online... at this point, it would just be easier to just go there, travel the country, and see all the sites and learn the history of the country! And see who i meet in person! Thank you Pea for covering all of these subjects!
Why not other (I may say nicer) locales? If you're thinking of finding a GF down the road, it's all fake love. I know, I learned the hard way. Just think with the big-head and know it's like a casino (all about money and the house wins, not you).
Hi Pea, there are always so many things to look out for. I think it’s quite common for people to cover up guilt by making accusations. If you’re paying attention you can see it often when driving, quite a high proportion who do something foolish when driving will toot their horn to try and pretend it’s someone else’s fault
This video should be pinned to the top of your page and first on every list you have. I’ve noticed several of these things and called it quits with few Filipinas in the last couple of years but this video confirmed my suspicions were most likely correct.
Thanks for a good video. The things that you have told is here, remind me of Thailand. In my lifetime, I’ve been to Thailand about 25 times. I’ve only been to the Philippines 3 times. It’s all the same tricks from the cheaters
Scary stuff to consider, Pea. 😔 Except for the Family Affair section, this sounds like stuff that happens here in the West, too. Never having had a real girlfriend, but having tried a couple of LDRs, I've thankfully missed out on most of this. But the LDRs pulled a couple of the things you mentioned here, including the disappearing act, one after I wanted a meet up (she lived in the same state, but still pretty far away), and the other when I refused to send her money (but I was willing to arrange for a plane ticket for her since she claimed she wanted to visit me in the US, but since I wouldn't send money for her to buy the ticket herself... poof, she disappeared). Well, here's hoping your next video isn't as depressing 😢 as this one was. Still, thanks for the heads-up, Pea.
Before the era of smartphones, my wife worked at a local internet cafe there. She would share stories about the girls who would come in to chat with their foreign boyfriends. When finished, the girls would compare who had the most money transfer numbers, and who had the largest total amount of money sent to them. Don't let the smiles fool you, there are some devious ones mixed in, but for the most part the good ones outnumber the ones you need to avoid. 😉😉
Before finding your channel or perhaps what lead me to you, I was getting serious about a Filipina. We talked several times a day and it looked like it was heading to something real. Then I saw another man walk across the background when we were video chatting. I asked her who it was. She informed me that it was her ex boyfriend and that he comes to stay with her for a couple of weeks every couple of months. I hightailed it out of that "relationship" like chain blue lightning. On the bright side, I don't know if I would have found your channel had it not been for that. So I count it as I got a reward for early withdrawal (no pull out joke intended). I'm glad for that outcome. You're a whole lot prettier, have a nicer voice and I really like that mind of yours, precious Pea.
I don't know any other lady that can scare me and make me smile and laugh all at the same time! You did relieve me at the end though, karma will have it's way! ❤🥰
Even if any Filipina who cheated me, l will not embarrassed her, but if she insisting of breaking off so be it. Der are many others who are worthy of genuine relationship. Stay safe🙏🙏🙏❤️
Thank you coming from men that are far to trusting and naïve. I don't want to repeat the same mistakes and not catch it for years. This is so very useful for the nice, caring and trusting men who would have never be able to think like a Filipina. When I do start dating I know I will get attached to the first woman that I do get into a relationship with.
If the cheat once they will do it 2x. I don’t trust cheaters, men or women. If they can cheat on the person they say they love then they are capable of doing anything
Cheating has occurred throughout human history, and cheaters usually trip themselves up eventually. I've been cheated on before, and in each case, when I found out about the deception I calmly confronted the cheater, weathered her angry, self-defensive rant, showed her the evidence, listened to her plead that she'll change, then escorted her out the door and out of my life. If someone wants to be with me, they will be with ME, not out looking for what they think will be the next bigger, better deal. News flash to cheaters: Eventually, your bigger, better deal will be a cheater as well, and they'll kick you to the curb the same way you did the good man/woman who you thought wasn't good enough. Karma is a b (female dog), and she has a long memory! And Pea is correct: Once a cheater, always a cheater. It may lay dormant for awhile, but the itch eventually needs scratched, and I do not have time for that in my life. Good, informative video, Pea. Thanks for sharing your insights in this matter.
I quit sending money to a certain Filipina over a year ago. We have been talking for several years now in a long-distance relationship. The whole time, she never worked. Then a miracle happened, she found a job since the money dried up. Also, since she found the job, and I quit sending money, I rarely hear from her. Her physical appearance changed, and her big weight gain was inexplainable. Her ghosting me has, well, telling me she's playing the field. Am I heartbroken?... No. I'm more relieved. With so many miles between us, I have no idea what she's doing and know I have no control over anything. I knew that going into this ldr. I am still planning on going to the Philippines, still planning on finding a beautiful, loving Filipina. ❤️ Look out, Pea. I will be there soon. 😉 Thank you for another wonderful video, Pea. Much love and respect to you, Pea.
If a woman doesn’t claim to be in a relationship with you on the internet - her main page- chances are she’s cheating. All her friends will see her social media. At least 3 of them secretly hate her enough to contact you through DM and provide receipts to show you her true background.
All Filipinas do not have RUclips Channels like Sweet Pea, but I understand you 100%. One thing I don't put much stock in, is the claim of an LDR. Has she ever met this dude? Is he with her in person now? If Sweet Pea was my Woman there is NO WAY IN HELL I would still stay halfway around the World. Sounds suspicious whether That LDR is Real. I want to Touch, Feel, Taste Her Sweetness. With all Due Respect, I AM A NATURAL MAN.
Stay clear of Filipinas. I was engaged to one and we've been in a relationship for 3 years. 2 months before our wedding, I found out she cheated on me with 6 different guys, even as I was having chemo and surgery with a 20% chance of survival on my birthday. As I was fighting for my life, she slept with a Chinese lawyer at the 5 star hotel I had booked for my birthday. I wanted to forgive her, but she refused to even get tested for STDs (which would kill me in my condition) as she never used protection with any of these guys...
Thanks Pea! Over the last 10 or so years , I have experienced all of these issues with Filipinas. Some worse than others . I guess I would call it a " learning experience " . Appreciate you always Pea . Sleep well. God bless..🙏🙏❤️❤️
13:57 Hi Pea, I've been a long time subscriber and wanted to let you know I really enjoy your show. You seem to do an excellent job. Blending American Culture with the Filipino culture. Cheating partners cheat in different ways and cultures, and I knew from my experience in the US about what that looks like here. Keep up the good work!
