Grief is not linear, it comes in waves sthandwa. The firsts are always the worst, that's why it opened a wound the 1st time you went back to the hospital. Try and not give yourself set rules. If you want to go to the grave go, if you want to try not going don't. Do what you need to do in any given moment. And one day, one day, you will remember her with a smile and her memory will bring you joy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mommy healing is a journey mna I would say keep going that is a part of a healing journey n ungalibali unika idolo ukutya kwalo cc pray about cthandwasam❤❤
Hi sthandwa sam 😊😊 What a great surprise...seeing you on my screen namhlanje 😊😊oooh sana Happy belated birthday to Mr Chaza....may God grant him all his hearts desires and continue to bless you both❤ it's a wonderful thing that you did for your hubby cc....he deserves it!! From the very first vlog yakho I saw a loving, gentle and caring husband in him. That has never changed and I'm so happy that you celebrated him...with your entire family. Ooh ccc...what a sad storytime ntombi....I want to let you know that you're such a strong woman cc...I pray God continues to strengthen you and keep you near to him...let me remind you of His word in Psalm 34:18...The Lord is near to the brokenhearted! This experience is yours cc..don't be too hard on yourself...take each feeling and be in that moment 🙏🏽 let your heart heal st it's pace without fearing you're stick in the storm.... everything is a process cc. There's no prescribed time to healing. Also please don't forget that there is help out there should you seek someone to talk to... sometimes it's easy to pour into strangers because we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and transparent 😊 More than anything kodwa you're an amazing woman cc... remain blessed and thank you for sharing your journey with us 💕 🙏🏽
Thanks for the lovely vlog mommy. ❤❤❤ I really love to see wives appreciating their husbands and that’s definitely you my dear . He is such a lucky man I wish him to recover soon. Grief takes time my darling you cannot plan when or when not to cry she was your child you carried her it’s bound to happen but with time you will heal. Please do go and see your angel 😇
Oh sisi I’m so sorry that you had to go through that, it’s true that grief takes it’s own time sisi. Love and prayers for healing to the family❤. I think go visit her, even if you come back crying it’s something that needs to happen until you heal. I lost my dad in 2002 and I sometimes feel that pain, hence I’m saying grief takes time.
Beautiful celebration for Baba Chaza God continue to bless and enlarge his territory Healing is a journey mntase some days will be worse than others and other things will trigger and take you back but all is well❤❤
Yhobaaaa nation❤ Yhooo cc kubuhlungu grief doesnt go away we just learn to live with it eventually kuzodlula as time goes by. You need to go visit your child's grave uzade uxole and accept ungasalili xa uye khona. Ube ryt sthandwa ❤. Hope utatuChaza is doing well.
Ow marn. Kabuhlungu ke ngoku na kuthi during story time. Kuthwa Time heals Mrs C. Mourning your child is never easy. But God will heal u guys, we trust Him. Hala to out fit ka Gcobo wam bethuna❤🎉
Happy Birthday to Taka Gcogco, so sorry maka Gcogco for this sad experience, what i would advise you, just go and make it a norm to visit your child's grave uzode uqhele and let the emotions, trust me kuyaqheleka sis❤️❤️
Aaaaaaahhhh Mama🥹🥹🥹🥹strength to you sthandwa Sami and the family ♥️speedy recovery to Mr Chaza. What a lovely Birthday celebration mama ❤❤❤ I love you Mydhiye wethu 🥰
I’m so sorry for the experience mama. I believe you should visit Uyaphila’s grave to help you heal .Reason why I’m saying that is because I’m also going through the same experience when I visit my father’s grave and I cry every time but after visiting him , I always feel lighter . It will take time but with God all things are possible ❤️❤️🫶🏻🫶🏻
Mna I do not go to visit my Mom I think if ndingaya I woukd cry and I think lonto ingenzeka everytime if I can go to her grave and it would open wounds,because I miss her oko sana,grieving is different chomi from person to person,so I realy do not know mna yazi kuba I still cry even today xa ndimkhumbula❤keep strong F pain ibangcono as time goes by ayipheli.