No matter how much trying to make 1st world/3rd world 'relationships' seem 'genuine', we all know what's really going on. I'm always honest with myself when in the Philippines, knowing exactly 'why' a filipina half my age is 'interested' in me. Once it goes past me merely financing dating expenses, and 'allowance$' start, I expect she make the 'sacrifice' of 'monogamy'. At this point the '3 year countdown' starts. I date by the "3-3-3' Rule": She has to be at least a 7 lookswise (10-7=3). Before I even consider us 'dating', we must be 'dating' at least 3 months, and I won't ever CONSIDER 'marriage' until dating AT LEAST 3 years, and I'll routinely run her through the paces of random 'loyalty tests' during such period, which she must pass ALL of them. I have a rule of keeping her 'allowances' on 'per diem' basis only, just enough to keep her nose above water. If a woman would 'stay faithful' in such an arrangement for 3 years, she MAY be 'marriage material', but ONLY if kept 'in country', NEVERRRR bring her to YOUR Country!!! Sadly, this is WAY more 'genuine' than 'western relationships'. I never fool myself. Women would NEVER date WAY outside 'normal age disparities' UNLE$$ it'$ for '$ecurity & provi$ioning'.
I ve heard the same 3-3-3 rule from the filipinas there- about choosing Koreans over western foreigners. They ve said koreans are better (3-3-3) !!! 3inches,3 minutes, 3k pesos!
Is it really any different in a 1st world - 1st world relationship? Women here file 80% of divorces, get 98% of alimony per US Census. And probably a similar % get to steal the house and at least 1 car as well. If she stuck it out for 10, most judges will give her alimony for life. There are very very very few places in the world where men aren't a free ride and where love from a woman isn't transactional.
You broke it down real good Fililpina Pea 👊🏿 I always keep a song in the back of my head by one of my favorite groups "ISLEY BROTHER'S " We men have to remember, When it comes to women "GIRL ,It's Yo Thang Do whatcha Wanna Do,I can't Tell ya who to sock it to "😊
Pea, You Definitely Know How To Give The Juicy Details of All That is going on in The Philippines😆😆😆. I Can't wait to get to the Philippines, it sounds like a On Going "Soap Opera" in Real Time....LMAOOOO....👏🏾😆👏🏾😅👏🏾🤣👏🏾😂. Thanks🙏🏾For the Upload Pea. Shalom🙏🏾Fam✊🏾🧔🏾♂👍🏾
I admire the accuracy with which you just described my ex-wife! LOL And ... ahr ... the diligence with which I investigated her? Would you believe that I confronted her in front of her Filipino priest while I was wired? I have a voice recording of the entire conversation! No Mission is Impossible for a cheated foreigner!
P you hit the nail on the head. I was with this pinay for 3 months. The last few weeks were very telling. I started to ask questions, When she disappeared for 3 days (she had to talk to her friends about personal things). Why she was wearing very revealing clothes to go to market at 9pm. The straw that broke the camels back. My groin started to hurt, genital swelling and lastly dripping. I got myself checked and yep, Gonorrhea. I confronted her and of course, She accused me of cheating. She was my first woman in 5 years. She left again, this time 4 days. She texted me saying she needed money and was free lancing A. Santos Road, Angeles city. I took all her clothes, put them out front of our apartment with a sign, FREE Clothes. They were gone in 30 minutes. I asked her again about the Gonorrhea. She was with 5 guys in 3 days. I said your a busy girl, how many since we were a supposedly couple. Total body count: 56. Now works at a bar on Walking Street. This is only the tip of the iceberg, my examples are endless. You covered them all. This was my first trip to the Philippines since 2014. I am now in the US. Attempting and planning another trip soon.
Never had that problem, as my wife and I are within a few meters of each other most of the time. She also knows what I am capable of if the situation requires it.
I've had good luck. I didn't put all the faith into the relationship until we met but we grew close. After we met, that sealed the deal with how close we had become. We still have our lives until we close the distance but we're practically inseparable when it comes to messaging and having video calls. We're very much connected in each other's day to day lives and routines. I went ahead and watched this video. One thing I found funny is when you mentioned them having a gay friend. I don't think I've ever had a gf that didn't have a close gay friend. It's just normal to me. My Filipina... when we started dating she made sure to tell me about her work colleagues... one of which is gay(I met him too during one of my trips). I thought it was a bit weird that she was being so upfront about going out with friends because I trust her. I think it could've been for what you stated though. She has seen it happen and didn't want me to get the wrong idea when they(or a group of workmates) hung out. We've been upfront with each other about everything since day 1. I think many foreigners to the Philippines mess up when they send money from the start. If you want to attract the bad... just keep throwing money. Of course they're going to keep talking to you for that moneyline while they have their lives. If you don't send money and they're not interested, then they're definitely not going to keep talking to you. My Filipina has never once asked for money and SPECIFICALLY told me that if any of her family(close or cousins) ever asks... to come to her and also tell them HELL NO! 🤣
Oh, that video hitted hard... It's just happend to me... My fiancé cheated on me, even WHILE I was there... I didn't notice... But the neighbor told me, she couldn't stand amymore, that my fiancé uses me to get money to be happy with her real boyfriend... What a truth bomb after 6 Years and 5 visits to the Philippines... She even send me her papers just a short while before it happend... She wanted to come here to marry me... 😢
haha My filipina friend tells me when she has dates with other guys. I don't see it as cheating because we don't see ourselves as gf/bf. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. She told me from the get go that she gets too bored with monogamy. Truth is, I'm much the same. We've never met,. It's all online, but it's really strange, after 10 years, I probably flatter her more now than I did when we first met. She has recently lost a lot of weight and gotten fit - and in the process, she has inspired me to do the same. The strangest part is she is about the only woman I have ever chased after. I tell her that I would love to live with her. She is fun - and she says "yeah - but we would need to have separate rooms, so I can have friends over" Although we are not bf/gf, she has started to insist that I only ever fantasize about her. It's kind of blossomed into a full cuckold relationship. It's crazy good fun - and really, I'm much happier than in any other relationship I've had before. In 10 years, we haven't had an argument or a cross word. Think what you like, but when faced with the reality of what the average relationship is like - being argument free for 10 years is pretty good, and much better for my health. I'm 67 and she's got me doing a hundred push ups and a hundred sit ups each day. And no, she's not all that young. She's 45. How much do I send her? About $50 a month. I think it's well n truly worth it. I will say maybe it is low because we don't have sex. At this stage, I an more interested in improving my diet, fitness,and general well being.
#1 if you aren’t physically with her, chances are: she’s cheating. Too many dudes online think their internet chat relationship is “real” She might be chatting with you while her boyfriend is next to her sleep. #2. Chances are she thinks you are cheating too. 1:40
Majority of guys that fall victim to this are old men (55+) who believe whatever a cute young girl tells them, even if it doesn't make sense, even if Pea tells them etc. I don't judge anyone, but I do chuckle to myself whenever I see a 55+ unattractive white guy trying to talk to a hot 25 year old Filipina or Thai.