Yhuuu Chomam grief is really difficult because they is no umbrella approach as to how to grieve🥹, we just learn to live with the pain of our losses unfortunately
Happy belated to tatu Chaza❤🎉 more beautiful , blessed, happy years may God's face shine upon you sir me and him we almost share a birthday mine is on the 15 and my late son on the 14 of September Ow siswam we learn to leave without them but basezintliziweni zeth,on the 14th of September was a year since my son died and I haven't been to his grave, I'm so scared to go,the anxiety I get when my husband says we should go to his grave Love your family sis❤
Mrs Chaza umhle sis haibo🥰 makayoqalela ilobola utatuChaza.. Sis ipain yoswelekelwa ngumntana ayipholi its very deep ndiyazi kum.All I can say iya kuye xa usemakhaya cz even if awuyanga awuva kamandi bangathi umlahlile.
Oh Sana your storytime😢💔I think u shud make it a routine visiting her grave when you get to EC no remember u only go there for a short period of time that's why it's gna take time to heal as well We are here n we praying for you❤️🥰❤️🥰
Mna I lost my mom 2012 even today xa ndigodukile Ndiyaya uyombona asoze ndibuye ndingayanga so awenzi nto irongo cc lanto iphuma kuwe entlizweni yakho😢😢
The way you laughed🥳 (blushing)when tatu chaza said "nkosikazi"😍, it's actually not rare that people who deserve to be celebrated actually don't celebrate as much like they should.
Thanks Mrs Chaza for making this day special for Mr Chaza owh his speech kuninzi akuthwalisiweyo and usezo kwenza lukhulu keep on supporting Him 🎉🎉Keep strong about Uyaphila livumele ixesha lolila about her🫂 let's reach our 3k
Grief is not linear, it comes in waves sthandwa. The firsts are always the worst, that's why it opened a wound the 1st time you went back to the hospital.
Try and not give yourself set rules. If you want to go to the grave go, if you want to try not going don't. Do what you need to do in any given moment. And one day, one day, you will remember her with a smile and her memory will bring you joy.
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Owsisi Enkosi❤️
Wow Yobha ndaybona sendikhala Naam looking back at what God has done ezimpilweni zenu❤❤❤❤
The Lord is good sisi🫂❤️
Let's keep watching ads for supporting our Mrs Chaza❤❤that is how l show my love
Oww Lukho you are a dear my love thank you❤️
Mommy healing is a journey mna I would say keep going that is a part of a healing journey n ungalibali unika idolo ukutya kwalo cc pray about cthandwasam❤❤
I will sthandwam enkosi❤️
Hi sthandwa sam 😊😊
What a great surprise...seeing you on my screen namhlanje 😊😊oooh sana Happy belated birthday to Mr Chaza....may God grant him all his hearts desires and continue to bless you both❤
it's a wonderful thing that you did for your hubby cc....he deserves it!! From the very first vlog yakho I saw a loving, gentle and caring husband in him. That has never changed and I'm so happy that you celebrated him...with your entire family.
Ooh ccc...what a sad storytime ntombi....I want to let you know that you're such a strong woman cc...I pray God continues to strengthen you and keep you near to him...let me remind you of His word in Psalm 34:18...The Lord is near to the brokenhearted!
This experience is yours cc..don't be too hard on yourself...take each feeling and be in that moment 🙏🏽 let your heart heal st it's pace without fearing you're stick in the storm.... everything is a process cc. There's no prescribed time to healing.
Also please don't forget that there is help out there should you seek someone to talk to... sometimes it's easy to pour into strangers because we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and transparent 😊
More than anything kodwa you're an amazing woman cc... remain blessed and thank you for sharing your journey with us 💕 🙏🏽
Owww sisi amazwi akho ayandomeleza futhi ayandipholisa, enkosi kakhulu sisi uThixo engumncedi makaqhubeke epholisa elinxeba🥹🥹
@@yobhachaza Ewe dear wam...God is good all the time mntase.
Keep well Ntombi and enjoy the week further 💞☺️🙏🏾
Wathetha kamandi utata sana. Beautiful family cc. One day you’ll visit your daughter ubuye ungakhali tu uzophola , grieving yi process🫂
Thanks Zee❤️
Thanks for the lovely vlog mommy. ❤❤❤ I really love to see wives appreciating their husbands and that’s definitely you my dear . He is such a lucky man I wish him to recover soon. Grief takes time my darling you cannot plan when or when not to cry she was your child you carried her it’s bound to happen but with time you will heal. Please do go and see your angel 😇
Thanks mommy❤️ yhoo grieving is another thing I don’t know whether I’m going or coming but I thank God I’m still breathing.
A beautiful surprise birthday. Love is winning. Uya is with the Lord may you find joy when you start thinking about her.
Yhiyhooo thanks a lot love🥹❤️
Xolo Cc❤❤❤❤
Healing takes time
Thanks love❤️
Nchoo happy belated birthday to tat'uChaza🎉🎉🎉 love u guys
Thanks love, love you too ❤️
Happy belated kuSbonda wasesdwadwan be2na ngalo ntsini yakhe that brightens the room
Wazi yena😅😅 thanks love❤️
Oh sisi I’m so sorry that you had to go through that, it’s true that grief takes it’s own time sisi. Love and prayers for healing to the family❤. I think go visit her, even if you come back crying it’s something that needs to happen until you heal. I lost my dad in 2002 and I sometimes feel that pain, hence I’m saying grief takes time.
Yhooo inzima nantsi into, thanks love❤️
Beautiful celebration for Baba Chaza God continue to bless and enlarge his territory
Healing is a journey mntase some days will be worse than others and other things will trigger and take you back but all is well❤❤
Yhooo the triggers are really taking me back🥹 but we trust God, thanks sisi🫂❤️
Happy Birthday Tatu Chaza🎉🎉
Thanks Tee❤️
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Happy belated birthday Mr Chaza🎉.. Hey mommy thank you for the vlog ❤
Thank you! 🤗
I wish a speedy recovery to Gcobo's Dad yini bantu umntu ozithandela uhleka
Yhuuu wazi yena, thanks love❤️
Healing is a process mommy, uThixo anipholise❤
Thanks love❤️
Ncooh this is cute, MamChaza, happy belated birthday to Mr Chaza
Thanks love❤️
Mrs Chaza…uliThatha phi iXesha le face routine…nge Bday kaTatu Chaza😎😎😎😎beautiful Vlog Mommy❤❤❤
🤣🤣🤣Makalinde😅😅 enkosi love😅❤️
Yhobaaaa nation❤ Yhooo cc kubuhlungu grief doesnt go away we just learn to live with it eventually kuzodlula as time goes by. You need to go visit your child's grave uzade uxole and accept ungasalili xa uye khona. Ube ryt sthandwa ❤. Hope utatuChaza is doing well.
Sani grief is messy unyanisile we just learn to live with the pain 🥹
Uxolo sis about the trigger❤️
Grief has ups and downs
Hope uMr Chaza uright
Yhoo grief is messy🥹 thanks sisi❤️
Ow marn. Kabuhlungu ke ngoku na kuthi during story time. Kuthwa Time heals Mrs C. Mourning your child is never easy. But God will heal u guys, we trust Him. Hala to out fit ka Gcobo wam bethuna❤🎉
Thanks a lot sisi❤️
Beautiful family ♥️♥️♥️🌹🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you! 🤗
Happy Birthday to daddy waGcobo🎂🥳🎉🎈🎁🎊.Anisebahle ku black ❤❤❤. May God bless yr family more 👪♥.