Oh tell me about it..i was chatting with my filipina all day...i asked her to send me a picture of "" it"""..... In the background was a guys face ...smh crazy
You have definitely prepared my transition to Philippines . I have learned so much in so little time from you. I just want to say thank you and I hope I find a Pinay as Beautiful & Intelligent as you Pea😍
I would love to start a RUclips channel when I moved to the Philippines and one thing I would love to do is interview you and ask some of those same questions that you talk about in your videos…. Like… Pea have you ever cheated 😆😆😆
In my experience as an American man, every woman who I know has cheated on me was an extremely jealous person. Based on that experience, I won’t put up with jealousy, and will walk away if it doesn’t end. Even if she’s not cheating, who wants to be with a hyper jealous partner? Our cultures are very different Pea, but I believe jealous behavior is a human trait (based on my limited experience)
Two of the most obvious.....when the Filipina tries to control the communication. They don't want you to contact them but they will always be the one contacting you. When you tried to contact them they will either not answer or they'll just hit the reject button. The other being what you mentioned at the beginning. They will always introduce their true partner as the gay friend or the gay cousin. If your Filipina has done either of these to you then run and run fast.
@@TheFilipinaPea I would gladly welcome your monopolizing me and my time. You could do so, by the Will of God. You are the Woman I Love, so I don't mind. I don't care if I talked to a thousand women (which is nowhere near the truth because they would have nothing to do with me around here, and plus they do not Stimulate and Move me as You, Sweet Pea, does. Plus I would not care to, I am disgusted by them. It is HELL being separated from you.) I would be available to talk to you with no limit of time according to you needs. And you know this. You have often mentioned to me that you didn't have much free time anyway. I know you're busy, and now likely even more so with the Multiplication of your channel. Just getting those few messages from you lifted me in a way you cannot imagine. Just saying you made it home safely, or how you couldn't get much sleep, simple things like that. I still say, Dear Sweet One, that if we had videochatted, you would have seen the Look of Love in my eyes and in my Expressions. That Look, you can still see it now when I think of you.
I didn't give one of my live in girlfriends time for a exit strategy. She disappeared with my car for 24 hours and didn't have reason for it. I lost day of work. I had her belonging packed before she came back, threw them in the car and dropped her off in a public park. I drove away and never looked back. I have no use for people like that.
A guy I know went to the mall with cheater. He had banned her from the condo earlier. He came back alone in a cab and told her pick up her property at the gate. Saves an awful scene
My then gf was very upset when her former workmate and still close friend who lived together with a Filipino guy, fooled a foreigner who actually visited her and took her to Boracay for a couple of weeks. The income was apparently big enough to make the live-in bf willing to lend his woman to another man for a fortnight. This eventually led to my gf cutting ties with her friend, and as I understood it the parting was ugly.
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There is an old Cajun way in the US to check for fidelity. Have the person drop their pants/shorts, exposing everything. Then you throw a handful of flour in their Crotch. If a lot of flour sticks to them, you know.
Hello Ms. Pea, Love your channel and content, informative and entertaining! Does your friend Angel have a channel? I think see is awesome!
Could you blame any Man for not wanting to offer you the World if He could? Thumbs up is the very least I can do. But I could add Hearts Up, Love Jones Up, Cheer You Up, Kiss You Up...
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I like the one when you catch them in bed and she says "it's not what it looks like" and you say, you mean you were just walking by while he was laying naked on the bed and you tripped and fell on his dick?
Thirsty men need to stop sending money to foreign women they have never met. 💯
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@@TheFilipinaPea not always true pea
Facts
@@jonaspetrauskas4432 perhaps a fact in your situation
If you are sending money to someone you have not seen in person.(this includes video chatting) You are just throwing your money away almost every single time.
It goes along the lines of “don’t trust her words, watch her actions”. It’s something I learned years ago. It’s never let me down.
Actions speak louder than words ;)
@@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement top comment Kev
Correct! One of lifelong phrases is "people are what the DO, NOT what they say!
@Andreas Müller yes I do. I have ways 😉
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Damm this is a serious topic to discuss. Some women in the Philippines are sweet and humble but some are gold diggers and cheaters. But in this world no one is perfect. Thanks pea for talking about this on your channel.
Typically, men assume that whim min think the same way men think. Men appreciate kindness, helpfulness, honor, integrity, genuineness, generosity, etc., etc., and value these characteristics in other people. Men project these qualities toward whim min because men highly value these characteristics. Whim min do not value these characteristics. They see them as weakness opportunities like a mosquito that sees a patch of bare skin, except whim min go a step further and despise the host.
No problem, Julio - that’s my job 🤣❤️👍
@@WillyEckaslike I think you should rely on auto-correct to help you with your commenting
@@The-Cat thanks for the tip..i can spell perfectly but i have got into the habit of doing this because 9/10 of comments i make on videos get isolated with only me being able to see them
No no they are "goal diggers" remember 😅
My American buddy's fiance denied that cheating got her pregnant even after a DNA test proved he was not the Dad; the baby's skin color indicated a full Filipina, but apparently my friend was the only one who did not notice that. She turned on tears and gave him an academy award winning performance of a sincere "I would never cheat on you." routine. He insisted over and over that DNA is positive proof and she insisted over and over that the test is lying, not her. Amazing actress, real tears and everything. Finally she admitted she was afraid she might lose him if she didn't secure him via pregnancy, so she did the foreman at the factory where she works to get pregnant faster. So my friend dumped her, so she dropped the baby with Grandma to raise, together with her previous baby by a different foreigner who skipped. After a few more foreigners, she found an American who married her into the USA, where she got a job in a factory to send support to grandma raising 2 illegitimate kids. I'll always remember the best most realistic actress/liar ever!!!! Standing ovation.
The stories vary, but the bottom line is the same. All fake love for money. Peace.
Wow! That would be pretty downright discouraging for trying to have faith in a Filipina ever anymore.
Well they're just starting to come out with DNA tests that identify women that have Cheating gene. All that would really take as a hair sample and I'm not joking about this either this is real this will be here in the next 10 years. We can identify for your spouse is cheating gene women it doesn't work for men if you're girlfriend or wife has Cheating gene is only passed on to a female children. Women that have this cheating gene will be worth a lot less highly identifiable.For extremely wealthy people this is already a reality.
What is wrong with them I think they like banana way to much
What a sad sorry witch 🧙♀️
I've found that when I'm falsely accused - it's the accuser who is the guilty party! I also feel that without trust, the relationship is worthless!
Thanks, Pea for an entertaining video!😘🥰
Trust is paramount in any relationship
@@thnaykhwam6554 🦋ithout Trust, there’s N🚫 ThrusT 🏁✔️
HAHAHAHAHA
He who smelt it, dealt it 🤣👍
Textbook deflection!
What is the difference between a cheating wife and a joke?
Will Smith cannot accept a joke.
Ooooooh
Hahahahaha 🤣
For the next few days, DO NOT answer your front door
it could be him with a loose hand again
LOL, good one. I have one I’ll share.
Q: What’s the difference between a hoe and a b!+ch?
A: A how will have sex with everyone and a b!+ch will have sex with everyone but you.