Thanks a lot love❤️
Yobha Nation sikhona siyabulisa ❤ always.
Thanks love❤️
Siyakhula kule family I love it for us❤🎉
Sana😁💃❤️
Speed recovery fam
Thanks love ❤️
Happy Birthday to Taka Gcogco, so sorry maka Gcogco for this sad experience, what i would advise you, just go and make it a norm to visit your child's grave uzode uqhele and let the emotions, trust me kuyaqheleka sis❤️❤️
Thanks for the tip sthandwam will try❤️
Yobhanation❤❤❤. So sorry my sister, visit the grave, it's your healing journey, don't blame yourself for crying. Much love ❤
I’m still gathering strength to go visit her enkosi love❤️
Oh happy belated to you mntase, owam utanci ke ngokhumsha😍
🤣🤣Uyamazi kaloku❤️❤️
🤣🤣Uyamazi kaloku❤️❤️
Aaaaaaahhhh Mama🥹🥹🥹🥹strength to you sthandwa Sami and the family ♥️speedy recovery to Mr Chaza. What a lovely Birthday celebration mama ❤❤❤ I love you Mydhiye wethu 🥰
Thanks a lot malove🫂❤️
Ow send my Happy belated birthday to Mr Chaza❤. Umhle ke my lov❤❤❤
Uthi enkosi😅😅❤️
Happy birthday to uTata May God keep on blessings him,aphale Bandla
My Queen Gcogco love you looking stunning
Mama yibhoza Yama usisithandwa❤❤❤❤❤
😅😅Thanks a lot love❤️
My people ❤❤❤❤
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Happy belated birthday Mr Chaza🎉🎈
Thanks T❤️
Oh umnganam 🎉🎉 happy birthday. Umxabise kakhulu umntu. Nento yomntu.
Yhooo umazi kakuhle kewena ❤️
Happy Belated Mr Chaza
Thank you bhuti❤
Happy birthday to TakaGcogco no Uya. Nigcinane.
Thanks sisi🫂❤️
All the way from thing or two music page 😍 I subscribed on this channel because of them 🤗
Oww Inno much appreciate thanks love❤️
Utata Thunzi, okay. That's my uncle right there. This is interesting. Let me be part of this channel,I have no choice. ❤
Please do😅😅 and welcome home love😅❤️
Sthandwa sam I am sorry ,healing takes time I still applued you for speaking about her really .ku early take your time 😢😢 ❤❤❤abengcono utata .
Yhuuu Zipho🥹🥹
Happiest birthday husband ka mama no Gcobo wish car frm Gcogco soon ke lv frm gods ear wht peach hlale sweet ❤❤❤
😅😅Gcobo dreams big😅 thanks love❤️
Happy belated birthday to Mr Chaza🎂🥳🎉🎈
Thanks love ❤️
The outfit and sexiness madam👌👌🫶🏻🫶🏻🔥🔥🔥
Thanks love❤️
Gcobo’s outfit sana🫶🏻🫶🏻
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Happy birthday tat'uChaza 🎉🎂🎊
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I’m so sorry for the experience mama. I believe you should visit Uyaphila’s grave to help you heal .Reason why I’m saying that is because I’m also going through the same experience when I visit my father’s grave and I cry every time but after visiting him , I always feel lighter . It will take time but with God all things are possible ❤️❤️🫶🏻🫶🏻
Thanks love will go visit her❤️
Haymaan umhle sis Yobha🥰🥰. Belated happy birthday Mr Chaza
Thanks Sino❤️
Mna I do not go to visit my Mom I think if ndingaya I woukd cry and I think lonto ingenzeka everytime if I can go to her grave and it would open wounds,because I miss her oko sana,grieving is different chomi from person to person,so I realy do not know mna yazi kuba I still cry even today xa ndimkhumbula❤keep strong F pain ibangcono as time goes by ayipheli.