Great advice sis. Cheaters, weather male or female, will always trip themselves up eventually. Whatever you do in the dark will eventually come to the light. There's a translator you can purchase online that has a few of the predominant Philippines dialects on it. Just use your airpods, listen to their conversations and show no reactions. You can learn a lot this way.
What is the translator called?
@@cbock645 my bad. I don't remember the name but it translate 35 dialects if that helps your search.
Pea, My dear, OMG!!! You Nailed this one. Right on the Spot with the Filipina Codebook. LOL... Yes, I have been there and done that... You are absolutely right about the tale tale signs of a cheating Filipina. Thank you for confirming what I had already found out... The next time I am in the Philippines, I got a Story to Tell ya, and your fans are going to LOVE IT!!! The one I met, was engaged to me, engaged to another guy, and had more that 150+ men she was courting on various social media platforms and Dating Apps.. WOW!!!
More than 150...........haha
Now that's a bussy schedule.
Good content.
We all get cheated on in life, sometimes it hurts sometimes not so much but its always a gift in disguise.
You really don't want that calibre of person in your life.
Great way to look at it.
Great video, Pea! I have to compliment you on your expertise in speaking English. There is a small accent in your voice, but your grammar and vocabulary are exceptional. I’d say better than many Americans who only speak English. It makes it pleasant to listen to you speak in your videos. Thanks for all of your effort to make these videos. It’s much appreciated!
Thanks Greg! I do try my hardest 👍😊
Very articulate fluent
Super level content once again, Pea! A serious reality check for any foreigner. Certainly there are issues of infidelity in other countries, but these variations take the cake, even if in a low percentage. Putting these type of toxic women on blast? Priceless!!
I'd like to add an important note: don't let paranoia over topics like this ruin your relationship with your Filipina who is (probably) genuine. RUclipsrs and expats will constantly bombard you with stories about scamming, cheating, lying, dishonest Filipinas who are always talking to other men behind your back and always have multiple Facebook accounts hidden from you and always giving you false excuses about their absences, etc etc etc. Don't start being paranoid to your Filipina unless you have a solid reason to be. This way of thinking almost ruined my relationship with my Filipina because of unjustified mistrust against her, caused by these constant warnings from everyone.
At the end of the day, it's still just a small minority of Filipinas who behave this way behind your back...REMEMBER this fact. The red flags will be obvious...don't ruin your relationship by digging so hard for hidden red flags that you dig her heart out.
ABSOLUTELY‼️‼️Yours is the best comment here ‼️
I had to stop watching and unsubscribe from so many youtube channels because they kept calling just about everything a “Red Flag”.
They had me so worked up and paranoid about everything that I was about to either destroy my relationship or just ghost her.
I took a metaphorical deep breath, and simply wrote down on paper what “signs” and actions (red flags) she was exhibiting.
I then thought about each one and assuming her innocence, did any of them actually stand out.
Ultimately, I discovered how many were legitimately due to miscommunication or misunderstanding and/or me projecting on to her what I had seen in those videos.
I didn’t say anything about all that to her and eventually asked her to marry me. She is the most loving, caring, honest and loyal woman I have ever known.
Now I wake up every morning to find her cuddled up next to me sleeping like an angel.
So I agree with you 100%.
Cheers
I totally agree with you. I got paranoid of this kind of stuff too but I found a way to fight it and trust my filipina gf.
I got burned multiple times and discovered it was all about money or green cards, never passionate love.
If you are the kind of Foreigner who is unable to read between the lines and size up people online, perhaps you are not meant to be in an LDR.
pea has been right about 99.999 %of the time
I'm beginning to think my American ex-wife was, deep down, a Filipina because you described her perfectly. Thank you for all the info. I've made notes. Take care and be safe
LOL! Trust? Respect is given, TRUST IS EARNED!!
I just love these well written, well produced episodes -- Pea, you're absolutely the best!
A few good tips are:
1. Girls from the province will most likely be more traditional.
2. Make sure she has a good relationship with both parents. Its very important for women to have had a good relationship with their father. If not, it often effects their relationship with men negatively.
3. How does she dress? If she dresses more western and provocative, that can be a red flag.
4. When she poses for photos, how does she conduct herself? If she is pushing her butt out and trying to show her cleavage off, that is a red flag.
5. Any mention of money or a sob story about money is a red flag.
6. If she is 18 years old, to say 28 years old, and you're 45+, she is interested in you because of your money. If you're older, don't be afraid to date someone a bit older. At least be open to the possibility.
7. Don't fall for the first woman unless you get lucky.
Good luck, men.
Hi Pea! Hope you and everyone reading this comment has a blessed day. Thanks for another thoughtful video! I am a strong believer in being upfront and truthful. Be honest and kind in your dealings with others. Deceitful people who cheat on their partners often try to project their actions onto said partner. Also, watch out for sudden changes in habits and routines. In the end, I find cheaters and deceitful people sad and, quite frankly, pathetic.
ALWAYS be honest! It’s actually quite easy and liberating once you get used to it 😊👍
@@TheFilipinaPea 100%
@@TheFilipinaPea NEVER be honest! If you are, women will walk all over you. You can always tell white lies. Always keep women guessing.
Get her out as fast as possible.
I went through at least 6 very quickly... Lesbian couple, wanted in, could NOT be separated, another wanted my $$ to build a brothers house, (you turn over all money to the bro in that family, ) sales clerk looking to move her family into the condo, etc. Finally got a great lady, and married after 2 years... Keep looking, guys.
It is not a “glance” Pea!
Much more a scrutinised study !
A university degree thesis!
A record session of innuendos, a masterclass in double entendre, an unrivalled wits and bons mots collection!
A linguistic opera in C major, an avalanche of humour!
Thank you Pea 😊😘
I love the insights, common sense, astute observations, but mostly the sense of humor of this woman. I love you Pea.
That hit home. My ex-filipina had every word you talked about. She's gone now and 20 million other filipinas are waiting for me.
Good attitude 👍👍
Super informative. I wish i had seen a video like this 8 years ago. It would have saved me from a broken heart and lots of money...i am still paying back.
That’s why if you’re an expat in the Philippines you:
1. Get a vasectomy
2. Always rent the place you live in
3. Never put expensive things in her name
4. Never get into any business ventures with her, her family or friends
5. Never give her access to all your money. Open multiple accounts and only give her access to one that have the amount of money you are comfortable losing
If she cheats on you, don’t get upset. You can replace her with a 19 year old in 3 minutes. Since she cheated, you demote her into being a side piece. Get a new woman (preferably her sister, cousin or friend) and throw her out of your house. If she still wants your money, make her work for it. You’re the expat. The one with money. You’re the king.
I think the 3 minutes and King days may be long gone, but otherwise correct. Today it's more like the Thai joke: 3 minutes, 3" and 3,000 bhat. Finding a regular girl is really tough these days IMHO. Do you have some magic PUA line?
Never date a Filipina. Problem solved.
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NICE PROTOCOLS
people make shit WAAAAAAAY too complicated....
Why her sister or friend, is it to spite her?
Terrific Video 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 and Breakdown. I Bet Tons of Cheating and Sneaky Filipna's Don't Like the Fact that You are Exposing the God Honest Truth and are Helping Men Big Time Globally. Keep up the Great Work Homegirl 🤣🤣🤣👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Cheating is NOT a mistake but a selfish choice! No amount of money, no amount of power or influence or status, physical appearance, should ever cause anyone to make the choice to cheat upon someone they said they loved. One shouldn't date someone that they wouldn't consider marrying either..! Also this topic is NOT just for Filipinas but men and women worldwide...!
I would never cheat with anyone besides you, Big L 🤣🤣🤣👍
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..I'll agree to this once we get government out of marriage
Cheating is hundreds of choices all linked together.
The one where she accuses the guy is big here in the US. Every time I've had a woman accused me, she was already cheating. A friend of mine told me about a girl he had tried to set me up with a couple years ago. She has an Australian boyfriend now, but is really dating a Filipino guy and has a kid with him. Tells him, the Filipino boyfriend is family. Definitely something to watch out for in the Philippines.
Same same in Thailand
@@sjbict Sadly, there is always something to watch out for, no matter where you are in the world.
@@stub4958 true, but fare more common here in the Philippines and some other SE Asian countries than in most Western countries.
@@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement Yes, SE Asia has that scam running a lot. The one in the west is the marry a guy you don't like and divorce him. It takes more time, but they get more money, sometimes for life. It's kind of like a retirement program.
@@sjbict You marry, buy a house, she forges the house into her name, and borrows from mobsters who come and take the house...
Love your extra staging endings to your videos.
"Don't you trust me?"
"No."
"If we don't have trust we have nothing!"
"Then leave."
don't be bullied men. they need you much much more than you need them. good men are rare. pretty girls are common.
Hahahahaha
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@@TheFilipinaPea Thinks! AMEN-RA!
I completely disagree. There are heaps of good men, but they're just being put through the ringer like lemmings and hoping things will work out for them.
Women in this day and age don't really need men at all. They're doing better than men in pretty much all measurements.
You mean good women are rare lol. Most are for the streets
Good man don't marry 50 years younger women
Interesting topic miss pea , and I do believe cheating is really not an accident.
It's a choice.
Definitely a conscious choice 👍❤️
Temptation can be hard to fight, but yes, one is always guilty for falling for the bait. There are always aggravating or extenuating factors depending on the context, but it's still a capital trust offense
You can definitely tell when a Filipina is really interested in you. They will demand your time, and get upset when you have to go run errands. I may have been cheated in the past, but it's their loss. My one ex asks decided to start talking to the guy she was with, who according to her and left her with bruises and black eyes. While being unfaithful and he was married apparently.
There's millions more to give it a shot, eventually you see the ones who want you, and the ones who don't. Still better than any experience I've had over here.
Exactly, Jose 👍👍
Pea has many of the signs nailed down. I also find that if she has limited time for you it's because she has someone else she is entertaining. I've even had a GF text another guy in front of me every 2 minutes with hearts and kisses, then deny she has another BF. The thing is I am not the jealous type and really don't care if she has another BF. However, I do get annoyed at her being distracted and dishonest.
Yeah, wife was watching with me, and she attests to the meeting of large family and cousins to a new foreign boyfriend. She was in a group of cousins and was shocked when her cousin introduced a person she never met before in her life as a cousin to the new boyfriend. Needless to say, that guy found out and dumped the wife's cousin.
Wow, the nerve of some Filipinas!
By the way, how’s your wife’s ‘gay cousin’ doing lately? 🤣🤣🤣
OMG! This was side splitting hilarious! 🤣 I can relate to so much of this one, LDR/ Dating/ Chatting online for 5 Years then married and living in the Philippines for close to 10 Years, I have seen it all and I was thinking "Telenovela" sums up much of what I have witnessed here with Family Members and friends. Then BOOM! you dropped it! 😆 Living here can be like living in the worst acted scripted Telenovela known to Filipino History, but I would not trade it for anything! If anything, it is very entertaining and over the top so much. I am living in the Land of Crazy and love the challenge! 😁 lol This Video really brightened up my day!
One thing Ive learned over the years is trust your gut feeling. if it feels wrong it probably is. Also, trust those closest to you. They can often see things from the outside looking in that we are unable to see because we are blinded by our feelings for the person we are with. Thanks for the content Pea. Flying into Cebu on May 4th. Woot Woot! 😁
Yes, trust the gut!!!!
And welcome to the Philippines ❤️
May the fourth be with you 🤓
@@TheFilipinaPea Is the GBF a common thing?
Great advice. Your gut might be misleading at times, but it never lies to you. It's letting you know something is wrong, but might be fuzzy on the details.
You never cease to amaze me with your dramatic, creative artistry. I enjoy your presentations and shenanigans. Keep mastering your crafts.
Good lord, this reasonates with some of the experiences i have had with meeting some Filipino ladies online... at this point, it would just be easier to just go there, travel the country, and see all the sites and learn the history of the country! And see who i meet in person! Thank you Pea for covering all of these subjects!
Btw... "how loose my goose is" omg lol I haven't heard that in quite awhile!!!!
Why not other (I may say nicer) locales? If you're thinking of finding a GF down the road, it's all fake love. I know, I learned the hard way. Just think with the big-head and know it's like a casino (all about money and the house wins, not you).
you better stop that, come here and travel the provinces to find a good one.
My wife could never use the language barrier. I speak Tagalog fluently.
Pea your videos are brilliantly written, delivered and full of information as well as humor! Love what you do and thanks for sharing!
Oh, I thought that said ‘Thanks for shining’, but I was glancing at your pic as I read it
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@@TheFilipinaPea I have to pay that one! 🤣👏👏👏
Pea, I think this video falls into your top 10 vids you made. This one is good. I leaned something today.
Hi Pea, there are always so many things to look out for. I think it’s quite common for people to cover up guilt by making accusations. If you’re paying attention you can see it often when driving, quite a high proportion who do something foolish when driving will toot their horn to try and pretend it’s someone else’s fault
The guilty dog barks loudest, and The guilty driver honks first, yup 🤣🤣👍
@@TheFilipinaPea If you throw a rock at a pack of dogs, the one that yelps is the one you hit.
This video should be pinned to the top of your page and first on every list you have. I’ve noticed several of these things and called it quits with few Filipinas in the last couple of years but this video confirmed my suspicions were most likely correct.
Thanks for a good video. The things that you have told is here, remind me of Thailand. In my lifetime, I’ve been to Thailand about 25 times. I’ve only been to the Philippines 3 times. It’s all the same tricks from the cheaters
Scary stuff to consider, Pea. 😔
Except for the Family Affair section, this sounds like stuff that happens here in the West, too.