Yhuuu Chomam grief is really difficult because they is no umbrella approach as to how to grieve🥹, we just learn to live with the pain of our losses unfortunately
Happy belated to tatu Chaza❤🎉 more beautiful , blessed, happy years may God's face shine upon you sir me and him we almost share a birthday mine is on the 15 and my late son on the 14 of September
Ow siswam we learn to leave without them but basezintliziweni zeth,on the 14th of September was a year since my son died and I haven't been to his grave, I'm so scared to go,the anxiety I get when my husband says we should go to his grave
Love your family sis❤
Oww happy belated to you too sisi😍. Sana uBawo uyasidlulisa ezintweni vhaa a very big hug to you sisi🫂❤️
Big-up to exclusive hair zintle inwele zakhona 👌🥰.. happy birthday kutata kagcogco bo 🥳🥳
Thanks love❤️
Khala it is good ❤
And I feel better after crying
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❤❤happy belated birthday mamu Chaza thixo akukhuselele maxa onke sthandwa sam ❤🎉🎉🎉
Thanks love❤️
Ngxesi standwa sudluliswa ezintweni nguBawo❤
Yjuuuu ezinzima🥹🥹
Happy birthday kusbari bethuna oh isthandwa sika mam ‘uChaza🎂🎂🎂🎂🥳🥳🥳
😅😅Thanks love❤️
Mrs Chaza umhle sis haibo🥰 makayoqalela ilobola utatuChaza..
Sis ipain yoswelekelwa ngumntana ayipholi its very deep ndiyazi kum.All I can say iya kuye xa usemakhaya cz even if awuyanga awuva kamandi bangathi umlahlile.
Makaphinde sisi yaphela 😅😅, yhuuu uxolo sisi imbi nantsi into awazi noba mawuthini🥹
Oh Sana your storytime😢💔I think u shud make it a routine visiting her grave when you get to EC no remember u only go there for a short period of time that's why it's gna take time to heal as well
We are here n we praying for you❤️🥰❤️🥰
Thanks a love l will 😘🫂❤️
Happy birthday taka Gcobo umntu othobekile ochubekile yingakho uthixo ekuphakamisa ngokwakhe 😭🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
Thanks a lot Wez❤️
Notification gang, let's gather here!
I am first to comment yheeeee!!!!!!!!!!!
You're the best😊 thanks for watching❤️
your husband spoke so well🤌🤌🤌
😊 thank you❤️
Hey sisi ngibuya lapho angiqali angiyi ngobe ngosuke ngi gule mangibuya khona ngikhale nginga pholi
Sisi siyafana vha🥹🥹 a big hug to you❤️
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It’s little finger ucikicane😅
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Mna I lost my mom 2012 even today xa ndigodukile Ndiyaya uyombona asoze ndibuye ndingayanga so awenzi nto irongo cc lanto iphuma kuwe entlizweni yakho😢😢
Yhooo this pain cuts deep shame, I’m still gathering strength to go visit her🥹
Cikicane Yi pinky
Really😅 thanks
The way you laughed🥳 (blushing)when tatu chaza said "nkosikazi"😍, it's actually not rare that people who deserve to be celebrated actually don't celebrate as much like they should.
😀😀Akafuni tuu lomfo 😅❤️
Aberyt uMr Chaza benana worse khange ndiyithathe serious kuba ethanda nodlala
Nathi kecc but uright ngoku❤️
Gcogco please buy car ❤
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Thanks Mrs Chaza for making this day special for Mr Chaza owh his speech kuninzi akuthwalisiweyo and usezo kwenza lukhulu keep on supporting Him 🎉🎉Keep strong about Uyaphila livumele ixesha lolila about her🫂 let's reach our 3k
Thanks Lukho❤️
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Owamanje 😅❤️
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Beautiful family ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you! 🤗
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Molweni mamuChaza nabantu bakho, cc uyamthanda umyeni wakho phofu ugcwele uthando kwawena lomntu wonke, utixo anikhulise nihlale ninjalo ukuthobelana
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