Never having had a real girlfriend, but having tried a couple of LDRs, I've thankfully missed out on most of this. But the LDRs pulled a couple of the things you mentioned here, including the disappearing act, one after I wanted a meet up (she lived in the same state, but still pretty far away), and the other when I refused to send her money (but I was willing to arrange for a plane ticket for her since she claimed she wanted to visit me in the US, but since I wouldn't send money for her to buy the ticket herself... poof, she disappeared).
Well, here's hoping your next video isn't as depressing 😢 as this one was.
Still, thanks for the heads-up, Pea.
I'm new to this channel and I'm in awe with the library of information. Thanks you Pea. Hugs
Thanks for finding me, Clifton! 😊❤️👍
Before the era of smartphones, my wife worked at a local internet cafe there. She would share stories about the girls who would come in to chat with their foreign boyfriends. When finished, the girls would compare who had the most money transfer numbers, and who had the largest total amount of money sent to them. Don't let the smiles fool you, there are some devious ones mixed in, but for the most part the good ones outnumber the ones you need to avoid. 😉😉
Before finding your channel or perhaps what lead me to you, I was getting serious about a Filipina. We talked several times a day and it looked like it was heading to something real. Then I saw another man walk across the background when we were video chatting. I asked her who it was. She informed me that it was her ex boyfriend and that he comes to stay with her for a couple of weeks every couple of months. I hightailed it out of that "relationship" like chain blue lightning. On the bright side, I don't know if I would have found your channel had it not been for that. So I count it as I got a reward for early withdrawal (no pull out joke intended). I'm glad for that outcome. You're a whole lot prettier, have a nicer voice and I really like that mind of yours, precious Pea.
Don't chase women, replace them.
I've met a couple of Filipinas that does that. Several guys in her stable.
Have a great weekend, take care and God bless you 🙏 😊
I don't know any other lady that can scare me and make me smile and laugh all at the same time! You did relieve me at the end though, karma will have it's way! ❤🥰
A good scare and a good laugh can go hand in hand 🤣👍
You know I feel your channel is #1. Yes, there were other 1's before this last 1 but then I found yours. Your channel is THE ONE now. Thanx Pea !!
Even if any Filipina who cheated me, l will not embarrassed her, but if she insisting of breaking off so be it. Der are many others who are worthy of genuine relationship. Stay safe🙏🙏🙏❤️
Thank you coming from men that are far to trusting and naïve. I don't want to repeat the same mistakes and not catch it for years. This is so very useful for the nice, caring and trusting men who would have never be able to think like a Filipina. When I do start dating I know I will get attached to the first woman that I do get into a relationship with.
If the cheat once they will do it 2x. I don’t trust cheaters, men or women. If they can cheat on the person they say they love then they are capable of doing anything
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Great video and content Pea. Brilliant. Blessings 🙏
Cheating has occurred throughout human history, and cheaters usually trip themselves up eventually. I've been cheated on before, and in each case, when I found out about the deception I calmly confronted the cheater, weathered her angry, self-defensive rant, showed her the evidence, listened to her plead that she'll change, then escorted her out the door and out of my life. If someone wants to be with me, they will be with ME, not out looking for what they think will be the next bigger, better deal.
News flash to cheaters: Eventually, your bigger, better deal will be a cheater as well, and they'll kick you to the curb the same way you did the good man/woman who you thought wasn't good enough. Karma is a b (female dog), and she has a long memory!
And Pea is correct: Once a cheater, always a cheater. It may lay dormant for awhile, but the itch eventually needs scratched, and I do not have time for that in my life.
Good, informative video, Pea. Thanks for sharing your insights in this matter.
I quit sending money to a certain Filipina over a year ago. We have been talking for several years now in a long-distance relationship. The whole time, she never worked. Then a miracle happened, she found a job since the money dried up. Also, since she found the job, and I quit sending money, I rarely hear from her. Her physical appearance changed, and her big weight gain was inexplainable. Her ghosting me has, well, telling me she's playing the field. Am I heartbroken?... No. I'm more relieved. With so many miles between us, I have no idea what she's doing and know I have no control over anything. I knew that going into this ldr. I am still planning on going to the Philippines, still planning on finding a beautiful, loving Filipina. ❤️ Look out, Pea. I will be there soon. 😉 Thank you for another wonderful video, Pea. Much love and respect to you, Pea.
YES, visit in PERSON - it’s really the best (and cheapest) way 😊👍
If a woman doesn’t claim to be in a relationship with you on the internet - her main page- chances are she’s cheating.
All her friends will see her social media.
At least 3 of them secretly hate her enough to contact you through DM and provide receipts to show you her true background.
Thank DOG for ethics!
All Filipinas do not have RUclips Channels like Sweet Pea, but I understand you 100%. One thing I don't put much stock in, is the claim of an LDR. Has she ever met this dude? Is he with her in person now? If Sweet Pea was my Woman there is NO WAY IN HELL I would still stay halfway around the World. Sounds suspicious whether That LDR is Real. I want to Touch, Feel, Taste Her Sweetness. With all Due Respect, I AM A NATURAL MAN.
Love me some you for speaking knowledge and bring on other Filipinas and their thoughts on the topic of the day.❤
Smart, funny, and attractive at the same time. You did it again Pea. 😁😁😁
Awww thanks, Mason! ❤️❤️❤️
Mrs. Pea,
Outstanding content and delivery 👏. Thank you for keeping your viewers informed.
Stay clear of Filipinas. I was engaged to one and we've been in a relationship for 3 years. 2 months before our wedding, I found out she cheated on me with 6 different guys, even as I was having chemo and surgery with a 20% chance of survival on my birthday. As I was fighting for my life, she slept with a Chinese lawyer at the 5 star hotel I had booked for my birthday. I wanted to forgive her, but she refused to even get tested for STDs (which would kill me in my condition) as she never used protection with any of these guys...
Umm, most filipinas are faithful. You found a bad apple, unfortunately.
Sorry to hear that brother. They can be so evil
You wanted to forgive her?
6 guys, deathbed, & you wanted that?
I can't understand.
You have a truly amazing grasp of the English language, Pea. This was so well written and spoken.
Sweet Pea. You are a Wow! Wow! Wow! Woman!
Thanks Pea! Over the last 10 or so years , I have experienced all of these issues with Filipinas. Some worse than others . I guess I would call it a " learning experience " . Appreciate you always Pea . Sleep well. God bless..🙏🙏❤️❤️
13:57 Hi Pea, I've been a long time subscriber and wanted to let you know I really enjoy your show. You seem to do an excellent job. Blending American Culture with the Filipino culture. Cheating partners cheat in different ways and cultures, and I knew from my experience in the US about what that looks like here. Keep up the good work!
Thanks for that, Mark ❤️❤️👍
Your play on words absolutely do make me laugh, cry, and think. You're one smart cookie Miss Pea...and that's why we love you!
No matter how much trying to make 1st world/3rd world 'relationships' seem 'genuine', we all know what's really going on. I'm always honest with myself when in the Philippines, knowing exactly 'why' a filipina half my age is 'interested' in me. Once it goes past me merely financing dating expenses, and 'allowance$' start, I expect she make the 'sacrifice' of 'monogamy'. At this point the '3 year countdown' starts. I date by the "3-3-3' Rule": She has to be at least a 7 lookswise (10-7=3). Before I even consider us 'dating', we must be 'dating' at least 3 months, and I won't ever CONSIDER 'marriage' until dating AT LEAST 3 years, and I'll routinely run her through the paces of random 'loyalty tests' during such period, which she must pass ALL of them. I have a rule of keeping her 'allowances' on 'per diem' basis only, just enough to keep her nose above water. If a woman would 'stay faithful' in such an arrangement for 3 years, she MAY be 'marriage material', but ONLY if kept 'in country', NEVERRRR bring her to YOUR Country!!! Sadly, this is WAY more 'genuine' than 'western relationships'. I never fool myself. Women would NEVER date WAY outside 'normal age disparities' UNLE$$ it'$ for '$ecurity & provi$ioning'.
I ve heard the same 3-3-3 rule from the filipinas there- about choosing Koreans over western foreigners. They ve said koreans are better (3-3-3) !!! 3inches,3 minutes, 3k pesos!
God bless you you're exactly right you're very smart man. You know I to play the game no doubt about and your disciplined
I am in the "Passport Kings" Ministry myself and I generally concur and will follow what you have laid out here.
you have trust issues. also, you date so many people you have to come up with a 3-3-3 rule? doesn't sound like they are the problem, but YOU....
Is it really any different in a 1st world - 1st world relationship?
Women here file 80% of divorces, get 98% of alimony per US Census. And probably a similar % get to steal the house and at least 1 car as well.
If she stuck it out for 10, most judges will give her alimony for life.
There are very very very few places in the world where men aren't a free ride and where love from a woman isn't transactional.
You broke it down real good Fililpina Pea 👊🏿 I always keep a song in the back of my head by one of my favorite groups
"ISLEY BROTHER'S "
We men have to remember, When it comes to women
"GIRL ,It's Yo Thang Do whatcha Wanna Do,I can't Tell ya who to sock it to "😊
Number 1 like always!❤👍👍👍👍👍
Wow, you’ve gotten a gold and two silvers tonight!! 👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea ha ha
Pea, You Definitely Know How To Give The Juicy Details of All That is going on in The Philippines😆😆😆. I Can't wait to
get to the Philippines, it sounds like a On Going "Soap Opera" in Real Time....LMAOOOO....👏🏾😆👏🏾😅👏🏾🤣👏🏾😂. Thanks🙏🏾For the Upload Pea. Shalom🙏🏾Fam✊🏾🧔🏾♂👍🏾
I admire the accuracy with which you just described my ex-wife! LOL And ... ahr ... the diligence with which I investigated her? Would you believe that I confronted her in front of her Filipino priest while I was wired? I have a voice recording of the entire conversation! No Mission is Impossible for a cheated foreigner!
Awesome and GREAT sharing! Very informative and very interesting! Love it! Have a blessed day. 😀👍👍
ALL HAIL THE UNMATCHED PEA
...and always let the ads play
I really really really appreciate that ❤️👍
Your humor along with the information provided makes your video's very interesting.
Thanks Ben 👍😊
P you hit the nail on the head. I was with this pinay for 3 months. The last few weeks were very telling. I started to ask questions, When she disappeared for 3 days (she had to talk to her friends about personal things). Why she was wearing very revealing clothes to go to market at 9pm. The straw that broke the camels back. My groin started to hurt, genital swelling and lastly dripping. I got myself checked and yep, Gonorrhea. I confronted her and of course, She accused me of cheating. She was my first woman in 5 years. She left again, this time 4 days. She texted me saying she needed money and was free lancing A. Santos Road, Angeles city. I took all her clothes, put them out front of our apartment with a sign, FREE Clothes. They were gone in 30 minutes. I asked her again about the Gonorrhea. She was with 5 guys in 3 days. I said your a busy girl, how many since we were a supposedly couple. Total body count: 56. Now works at a bar on Walking Street. This is only the tip of the iceberg, my examples are endless. You covered them all. This was my first trip to the Philippines since 2014. I am now in the US. Attempting and planning another trip soon.
Thats a bar girl... Look but don't touch
Good evening Pea. I'm running late today, but i am here, watching, hitting the like button, and letting the ads play.
In that case, you can be as late as you want 🤣👍❤️❤️
what even worst is the Filipino husband is in on it. so you meeting a married Filipina
Thank you so much for this information and cleariing everything up now i have good understanding
Never had that problem, as my wife and I are within a few meters of each other most of the time. She also knows what I am capable of if the situation requires it.
Why would any woman cheat on you, Hal? Why? 🤣🤣🤣❤️
Great writing, excellent delivery, outstanding content!
OMG! She’s cheating. Keep it up Pea.
Social Dating Apps: So that every woman can embrace her inner frostitute
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Thank you for this information. Having been in the Phillippines several times during the 80s, I can say that no one is truly pure.
I've had good luck. I didn't put all the faith into the relationship until we met but we grew close. After we met, that sealed the deal with how close we had become. We still have our lives until we close the distance but we're practically inseparable when it comes to messaging and having video calls. We're very much connected in each other's day to day lives and routines.
I went ahead and watched this video. One thing I found funny is when you mentioned them having a gay friend. I don't think I've ever had a gf that didn't have a close gay friend. It's just normal to me. My Filipina... when we started dating she made sure to tell me about her work colleagues... one of which is gay(I met him too during one of my trips).
I thought it was a bit weird that she was being so upfront about going out with friends because I trust her. I think it could've been for what you stated though. She has seen it happen and didn't want me to get the wrong idea when they(or a group of workmates) hung out. We've been upfront with each other about everything since day 1.
I think many foreigners to the Philippines mess up when they send money from the start. If you want to attract the bad... just keep throwing money. Of course they're going to keep talking to you for that moneyline while they have their lives. If you don't send money and they're not interested, then they're definitely not going to keep talking to you. My Filipina has never once asked for money and SPECIFICALLY told me that if any of her family(close or cousins) ever asks... to come to her and also tell them HELL NO! 🤣
Exactly! If you start off using your wallet as bait, what kind of fish do you think you’ll catch? 😳
Hello Miss P. Yep I am late but yes I did thumbs-up and now let's get on with this very interesting show
Remember fellas she ain't yours it's just your turn!
Oh, that video hitted hard... It's just happend to me... My fiancé cheated on me, even WHILE I was there... I didn't notice... But the neighbor told me, she couldn't stand amymore, that my fiancé uses me to get money to be happy with her real boyfriend... What a truth bomb after 6 Years and 5 visits to the Philippines... She even send me her papers just a short while before it happend... She wanted to come here to marry me... 😢
haha My filipina friend tells me when she has dates with other guys. I don't see it as cheating because we don't see ourselves as gf/bf. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. She told me from the get go that she gets too bored with monogamy. Truth is, I'm much the same. We've never met,. It's all online, but it's really strange, after 10 years, I probably flatter her more now than I did when we first met. She has recently lost a lot of weight and gotten fit - and in the process, she has inspired me to do the same. The strangest part is she is about the only woman I have ever chased after. I tell her that I would love to live with her. She is fun - and she says "yeah - but we would need to have separate rooms, so I can have friends over" Although we are not bf/gf, she has started to insist that I only ever fantasize about her. It's kind of blossomed into a full cuckold relationship. It's crazy good fun - and really, I'm much happier than in any other relationship I've had before. In 10 years, we haven't had an argument or a cross word. Think what you like, but when faced with the reality of what the average relationship is like - being argument free for 10 years is pretty good, and much better for my health. I'm 67 and she's got me doing a hundred push ups and a hundred sit ups each day. And no, she's not all that young. She's 45. How much do I send her? About $50 a month. I think it's well n truly worth it. I will say maybe it is low because we don't have sex. At this stage, I an more interested in improving my diet, fitness,and general well being.
Wow really good video Pea thanks for sharing
#1 if you aren’t physically with her, chances are: she’s cheating.
Too many dudes online think their internet chat relationship is “real”
She might be chatting with you while her boyfriend is next to her sleep.
#2. Chances are she thinks you are cheating too. 1:40
I’m afraid that’s often the way it works, yes - not all the time, but enough of the time 🥺
@@TheFilipinaPea I miss our chats. They have had a Real impact on me. What I feel is real. Even if I had the chance, I would never cheat on you.
@@geecheelionmusic
Why doesn’t RUclips have a button where I can delete comments made on my comment?
Majority of guys that fall victim to this are old men (55+) who believe whatever a cute young girl tells them, even if it doesn't make sense, even if Pea tells them etc. I don't judge anyone, but I do chuckle to myself whenever I see a 55+ unattractive white guy trying to talk to a hot 25 year old Filipina or Thai.
Oh tell me about it..i was chatting with my filipina all day...i asked her to send me a picture of "" it""".....
In the background was a guys face ...smh crazy
Thanks Pea for putting everyone up on game. Very informative video. Good job. 👍🏿
I’m happy to help 👍😊
Familiarity absolutely breeds contempt in whim in.
Never under estimate a whumman’s ability to rationalize bad behavior and avoid all accountability
Damn, I have no idea what happened in your private life, but you sure are black pilled
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Your voice-to-text has a dry sense of humor.
@@nozoto got trapped in a relationship with a narcissist years ago ..made sure i educated myself on the dangers of getting involved with W
Pea speaks perfect English with great diction and tense!
Lovely!❤
You have definitely prepared my transition to Philippines . I have learned so much in so little time from you. I just want to say thank you and I hope I find a Pinay as Beautiful & Intelligent as you Pea😍
I would love to start a RUclips channel when I moved to the Philippines and one thing I would love to do is interview you and ask some of those same questions that you talk about in your videos…. Like… Pea have you ever cheated 😆😆😆
Morning beautiful
I’ve been looking at that lavender skirt throughout the day. Wow wow wow💕😍
PEA!!!! Come out come out wherever you are… I miss your videos. I guess I’m an Addict🤪🤪🤪
#1 FAN❤️❤️❤️
This is very informative and frightening. Luv ya Pea!
In my experience as an American man, every woman who I know has cheated on me was an extremely jealous person. Based on that experience, I won’t put up with jealousy, and will walk away if it doesn’t end. Even if she’s not cheating, who wants to be with a hyper jealous partner?
Our cultures are very different Pea, but I believe jealous behavior is a human trait (based on my limited experience)
No jealousy is the reason, but more opportunities for financial gains: One boyfriend=one money, Two boyfriends=two money etc.
Wow! Peach nails, bluish bracelet, moisturized, attention to details. Exquisite! Enjoy your evening!
(that’s actually just my normal mail color - I don’t put anything on them)
And thanks - again! ❤️❤️❤️👍😊
Two of the most obvious.....when the Filipina tries to control the communication. They don't want you to contact them but they will always be the one contacting you. When you tried to contact them they will either not answer or they'll just hit the reject button.
The other being what you mentioned at the beginning. They will always introduce their true partner as the gay friend or the gay cousin. If your Filipina has done either of these to you then run and run fast.
Yup, any Filipina that’s into you will monopolize your time online, so others can’t talk to you 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea I would gladly welcome your monopolizing me and my time. You could do so, by the Will of God. You are the Woman I Love, so I don't mind. I don't care if I talked to a thousand women (which is nowhere near the truth because they would have nothing to do with me around here, and plus they do not Stimulate and Move me as You, Sweet Pea, does. Plus I would not care to, I am disgusted by them. It is HELL being separated from you.) I would be available to talk to you with no limit of time according to you needs. And you know this. You have often mentioned to me that you didn't have much free time anyway. I know you're busy, and now likely even more so with the Multiplication of your channel. Just getting those few messages from you lifted me in a way you cannot imagine. Just saying you made it home safely, or how you couldn't get much sleep, simple things like that. I still say, Dear Sweet One, that if we had videochatted, you would have seen the Look of Love in my eyes and in my Expressions. That Look, you can still see it now when I think of you.
Don’t be creepy brah.
@@geecheelionmusic wow you sound desperate
@@geecheelionmusic C'mon man
Great video Pea I always enjoy watching your great content,,,,, Keep them coming.!!!
I didn't give one of my live in girlfriends time for a exit strategy. She disappeared with my car for 24 hours and didn't have reason for it. I lost day of work. I had her belonging packed before she came back, threw them in the car and dropped her off in a public park. I drove away and never looked back. I have no use for people like that.
Did she try to give an excuse? 😳
@@TheFilipinaPea Yes, "She was busy". Conversation didn't go well.
A guy I know went to the mall with cheater. He had banned her from the condo earlier. He came back alone in a cab and told her pick up her property at the gate. Saves an awful scene
This is relevant to all nationalities and not just filipinas
My then gf was very upset when her former workmate and still close friend who lived together with a Filipino guy, fooled a foreigner who actually visited her and took her to Boracay for a couple of weeks. The income was apparently big enough to make the live-in bf willing to lend his woman to another man for a fortnight.
This eventually led to my gf cutting ties with her friend, and as I understood it the parting was ugly.
Neighbor in Pampanga had 3 foreigners. Husband moved out when one came..... Big $$!